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I wanted to write something like that a long time ago, but got inspired once again by the Mollys_Love post "I'm out".

Dear Mollys_Love, good for you. Let me say once again, I believe in LOA. It works. But only when you don't know about it, when you don't care about it, when you don't come here daily, when you don't need any support to get better, when you are fed up when this crap and say f**k you. I've been coming here for about a year now. What a year it was. Lost my love, got heart broken, cried for hours, got depressed, came here many times, had hope, lost hope, read endless essays, did RS, did yoga and meditation, discovered great thinkers and spiritual leaders of past and modern times, realized most people don't know a crap about life, got closer to so many people, scared away so many people, have given up on fighting and continued flighting.... such a confusing year.

Let me also say that I am older than most of you here. I am as old as your parents, assuming most of you are still in school (judging by your posts....). I have a college degree, adult kids, a husband, and yet, hopelessly, naively, un-rationally, fell in love. It happens. I wanted to believe in LOA, I do believe in LOA, but I realized that LOA means one has to to f**k all this crap, all this nonsense about "what to day" and "when to say", and "how to say". Yes, I am almost 50 and felt like a high school girl waiting for a text from my love. Sick. No one should feel this way no matter what age they are. Hormones, they say. What a humiliating thing. They say I behave like a teenager because my hormones are out of whack. Maybe. BUt that's no reason to lose self-respect. So I say f**k it to LOA, f**k hope, f**k hormones, f**k love,  f**k  any attachments, including attachment to this forum and LOA. LOA works when you don't care when it's gonna work. LOA works when you say f**k to it.

Also, I know I am not going to make any friends here, but what most of you want, i.e., marriage, is NOT going to bring you happiness in the long run. Marriage sucks. PM me if you want more details. It's all fine and rosy first few years, but then an ugly monster comes out. MArry if you want kids, raise kids and GET OUT. I hate myself forever for getting married. I know I am ranting, but I am in a f**k you mood right now, so f***k marriage.

So here it is. I am out too. I am out of this nonsense of hoping that doing "prescribed" number of rituals will make someone to fall in love with you. I am out of the nonsense that no-contact rule is gonna bring someone closer to you. I am gonna just be myself and ride the wave, say what I want, call my love when I want, not feel ashamed for falling in love.

Good luck to all of you. LOA works, remember that, just f**k your attachment to it.

Love you all....

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If that was a phone text message, then I'd say delayed response is a bad sign... maybe it's just me, but I think phone texts almost require immediate response, even if that's a quick "ok, I got your message, really busy now" or whatever. that's why i almost never send texts that can't be answered right away and leave more serious "getting in touch" or "how are you" messages to email or even FB PM.

I used to be a quick responder with my love, but I learned how to milk that special feeling when I get his message, that calmness, happiness, freedom, "all will be ok" feeling. So I became not-so-quick responder, when I would write and re-write my response several times. Especially if someone has a history of previous relationship, it could be difficult to come up with the right words. Last year it took me few agonizing hours to write a birthday message to my love, the day was almost over when I finally forced myself to hit "send". funny how people can affect us. 

so bottom line - it depends....

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well, I won't say too much on it but want to let you know one situation if it can.
As before I've discussed about me and my guy, he was my best friend though, but when he proposed me I tried to avoid him because I could feel attraction towards him. Most of the time, he used to come online for playing games and I was like he is online in-spite he is not talking to me huh. I've deleted him or blocked him 3 times because it was my fear and I knew it that I am getting attached to him. So, I just can put an option, may be she is feeling attached which she wants to ignore. If she took something in a wrong way, she'll explain just let it be for some days. Girls don't like ignorance 

This is the most probable explanation as you have said nothing to offend her, its her own insecurity.....

I agree.

From my personal experience: somebody unfriended me on fb a while back after admitting to being madly in love with me. He was one of my dearest friends, but I had no romantic feelings for him whatsoever. I asked him why  he deleted me, and he explained that he was just too upset at the whole situation and was hurt. ....  We are still friends, on fb and in real life.

from a slightly different angle: the guy that I am trying to attract, my love, has recently stopped posting anything on fb after being quite active. we are still "friends" on fb, but I wonder if hides his posts from me, since fb allows you to do so without unfriending.  That happened after I let him know that I am not over him yet and still miss him a lot (my mistake, maybe, but that's not about me here....).

So I agree, it's either because they are hurt or are afraid of being hurt.  Also, if somebody hides after being told or hinted  that they are loved, I think it's their fear of intimacy. We can teach them not to be afraid by being ok with our own vulnerability and try to live our happy lives even if they blocked us on fb. Not easy to do, I know..... I have a long way to go myself, but I am getting closer.

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Thanks, everyone. What a great group of people here, I really appreciate all of you being here for me.

Yesterday and today are better, somehow this letter did help me and I am much calmer now.  Basically, I know what I need to do, so I just need courage to do it.
crazysoul, your prayer seems so appropriate now, thank you very much for that. Yes, that's what I need, a courage.
 simplyjess, thanks for the offer to chat, I may use it one day

schenderson22, I listened to the sounds, and I got strange reaction. All sounds, except the alpha-wave, gave me a hint of a headache. Is it normal? It was borderline unpleasant to listen to them, I had to stop after about 30 seconds.

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Hi all,

few months ago, I lost my diamond earring. Didn't know what day, when, or how I lost it, just noticed one day it wasn't in my ear anymore, and I never take my earrings off. I looked around the house, my car, my work space and found nothing. At that time, I just discovered LOA, so I said to myself: I will find it one day and really didn't stress too much about it,  as I had too much on my mind and somehow I really believed it would show up one day. I just put other really cheap earrings on and went on with my life, almost forgot about it. Well, today I found it! Almost 3 months later! It was on the floor in my house.

LOA works!!!

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funny you asked, I was thinking about detachment a lot recently and wanted to share my thoughts when I logged in today and then saw this post (LOA?)

so I have been struggling with understanding what is detachment and why Universe wants us to detach from what we want. I have been on a sort of a rollercoaster lately with being obsessed some days and letting go other days. When I let go, I don't feel particularly happy, and just feel numb and start thinking: do I really want him in my life? Then I usually say to myself: yes, I do, I just don't care if it happens and I can live in this numbness, better than living in pain, depression and anxiety. I still visualize daily, even on days when I let go, but on those days I experience almost no emotions toward him, just calm and quiet appreciation for him being in my life. So I am wondering if what I manifest on those "let go" days contradicts what I manifest on my "being attached" days. Because during those "attached" days I feel so much love and want him so much, but I am usually also much more depressed and sad on those days. BAsically, I am not happy in either situation, it's basically too much emotion or no emotion at all.

I am probably doing it wrong and confuse Universe.

HAving said that, I have been seeing much progress in our communication lately since I started letting go. And then the rollercoaster starts that goes something like that: I let go and feel numb; he comes up with something unexpected like a message me for no particular reason or asks for a coffee or tells me something personal or just smiles at me more than usual when we see each other; then I start feeling excited and giddy (best part of the rollercoaster); then I can't help myself but send him a message as well or just being totally silly around him; he starts being cold again and closes up; I start obsessing again; I struggle; I try to detach through some practical and mental exercises (see below); I let go; then the cycle starts again.

This rollercoaster is a new thing for me, I have been in "attached" zone for a long time before I discovered LOA, and in a way I welcome this change. I just hope some day "highs" and "lows" will merge into something more steady.

Now back on your question on what can you do to detach. practical things like exercising, socializing or doing hobbies help a lot. But for me, mental and emotional detachment is the hardest, because when I am done socializing and sit on my couch at home, I am usually back to my thoughts and attachment. People here on this board say you shouldn't make yourself more attached by, for example, going to his FB page. Well, I disagree, because that's what I do when I am attached and that actually makes me feel better as I feel closer to him. I also do my most successful Remote Connection (or Remote Seduction) sessions then and that makes me feel sooo good. I visualize. Yes, for whatever weird reason, visualizing helps me to detach. I also write in my journal positive affirmations, like "I am with him now", "he loves me", etc. Oh yeah, and coming here to this board helps me a lot too.

anyway, hope it helps and I welcome your thoughts. I am in no way expert on detachment, just learning.

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...  I wanted to share my experience with RS.

I tried 4 methods so far. The 1st one (I lost the link....) just describes mentally touching the person sexually for 20 min and then visualizing future for 10 min. Like someone already mentioned here, don't know if it works, saw some subtle changes in his behavior, that's all.  Then I thought that physical intimacy is not all I want, so I stopped that method and tried  others that focus on love, comfort, and general good feelings about each other.

2nd method is mp3 voice record. http://api.ning.com/files/GeEbDlX55ZZP3vcOuNPHRKrJzVd*rkxJs81uNoNWK5AIpW-JYiV-lzbnua8ugqw7Bd8S0hEjNgBtHrRn3ETCHKiOOIJwQgiZ/RemoteSeduction.mp3  I agree the right time of the day is important to this. The very first time I did it was when I knew he would be driving from a business trip, so even though I felt very good, no way of telling the effect.  the second time I did it late in the evening on a Sunday when I knew he was at home. Again, listening and imagining him made me feel very relaxed and at peace. Then I immediately logged in into my facebook without expecting anything, just out of the habit. And I saw that about 10 min back, i.e., EXACTLY when I was doing my session, he posted a love song on his wall! Kinda sad song, about wanting to love and not being sure about being loved back (don't wanna be to revealing here with the song title.....). Of course I don't know who the song was for, but he felt something for sure!!!!

yesterday I found this thread and tried the cosmic telepathy for the first time. I admit I didn't follow it to the T. I actually just did the 1st part when I called the Cosmic Force and petitioned about my Love to contact me that day. He (my Love) is again on a trip, so I just wanted to know how he was doing. I didn't do the 2nd part when you would touch the person's head and tell him the message.  So again, I log into the facebook immediately after and see a post from him at EXACTLY the same time as I was doing my session with a picture and check-in into some touristy place. Well, it wasn't a personal message to me like I wanted, just a post on his wall, but still it was a message from him that he was ok and gave me an excuse to say brief hi to him on FB. I probably should have been more specific in my petition, I actually didn't even mention my or his name, which I probably should have.

I also started playing with the remote viewing method from the same link (http://www.topmagick.com/addendum.htm). I find it very interesting and see all kind of things when I feel connected to him. No way of telling if what I am seeing is actually true, but I def feel the connection and will continue practicing it.

Have fun with it.

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Thanks, everyone!

Today has been an interesting day. Don't know yet what's going to come out of this, but I felt all of you and couldn't help noticing the 1/11 date. The truth kinda come out today, and it didn't look good on the surface, but I'm surprised how calm I am right now and feel pretty good.

As my thanks to all of you, here is a video that has been on my mind for the last few days, "The cause of suffering" by Adyashanti. It helped me, so I hope you will get something out of it as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OgeC-Q7HB8

Thanks again.

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My Dear, I love you so much, I feel you so strong now, so even though we are physically apart this New Year's Eve, I know you are with me and I feel your presence. Yes, I feel sad, but I trust the Universe and I KNOW we will be together one day. I am crying now, but it feels good and I KNOW you are thinking about me this minute. Happy New Year, my Love. Have a good time and I will be with you at 12:00. See you next year.

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My dear LOA friends,

I want to share with all of you my inspiration story for today. I have been doing LOA for about 3 weeks now and WOW, it did wonders for me. Believe in your dreams. Visualize them daily and feel how great they feel. Feel every single detail of your dream, feel your love's hair on your hands, feel your love's hands in you hands, feel their warmth and feel how great you make THEM feel in your presence. Love them for what they are. Do it at least 30 min EVERY DAY>

Then... make a commitment to do something good for yourself EVERY day. What made me feel good in the last week was: a haircut, attending a great show, a lunch with co-workers for which I paid, shopping for my son, shopping for my love's Christmas present, watching my favorite TV show, reading this board.... and even crying.

Then, after making a BIG dream and making yourself feeling good, try to make smaller manifestations related to your BIG dream. It worked for me. Today, I just knew he was going to call me. I knew something good was going to happen and it did. I just imagined my phone ring and it felt so good!!! yes, he did call and we did something together (totally innocent and sweet, btw) that I was just casually offering to the Universe, and the Universe returned 3 times bigger.

Love your dream, love yourself for loving your dream and don't be afraid of your loving.

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I would like to be part of this!

My intention is to attract a perfect opportunity to tell my dance partner how much I love him, how much I appreciate him,  and that I don't expect anything in return. I just want him to know that he changed my life and that I am grateful for that and will love him forever no matter what happens. I want this opportunity to bring us closer and heal both of us in a way that will make our lives happier and more fulfilled.

Me now

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