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Edit: After I re-read this. I think a very powerful thing is to stay grateful. I was grateful, but I have the feeling I am loosing that. So yeah, another question: Just "fake" the gratefulness? I do not feel it as intencely as I did

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@rain: I can feel how you feel. But indeed, ask yourself, do you want to interrupt in a marriage? If so, well, you read the succes stories... I suppose it is possible, but first it have to take time to detach yourself from him and from the outcome, start to love yourself first and be happy with yourself. I also know (and experience) that this is a progress that takes time. And indeed, perhaps you'll meet someone better if you have found yourself again as a complete human beeing without needing anyone else. What I did understood: If you say: "I cannot live without him", you will get more of that.

First try to much as you can finding yourself again, a few weeks ago I felt horrible still also, after a breakup (now 6 months, relationship was during 7 years), but then I found about the LOA, watched the secret. I am meditating right now, do visualisations, affirmations, bought a grattitude book. Sometimes it is still difficult and I get back at the same point where I started, desperate, needy, without any believe in the Universe, so I can understand that we all will "fall back" sometimes in our old thinking pattern (perhaps that's the Ego, or our subconcious mind, I do not know), but if I did my meditations, I feel so much better. Perhaps you should try it too! And perhaps it is not wise (I do not know) to interrupt in a marriage, perhaps all of this is meant to be to let you meet the absolute Mr. Right. But really, I do not know. Guess we all have to keep on trusting the Universe and the outcome will be marvelous.

@ feedback: Did you read the succes stories? And even tough other people have a mind on their own, just think, if he/she would see you happy, selfloving, with respect and acceptance for yourself, what would they do? At this moment I also do have a hard time (also to keep on believing and trust the Universe), but I DID manifest an appointment with my ex, I did manifest getting no row with him, even if he tried, I DID manifest he emailed me. How would you call that for example?

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Allright, today it seems to me the situation is hopeless. That the 2 times I saw him 1,5 week back were just like "a meeting as friends"-thing to him. That he is just totally done with me. He did not said things like "I miss you", there was no flirting or anything (and I did not dare to give him any suggestion that I miss him like hell, I think he would pull back immediately). Things he said were like: "I think you acted horrible during the last time of our relationship", "If you do not give me a signature to end the rent-of-the-appartment-contract so I can move to another appartment, this is were our communication will stop", he hardly looked at me and when he looked, it was just because he was telling a story about something he experienced. He also talked about conversations he had with other girls, it was almost like he was only talking about other girls, not about boys he met. Yes, he was nice to me sometimes, but more as a weird friend or something. But when I sent him information he needed by mail and he received it, I did not heard anything of him. I am still way to attached I suppose and even tough I did said I could do it without him, it makes me said. I just want him to be my man. Not just a stranger or something.

At this moment, I feel like I totally loose faith, I feel a bit despressed almost. Mediatation and visualizing helps, I bought a grateful-book today, but I do not even know if I also should write down my affirmations in it as something to be grateful for. I feel just like a freak or something, who does not want to accept and thinks the LOA is a way a miracle would happen, even tough I manifested small things (by purpose?). I do not BELIEVE at this moment I suppose. I feel like, that if I am letting go and will be detached, he will never contact me again and we just become complete strangers (even tough we both initiate contact sometimes last weeks) And it is frustrating to me. I know that if I feel al this, the manifesting will only takes longer, but I just cannot help it. Can anybody please give me advice, how to keep faith? The situation seems so hopeless.

Perhaps it is too long ago (6 months almost) since he broke up and he is completely over me. I perhaps just should finish it and give up. Move on or something and not think so desperate, sometimes I feel GREAT! If I manifested something, it seems like a sign. But perhaps it is just all co-incidence. How to get rid of this attitude? I read, watched documentaries, spent a lot of time on the web... manifested, visualized, affirmed, what else can I do more???

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Hello OmAumOm,

It is so good of you that you reacted so brave, I mean, you did not cried, or begged, or anything. You put yourself in a position where you earn respect from him, that is such a good thing. And indeed, perhaps it is the case, that this other girl will learn him lessons, but in the end it is about you learning your lessons. I really think it is great again that you reacted wise, and it is also great that there is still chemistry! It is also a very good thing, and I wished that I was at that point, that you are at the point, that you can also love someone else. Great!

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Heey Ellebelle,


It is great to hear that he is reacting so polite! And is much greater that you can move on! Really, I do admire that! Beware not getting attached again when you will meet! But have loads of fun and try to be yourself as much as you can, you are LOVE, you are much more love then he is (for yourself ofcourse!)... (if he does not know about the LOA... ghehe)

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Hi DreamBig,

Same issue over here. I am a "beginner" to the LOA. What I understand of it, is that by using the LOA, you'll get to feel LOVE for yourself at first, or have to come at that point, of LOVE, GRATEFULNESS, and other positive things.. So, I suppose you'll become happy and positive (also because you love yourself, but I have experienced at a few times right now, when I really really was "in" it, using the LOA), you attract more like (For example: Sweet people in the tram, or on the streets, or where ever ). I suppose that if you want to attract a specific person back, but he or she is in a complete other way of thinking,behaving,and so on...

Uhm...I do not know really. I SUPPOSE you'll be less attracted to him or her (i've seen my ex recently, i am still in love with him, did not told him, but his goals in live changed a lot compared to mine -what I thought to SAW, saw him for an hour or so- and I suppose he wants something else in live, I am also, in a way, experiencing the same problem i suppose), I do not know for sure. I think it is a bit difficult indeed, but I THINK that both of you have to learn the lessons you have to learn at first. And after you have the feeling, you can go on without him, see what happens then! It is not something that happens over night what I already discovered, it is a process and me too wished it al went just a little bit faster, but I suppose, the lessons have to be learned at first... (Darn...ghehe)

Affirmations and visualizations are what I understood, something you do (once, twice, perhaps three times a day) and try to let it be for the rest of the day. Act and think as if the Universe is already arranging it for you. You know what helped me? Someone told me, the LOA is just like gravity. Simple as that! So do your affirmations, visualisations (and I do meditate, that makes me calmer and helps me to stay focussed) and try to live your day without attachement to the outcome. Believe the Universe will make it happen for you, when the time is ready... (I am trying to think this way also, it is difficult sometimes, but I suppose it will get better and better, try to do little "tests", when I really felt like I was in the right mindset, there happened a few small miracles, it was such a great thing!)Great day! and hope someone else will give an answer too...because I am curious what the rest of us have to say...

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Well, I suppose I still just should look to the outcome and not be too attached to it. I'll have my own answer over here... It also was not really necessary to give an answer, I am grateful that people read it so... I am grateful that there is "normal" contact with him again anyways, I really am, because a month ago he did not even wanted to talk with me so. Now he's a bit like: "Well everything will also become allright with you also". I think I should just forget about the hows, whens, wheres,  just believe! And be grateful.

At the moment it DOES look like he is over me, and like he is having fun with his live. And that is a great thing. But as I read in other posts, and that was very inspiring, I do have to learn a lesson. When I'm in a relationship, I should not forget about myself. And I am on my way to become a HAPPIER me, a BETTER me. But it takes time. And I know that when I'm not at that point, not loving MYSELF, every relationship will not succeed... So I suppose I should be grateful this all happened.

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I know it is annoying, I am having a bit of the same problem too. I think we are too attached to the how, when, where... I am (and i had...so I KNOW I CAN) realizing that everything is all about me, or you in your case. I read something about putting someone on a pedestrial...and I know I do that, have to stop that. It sounds a bit like you are doing that too (not for sure ofcourse), the only one who are really important is YOU. I suggest stop the texting for a little while, perhaps he should feel how it is you are gone. Even though I am a bit jealous you are still having contact (I do have a little little contact, but yeah, your situation seems not so very very difficult, that is great actually!)

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Hey Dreambig,

If it feels for you this is not the end of your relationship with him, TRUST it wont be. And it is annoying, that when you were in the process of founding things out, the break up happened, I can understand that if you have the feeling, you deserve another chance and do not get that chance, it is frustrating. But give yourself a chance first, LOVE yourself first! (I know exactly how it feels, I've been there too and came to the conclusion: I will change, for ME, but it was too late and he did not trust it anymore, thought I wanted to change for him, which perhaps, at that moment, was true, I wanted to do anything to let him stay with me, but now, I want ANYTHING to stay with ME and I know I will found my own happiness, love, respect, value and everything else I DO DESERVE!)

And yes, I also am a believer of karma. I already saw some things that prooved me that (for example, and I do not really care about it, because I know everyone will get their lesson, my ex has almost the complete stuff we collected for the 4,5 yr we lived together, I made a calculation and still he owes me money for all the stuff he has right now (I spent money to buy new chairs and everything). Now he has financial problems and struggling to cope this. It is not nice and definately something I wish for him, I know I can forgive him the things that happened, but this is a proof to me, that whatever someone does, will come back)

And it is also odd, I really DONT understand why there are woman and man want to take a girl or boy from someone else. Doesnt make someone a bad person, but I think they have to learn something, before they will realize that is not the path to take! She will get her lessons also. Try to enjoy this forum, it already made me feel so much better, so I suppose you will feel beter too thanks through the knowledge you will gain! I have a link from youtube for you, perhaps you can give it a try if you want too.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBVi2TCHb64

I really think this is a great number to meditate on Perhaps you will like it too. And do not forget, he has to DESERVE you. You do deserve everything you want (and everyone), but first KNOW you can deserve yourself. (It is hard, I do think that too, I also am still in the process, but hey, we did not found this forum by purpose I suppose... ) Have a great day and I am sure, that during the process gaining information, meditation, visualizing (yes, I do think that is a good thing, I do think it makes the letting go part more difficult, but just KNOW you can get whatever you want. And if you do not get that, you'll get someone or something even better!), affirmation, intentions, ASK, BELIEVE, RECEIVE, LETTING Go.... if you (and I and everyone else... ) you will become HAPPY, be GRATEFUL. Look at the things you have. That is great!

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Heey!
Here my advice! First of all, you said you were pulling away emotionally and there after you said he broke up with you out of the blue. Well, I suppose he also felt you were pulling away. I am really sorry for the situation you are in right now. If I understood this good, he is with another girl for 4 months now? Perhaps their relationship also doesnt go well, perhaps it does. What do you want? After today I am becoming more and more for sure, that what we want, WE CAN MANIFEST, and so can you. If you want them to be together, that is fine (i understand you do not want to interrupt in a relationship), if you want him back badly and cannot stand the thought he will never be yours, you are too ATTACHED! DETACH yourself! LOVE YOU! I am using the LOA for 2,5 weeks right now and I am so grateful in such a short period, I do not know if you are new to this stuff? If so, try to meditate, visualize, affirm (in the mirror or write it down and carry it with you), intend. Also, ASK, BELIEVE, but LET GO!!! Really, first love yourself. You are great the way you are! I really am for sure you will get what you want then and if dont BETTER

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Hi Lidja,

That is a very good question indeed! Because also what I recognize is that the visualization, affirming and meditation make the letting go part worse. I know exactly what you mean! It is easier to give someone else advice... ghehe, then to let go for yourself. I suppose it just takes time, even when you are visualizing, affirming and do meditations. Those 3 things are I suppose meant to make YOU a stronger person. That is what I am discovering, even if I only am doing it for a week, it makes me feel SO MUCH better. And I KNOW there will be a moment where both of us, just LOVE ourselves enough and just do not care about the outcome. Because LOVE attracts LOVE, we will meet sweet new friends, people, even a boyfriend better then our ex, or, if meant to be and if that still is what we are sending to the Universe, our own boyfriend. Keep on doing the affirmations and visualisations, and if you do meditate, i have a great (I thought it was great) Youtube song for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sBVi2TCHb64

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goedendag mensen (hello people)

Today I sat in the car with my mum and my little sister. As a proof it the LOA is working, I closed my eyes for a little while and tried to SEE the color of the next car passing. And almost everytime another car passed, it was the color I wanted it to be (almost, not everytime, but I suppose 60-70% of the time). I also visualised a bright green car. Did not saw it.

It was an odd bright green color I was visualizing. When we went to the city (me and my little sis went to the barber, a present from our parents... ) and were ready and left the parking place, exactly that color green (with a little extra shimmer in it) car drove by, I almost forgot about that I wanted to see that color. Hell yeah, the LOA is working! It was just a test for me, to show if it IS working, because I discovered the LOA 2 weeks ago and impatient and doubtfull me I had a bit of nagging wining (stupid ego!) feeling. But the LOA prooved for me I was wrong. Thereafter I wanted to get flowers...roses. Another test. Yesterday I heard a great song, but did not really realized it WAS about roses. Today when I had an illustration deadline, I heard the song: YEAH! Roses! It was like: Whenever I feel down, I'd like to draw roses, even related to the thing I was doing... I felt down a bit today, but this made me feel so much happier. Perhaps I will receive my flowers soon! Sleep well to all of you! I am going to try manifesting greater things... DEFINATELY!

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I agree with the post above. I think you are too attached to the outcome and still care too much for him. Wait untill he initiates contact with you and if he don't, then KNOW that you are valuable. And not because he does not contacts you, but you already have shown enough love (I suppose ) to him, I did sent my ex 2,5 weeks ago a sms with "thank you!" he called me the day thereafter, we chatted for half an hour. But that is, I suppose, because I MEANT what I said by thank you . You can learn so much of this situation! It is a great oppurtionity to get to KNOW yourself! I just realized this today and really want to share this sense with you, after 5,5 months after my break up (7 years relationship), but I KNOW you ARE great, and loving and everything you WANT! And you shouldnot waste energy on someone who does not want to see that. And if he will see that, then that is great! But again, do not be too attached to the outcome. Trust the Universe, it will deliver you exactly what you need, if dont what you asked for, even better!!

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Hi, I am new to the LOA, but what I did understood is, if your mind creates it, if you ask it, believe it, let go (that is the hard part i suppose, i am having troubles with that anyways, perhaps you do too?) then you will receive it. So, if you do want to stop trying to get him back (if I understood right) that is something the LOA will make reality. But if you still imagine and keep stuck to it how he smells, how he talks, how he holds you, if I understood right, I suppose that is what will happen. I can imagine that is a difficult thing to do, because the situation perhaps does not seem like it is going that way, but if you look at the facts now and accept them for how they are, then I suppose that also will be the outcome.

I also read situations were it almost seemed impossible a couple would be reunited, but the person who wanted him/her back sticked to the LOA and a miracle came true (I am also saying that a bit to myself to keep motivated....haha) to keep you motivated, take a look at the website of the secret tv, secret stories, you will be blown away by what you read! (I'll do that too in a second I think)

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Hello, I really hope this writing the letter burning it thing helps for you! I completely understand I suppose that if he contacts and says something, you get "shocked" or something. Hmmm...we have to get rid of that. Tip: I found this LOA website by google "sending love thoughts to ex", weird and odd and a bit nuts... but this helped for me untill so far (only used it 3 times since now). Perhaps something you can use as well? (If its not to spiritual for you hehe)

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