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Yeah... Universe is a bitch.

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Oh I understand. Believe me. But right now. If I let her go in that sense, that i make myself so detached from her. What will I have left? Nothing. I love her too much to do that. Not just out of fear, but from loyalty as well. It feels that if I do that i will spit myself and my former self who was together with her, hugged her, in the eye. It is true. Without her i have nothing. And if i lose even the memories and hopes, and that little that is left i will lose this beautiful thing that had happened between us. And also I was there for her, we had so much promise, so many plans, so many things to do. If i let this go and detach we will completely go separate ways, because everything so far led us there. You see why I am reluctant. Believe me i understand and acknowledge what you guys write here. And I am grateful for it. But this could be great, beautiful, affectionate between us. And my love is real. Even when i had to neglect myself if she needed comfort and somebody to talk to I was there for her. I've found a true partner, which is very rare these days especially in my generation. Of course i don't want to let it go. I would feel even more powerless and lost. I know what i should do. But i don't want to do it. I know i would be able to. I am just unwilling even if it hurts, because now that is all I have from her. Even if it hurts. It is a part of the "legacy" this beautiful phase has given me. But I understand what points you want to get across and I thank you for it!

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Okay.
She is currently 80 miles away from me. She has a job. She wants to focus on her life. A few days ago she confessed her love, but then deleted that FB post the next day. She has lost most of her friends because they treated her badly. She is going to work and study during summer. She would probably have free time, because events in her life are turning better.

Now me. I am broke. I got switched to tuition fee course at University so it is no longer free for me. Finding a job in my country is hard as dried camel c**p. So i will probably have to work till i collapse every day during summer. So i won't have free time.

Still. I feel she is the one for me. There were many things standing between us in the past. We would be together if things hadn't turned bad, about which i couldn't do anything. I was and am completely powerless over this. BUT i feel SHE IS THE ONE. We are perfect together. What was between us is too good to just fade away. We were not just great friends. We were companions for each other. And if circumstances were better this love could have been the last one we both need, for this would last. I Love Her. Even if we will never be together again i will love her.

My life went to ruins. Everything has collapsed. I just believe in Karma. I believe in God. I've read many NDEs before. And i believe or more like i am convinced that there is a God. It is just, if i had a Karmic debt i have paid my price. If i did anything even horribly wrong i have paid for it. I would have deserved after all these years of solitude, pain, suffering to have the only things i've asked for. To have something in my life i can be proud of. All i ever wanted was to love and be loved in return. And I didn't attract her going away. It all happened out of my power. She had to move away. And there was nothing i could do. Even if i practiced LOA perfectly this would have happened. And she being a very positive person didn't attract that either. So it was something out of our reach. God, Karma, Universe call it whatever you want. Then why cannot this thing give me her. We are truly perfect together. We are in perfect harmony with each other. That is rare.

That is why I am blaming someone else. Because there is someone else, something else that has made this happen. And if that thing is God, and he truly loves me as it is portrayed in NDEs. Then he could be at least so merciful to bring us back together. That is why I am so angry. That is why I blame GOD. Even in times when I was completely in harmony with myself, hardships came. That is all. And the only reason why i pretty much write this is that god should listen. My personal growth would have been more quick, more intense. I understand that it is bad to grow by someone else's help. But I was always there for her. Her presence made me feel great. And i was there for her in her problems. I helped her, comforted her. It was something that was helpful, and great for both of us. It is like. You can send a basketball team to play together. Or every player singularly. They are stronger together. We were stronger together. And we were a great team. And we would be great.

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Today. After two days of doing my kind of RS. The loving type. She posted something to me on facebook. That jokingly said that after we graduate we move abroad and i can decide where . She is into buddhism and she wants to tattoo on herself Om mani padme hum (I showed her this matra), so i jokingly replied that we will tatoo our fully bodies with mantras and go to Tibet to become buddhist priests . Also today she initiated contact with me. And told me that she is going to meet another "friend" of hers who also wants to be with her, and that she is afraid that this someone wants something from her as well...

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This is a reply letter I wrote to one of the members who asked me about RS/RI. I hope some of you find it helpful. It is my personal experience.

Hi!
I've only used that mp3 like twice. I mainly did it by my own methods, which is kind of simple. I do it from heart and it comes naturally. As I've found out in RS/RI letting go is just as important as it is in LOA in general. So after you've done a session think about that particular person with love. Unconditional love. You know it is unconditional that if you think about that you two will never be together ever, you would still love that person. And after you've reached that state just let it go and don't even think about it.

My theory is that different energies can be transmitted to other people. So RS is not that related to LOA. LOA still works if you use RS appropriately, but it is about sending energy to the other person. Have you ever had a precognition that somebody is going to call you? That is energy transfer as well. They thought about you, wanted to call you and sent their energies to your subconscious, and therefore if that energy was powerful enough you had that feeling. I think the same is true for RS.

I've used two types of Remote seduction.

1, Sexual remote seduction: In this type i transferred my raw sexual energies and the energy of euphoria to the other person. Sexual feelings are very powerful ones almost as powerful as love so therefore they can be very convincing so to say. The key is to visualize in full detail. See everything you would see. Hear everything you would hear. Feel, sense, taste everything you would. And imagine different scenarios where you are having sex with your "target". It might sound embarassing or weird, but to increase your own arousal, therefore your energy you could masturbate while doing this. And imagine how you would give enormous pleasure to your "target". The focus is on them. How you would make them feel. Imagine how every little motion, every caress, every touch, kiss would cause them huge euphoria. How they would have big-big orgasms while you are doing this. I also did that i went into their perspective. How they would feel in first person. How much desire, lust they would feel towards me. And how they would feel an irresistible attraction and desire to have sex with me. I've used different types of sex. For example a really wild and passionate one, or a slow loving tender one as well. But I always kept the focus on the other person, because it makes me contented to cause euphoria like this. I've never given this any time frame. I did this all from heart, i did it naturally, because i am really good at imagining in full detail everything i want.

2, Loving Remote Seduction:
Loving Remote seduction is different from sexual RS. Because here you send the energy of love to the other person. The kind of love that can set the world on fire. Passionate, deep, affectionate, mutual. You imagine in full detail different scenarios where you would be together with that person. You imagine how much love you would feel for them, and of course how much they would love you. This love should be really deep, and pure. Imagine how you would kiss them, caress them, hold their hands and feel this love throughout it. This just as sexual RS depends on you, I've never used pink balls of energy or other stuff like that i just let my mind run wild. Imagine what I would do if we were together and madly in love, without problems, without worries. Just love. I also imagined from the perspective of the other person. How they would feel the same love for me and would want to hold my hand, kiss me, caress me etc. For me this wasn't something i let go of. I would let go of the attachment to this imaginary reality, but i would still feel this love throughout the day, and daydream these scenarios whenever i had the time.

So these are the RS methods I've used.
Some days it did them other days i didn't. It was always in the beginning of a relationship or with people I've just met, so there was no attachment to it. Also. I didn't use it purposefully. I did them because they made me feel good. It was like a game in my mind. Imagining different scenarios, having my desires fulfilled. It felt good. But because there wasn't much emotional bond between me and the people i did this on i could keep myself centered and detached. Of course there were times when i wasn't detached and they still worked.

Now my success Stories:
My previous ex from two years ago. I did these things on her. And despite the age difference between us she got really attracted to me in like a few weeks and we started to grow really close to each other. Sometimes after doing a week of RS of both types she just immediately blushed even when I just said hello. And she slowly started to develop feelings for me.
There were various girls i did sexual RS on. Sometimes even when we were in the same room. Some of them never even looked at me before, but after my 'session" they did look at me and they blushed and it was visible that they became attracted.
The girl I write these days about. The girl i love E. I attracted her to me using these techniques. When i did RS she even mentioned almost every time we talked that for some reason she is so aroused recently and she doesn't know why. And she brought up the topic of sex almost every time we talked. Many times we watched movies together and after the movie she mentioned that we should watch porn instead, and sometimes we did even though we weren't together at the time. And i did RS for a week. And she reached a level that she couldn't handle anymore and pretty much jumped on me, it was really intense and passionate, just as I have imagined a week before.
When i shifted from sexual RS to loving her whole attitude changed in like a week. She started mentioning that we would be a great couple together, that we are a great team. She even talked with her girlfriends about how perfect I am and she told me these things. She became much more affectionate towards me. And had slips of the tongue that were very interesting. For example: we talked about flowers and their meanings and whether it is romantic or not to give flowers in a relationship. And her tongue slipped and said that I have an easy time with her because she doesn't like to receive flowers. And always wanted to be in my company.

But sexual RS can backfire easily. Because you mainly send sexual energy. it increases their libido. Like my girl didn't know where she received those energies from she became more flirtatious in general. So it might make them satisfy their needs somewhere else. but in my experience loving RS is much more intimate and direct. If you live with the person you want to attract. Then use both. This was the case with me and my girl. We were living together spent a loooot of time with each other so it was obvious that she would feel this sexual tension between us that was very intense. We were like two overcharged magnets.

So this is all i know about RS. I hope it helps!

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I want to be with her. And I am willing to do anything for that. NC would destroy me at this point I know. I don't want her out of my life. But her life is pretty complicated right now. She cut all contact from her friends because they grew apart and she only received hurt from them. She wants to be alone to heal herself completely. I will be here for her if she wants to talk. There is not much i can do. Yesterday she told me that right now circumstances are not right for us to work. And yeah, i have exams to finish, she has a job to do etc. I won't go NC but I think she needs some distance. I will do RS/RI regardless because I had some great successes with these techniques. I can send energy very effectively. What I can do I think is I stay here for her if she wants to talk. Do RS/RI. Work on myself, concentrate on my studies. And try my best to detach, and believe that we are going to be together. And of course do all the LOA techniques and methods. I want to be with her. I love her. I want her to love me back and to be in a loving, harmonious relationship with me. Period. It is a time for self-reflection and growth for both of us. And it seems we both want to grow in the same direction and not apart so it is good.

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First of all: sorry for my negativity and for that I've brought down your positivity in the past.
I know many of you are annoyed by my constant blabber and negativity. Understandable. Because I am probably the most negative person you could ever meet right now. I would like this topic to be the last I start here for a while. As some of you probably know I went through serious suffering. Hit rock bottom many times. Not as hard as this time though. 8 years of serious depression had brought me to a place where I am just a shell. Not a functioning human being. I vegetate my life through. I have serious problems. In my personality. The normal state of mind for me is self-pity, depression, negativity. These 8 years have made their toll on me seriously.

I didn't have many relationships before. But I know what real love is. I can love very deeply and I am proud of that. I met a girl in September last year and she quickly grew close to my heart. We had the most amazing time together. We could talk for 16 hours straight and wouldn't even notice. i gradually fell in love with her. Her whole personality. I've used RS/RI and LOA to attract her to me. And it was successful. She got so attracted to me that this tension could be felt in the air around us. I used RS/RI successfully and eventually she wanted to be with me and desired me very much. And even told me that we would be a great couple together. Everything seemed fine.

But in February she had to move away. She got dropped out of University and had to move 80 miles away. But things seemed fine even then. But I was afraid of losing her so I wrote her a message in which I cofessed my love to her. She told me that she was still in love with her ex, but she fell in love with me as well, that she likes me as a partner. She wrote me a card on FB on Valentines day that she misses me and would like to visit me. And a few days later she did. We were together the whole day, but then she had to go back to her city. By that time it seemed that we would get together for sure. But I sensed some resistance on her part because she was still in love with her ex. So out of fear, i wrote to her a message in which I explained that I was unsure, I know that she still loves her Ex and I don't want to be a third wheel and if I cannot make her happy then I should just let her go. She got mad, but eventually we started talking again after a week. But a few days later after that she told me that I was right and she cannot take responsibility for someone else right now because it is unfair to heal by going into a new relationship. So we agreed to stay friends and we talked without problem for a month, in this time she seemed to care about me still and our conversations were still great. And she even mentioned that she isn't ready for a relationship for like 2-3 months. She seemed to be still interested in me.

But as she slowly moved on with her life i was left here disappointed and devastated. I got drunk many times and wrote her messages in which I pleaded, begged, asked for an answer on what I meant to her. She always said that she likes me and respects me. But due to the pressure of my letters and my clingyness she grew distant. I attracted some conversations and a  phone call from her since then, but nothing major. She has fun with other people. There are like 8 people in her life right now who would like to get together with her. And there is someone now with who she seems to be getting along really well. I am kind of afraid that they might get together, because they are a lot like each other.

So here I am right now. Depressed. Devastated and disappointed about myself, my value, and love. But i want her back. Because what we had between us was truly amazing. This level of companionship is truly rare. We are a lot like each other. Share a lot of same interests. Think alike. And even look alike. Our faces are really look alike and our smiles even. I had breakups before as you've probably encountered by my previous posts from a year ago. But I've never felt like this. To me there are no other women. She is the only one I could imagine my life with. I feel that she is my partner. Today I wrote to her that I sorry and I apologize for everything, but I miss her so very much. To which she only replied: "Hy! No problem:)) oh come on! )" So she didn't say she misses me as well. It was just a polite response. ((

I love her. I want to get back together with her and share a wonderful new relationship in which both of us finally can experience true love, happiness and harmony. I am in love with E. And I want her to fall in love with me as well. I want us to be together in a long-term loving relationship.

I sorry for my constant negativity. But I really went through hell in the previous years and it left me completely empty. But I want her back in my life. I want us to be together.

What do you guys suggest? Should I go NC? Do you have any additional advice that are not in the getting your Ex back resource thread? Or recent success stories that are not included there?

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Thanks for your help! It is still a very hard decision to make. I love her. Truly. I've never loved anyone like this before, not even my previous ex, about who i talked a lot here. I love her, miss her and i want to be with her. But seeing how great she is doing without me and doesn't even occur to her to talk to me breaks my heart. Without her i feel i've lost a huge part of me. And a great future we could have together. We both had bad relationship experiences before and we would such a great couple. I want to be together with her. But lost all hope and don't know which road to take. I know i have to change a lot. Get myself together again. But i can only think of her, nothing more. Only she matters in my life now. And this whole thing is devastating...

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As far as I've experienced if you send sexual energy it wouldn't necessarily increase attraction towards you in the other person. The times I've sent love it reached them and they started to develop an attraction towards me.

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Since many times i've met with remote seduction questions here on the forum i would like to write down my opinion and experiences on this matter as well.

In my opinion there are two ways of remote seduction. A sexual and a loving one.
A, sexual remote seduction.
 As the name itself tells you this way of remote seduction focuses on sending lust, and sexual energy to the other person. This way you imagine having sex and intimacy with this particular person. The way i did it was that i imagined with every little detail what it would be like to have sex with my "target". I would fully absorb myself into the experience. Imagine what it would be like to caress them. Kiss them. Cuddle them. What every touch of mine would feel to the recipient. I kept the focus on her. What it would be like to cause huge euphoria, joy, irresistible attraction. I would imagine every kind of sexual intercourse with her. Wild and tender as well. Passionate and intimate. And i also imagined what it would be like to experience it from their point of view. What kind of irresistible arousal i wanted them to feel for me.
B, Loving remote seduction
As the name tells this form of remote seduction does not imply sex, or any kind of sexual arousal. This way I only imagined what it would be like to feel great, unconditional love for the other. How i would caress them, kiss them in a loving way. What it would be like to be together and have the most loving time of our lives. I would imagine scenarios like going to the store together, watching a movie together, in complete pink fog. In the kind of deep, passionate, blind love you only dare to feel for the first real love of your life. And of course i also visualized these experiences from the other person's point of view as well.

As far as success stories go. i had luck with both kind of remote seduction. Many times before. From little things like arousing a girl on the bus, making her staring at me in euphoria, without knowing her or talking to her or anything. To making my crush at the time constantly mention sex and eventually jump on me and have sex. It can be powerful. Really powerful. BUT. In this case as well you have to let go. You aren't violating the free will of the other person, you just send them energy. And most of the time they feel where that sexual energy comes from and become attracted to you. OR. They just become so aroused and sexually energetic that they get together with someone else instead. (Had that too). So that is the downside. You can become too attached, too involved in a relatioship that is one sided on your part and could fall flat on your face.
With loving remote seduction i had successes as well. With the same crush i've mentioned earlier. I stopped using sexual remote seduction and started to send her real love. Like if we were already together and deeply in love. Within a week her whole attitude toward me changed. She started to talk about how great we would be together. That she talked with her girlfriends that i am pretty much a jackpot man. And she became really loving in return which is kind of good from a FWB. She wanted to get together with me and even wished me happy valentine's day and told me she misses me so much. BUT. I'd invested too much into that relationship and things didn't progress as fast as i wanted and i became anxious, posessive, needy etc. That eventually of course pushed her away. But this isn't a singular case in my life. Sending such energy. Either loving or sexual can have huge impact on the other person. But if you become too attached, too involved in it... well... The more you invest into something like that you can fall flat from really high.

In conclusion. Remote Seduction in my opinion and experiences work. It doesn't violate free will. But LOA still applies to this. After each session. Let go. And try not to become too clingy onto it. Consider it an experiment. I've had many successes with it so if you ask me it works.

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Hi! I've been very low many times in my life. Even on the brink of suicide many times. The last time only one second kept me away from doing something that would be fatal in a second. But i made the right choice. It was more than a year ago. But only recently have i realized things that made a huge impact on the way i see things.

I've been a negative person for like 7.5 years. Only thinking negative stuff. But it is just a pattern you keep repeating over and over. And you need to break it. It is like a stuck tape keep repeating itself over and over again. First of all i would advise you to begin thinking better thoughts. What i do is when a negative thought comes to my mind i tell my brain the following: SHUT THE F*CK UP!. This immediately puts you in a different state and interrupts that negative thought. But it is not enough. You have to steer your mind in a more positive direction.

For example: I am so fat, i would never be able to change it. I don't deserve it! ***SHUT THE F*CK UP!*** There are many people who have conquered their problems successfully, even though they were in a more desperate situation that i am!

I've realized that these thinking patterns are ingrained in the mind. They are very strong programs that keep running again and again. But slowly by consciously interrupting and overwriting them with positive ones they can be overcome. It takes time. But after a while you will have new positive thinking patterns that will be just as repetitive as these negatives ones once were.

This is i think is top priority for you right now. From a place where you are right now you wouldn't be able to achieve and focus on the things you want because this negativity will steer you back to a place of doubt, fear, lack etc.

LOA as far as i've experienced works. I've been skeptic about it for a while. But i've received proof many times that my negativity and positivity manifested thoughts into my life experience. For example a few weeks ago i did a little experiment. I asked the Universe for a sign that LOA works. I wanted to see a blue feather. It is very unique. Distinctive. So it wouldn't be just a coincidence. So i visualized seeing a blue feather, and how i would feel myself by receiving my proof. The very next morning I had logged into facebook and the first thing i saw on my newsfeed was a tattoo. A BLUE FEATHER. A friend of mine is a tattoo artist and he made that tattoo the day before and he uploaded it to his works album. Is it a proof? Or just mere coincidence? I think it is all by itself is enough proof for me. But i have at least a dozen other. So i keep a proof journal in which i write down everything that proves LOA works. It gives me strength and faith when i feel low.

So LOA works. You can doubt it, or believe it. But one thing is for sure: If for example you apply the Abraham Hicks processes to change your thinking patterns and the way you feel about your life you will be more contented, happy, positive. That alone itself worths it.

So break your negative thinking patterns. Apply the Abraham Hicks processes to help you in it. Every time you think of something negative interrupt and do or think something positive instead. Do not just tell yourself positive things, feel the impact they make on you. And then think of something even more positive. And repeat and repeat until you feel great. After it became easy for you to steer your thoughts in a positive direction and you feel much better on average you can start working on your goals and desires.

I am not an expert either. But i know what it is like to be very low and have only one thing to give hope and at the same time be skeptic about it. I've been using my mind, my thinking, my emotions consciously for only two weeks really, but i feel much better and slowly things are working out. I am still in deep sh*t. But i can smile about it and feel good. Probably the first time in years. So i am neck deep in this stuff but i wholeheartedly whistle: *Always look on the bright side of life*. Hope this helped! Keep us updated!

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UPDATE!!!:: This girl i was talking about, who left me a couple days earlier... She wants to see me. And she even wished me a happy valentines day saying that she misses me... HELLL YEAHH! So much about letting go huh???

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Hi everybody! First of all happy Valentine's day to you all!

I've been down before. Many times. I've been suicidal many times. And right now i am going through hard times all over again. I had just gotten over my ex and bam i met another girl with who i've experienced the very same breakup pattern. I've confessed my love to her a few days ago she said that she liked me too as a man as a partner and that she is confused. She has been avoiding me for a few days now. I realized that i should just let go of everything now. Just no more life changing plans for a while. No more looking for love... This morning i saw the sun come up. Maybe i never saw it this way before. I felt something that was an alien emotion for me most of my life. Gratitude. I am grateful that i've met both of these girls. It is the second Valentine's day that i spend alone. And for some strange reason i feel grateful. I feel hope.

Yesterday i went out to drink myself silly. And a homeless guy came up to me on the street and asked for a few pennies. I gave him some and we started talking. He has cancer, he is completely alone, and homeless. It felt good that i was actually kept him talking and let him tell me his story. At the end of our conversation i gave him a few more bucks. And it brought tears into his eyes. I couldn't help him. I couldn't cure him. But the fact that i was there for him even for a few minutes made me feel great. If god exists he isn't just. But for a few minutes i was. I helped this poor man. Made his life a bit more bearable and probably showed him after long years how acceptance and love feels. Bad things happen in life... And sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. You can only hold your breath and count to ten. I think i finally let go of my oars. I would like to stay like this for a while. Don't think. Don't suffer. Just be.

I would like to close this post with the following quote from Lion King:

Lion King - What did you do that for - the past can hurt

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Yes i take full responsibility for what is between us now. This coldness. But i won't even have the opportunity to make it better because everything points toward that she has to leave. Move pretty far away. So we will likely not meet again. And a long distance relationship doesn't work. This is something that is out of my reach. I can do nothing about it. That is unfair, that i won't have a chance to redeem myself.

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My last post was so full of desperation, that right now i cannot even make up my mind to red it again. I want to thank you all for your help, and love. I really needed it and it helped. I no longer think that suicide is an option. I still feel quite miserable but i started to apply the law in the way it is supposed to be applied. I hope life has to offer me more than i can see right now.
 
But i need your opinion on something. Right now i am a university student and i am at Physics. But despite all my effort, i still achieve very bad grades. And i push it to the the very limit. I amd starting to realise that i have no place here. Yesterday i got an F from calculus, to which exam i studied a lot. And it is only getting more harder. I was always a people oriented person. I loved literature, and i have a talent in learning languages. So right now i don't know if i can, or want to finish Physics, i am really disappointed about this. I don't even know, whose desire i wanted to fulfill by coming to physics. The moment i got my exam result i had a feeling that i have to finish this course, and re apply to literature. But i am not brave enough to jump into the unknown, and this way i have to skip a year. And i also know my parent's thinking: once you started it. Complete it! And my admission isn't 100% sure. It is as if part of me actually died on that night. Right now i am more clear about what i want, but i doN't know if it's sensible to skip this course, adn change. What do you think?

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