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It's when you don't try to impress men that you win them over, in my experience. When you are you, and not worrying about what other people think of you, and you radiate a happy and content, glowing soul, -that's when you are at your most attractive. To both men and women, whoever they are. We should feel like that always, and why try to impress anyone? Wear what makes you feel confident and relaxed, say what you mean and always from a kind heart, do what you like most and be yourself. It's really simple.

One good thing about getting older, -you stop giving a rats ass what others think of you, and that helps you make better decisions based on what's good for you, not anyone else. In turn you are happier with yourself and your life, and kinder to other people.

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Releasing of resistance, according to Abraham, -yeah why not? ML I have also wondered where "the manifestations" are since I see signs and numbers everywhere. The last couple of months every time I look at my phone, watch, wherever, there's repeating numbers: 2211, 1313, 1717, 3030 etc, -every time!! And I can't be bothered to look it up, just remember this sign discussion thing, get a little annoyed and ask the same question as you, -so what's next?? But if I believe Abraham and see it as releasing of resistance I'm fine with that actually. A process going on in me. Someone in here mentioned signs as warnings, and I've noticed that too, if anyone remember my cat story.

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Sorry for not being able to give some advice on this, only offer my support as I am in almost the same situation. I understand completely where you're coming from because I feel it every day myself. I am older than you, and every day I fear that my days are "over" when it comes to love and relationships. Fortunately I had 3 kids while still in my twenties, and I'm forever and ever grateful for that, so there's no stress as to nesting and making a family before I get too old. I feel your pain and worry there, Kazoo, but keep up the faith anyway.

Like you I do not want to just settle with someone, I'd rather be alone than in a relationship without a real connection. I want LOVE! I have had plenty of offers from men that mistake my age and think I am younger, and most of them want sex only. I recently deleted a dating profile I had, because it just made me sad the way I was approached. There was nothing in my profile that said I was available just for sex, on the contrary, I made it very clear that it was a lasting bond I was after. So I simply gave up on that project.

I have been alone for over a decade and pretty happy about it too, as I was coming out of some nightmare-ish relationships, that left me only happy to live without a man. But out of the blue I fell in love with a wonderful guy, and even if it never took off and actually was a disaster it rekindled my faith that there just might be someone for me too. Still haven't gotten over him, but I have let go, -I think In that case I keep repeating a reality-check in my head, even if I don't want to, as he is eleven years younger than me. It's hard to keep faith when such things are so obvious.

So what to do? I have no idea, I just live my life, go to the gym, study, work, drink wine with friends, walk the dog, make jewelry....and I keep up a hope for more, like meeting my soulmate while I'm still alive   I do feel the lack, yes, even if I'm pretty happy about myself and my life. It's natural to long for a partner, we are made that way biologically. Even I, who is middleaged and have most of my life behind me. It's not easy to wander along and hear that the universe delivers in it's own time, whether it be 1, 2 or 20 years....if you just stay happy. I realize that the same rules apply for me as for anyone else in that matter, but I do sometimes feel that life is just speeding away and I get old in the meantime. EVEN if I feel good, am fit as a racehorse, healthy and some say goodlooking too. LOL And I'm happy! Not constantly, but mostly. I even pray, meditate, and try to keep a faith in U/G that they know what is best for me, even if it means being single and without love for/from a man the rest of my life.

Sorry I don't mean to hijack your thread, Kazoo, I have for a long time thought of starting a thread about this subject. Maybe I should. When I joined this board I remember there was quite a few "older" members here, but now I feel a little lonely in my age group, so maybe not. Wish you the best, and feel free to PM if you like.

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SR, you in swimwear would definitely provide a lot of loving vibrations   Coming your way!! LOL

Calm, I think it's very refreshing when people speak their heart and mind, even if it's anger. It was pure, direct and very honest. Clearing the air never hurt anyone, I think. I read this forum often, but hardly ever participate, but I like to see some genuine happiness in here. To reach that stage a lot of people need to ask (maybe unpopular) questions without being called trolls, or worse.

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Virgoshowgirl, LOL I can imagine perfectly your surprise as I've had the same thing happening to me, not just once but a couple of times I stood there probably looking like a big questionmark and wondered if I had magically imprinted my guys name into the other persons mind. How is this possible? Was I sending out some signals vibrating with his name? haha. It was so strange, and I wasn't even thinking of him when it happened. Also, once someone was telling me about some type of job, way different than his line of work, but out of the mouth of this person I was talking to came my guys profession which isn't "normal" at all! It's a job very few people have and it takes years of education to get there.

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The first person to greet me when I came into my new class last fall was a guy with the same name, -and the next day I recieved a msg on fb from my guy.

When I'm out driving, whenever I think of my guy, always a car shows of up the same kind that he drove, the same letters in the numberplate and usually the same color. He has/had a very expensive car and the letters of the number plate is not from where I live, they are registered very far away. This is almost like instant manifestation, never fails. And I never intend for it to happen, it just does. Makes me jump every time.

Once on my way from the uni I suddenly realized I was sandwiched between two cars looking like this, and the same night he msgd me.

In the fall I was at work and being outdoors I saw a black cat from far away while I was talking with some people. It seemed like it looked into my eyes and came running straight at me. It was pretty far away at first and I figured it had something else in mind, but it kept running in a straight line at me, swirled around my legs once and ran away. I didn't even have time to bend over and pat it. Later that day I was in a different place, also outdoors, and a striped cat did exactly the same thing. I was so puzzled by this cat behaviour and thought it was kinda cute. Made me feel like a cat-magnet haha. When I came home from work I got a msg that he had met someone and wanted to stop our contact for a while. I may add that he and I had various cat-nicknames for each other....and that made me think of the cat-incidents earlier that day. Strange...

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Virgo, wow, what a fantastic photo! I love the style!
You are all so young and beautiful, so I decided you definitely need someone on here with more wrinkles   Here I am, pic taken in april, and through instagram. The light is weird, it looks like I have a huge nose, but I really don't haha

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Morocha, your own happiness is the most important thing you have. Yes, get your BUT out of the way

Just want to share a little technique that I used last year to keep me sane and bring back some joy in life. And please: In no way was I using this technique to be cruel, to wish someone ill, or to be evil, but it might seem kinda strange. I was so jealous of his gf, and felt she was so much better/prettier/slimmer/younger than me, so in my mind I created a big fat eraser to erase all those unpleasant thoughts! Every time I tormented myself with mental images of them together I picked up that big eraser and erased all unpleasant images, including her, if she was by his side. A bit of vizualisation, actually it made me giggle and restored my peace of mind, which was my primary goal. At the same time, I trained my self-love with meditation and exercise. Make your own technique when you feel like that, it just might help when you feel defeated by all that you perceive as "perfect" Gotta tell you: A few months later I learned they had broken up and he had moved far away. But in no way do I feel guilty for all the erasing that I did. Also  it shows things can be quite different than you think they are...

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Brandy, I was hoping someone would find it useful. I do, although I am not persistent enough I think. I have my mind wrapped up in so many projects these days, but every time I relax just a little bit, my mind fills with thoughts and dreams of him. Even though I atrracted him in the past I fear I have lost that ability and now I just try to move on. Which, btw, I have tried so many times and failed miserably

I know I have read on this forum before about releasing the hooks and ties that you have with another person, and their hooks in you, and somehow it makes sense to me how we are tied to each other long after a breakup, even after a meeting that feels destined. This psychic lady said to me that it would be good to write a letter to him, expressing all my feelings and then burn it. A year ago I made a little ritual and burned my visionboard and every pic I had of him. Not so long after that he contacted me, but our contact wasn't what I had hoped it would be, -he actually used me to boost his ego. I think I have a lot more confidence this time, and I believe I attracted being used as my self-esteem was so low back then. Now I'm in a far different place and a lot more grounded, so I found this prayer again, and will use it. Freedom from obsession and emotions that only hurt us, and happiness, is worth the letting go. Even if it is completely, final and with no looking back. Seriously.

Waterfall! Every time I read something that you comment on, my heart fills with JOY!! This morning also, I smiled all the way to work Why is that?

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Hello everyone,

Like so many other here on this board, I have love on my mind My story started two years ago, and although we were never together as a couple , -I was in love like never before. I have since attracted a lot of attention from him, but actually he made me feel pretty bad about myself in more ways than one... As I never got the desired attention from him I cut off all contact with him in september last year. The problem is that he is still on my mind, every day, and it is so hard to let go of the wishing and wanting etc. It feels like a bad habit, and also a serious blockage to finding new love in my life. My heart feels like it belongs to him and it's so hard to release the thoughts and feelings for him.

I do love myself, and I work on that consciously every day. I have a job, study, meditate, work out three times a week, I have friends and we have fun together. I have a dog that I adore, and I have grown children that I love. I also have a hobby and art that takes a lot of my time, and two internet stores. I am also go on dates with men, but it feels sad... In other words: I really do have a life, and it's pretty good except for this one thing! I even use eft sometimes when things get rough. My problem is having faith in love. I haven't been in a relationship for over a decade and I guess I fear love, it hurts too much. I guess I see only the obstacles to having a relationship, to this man or someone else.

But today my heart and feelings got the better of me and I talked with a psychic. She was pretty accurate in many things, but she urged me to contact him and in that way get him out of my system. It made me freak out a little as I have swore to never ever ever contact him again. She said that I had to confront him, to tear him down from the pedestal, to get the air cleared, in order for me to start out fresh and find new love. She couldn't say anything about a future for us, but wanted me to take my strength and power back no matter what. She did say however, that I was on his mind often, but probably not in the same way I have him on my mind But I really do feel him thinking of me sometimes, and that is probably one reason why I can't let go. I have experienced telepathy often so I believe in that.

Something interesting she asked me to do was to contact a shaman and get help to retrieve that piece of my soul/heart that I lost to him. She said I would feel a lot better and it would give me healing. Have anyone ever experienced this? We have shamans in the area where I live, native people, and I'm seriously considering this option. I really do feel that a piece of my heart is missing...It also got me thinking of this prayer by Marianne Williamson which I found a long time ago, and that I find to be quite similar to the shaman approach. Maybe it can be helpful for some of you:

Dear God,
I am bonded in my heart to someone who does not share this bond.
I feel so drawn to him, while he does not feel drawn to me.
Please, dear God, disconnect my heart from this longing within me which does not serve.
I release this person into your hands.
May the ropes that bind my heart be cut.
May they not bind me, may they not bind him.
I release him, that I might be released.
Retract the silent hooks I have in him.
Bring back to me my power and my love.
Cut the cord that chemically ties me to him.
Free me from him, and free him from me.
May we both find peace. Free us both.
Amen.
~ Marianne Williamson

Actually, this is why I write this. Is it contrary to Loa? I feel Loa is all about having faith and living life peacefully and in harmony with self. For me soul retrieval and silent hooks seems a bit foreign, but maybe there is something to it? I'm sorry this was so long, but please share experiences and thoughts I hope I made some sense...

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I felt the need to post this The graphics are annoying, so just listen!

Abraham Hicks - How Can I Love, If I`m NOT Being Loved

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I'm so happy for you, Magic Lamp!  What an inspiration for all of us! Fantastic to say the least, and this made it to the top of my list of good things that happened today!! 

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Cherrybelle, congrats on your puppy! What kind is it?

I had a phonecall before nine this morning, a friend asked if we could go and workout together. We did, and I feel great I also seem to attract smiles and happy faces wherever I go these days, and it makes me feel so good!

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ML, the only problem with a wonderful story like yours is that now we all snapped out of detachment-mode, into expectancy-mode! Now I have to let go all over again!   My story is very much like yours, without the happy ending....so far.....

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It's quite normal to have your brain completely preoccupied with thoughts of your love, especially if there is a lot of unfinished business going on. I was like that, -I AM like that, just not so often anymore. I was so sick and tired of my own brain, and yes it was like breaking bad habits or having a super-resistant virus refusing to let go of you as a host.

So I think you are on the brink of detachment, when you desperately look around for something else to occupy your mind with. I started to study, and it takes a lot of self-discipline to focus on what I'm studying instead of him. Sometimes I fail, and can't focus, and then I use eft or meditation to get back on track. Or I make stuff, -crafts are great, they occupy your hands and your mind must follow Same with exercise, -fantastic when you struggle to detach. Long walks in nature is fine too, makes you feel connected to a bigger picture.

Otherwise, try to replace those depressing images of him rejecting you with positive ones. Dream up a romantic movie in your head, make yourself smile! Ignore reality and love with all your heart, without the bad feelings.

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