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Hello, people!
Thank you for your lovely posts, my story has certainly become more popular and inspiring than I ever thought....
Whatever your situation is, just remember that your thoughts and your actions matter in equal measure. It is not enough to just entertain good thoughts, neither to work only in the exterior world.
I've usually been a very negative person, but tried to change that through affirmations and EFT, while still being untrusting of that. However, results showed  What mattered the most I think was a deeper sense of purpose which eventually did not let me get caught in the pain and desperation of seeing that relationship fail.  I am always questioning and looking to get deeper into spiritual matters and understanding. I guess this has indeed saved me.

Thank you very much for your words!!

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Well, you are at a great point again! You see, when we get detached and positive, things we thought to be too rigid are actually manifesting changes.. like it happened with your guy texting your father. WOW! indeed, coincidences begin to appear, because you are still connected and you invest a lot of thoughts in him. I was getting hit by a lot of coincidences! I was thinking a lot of him and also enjoying what was in my life and what I could do by myself.... If you don't feel like needing him anymore, it's just fine. Either he'll come back to find a happier you, and you will decide to give another try with him, or you will be off to stumble upon someone better!

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Hi, Chantal!

First of all, please excuse me for being late with my reply, I am caught in activities that take much of my time...

So, as I understood, your guy is still in a trauma state because of your past together? This may be because either he is a slow healer, takes him more time to figure out things and get a different perspective, or you haven't changed your energies enough. When you guys are still connected energetically (and couples are, even if they separate for a long time), he can subconsciously feel your energy. Therefore, if you are still worried, frightened, negative towards him, he will get that message and maintain his attitude.

A thing I did and you must be very aware of is the fact that there are 2 people involved. I knew that my guy has his own way and just kept the faith that maybe he will change his mind one day and come back. There was nothing left for me to do but to remain silent.

How long did it take before you saw something happening by using the LOA? And how long did you used it to get your man back?

ummm... one may say it was very fast. First, I noticed my small jewelry business got successful overnight, exactly when I wasn't worrying about it, but needing some funds. I enjoyed it a lot. This was delivered to me right when I needed it (what unseen wisdom, eh?). About my guy, I still don't know how he'd been during our months of separation. I just know that our energies were 'communicating' very well and we even got to do the same things exactly at the same moments.... (found out later). Well, I've always believed he loved me much and can't simply let go of me.. and, no matter what, he'd never really get me out of his life... Perhaps it was this strong conviction that brought him back to me?

I was not really "using LOA"... nor am I today... but I'm using these laws and insight to make myself better and to understand things that are going on.
If you want to 'educate' yourself better, then I can suggest to start by being honest to yourself, to look inside with sincerity. When you feel trapped in thoughts of him, just imagine he can hear you and tell him your most honest wishes, feelings and thoughts. It is very important to be sincere at that level. We usually put on a lot of masks, often fooling ourselves too about what we are.

Take care and have a lovely time!

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Hello, Chantal!

Your story doesn't sound too bad. First of all, you have an emotional connection with him that has been lasting for so long! And about the present moment, I can tell you are doing much better than many others have had, in similar situations. You are aware of your past mistakes and of what you can do now.
His bad behavior may somehow be justified, because you were stepping on his nerves by acting desperate. I don't think he did that out of hate or other terrible feelings... people react badly when they encounter something that puts so much pressure on them...

If you're able to send love, you're doing really good  Those moments when I could do that were the best for me, too. And yeah, this autumn I'm celebrating 5 years of my long-distance relationship. He left me some months before, it was all terrible, but he came back recently  ;)

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Kjkitt, many thanks for your post!
You see, the people dear to you have not truly left you. One thing I've clearly seen after this... my story, I mean... is that such emotional connections can't die... Those people were very close to you. The time comes when the deep feelings start speaking through small but meaningful gestures. They cannot be fully silenced.
Your post sounds so awesome, really! There's such faith and right attitude in it, you are an example for many!  I love it, you've found the blessings in your trials...

57angel and Dee, you have been here from the start, you deserve all sweet words!! I'm so glad to see you've also helped each other a lot!

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This is a great story and so much like mine!! the similarities are very striking. Ava, those words you heard from your man are a wonderful sign... you can draw so much inspiration from them! I also got the words I needed exactly from my man! I don't know if he was aware of that, but it was what I needed for healing!

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Priestess....Girl, Girl!!!! without a shadow of a doubt I KNEW that THE race to the finish line WAS just a matter of time you know our history so need i say more....awesome.....story.....this what we talked about TRIUMPH OVER TRIALS LOA WAY!!!!

YOU HAVE DONE IT MY FRIEND!!!!

MUCH LOVE AND PEACE

OH YES!! I could never forget your lines, my dear!! You know you were my inspiration in those awful times... oh how bad they were... and indeed you are my sister here, we started here only a a few days' difference and you were so constant in the changes you made - you posted your success so fast!  I followed so soon, wow... Your faith in me must have done pretty much! I could never ignore it.... THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU! Much love and ll the best in your new life too... we need to maintain the good changes.... It should be easy when I think of the lovely romantic gestures he'd just done!

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congratz on your success! when i was reading this, i thought of how extremely similar it was to my situation. i have not had contact with my guy yet (for about a year now) but your story brings so much inspiration to me and gives me sooo much hope that everything will happen in my favor, because i am doing all the exact things your doing, so i believe im not too far away from making my dream come true. also, i think you should know that your story was presented to me as a sign from God, that i am on the right track (not too long ago, i asked Him if im getting close to achieving my goal or on the right track, and if i am give me a sign) .

thank you again for posting your story and i truly wish you pure happiness in the future. 

Thank you very much!!! There's a new journey ahead for me now, and everyone's support means very much!
I trust in what you're saying in your post because I did the same - asked for a very precise sign from God - and it was there in no time. A perfectly clear sign. One week later, the miracle was produced  I was quite ashamed because I could've had more faith in all that stuff 
Yes, I also believe you're getting very close, especially because of that, and I am very happy that my story comes to help you that way. Just relax now, you asked for what you wanted and it's on its way. You can already feel it! It doesn't mater it's been a year... Who knows when my man would've returned if he didn't have that extraordinary opportunity this month! (more people were involved to bring him closer and facilitate our meeting) I just knew that it was going to happen with such opportunity, no matter when it comes. Remember there's always a way, it will come sooner or later.

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From The Secret Daily Teachings

Faith is trusting in the good.
Fear is putting your trust in the bad.
 
May the joy be with you,


Rhonda Byrne

This is so true!!!!
Exactly what made me succeed! I trusted so much that good has to prevail, that whatever is happening is for the better... and that all I do has to be good-oriented... yes, that's what works!!

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I say the same...

You focus too much on the risks and doubts, that won't bring much good. You know what's a very manly thing to do? it may sound counter-intuitive, but it is impressive to a lot of women out there... Just tell straight about your weakness. You're shy and clumsy? Go on and tell her! Then not only it won't feel so awkward to her anymore that you're shy and clumsy (she was already warned), but she will see your courage and honesty in telling that.

I read here that you don't know how to initiate a kiss. That can be quite frustrating, yeah... but you have many places to learn from! try to watch how your friends do that or watch the actors in movies! Don't try to copy a certain situation though... You will see, it comes naturally! but something has to precede it, you don't just get a kiss out of the blue!

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Dearest Priestess, your story gives me hope!  Success stories are vital to our existance.  Can I inquire about the other love interest?  Having 2 or more loves doesn't fragment the LoA when it is divided like that and weaken its power, does it?  Or will that just send the vibrations to your men that they too can find others while loving you?  It's all so confusing at times but love is love, no matter how it's divided?     

I am so glad my story makes you feel better! 

That's a very good question you're asking there, btw. I think that having 2 love interests can be harmful and dividing your energy if we're trying to make decisions ahead of their time. I mean, I prefer not to stress now... I haven't even contacted the new guy  I haven't met him, he's in the same faraway country... but our common friends have already promised they can set up a meeting. You see, I don't know if I'm going to like this man next year too or if he's right for me... I just wait to see what happens - with patience and love for everyone. Also, I'm trying to be detached of the outcome.
Falling in love with this new man while the other was away has helped me, for sure. I think it raised my vibration and made me very desirable to others!
Love is love, indeed. Don't think it will be divided. and no, it will not make your man look for other people too, unless you actually discuss such things. Just stay detached and offer love freely from your heart - life will show you with the time what's the right thing for you.

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Thank you so much!!! wow, so many of you to congratulate me! I feel it's like a big party!  I imagine getting together with all of you and partying, it's so nice 
This.... this is what I wanted all this time... to post my success story and give more hope, joy and inspiration to those in need! Now that I know what works, I can also give more advice... It's interesting how it worked for me: I did not apply all the principles in this forum 100%, I only focused on what I could do well (gratitude, hanging on to my hobbies, faith and prayer). So my advice would be: don't stress over what you can't do, but make full use of what you can! also, I believe he had a major role in turning this around... He talked to me about many LOA principles, especially about creating things with love, in the present moment. He did a lot, I am impressed!

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This is wonderful  I love how "destiny" knocked on your door, you didn't open, and then it jumped in through the window, haha. It is powerful!!

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Hello everyone!!

That's right, he is BACK. Only days ago I was posting desolate and troubled messages here, as I was getting too emotional and weak about the trip he took to my country... without meeting me... and yesterday there he was, sending me a longing, sentimental, touching message that he wants to meet me. In a short time, we were confessing our LOVE again 

We had feelings for each other for 5 years, though only recently we were "official". It was amazing for a long distance relationship. Our story was simply stunning, but I won't go into details. I can actually call it supernatural. Since we were not complete people by ourselves, life threw us in the lessons we had to learn, so separation came (winter 2011).  It was an awful time, I begged him, I pleaded, I argued in my favor, I even did things on purpose to hurt him, I could not live, only cry cry cry..... until the day he never wanted to contact me again. For about half a year we had no contact. He broke all his promises, threw away our love story, accused me of things... I was so down and broken that the only way to go was up, somehow, if I was still alive.

What I did:

In spring I discovered this forum, as I was desperately looking for healing from outside of me... and things slowly improved by realizing I have to work from within. I began changing my perspective and practice what I was taught here. Soon I experienced the wonderful vortex, which gave me much hope - it was the time of intense meditation, visualization, affirmation use. I was no longer a wreck.
For the summer, I decided it was time to do something about my life and take a seasonal job abroad, to enjoy freedom and a changed environment. I had many issues with it, which have severely deteriorated my mood. Then I applied something which became the great solution out of the crisis:
GRATITUDE.

I outlined all good things in my life, focused on them and gave sincere thanks for them.

Because of work, I had no time to be in the forum, to use subliminal messaging or other things I did before. However, the intense activity (work + exploring the new city) were a great boost for my own self. I was starting to be adaptable, to see problems from a different perspective, to look with honesty within myself.... It was a very tough time of my life - but a very enlightening one. I was set, from that time on, to be happy with the things happening in my life and to start being grateful on a constant basis.

I know that we don't all share the same spiritual beliefs, but I will tell you what mine have been and the role they played:
As an Orthodox Christian, I finally started to discover this faith... I began to meet God halfway (don't expect everything from Him, and also don't be fooled that you can do it all by yourselves, with no help). Jesus said to look for the kingdom of heaven and all else will fall into place. It's what I began doing - taking care of my soul, being more loving towards other people, letting go of my own will for the sake of God's will... because He must know better and He is full of Love. This happened also because I was tired. Wanting to get my will done was exhausting me, pulling me in all sides. The flood of thoughts was confusing me to the extreme, so I had to put an end to it somehow. So I let go of of my will.... and when my desires persisted, I was openly telling to God: "This is what I want. If You want it, I know You will make it true for me." I got amazing results and a series of incredible signs that were telling me I'm on the way to manifest my dreams... In fact, I was manifesting some of them, though they seemed impossible. Life was getting a rich taste for me!
However... one thing remained unchanged: I could not truly forgive him, nor get rid of the immense pain he caused me. I was much vulnerable to that. Honestly, I was not completely detached and got to have awful feelings for him, again.... It was almost like getting back to point zero, only that this time I was enjoying the other aspects of my life. I have "let go and let God", however... asking Him to put forgiveness into my heart...
So, along with GRATITUDE, I think this is what helped me: DEEP FAITH. The faith that he will improve and return and that a love like ours can't be wasted into nothingness. The faith that what's good prevails. I have always known deep inside that he would return one day!

As I was back home, after all the trials, successes, signs, I realized that in spite of some terrible drawbacks I was living an improved life... I was actually having many happy moments, some detachment, positivity, I was using my skills to make my existence better etc. It was a great improvement!!! although I was still hurting A LOT because of him, I was alive and living pretty good!! I had accepted that the break up was for the betterment of both and that without it we would have kept the same flaws. We truly had the chance to have a better thing for the future....

Last but not least, I PRAYED a lot. As much as I could stay focused. I tried to be honest in my prayers and simply stating my limits. I engaged to do my best, asking for God to complete the rest, that was not in my power. I think that knowing our place in the Universe is of utmost importance - thus we will not attempt to control what is simply beyond our power.

What he did:

I don't know if he felt a change in my energy, but towards the end of August he began to appear online to me again. It was a great step forward! However, none was initiating a conversation. Eventually he took the trip he planned with his best friend and one of my friends. In my country. A trip that was promised to me. I cannot tell how much it hurt... but still, I had high hopes for it. I knew he was going to be overwhelmed by the memories and feel my absence.... I knew something would happen to change his thoughts.... And it did... They arrived in my hometown. He sent me a message to meet up!!! This was one of the outcomes I had pictured...! Well, I was all nervous and some anger came back haunting me... I was quite proud and fearful because of the pain... so I didn't act with love in the beginning of our encounter, though we looked with a long, fascinated gaze to each other. However, something changed it all and became victorious... it was the LOVING ATTITUDE. For a couple of hours we radically oscillated between rejection, anger and disappointment to some kind, loving feelings. In the end we both felt it was useless to keep anything negative. I felt how the good feelings replaced the bad ones. Our eyes were telling the true story. He sat on his knees and shed tears in front of me, as he opened up to some delicate topics.... In no time we began sharing again, laughing and smiling a looooot.... and we kept doing that for many, many hours late into the night and the next day!! Normally we would've been exhausted for such lack of sleep, but I swear I feel incredibly fresh and awake for these conditions!!!  It's truly a miracle.... the miracle of Love. We held hands, he was poking me and blowing kisses in the air for me.... so playful and cute We wanted so much to send this time together and it felt incredibly natural and loving!! things fell into place for us in the best way possible, even if we had to deal with a lot of other people.

I loved talking to him. He said to me I make him happy and that's all that matters.... that he loved to see me smiling... and that he simply had no idea what to say to me during the past months.... but he let me understand the love never died! This, however, is pretty weird to me, because I've fallen in love with another man recently (and maybe that raised my vibration a lot and facilitated the attraction) and I want to see what it is about..... I don't feel like throwing it away. So, ummm... I have 2 love interests in my life now. But I'm not hurried, I trust that I will be shown the way. All i know is that from now on I want to enjoy this new connection with this man I've known 5 yrs ago..... We truly are at a different level now, like all successful stories say 


Now, please allow me.... I give my heartfelt GRATITUDE to all of you here in the forum - too many to name! - who have advised me, posted inspiring stories and influenced me in a way or another! I am really happy to have met you!!! Not just because you helped me, but also because you proved to me that there is so much goodness into the world!!!  I love you all! for those who are still trying to get things right - don't despair! my situation, like many others, seemed hopeless and was extremely painful!! If you trust it was love - trust it will be fine too!

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I had some little successes in changing my appearance....
First, I managed to gain some weight (I was very thin). Of course, I took the "onspired action" of eating more  but also I gave up checking myself in the mirror for a couple of weeks... I only kept imagining I was gaining weight... and when I realized how much better I looked, I was so stunned! 
Then, following the same procedure, I kind of managed to make my breasts a bit bigger....


About the eye color, let me tell you I had them blue when I was a child. 2 grandparents have blue eyes. Now the strange part.... Somehow they naturally changed their color.... becoming GREEN!!! pure green!! well, no one in my family has green eyes, not even anything similar!! Isn't that interesting? so physically it's perfectly possible. I used no LOA whatsoever when I was a kid....

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