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so I have been making ALOT more money at work. Im getting more repeat clients, Ive been getting more clients paying full price. Ive been selling more services. I have had bills though that are backed up that I have been catching up on. So this payperiod, after doing all that and leaving groceries for the last of my spending. I was left with 20$. To last me til next Monday.
That 20$ haha is whats left over for gas and food, (the only groceries I bought was pasta and cereal which was all I had enough for, honestly I find it hilarious, sometimes the contrast gets so ridiculous, really all you can do is laugh). So I told myself
"I believe everything will work out, things are always working out for me and I know somehow money will show up and I will be good for the rest of the week. "
Well I guess my grandma won 1800.00 playing the lottery and sent me 150.00. Hahah thats more than enough to last me the rest of the week. Yay!
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My father gave me a beautiful blank golden, lined, hardcover notebook with turtles etched on the front and back, for christmas last year around the time where i discovered LOA and on the first page, he wrote "a beautiful journal for the beautiful thoughts of my beautiful daughter. Remember: never be in the clouds, always be in the sky!" and i never really knew how important it was to me, until i started to write in it. I thought to myself "you know, what if this notebook wasn't ordinary, what if it had magical powers, and that everything i wrote in it came true?" so i decided to put it to the test. I wanted to attract my exboyfriend bobby, (which at the time i thought was nearly impossible, since the last thing he said to me a year ago was "stay out of my life, you crazy____) so i started a list which i called "small goals" and below that i put a phrase i made up "let this golden magical notebook release positive vibrations to make all the dreams stated below a reality."
I first wrote down two small things i wanted to happen: the first i put down "Bobby will text me a 30 minute (or more) conversation." the second i put down "Bobby will text 'where are you?' and meet me face to face." i put the date i imagined the idea, and an empty check box next to each idea. I then closed the notebook, and just trusted that everything i put down there will happen, and that i don't need to worry about it.
EXACTLY 3 weeks after i wrote down the two small goals, they became a reality.
What is even stranger, is that they both happened on the same day.
I was completely blown away by these results and i continued to put more and more small goals down in my magic notebook and they keep coming true.
What's really funny, is that after my first two goals came true, he stopped talking to me for a week, and i thought "huh, i wonder why this all stopped." and i didn't realize it until later, that it was because i didn't put down what i wanted to do next!
I hope this story inspires you to go out there and make your dreams come true!
the Laws of Attraction Truly work!!!
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on: April 12, 2011, 03:24:14 AM 3 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / New Idea for getting rid of thoughts
In LOA the best way to attract is to meditate on something you want then forget about it, because if you keep thinking about it you become obsessed and you rely on that thought...this can cause you to worry about the posibilities of not getting what you want, which will cause the want to not to come true. The key is to ask for it, meditate on it, then then think about other things while staying happy and positive. Not being obsessed in my mind over a need like money is the hardest task Ive had to overcome. So I created a way for all of you to easily erase the thought.
Its an Idea I have not tried yet, but in theory It should definitely work.
Its should also work with life problems also.
Ask the universe clearly what you want, put it on your vision board so it is perminitely saved. type it up in the computer or write it on paper.
after you are satisfied with convincing yourself the universe will handle it and you dont have to worry about it. take the piece of paper that you wrote on and trash it, or deliet it on your PC. Do this as a ritual every time and the simple act of throwing that document away will help you erase it from your thoughts...then it becomes manifested
steven venus (currently an artist, check out my work)
on: April 02, 2011, 11:38:56 PM 4 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Confused???....believing it's my ex
How do you know if manifesting your ex to come back is what you subconscious mind really wants or thinks is best? . I believe anything is possible so I've been thinking of my ex but us having a healthy, loving relationship that was better than it was before. I've been so sure of that.
I've also been healing, growing myself and loving myself as my number one priority..for me. I know I love my ex. I believe I deserve the best life has to offer and I'm confident and sure of myself that I can maintain a healthy loving relationship.
Now I may have a chance to meet someone new, sounds like a nice guy, and I'm wondering if I've been doing the "right" thing affirming and feeling it is my ex whom I'm meant to be with?
Whats going on here??? How do I get an answer to this?
BTW, I'm grateful to have found this forum and all you wonderful people!
on: March 05, 2011, 01:37:32 AM 5 Success Stories / Success Stories / I attracted him back!!! THANK YOU!!!!!!
hi THERE EVERYONE!!!
so i have a success story!!
long story short-
My boyfriend and i had been together for 2.5 years and had to leave things not becuse of arguemnts etc. but due to culture IN NOV!. we would have on and off contact and there would be times i would text him and he wouldnt reply! and this made me upset! dont think words can describe! and we use to have a pet name for each other that we used to call each other and i also saw he changed my name on his phone from my pet name to my actual name this broke my heart! anyway i was needy and desperate and i discovered this website and ALL THE LOVELY PEOPLE here! i would keep looking at my phone expecting a text and it wouldnt happen! when i would least expect it thats when he would text! we would meet and then he would not contact again!he hasnt contacted me for a while! however last week i went and put my phone away upstair (im lazy enough not to go upstairs and check my fone ) and i carried on doing my own things! i went to my phone four hours later guess what? there was a text from him!! and we texted for ageeeeess and since! and he also cals me! we met up last thursday after he texted and we had been talking for a few days, and he was sooo loving and caring towards me like never before , when he dropped me home, he text me after saying he misses me ... . And he also has been caling me by the loving pet name we used to call each other!!!!!! . also spent his birthday together! ....i feel he has been soo caring than he was before, or maybe iv forgotten! but the feeling is amazing!!
I thought it would be difficult in my situaition because he is a stubborn one!
I would like to thank Schnederson22 for the wonderful advice she gives!i have learnt so much from you thank you ! i feel like most of my gratitude list has come tru!..just write everything your grateful for as though it has happened as well as what u are already grateful for! i think this has greatly helped! and also the demanding aspect! affirmations! I AM love, I AM happiness (schnederson22)
sweet spirit also has an amazing inspiring story thank you sweet spirirt!
So guys this IS POSSIBLE! ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE IF YOU DESIRE IT! attracting a specific person is possible!! just do gratitude lists, affirmations and keep positive and feel good
Hope this is an inspiration! and helps!!
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on: February 14, 2011, 01:13:33 AM 6 Success Stories / Success Stories / My Manifestations - record track
Im new at this forum, it has helped me a lot (sorry for my english). Im 28 yrs old and since forever, I have noted a lot of "casualties" in my life. Then I got to know about LoA, and everything made sense! I "have" this connection with people (now I know is the Universe and our vibrations), I thought of someone and minutes or hours laters they call or I see them somewhere. I have A LOT of stories to tell, but as I know now that this forum exists and you all know and feel what happens "to me" (it can happen to anyone), I will begin keeping a record of all the amazing little things that happens to me thanks to Loa and God. Beginning today.
1. Last night I was talking to a friend about a 1997's hit song (a local band). Havent heard it since then and what happened today?!? I was at the beach and OF COURSE there was a radio playing that song.
on: February 05, 2011, 12:30:22 AM 7 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Go with your gut
I have been on here since about August, I have seen the advise of NC, good advise if you are not ready to talk because you need to improve yourself or heal. I spoke to my future wife today for 42 minutes, and I basically went for it. The confident manifesting Magdog that I am. I spoke with the elegance of a Senator and compassion of a saint. I appealed to her common sense, and compassion, and she showed it, and I am grateful. I will continue to envision us as man and wife, and I told her that. I told her that I love her and know she still loves me, she did not debate that. My success story for today, and I am very grateful. I called her, and she finally listened and opened up, people go with your gut. I told her I feel you are thinking of me and want to talk to me, I can feel the connection, and she did not debate it, so the energy works, the love. Know that to be.
Magdog, MD, Mr. Best Luck, Humble and Grateful
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on: February 01, 2011, 10:30:54 AM 8 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / A Guide to Successful Manifesting
1) Set Goals and have Clear Intentions
Start with goals that are relatively easy to reach, ones that do not challenge your belief systems too much, thereby causing little resistance. It is good to stretch a little, in terms of your beliefs as to what is possible, but don't go too far when you first start with the process of creative manifesting and visualization
2) Create a Clear Picture / Vivid Idea
It is very important to be very specific about your wishes and desires. It is also important to let go of the specifics of how it will come to you. For example, if you want a new home, do not give a moment's thought to how the money will come to pay for the home, simply create a clear picture of your new home and allow the Universe to sort out the details.
3) Frequent Focus/Discipline
The more you visualize, the more real it will become. Call upon your natural skills of discipline and make your manifesting a part of your daily routine
4) Focus on having, not on lack
Do not give any thought, power or energy to the thought of not having what you want.
5) Challenge your feelings
When feelings of "I can't have this", "I am not worthy" or "This is impossible" come, simply stop yourself in your tracks and ask "How do I want to feel?" or "What thought do I wish to have", then get back on track with thinking along the lines of having.
6) Inner Work
Make it a part of your life to work on your inner negative images and beliefs concerning yourself. Use regular mediation to re-program your beliefs, seek out therapists, counselors and workshops that can assist you to change your inner dialogue. Manifesting can take you on to a path of deep inner healing.
7) Make Manifesting a daily part of your life
You are already expending a lot of thought energy towards lack, and creating conditions that don't suit you. Simply use that energy consciously to create your
8 ) Contact Soul
Spend time sitting with yourself and ask your inner being or Soul to be with you. The more you do this, the more you will be infused with the natural creative abundance of your Soul.
9) Do not use Manifesting to manipulate others
If you are looking for a life partner, do not use manifesting techniques for getting a specific person to love you. Simply make a clear request to the Universe for your ideal love, and allow the Universe to take care of the details.
10) Practice Generosity and Gratitude
The more you appreciate what you have, the more open you will be to receive more. Acts of generosity will affirm your belief in unlimited abundance.
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on: January 31, 2011, 10:43:41 AM 9 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / I know it is coming!
no major break through yet but i know it is coming. my husband filed for divorce in october, i didnt get the papers, think they got lost in the post since we live in different countries. he filed online because it is a faster process but things just got delayed. anyway before he filed he told me he doesnt love me, he is done and wont change his mind. Now, he seems to have frozen in time! he is not saying anything! not pushing for the divorce, he hasnt even mentioned the word in weeks! it is very strange!!! i asked him yesterday when i havent heard from him! are you not doing it because you are still in love with me? and what do i get...silence!!! the way he has been lately he would have said I dont love u straight away but he didnt!!! i know he reads my texts and emails and recently a friend of his told me that he keeps my emails, the ones i write talking about our relationship and how strong i think it was and is. i always felt deep in my heart that he loves me, i have been believeing in this so strongly since April, everytime he said i dont love you, inside i would say no you Do! and at times something insdie me would just tell me he does. the funny thing is when we were together, i use to doubt his love for me alot until it got to the point he said he didnt! but since april i have been doing the opposite....well i am have decided to give him space as i was adviced on here, just leave him alone, not contact him and see what happens.
on: January 16, 2011, 10:38:47 AM 10 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / A Great Statement - Impacted Me Forever.
Three hours ago, I was talking with magdog2765 in one of our communication tools. I was so amused and thrilled! This is what he told me.
" Do you think that the reason you are attracted to a person is that he/she wants you also ? "
This was the greatest statement that has enlightened me further! Gave me a feeling of thrilled sensation, intensive feelings arise!
Thanks Magdog2765. Indeed, I have not thought of that before. =)
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on: January 09, 2011, 08:12:46 PM 11 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Are we being honest with ourselves...wanting to attract an ex back?
It's something I've been contemplating and I recently read an article of this with the new year beginning.
"ask yourself whether you truly miss him or if you're just lonely" Write down five qualities that are important to you and see if they match what he had to offer. "The majority of the time, your ex didn't have what you need and want"
I think it took alot for me to be honest with myself and I became more focused on getting my ex back instead of feeling the loss/pain, forgiving myself as well as him and asking myself, what do I really want/need in a man and did I really have that with my ex.
I do pray that he heals/grows/learns from whatever he's been through but that's not up to me whether he does or when he does. He's not here in this lifetime to please me.
So if the Universe feels he's the one, then someday he will be. I can't put a particular person to what it is I want/need at this point. I'm much more clear on what I want, need and deserve in a relationship. And I'm becoming muc more aligned with that myself.
Any comments, opinions are greatly appreciated!
on: December 08, 2010, 04:41:02 AM 12 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Incredibe Super-super-success - now I'm crying
OK, you won't believe it.
These days I and her had been stable and positive, in the sense that we spoke every day, but still with a certain element of coldness. She never told me any sweet things as in the past, and she sometimes didn't answer to all my questions, which made me quite nervous, but I know she is very busy - extremely busier than me.
I have also been busy with my job, which will take me very close to her home (on the other side of the world), so I sometimes neglected her, e.g. I forgot to do her a favor, which I felt very sorry for. I think that happened in a moment when I didn't focus enough on her, and instead on my overall self-satisfaction. That was bad in my opinion.
But today, while I was walking, randomly, I thought to myself: Come on, this is going too slow, I need something really more instantaneous. I need something right now, that will truly make her be at my side. As if she will be walking right here next to me.
And you know what happened then?
Gosh, a few seconds later my phone vibrated ( ) and I got a message from her in which she said that she would come here, to visit me, RIGHT HERE, NEXT MONTH.
I mean, before she told me this wonderful news I was ready to wait even 20 years, though I know with my job I could visit her very easily in about 4-5 months.
But no, she will be coming here NEXT MONTH, NEXT MONTH!
Later, I went online to chat with her and we discussed about how to arrange the whole thing. But there I did one of my silly mistakes again and probably turned the whole thing upside down. Totally.
I think I got so happy and enthusiastic that I thought now I could behave according to my own rules and boss her around. In fact, my tone became a bit too confident and what some people call "cocky and funny". I had learned that it is bad with her, but I thought that if she wants to come here NEXT MONTH, it means I can talk to her with any enthusiasm.
But then, I did the worst thing. While thinking about how good it was, I asked her why she didn't reply to one of the questions I had asked her previously to which she didn't reply.
And she didn't reply even now. Then, she didn't speak to me for 5 hours, and only said goodnight after I told her goodnight.
So, what lesson should I learn from this experience?
Again, I guess, never be too much in a hurry or you will neglect her true needs. Be patient.
I also think that I asked her that question ("Why didn't you reply to me last time?"), because I wanted a reassurance about something that made me doubt about her. (I had asked her something like "Where did you go that weekend?" 3-4 times... and she didn't reply. So that made me worry and think she was doing promiscuous things... ) So, I guess, I tried to act on one of my deepseated fears, which probably came across negatively to her, and thus made her react negatively towards me.
Damn now though =(
on: December 08, 2010, 12:31:31 AM 13 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / He came back, but I let him go
Hi Guys!! I have been attracting my ex back into my life for the past 4 months. Well we still aren't officially together, but we were doing all of the things couples do--well most of the things. He broke up with me over the summer because I hurt him (we just argued a lot, and he couldn't take it), but during that time I became a better person and found my spiritual self! Well I was too late, but nonetheless I stuck it out. Recently I decided that I couldn't any longer, so I ended things for good. I came to a place of peace and I truly feel good about my decision. He says he loves me and doesn't want to let me go but that right now he didn't want a relationship, and understood if I needed to move on. Now I feel free, completely at peace with him and myself. I know that he'll call, a lot and will even ask to visit, but the truth is I cannot move on if we are still pretending to be a couple. I needed to detach myself, and well whatever happens happens! Our exes are wonderful people, and this is why we want them back, but they are JUST people like us, and we don't have to cater to them to get the back :-) Say sorry, and if they can't get over what happened move on! That's when they always return :-) Just wanted to share!
p.s. I do still love him but I am doing this for moi! I will still send him loving thoughts, and write in my journal however I won't call him or hang out with him. I've done enough chasing it's time for HIM to show me how important I am :-)
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on: December 03, 2010, 07:38:48 PM 14 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Why some can't attract someone specific?
since the question keeps coming up, I summarize my idea and would appreciate your views.
Firstly, I would say that...
- the original authors of LOA never said it is impossible.
- the idea of LOA is perfectly compatible with specific wishes.
- only some independent promoters of LOA advise against it.
So why do some advise against attracting specific persons?
1. it may not manifest as quickly as you would expect.
2. it is not an easy task to wait for one person when there are plenty of potential partners out there.
3. sometimes our willpower is not strong enough to ignore the sexual drive, which requires any available relationship as soon as possible.
4. sometimes our willpower is not strong enough to ignore the emotional pain caused by bad memories, that also create desperation and confusion.
5. there is a huge social stigma against loving someone who doesn't love you, being single for too long, or more in general, being "weird".
In many of these cases, especially when there are more convenient and more easily available options (there always are, as a matter of fact!), it can be easy to think that "someone else out there" might be better than the specific person we currently love.
If you think that way, that is exactly what you will attract!
It's not extremely wrong to think that way, but it is important to notice that all
these impressions and insticts are a result of impatience, and sometimes also of pride. And what is one of LOA's basic lessons?
Be patient. Many forget patience, always. If you want to attract something very specific (e.g. "I wish to be married with XYZ"), it will very likely happen in steps, and maybe not the minute after you broke up or were rejected. You will start seeing positive signals, get negative ones whenever you feel discouraged, and then keep getting positive ones again, gradually leading to the state you visualize, manifesting over time. Well, if she/he proposes to you the next day, fine let us know. It's very possible.
But the truth is that many of us who need advice still have some grudge in their heart, towards the specific person they love: bad memories, feelings of rejection, jealousy, pride. Yes, pride is what makes us think:"Ha, if you don't love me, I can have 1000 admirers anyway!" - That is not love, with or without LOA!
Be patient. Timing is up to the Universe, and you must keep hoping, staying positive and focused. Some advise that time heals. Indeed, thinking about other things for a while can speed up erasing the bad memories, and focus on positive aspects. But if you're good, you may also skip the interval and start remembering the good memories right away. Be grateful... and stay grateful. Many start thinking "Oh, my partner was so good to me, but...", "Such an angel, but...", "We loved each other so much and she really showed me how much she cared, but..."
No more buts! The "but" most probably manifested because of something negative you have been attracting for a long time.
Patience is the first part of the story. The second is empathy and emotional intimacy/"connectedness".
In my personal experience, if you're patient and grateful enough, empathy follows naturally. Why?
- you are more open to understand what makes the other person tick.
- as a consequence (while interacting) they also understand you better!
- you don't depend on their mood changes. This point is very important as it helps in daily relationship life: Imagine yourself married with her/him. What if she is impatient and starts screaming around, insulting you, after a stressful day, and then asks you to do all the chores and so on? You get annoyed? That's human, but bad, very bad!
This is all related to two more important LOA lessons:
I. Be "detached from the outcome".
II. Don't let your happiness and love depend on the other person's little mistakes. You are responsible for your own happiness!
Why is this so important? Because in (or before) any relationship, there must always be a strong foundation, and if you're part of the couple, you should be ready to uphold it even if the other person changes their mood/priorities/tastes/appearance/etc.
"It takes to two tango", as many say, but remember, "in partner dancing, the two dance partners are never equal. One must be the Lead and the other will be the Follow." (from encyclopedia)
This doesn't mean that one is superior, but simply that you take responsibility over your relationship: if she's sad, cheer her up. If she's jealous, show her she doesn't need to be. If she's ignoring you, show that you're still kind and look for reconciliation.
Like attracts like, but this metaphor doesn't mean it's the end of the world if people do small mistakes or if the other person does not fit all your expectations. Start by fitting your own (this is my personal comment, not LOA)!
This leads to another reason which I think creates difficulties in attracting a specific person: Ego.
The more we focus on our immediate impulsive needs, the more distance we create between ourselves and the specific person we love. We start neglecting the other person, misunderstanding them, and feeling hurt for things that may have never happened.
Example from my own life:
After my girl went abroad, during the first days we chatted online a lot. But after a few weeks she started answering only every 5 minutes, sometimes every 30 minutes, and I was heartbroken, imagining the worst things, thinking bad about her, wondering what I did wrong, closing myself up, having lots of doubts, not loving spontaneously as before, etc.
And when I went to her place, guess what I saw? She leaves her chat switched on even while cooking, studying and doing other things. Personally, I would have never understood that because I always log on the chat only when I want to speak and then switch it off...
Such small misunderstandings can threaten relationships.
I think that the moment we start searching for "any" partner and imagine their general traits instead visualizing someone specific we know and love, we are actually looking for something to complete our happiness, to gratify our needs. Once this something changes or doesn't make us happy anymore, we can easily switch to another partner who satisfies us for a period, and then to another, and another, and another... that's not love. And that's not LOA, which gives us the possibility to be happy in advance!
This is why - in my very very personal opinion and also in my experience of using LOA since almost 1 year - a "general partner search" could even harm the process of attracting someone specific. I think they are two entirely different processes; following one causes to neglect the other.
How can you understand and create empathy with an specific person when your mind is distracted by images about the "general"? As I wrote elsewhere, if we freely love "everyone and everything" we risk neglecting the specific needs, desires and the specific circumstances of an individual relationship.
This is just some food for thought.
Each person is an individual and to attract a relationship with a specific person, as some LOA writers put it, your vibrations with that specific person have to synchronize: put all your faith and efforts into this, and don't vibrate the slightest doubt. Doubts and thinking about other people (or desiring a "general" relationship) can create "interferences" in the vibration. For example: Imagine your partner is away for a few years and you start attracting in general. Several very hot guys/girls flirt with you, pay you all sorts of compliments, make you feel very sexy and important, right here and right now. Honestly, would you resist, if all you need is a any person?
This is why I think that it is very important, when using LOA, to distinguish between "anyone" and "Specific Person". Whatever you is in your mind is what you attract.
I hope I have outlined my ideas clearly enough and would appreciate your feedback, as using OA in the most successful way is in the interest of everyone here I think
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on: November 18, 2010, 12:09:42 PM 15 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Yet Another Tip For Manifesting The Love of Your Life!
THE FOLLOWING ARTICLE WAS WRITTEN BY A LADY FROM ARGENTINA NAMED "MALLIKA".. SHE HAS WRITTEN A BEAUTIFUL ARTICLE AND ALSO HAVE ANSWERED WONDERFULLY TO ALL THE DOUBTS THAT PEOPLE HAD.. I WILL BE POSTING THOSE QUESTIONS AS WELL.. BUT FOR NOW,, LETS BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL TO HER FOR HELPING US BROADENING OUR PERSPECTIVE:
To all those looking for the ' final solution' :-)) to this problem - I HAVE FOUND IT!
The answer is -
1) STOP STOP STOP with all the longing!
2) Master the art of POSITIVE SELFISHNESS. Ever wonder why selfish people always have people who love them and are loyal to them? They radiate a certain vibration, that's why !! You can't beat this law, so join it!! Think only of yourself (not of him/her), pamper yourself, enjoy the attention of those who do admire you, HAVE FUN, FORGET ABOUT THE LOSER WHO THOUGHT YOU WERE NOT WORTH IT! By positive selfishness i mean - be selfish but don't be hurtful to others.
3) I applied this formula - now my ex has eyes only for me, sends me the most flattering messages a woman would like to have, AND WHAT'S IMPORTANT IS - This man is no pathetic wimp, and has a lot of choices when it comes to women!
Cheers....to Myself !!! :-))))))))))))))))))))))))))
It has always genuinely surprised me when a lover wanted to leave, when I wanted to continue. I'm good-looking, smart, cheerful, kind- hearted and interesting. I'm no wimp. I'm not needy. I rarely suffer from self-doubt. So for me the big question was - What is it then? I was determined to find out. And I did.
The first important thing to understand is that everything in the universe is energy, in one form or another. We are all energy. Our thoughts transmit this energy with a unique vibrational signature. We are masters at reading the energy of other human beings, and responding accordingly. Unless you develop awareness in this area, it's happening unconsciously.
Why do they leave?
We learn from two sources - our environment, and our experiences. Very often these two sources seem to impress upon us that life is a struggle. Our parents - their struggles make deep impression on the psyche. What we learn is that in order to deserve a love relationship we have to give in and give up….ourselves. And this is actually what causes loss of love.
If you fall in love and cannot keep your energy centered around yourself, your partner will leave. This is a law, as sure as sunrise and sunset.
Some people suffer a whole lifetime captured in this pattern - the same energy will bring the same result, over and over and over. If you are serious about mastering your love life, you HAVE to master the art of keeping your energy centered and aligned at all times. So how do you do this?
The art of Positive Selfishness.
In your mind, build a fabulous pedestal in granite or marble, in the middle of a town square - a pedestal with space for only one icon or idol. Place yourself on this pedestal. 'You' in gold, or platinum or titanium or whatever you wish. Does this bring home a message?
Stop focusing on - does he/she like me? will he mind if i say this/ do this….STOP! And start listening to the voice within…it will tell you how YOU are feeling.
Let your emotions be your guide. If you are getting feelings of sadness or discomfort in a relationship, take yourself serious! Don't hesitate to communicate with your partner over this, and don't hesitate to end the relationship if required.
Never turn your existing life and routine upside down for your lover, like canceling appointments to accommodate him/ her unless it's really necessary. Don't neglect other areas of your life such as your work/ study/ sport/ children etc. Make it a habit not to think of your lover when you are doing other things. Live in the moment!
The Essential Nature of the Universe
( This may not seem relevant - but it is!! It will get you in alignment to ALLOW and RECEIVE )
We live in a dynamic, ever-changing universe. Just look out of your window! Is it ever the same? Seasons change, winds turn, trees grow, clouds come and go….and yet we human beings crave for certainty to give us a safe feeling. The truth is - change and uncertainty are the essential nature of the universe. When you accept this, you align yourself WITH the universal forces, instead of against.
You have to understand that this uncertainty is not your enemy, it is your best friend. This uncertainty is unlimited potential - it is the zero-setting for all manifestation. The Indian yogis understand it better than anyone else, they are the masters at this. My years in India have given me a wealth I cannot express in words.
Life is a healthy, free flowing river. When you let go and join the flow of life, trusting the current, it will take you to new places, new encounters, new people, new loves. When you pine and long for a person from your past, you get stuck and block the flow of life-force. The very things you want move away from you, simply because you want them, and your alignment set to negative.
Let's get one thing clear. Uncertainty in this context does not mean doubt, it refers to the ever-changing, never-static quality of the universe.
SO you want to be a manifestation master - you have to stand on this uncertainty - not only embrace it , but use it as a TOOL and as an opportunity. If the universe is renewing itself every moment, it's your golden chance to renew yourself. Yesterday's apartment can be turned into tomorrow's mansion. Yesterday's rejection, into adoration today….
When you are pining and longing for a person, you are NOT loving them, you are indulging in a personal party of misery and lack - therefore you are not transmitting vibrations of love. The more of this energy you send out, the more it will repel this person fom you.
If you truly LOVE a person, what does it matter where they are, with whom they are, as long as they are happy? You may certainly wish and intend that they be with you, but if you are jealous, hateful, fearful, the person receives each of these vibrations. So….let go, with love !!
When you combine clear intention with detachment, you get what you want.
intention + let go = receive
But this let-go…it has to come from deep within, it has to become a life belief.
So, to get your ex back-
1) Stop the longing - it is a self-destructive vibration (that reaches the ex).
2) Make the intention that you want him/her back, release this intention into the universe.
3) Then forget all about it.
4) Wipe your life-slate clean and blank.
5) Make a new intention - I enjoy a fabulous love-life - with a new love!! ja, ja :-)))
( sounds contradictory and disloyal - but this is vital - it puts out the signal that you're a healthy spirit )
6) Practice the art of positive selfishness.
7) Plunge into life - in every area - live in the moment, to the very fullest!!
And believe me, as I got happy and strong in my own life, the man who had walked away started to come back - slowly. When he first began to make contact, he was careful, as if he was almost afraid of the energy he had experienced before. But this time it was a different energy, an attractive one. Very soon he started to contact me daily, and still does. As for me, I have changed. I have made no move towards him. I do answer one out of 5 of his messages. He's really crazy about me. At this point I commit to nothing. The choice is mine to make!
*You can try it if you feel attracted to do so. I have. It worked. I don't use it anymore - I don't feel the need. The above-mentioned formula works better and balances you in all areas of life.
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