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just yesterday i posted that i need a break from loa and this forum.
i said "screw it", "i am done with trying, affirmations and all the stuff"...
and today? BAM- success!! a manifestation came true. 
its a bed!! a nice and big one. and for free. and all i did, was thinking for a short moment- i wish i could lay beside my son when he is here and just wished i could be able to hug him and sleep beside him. while i thought that, i wasnt feeling good at all, in fact i was crying and "needy" to have a big bed. beside that i cant sleep beside my son, my back is hurting each night, but didnt have the money to afford a new one.
today at work i went into our break- room. there was a flyer from a very nice workmate. big and almost new bed for free- and her number. i called her cause she said its rushing, it will get out tomorrow. left a message on her mailbox, thought it might be away anyway cause it was sooooo nice. went around the corner-- she came straight to me-- the bed is yours!!!  i was sooo happy and i still am very very grateful for that. finally something good came into my life again.
strangely men kept looking at me today, started to flirt with me, have been more than nice to me.... and me? i came to work almost crying.
the reason why i post is....
its not most important to feel good, to be in the vortex. of course, life goes easier when youre happy- affirmations can give you the feeling "to do something" or just make you feel good. but afterall, its about letting go. give it out of your hands, to the universe. i found it really stressful to be happy all the time and its just not possible always. but there is no need to worry about that in the end. send your wish out, then forget about it and the universe will take care of it and of you!
we cannot rush or force things to happen, but we can trust that there is a bigger picture behind everything and even if we dont get what we wanted, we dont know all, there is a reason for it and it will all make sense in the end.
the universe took care of me when i was scared, sad, needy and really like f... it all.
men flirted with me when i was vibrating more than low. i got my bed, even when i felt like nothing good will ever happen to me again.
my conclusion?

god IS watching, someone is taking care of us.
its enough to send our wish out, everything else is not in our hand.
 

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I just wanted to share a story of how I got back with my Ex, and what happened afterwards. I feel there are so many people here that feel like that one person is the best and no other can even come close. Now I know I am being a little hypocritical as I am also in the process of wanting to get back with my ex but I think it’s important to share. 

I’m not going into too much detail over why we broke up; trust me it was a terrible situation. In any case she left me after 3 years and I was devastated. She called me about 3 weeks later and told me she had a new boyfriend. I took that very hard; in fact it shattered my entire world. I stopped eating and lost about 30 pounds the first month. I would hide at work when I had a chance, because I would just start to break down and cry uncontrollably. I did everything people tell you not to do , which is spam call and I even drove by her house like a idiot couple of times to see if she was there. Every time I tried to get close she would just tell me to move on.  I started to pray, and even before knowing LOA I was writing about us being together. Even though I knew she had a boyfriend I had so much desire to be with her I didn’t even care, it didn’t even bother me. I just kept pushing and praying and just pouring my heart and soul into it. After a few months I met a girl, il call her B, and while we started to date I just knew in the back of my mind I was still in love with my Ex.  Eventually the relationship broke down because I was just unable to let go of the past. Something in my heart was just telling me that I had to keep fighting. This went on for a few more months until I finally said I had enough, I can’t do this anymore.  I was driving to my ex’s house to see her one last time and go out with our old friends. When I picked her up she had a huge smile on her face and she said yes I want to work it out with you. I was probably the happiest man on the planet.

Some time passed and while we still had problems I was happy that I got her back like I wanted to. Out of the blue the girl B called me and said a friend was having a party why don’t you come down. Thinking nothing of it I went there. I was just sitting there and one of my friends told me he got this girls number and how she was great, I was happy for him and impressed lol. They started to date and one night he invited me over to play poker with them and some other people at her house.  I left my girlfriends place and drove there, expecting nothing. I knocked on the door and her sister opened it, and in that very moment it was like knowing this was the person I was always looking for. She felt the same way, she later told me. Eventually I left my girlfriend and we started to date, which was over 5 years.

The point is you never know what chain of events will bring you something that you really want, and even if you do get that person maybe the universe has someone else that’s been waiting in the shadows the entire time.  I spent over 6 months of torturing myself to get this woman back, only to fall in love at the first sight with someone a few months later.  It’s kind of funny looking back at the chain of events, at all the things that happened only for me to reach a person I always wanted to be with.

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Hi everyone, 
I'm new to you all but not to this forum. I wanna share my loa experience with you all. Bascially my gf broke up with me around 2 and a half month ago. I was desperate to get her back . I was in a mess , had exams coming on. It was just before xmas and new year etc. i searched through the net n finally came across loa in mid january. I was truly inspired as i read all of ur advices. I got to know about the secret andte power on here. I would read everyday about whats new and everyone's success but i never wrote on anything on the forum. I followed all the advices doing affirmations, gratitude journal and vision board. I was skeptical at some point but i believed. We had contact 3-4 times since we broke up but nothing was hopeful at that point. I kept doing and feeling good. Many times i would feel down n i'd come back n read and listen to the secret and power and the vortex audiobooks. So, after more than a month on no contact, i saw her in a party saturday last. I moved on already. We met n said hi. But i was talking to many people in the party and didnt give her attention( i didnt do that on purpose). But there were many girls around me. Next day i called her because of some issues happend regarding after the party. She wanted to meet me badly, we met up in a bar and she confessed that she loves me . She is so desperate to get back to me, she said she is willing to do anything. I didnt rush and it was not surprising she came back as i believed and saw us together all the time when i was doing visualizations. I did lots of Remote seduction. She is back and loves me more than anything now. I said i would post my success story here when it happens, and here i am. I also attracted money for the first time with loa. I wana say thanks to you all. You guys are amazing people. I said to myself that this world is full of loving human beings when i read your advices and all the good things you wish for others. I send you all lots of love and all good things and that you get what you want
Daksh x

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   It is surprising that a lot of people miss out on receiving money and their desires due to judgement. The judgement of money is a big topic and I would like to cover some key points and bring them to your attention.
   The media portrays rich people usually as the bad guys. They are greedy, sometimes unhappy, also in a competition for increase of their wealth, and will take from others. While there are some people out there like that, there are many rich people, some that I know personally, that are far from that. They are extremely giving, outgoing, down to earth, and very good hearted people. They used their creative ability to gain their wealth and freedom, and didn't worry, or didn't put much attention on the judgement of money that the world sees. Remember the movie Titanic and how the upper class was snobby and the lower class was having so much fun? That judgement is still around today.
   I used to have the fear of judgement and in some cases, I still do. Judgement on how I earned my money. You see, I want to earn money easily. I want money to come to me without me putting in long hours, or having to give up my freedom. I was scared that people wouldn't think I deserved to earn, or to be given that amount of money. But the truth is, this is want I wanted to create, others could do the same if they so chose, or do differently. It is their choice. So consciously I knew it didn't matter what they thought, but sub-consciously I didn't want that judgement, whether it was that I got given 1 million dollars through a relative that passed away, the lottery, 50/50 draw, random prize, or through the work that I do. I just didn't want that judgement. It was so powerful in my sub-conscious mind, that is pushed money away from me. So it become hard to earn money, the exact opposite than what I wanted. Once I noticed this (for the second time in my life) I decided I really needed to look at my wants, my beliefs, and the judgement of money. I wanted to give more in use value, than I received in cash value, that way it is more than just about the money, and I get the feeling of gratitude.
   Now I even though I may still slightly care what people think, I don't let it run my life. I reject the negative thoughts and energy that are sent my way if any, and move on with the life I created. The most judgemental people, and the people that will want to bring you down, are usually the most uneducated people about attraction, Universal Laws, and about manifestation. And that's okay, they don't know any better. If they did, they would stop complaining and start asking “Can you teach me how I can receive money that easily too?”.  You see, it is all about perception. It is how you look at the judgement of money that will dictate whether it will benefit you, or slow you down. And as usual, the choice is yours.

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I've been reading all the posts on this forum very intently and really trying to absorb it all and it just makes me feel peaceful...I have recently been part of a very funky breakup with a lot of confusion and back and forth stuff etc...it turns out he was not being honest and I was hurt in the end...of course there was another girl involved etc..it's been very difficult for me to detach but I finally feel like I'm getting closer...I'm still thinking of him a lot but in a less needy kind of way...and less sad but sometimes it's still there and difficult ....I am saying affirmations and sending loving thoughts,which I just started and I've been meditating also and reading a lot...I still feel in my heart he loves me and will be mine again...even though I had anger for him....but I have been working on the forgiveness which I know is important...my question is how do I get over the hump of being halfway detached and totally loving myself....my desire has been stated but I know that's not enough...I still miss him sometimes ughhh this can be so hard but I know I've gotten stronger....any suggestions are appreciated...thank u!!!

Much love....peaches

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since i believe that god/angels/universe work all together, i found an article about 15 signs to know that they are communicating with us 
very interesting to know and some sound very familar 

White feathers
Perhaps one of the most well-known signs you've been visited by an Angel, these magical blessings are something many of us keep an eye out for and treasure once we discover.
Often referred to as 'calling cards,' they're left as welcome reminders that Angels are there for us if we need them and continually watching over us each day.
   

Pennies
Celestial beings will often leave coins for those they are watching over – in fact, it's thought that's where the expression 'pennies from heaven' originally came from!
Left to console and reassure those who find them – generally when they're feeling a little blue or under the weather – they're said to be tossed by angels to make smiles out of frowns.
   

Butterflies
The beautiful insects are frequently sent to us by our lost loved ones, either to remind us they're always watching over us and nearby, or just to let us know they're OK.
   

Robins
Also signifying a visit from a deceased family member of friends, these are always a welcome sight and will often visit the same gardens year after year, reassuring those who see them that their passed loved ones are still near.
   

Rainbows
If you're thinking about Angels and a rainbow suddenly catches your attention, it's likely to be one of these celestial beings confirming their presence to you – even more spectacular when there's been no rain!
   

Scents
Sometimes those we've lost will remind us of their presence by surrounding us with a particular fragrance or smell that makes us think of them, so take note of any familiar aromas that waft your way – you never know, they might just be a sign from a deceased loved one! Angels also like to make their appearances known through the power of smell and will often leave floral trails in the areas they have visited.
   

Dreams
Angels and deceased loved ones will also often come to us in while we sleep as this tends to be the time we're most relaxed and receptive. Generally speaking, these will be more vivid than your regular ones and remain in your mind much fresher.
   

Sparkles of light
Depending on their colour, these messages will usually be sent by the angel whose help you need most at the time – if you've been going through a hard time, for instance, and keep seeing green sparkles every where you go, it could be a sign from Archangel Raphael – the Angel synonymous with healing – letting you know he's there to help you.
   

Touch
This is likely to be very subtle and either feel like a soft brush on your arm or neck, or a tingling sensation across your back.
   

A Voice
Seemingly coming out of nowhere, this is one of the most obvious signs an Angel's come to visit you and will either literally tell you it's there for you out loud, or reassure you – perhaps when you are feeling frightened or uncertain – through a little whisper that everything is going to be OK.
   

Music and television
Hearing a song or lyric on the radio using words that help, reassure or confirm something for you is never a coincidence, but the work of angels attempting to clarify or ease a situation for you. Similarly, if you happen to be flicking through channels and come across a show or documentary that relates to something that's been troubling you at the time, don't ignore it; it could be a message from the celestial realm giving you your answer!
   

books and magazines
The next time a meaningful piece of writing grabs your attention, whether it's a book suddenly falling from a shelf as you walk by, or words in a magazine that instantly catch your eye, take a moment to read what they say; you'll be amazed at how often they'll relate in some way to your current situation. Every time they do, you can be sure it's a message from an Angel.
   

Telephone calls
If you suddenly receive a call from someone you really need support from at the exact moment you most need them, you can be sure an Angel's intervened somewhere along the way, either making them think of you at just the right time or giving them the clarity and wisdom to offer you the advice you need.
   

Buildings and advertising slogans
This could be something simple as asking Archangel Michael for help and then noticing a building named St Michael's shortly after – a sure sign he has heard your call and is there if you need him. However, angels will also send their messages to you in a number of different ways so make sure you look out for any recurring slogans on billboards, shop names or roads that seem to strike a chord with you.
   

Angel shapes
Never underestimate how clever angels can be; they are all around us and can physically appear – in the form of an outline or shape – in almost anything, from the clouds in the sky to the bubbles in your bath!

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 I am going to do this and post the results 





 

 
7 Day Manifestation Experiment

April 3, 2011 by Steve 



Some people really struggle with manifestation: intentionally creating something out of nothing.  I had a client who came to me feeling a little overwhelmed with all the distractions outside of him.  He complained that he didn’t have enough time to complete tasks and that there was just too much going on for him to manifest his goals and dreams.



A likely story…

The reality is that he was focusing too much on his outer world. He was giving too much attention and energy to his environment – and by placing his attention on his environment he was reinforcing THAT VERY environment…

…and then wondering WHY he was not creating what he wanted?



It’s sort of like printing out your resume on a piece of paper – whiting out a mistake you made on that paper and then re-printing your resume and being surprised to see the mistake show up again.

Duh?

You can’t change the paper copy until you MODIFY the digital version.

And you can’t change your outer world until you MODIFY your inner digital world.


Do you get that?


You are ALWAYS reinforcing whatever you put your attention on because your attention creates your reality.  When you focus on everything that his happening outside of you, you get more of what is OUT THERE.

Which is fine when it is stuff you want, but what about when it is NOT?

You need to start fresh and go INSIDE.  That’s why I decided to run an experiment with my client.  An experiment that would renew his faith in the process of manifestation and his ability to create something from nothing.

As part of this experiment I asked him to choose 3 things he would like to see manifest over the next 7 days; things HE REALLY wanted in his life.  Here is what we came up with:

-someone to ask him out for a beer at the local pub
-someone in his family to cook dinner for him
-to win the card game he attends on Thursday

Then we went back to the basic principles of manifestation.  I gave him specific instructions on how to attract what he wanted.  Then I asked him to “test-out” this theory over the next week – a 7 day period.

The results please!

He CREATED EVERY SINGLE thing on his list in only 4 days:

-he had someone ask him out for a beer at the local pub
-his partner cooked dinner for him later that week
-he won the card game on Thursday

It was that easy.


7 Day Manifestation Experiment
Run your own 7 Day Manifestation experiment to give you more confidence that you can create something out of nothing.


Use these 3 steps:

Step 1: Write a list of things you REALLY WANT to see manifest in the next 7 days (they must be believable to you).

Step 2: Visualize each item on that list as if you already have it. (do this daily)

Step 3: Post your results to acknowledge you are a POWERFUL creator. (important if you want bigger and better things to show up!)

Easy-peasy… 1-2-3!


 

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Hello,

I wanted to share my story...or at least one. We have always attracted into our lives, but in 2007 is when I became conscious of LOA and have been using it since. Sometimes I use it and it works out...other times it feels really hard. And then there are still those times I attract something I don't like and then want to kick myself in the pants because I know how LOA works and none of it was there on accident.

Here is my fun story:

I was working in an office environment. Same company for 5 years. In a cubicle. A lot of people would have seen this as a lot of security. Good pay, benefits...etc. But it was hard work. And it stressed me out completely. I was getting migraines every day. My body hurt constantly. I was depressed. I felt depressed in my cubicle. I just wanted to escape. At home, nearly every day I would tell my dog, "I wish I could just be here with you, in yoga pants and work".

Well, after saying that for about 6 months (wanting to leave for over a year), I resigned. It looked like, from an outside perspective that it was on a whim. It wasn't. My life has been a roller coaster since then. Part exciting...mostly scary. And then I was offered a PT position to work from home. Then it turned into full time. Just 2 weeks ago I realized I was at home, in yoga pants, with my dog...working.

Now. I am still trying to get to the point where the $ matches all of this, etc. but this was so affirming to me that LOA DOES work!!! And I didn't put it on paper. I just talked about it constantly. To my dog. Let's face it. When we are talking to our pets, there is no mask. Emotions are safe. So I was speaking, in truest desire to her. I made a space and it arrived.

Another fun story:
A friend who uses LOA too, a few years ago, every single day started writing about her future partner. She declared a wedding date, how long courtship would be...all the details of what she wanted. She did this every day for months. She started dating people and the regularity lessened but she still did it. Then she met a guy she got really involved with and it dropped off dramatically. Within 6 mo they were engaged. A year later they were married. Upon clearing her apt out to move into their new house a few weeks before they were married, she found the notebook. She almost passed out. Her upcoming wedding date was the exact same month she had written but forgot about. In fact, they were thinking Spring of that year but his father's death sped things up and affected their choice. Every single thing she wrote down...happened. They are now expecting their first child. She still practices LOA, too.

Just wanted to share...

Blessings!

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Hi!

I am totally new here. Not new to LOA but here. To this forum. I registered just so I could post on something I found on a search engine.

I have seen LOA work personally in my life. It's always good to find new people and places that share the mindset and question the how.

I hope I can help at least one person here.

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Hi guys,i know you all want to hear success stories about getting an ex back.i found this success story on this site(http://exboyfriendhelp.com/forum/topic.php?id=4217). alhough it is less related to LOA but i think it is showing the power of letting go and focusing on yourself.it is written by HeidiSmith.
Hi girls. 6 months ago i was looking on this site for help and guidance. My boyfriend of 3 years left me after an argument I initiated. I was so shocked and heartbroken I begged and pleaded. Nothing was working. I couldn't eat but man I could sleep! I am someone who finds it very hard to sleep at night but I was a sleep by 9 everynight. I wished I would never wake up, I was only ever happy in my sleep. I looked forward to bedtime and would count down every hour. I tried nc from him and lasted two days!! I "HAD" to speak to him. I thought I would try and be like the girl he fell in love with and I'd try nd make him jealous by telling him how I'm going out clubbing (I was really at home crying lol) It was then I realised none of this is working. It's been a month and he is getting more and more distant every week. I had enough I was all out of tears, all out of ideas. I told him I agreed with the break up. We are not right for eachother and that I needed time to myself. He agreed but seemed quite pissed at the idea of it.

The first week was the hardest. I had withdrawal symptoms. Like he was my drug. Lol. I'd want to write to him just to write 'hey I miss you' but I didn't. I would have looked so needy. He wrote to me 3 weeks in asking if I'm ok. But I ignored. And carried on no contact. I had a lot of problems that wrecked our relationship and I needed to work on them on my own before I could even think of getting bk together. I was crazy jealous bk then. I would hack his Facebook. His email. I was queen psycho. I had no confidence in myself or our relationship. I bought the secret book and the power audio. I realised I broke the relationship not him. It must of been hard not to be trusted and accused all the time. I'd be so moody about little things and I'd rarely want sex. Why would he want to say. I'm glad I figured that out because I now knew the problems I could fix. He knew nothing aboutwhat I was doing as I deleted Facebook. I was very mysterious. I got my hair cut, I went tanning ( I'm so brown at the moment) I bought this hair curler thing and I do my hair like Kim kardashians. I bought all new clothes. I started wearing heels all the time Whitened my teeth. I got my nails and toes done every 2 weeks. I started pampering myself basically. And I ooze so much confidence. Something I never had before.

After every month I felt so strong. I used to be this girl who thought I could never live without him. I would have rather died then be without him but I was happy. I missed him yes but i was no longer in pain. I had been nc for 4 months at this point. I was drifting off to sleep and I got a text message. I looked and it was him. "hey I know you don't want to speak to me ever again but I miss you". I smiled but that's just words of corse he misses me but that doesn't mean he wants to be with me so I ignored deleted Nd went bk to sleep. The next morning another message "please". What didn't he get ? I dnt want to be his friend. Ignored deleted. A couple of days later he sent me a looooong 3 page message about how he made a mistake. He has been miserable. Feels worthless and didn't no what he had till it was gone. He asked if he could see me to discuss this more. It was getting harder to ignore. I left it a week and agreed to meet up. I was pretty blunt. I wrote ok meet me this Saturday for lunch I can't do any other time as I'm busy. He was very excited.

It came to that Saturday. I will admit. I was nervous and excited. I got up early and done my hair and make up perfectly. I wore this white sundress I had bought 2 weeks ago with strappy wedges. I felt Spanish lol my mum told me i looked like a model. But that's just mums aye. I don't no whether to believe her sometimes lol. I made sure I was late so I wasn't sitting there by myself. I went in and there he was. Was so weird. I hadn't seen him in 5 months. It was like looking at a stranger. I faked a huge newly White smile and said hello and asked him how he was. I didn't want to seem nervous at all. The last time he had saw me I was crying and was desperate. Now his presence didn't faze me. He looked sooooo shocked. He could stop smiling and looking at me. He wanted to know so much about what I had been doing. I told him I had been really busy actually. We was laughing and being very friendly. I wasn't flirting with him whatsoever though. He wanted to know if I was seeing anyone and I told him "it's none of his bees wax" with a big smile on my face. He laughed. It had been 45 minutes and I told him I had to go. I made plans to go shopping with myolder sister. He looked so upset that I was leaving so soon. I didn't want him to end it so I cut it short. I wanted to be in control. I kissed him on the cheek goodbye and he hugged me so tight and sAid he missed the smell of my perfume. I left and went shopping

when I got home he had text me saying "thanks for meeting me. You are so beautiful". I didn't reply. It's not as if he asked me a question . 2 nights later he knocked at my door with flowers. He asked if he could come in. I wanted to say no but it's a lot harder to ignore someone to their face!! So I said sure but I'm going to sleep soon. He broke down crying. Telling me he made a mistake. That I'm over him and can get anyone I want and why would I want him back after all he put me through. I told him it's ok I forgave him weeks after the break up. I'm not angry at him. He asked if I would be with him again. I told him I need space right now (roles Are flipped) he just started crying again. I hugged him. I felt bad. He said I'm not giving up and left. We started going out every weekend. Just fun things like the movies and out for dinner. One night he wanted to kiss me so I let him. It was amazing. It was filled with so much love. I told him after we can take things slow and see where they go. I just want to have fun. He was vey happy he kissed me and hugged me so tight saying thank you thank you. I'm going to make this up to you.

Well it turns out he doesn't understand what slow means because last night he proposed to me lol.

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Hi all,

I just came across this video. Its about becoming a successful sportsman. But the things that are told in the background are something to learn from. A lot of important messages are presented in this video.
Take a look and let me know your take on it.

What I believe is these things can be applied to each and every area of our life. And this is the way The Law of Attraction works best for me.

1) Decide where you want to end up.
2) Stop your excuse generator.
3) Get into the field and start doing things.
When you start its not necessary that you must know each and everything about where you want to end up. Somehow you will be able to figure out what to do next, when you start working towards your goals.

Think of a car driving through the night. The headlights only go a hundred to two hundred feet forward, and you can make it all the way from California to New York driving through the dark, because all you have to see is the next two hundred feet. And that's how life tends to unfold before us. If we just trust that the next two hundred feet will unfold after that, and the next two hundred feet will unfold after that, your life will keep unfolding. And it will eventually get you to the destination of whatever it is you truly want, because you want it.
-Jack Canfield (From The Secret)

This is the video.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lsSC2vx7zFQ&feature=related

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a while ago, i was not much into loa, but still send some "orders" out to the universe.

the mobile phone from my daughter got broken, well she is 17 and its not good for a teenie to have no mobile 

i said--- i order a mobile phone which she likes very much- of course i had no money due to my negativity....
2 weeks after that her friend gave her one and said- you can keep it
and she loved it and still use it...

i was so happy for her and another proof that it WORKS 

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To all my friends..

I came across a very nice paragraph which suddenly stuck my attention..It was like eye opening for me!I feel nice after redaing it..Infact powerful
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Unconditional Love is Pure Unresisted Appreciation

Real love is selfless and free from fear. When you love from a place of freedom, you feel pure unresisted appreciation towards the person. True love is unconditional without demand for return. Its joy is in the joy of giving. Love is God in manifestation, and the strongest magnetic force in the universe. Pure, unselfish love draws to itself its own. It doesn’t need to seek or demand. Almost none has the faintest idea of real love. People are selfish, harmful or fearful in their affections, thereby losing the thing they love.

You may think you love a person so much to the point that how could you not need that person’s love back? You might think that if the universe brought someone else, that person could never be as good as the one you currently love. But the equivalent means equal or better than. It would never be less. If you give a perfect love, you will never get anything less than your heart’s deepest desire and fullest satisfaction. If there really is no one better, then you would get him or her. So love fearlessly and freely.

The Difference between “Desire” and “Need” in Love: We all have the need to love, and the need to be loved. The desire can be specific, but the need should be general. We may desire to love a specific person but it should not become a need. We may desire to be loved by a specific person but it should not become a need. Strong desire is fine, but a need creates an attachment whereby you are stuck in keeping your expression of love only towards one person, or only expecting love from one person. If the person you love, loves you in return, then that is a wonderful match. Otherwise be free to allow the universe to continue to bring you a vibrational match.

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So I did end up losing my job. But I believe thats only the beginning, I feel like the wheels are in motion to help me reach my dream career 

My ex, its been 8months now. I have well and truly detached. I'm just happy, he's hardly ever in my thoughts, there's no hate for him, and no urges to be with him AT ALL. I made a big decision to just break contact with him in the New Year. I couldn't heal with him around, I had to do this for me and put myself first. He text last week but I left it and I've not heard from him since. If he comes back, we'll see, it will require some thinking, if he doesn't- I really hope he finds happiness.

The job I got fired from, I met a guy. Hes a different race & religion to me. He's a bit of a player and I know hes been around. There isn't a future in it for a million and one reasons but he makes me happy- here and now. He's actually really similar to me and knows all about LOA! He's been honest telling me he's not looking for a relationship but (I know) he has a lot on his plate right now. He was worried after I lost my job that we would drift... its weird whats happening between us but if I'm honest, I actually would like to give a relationship with him a go. I deserve it 

I have just forced myself to feel happy no matter what. Happiness is a form of gratitude in itself. I really made it my hearts desire to put me first this year and suddenly, letting go of my ex became the easiest thing in the world. Its important you really do keep busy AND learn to love yourself again. In relationships, you lose yourself and it takes a while for the clouds to clear, but when they do then you'll look at life with so much clarity.

If anyone would like any help on detachment please ask, I'll explain it as best I can.

The LOA IS working in a way that I cant really understand at the moment but I'm not questioning what the Universe has in store! Its protected and guided me to this very point where I am happy, content and racing to my dreams!

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