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When people ask us how long does it take for something to manifest, we say, "It takes as long as it takes you to release the RESISTANCE. Could be 30 years, could be 40 years, could be 50 years, could be a week. Could be tomorrow afternoon."

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I have realised that I have so much to be grateful for right now.

For those who don't know I will be releasing a CD with my band later this month.
It has been a long time in the making (about a year and a half). I had been getting so frustrated at how long it was taking that I finally decided to give it up and let it come out when it was ready. Well, now it's ready and so many positive things have already started manifesting around it.

- the local community radio is going to make it the feature album leading up to the launch (where they play it a lot and people can win copies of it)
- we got a $2000 grant for promotion incl. posters and radio ads
- one of the ladies that come to my art classes last week told me her husband is the music co-ordinator at a mainstream radio station and if I give her a cd she will give it to him.. (maybe he will play it??)
- Got a message from someone who runs a radio show in the states, he saw us play last year and he is offering radio play in the US

WOWOW! So many great things!!

Some other cool stuff...

-I got a check for $100 in the mail because I had over paid a bill that I thought I still had hundreds more owing on it.
-I am saving money for the first time in my life!!
-I am paying my debts off and soon I will be debt free for the first time in 10 years

In the last 2 weeks I had written in my gratitude journal that I would like to receive..
- a bunch of flowers
- to be asked on a date- have only ever been asked on a date once in my whole life!
(Just as a side note, I watched a doco on dating in Australia and all of these beautiful TV personalities saying they had NEVER been asked on a date in Ausratlia, but when they go overseas, they get asked out like twice a day!! I think I need to move countries! Australian men- booooo- haha)
- to get a phone call from 'my guy'


yep!! got all of these things this week.

At school one of my pre primary kids picked and gave me a flower.. When others saw this they all did the same.. Until I had a bunch of them.. haha gorgeous!! Apologies to the gardener.

Going on a date this arvo- not really attracted to him, but he was a nice guy- and he was Irish not Australian of course (Sorry Aussie men, I have given you a bad wrap, but really, you need to try just a little bit!!)

Not one but two phone calls from 'my guy' and I know at least we are friends again after our awkward night weeks ago.

I could go on forever about the amazing things that are happening....
and I am so grateful for all of it!!! 

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Ok so, I know this guy whos been in the same boat as lot of you, Trying to get his girl back and such. I told him about what he should do, letting go, being happy being present etc. This is the result.

About a month ago, This guy Desided that HE was going feel happy as best he could, which was difficult since he has become a grim pessemist due to his life. It wasn't easy sailing but he put what he had into it.

as a result, a few days ago was his birthday and part of him was hoping that the girl would say -something- about his birthday, anything maybe. Most of the day, nothing happening so he went about his day, going to lunch with his father's side, then to play miniature gold with his mother's side, parents are divorced.

He admited that there were times he thought about her breifly but kept putting his focus on himself and his day. Enjoying his familes company and time. As he went home with his Mother's family, to have dinner and eat. he picked up his phone and saw the screen say "1 new message"

The way his phone is made he can't tell who the message is from until he acually opens it. all he saw was "happy Birth..." He thought maybe it was from the one fellow Joey from the insurance Co. who sent him a message last year, and was about to delete it, but when he opened it, the message read

"Happy Birthday ^^"

The ^^ face surprised him. because he knew only a few people who acaully did that. as he scrolled dow nto see who it was from, it was the girl he desires to be with. He got really excited and surprised he didn't know what to say or do. He let me know as soon as he found out and wondered what he should do. I reminded him, just keep doing what you've been doing. stay focused, detached and happy.

He agreed and reset himself and reply to her. They ended up texting back and forth all night. Laughing, teasing joking etc. He told me he was really exicted and I asked him "so what did you do, do you remember?" HE told me

"I did what you said, accepted everything that was happening in my life, wether it was related to the situation or not. I stayed focused on being present so I could feel peaceful and detached. and whatever we would become in life, I accept that too with no problem, no matter if I got what I wanted or not."

He told me he was goingto keep doing what he had been doing, and told me how touched he was that this happened. he said "I really dont care about my birthday because hardly anyone else does. I choose to make it just another day. Her texting me was amazing enough but she rememberd my birthday as well, AND wished me a happy brithday. I'm so touched"

It's normal to have doubts and not know if what your doing is working, but when you start to see results there is less internal friction and more motivation

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Hi all,

few months ago, I lost my diamond earring. Didn't know what day, when, or how I lost it, just noticed one day it wasn't in my ear anymore, and I never take my earrings off. I looked around the house, my car, my work space and found nothing. At that time, I just discovered LOA, so I said to myself: I will find it one day and really didn't stress too much about it,  as I had too much on my mind and somehow I really believed it would show up one day. I just put other really cheap earrings on and went on with my life, almost forgot about it. Well, today I found it! Almost 3 months later! It was on the floor in my house.

LOA works!!!

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I received this in e-mail and liked it very much. Hope you like this too.


Power of Belief
 
A businessman was deep in debt and could see no way out.
Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment.
He sat on the park bench, head in hands,
wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.
 

Suddenly an old man appeared before him.

"I can see that something is troubling you," he said.
 

After listening to the executive's woes, the old man said, "I believe I can help you."

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying,
"Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time."

Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.

The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller,
then one of the richest men in the world!

"I can erase my money worries in an instant!" he realized.
But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe.
Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.
 
With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment.
He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared.
But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.
 

"I'm so glad I caught him!" she cried.
"I hope he hasn't been bothering you.
He's always escaping from the rest home and telling people he's John D. Rockefeller. "

And she led the old man away by the arm.

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned.
All year long he'd been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.

Suddenly, he realized that it wasn't the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around.
It was his newfound self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.

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So many of you know that my bf and I "broke-up" in January, although I consider it a "break".  Things are on the mend but I know it will take time.  Anyway, I hadn't spoken to his mom in about three weeks.  She and I were very close.  For my birthday she gave a gift card to me for $25.  btw~ I rarely enjoy shopping and only go when I feel I "need" something.  I was driving back to my sister's from lunch yesterday and thought to myself "I should stop by the mall to see if this store has any brown boots on sale.  After all it is the end of winter and beginning of spring"  btw~ I never have any luck when shoes are on sale b/c I have "average size" feet so my size is usually gone.  After parking, I see a woman who reminds me of my bf's mom and thought "wouldn't that be funny if I ran into her at the mall?"  I proceed into the store and notice that the boots were on sale.  I didn't realize the sale rack with my size was on the opposite side of the department and started looking the the 9-9.5 section.  I was drawn to this boot but was a bit confused by the size so I tried it on and it fit!  Right above it was the matching boot.  Odd, seeing as they usually put one out and keep one in the back.  I looked at the price.  Originally $129 but marked down to $32.99.  With my gift card I only had a pay a little over $9 and it only took me a few minutes!!

I decided I needed to use the restroom before getting my car to go home when I thought to call Adam's mom to let her know what I purchased and the awesome deal I received.  Called her home. No answer.  Called her cell.  She answered and was at the mall!! I met up with her and got to visit for about 30 mins.  It was so nice.

I know I manifested seeing Adam's mom.  However, I listened to my intuition that took me to the mall and started this whole process.  So very cool and quite fun!

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To all my friends..

I came across a very nice paragraph which suddenly stuck my attention..It was like eye opening for me!I feel nice after redaing it..Infact powerful
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Unconditional Love is Pure Unresisted Appreciation

Real love is selfless and free from fear. When you love from a place of freedom, you feel pure unresisted appreciation towards the person. True love is unconditional without demand for return. Its joy is in the joy of giving. Love is God in manifestation, and the strongest magnetic force in the universe. Pure, unselfish love draws to itself its own. It doesn’t need to seek or demand. Almost none has the faintest idea of real love. People are selfish, harmful or fearful in their affections, thereby losing the thing they love.

You may think you love a person so much to the point that how could you not need that person’s love back? You might think that if the universe brought someone else, that person could never be as good as the one you currently love. But the equivalent means equal or better than. It would never be less. If you give a perfect love, you will never get anything less than your heart’s deepest desire and fullest satisfaction. If there really is no one better, then you would get him or her. So love fearlessly and freely.

The Difference between “Desire” and “Need” in Love: We all have the need to love, and the need to be loved. The desire can be specific, but the need should be general. We may desire to love a specific person but it should not become a need. We may desire to be loved by a specific person but it should not become a need. Strong desire is fine, but a need creates an attachment whereby you are stuck in keeping your expression of love only towards one person, or only expecting love from one person. If the person you love, loves you in return, then that is a wonderful match. Otherwise be free to allow the universe to continue to bring you a vibrational match.

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Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be

To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’

So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.

So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!

Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.

Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.

There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.

Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.

PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail

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Ok before anyone reads this post, let me warn you this is NOT about a positive manifestation. But it ENDS ON A POSITIVE NOTE. Its about how I attracted something negative by doing something really stupid. And how I have realized that 'what goes around definitely comes around'. My intentions for posting this here are these:
1. To show how powerful LOA is, literally
2. So that others can learn from my mistake and refrain from doing anything similar

So here is the story. I fought with my boyfriend over a very very silly issue. I knew the mistake was mine, but my ego did not let me accept it. My boyfriend is an angel really, and he puts up with most of my tantrums. Still I acted really bad and I called him a 'cheat' for a very silly reason. I insulted him for no mistake of his just out of my anger. After less than an hour a parent of one of my students called me up and started thrashing me for a very silly reason. She started insulting me very badly and finally called me 'cheat'!! My boyfriend did not do any mistake, but I still accused him of cheating. Just a few hours later I was accused of cheating by someone else, without my mistake again! As a matter of fact, I did not get angry with that parent because I realized I attracted that behaviour. I realized how the negativity I caused came back to hurt me! I now apologized to my guy and he just forgave me. I totally understand I am responsible for my life totally. I accept this with a smile and I promise myself to be careful about my feelings, behavior and of course, the words I speak.

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So I saw that Iron Ur had recommended reading "The Power of Now" and "The Inner Game of Tennis".  I've tried reading "The Power of Now", but could never get past the first two chapters, so I figured I'd try reading the Tennis book, since it had good reviews on Amazon and was said to be a short read. So far it's living up to the hype.

It's geared towards people who play tennis, but it's easy to see how improving your "inner game" can be useful for life in general. Actually, I think this book explains a lot of stuff I had been thinking about lately, which some of the threads on this forum have touched upon. Like how you can still manifest things without feeling detached or positive or how bad people still manage to manifest good things.  Being detached, feeling positive, forgiveness, unconditional love...those things aren't necessary to manifest.  They're just tools to help with quieting the mind, which the book refers to as "Self 1".

See in the book they talk about how we have two selves. Self 1 is the ego-mind and Self 2 is the body/sub-conscious (which is extremely powerful and capable of complex things). Self 1 is the teller who gives direction, while Self 2 is the doer. Problems occur when Self 1 becomes controlling and tries to micromanage Self 2 and do the work itself. Self 1 tries too hard and as a result sabotages Self 2. Self 1 would sort of be like trying to manifest a million dollars by working 120 hours a week.  While allowing Self 2 to manifest the million dollars would be just observing your situation and being open to whatever Self 2 discovers to be an opportunity.  So the goal is to get to a point where you trust Self 2 and allow it do its thing.

Anyway, the most interesting part of the book is how they describe detachment. I think a lot of times when people read about detachment (me included) they think it means to not care about whatever it is they're focused on and there's this huge emphasis on not feeling a certain way. But in this book, detachment means being an outside observer who doesn't judge.  The example they used was a man practicing his backhand technique in a mirror. The man knew he had to come down lower, with his arm (or whatever, I don't know tennis), but until he saw how he swung, he had no clue that what his body felt was the proper swing, was completely different from what he wanted to do.  So as he watched himself and adjusted to the movement he wanted to make, he became used to the new feeling of what the movement should feel like.  There was no judgement of the movements, no saying that this is wrong or right or I'll never get it. He just became immersed in the new feeling of what the movement should feel like.

It's kind of fascinating to think about.  Being detached is just being an non-judgmental observer. Its observing what you want and allowing yourself to come into alignment with it. While the feeling part isn't about ZOMG I feel great!!!!!!  It's....? I'm not quite sure how to explain this, but it seems that it's less about feeling great and more about feeling as if?  It's the "I know, like I know, like I know" part, I guess?

Anyway, that's just my impression of the first half of the book. The second half seems more tennis heavy so far, but I'm coming up on a section about visualization, so perhaps there's more interesting stuff.

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When you speak of something, you give it energy. The more energy you give something in your inner world, the more real estate it begins to takes up in your outer world.

Speech is often misused in today’s modern day society. Instead of being used to create, speech is used to destroy. Instead of being used to unite, speech is used to divide. While thoughts are kept to yourself for the most part, speech is directed to all who can hear.

When you speak of something, you begin to attract its essence towards you. Muhammad Ali once said, “I am The Greatest.” Whether you believed him or not, the more he said it, the more people believed his words. Today, he is still regarded as The Greatest, even if there are fighters today who are stronger and quicker.

Learn to speak as if every word is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Speak as if every word you say will come true very soon. When you speak in this manner, you will start to become very aware of what you say. People of a positive nature will be drawn by your aura, hanging onto your every word, because everything you have to say makes the atmosphere better, and makes others feel good.

Here are some subjects that you might want to focus on in day-to-day conversations. These subjects will lead to many friends, happiness, success, riches, and power:

    What you desire – When you know what you want, you are already halfway to getting what you want.
    How you’re going to get what you desire – There is something very contagious about someone who talks about what they want and how they’re going to get it. They are labeled “ambitious” and people are naturally drawn to these types of people because they have “success” written all over them.
    Things you like - While most people talk about what they hate, you will stand out as a breath of fresh air when you are consistently positive–shrugging off the negative and embracing what you are grateful for. You will attract more than just friends–you will attract admirers.
    Good times - There is always a wonderful atmosphere in the air when talking about good times that have already happened. Talking about good times is also an effective way to re-direct a negative conversation with a friend. The more often you make others feel good when they’re around you, the more they want to be around you and the more chance you have on influencing them to become more positive individuals.
    Things you are looking forward to - If you are in a currently in a bad position, focus on
    Things you like or admire about others - If you decide that you are going to talk about others, you might as well talk about the good in them. If you see no good in them, they are not worth discussing. However, when complimenting others, be sincere. Overdoing compliments in the wrong way will come off as flattery.

Here are subjects you should avoid talking about at all costs:

    Things you do not want to happen - The more you talk about something, the more energy you give it. A good example of this is how the media had endless coverage on the “War on Terrorism.” The more they spoke of it, the more power they gave it. When you want something to go away, you must talk about its opposite. Instead of focusing on the problem, you must focus on the solution.
    Gossip, criticism of others - Besides filling the air with negative energy, gossiping causes others to mistrust you. If you are known as a gossiper, do all in your power to amend your reputation.
    Negative events that have already happened – Stop giving it energy; let it die.
    Things happening right now that you do not find favorable -
    Racism – Many people want racism to go away but continue to talk about it. How will it go away if you continue to give it energy? When ancient societies wanted to destroy another society, they burned all buildings, books, and any traces of the society. They also made it punishable by death for people of their own civilization to speak about the conquered society.
    Death – Unless you are trying to die, don’t talk about death.

Dealing With Negative Talkers

When faced with someone who consistently speaks in a negative manner, you may briefly try to reverse their view of the world. However, it is usually an uphill battle that is not worth fighting. Misery loves company, and if you desire to achieve a happy life, you have no time for keeping the miserable comfortable. Lessen your time with these kinds of people if they exist in your life, and hope that they change for the better.

Applying The Law of Polarity

The Law of Polarity–which states that everything is two subjects–is the law you must remember when it comes to learning how to speak in a way that attracts desirable situations and outcomes in your life. Remember that North cannot exist without South, Good cannot exist without Bad–and since every subject has an opposite, guard your speech against the side you do not want, and focus all your energies on the side of the coin that you do want.(www.loablog.com)

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Folks,

Certainly not posting to blow my triumph but if it offers deeper clues on the wonderful working of the law then it indeed worth a share. No?

I was doing all very well in my career. Wanted more out of my Career. So, gave interview at one of the biggest banks ( can not disclose the name at the Moment).

Once the interview was over with US Guys, the HR called me few days ago and said, "Would you like to join us for Managerial Role"?

I said "Hell yes" :-)

I asked how is the Compensation Like? She said, she could not disclose that before seeking approvalfor it.

yesterday the HR Guys sent me offer letter, When i opened the Offer Letter E-Mail at my desk and saw the figure they offered me, I was like... got no words, completely stand still. I locked my computer and went to the small garden in office premise and sat there alone.

The mental scrrenshot of that Offer letter was still poping up in my head like Popcorns at the same time no words was coming out of mouth. Coz there was so much to come out, as if words were fighting which one should come First. :-)

Then few words won the race and came together and i said to myself, "This is it Ankur, You made it".  :-)

This is it, this was the offer i was always waiting for. Absolute Boost in my career in terms of Position and Money.

But how it all came along? I was so aware of not doing the same mistek many of us are committing here time and again, "Attached with the outcome". I had no idea in my mind in terms of Moeny and position that i expect from my next Job.

All i could feel was, "the wonderful feeling when i have it". And when i saw the offer, I did not match the Moeny i got or the position i got. I purely matched the joy i got out of it, which was exactly i asked for.

So, when soemthing manifests we need to be observent enough to identify that it was the outcome of what we asked for and thank for it, than to crib of not getting it in the way we expected it to be.

"I am Happy" :-)

Ankur

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i'm off to my ex's gig tomorrow, naturally i'm very nervous but excited too. i've finally managed not to have any high expectations. well not many. things are slowly starting to get better, i'm finally attracting some good signs into my life and i'm now taking the next step.  it would really be great if you sent me some positive vibes my way. thank you guys! xx

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Something I just want to make clear, partly because it makes so much sense to me but also because it may help other people.

What you want doesn't matter. It's what you believe that matters.

That's my biggest realisation. Yes, I want my ex back. But I have to work on my beliefs which surround that desire because they're not (currently) supportive.

It's been said that if you write down your beliefs, you write down the story of your life; sure, there are missing specifics but the fundamentals of what we believe are what show up in our life time and time again. I could write 5 statements about myself, for example, and all 5 of those could be found reflected in my world.

Ask yourself about your desire; does it feel good? Positive? Easy? Even neutral? Then, it's on its way. Any other feeling - doubt, fear, anxiety - means you need to work on your beliefs.

I've noticed a lot of negativity on here of late; that's fine, it's a journey, it's to be expected, but belief can be equated to trust and if we're not trusting, if we're not letting go of the edge of the swimming pool and venturing out towards deeper waters, then we might as well give up and go home.

Belief - okay, so not necessarily in a fervent, religious sense. I'm a carpy, cynical Brit with a dry sense of humour and a positively ambivalent attitude towards organised religion. But belief can be quiet, assumed, no big dramas either way.

I had the most insane manifestation today; I'm not going to go into details, but it was the craziest, most incongruous thing you could ever imagine. And after it had happened, I sat there and figured that this 'thing' that I'd manifested was something which I believed could happen, something I'd seen myself in before - a visualisation, I suppose. Now, this hadn't been anything terrifically well-rehearsed, nor diligent, but it was something around which I had no blocks. It was a good thing that I didn't question the 'how' surrounding it either, or I would have been absolutely felled by 'how' it came about. But I had no blocks. Doesn't mean I had a welcoming parade, dancing girls and flashing lights either. Sometimes, I think people believe that belief is something massive. A lot of the time it's not. It's just....not having drama or doubt or fear around it.

I hope this has helped someone - just remember; it's not about what you want, it's about what you believe

Tins

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