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'Focus on the journey'.
'You can get what you want if you can be happy NOW, without the physical presence of it'.
'What you want will be yours when you don't 'need' it anymore'.

Etc

It's tricky, isn't it, when you're still existing in a paradigm of 'need to get to the goal'.

Here's something I've been doing, a mantra I've been using. It's soft, it goes general and it takes the focus off 'getting to the goal'.

'I am enjoying feeling the energy of God moving through me as I focus on this situation. I am looking forward to experiencing the energy moving through me more!'

If you change your focus to 'I love feeling the energy that creates worlds moving through me', then you enjoy that energy flowing through you no matter what 'physical' stage your manifestation is 'up to'.

It also changes your focus to the feeling.

Energy is ALWAYS moving. Enjoy the feeling of the flowing of energy moving through you Enjoy the physical evidence of the energy flowing and flow with your own stream of your own making.

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I think I'm going to post all my threads in here from now on because all stories are success stories, from the point of view of source

GRASSHOPPER

YESTERDAY, I was visited by a LARGE, bright green grasshopper. He / she came inside in the morning and sat on our window blind. In the evening, he / she was still inside but had moved places on top of the kitchen cupboard. I went to say hello and she kept flying / jumping onto me! I put a glass bowl over her and gently carried her outside. Again she flew over and sat on me...I moved her to some nice greenery...

WHO CARES?

I looked up grasshopper and the spiritual meaning of being visited by this animal totem. The grasshopper can JUMP great distances, and some of the meanings I read were about being able to 'jump through time and space'. It is a great joy for me at the moment, exploring jumping through parallel dimensions, conciously. Waking up and being magician is a lot of fun! The grasshopper is also a symbol of very good luck...

But wait, there's more!

My love also called me 'grasshopper' in at least one conversation and being called it is something I associate with him. Further, the LOA videos I've been watching by the awesome Andy Dooley, he also uses the term grasshopper.

SHUT YOUR PIE-HOLE AND DRINK GREEN TEA, GRASSHOPPER!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GiSWEEYbjFw

Hehehehe.

This is young grasshsoppers, signing off. Remember, the animals can tell us stuff!! They always do!!

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A lot of you know my story. I came on here Suoer Bowl Sunday distraught about a guy and a mistake I made that pushed him away. He told me he never wanted to talk to me again. I let go knew he would be back by the following Friday and sure enough he was. But by Tuesday if valentines week he was gone again. I feel apart. I ended up in the darkest deepest place that I never thought I would be again.

At that moment I started doing RS and affirmations and visualization and knew that no matter what we would end up married. 2/18 He texted me saying he just wanted to be friends, that he could not be in a relationship with me right now but he thinks I am the sweetest greatest girl so he definately wants me as a friend. I was hurt and pissed but we talked on the phone. Best conversation we ever had. Laughed, it was awesome and we are now friends. Well if you want to call it that.

Fast forward a bit. Since that day he started texting every day. I have gone out with him where he gets jealous that guys look at me and buy me drinks. It makes him start acting like he's my man and he kisses me and starts being all over me.

This past week I we went out Sunday night, Monday night, Thursday night and I spent the night at his house. We then spent all day Friday together. It was the best 2 days I have ever had. He openned up to me and said he is open to being in a relationship with me, he just wants to get to know me and by us hanging out he will. And that I am the coolest chic he knows and wants to start hanging out more.

He won't believe that I am not dating anyone right now because any time he sees me I am glowing and smiling because I am in my vortex and love life and am so utterly happy and high on life. He says he loves how positive I am and my smile is amazing it kills him because I have a perfect smile. He is not happy with his life so I told him I would try and help him find peace and happiness.

Anyways, while he has not said you are my gf, he acts like it, he is not seeing anyone else, he introduces me to everyone and as you can see we pretty much are going full speed ahead and the best part, I am still in my votex and am still in a place where after we spend time together, I can let go. I don't text him and obsess. I wait for him to contact me because I know he will. I know he's mine so I have nothing to fear. I am just enjoying life, being grateful for every moment and living life.

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I havent been online much as I've been way too busy with my success!

Lets start from the begining of last year (2012) my ex and I broke up on valentines day! My contract at work finished. My dog had passed. I was living with my ex at the time. I started indulging in the LOA for answers. I realised that everything that I feared happened. I didn't love myself hence why I never felt the love from my partner at the time. I begun to love myself become happier about the job I was looking for. I was distraught, each day I was grateful for everything. My ex finally moved out in July. I then scored the best job of my whole entire career. My friends and family helped. However I had to move.

I found a wonderful place of my own it is fantastic, I wanted enough room to have all of my belongings and it was quite rare to come across what I have now. I am grateful for this. I enjoyed going out with friends eating healthy. Wrote a wish list for my partner to have 119 qualities. Low and behold I had already met her, 8 years ago. We reconnected through a friend however we never ever spoke to each other. Things were great to start with. Then we had a falling out, she didn't think I was into her, however I didnt want to scare her off so I played it cool. She left me for 6 wks. I told her I was fine with that. However she had to collect her present that I made for her. We still spoke everyday. It took her a few weeks to come see me then finally the day she saw me I asked her if she wanted a hug she said no. So I said can I have one for me, she gave me a hug and we were laying on the creek bed by the water we ended up kissing and holding each other. That was the turning point back into our relationship.

During the 6 wks we weren't together I believe we both needed to be apart to realise what we have now! She is my princess, so beautiful, magical, mystical, honest, genuine, down to earth, loveable, our connection and chemistry blows my mind. I am amazed at how I feel... I love myself to recieve and give from my overflow! I am blessed to have been through everything to get to where I am now. She loves & supports me, compliments, adores, cherishes everything to have someone soo completly in love with you feels amazing. I cannot explain it - it's so wonderful! Everyday she tells me how much she loves me, how beautiful I am, compliments me whenever she gets the chance, it's true love at it's finest. All I ever wished was for her to be happy - and she says that this is the happiest she's ever been in her whole entire life because of me. Now that makes me happy. She is soo positive like myself it works well. She has 112 of those 119 qualities, more than I can ask for. Thank you. Ask believe and recieve!

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Today I was reflecting about resistances that keep me away from achieving what I want in life: It's my past, the things I've done. I wish I could go back in time and change it. Sometimes when I'm in alignment with what I want, I feel very very happy about it. But then, with all the negative environment I live in, I go back to my old negative thinking. All those memories come to my mind, and they make me feel terrible. I don't know how to cope with it, because I wanted to change it, but I can't change my past because it was something that just... happened, there's no turning back. How can I let go of it and live my life to the fullest? I heard we can't change the past, but we can change how to look at it, and then it changes. If I could just erase the memories, like brainwashing, I'd be okay. But I'm confused.

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Hey everyone!

I feel like spreading some positive energy today!  Even though J and I are not together at the moment, attracting him in the first place is a tremendous success for which I am so, so grateful!  Here is how it happened!

When my sister first met the man who would become her fiance online, I told her that online dating wasn't for me, and that I would rather meet someone maybe at work.  We wouldn't really like each other at first, and we would argue a lot.  But over time, we would fall for each other.  I told my sister this plan, but then forgot about it.

Eventually, I went away to University and met a guy that I instantly was attracted to.  He seemed to be interested in me, but we didn't talk very much, and I became a little obsessive about him.  I spent the entire next summer thinking about him, and wishing we would be together in the next school year.

I went on vacation with my family, and we saw a fireworks show, during which the narrator said that sometimes wishes are granted in the most unexpected way possible.  I thought, maybe this guy isn't the one for me, and that someone else was on his way.  That night, I wished with all my strength and thought, "Please, please, send me the love of my life!"  I still remember the overwhelming feeling in my chest that I had while making that wish!

Less than a month later, I went back to University and started my job at the library again.  My first day back, a guy that I had never met before introduced himself and asked if it was my first day.  I was a little annoyed, because I had worked there the entire previous school year, and we had never talked before.  Over the next couple weeks, I noticed that he always seemed to want to talk to me, and he would always work right next to me.

I was not instantly attracted to him, and we fought -- a LOT.  (Just like the situation I described to my sister!)  But it was lighthearted, and I found myself rushing to work every day to fight with him.  Seeing him became the highlight of my day!  I was on the bus going back to my apartment, when I thought, I am falling for this guy!

The more I found out about him, the more I liked him.  He was older than me, a graduate student, published author, marathon runner, had an amazing sense of humor, seemed at ease with everyone.  He is my idea of perfection.  Still, I thought maybe he just liked me as a friend, and we hung out a couple times.

Then, we confessed our attraction for each other!  I remember one day during work, I said (jokingly), "You have been so mean all day!"  And he replied, "No, I've been hard-core flirting with you all day!"

We spent five amazing months together, during which both of us knew we were each others' soul mates.  Every moment was perfect, we never fought seriously, and I just fell in love with him so easily.  It was the easiest thing I have ever done!  I told my roommate that it felt as though I've known him my entire life, and she said "A lot of people say it feels that way, when they meet the One!"  And I knew in that moment, he was the one for me.  I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him.  It wasn't some grand epiphany, it was just a place of knowing, and I was extremely content with and satisfied by it.

I have never loved anything or anyone more than I love J, and I am so grateful to him for everything he has done for me and for all the moments we had together!  I am so, so happy he came into my life!! 

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Hello all, I wanted to share my story about manifesting my dream jobs.

First, it is all about timing and alignment, knowing what I wanted and feeling like I deserved it. The thing to remember is your set point (how you feel) when you leave your current job will be your point of attraction for a new one. This is now people keep manifesting the same thing or experience in a different package.

When I started my first dream job, I was very clear about the industry I intended to work in, I  desired to use my skills in a positive uplifting way. I intended it to be a beautiful environment (physically, spiritually)  and the employees would have a similar work ethic. The hours would be flexible to a certain extent and I would be off weekends. I intended to be respected personally and professionally, I intended for there to be unlimited earning potential.
Then I scripted it all out, told my story, what the place would look like, how many clients I would have, how much money I would make. I visualized the whole thing in great detail added in the gratitude, joy, awesomeness emotional part of it. From start to finish, it took 3 months to manifest this job.
It lasted for almost two years, then it was on to the next thing.

For my second job, it was the same scenario except I was looking to work from home. I loved the job I had, was sad it had reached it's life span but was super excited to move on into something different. Each job has moved me personally and professionally up the ladder of my life. I am always looking for forward, upward movement. My new job is wonderful, working from home, set my own hours, am free to earn as much or little money as I desire. The person I work for is an awesome individual and treats her employees like gold. I am free to move about the country and can do this job from anywhere. There is room for expansion as the company is really growing.

Here are the processes I used to attract these jobs: From Abraham Hicks,  the QSCA ( Christy Whitman) http://quantum-success-coaching-academy.com/, and the Prosperity Partnership ( Elyse Killoran)

let it all go, you have to let go of all the energy from the last job(s). This is important so you are not creating from your past and there are no left overs. You want to use your last job only as a starting point or point of contrast to help you be clearer about what you desire to move toward: Use the Sedona Method, TAT, The Works by Byron Katie, EFT techniques, clear your chakras. You can find all of these online.

 Processes: What I want, scripting, wouldn't it be nice, creation statement, gratitude journal, and having a vision board ( I have 5 of these). I also did some future visioning which I learned while taking the QSCA. Basically you connect with your future self through meditation and visualize where you will be in 3 months, 6 months, a year etc. You visualize the outcome you desire, see yourself in the setting you intend to be in. When you know your outcome, you can manifest events leading you there.

really feel yourself in the environment you want to work in, meditate on it, use the 16 second/68 second pure positive thought process where you feel it for 16 uninterrupted seconds, working up to 68 seconds. Do all the inner work first, feel it, imagine it, live it in your mind, intend it and send it on its way for the Universe to deliver to you. Take inspired action. Ask everyday what you can do today to move toward this awesome job you desire to manifest. Be open to all opportunity as you never know who you will meet or where. One you have put your desire out there, the Universe moves people and events to help you, so be open to new experiences and meeting new people. You never know who is sent to help you.

Much love and light to you all

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Found this cool word spiral generator: http://www.festisite.com/text-layout/

Put everything that's part of your ideal reality into the box -- feelings, people, places, things -- then press "layout text" and voila! All those rockets of desire shoot straight into your vortex. Make sure it's set to "text layout" and "spiral". Can be as big or small as you want.

I like this one too, for all the words that describe your ideal partner and/or relationship:



Making some for my vision board right now!

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I am really overwhelmed by the number of PMs I've received with respect to growing taller and manifesting physical changes. As much as I would love to reply to each one personally, there are too many messages and I am not able to reply to each one on time. Also, my browser has some issues that I don't understand-it takes me to error page very often saying the browser is not directing to the correct link. So I am extremely sorry to all of you who haven't received a reply from me. So instead of replying to each of you separately, I am starting this topic to discuss using deliberate creation to grow taller Here I go:

Surprising as it may seem, height is a very emotional issue. In many parts of the world, social conditioning makes us feel that being taller is a virtue while being short is a drawback. Add to it the comments of insensitive people, the resentment about being short grows deeper and stronger. To top this all, we are constantly told that it is impossible to grow taller after puberty, and that if you are of a lesser height at the time of puberty, you have to continue living with the same height all your life, and most importantly, we are taught that we have absolutely no control over how much we grow because it all depends on genetics, heredity and other such heavy-sounding concepts. Because of all this, if a person is not tall, he/she is made to feel helpless, powerless and unimportant, though it is totally nonsensical! Hence, so many people around the globe have emotional issues relating to their height. Of course, there will be exceptions who don't bother about all this, but unfortunately most of us do.

Now since we have a lot of emotional pressure regarding our height, and a lot of limiting, negative beliefs about our ability to grow taller, most of us have a tough time believing that height increase at adulthood is possible. So most of us naturally have a tough time manifesting our desired height too. So if you have wanted to grow taller but haven't succeeded yet, don't get discouraged. It's not the end of the road. You can start getting rid of your limiting beliefs right now and start stepping towards your successful growth right now

Let's face it, you can never achieve your desire when you don't believe it's possible, or when you don't feel good about your current condition. What I mean is, if you don't believe that you can grow taller and if you are not grateful for whatever height you have now, you're putting out a lot of resistance in the way of growing taller and unless you get rid of that resistance, growing taller will always remain a distant dream. So let's take the step towards changing your beliefs first, it's very vital that you understand 'how' growing taller is possible at any age.

A simple explanation is that our body is not really as solid as it seems to be. In fact, nothing is solid at it's basic composition. Everything is energy that is vibrating constantly, including our bodies. Energy can be mould into any form, transformed from one form to another successfully. So it's absolutely possible to mould our body, which is essentially energy, into any form that we wish. Growing tall is no big deal for it at all! Now, if you are one of those people who find it hard to accept that body is not solid as it seems but is just vibrating energy, then this explanation will not be of much help to you. So let's look at other 'scientific' (as generally accepted by all), possible explanations about why growing taller is possible post puberty.

After puberty, it is believed that our bones get calcified, bone plates fuse and they will not grow any longer. This is the reason why it is widely believed that growth stops after puberty. However, it is also found that though bones calcify, there's still scope to expand our tissues and cartilage. Apparently, the bones in our limbs have gaps in between them. We can lengthen our limbs by using these gaps. You can read an entire article about lengthening of legs in a natural way here: http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Lengthen-Your-Legs-Naturally&id=6922551
Also, you can grow taller by lengthening your spine naturally. 'While it is generally true that the body reaches a steady height after the developmental stages of a young adult, many stretching and exercise techniques can further extend the spinal structure and actually allow an adult body to become taller. Routine spine-decompressing habits, such as slouching in chairs, hunching over a computer keyboard and limited daily stretching, all contribute to limited mobility and length of the spine. By incorporating a basic regimen of stretches into your daily routine, you can noticeably increase your body's length by a number of inches'-Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/135206-how-grow-taller-stretching-exercises/#ixzz2IvWeYv7E

Now the most amazing thing: you may already know this but let me state it anyway. We grow upto two inches everyday in our sleep because our spine gets decompressed and lengthens in our sleeping position! So everyday when you wake up, you are two inches taller than you normally are! However, because of incorrect posture as well as pull of gravity, the spine gets compressed again making one look shorter. So by simply keeping an eerct posture you can decrease the compression of spine throughout the day! You can get plenty of information about this on the internet.

So now that you know that it is ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO GROW TALLER in adulthood, and there's enough sensible explanation to justify the claim, start accepting this new belief that you can grow taller at any age, and the previous conditioning you had was not true afer all! Please read the post, re-read it and understand it so that you can assimilate the new belief into your mind fully. In the next post, I'll start an exercise for deliberately increasing your height. Let's all get together, help one another achieve the height of their dreams, and stick together throughout the exercise

It's time to go to bed, it's already post 2 AM here! So i'll be back with the next post tomorrow. Happy manifesting my dearest people

Oh and by the way, I read somewhere that NBA player Leonardo Barbosa had a height spurt at the age of 23 or 24 and he grew 3 to 4 inches taller! I guess we are not freaks to want to grow taller after puberty, after all

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Yesterday I had cool experience.

I had been talking to a friend about my band and making music, I confessed to her that I had a big block around success with my music. Becasue I didn't get encouragement when I was younger, in fact I got flat out discouragement from my parents when I first joined a band. They told that I couldn't sing and I was embarrassing myself... 

Anyway, as usual I ignored them. 

But while I was talking to my friend I realised that I had always played it safe with music and never wanted to admit to myself that it was anything but "a bit of fun". I realised I was scared that if I admitted that I wanted to be successful that I would be cut down by people saying, "You can't do that, you're no good at it, who do you think you are?"

So I openly admitted to my friend that I would LOVE to be successful and we had this really cool talk about that and I felt really good about allowing it.

Anyway went to band practice and first I got told that there is a (small) label that is interested in signing us if they like our new album because they really liked our last one.

Also our drummer works in a record store was telling us about a guy who came into the store that afternoon just to buy our album. WHen he took it to the counter he was gushing about how good this band is, how much he loved us!!! Our drummer had to sheepishly say "yeah, I'm in that band" haha.

The guy went on to say how he had seen us play a year ago and the my voice was amazing and the songs were beautiful and so on.

Wow, talk about filling in the grid!!.

Just and awesome manifestation and a great reminder never to let your limiting beliefs stop you from getting what you want!

 Yaaaay!! Thank You!!!

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For a few people that asked, here's how I attracted an email from my ex-fiance after six months of no contact. He's in another country, and the last email I got from him was six months ago. In that, he told me to never contact him again.

The last two months, I've really been in the vortex a lot. I let go of my wanting to control all the little moving parts of everything, and instead decided to just be happy, now. That's when it all started. I'd put a lot of postive, relationship stuff into my vortex and I trusted the Universe would bring it to me. I didn't need to wait until it got here to be happy, though As soon as I let go, all this really great stuff started flowing into my experience. I reunited with a certain special person and started talking again. I saw someone I hadn't seen for 16 years, who I had been wanting to see - and the Universe brought us together in a really amazing way and I had a great experience with them. I've had a really amazing couple of months!

Then, a couple of weeks ago, I started talking to myself about all the great relationship things which are in my vortex. Not to make anything happen, but because I enjoyed the feeling of them. I'd activated an in the vortex vibration consistantly enough that those things, those specifics, came easily to my mind. Up until then, I'd really just been focusing on the general grid-building. For instance, focusing on the general feeling of love, of joy. That was the grid I activated a lot. When I went about my day, if I felt myself getting vibrationally out of synch, I would come back to....love...joy...happiness...love...bliss. Just like in those grid creation threads I talked about. After having done this for a few weeks, the actual specifics of my relationship came to me really easily. Not because I'd affirmed them or visualised them, but because I was vibrationally in the vicinity of those specific thoughts.

So, I talked to myself about the wonderful things in my vortex relationship. For instance, I would say to myself...

'There are lots of wonderful, deep conversations in my vortex'

'I'm really looking forward to lying in bed together, in the early hours of the morning and listening to a rainstorm outside and having secret, whispered conversations'

'I know that in my vortex is a guy who cooks amazing food'

'I'm really looking forward to the passionate love-making which is in my vortex'

I wasn't going into any specifics about who this would be, or how or when it would happen. I was just enjoying the vibrational feeling-place of those wonderful things. In feeling for them, they didn't feel absent - they were present, vibrationally, which was enough to giveme the emotional feeling place of them. It was the same feeling I had earlier this year (in March / April) - when I aligned with a closeness with someone who I'd been wanting to be close with for a very long time. The attitude was one of 'I'm really enjoying exploring this'...and while I knew my grid would fill in with manifestational evidence, I wasn't feeling like something was missing in the moment I was exploring these wonderful feelings. I wasn't trying to 'make' anything happen, I was just knowing that 'this is wonderful...and of course more will come'.

Sometimes, while thinking specific thoughts I would find myself going off onto 'how will this happen, who will it happen with?'...and that didn't feel so good. When I did that, I came back to 'love...joy...bliss'. Or, I just had a nap or meditated or watched a comedy DVD

The first 'manifestation' I can remember from this was the impulse to sort out my song collection on my computer, at which point I foudn the song which is 'our' song - the one from my love who was my fiance. I added it onto a track listing on my mp3 player and listened to it a bit and just remembered good times we had together. I was listening to my imagination as well, and from that I got the impulse to make a necklace with some charms which reminded me of him. So I bought some of the things to make the necklace, which then brought happier thoughts of him back even more. All this time, I was listening to my imagination. So...making a necklace and listening to a song isn't 'the' way to make anything happen. If you build your grids and be in the vortex, and then listen for inspiration that comes, you'll get inspired to do what is 'the' way for you. It might be making a picture of you together...it might be affirmations...it might be RS...it might be scripting. Sometimes when I've been in the vortexabout certain things, the inspiration I have gotten has just been a very clear 'stop thinking about that now, get out of the way to let the universe deliver it to you!'. Sometimes I have gotten inspiration to act out a scene, very physically. Sometimes I have gotten inspiration to meditate, or send love, or do a tarot reading, or use crystals, or...any number of things. The specific things I did, I did because it was right for this situation. It was the GRID building which allowed the specific impulses on what to do to come into my experience.

So...back to the story

I remembered some very happy times we had. I bought these things to make a necklace, which was a copy of a charm I made when we were together - but with some extra, special pieces added. I haven't finished it yet. Anyway, it was something special to us. I also listened to an album which I hadn't listened to in a long time, which reminds me of him. As I did these things, I saw more and more synchronicity around me of love, relationships and him. Mind you, at this point - and even now - I'm not trying to fill my own grid in. I'm not specifically trying to 'make' anything happen with him. I'm following my joy to where it goes - the universe knows the best relationship / relationships for me. I'm flowing with it to get there. So, even when I was listening to those songs and making that charm necklace, I did it because it felt good - not to try and make something happen.

Now, the last 72 hours have been pretty phenomenal - and it started on the 21st December Bashar said that's the point when our collective conciousness will tip from more negative (segregative) to more positive (integrative) - and it has I've had a few good experiences with people in this 72 hours and also been given quite a few presents, recieved loving phone calls, had wonderful cuddles and hugs with people I love and shared some great laughs.

When I got home on Saturday evening, there was an email from my love (the one this post is about) in my in-box. Now, the last time I heard from him was six months ago - at that point, he sent a very angry email, telling me not to contact him again. I haven't. This email he sent was also quite abrupt, but it indicated he wanted to talk. It was interesting to get it...it felt totally natural, like getting it was the next logical step. However, it was also a pleasant surprise.

What's happened since?

I didn't email him back. I don't know if I will - I'm focusing on the core vibrations of love and joy and what's in my vortex. If I am inspired to email him back, then I'll do so. At the moment, my physical mind is unsure if he is one with whom a relationship would be the best thing for me. Therefore, I am focusing on what is in my vortex and letting my higher mind guide my hand and words. As long as I stay in my vortex, only all the best things can come to me

But, here's some interesting synchronicity. Last night, I started typing an email to him as a reply. I wasn't sure if I was going to send it...I wanted to type it and see how it felt. It didn't feel good and I felt out of the vortex, like I was trying to make something happen and not going with the flow. So, I deleted my reply and left it. However, because now the 'original email' had been edited, the time on his email in my inbox changed to 10:10pm. I looked up '1010' as an angel number on impulse, and I got

- a reminder that we create our own reality
- asking you to tune into your own inner, higher guidance

When I first got the email from him, I drew a self-care card (like an angel card, a deck I have) and a tarot card. The self-care card I got was 'inner guidance' and the tarot card was 'indecision'. Which is true - I haven't decided if I want him back, as a lover, yet. All of these signs are telling me to tune into my own inner guidance. Which is OK...when in doubt, stay in the vortex But I donm't HAVE to make anything happen - I am just staying in the vortex and letting the Universe handle the how / when / where

This morning, I went out for a walk. When I woke up, first thing, I was inspired to put on a certain piece of music which reminds me of him again - and specifically, which reminds me of him in all his love and light. I listened to it a few times and then went to change the track on my iPhone - at which point I got a little nudge from the Universe - 'check your email!' - so I did. This time, there was an email there from his MUM! She has emailed me a few times this year (maybe 4 or 5). We were pretty close, but I also haven't heard from her in a few months! So...that was my grid filling in I checked the time on HER email - and it was 9:10am - which I suddenly realised was 10:10pm UK time (where she is) - wow! Another 1010!

Then, when I got home, I turned Skype on, and his Mum had added me on Skype. I accepted the friend request, and opened a chat window with her and typed 'hello' to her. The local time on her Skype (UK) time, when I opened the window and typed 'hello'...read EXACTLY 11:11pm. I took a screen-shot because it was so awesome

She didn't reply, but I'm sure if / when I'm meant to speak with her, it will happen.

At the moment, dear friends...I am just LOVING being in the vortex. LOVING LOVING LOVING. I don't need to make anything happen. It's all happening FOR me.

Love,
ILR.

By the way, there's a great video I found on suring up your grid before action. I want to post it here...I will when I find it. It's specifically about relationships.

GRID....THEN action (if needed).

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So I was just driving along and I was thinking about something I had heard Abraham say, in the context of someone asking about attracting a new relationship....
Abraham said that our inner being KNOWS where our lover is. It knows what we want, where they are and the quickest route to them.

Immediately after thinking this and yet again giving up my desire to my inner being I looked up and there was a massive billboard in front of me that read, "WE DON'T NEED A MAP"

HAHAHAHAAAA! I laughed so hard.

I drive down this street from work and the sign hadn't been there two days ago.

This advice goes for everything you want guys!!! THEY KNOW... LET GO!!

Thank you Universe, love your work!

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Hi everyone,

I just wanted to jump in here and share some thoughts I had lately.  I've kind of had a "lightbulb" moment and I'm hoping that these thoughts will help others going through the same issue.

Like many of us on here, I've been wondering where a lot of my manifestations are.  I've been asking the dreaded, "why isn't it here yet?"   Well I realized, I am acting like a child.  I'm the equivalent of a child sitting in the backseat of a car going "are we there yet, are we there yet?".  Gets kind of annoying after a few minutes, doesn't it?

Here's a new way of looking at why your manifestation hasn't appeared yet:
If you have to drive 400 miles, you plug in your destination into your GPS device, and head off on the road.  Do you stop at 200 miles, pull over to the side of the road, and scream at the sky "why the f*** am I not there yet?".  Of course not!! (unless you're batshit crazy).  You just keep driving.  You keep plugging along, going through the red and green lights, until you reach your destination.  You don't think about it.  You just drive.  You're on the road going wherever you want to go.

Another example:  I'm applying to a school program that is supposed to begin next September.  It starts next September.  Not in July, not in April, in September.  Now, would it make much sense for me to stop and go "I want to start school in February!!  Why the hell haven't I gotten my acceptance letter yet?".  I haven't gotten it yet because THAT'S NOT WHEN IT'S SUPPOSED TO COME.  Why would I complain when I know WHEN my manifestation is going to occur?  Maybe that's the problem?  We all want to know WHEN.  If we know WHEN, we wouldn't worry about it.  We would just live our lives. 

So here's a new way of looking at it:  pretend you know when your manifestation is going to come.  You don't have to pick an exact date/time and get yourself all attached to that time in case it doesn't show up.  Just tell yourself, "I know it's coming.  I know it's here."

You will all get what you want.  But not necessarily at the exact moment/second/day/time/hour when YOU want it to.  You'll get it when you're SUPPOSED to.  You wouldn't expect to drive 400 miles in 10 minutes, would you?  It will take as long as it takes. 

Keep driving, my friends.  We'll all get there.

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For each person on this forum who is not in a relationship currently and would like to be.

Whether attracting a new relationship with a past lover or whether it's something completely new!

Each one of us, through time, has already put the relationship we want into our vortex.

Whenever we experienced something we did not like, either about a partner, a circumstance, or a person (a friend, a waiter, a hotel, a collegue - anyone).

That relationship which we want has already been created and amassed in vibrational escrow.

So, when you experienced a lover who was rude...you asked for a more polite lover, and they went into your vortex.
When you experienced a lover who did not show interest in your hobbies...you put a lover in your vortex who does show interest.
When you experienced a lover who was chronically late for things, you vibrationally requested 'more on timeness' - and that went into your vortex.

The Universe knows exactly what you want, from all your asking. It doesn't matter if you asked with words or without words, whether you asked conciously or unconciously. Everytime you have felt a negative reaction to something about a lover, that has asked for the equivalent positive aspect. And the larger part of you has become a vibrational match to that. And your lover - your lover with ALL of those positive qualities - has already been put into your vortex for you!

So, the larger part of you - the source energy part of you - is already over there, as a vibrational match to what you want. And your lover is over there, a vibrational match to what you want.

The question is - where are you? Are YOU a vibrational match to what you want?

Or are you still complaining about what you want not coming, and looking at all the things which caused what you want to go into vibrational escrow?!

You can't have it both ways! You have to find a way to focus only on what feels good at what you want!!

You can do it...

So, I encourage you all to become great 'reality ignorers'. The more you focus on what is, the more you get of what is. If you focus on the nitty gritty negative details of 'he blocked me on Facebook', 'she has a new boyfriend', 'that person said they hate me and we used to be so close' - if you keep focusing on that, if you keep allowing that to train your vibration, then you're-just-gonna-get-more-of-that.

So, stop talking about THAT.

Instead, focus on what's in your vibrational escrow.

It helps to stop thinking of the specific lover you want, for a little while. Relax and know that if that lover - that ex, that person, whomever - is TRULY the best match for you, to what you want, then the Universe WILL bring you them.

The only way you would NOT get that person, that specific one, is if there is someone who is better.

Not someone that the all knowing Universe decides is better for you. But someone, who, if you knew everything about the specific one you want - and everything about this 'other one' - then you would say 'yes, I want the other one, not the one I thought I wanted'.

SO RELAX. You're not gonna get duped. You're not gonna get second best. You're not gonna get some sort of crappy, sub-standard version of what you asked for!

No, you're gonna get the absolute best, what's in your vortex!

But it can still be much easier to take your attention away from the SPECIFIC lover you've been focused on.

WHY?

Because, focusing SO specifically on one person, when you're not in a state of absolute certainty and clarity, can add resistance. BIG resistance. Because you not only focus on them as they are in  your vortex, you focus on all the things (which you percieve) as being a hinderance to you and them getting together.

Stuff like...
But they said they'd never love me.
But they blocked me on Facebook.
But they have a new girlfriend now, and she's hotter than me!
But they're moving to Albuquerque.

You see? You're focusing on the in-your-vortex them and your out-of-the-vortex them at the same time, sending out mixed, split energy - and then, getting mixed signals back from the Universe!! YOU gotta send a clear signal, if you want clarity back!! It all srtarts with YOU - YOU HAVE THE POWER!!! 

All that stuff which, to the Universe is no obstacle at all - but you, with your physical mind, make it one by looking at the circumstances and feeling like 'well, this is impossible!' - or - 'Well, this is unlikely!' - which adds BIG resistance to the mix.

You don't need that resistance.

SO...go general!

Focus generally on the really good feeling qualities your lover in your vortex has, and let the Universe sort out for you WHICH lover and HOW that will all come about. If you take a little bit of trust in the Universe and get out of your own way, you open the door...and miracles will happen

Say, HEY UNIVERSE!!! I know that you know EXACTLY what I want. So I'm gonna get out of the way and let you deliver it to me!

And then, focus generally with absolute joy and bliss on what's in your vortex. When you don't put a name, a face, a person to it - then it's much easier for it to come to you.

Have fun! Feel free to post about the lover who is in your vortex in this thread, as well as discussing going general to get out of your own way.

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