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I am new to this forum (http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/say-hello-to-all-2/hi-everybody-5409/) and I love the snow on my screen
Wish I had it here in Austria and not on the computer.Anyway, I read some success stories and want to share mine because I think people can learn from it same as I learned from it. And maybe I want to write down my most intensive experiences with the LOA somewhere for myself and for everybody who wants to hear it. Sorry it got so long
Recently I've been to Southeast Asia for a 2 month trip. I had some little LOA experiences, like wanting to tell the live band in a pub to play Beatles and before I even could walk to the stage they played "You've got to hide your love away" or meeting the greatest people I could imagine. So a lot of small manifestations took place. I was in Vietnam and I have to admit - there were a lot of beautiful women, of course very exotic to a European like me. Usually, in my home country I would be thinking about how nice it would be to have a great relationship, if not even the perfect one - and that is still a wish I have. But I am enjoying my single life and I am very choosy regarding potential relationship partners. And on my trip, I knew it was not a good idea to wish to find my ideal match in Vietnam since I am not interested in long distance relationships at all.
Anyway, a strong wish emerged to have at least a romantic encounter with a sweet girl, a local if possible. So I concentrated on this thought for about 30 seconds and then let it go. 2 days passed and I spent most time lying in bed sick. The trip all together had been very demanding and I was always focussed on my next steps. I booked a bus ticket to Mui Ne, a beach in the south of Vietnam which should be the next station on my way to the north of the country. On my day before the trip I explored the streets of Saigon. In the evening I felt really tired and was on my way to the hotel. I wanted to pack my stuff and just sleep to be prepared for my trip. But somehow I just heard me saying to myself: "Come on, you never saw the nightlife of this amazing city!" I was not even in the mood to go out but I convinced myself to have ONE beer in a nice bar and then head back home.
I walked down the street, a girl approached me and showed me a menu. (She worked for the bar on the opposite side of the street) But I was not interested. As she mentioned live music she got my attention!
I got in and I really love live music and this band was good. I got my beer and enjoyed the moment, everybody in the bar seemed to be happy and so was I. I saw a bartender and my mind went "WOW!". She was stunning! To be honest, I was thinking how nice it would be to have sex with her on my last night here (I am not sorry for being a man
but I rejected the thought out of hand in total disbelief AND even more indifference wether that could ever happen. So I enjoyed the music and my beer and all of a sudden this beautiful bartender sat right next to me. It seemed I picked the right place on the bar because she was sitting there to write down the bills. I grabbed the menu and asked if she could explain me what "Blabla" on the menu was. She told me, its a beer! So we started talking about beers. I sat in the bar for about two hours and she would always come back to me and we would talk about beers and more and more about personal things. She showed me her photos on her phone and we shared some laughs together. She had a beautiful smile and I complimented her on that. I usually dont do it to women of her kind who hear that ALL the time and it is nothing special to them. But in this night I was so relaxed and indifferent about everything, just looking forward to my trip that I didnt care what she might be thinking.In this relaxed state something popped up in my mind and I had no problem to speak it: "If I wouldnt leave tomorrow I would ask you to go out on a date with me. I really enjoy talking to you." Then I made a joke by saying: "So if you want you can come to Mui Ne with me tomorrow" She smiled and said she cant. Tomorrow is her day off and she goes to another beach at 6am with a friend of her. I smiled back and did honestly not care about it. After some more conversation I stood up, gave her my facebook and number and said it again, smiling, with no intention: "Think about it. If you want to come with me give me a call" and I went home.
She didnt call but I dreamed of her! Thats the end of the story. It's still a manifestation, right? I mean the feeling in the dream was so real!
At least thats what I tried to tell me when I woke up in the morning feeling lousy, only thinking about her, trying to concentrate my thoughts on the upcoming journey. I shifted my focus and felt okay again and thanked God that he showed me that I was very close to fullfilling my dream which gave me faith. I looked at my clock. It was 6am! I woke up at 6am? I never wake up so early. My bus was in the afternoon anyway. I remembered she telling me thats the time she goes on HER trip. What a strange coincidence. So I thought I write her an SMS (yes, she had given me her number too) and I wrote: "Have a nice trip!" nothing more. I got up and started packing my stuff. She wrote back: "I added you on Facebook, come online" So we chatted on Facebook, she telling me that her friend still didnt show up. "Forget your friend, come with me to Mui Ne haha" I said.
No answer.
then she sent a message to my phone.
"OK"
I couldnt believe it but I said to myself: Stay cool and see where this leads to. I told her to come to my hotel at 8am. When I left my hotel I couldnt believe my eyes. She was there!! Beautiful as I remembered her. We went for breakfast and couldnt stopp looking at each other and smile and laugh. We both felt a strong connection going on between us. we went to the travel agency to find an earlier bus since she only had one day but there was only the one at 3pm. So I told her: She can decide wether to spend a day with me in Saigon and go to Mui ne in the afternoon or go back to her friend and have more time on the beach with her. She thought about it ...
she chose the first option! And I swear the following hours with this woman were magical! We went to the park, to the movies and explored the city. I felt like a little boy again who fell in love with his classmate and could sit beside her in the cinema. Same in the bus! I hate going on the bus but I didnt want to end this bus trip. We held hands for the first time in the cinema. We had our first kiss in the bus at sunset. It was perfectly arranged by the universe. We did the whole getting-to-know-and-getting-close-story within hours - and it felt so right!
We spent 7 days together. I skipped the planned trip and stood with her in Saigon. I will not go into detail but it was an unforgettable and wonderful time. We fell in love and cried when we had to part. But it was exactly my wish and it showed me: The universe ALWAYS finds a way to make your wish come true. Just be OPEN to all the possibilities. If I would have said: I have to do my trip on my own as planned I would not have had the idea to ask her to come with me and to ask her even 3 times! All signs were against a romantic week with that wonderful woman but in the end it worked out.
So what I learned from it: Wish for something you really want. Just long enough to make you feel good. Let it go and concentrate on what makes you happy! Detach yourself from the need to see your wish manifest. The interesting thing about it was: the LESS I believed it would really happen with HER the more relaxed I was and the more indifferent I was about the outcome, acutally, not even thinking there would be ANY outcome at all! I was focussed on my trip and on myself most of the time and that was enough - that was a long held dream I was making come true. So I was content in some way ...
What I also learned: The universe is fast! But only if you dont care about time! No pressure! Never! No resistance! I think that really is the secret! Or at least a core part of it.
Anyway, who ever had the time and discipline to read this story, thank you
She and I are still in contact and now I know she really fell in love with me big time and misses me and cries for me everyday. I feel sorry for her but for me its much easier because I am so glad about the amazing 7 days we had and I didnt ask for more ... still, I love her and I am so thankful to have met this wonderful person and my believe in the power of the universe woke up again ...
cheers,
Jamiro
P.S. The name of the bar where I met her was UNIVERSal Bar
