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First of all, I wanna thank you Mr. Ankur for creating this wonderful forum to help so many of us to get back on tracks with our life, to share the most wonderful secret in life, and most of all..... Thank you so much for giving us the opportunity to understand LOA.
Secondly, I wanna thank you to all my wonderful friends here, who is always there for me, who is always there to cheer me up, to share their love and care with me, to give me hope and continue to support me in no matter what situation I am in...
I am truly grateful and blessed to know all of you here... You guys are my families, my best friends, and woohooooo.... my super awesome gang!!!! wakakakakaka :p
hmmm... let me start with a simple and brief story of my journey with LOA... ( for those who hardly know me... wakakakakaka :p :p :p )
Hi! I am Honey. I started to join this wonderful forum since 14/2/12... I was so desperate at that time to have my previous love, Wil back. He is my first love back in high school then we somehow was destined to be together again after 14 years of being close friends but ended up the relation after 3 years. I was so desperate, I tried every single thing in this forum... u named it!!! :p :p :p I have been putting out so many desire to have him back...... desperately, almost every single post I post out is all about him... All i ever wanted is HIM!!! wakakakakakakaka... gosh!!! today, when i think of it...... i was like OMG!!!! I must be crazy at that time!!! wakakakaka..... ermmm... no offences to the others who wants their exes ya, believe me.. YOU WILL GET THEM BACK!!!! TRUST ME!!!
As I go on and on, I finally give up in March!! I was tired. I don't know what to do anymore. Eversince I broke up with him since last Nov, I have been trying very hard to attract him back, I become his close friend just to be close to him, I tried every method in this forum, I do anything to get him back... then it was like BAMMMM... I had it!!! I can't go on like this. It hurts to be your ex close friend when you truly loves him... its like you can see him but you can't touch him... I hope you guys understand what i mean... arghhhhh..... I eventually take the courage to text him and ask him for another chance. He say he prefer to be my close friend, he doesn't wanna risk the friendship if it doesn't turn out to be ok with our relationship. I was so hurt.... I finally told him that I am sorry... I can't be his friend anymore. This is not about the Non Contact thingy but its about getting my life back and I have to move on. Guess what???!!! Although it does hurts at that time, but I feel relieve... you know... like a big stone was thrown out from my heart..!!!
After that, I began to work on myself more. I focus on myself more. All i care is to be happy... All i want is to be happy... wakakakaka :p for those who knows me, hehehe... you know how hillarious I can be... but still I love you all.... wakakakakaka :p I begin to see things in a different way.... ermmm.... eventually focussing to be a love magnet more... Things started to change for me... I am enjoying myself to the max, It is amazing..... The feeling of a love magnet is super amazing... my cute cupid start throwing arrows uncontrollable... wakakakaka.... even uncles also smile and ask phone nos from me... hahahaha :p :p :p Whenever you walk into a place, you will know have the feeling of.. OH O...... not another one.... you know what i mean.... hahahaha.... they will stick to you.... wakakaka :p
Ermm... its funny, but it is amazing..... even Wil try to contact me asking me silly questions, I couldn't be bother less.... wakakakaka :p :p :p
Then, it was this one fine day in early June, where my cupid still behave uncontrollable, I met a friend of my best buddy, Han. wakakakakaka :p this part is funny..... He have been chasing me all around for 3 mths.... if I go round the world, I think he will too.... wakakakaka :p He starts to send me flowers every week, he calls me every hour of the day, checking where am I and whom I am with. I was like arghhhhhhh...... help!!!!! hahahaha :p :p but it is nice to have someone who is crazy bout you.... :p Talking bout love.... hahaha... I fall for him after 3 mths. hmmm.... then everything started to changed! he changed! or I can say I blew it on my own.... I took him for granted!!! :p :p well..... although we are new together, guess what???!!! he give up!!! Imagined what i have gone through.... I was like OMG!! what have i done... He is sweet, he loves me, he cares about me - I blew it.. I began to feel down.. I beg, I pleaded to have him back... oh man.... I was like out of direction. I actually got him back but is the other way round. He begin to take control of my life. It was one incident which is it was last week ago, which kekekeke :p I blew it again :p I went out clubbing with my girlfriends. He hates it when I go clubbing but I couldn't help it because at that time, my best friend needs me. She was in a bad condition and she wanted so much to go out. I have to choose, I was stuck... if i go out, i'm sure i gonna blew it again with him, but the other hand, my best friend needs me... finally i choose to accompany my best friend. Guess what???!!! Han really so angry with me, he finally cut it off and start to accused me on things I am not. I did try to do some explanation, but he doesn't care.
hmmm..... at the same time, I was so angry too... because of his accusation but my friends ask me to be good... try to be nice, admit my faults and bla bla bla.....
For the first 24 hours time, i tried to be good but it was like arghhhhhhh..... what am I doing???!!! I didn't do anything wrong.. He doesn't have the right to accuse me... then I totally make up my mind and say... so be it..... it he loves me, he will call me... if he don't so be it.... I hardly care anymore... I don't wanna care anymore.
Wakakakakakakaka :p :p oh man....... I talk too much about my past....sorry! sorry! here is where the magic begins for me...... I hope this will help you all..... because whatever you desire really gonna come to you no matter what.... regardless the time, how, or what ways..... Why I say that..... its all because of Loa...
After all the above, I finally let go everything. I learn to accept everything happens for a reason, be it good or bad, everything happens for the best of us... I begin to feel grateful for everything I have, just go with the flow... whether I am going to have my desire or not, I am still going to be happy because we live once only in a lifetime, today will never be replace by tomorrow and we won't know what is going to happen tomorrow. Live life to the fullest! Be grateful for what you have now...
I feel so peaceful. I feel so calm. I listens to motivation songs, videos and talks on daily basis.. it does help a lot.... It only takes 2 days time. Everything change!!! Why I say this.... look at my results below...
Last Sat - fight with han/ badly accuse
Sun - determination to let it be
Mon - the moment i feel calm and accept things, Wil, my previous love ask me
out for lunch
Tues - Han texts me
Wed - my assistant tender resignation ( which i desire previously ), Han text me
Thurs - Han begin to talk sweetly, Wil ask me out for dinner,
Fri - my boss is giving me the opportunity to build the new business
together with her
Sat - Have fun with my best friend and the good news is... she is as calm as ever
like me too... hehehe..... ( she didn't learn about LOA at all )
Sun - finally, han call me after a month, talking sweetly. Customer confirm
to let us deco for her wedding in less than 4 hours time after discussion
- I am a free lance wedding operator too.
**** all the above, honestly, I swear it is all my desire which previously or instantly i ask for......
I can manifest anything I want!!! The secret is actually in You!!! You have to believe in Yourself... You have to trust Yourself. You are the writer of your own life. One thing I truly learn and I wanna share this with all of you.....
This is what I learn :-
1) When you put out your desire to the Universe, doesn't Loa teaches us that it is ours already the moment we put out the desire..... If it is ours already, why do we have to struggle, to look and seek how, why, when and what for it. It is ours right?!!! It is for us.... Our desire is ours.... we don't place an order in the catalog and keep asking why it hasn't come, how it will be deliver, what it will look like, we don't even worry about anything...You strongly believe it will come because you have pay for it. It is the same concept with Loa, the differences is.. IT'S FREE...... you only pay it with your strong faith and believe it will come.
2) Whatever happens, it happens for a reason.... and the reason it is always the for you and me. For example : if i didn't blew it with Han last saturday, I wouldn't be enjoying all my desire today right??!!! its the same for u.... there is always a reason why you are at your situation today.... believe me... when that one day you discover the reason, you will be truly grateful for what happen today.
3) Stay calm and positive always..... The universe follow the your emotions. It flows naturally to you and smoothly when there is no hiccups. Let it flow... Your hiccups will be over excited or you delay it yourself by doubting it. Excitement is good but think bout this.... if you put the desire out in the first place, you know it is coming right? if you know it is coming, means you are expecting it... if you are expecting it, it is not a surprise.... you know it is coming already.... so... why do you still over excited about it....??!!!! so.... stay calm..
4) Do whatever that going to make you feel good. Focus on yourself. Feel good. Do whatever that makes you happy. Stay happy no matter what.
5) Open your arms and accept all possibilities.... Everything is possibles!!!
6) Be a love magnet. A love magnet have all the love in the world. Love everything surrounds you. Love magnet doesn't go out to look for someone, or things to love..... but Things and people will automatically come to you because you are a love magnet.. wherever you go, they will stick to you... Everyone needs love, everyone wants love... you have all the love to share. Give, Share all you can, because believe me, it will come back to you in multiples.
7) Every single word that come out from your mouth is a threat to you too. Speak only the good things and positive things.. no more complaints, no more pains.
Think positively all the time no matter what happens
9) Be grateful for everything you have now and there will more things to be grateful about in the future for you.
Ermmm..... this is all i can remember... but if you wanna know more, feel free to ask... I'll be happy to share it with you.... I really hope that this post can help you.. because it does help my best friend......
I love you all.... Sending you lots of love, healing vibes and positive vibes.....
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on: August 06, 2012, 02:05:41 PM 2 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Everything you could ever WANT or BE - You already HAVE and ARE!
What I am typing in this post, I have said before. Today it came to me in a much deeper level of clarity than ever. It is a profound and wonderful truth that can change the way you see law of attraction forever. When you get this, when you REALLY get it, aligning with what you want is SO much easier.
You'll notice I said 'aligning' there, rather than 'manifesting', 'attracting' or 'creating'.
And this is the truth that I now understand.
Please read deeply.
All creating is already done.
ALL CREATING IS ALREADY DONE.
ALL CREATING IS ALREADY DONE.
Abraham has said it, Bashar has said it, I AM says it. They know, and now we can know too. I read this truth most recently in the book 'The Power of Awareness' by Neville (thank you Mariposa for the copy). If you want a copy of the book, you can download it from here:
At first, we talked about manifestation and attracting because we didn't understand what we are doing. Now we talk about aligning. The reason is that 'everything you could ever want and be, you already have and are' (that's a quote from the movie I Heart Huckabees). This isn't just flowery talk, it's actually the most profound statement ever. All realities already exist. You do not 'create' your reality. You give your attention to whichever of the many realities you want to exist in and that is the one which you will physically see.
It is no more or less real than the ones you don't see.
It's just that is where your attention is.
I watched a video by Bashar (a channeled being) a few months back where he said that we don't understand time. We think we're moving forward in this thing called 'time' but in reality, what is happening is that there are an infinite number of parallell universes - and which ones we see at any given 'time' is in accordance with where we place our attention. We move through many each second and this is what we call 'time'. I read in another book that a chanelled group of beings from other worlds, when they were chanelled, were really surprised in human bodies how pervasive these illusions of time and space actually are.
Today I thought of it like looking through one of those old-fashioned viewfinder toys. You click the lever to move what you are looking at. When you do this, what you see changes - but each picture is no more or less real depending on whether it is the one in your view or not. Well, we are like the kid looking through the viewfinder. We don't have to make new pictures - we just click the lever. We cannot create new reality in fact - but we can click the lever, depending on where we choose to focus our attention.
This makes our attention the strongest and most powerful power in the whole Universe and the only power with which we can choose what we experience.
So when you choose to give your attention to something which you are not yet seeing outside yourself, you are not pretending or imagining. These suggest that you are making things up which aren't. What you are doing, is choosing to give your attention to a reality other than the one physically around you now. This is why it is best to not give any of your attention to the reality that you don't like, and all of your attention to the reality that you do like. As long as you hold your attention on only the reality that you like, this is the one you must experience. There is no other way.
The reality is, you are already in perfect health, fitness and physical weight and size.
The reality is, you already have a beautiful, loving, deep, trusting relationship with your soulmate.
The reality is, you already have a massive bank balance and more money flowing in easily every day.
The reality is, you are already surrounded by amazing friends.
The reality is, you already know all of this!
The reality you see around you is no more real than the one you want to see.
As humans, we have learned in our superconcious mind that 'creating' takes expenditure of effort, proportional to the things we create - for example, a small drawing of a stick man takes little effort - owning a car maybe takes 'big' effort. When we realise we do not create anything, now we are truly free. For what we do is align and this requires no expenditure of effort. It only requires that you fix your attention on the reality you want to see physically around you, knowing with wisdom that it already exists and your work is only to align with it and give your attention to only it and nothing else.
Even in talking about 'manifesting' we have decided that certain alignments will require more effort, more time. This is our rules that we put on it - and now I truly understand why. This is why the word 'manifest' is so misleading - it still implies effort. If I want to manifest a certain relationship, all I do is put all my attention ON that relationship. If I put my attention HERE, where I don't want to be - I will be saying things like
'He called me today - that is good' (and in my mind I will think 'I am 5% of the way there)
'We had a lovely time today - this is good (and in my mind I will think 'I am 7% of the way there')
Then I am thinking I still have such a long way to go, but I will be grateful for those little crumbs that the universe is throwing to me. Because I am still caught up in the illusion of moving through time - of there being a set number of points to get from A to B. The only distance between A and B is for how much of my attention I put on B. If I focus on the 'physical world' as my guide, I move from point to point - each point making it easier for me to believe in B and then each point I believe in B a little bit more and a little bit more until all of my attention is on B.
Instead, if I do NOT take the physical world as my guide.
If I focus ONLY on B.
Then B MUST BE!
Focus only on what you want. The way we travel through realities is WITH OUR MIND. Travel the fastest to the reality you want by using your mind-power - the only power you truly have - to focus with every BIT of your focus on BEING THERE ALREADY. As you move about your daily tasks, give as little attention to them as possible. Cultivate that ability to be there already, cultivate it with strong, STRONG imagination. For example, as I woke this morning, he was cuddling me and I looked out the window of the beautiful ship we're in a cruise on. Create the holographic reality about you with your mind, notice things that are not of it as no more than a passing mirage, until you are totally immersed in this reality you are creating arond you. More examples - if you are aligning with love, as you walk down the street, feel them there, walking beside you, holding your hand. When you wake in the morning, hear them offering to make you a cup of coffee - as you sip your coffee, they are there (just like in remote seduction, look into their eyes) and say thank you. Hear them saying back to you - I love you SO much - feel them put their arms around you.
The stronger and more real you make this, the faster it will be what you physically see.
Take the easy way to be what you want. Realise that you already are. Then, give your attention to only that.
Thank you for reading xxx Love, light and laughter my lovelies!!!
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on: December 03, 2011, 06:41:28 PM 3 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Detachment and relationships :)
Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be
To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’
So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.
So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!
Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.
Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.
There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.
Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.
PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail
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