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Hi guys!
I'm on a high right now, so thought i'd take this opportunity to radiate all my positive energy your way
I received so much yesterday I asked for my guy to text me...and he did!
he even came over and stayed the night ...but i started to over think and had a few insecurities which caused him to be distant and he said i was acting insecure and weird but despite that set back, I'm not even sad or upset! surprisingly enough I'm even more positive...i figure, i know what i did wrong, and setbacks happen for a reason to help us refocus and grow stronger!
hope your all doing well! and staying strong and positive!

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Promise Yourself - The Optimist Creed, by Unknown

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best.

To work only for the best, and expect only the best.

To be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

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10 New Commandments

1.  Do not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities.

2.  Do not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass.

3.  Do not cross bridges before you get to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this.

4.  Do not face each problem as it comes.  You can handle only one at a time anyway.

5.  Do not take problems to bed with you, for they make very poor bed fellows. 

6.  Do not borrow other people's problems.  They can take better care of them than you can.

7.  Do not try to relive yesterday for it is gone.  Concentrate on what is happening in your life today.

8.  Count thy blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for a lot of small blessings add up to a big one.

9.  Be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear ideas different from your own. It's very hard to               learn something new when you are talking.

10. Do not become bogged down by frustration, for 90 percent of it is rooted in self-pity and it will only interfere with positive action.

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  Hey, to those who are waiting for gifts from GOD or the Universe..
  I must tell that, once you hold that thought with a happy feeling, you are just "ORDERING" those gifts, but not directly taking them.
  Law of Attraction requires time.
  These days I repeatedly call for something that I want, I felt so good once but then felt depressed again. I felt that it was really hard to "believe" if those gifts seems not exist in the reality.. but I must tell you that, today I received 2 gifts after a few days manifesting. I wonder why I feel depress as just a small part of happy feeling can bring me so much --- how about feeling happy ALL DAY LONG?
  Believe or not, it's completely up to you. But one thing is for sure -- what you think are actually manifesting.

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Hi, guys! I didn't write this, but I thought it was a very interesting read! You can find this article and more like it written by the
same guy here:http://www.calmdownmind.com/when-your-desire-feels-ordinary-its-on-the-verge-of-manifestation/

I thought he made a lot of good points! Let me know what you think!



When Your Desire Feels Ordinary, It’s On the Verge of Manifestation

Written by Sen on January 23rd, 2012
One of the misguided understandings people have, especially those who are learning about law of attraction, is that – “exhilaration is the highest vibration to achieve “, and that the more exhilarated they stay the quicker the manifestation. In truth, exhilaration is simply a state of transition when you are moving from a low vibration to a stable vibration – it’s a transitory state. You feel exhilarated when you have been on a low and are moving towards a state of relief, this transition is experienced in the body as that “blissed out” feeling. So in truth there is no such thing as a “high state” there is only a state of relief (which is akin to wholeness), and what you define as a high state is a temporary transitory feeling as you move from a low vibration to the vibration of relief. The stable state is always ordinary and feels more like wholeness than exhilaration.

Also, a lot of people have this delusion that once they reach their desired reality they will be exhilarated all the time, which is not only an unreasonable thought to have but it also disconnects you from the reality of physical life where excited states (or high states) are not permanent. The more time the body spends in a high state that more time it requires on the low state to compensate for it (that’s why over-excitement is always followed by some depression), the steady state for the body is one of wholeness, which actually is a state simplicity or ordinariness, it’s not a dull state, it’s just a state free of extremes (over-excitement or depression). When you reach a point where your desires don’t over-excite you but just feel “whole” or ordinary, you are far less resistant to their manifestation.

Visualizing The Ordinariness Of Your Desire

A lot of people focus on pumping up their excitement levels, which they equate with a high vibration, and try to visualize their desires in this state of excitement. However, a desired reality when it manifests would always feel “ordinary” – you can see it in all your past life experiences that every time a desired reality manifested it felt so ordinary, it felt like the next thing, and usually it manifested when you were no longer making a big deal about it. The truth is that “reality” is always ordinary, and it’s usually when we have some deluded, or hyped up, imagination about the future that we feel over-excited. And as long as you are not looking at your desire from the context of the ordinariness of reality, you will always have some delusion of big dealness about it – and thus you would indirectly be in resistance to its manifestation.

Of course, you can’t “pretend” that a desire feels ordinary to you (you can’t fake it), it’s basically a natural state the mind reaches, with respect to a desire, when it has seen through all the “extra-ordinariness” that it had been associating with it. In a simple sense, a mature mind (you can read the post – moving towards a mature mind) is able to see through its delusions more easily than an immature mind. It’s just reasonable, and logical, that if something feels extra-ordinary to you it just means you are not in touch with reality. And when you are not in touch with reality, with respect to a desire, you’ve not really aligned yourself with the circumstances, which you will end up in, when your desire manifests.

A desire becomes a fantasy when you are holding extra-ordinary imaginations about it, and projecting a lot of big-dealness to it. Reality on the other hand is far removed from the fantasies of the mind, it’s far too ordinary than what the mind imagines it to be. The hallmark of a mature mind is that it does not associate fantastic imaginations with respect to a desire and is willing to see the desired reality in the context of ordinariness. There is a place for feeling excited and exhilarated about a desire, especially during the initial few days when it’s hatched (and it’s an enjoyable experience), but if you don’t allow yourself to see through all your excitements/delusions and thus be rooted in the ordinariness of reality, you would just end up holding onto a fantasy which removes you from being aligned with the true vibration of your desired physical reality – which directly means that you are not a match to attracting it.

Get In Tune With Reality

A new desire always fills you with excitement or exhilaration, because for a while you are looking at it purely from the dimension of joy/love/sexuality in your mind. But soon enough you will start seeing it from the dimension of fear (when you have doubts about it), and then you will start seeing it from the dimension of hatred (hating the desire for not manifesting), which are both low vibration states of being and hence highly resistant to manifestation. However, the problem is that you keep trying to get back to feeling exhilarated about the desire instead of allowing yourself to naturally move into a place of nonchalance about the desire (where you see it as ordinary, from the dimension of boredom in the mind). You can read about all the dimension of the mind on this post – the 6 dimensions of the mind.

It’s important to understand that “pure” exhilaration about a desire is always felt only the first time it’s hatched, after that you are only trying to “re-create” the feeling of exhilaration about the desire. This is because you feel afraid of allowing the desire to feel ordinary, because you think that if the desire feels ordinary it will lose its importance in your mind. But if you allow yourself to just stay “natural”, you will see that the desire naturally starts feeling ordinary after a while and this is what allows a resistance-free manifestation of it. The state of exhilaration is only a primary/preliminary state, and it’s not meant to be “maintained” to manifest the desire.

The natural phases/transition that a mind goes through with respect to a desire are – Exhilaration (joy/love) – Doubt (fear) – Frustration (hatred) – Nonchalance (boredom). When it reaches the final phase of nonchalance, it’s least resistant to manifesting the desire and hence the manifestation starts unfolding with ease. A lot of people either get stuck in doubt or keep trying to re-create the exhilaration (which basically creates more frustration), instead of allowing a natural transition into nonchalance where you are no longer making a big deal out of the desire – this is when you really get in tune with the ordinariness of life, and thus see your desire from the context of reality, this is the stable place from where you allow a smooth manifestation to unfold.

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Hiya guys, im not sure this is a manifestation so much but it definitely is a success for me.

Today, my Dad woke me up to tell me I had two flat tyres on my car! And with it being a Sunday most places would be closed, so I wouldn't be able to sort them out today and also I'd have to get lifts to and from work tomorrow instead of driving.
I got out of bed and actually thought to myself, its okay theyre only flat tyres, they can be sorted. And that this doesn't mean the rest of the day is going to be bad. So I was really calm about it, and quite laid back about it all really.

Then after he'd got me hook, line and sinker and I was ready to get the jack out and try and change one of them, as we had onespare tyre, he asked me the date (April 1st) and it was an April fool!!

But what I realised was, that before I started using the Law of Attraction, before I started being more positive about things and displaying gratitude, this would have really put me in a bad mood! I would have been so angry about it happening and the inconvenience, and so impatient! But instead I was totally calm and laid back about it!

Actually, thinking about it now, when I started this I decided I wanted to be more patient, and laid-back, and so I guess it is a manifestation in that the universe has helped me become more of those things.

Thankyou universe!! 

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I heard from my guy tonight ... he said at first :i should call him sometime.. i basically said why u already know how i feel .. he said you might be suprised .. i said im not up for anymore suprises..he said you shld try i said what r u getting at he ssaid .. im trying to get to you.. i told him i cld NOT be his girl for the nighnt he said maybe we shld talk and i said ok? he said meet me at >>> and i said NO i didnt want to go there (there is a good reason ) then he said meet me at my house .. i said call me he did but i didnt hear the phone .. he left a msg .. he was OBVIOUSLY intoxicated.(he left a msg). and i told him id rather c him/talk to him when he was sober ... and i have not heard back ...

He also told me ..i know ... i am the only one who KNOWS??? i told him i do not know what hes talking about.. and im not sure that i do

i will wait to see if i hear from him again ... i think he thought id go running to him ... but i didnt feel like the place he wanted to meet was the appropriate place

maybe i missed my chance but if he was sincere i will hear from him again right??

i think i duid the right thing



UPDATE******
I did hear from my guy again today and we r thinking abt getting together either this week or next ... will see  what happens .. wish me luck


UPDATE #@

ok so this is what happened .. i hadnt heard from him since last monday when he said maybe another time

so this past sat i decided to send him a msg to maybe open up the conversation again

NO RESPONSE!
i waited awhile sent another  again NO response

so later that evening i rode by his house!! UGH why do i tortrure myself i saw an anfamiliar car i think he was with a girl ... why? do i think that .. because other wise he wld have been in the bar he usually goes to on sat .. he was not there .. whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy do i do this and whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy does he lead me on then not follow thru i sent him a msg and asked him not to contact me anymore ... i didnt see a girl i just assumed
 BUT i do not trust him with all thats happened  so i prob created this i worried that night i didnt go meet him that he wld meet someone else but if it was that simple if he forgot abt me that quick then dang whats up with that?? im jst gettting so frustrated with all this and obviously i am not in as much control of this as i was feeling i was .. darn

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By now I am sure you have heard of the movie "The Secret", and most likely have watched it at least once. Well there is one thing they touched on, that I want to get a bit more into detail with. The 3 steps for manifesting: Ask, Believe, Receive. I know there are some people that say that those steps don't work. And you may be right, but it depends how you are applying those 3 steps. This is why I want to tear these 3 steps apart, and teach you how to actually use these 3 steps for your benefit.

So let's start with the first step: Ask.

When I say ask, I do not mean "Hi Universe, I would like a pink pony please, thank you". Saying it out loud and directly telling the Universe is fine, sure go for it, I sometimes do, usually not for a pink pony mind you. But it requires a bit more effort than that. When you ask, you don't even have to tell the Universe what you want, it already knows. Your true desires are already sending energy out to the Universe. You wants need to be desires. These desires will get you emotionally involved, every cell in your body will start to vibrate at the same frequency has your desire. When this happens, you start to attract your desire to you. So basically when you Ask you are:

    Emotionally and verbally telling the Universe what you want. (the Universe will already know if it is a true desire, but make an effort to do this anyways)
    Make sure it is a true desire, and it burns a positive energy within you, you want this desire to light up your world.
    Feel good when asking, if you feel guilty or ashamed, don't. It is okay to ask for things as long it is for the good of you and others. So ask proudly and confidently!

Let's move onto Believe. When you truly believe that you will receive what you want, you are in the state of allowing. You have full faith in the Law Of Attraction, and you will allow it to bring it to you. Now this doesn't mean you sit back and do nothing, you have to move towards your goal as well. But in some cases, you will happen to receive it out of the blue, depending on what it is that you want. Believing is having such a strong faith in the Laws, you don't have any worry, doubt, stress or any type of negative emotion, especially a negative emotion attached to your desire. We all have our good and bad days, we are human. But I will repeat this because it is very important, you must never have a negative emotion attached to your desire. When you think of your desire it should make you feel so good. It will raise your vibration just thinking about it. And that means you are moving to the same level of vibration as your desire. Try to do some visualizing exercises, create an image of you already in possession of your desire and using it. What does it feel like, what is your environment like, go into complete detail. This is your life you are creating! If you feel that you are being "needy" towards your desire you may need to detach yourself from it. For example if you are wanting more money but when you think of money you feel you need more, or you don't have enough. When you look in your bank account there never is as much as you want. You most likely aren't having a positive emotion attached to your desire. This means you need to detach yourself from money. Allow the Universe to do it's job and bring money to you. This means not worrying about when the money will come, how the money will come, just trust that it will. As soon as you detach from wondering where your money is, why don't you have enough and just let the Universe do it's job, you become in harmony with the Laws, the Universe, and so you move into the third step, Receiving.

To Believe you need to:

    Have full faith in the Laws, Universe, Yourself
    Hand over your desire to the Universe, The Source
    Visualize/affirmations (helps to make changes in your sub-conscious mind)
    Detach if necessary

Receiving is being in the state of allowing. You are completely positive about your desire, you have no negative attachments, you feel good. Not only do you feel good about your desire coming to you, you feel good about yourself, and life. By being in a state of allowing your vibration is increasing, moving in alignment with your desire so you can receive it. After you Ask, and Believe, you start to expect your desire to manifest. There is no doubt in your mind. Expectation is very important to receive your desire, it gives you a comforting feeling of "knowing". This does so much for your sub-conscious and vibration level. To Receive you desire you need to:

    Expect your desire to come
    Be in the state of allowing
    Be grateful for your desire coming to you

 

I hope you find this expanded edition of the 3 Step Formula For Manifesting informative and that it helps you out!

Original post here http://manifestingthelawofattraction.com/blog/3-step-formula-manifesting/

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So tonight I was at a networking event and at the beginning, the host said that there would be door prizes (small ones ). And I just thought, "Wonder if I would win something...I mean trying to channel my Lady Luck side with my red cardigan..."

The time came for the draw, and the host announced the first prize as an iPod Shuffle. Now I already have an iTouch, but thought that it'll be something nice to give to me mom if I won it. So I made a wish to the Universe, and let it go (thinking that it really doesn't matter if I get it or not). The very next second (LITERALLY), my name was announced!

I feel like it's the Universe encouraging me to keep going on with manifesting my love back, especially how down I've been lately. Cannot say thank you enough...to the Universe and to everyone on this forum sharing their positive energy.

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Okay its a very great SUCCESS story coz my guy is not very good in remembering dates..yet he does his best to remember my birthday

Anyways yesterday we completed our 3 years together (we met 3 years back) and I had completely forgot about it,dont know how and he was calling me again and again since morning for some or the other reason I was in office getting slightly pissed off at his calls and then he told me that he wants to go Goa this year I agreed immediately coz I have been really waiting to go there and going there with my bf who is a lot into sports and fun would have been the best thing
Then in the afternoon he told me about us meeting..I was little ashamed of myself but he told me to relax and said some amazing things..This dd not stop here as in the night he told me that post his exams and results he would take me to some place outside India,a place of my choice completely and it is a gift from him for me...yayyy!! My guy is a MAN OF WORDS !! I love him..I never actually thought about this manifestation just a thought long back when Dhyanes planned a cruise trip with her guy like a year back and see guys ITS HERE at the perfect time and the biggest thing is I AM BEING TREATED AS A QUEEN !!Hehe..I can select anywhere and he will take me there

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Ok, so I promised that I would post my story here, and HERE I AM! I don't wanna talk about how everything ended... But I'll tell you how everything started ^^
In December 2010, I had been through the end of an old relationship with my best girlfriend. We were friends since we were eight, knew each other as anyone, had a lot of fun and shared everything togheter, but our preferences in life began to change. As any of us knew how to hold that, we stopped talking to each other until we become strangers. I decided that I didn't want to continue with this "friendship" and she didn't understand my decision, so she began to do stupid things and all of my old friends left me. In that time, I was with a guy that was so lovely... but I didn't feel that he was the love of my life, and at the same time, and old ex that I never forgot, started to ask me for another chance (he never really loved me). Everything was really difficult and the only thing I wanted was to be loved and love at the same level, to feel that I'm with the right person. One day, some old school colleages asked me to go out with them, because they knew my story and how I felt, and I said yes. I felt I had to go out with them, to forget all the sadness and... something else that I couldn't describe We had dinner, chatted, laughed and later we went out to a park to take some drinks before we went dancing. The boyfriend of one of my friends and his friends were there too, so she went to chat with him and when she came back, she told me: "Hey, one of those guys sais that he wants to meet you  " Ok, at that time, I had a "relationship" with the other lovely but not perfect guy, so I said to her... "Ok, that will be a bit difficult..." But I have to admit, I felt something, like disappointment, I really wanted to meet him. We continued drinking and we got a bit drunk, so we decided to go to the pubs to dance. When we were on our way to the clubs, my friend stopped us in the middle of the street and said "Ok, I have to tell you something. He said you are really beautiful, and he felt that you're special. Please, he's a very sensitive person and if you don't talk to him, just once, he'll feel really sad... I know you may be hurting the other guy, but you don't feel the same for him, and you know that this one attracts you." Those words made me feel that I had to take this chance... And I did. Ok, that day we were drunk, but we really had a good time. And since that, he began to call me to see me. Everytime we met, I felt that I had found the perfect man, serious, he's got everything I want!! We started a relationship and everything went right until I began to think that he would leave me. I become a really sad person, dependant on him for my hapiness, and guess what? Well, you can imagine. He did. Everything happened exactly the way I imagined. I was depressed, hurt, and I felt I had to do something about it. I took my book of "The Secret", read and read it many times, watched the film, started to apply it, but I felt that it wasn't enough; then, I found this forum and I began to feel that I was about to discover what to do. I've learned a lot from all of you, and I cannot express with words how THANKFUL I am for all your wisdom. I discovered that there's a way of attracting those special people back, but it'll be your own way! Maybe the things that helped me wouldn't be nothing to others... My advice is to take information and then organize it your way, the most believable way for you. If there's something that you don't understand, or doesn't convince you, don't worry, ask someone, look for answers, don't struggle! And please, get dettached! I didn't begin to see results until I felt completely detached. I have to say, during our separation, I've attracted this guy three or four times, but just for a while, and then he disappeared again. Why? Because I felt I needed him, and that's not true! I don't need him, I want to be with him because I love him and I want to share my life and happiness with him I really felt detached and he began to phone me everyday. At the begining, I didn't answer, or I waited a lot until I answered him. He was worried about my behaviour, and continued to phone. We began to see each other and I felt that he was scared of his feelings, so I asked him. He was, because he become nervous and told me that he didn't feel anything. But as days went by, he began to say things like "Do you imagine yourself with other guy when you're 40? Because I can't imagine myself without you" or "When we buy our house..." That confused me a lot, so yesterday I decided to ask him what kind of relationship we have. I know that we have to work on it to improve it, but I know he loves me ^^ He told me! We're going slowly but now, I BELIEVE. The funny thing is, that I know I've attracted the love of my life because that was what I was asking for when I met him, and I discovered the Law of Attraction at the same time!
(I'm sorry for the long post, hope this inspires you Feel free to make me any question if you need to )
I'd like to end my post adding that without this forum, and all the people that participates here, that would be not impossible but really hard for me. I have to give thanks to everyone of you that has read or answered my posts, everyone that has been there to support me when I felt down, and everyone that it's with me now celebrating my new relationship. I LOVE YOU!   

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its great I asked for my ex to text me and say she loves me I got it! whoop! love LOA things are going south with her new nd no doubt living life!

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Ok so maybe most of u know my story that I am trying to attract my love back. Lately we have been txting n today our conversation got more intimate sharing alot of the great things we loved about our relationship  so I definitely think we are makin huge progress cuz just a couple weeks ago he didnt want anything to do w me. I am so grateful and super full of joy and my faith is like a million times stronger than when I started this journey! Today was the first day we txtd all day so that's also amazing I feel so blessed!

So my question is now that we are talking to him should I do something differently than wat I've been doing to attract him back? should I do something more or something differently?

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So ive been tryin to get my love back... He is/was in a relationship i really dont know about the status anymore.

Here's the link to my original story:
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/so-this-is-my-story-i-love-him-and-i-want-him-back/

So everyday I am trying to keep positive and thanking God for everything and just keeping full of faith and positve thoughts. Last week a family circumstance came up and I had to txt him about it because my family was considering moving out of state.. He told me to pray and keep positive and didnt want me to move (this tells me he cares) so that was almost all last week. Things are normal at home because I've been keeping positive n I pray that we won't have to move away.
Earlier this week I just texted him telling him that he is always in my mind n it didn't feel like I was breaking the nc rule it felt just right... All that day I keep seeing signs and even heard his name! I thought he wouldn't reply but HE DID!! He asked how I was doin and wat was I up to... Then he started telling me that he misses some of the things that we used to do and how he misses my touch and how he loved writting and saying my name. He told me how he felt everytime we kissed when we were together and how I was his princess n how he wanted to wake up next to me one day...
I am so happy guys I have no words  to describe the feeling. Now I know he was/is seeing someone but I haven't been giving much energy or thought to that though and I don't know wat is goin on w them all I know is that he misses me. That's a start right? I have no doubt in my mind that things are getting better!! I am so super happy!!! We have been texting somedays it's hard tho cuz he keeps talkin and repeating about how much I hurt him. I've asked for forgiveness many times now. I want him to forgive me and hopefully things can turn around and we can finally be happy.
I have faith that I will be back with my love and our lives are going to be beyond amazingness!!! I feel like this is the beginning of my success story!!!

I wanna hear ur thoughts!! Wat do you all think! I need to keep positive so I need feedback! Thank you

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