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Hi everyone!
I noticed that there are a lot of posts here about this thing called RemoteSeduction. I also know that there are some mp3-files that offer a guided RS-thing or so. But i never really used this for myself. However i think i have something to share thats related to this stuff:
There is this girl i want to get back with since long. Sometimes when i heard a specific song that reminded me of her I felt very strong positive emotion and love for her when listening to it. So because it really felt good i did it maybe three days in a row for 15 minutes... Just for the feeling of it... just listening and feeling and imagine that we are here together. I think this is the core of RS. Unfortunatly she never contacted me in this period of time but i really wanted her to. Shortly after I then decided to contact her. It ended up that we are having almost every day contact now and getting closer step by step. She also took my hand and we lied in her bed till midnight. This is such a progress from no contact to this in 1-2 weeks.
AND HERE IS THE POINT -> She told me that shortly before i contacted her (time that i did this with the song etc) she started thinking of me A LOT! She also wrote me "hundreds of emails" but never got the courage to send them. She also said that she had seen my father unusual often. A few days ago her mother told me that in the last few weeks she sometimes made a sad face and said things like "i know someone who really understood me and i hurted him so bad". And this happend all in the time i did this rs-thing.
So guys if you feel strong emotion for someone and can keep this up for a couple days... i swear they are reacting to it. If you see direct results or not!!! its connected. They may not jump to the phone dial your number right away but they are receiving.
Just wanted to share. thx.
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Hello people ... Not long a go I open a discussion on Attracting Money. I was thinking it's probably best to Attract Love too since all the majority of the people who came here always come with the same issue .. LOVE. Now, Let's attract Love to our lives. What do you say ?? I don't know if we should go specific on someone that we want to be or left it open. But I came to conclusion, it is best to leave it open. It doesn't matter who will come and love us, as long we have all the love that we want in a person. True ? So, it could be your ex who come back or it would be someone new .. Let the Universe decide for us. I am not saying it is impossible to attract a specific person. I been there and I know it is possible, but seeing all the majority here that is clinging to one person and got broken hearted when things doesn't come like they want too really breaks my heart. So, how about it ? Let's do this together  I'm thinking we should all write how it feels to be in love. You know, by writing things, we could easily visualize and feel the feeling when we write it out. We could hear it inside our head and we start to feel emotions to our writing. And once we capture that feeling, we should let it linger in our heart. It is best to write here everyday about the feeling that we want to achieve. Yes, that is right. Instead of whining about what we don't want in life, why don't we start to write things that we actually want and celebrate it early ??  Let me know if you're interested so we can start this together.
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I heard this on a youtube video this morning. I think it will help everyone who is trying to attract their ex or a relationship!!!
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The longer it takes, the more fun I will have.
The more opportunity I will have to clarify because if it comes tomorrow, then I will be looking for something else.
I am glad that it is a big enough idea that it gets my attention and a big enough idea that I am willing to focus.
I am glad that I can feel my proximity to it.
I like that I have given birth to it and I like that it is mine and I like that it is coming and I like the journey to it.
IF YOU WILL LET THE JOURNEY BE YOUR GOAL RATHER THEN THE DESTINATION, THEN YOU'RE HAVING INSTANT SUCCESS AND THE MANIFESTATION IS CERTAIN.
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I know a lot of people suggest we need to feel excited about the things we wish to manifest. I just can't seem to do that. But is that a bad thing? It seems to me that you are not letting go if you are spending so much time being excited about something..lol.
I just have this calm, knowing feeling that he is mine. I don't obsess. I don't worry. I live my life!
There are times I feel sad, but it's times when I am lonely or I miss him. NOT a feeling that I've lost him forever. I feel like I'm in a good place!
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I came to this forum about a month ago searching for advices on how to manifest an ex back. As soon as I got all the information I needed I started implementing these on my life and what happened after a month is that I fell out of love with him!
The more positive I became, the more I focused myself on my life I realized that I don't really want this relationship and the feelings I once had started fading away. The only thing that kept me hanging onto it was actually my ego but my heart has let him go and doesn't want to start it over again.
What I really want is to be happy in love with someone who is my best match and that is not him. So I wish him the best of luck but my heart has moved on, I just couldn't hear it clearly because of all the ramblings coming from my ego.
And that is the new goal I am setting for myself : to manifest a passionate, loving relationship with someone who will be my best match.
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Hey Everyone,
I recently blocked my ex. My reasoning was this, you cannot enjoy the present or look toward the future if you are still holding on to the past and you can't let go of the past if you are constantly being reminded of it. My ex was my reminder. He reminded me how I settled for less, how insecure and downtrodden I felt and I found myself asking, why do I want to be around this person? It took all the courage inside me but I finally blocked him, I did't tell him that I did it, I just did. In the first couple days, I was still seeing his name everywhere, but eventually that stopped, I stopped myself from thinking of him as well. I am still not 100% there but I take it one day at a time.
A couple days in he realized I had blocked him and I felt so bad, because he was so polite when he asked via email, but I remained strong and did not reply. I believe LOA brought me to a relationship site that really helped me stay strong in this. I read an article on commitment, and how persons who are afraid of commitment and cannot commit to things, will attract partners who will always leave them. I used to think I was a committed person, but I looked deeper in me, I realized that I am always starting things but never finishing them.
The article brought up NC as an example of not committing to your choice. People who flip flop through NC and break it, or just can't make up their minds and just want to live in the gray area of "friendship". I thought, "wow that is me". Could I have really been attracting men who cannot commit to me, by not committing to other things in my life? I think this may very well be my problem. I decided to stick to my choice of NC, and the only time I will answer him is if he confronts me about it in person, not via text or email or any other indirect means.
Some of you are doing NC to get your ex back, so this may not apply to you. But for those of us that are doing it, to cut old ties and move on, keep at it!
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Sometimes I wonder if we do ourselves a disservice in using LOA to attract our exes. Also using RS to attract them. And all the pain and confusion about detachment, thinking happy thoughts and so on. It occurs to me we are making our exes, love interests, and our old relationships into such WORK! Sometimes it seems to me the best thing is to cry, feel the pain, allow the misery to bloom for awhile, and then withdraw and LET GO. Lot God. If it is meant to be it will happen. Go ahead and disagree with me, I know you will  Just sometimes I`m so fed up with it all, tired of waiting for signs, for an email, for a hint that I even cross his mind (which I`m pretty certain that I do, but still...)... Speaking of signs.....I have been looking for a new place to live for awhile and have to move in a month or so. Today I got a message that there was one small apartment available next door to where he used to live while he worked here. Next door, same building, wall to wall. No he doesn`t live there anymore, but I felt a strange sensation there for a minute....why?? Yes I have been doing RS and all sorts of LOA thinking and feeling, but never imagined I would end up with something like this. I don`t want to live there, far from it. Being reminded of him every single time I walk past his door? Many times every day? Ouch! I`ll just keep on looking....there must be another place available. Any thoughts, please please 
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Hello forum,
First of all I would like to express my deepest gratitude to this forum and its members. It has really helped me get my life back on track after I had allowed some huge changes in my life to take me into a bad place. I have never posted before, but I have been on this forum a lot in the last few months, and in doing so, have learned a lot of new and very helpful things.
Prior to this forum, I was introduced to the Law of Attraction when I "miraculously" found a copy of "Think and Grow Rich" in a drawer in an apartment I was renting. It was exactly what I had been looking for, and is still the best book on LOA I have ever read. In the 5 years since I found that book, I have read a lot of the other material frequently mentioned on this forum (Hicks/Abraham, Wallace D Wattles, Rhonda Byrne, Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor among others) and really put it to use in my life with great results. I will not pretend to be an expert, nor do I apply it perfectly for my benefit all the time (I still at times really struggle with how to "let go" and "detach" from something that I have a strong desire for, in order to manifest it).
Like many of you, I was originally drawn to this forum to regain the love of a very special person (in my case girlfriend). Like many of you, I was in the throes of depression, feeling like they were the only one for me and my life would forever be sorrowful without them... and that if I could just get back together with her, that the depression I was feeling would go away immediately, and life would be grand. When I realized that, I realized I was acting like a petulant child, and I would not want to be with someone behaving like I was (pouting because things weren't going my way). I got back to working on myself, went out, met new friends, dove into books on philosophies I had previously loved, and began enjoying life again. Make no mistake, I still love and believe that this girl is the one for me, I think of her often, and I still feel sad sometimes. But more often than not, I do things in my life that I get excited about, and when I think of us, I get excited about being together again. But I also realized that putting my life on hold will not make this happen. We are no contact, and have been for all but 2 weeks in the last 5 months, but I think sometimes that is how it has to be when passion burns this strong. I have experienced things I never knew existed in this time, and the personal growth that has happened is staggering. I think we both need this time to find ourselves, and make what was great even better. However, I also know that being open to other possibilities can only help me either find someone better, or help me grow, so I am doing that too.
My point is, that if you notice, I have not told the "story" of us, and all the bad things that happened. When I come on this site, often times I find that members are so eager to tell this "story" to anyone who will listen, that there is so much energy being poured into it, there is no way for the Law of Attraction not to work. Every single one of us uses the LOA perfectly.... what is in your life is a reflection of that.... it is law. HOWEVER, not all of us use LOA for our own benefit and highest good. I do not condone pretending that everything is good when in actuality you feel terrible, but the focus needs to shift. In "Conversations With God" by Neale Donald Walsch (another must read for LOAers) he talks about something called the "Sponsoring Thought". This thought is the "thought behind the thought", and is basically your vibration. The "Sponsoring Thought" in many cases is one of "lack" or "fear". If you don't like where your life currently is, then this needs to change. I love the advice on here of finding ways to be happy, however that is... whether it is getting involved in long lost hobbies (sports worked great for me) or going out with friends or whatever, raise your vibration, and PLEASE, STOP with telling "Your Story". You are not a victim to this "story" and constantly telling it, will only make it perpetuate.
I was as guilty of this as anyone else, but I realized I had to stop... It wasn't serving me. Checking success stories and other posts on this forum can be great and inspirational, but at some point, I think one has to have real faith and deep belief. If you have to check something every day in order to do that, it might be better than being discouraged, but it also probably means that you aren't truly happy and detached, and you probably don't REALLY believe either! You don't need others to reassure you... in your heart, you need to KNOW. You cannot micromanage the situation... if every positive sign makes you euphoric, while any negative one leaves you devastated, you are not in enough control of your own life to be ready for that person back yet.... they will not solve your problems. And you need to have faith. No question it is nice to have support, but I've found quiet confidence to be much more powerful than asking for reassurances from a place of insecurity and neediness. Make no mistake, I have a strong desire for my girlfriend, but I know I will be fine no matter what. She is the icing on my delicious cake... I do love icing, but I don't need it to enjoy the cake (bad metaphor... sorry).
So... Be vulnerable (it is the only way to feel the greatest joys), but do not allow yourself to be walked upon (I can't post a link because I haven't posted enough threads on here to do so, but Google "Brene Brown Ted" and watch the video on vulnerability, it is awesome ). I highly recommend books by Neale Donald Walsch. For the many of you struggling with self worth after break ups, books by Don Miguel Ruiz (particularly "The Mastery of Love", but also "The Four Agreements"). This man is a terrific philosopher who doesn't necessarily talk of LOA, but is great at getting you to love yourself, which makes him the perfect complement to it.
I apologize for the length of this, I get excited when I write. Hello forum again, I hope this helps some of you. Let me know
Much appreciation again to all of you for having a place to write this. This is an uplifting forum, and in no way do I want to discourage anyone. But I want us all to be liberated and be the best versions of ourselves. If what you are doing isn't serving you, you need to change what you're doing, because being unhappy is no way to live life.
Love and Gratitude to you all
G
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3 Steps to Manifesting Miracles Courtesy of Iris Angel
Is something holding you back from better health or wealth? Do you have the courage to believe in miracles?
By the dictionary definition......
A “Miracle” is “a surprising and welcome event inexplicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered the work of a Divine agency“.
We ALL have the capacity to create and witness miracles. Yes, some are more gifted at manifesting miracles because they PRACTICE and KNOW there is more to life than meets the eye.
Being open to the fact that science has NOT explained everything yet is a good pre-cursor for creating a miracle. Once you begin to FEEL the joy of receiving and believing in miracles you invite even more miracles into your life.
Here are what I feel and have experienced as the three keys to creating miracles: 1) AWARENESS
I write about consciousness often and this is it at it’s most basic. Do you KNOW what is going on around you? I posted this brief awareness test video before and this is a prime example of how we do not often recognize the world around us: Or, If you have seen this first one – here is another one for you: Well… how did you do? I have shown this video to several friends. Their results were the same as mine the first time. They were also not aware of what truly was going on.
We have so much noise to shut us down and distract us; phones, ipods, tv, satellite radio and the constant chatter of our minds.
When we are able to shut some of that out and notice what is TRULY going on around us – you may be AMAZED at what is going on. You will also be astonished at what you have missed that was right in front of you.
Try this exercise to heighten awareness:
-Throughout your day just stop. -Turn off the extra noises around you; phone, tv, etc. and sit. -Take 3 deep breaths – breathe in for 4, hold for 4, release for 8. -Now LISTEN. What do you hear around you? What do you hear underneath those sounds?
-You can also do this with vision… -What do you see? -Now what do you really see if you look harder? -Look around you more than once and TUNE in to even what might seem the most minute of details. An example: I am sitting outside on my deck under a canopy as I write this. If I had my headphones on I would JUST be experiencing that reality and there would be no other. While I LOVE music I am consciously deciding to turn it off and hear what else is present.
The first sound I hear is the pitter patter of rain on the canopy above my head, it is soothing and the more I listen to it the more it becomes harder NOT to hear it – it IS my reality now.
What else do I hear? I hear birds chirping in the background. The harder I listen the more I can hear DIFFERENT bird calls coming from different areas.. I also still hear that pitter patter of the rain. I have just expanded my reality.
I KNOW there is more to hear so I continue. I hear a whirring faintly in the background… it is the pool pump and I would never have noticed this if I hadn’t listened carefully but now I am experiencing 3 distinct sounds. Is there more? There is!
I also hear the faint but undeniable sounds of cars in the distance and a plane flying overhead. I have just expanded my reality to include MANY different sounds.
The more you can do this with sight and/or sound the more we are AWARE OF the things around us (take 3 minutes/day a few times a day if possible).
We expand our reality every time we do this.
There could be miracles happening right next to us but if we are closed off and asleep we will not see them. We need to be aware and conscious to recognize the world around us for what it truly is – a miracle in itself. The fastest way to bring a miracle to us is to understand and accept miracles happen daily – why NOT to us? 2) EXPECTATION
I wrote an older post asking, “What DO you Expect?”.
The state of mind that we are in truly plays a part in whether miracles appear or not. Are you expecting a long commute to work? Your boss to be miserable? Your relatives to get on your nerves? An argument with a spouse?
What we expect we are calling to us. We are telling the Universe “THIS IS HOW WE EXPECT LIFE TO BE”. We are CREATING it IN our reality and guess what? The Universe always delivers.
An example is one I use in coaching a lot: Many of us expect we know how people will react, how a situation will go or some common “annoyance” in our life. We feed our brain with all the “past times” things unfolded a certain way and we do not allow for it to go any other way.
What if we allowed ourselves to EXPECT a different outcome?
An Exercise:
Try taking what you would consider an “impossible situation”.
-A parking lot you NEVER get a space in. -A relative that ALWAYS pushes your buttons. -For 1 minute close your eyes and imagine the OPPOSITE. -You get the PERFECT PARKING SPOT! -That relative MUST have taken some happy pills or something because you cannot BELIEVE how happy and nice they are today!
Now.. the next time you are looking for a parking spot – flash to the experience and smile – wouldn’t it be cool if I GOT that spot? The next time you are going to see or talk to that relative – flash to the picture… expect them to feel better, kinder, happier.
I’d love to hear what happens after this one because this alone can change people’s lives instantly. Once you begin seeing that we indeed get what we expect – you open yourself up to the magic of life and miracles.
This last ingredient is perhaps the most tricky… letting go.
3) Letting Go
Ahh the hardest for me and you might be asking, “how the heck am I supposed to EXPECT something and let it go??”
When we attach too hard to a result we are creating resistance. We are telling the Universe – it is THIS way or NO way and I know what’s best. Life does NOT work that way.
It is WONDERFUL to expect a new job, relationship, opportunity… but when we say it has to be THIS job, or THAT person or THIS opportunity we are closing ourselves off for what really may be the miracle and the way we are to go. I have done this to a fault and know it is not always easy.
It IS when I am able to do this – that miracles do occur.
Example: We have in our head that we REALLY NEED this job we interviewed for. We are picturing it, KNOW it is right for us and are hanging everything on it. We don’t get it and the world feels like it has collapsed.
It COULD just be that a better job is around the corner. It could be that the boss you would have had would have driven you crazy. It could be that the miracle of meeting a new friend and/or relationship is at another location.
When we hold onto anything too tightly we are telling the Universe WE know better and in my own life I KNOW that is NEVER the case. Letting Go INVITES the miracle to occur.
Exercise: What DO you want? A new relationship? New job? Better health?
-Picture it, taste it, hear the sounds around it...
-Let your awareness grow around WHAT that would mean and feel the emotions associated with it.
-Expect it and now just TRUST the best always happens and it will work out.
Let go of the control of having to have it YOUR WAY or NO WAY.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER Miracles happen daily.
I witness them as a Reconnective Healing Practitioner all the time.
I am aware there is MUCH more around me than I can see and I tune into the frequencies and the person I am facilitating the session for.
I EXPECT a healing to occur but LET GO of WHAT healing HAS TO OCCUR. In doing that – there is a healing miracle each time.
Another example of how I put it all together:
My illnesses. After learning a bit about the mind/body connection I now had the awareness that I was more than my body. I was looking for more and more ways to prove that true.
I explored, sat silently and really tuned into my body instead of repeating the messages my doctors were telling me about what my future WOULD BE (wheelchair and in chronic debilitating pain).
I expanded my awareness. I then expected I would get better. I did not define it but I KNEW life could be better than it had been for the last 7 years IF I began applying some of what I was learning. I EXPECTED improvement.
I let go by NOT saying “I will feel 50% better in “x” time or else this is BS!” I had no time-line. I had no agenda to be completed except to feel better.
A miracle did occur and I was cured of all chronic disease and off medications within weeks. By expanding my awareness, expecting to get better and by letting go of exactly HOW it had to go – I was gifted the miracle of complete health.
Almost four years later I am still healthier than I have EVER been.
Miracles are not as mysterious and elusive as we may have been taught to believe. We all can witness them and we are all entitled to them.
Life is about flow NOT struggle.
Miracles are little gifts that come about to give us faith that we ARE in flow.
INVITE a miracle into your life by using these steps..... Awareness, Expectation, Letting Go.
Thank you and I wish you miracles in all areas of your life.
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Hey everyone, haven't been around lately. I realized something though.
Seems pretty simply enough, but the key to everything is happiness. Every article about LOA mentions being happy, and feeling good. I believe out of everything we can do, this is the most important aspect, everything else is just stepping stones to get to this happiness.
Why do we need to be happy? Well it's kind of domino effect. Everything we want is usually ultimately rooted in happiness. Say your ex calls and confesses that he loves you and misses you, that's going to make you happy. The end result is happiness, we get what we feel right? So if we're happy we get happiness.
So basically in a nutshell by being happy it's implied that we've gotten what we wish, so the universe gives it to us. If we're sad and worried, that just indicates that we haven't gotten it.
Just thought i'd say that.
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I have had kind of a low self esteem lately due to my breakup and all ... so i decided to say some affirmations and gratefuls such as
I am Beautiful All men are attracted to me I am a man magnet I am oozing with confidence and sex appeal I am confidence
stuff like that
so any way last night i went out to a bar i go to sometimes... and im by no means unattractive but im no super model either
I had 2 men ask to take me home...lol
one man stopped to tell me i was a beautiful woman
Danced all night
Looked up once and 2 guys were eyeing me and waved for me to come over ...i didnt
I go to this bar frequently and same ppl r there and this has never happened ..lol
today i was going down the road and a guy almost wrecked his bicycle looking at me ...lol and while having dinner with a friend i had guys looking at me ... it was weeeeeeird LOL
didnt think about it at first but then i remembered i had been doing the affirmations...it was a fun weekend!
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Letting go - the stage of universal capability of everything.
You've been there - fighting for your ex, loving them despite everything. We've seen "The Secret", we've been told to stay positive. And we do. Yet there's always the missing piece of the puzzle - our former lovers. Where are they? Why did they leave us? Why wouldn't they want us back? Where did we go wrong? What would have happened, if we had just...? Was there a chance to prevent the break-up? Was it our negativity that chased them away?
I loved him. I was cheated by him. I felt a painful inferiority complex, because he betrayed me, and I was immediately to think about what my fault was. Looks? Personality? Or maybe he still had feelings for his ex? Or that girl was really better than me? No, she wasn't! What could I do? Most often I am told that I simply cannot manifest for somebody else. Yeah, but I did! The fear of losing him, the fear of him cheating on me with that girl totally ate me up! I both loved him, and was very emotionally dependent. These two terms do not mean the same thing, though they're actually synonyms, only a thin border away from one another.
Basically, letting go for me meant getting over EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY (which, as any other dependency, is negative and bad for you), but I kept the love in my heart! After all, love is something that doesn't happen in couples only, unlike the cruel dependency. Love is absolute, it can never be destroyed, it can only be multiplied and transformed from one form to other.
In the first 3 months after me and Andon were parted, I walked the roads with a poker face on, not realizing at all what was happening to me from the inside. Yes, I did experience a great upshift in a lot of aspects - school, studying, friends, sport, even looks. Gradually, I thought, subconsciously, that the emotional dependency was over. The Andon thing was over. But a telepathic (really, it was!) dream encouraged me to win him back. I knew he loved me, I know he loves me now, too, as I am writing those words. I watched "The Secret" on May 1st 2011, because I thought that would be the way to have him back. Yes, it is. But LOA is not something that could be described by just one 90-minute-long movie, or a few books. At first, I came to the terrible realization that it was my fault we weren't together anymore. So much for anxiety, because being guilty actually means you're in control, because YOU did it, and you can UNDO it and repair it. I still felt grudge, anger, jealousy, hatred, regret... and all other emotions that can easily kill potential success. Even the sense of DESIRE is one with a negative vibration, because when you desire, you are still dissatisfied, you need/want something, you're desperate and you DON'T HAVE IT. I've seen Andon hold hands with a girl. But I didn't feel jealousy anymore then. I was astonished by myself! Because I knew that fact wasn't worth my attention, they would have never had the relationship me and him had. And they never did. Currently, Andon and I have no contact. It has been 15 months since our breakup. You might wonder why nothing has happened so far? Why aren't we still together? TRUTH IS, THESE QUESTIONS ARE NO LONGER PRESENT IN MY LIFE. I had been struggling, using and misusing LOA. I decided to let go, in fact, this forum introduced me to the idea. Letting go is actually the way to have him back. Of course, that is not any kind of controversy, whatsoever. It is just like... I browse the Universe's catalogue, I pick Andon (the guy) and order him BACK... So the delivery is expected to arrive any time now, but meanwhile I will wash the dishes. ^^ My constant DESIRE only POSTPONED the delivery for later and later and later in the UNFORESEEABLE future! I mean, the Universe is a delivery courier of a high reliability, so why should I demonstrate DISBELIEF AND DOUBT? I have an amazing life! Some weeks ago, my friend made me accept an amazing challenge - to list 500 000 (yes, five hundred thousands!) things I am grateful for. I took the plunge. I've only written 108 so far, but the list is growing each and every day. 2 weeks after I began listing those stuff, I decided to detach, to let go. I admit it - it took me quite some time to come to this conclusion... But the time was worth it! Now I can do things I've never imagined, because I FEEL in the best way I've ever felt! I begin my day with a smile, I jump at chances, I kiss, hug and love everyone around me. I enjoy the company of my best friends, I love running... Oh my, I could rant like that for hours! ^^
MY ORDER IN DETAILS: "Andon has, after more than a year now, realized the biggest truth in his life. He just couldn't stay away from me any longer. Our meeting took place in a café, and he was so sincere, open and sensible. I had been right all along that it is me he loves, me he longed for. We remember the good times we had with very warm feelings. And NOW we create many more sweet, loving and precious moments with each other. Every day begins with a smile and ends with a tender 'Nighty night and sweet dreams, love'; sex is awesome, me and Andon each develop amazingly in our own hobbies. We share this determination to succeed, we assist each other also. All the good stuff is just beginning."
A forum member modified it for me, so that we could get rid of ANY word with a sense of negativity. Actually, I posted the draft of my order in a thread here - I just took advantage of some classes at school and my smartphone. It didn't feel fanatic whatsoever. It felt REAL. Now I feel higher than ever...
My recommendation: Work on the process step by step. 1. Fill yourself with a boundless feeling of gratitude. Truth is, you probably have at least three things, beside your lover, that make your life worth the living! He/she fell in love with your confident, loving, optimistic self, who loved everything around it! List at least 20-30 things in your life you're thankful for, and I guarantee you - it is life-transforming! 2. Do the things you enjoy most. Do not skip your fitness days. Do not spare too much money. Enjoy shopping. Go swimming. Go to a disco with friends - ALWAYS helps! Do something with your hair, or your style. Follow your progress, see it and feel it. You're now gradually moving to a higher level of your being!!! 3. Make the order. Even a single visualization involving your lover will do. It has been scientifically examined AND proven that a single thought has its effect and will never lose its way (it even works with electrones!!!). 4. Don't think about it. Set yourself a list of rules. Don't stalk your lover on Facebook. Don't ask mutual friends about him. Learn to love your life and emphasize on your favourite activities - this will make you so busy that you won't even have a single second for despair! 5. Calm down. Let go. Really, it's that easy. You're probably afraid that detachment and letting go is equal to giving up, but it is not. You just stop WORRYING and thinking about it all day - because it's wrong to do that. When your lover finally makes contact, which I'm sure will happen, you might be extra surprised about it. That's why it's so magical!
Good luck, blessings and love to all of you! I know that now I've shared this, your success stories are on their way to be published!
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