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on: October 07, 2012, 03:24:01 PM 1 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Will Smith and Law of Attraction
Some thoughts to ponder..
“Greatness is not this wonderful, esoteric, illusive, God-like feature that only the special among us will ever taste. It’s something that truly exists in all of us. It’s very simple.”
“There’s this delusional quality that all successful people have to have. You have to believe that something different than has happened for the last 50 million years of history. You have to believe something different can happen.”
“There’s a redemptive power that making a choice has. Just decide. And from that point, the universe is gonna get out your way.” -Will Smith
“If we dream something, if we picture something, that is a physical thrust in the universe.”
“Being realistic is the most common road to mediocrity.”
“It takes such a desperate, obsessive focus. You’ve really gotta focus with all of your fiber, and all of your heart and all of your creativity.” -Will Smith
on: July 23, 2012, 01:28:26 PM 2 Law of Attraction for Wealth / Law of Attraction for Wealth / “Wanting” vs “Having”…
Here’s an important distinction that a TON of people are missing…
There is a huge difference between vibrating on the level of “having” instead of “wanting”.
At it’s most basic level, the Law of Attraction states that we attract more of what we put out. What we put is out, is referring to our vibration. How do we know what vibration we’re putting out? Well, that’s what emotion is for!
You emotions are your direct translation of the vibration you’re putting out. This means, when you’re feeling good, you’re transmitting a vibration of “good” (obviously we should be getting more specific than that, but it’ll do for the point I’m making) – since you’re transmitting a vibration of “good”, you attract more good things into your life.
Ok, now onto having and wanting. Here’s the thing, when you put out a vibration of “wanting”, you get more “wanting”.
Now, when you think about that thing or experience that you want really, really badly – what feelings come up? Are they feelings of badly wanting that thing? If that’s the case, you’re just attracting more “wanting”
If you’d prefer to actually have that thing or experience instead of just want it…what you need to do, is create feelings of already having and enjoying it. Transmit those feelings of “having” and allow the universe to do it’s magic.
One quick way to getting to that emotion of “having” is to ask yourself some smart questions. Here’s one: “How is the world different, now that I have x?” or “What looks different, now that I have x?” or “What sounds different?” or “How does it change my life to have x?” or…
You get the point…use questions that assume already having it, and elicit a description.
Hope that cleared up some confusing on “wanting” vs “having”. Get cracking…and have fun…but…
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on: July 06, 2012, 05:04:19 PM 3 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / This is a post about why you can change the way another is treating you
I've been having some thoughts and insights about using the law of attraction, conciously, in relationships. I would like to share them here and invite additional contribution.
One of the things I have seen asked - and I have asked myself - when using LOA in relationships is 'how is it possible to MAKE someone else feel a certain way?'. We ask this when we're using LOA to attract romantic relationship, better friendship or harmony with our family or at work. After all, we're told that a fundamental of LOA is that 'I can only create in MY reality', right? We're told that we are only responsible for ourself - not anyone else. And someone else can create whatever THEY want.
Many people, myself included, have then asked - if this is the case, how can I influence someone to treat me differently, how can I get an ex who is adamant that 'it's over' to come back to me, how can I have my Mum / Dad / boss treat me more nicely?
From watching LOA videos, reading and using my intuition I now have an answer that is much closer into the vortex and the truth. This is how: everyone has every possibility in them. Read that again. Each person is a multitude of possibilities, only a small fraction of which are expressed at any one time. By this, I'm talking about vibrational possibilities. Remember, we are fundamentally vibrational beings - so we can vibrate at many, many different frequencies. I can vibrate at the frequency of love, in the vortex, using LOA effortlessley. I can vibrate at the frequency of hope, verging on belief. I can vibrate at frustration. I can vibrate at wealth...poverty...hatred...depression...emptiness...excitement...creativity - and so on. We - each one of us - is full of an entire range of vibrational frequencies. When we begin conciously using LOA, we are choosing our frequency.
Now, when we use LOA with other people - we are not (as I used to think) 'making' them do or think or feel anything. What we are doing - is activating a dormant vibration within them. Think of it this way - each person contains a million, billion vibrational seeds. You pick the one you want, and water it with your constant attention to it. That is the seed which grows. There is a big difference between thinking this way - I am just activating something within them that's already there - to thinking 'I have to MAKE them love me' or 'I have to MAKE them want to come back to me'.
When we realise that what we want is already in that other person, the process of attracting becomes much, much easier. Because we KNOW that possibility already exists, in potentia. And KNOWING is right up the top of the vibrational scale - higher than HOPE. We can HOPE that the person loves us (for example). Or we can KNOW that they ALREADY love us, respect us, treat us well - and that this just needs to be activated.
There's something more, too. You know however 'they' are acting at the moment? Whether it's your ex who cut off all contact, your flatmate who is always stealing your toast or your boss who is just mean? This part is important. How they are acting now was once just a seed and 'this' current reality is no more important and certainly no more powerful than the 'seed' reality you are going to help to grow.
Read that again.
Current 'reality' is no more powerful than the seed reality.
ALL CURRENT REALITY SHOWS YOU IS WHERE YOUR VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY *WAS*.
I say 'was', because, as The Secret says - one of my favourite quotes: 'That's not who you ARE - that's who you...WERE!'. So wherever, however someone is treating you is just showing you which vibrational seed you have activated within them, and it will always correlate with your PAST vibrational reality.
And as soon as you change your focus, and shift your vibrational reality...BOOM! You'll activate a new seed! So the most powerful potential within a person is not the currently activated one. It's the one you choose to give your attention to NOW. Most people don't realise this, so they just keep giving their attention to the currently activated seed, thinking 'that's all there is', 'that's who THEY are' or 'that's just how they behave'. And so that seed stays active. For a seed to stay active, it NEEDS attention. Give your attention to a different seed - and a different reality will BLOOM!
Tips for giving attention to another seed may come in another post.
Thank you for reading
Love and happiness in the vortex,
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on: June 05, 2012, 05:37:32 AM 4 What Is Your Attracting Today? / What Are You attracting Today? / LOVE LIGHT PEACE
I just wanted to send some love, light, and peace energy through to everyone. I just was thinking how amazing this forum is. Yes the physical mechanics of the website, the admins, the internet etc is amazing too, but what I really mean, is all of you. Just the thought of 100's or 1000's (not sure how many members there are) have joined to give support to one another. That is incredible. And that is where the world keeps needing to go towards. Towards a place where racism, hate, war isn't even in the dictionary. I believe that is one of the human race goal, is to grow into a loving society where we all support one another. We don't use violence and hate to get our way, there are no ego power struggles.
So I just wanted to thank each one of you for being beautiful people and helping each other out. I have gained a few relationships with people on the forum, some who have been coming here for awhile. And I can just see how much they care about the people here and how much they look forward to checking out the posts. Not only to post their own questions, but to see who they can help out today. And that is very special.
Sorry if this is kinda over the top, but I just wanted to share my appreciation with all of you.
Love all you great human beings!
Sending Energy Your Way,
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on: May 24, 2012, 09:53:29 AM 5 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / You...Yes You
Hey you! Yes, I mean YOU!
What if I told you that this post was written especially for you? Would you believe me? Maybe. Maybe not. That’s okay, we’ve only just met. But here’s the thing: I know that right now, in this moment, by some miracle, of all the places you could be and of all the things you could be doing, you are reading this post. You are spending your time with me. That makes me happy. And since we are here, I want to invite you to consider the possibility that it’s not an accident or a coincidence.
Life and the Universe have a funny way of bringing us to the exact people, places, circumstances, and messages that our souls are calling for at the right time. It could be a phone call from a long-lost friend we’ve been thinking about, a timely financial windfall when we need it most, a seemingly random meeting at a social event that leads to the perfect job opportunity, or a poignant bumper sticker—the possibilities are endless.
This phenomenon of seemingly meaningful coincidences is called synchronicity. It’s like a wink from the cosmos, a nudge from above to let us know that we’re on the right path and that we’re supported in the pursuit of our dreams and highest aspirations.
When it comes to synchronicity, we do have a part to play and the all-important variable that we are in control of is FAITH. We have to BELIEVE that our dreams are real. We have to TRUST that anything is possible. We have to KNOW that every little action we take on behalf of our dreams is supported by unseen forces that are working for us and with us. Even when times get tough and all signs point to giving up, we have to dig deeper and find the faith to keep going.
When our faith is strong, it colors our perceptions and allows us to see the interconnectedness of everything in our lives, even in our most challenging moments. We begin to understand that there’s a reason for the way our life is unfolding even though it may not always be immediately apparent. A job lost creates space for a better job. A relationship ending gives way to a new beginning and a chance for big love. A resounding “NO” means there’s an even more exciting “YES” coming our way.
When we tune in to the synchronicity of life, when we look with the eyes of faith and listen with the ears of trust, we begin to experience the undeniable truth that we are all connected, that there is rhyme and reason to the way life flows, and that each and every one of us is accounted for. We begin to know without a doubt that we ALL have something special and unique to offer the world. We begin to see clearly that the more we act on our dreams and vision for our lives, the more we will be helped by forces much greater than we are.
So today, right now, in this moment, I want to tell YOU that your dreams are real and that YOU have something special to offer the world that nobody else has. The path you are traveling may be the more challenging one but don’t lose faith, don’t listen to the doubters, don’t let setbacks keep you down—and most of all, don’t give up. Keep at it and you will be guided and supported. Keep taking action toward what you believe in and tune in to the beautiful synchronicities that come to your aid and encourage you along the way. You are on the right path!
Thanks for spending time with me. I really did write this post for YOU
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on: May 11, 2012, 09:27:59 AM 6 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Stay Happy always
What about the happy now?
Forget dying and going to some blissful heaven.
Forget retiring and finally enjoying your life.
Forget about when you are enlightened and how good it will supposedly feel.
This moment is special. This is it.
Yet we often wait for some special occasion or reason to celebrate.
We often spend our lives striving to get to some destination that we think will make us happy.
Even when you get there is it all that it was promised to be?
What are you waiting for to be different in your life?
Waiting leads to suffering.
Beliefs that are Happiness Killers:
1. The journey needs to be suffering, struggle, or hard.
2. Something needs to be different in order for you to be happy.
3. Life owes you something.
4. You should be different than you are: Prettier, skinnier, richer, etc.
5. The life you have now was not meant to be your life.
Bottom line: one of the greatest happiness killers is the belief that “The experience I am having IS NOT the experience that I should be having.”
Right now, let go of the of the way you think your life should be. Or the way you thought your life should have turned out. Or how you dreamed it was going to be when you were twelve.
Accept that this is your life right now.
This is how it is NOW. And now is all you have.
When you accept that this is your life, today. Then you can start appreciating the richness available to you now. And since what you focus on will expand, you will manifest more of that richness.
When you stay stuck in regret of the life you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have.
So the life you have is the life you were meant to have, but not the life that you need to continue having from this moment onward, if you choose otherwise.
You cannot have the life you want by focusing on the life you wished you had but don’t.
Forgive yourself. Forgive those you feel wronged you. Then fully embrace the life you have in order to create the life you truly want.
As you embrace the life you have, you can savor every single moment. Not waiting for something special to happen.
No New Years.
Take your best dress out of the closet and wear it.
Take your best plate out of the cupboard and use it.
Take your best loving off of the shelf and share it.
Take your mind off of control and lose it.
Happiness is the way. Not simply a destination to get to
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on: May 09, 2012, 04:06:54 PM 7 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / 10 other Laws of Attraction are what makes it work
How I started to learn about...
The Law Of Attraction.
Its like something ive always in my life called- The Vibes. You know - Good vibes bad vibes, the feelling of a place, a person the way they are speaking or how they enter a room, also the expression on the face can tell the vibes people give and receive.
Many people complain it dosnt work or its bull,... but it works, its real.
The Law of Attraction is 1 of many Laws.
My praise of this movie- The Secret, is that it brought back the...
Thought movement - of positive thinking - back from the early 1900s
I didnt buy the book. The Secret movie did all the work of the book. The book is Based on the early books about the laws of Attraction Like
The Science Of Getting Rich 1910 - Wallace Wattles ( the book Rhonda read )
The Great Within 1907 - Christian Larson
The Hidden Secret 1907- Christian Larson
Thought Vibration 1907 - William Atkinson
The Miracle of Right Thought 1910 - Orison Sweet Marden
The Secret of The Ages - Robert Collier 1925
As A Man Thinketh 1903 - James Allen
The Law Of Success 1925 + 1928 - Napoleon Hill
Think and Grow Rich 1937 - Napoleon Hill
Working With The Law 1964 - Raymond Holliwell
These are the greatest books that made millionaires, yes I have them.
They gave me the many keys to open all the locks to the Door of happiness and Wealth.
Happiness is first and now, and happiness through the journey to riches.
Even Tony Robbins learned, by standing on the shoulders of other giants like the great Jim Rohn.
The Law of Attraction is real period. You attract what you are thinking or saying. If you think its not working its because you need to train your way of thinking. Most are focusing on what they don't want rather than what they want. Thinking and speaking of the negative instead of the positive outcome. We react on our negative emotions instead of controlling our emotions and respond with positive thinking, talking and action. The key is repetition of positive talking reading and thinking to change the inner mind to guide us to the positive actions and decisions in our life. Write down what you want, your goals, and read them many times daily and you will make them happen. Dont think about how or when, but know its already yours, and say thank you.
The Law of Attraction is a main understanding Law to bring the right way of what you want in your life, But you need to know its just 1 Law. There are 10 more Laws to govern a good life. If you follow just 1 will your life be right? No. You must follow all of the Laws to make a right thinking and good life. Following laws are easy to do like everything in your life. Things are also easy not to do. Its when you don't do them that life becomes hard.
The 10 other Laws of Attraction.
LAW OF THINKING - think right, positive. are we controlled by our emotions? -or are we controlling our emotions. Work on your positive emotions. good feelings to put you on the right track.
LAW OF SUPPLY - supply is unlimited. No competition, there is plenty for everyone.
LAW OF RECEIVING - you must give before you receive, is a cycle. give without thinking of what you will get.
LAW OF INCREASE - praise. every one, every thing, all places circumstances. You will praise your way to success.
LAW OF COMPENSATION - if there is a need for what you do, and your good at it, you will be hard to replace. you will get paid on degree of your performance, and ability to help others in teamwork. Do more than your paid for.
LAW OF NON- RESISTANCE - dont resist - the resistance, means don't fight back, let it go by, go around, agree and win, resistance from others means your advancing.
LAW OF FORGIVENESS - forgive yourself first, let go of guilt, and grudge. As you forgive you will be also forgiven,(it does NOT-mean-always give another chance.
LAW OF SACRIFICE - discipline yourself, train yourself to be the best at what you do, a better you, your goal. (sacrifice a bad habit for a good habit, something is always sacrificed for something else)
LAW OF OBEDIENCE - be obedient to the laws or suffer from not following the laws.
LAW OF SUCCESS - success is already yours, do what must be done and take action to get it. (walk it, talk it, as if what you want is already yours and who you are)
Try these main books.
Working With The Law - raymond holliwell 1964 (where these 11 laws are).
The Law of Success - napoleon hill 1925 ( secrets of the richest men in the world ).
Think And Grow Rich - napoleon hill 1937 (bob proctor read this and changed his paradigm to become rich).
These 3 books are the only books you need to read over and over and things happen for you and life goes your way. I have experienced the change with this knowledge.
Other books you can get are the early 1900s books. They are the ones to get. The many books on Law of Attraction and Positive thinking are based on these early books.
The Science Of Getting Rich - wallace wattles 1910 ( the book that rhonda B.The Secret is based on).
As A Man Thinketh - James Allen
The Great Within - Christian D. Larson 1907
The Secret of the Ages - Robert Collier 1925
The Miracle of Right Thought - Orison Swett Marden 1910 (the possibilities of greatness within yourself ).
Im about simplicity. Working The Law by Raymond Holliwell is a short to the point easy word book. Think and Grow Rich, and The Law of Success 1925 version by Napoleon Hill, these 3 books again are all you need.
If you hear skeptic people talk or nay sayers, stay away from them, no matter who they are. If you have negative friends, dont loose them, but now less contact, and make new positive successful friends.
I Have found 3 main things
from being in dept, to having riches, main thing is be happy from now and through the journey to riches.
1 The Laws of Attraction (control emotions positive)
2 Health - The Key to Health is - BODY Ph BALANCE (be fit)
3 Water is Alive and has Memory (messages in water)
So be happy, send Love (you are like a real radio wave) control yourself, and be healthy. Some people will say it all hard work. I say its smart work, because it all starts with how you think. All the best - Joey Pagan
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on: March 15, 2012, 12:13:32 AM 8 Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Nice Story
I received this in e-mail and liked it very much. Hope you like this too.
Power of Belief
A businessman was deep in debt and could see no way out.
Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment.
He sat on the park bench, head in hands,
wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.
Suddenly an old man appeared before him.
"I can see that something is troubling you," he said.
After listening to the executive's woes, the old man said, "I believe I can help you."
He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying,
"Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time."
Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.
The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller,
then one of the richest men in the world!
"I can erase my money worries in an instant!" he realized.
But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe.
Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.
With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment.
He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.
Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared.
But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.
"I'm so glad I caught him!" she cried.
"I hope he hasn't been bothering you.
He's always escaping from the rest home and telling people he's John D. Rockefeller. "
And she led the old man away by the arm.
The astonished executive just stood there, stunned.
All year long he'd been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.
Suddenly, he realized that it wasn't the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around.
It was his newfound self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.
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on: February 09, 2012, 03:54:35 AM 9 Law of Attraction for Abundance / Law of Attraction for Abundance / 30 things to stop doing to yourself
on: June 02, 2011, 03:14:19 PM 10 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / About Detachment
There is another Law in conscious creation of reality that is as equally important to understand as the Law of Attraction. It is the Law of Detachment. It is this Law that gives the crucial distinction in utilizing the Law of Attraction successfully. The Law of Detachment is complimentary to the Law of Attraction.
The Law of Detachment says that in order to successfully attract something, you must be detached to the outcome. If you are attached, you project negative emotions of fear, doubt, or craving which actually attracts the opposite of your desire. You are operating from a position of worry, fear and doubt rather than serenity, trust and faith. Of course there are times when negative emotions are meant to be felt and acted upon, but your dominant emotions should be positive ones.
Let go and let God. Anything you want can be acquired through detachment, because detachment is based on resting in the complete grace of God and knowing that He is always working everything through you and together for your greatest good. To be detached is to realize that everything good is from God and nothing at all is from you. It is God doing it through you and the other elements in your reality so there’s nothing to hold on to as your own, all you have to do is to have the right beliefs and let God do it.
Ease and perfection of action depend entirely upon the degree in which we cease to depend upon the consciousness. You have to take your conscious mind off it in order to let your subconscious mind take over. The pilot and the autopilot cannot control the plane at the same time. You have to let go in order to let God take over. To detach is to allow the universe to bring your desire into manifestation whichever way is best for you. When you are detached, your desires will manifest much faster.
To be attached means to be powerless because what you attach yourself to, you give your power to it. When you look to outside sources to bring you fulfillment, you are giving your power away. When you are looking to something outside yourself for power and happiness, you are making something other than your true self your source. Detach knowing that whatever you detach from has no power over you, but you have complete power over it.
Attachment to anything will always create insecurity no matter how much of it you have. In fact, some of the people who have the most of what they want are the most insecure. Attachment to something makes you wonder if you will keep having it or if you may lose it. Insecurity causes unhappiness.
The search for security and certainty is actually an attachment to the known. There’s no evolution in that, absolutely none at all. And when there is no evolution, there is stagnation, entropy, disorder, and disintegration.
Uncertainty and the unknown is the field of all possibilities or pure potential. It is ever fresh, ever new, always open to the creation of new manifestations. It is the realm of pure creativity and freedom. When you are attached, your intention gets locked into a rigid mindset and you lose the fluidity, the flexibility, and the spontaneity inherent in the field of pure potential.
When you experience uncertainty, you are on the right path so don’t give it up. You don’t need to have a complete and rigid idea of what you’ll be doing next week or next year, because if you have a very clear idea of what’s going to happen and you get rigidly attached to it, then you shut out a whole range of possibilities. Realize that there is an infinite intelligence working alongside your own and it is the one that can bring you a better way or more worthwhile experience. All you have to do is state your intentions and desires and detach from the how and when they manifest.
Are there times when you want to work something out, but yet the more you try to work it out, the worse it gets? When God works, it is effortless. God arranges the situations for you when you are not in it, so that when you step in, you experience the blessings. It is so much better to depend on God than to depend on your own strength. Unless the Lord builds the house, they that labor do so in vain. What you can control, you should control. What you can’t control, you should let go and let God. When you trust God, everything is under control.
God will never deny our request because whatever we want for ourselves we can manifest. But to experience nonresistance and effortless accomplishment, we must surrender to the will of the Universe who only wants for us nothing but the best for we are the beloved children of the Creator who wants us to have it all. As Jesus reminds us, “it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.”
You may have the intention of going in a certain direction but between point A and point B there are infinite possibilities. With uncertainty factored in, you might change direction in any moment if you find a higher ideal, or something more worthwhile pursuing. You are also less likely to force solutions on problems, which enables you to stay alert to opportunities. One door seems closed, but there is another open. What you want can always come in another way. God never closes a door without opening another one, so we need to stay alert to see whatever new opportunities life presents us.
Imagine you found a job you’re looking for. It looks like the job you want, and it appears the odds are in your favor as you move from interview to interview within the office, yet at the last minute they choose to hire someone else. If you are detached then you trust that another opportunity, the right opportunity is on its way. However, if you are so attached to getting that job for whatever reason, you cause yourself lots of anxiety and stress if you don’t get it, which means you are looking for this job as an outside source to fulfill you on some level.
The Law of Detachment accelerates the whole process of evolution. When you understand this law, you don’t feel compelled to force solutions. When you force solutions on problems, you only create new problems. But when you wait patiently and in faith, the right solution will arise on its own. Confusion is the doorway to a new understanding. Order will emerge from the chaos.
We must have goals otherwise we are denying our inner desires, cutting ourselves off from growth and development. Goals inspire us to live, create and move forward. If we are not doing this, we are dying on the inside. We want to embrace desires and intentions but we just don’t want to cling to them. Of course, we all want to realize our goals and desires, however if realizing them is the source of our well-being, the source of our happiness or worthiness we will fail!
We have all heard of or know the classic stereotypes called overachievers who appear to have it all, the money, the fame, the status, only to be miserable on the inside. They’ve been setting and realizing goals all their lives, and are still miserable.
This is why detachment is so crucial. When you don’t have to have this thing in order to be well, or be happy, then you can let go and enjoy the process. Understand it is the process that is the joy, because the minute we realize our goal, we are going to be setting new goals. There is no realization of any goal that is going to be the completion of us, once we realize one goal we are going to keep moving forward, we are evolutionary beings. I am sure you have all experienced this. There is no way that the realization of goals is the source of our peace of mind or wholeness.
The purpose of life is growth. Life without progress becomes unbearable. It is the cycle of continuous progress that makes us happy. We are Energy Beings and energy is always in motion. To live is to keep moving and flowing. When we stop we die. Nothing rests, everything moves. Only at the highest rate of movement where God is flowing continually in us is there rest.
We learn from the law of attraction that all we experience is the result of what we feel. When we feel undesirable feelings, we attract undesirable experiences. Realize that when we feel undesirable feelings, it is because we are in a state of attachment to certain things that create those feelings. Break away from the attachment, stop worrying and bothering about it. Have not a care, act like it doesn’t matter and your feelings will be liberated to more positive ones of fun, joy and peace.
The truth about States in NLP is really all about being in or out of alignment with your Higher Self. When you are in alignment, you experience all your desired states such as happiness, confidence, freedom, joy, peace, fulfillment, empowerment. When you are not in alignment, you experience all your undesired states such as worry, fear, anxiety, uncertainty, weakness, frustration, depression and disempowerment. So in essence, there are only two states, a state of alignment and a state of misalignment.
The Higher Self is the divine and universal aspect of God in us. Paul says “in my flesh dwells nothing good”, but not “in my spirit”. Our spirit is the universal spirit of God. The image of God.
No one else can take the place of your center except two persons. Christ in you and you in Christ. Anyone else that is close the center of your heart can only be allowed to orbit around the center and not placed in it. You are not to be attached to anyone or anything. To be in a state of non-attachment is to be like God. God is unattached to everything, he allows his creation to be free. If it wasn’t so, He wouldn’t give anything free will.
Have not a care in the world. Be free spirited and carefree. Have fun, play the game. Remember there are no rules and there are no limits. Just have the attitude of doing something and then seeing what happens. Be in a position where you have nothing to lose. We are beings of evolution. It doesn’t matter whether the past experience was good or not. Keep moving on to the next one.
Some of the best things you desire just seem to happen to you when you are in a total “I don’t give a damn” mode. And while it is happening, it is no big deal to you and it doesn’t matter. But you acknowledge the paradox of what’s going on in the situation, that you get what you want when you don’t really seem to want it.
Be insistent yet detached. You focus on what you want, expecting it to happen and even when it didn’t happen, it doesn’t matter. Have a detached involvement. There is a fine line between caring in a detached way and being truly uncaring. Just like there is a fine line between perfect good and perfect evil. Because the opposite ends of a polarity spectrum are really just next to each other.
Detachment does not mean we feel nothing. Detachment is not apathy or indifference. Detachment feels freeing! When we are successfully detached from the outcome we feel like the Universe has our back, like all is well, like we can trust in our greater good, like we are absolutely certain that all that we desire is already ours. It is essential to intentional creation to get into a feeling place of peaceful expectation that what we want is already at hand. As long as we are ‘attached’ we will continue to focus on the negative aspects of what we don’t want and the fears that come up as we doubt our ability to manifest.
Do not engage in something if it is the only option you feel you have. You are being attached. You will be disappointed and mentally shifted out of alignment with your center, if the thing you want to do is not available for one reason or another at the time you want to do it. Create several other good options to take on in place of it at the time as well before you choose to engage in it. When you go ahead and do it in that manner, you will most likely get what you want because your energies are right.
Enlightenment is a state of non-attachment. It is the realization that all suffering is burning energy on the uncontrollable. To be unattached is emotional freedom and psychological stability. Keep your thoughts flowing. As long as there is flow, there is abundance. The moment you rest at any place, you stagnate and there is lack.
We are beings of evolution. When we accomplish goals, we set new goals. We either progress or regress, we never stand still. We feel like we are dying if we are not growing, and collapsing if we are not expanding. When you keep advancing, your intelligence and knowledge will be in effect. When you become attached, your intelligence and knowledge will be of no effect.
To be in grace is to live in the truth that all things flow from God through you and so there is nothing to cling on to as yours. To be under the law is to be enslaved by the yoke of bondage which is attachment. To be attached is to fall from grace because you are trying to hold on to emptiness and are no longer flowing. When you are attached, Christ your Higher Self is of no effect unto you. When you are detached, you acknowledge that you are using God’s power and not your own.
The more you are unattached, the more you allow God to flow in you and the more rapidly your desires will manifest because your Energy and vibrations are more aligned with the flow of God’s Energy and therefore that which you desire in your life.
It is an enlightened way of living your life. You have to let go and trust that life itself is taking you to the things you desire. As you let go and trust, you feel different, you radiate a different vibration to the world, and better things and experiences come to you Again, the whole secret is in learning to simply let go.
Learn to follow the quiet voice within that speaks in feelings rather than words. Follow what you hear inside, rather than what others may be telling you to do. The universe itself will act to move you to what you want, and move what you want to you. All you have to do is let go, while acting on your inner prompts. Let go of fear, doubt, worry, disappointment, and any other negative emotion that might make you feel low.
Being unattached gives you the ability to drop whatever it is you are focusing upon at the moment and focus on something new. It makes you able to switch your concentration from one thing to another. It keeps your consciousness in flow and not fixed at any spot so it can be free and spontaneous in experiencing unfoldment.
Effectively applying the law of attraction requires both desire and acceptance. Practicing the law of detachment is how we can accept and expect what we desire. The two laws work harmoniously to support us in effectively applying the power of our minds and the universal laws of creation.
Every problem you experience in life is an opportunity for you to gain precious awareness that you do not already possess. A problem is an experience with a lesson to learn. The lesson contains the valuable awareness that will increase the sum total of your soul’s knowledge, that empowers you to a greater level of living and being. The key to learning the lesson is in perception and lateral thinking. Be flexible and have an open mind. You will find the solution that you are happy with.
We are all instruments of God whether yielded or unyielded. When we are yielded, we are of more use and become more powerful instruments and also enjoy the process with greater happiness. Do not care, just surrender yourself to the flow of God. It is flowing all the time and when you are ready, it will flow through you. When you are detached, you are trusting and surrendering to God. Anytime you are not detached, you are not trusting, not surrendering and not yielding to God.
The law of detachment explains why productivity increases when a person takes frequent breaks from work. Being able to constantly walk away from what you are doing puts you in a state of rest and thereby able to continuously reconnect with the flow of God by keeping your energy in motion and your mind afresh. You may have stepped out from the flow for a while and feel lost and break in momentum, but the flow is always there and you can step back into it again and it will be perfect.
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