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Hi again members..!! I hope you all are creating magic every moment. Now, as the topic suggests, I am gonna talk about non-resistance. It must have been some thousand of times that we've heard Ester and Jerry Hicks saying "FEEL GOOD NOW" or Rhonda Byrne teaching so much about "THE FEELING FREQUENCIES" in her SECRET SERIES. But we still look for other ways to manifest our desires, be it "a conscious visualization" or "a vision board" or "affirmations" or any other way that we generally use to speed up the manifestation process. Well, these are productive or effective only when we are alligned with the source. So, we see, sometimes these methods work and sometimes they don't.

The reason is, when we are alligned with the source, or in other words, when we're in the vortex, no matter whether we apply any method or not, our desires get manifested. And we don't see any manifestation when we're not connected to the source.

Now, how do we connect to the source? Well, we've done that many times. We're connected when we are experiencing fun. We're connected when we are experiencing joy. We're connected when we are happy for no matter what. We're connected when we are experiencing peace for no matter what. We're connected when we are FOLLOWING OUR BLISS. We're connected when we're FEELING GOOD, for no matter what. And, simply, if we're not in a joyful or blissful state, we're disconnected and we are resisting our desire to come to us. So friends, deliberately choose good thoughts. Find something that makes you feel good and stay in that state for long. It could be a particular person who makes you feel good. It could be your favourite dish which makes you feel good. It could be some activity(singing, dancing, listening to motivational speakers, lsitening to music, meditation etc.) which makes you feel good. Make sure you don't allow a single negative thought to enter into your mind and in case it enters, don't just let it grow, grow so much that it will make you feel bad without your knowing it and you'll keep wondering "what happened all of a sudden which made me get disconnected?". Well, it's just one negative thought. You don't necessarily need to think about the manifestation of your desire to feel good. Cause the universe already knows what you desire. Let it work on your desire. Don't give it your energy. If you do, in effect you're saying, "you don't believe the universe will do it for you and you've to take action to manifest it". So have that UNWAVERING FAITH and allow it to come to you. Don't resist it with your bad feelings. FEEL GOOD NOW.    

I would love to share the following with you all, written by SEN, which I came across while searching more about "THE ART OF ALLOWING".  hope that helps.
When you imagine yourself to be a channel through which life force can manifest realities, you understand that the “rapidity” with which your desires manifest depends solely on how allowing you are of this life force. The more resistance that’s present in you the slower the movement of life force through you, and thus slower, and less abundant, the manifestations. The more open you stay, the faster life force can move through you (and thus move you) into new/improved realities that you desire.

A big part of this life journey is about having new experiences, rendezvousing with new realities and allowing growth/expansion in the physical realm. If you understand how the movement of life force is created from the desire for betterment, or the desire for expansion, you will know that its movement is always in the direction of well-being, abundance, ease, growth and improvement. So if you are allowing of this life force (that you’ve created), you will have a much better quality ride on this journey of physicality, that you are on as this body.

Resistance Is Created By “Identification” With Low Frequency Thoughts

Thoughts of fear, hatred, sorrow and lack are all low frequency thoughts because they drag your vibration into far lower realm than your natural vibration of joy/love. Of course, the mind will always have some low frequency thoughts now and then, the question is how identified are you with them – without your total identification the negativity of the mind does not have the power to influence your vibration in any strong way.

The more aligned you are with your natural vibration of joy/love, the more open you are to life force – a person who is aligned with joy for most part of the day has really had the most “productive” day no matter what actions were taken or not taken. If you spend most part of your day in lower vibration thoughts (no matter how active you’ve been), it has been a low productive day for you because you’ve disallowed your life force for most of your waking hours and thus stood in opposition to your own abundance. It’s not the actions that you take that defines your productivity, it’s the vibrational state of being that you hold that defines how productive you are (the only real measurement of productivity is about how allowing/aligned you have been of your life force to operate).

A lot of conditioning that we receive from our fear-based society seems to push us in the direction of living in resistance. There are a lot of people who feel “guilty” about aligning with joy, and it just take them a few minutes of being in joy before questioning the validity of their being joyful – this is what I call “proclivity towards negativity”, where your mind finds any reason to feel miserable. Ask yourself, what purpose are you serving by feeling miserable? It’s true that the being that we are in highly sensitive, but if you allow yourself to be dragged into lower vibrations, all the time, based on some realities that you see outside you, it would just cause you to stay in resistance to allowing positivity/well-being into this reality. A person aligned with joy is doing far more service to this world than a person who is rooted in misery – the vibration of joy is what allows your life force to move freely through you and thus bring well-being into this reality.

It’s true that for so long a good majority of human consciousness was rooted in fear, hatred and lack, this has lead to the creation of several inhumanly negative realities. But as more and more human consciousness starts rooting itself in its natural vibration of joy/love, the more we manifest a reality of well-being collectively and personally. Just let go of aligning with thoughts of fear, hatred and lack, no matter how compelling the arguments of your mind.

Stop Defending Negativity

If there is one commitment I would recommend you make to yourself, it’s this – “I won’t defend negativity no matter what”. If you stand true to this commitment you will always be moving in the direction of alignment. Negativity is not just present in fear and hatred, it’s also present in sorrow and misery. You defend negativity every time you align with lower vibration thoughts or lower vibration state of being. Take a stock of your state of being through out your waking hours, and figure out the percentage of time that you are aligned with joy/love/peace (or at-least moving in the direction it) and the percentage of time you are aligned with fear/hatred/sorrow/lack (through total identification) – this will give you the reason for the presence or absence of well-being in your life.

If a thought feels good align with it, if a thought makes you feel bad don’t identify with it – any excuse to align with a bad feeling thought is in the defense of negativity. It takes conscious commitment initially to stand true to positivity and let go of negativity. To let go of identification with negativity requires “awareness”, and a willingness to not make excuses to defend your right to be negative. Always remember that thoughts that make you feel bad are not in alignment with life (irrespective of how much the mind justifies these thoughts). If you are asking – “how do I let go of negative thoughts?”, the pertinent question would be – “why are you identifying with them?”, because without your identification/belief a negative thought has no power over your vibration – even if the mind keeps producing them now and then. It’s your belief, and interest, in the negative thought that fuels it and gives it momentum.

The best way to soothe your inner resistance is to let go of defending negativity, or being identified with it in any form. When you reach a point where it’s impossible for you to align with a negative thought, you know you’ve become grounded in your natural vibration of joy/love, grounded in a trust of life’s intelligence – this is a place of wholeness because now you are no longer a hold out who is standing in resistance to his/her flow of abundance and well-being.

      

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Hello everyone..!! Hope you are all doing wonderful. OK. This is an article I found on "vortex". Hope it will help all those who are struggling to get into the vortex.


WHAT IS THE VORTEX?
The Vortex is defined as the "place" where everything you desire has already been lined up for you. It's referred to variously as The Vortex of Well-Being, The Vortex of Becoming, The Vortex of Attraction, and - my personal favorite - Your Swirling Vortex of Creation which contains everything you desire and everything you have become!
Here's how it works: Each time you have a desire, the Non-Physical part of you BECOMES the vibrational, expanded version of your request. Therefore, everything you have asked for already existsin vibrational reality. All your desires have already manifested vibrationally and are waiting for you in your Vortex.
Got a problem? Get in the Vortex where the solution is. Seeking inspiration? Get in the Vortex and be inspired. Have a desire for greater abundance, improved health, more joyful relationships? Get in the Vortex. In the Vortex, it is done, complete, already manifested.
Of course, it's OK to spend time outside the Vortex. In fact, being out of the Vortex inspires desire which launches more rockets of desire which are actualized in your Vortex. Vibrational reality always precedes physical reality.
HOW TO GET IN THE VORTEX?
Getting in the Vortex means aligning your physical perspective with the Non-Physical Source Energy part of you. Getting in the Vortex starts by accepting the existence of this vibrational reality, then doing your best to move in the direction of it.
To achieve the vibrational frequency of your Vortex:
Feel Your Way. The Vortex is a vibrational state of being that you feel your way into. Your emotions tell you whether you're inside or outside the Vortex. Feel your way in by reaching for the best feeling thoughts you can find in each moment. As you choose thoughts that feel better, you raise your vibration and move closer to the Vortex. When you raise your vibration up to Hope, that's the doorway to the Vortex and you're almost there.
Think Good-Feeling Thoughts. Make feeling good the most important thing and consistently direct your thoughts to what feels good. By thinking thoughts that feel good, you easily move into your Vortex where everything you desire is available to you.
Take Good-Feeling Actions. Do things that feel good, such as meditating, walking in nature, singing, dancing, yoga, interacting with like-minded friends, playing with your kids or pets, relaxing in a hot bath, giving or receiving a massage, appreciating a child, a flower, a sunset, etc.
Feel Appreciation. A primary key to getting in your Vortex is being in the state of appreciation. Focus on people and things you appreciate. And remember, please, the importance of appreciating yourself.
Seek Positive Aspects. Set your intention to seek positive aspects in everyone and everything. Continuously find the most positive circumstances in your life and consciously direct your attention there.
Tune Your Vibration. Tune yourself to the vibration of what it feels like to be living everything you desire now. Lean in the direction of that vibration and deliberately focus yourself there.
Bask. When you activate a good feeling, milk it for all it's worth. Stay in that good feeling and practice that high vibration by fully savoring each moment of bliss.
As you consciously decide to BE in the high-flying feeling of elation that is your Vortex of Creation, everything you desire becomes a physical reality. By choosing increasingly better-feeling thoughts, you are able to predominantly stay inside your Vortex.
Imagine the joy of being in the Vortex - feeling good, flying high and watching everything you desire unfold in the perfect way at the perfect time. It's all there waiting for you. Become a vibrational match to your swirling Vibrational Vortex of Creation and experience The Magic of The Vortex now.       

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I have only posted one other time but I read here daily and put many of the things I read into practice. You all are a fantastic source of information.

I wanted to tell you about the success I have had with remote seduction/influence.

First a little background. My husband moved out of our home almost 5 months ago. Our marriage was not horrible but rather boring and he was not dealing with his depression and well he ran away from our life. Because we have kids together, I was not able to cut off all communication. At the beginning, I was doing everything wrong. Obsessing, clinging etc and I was pushing him further and further away and it was eating me alive. I lost 25 lbs, wasn't sleeping was having anxiety so bad that there were days I could barely function which was negatively impacting not only me relationship with him but also my daughters were suffering from it as well. One day I woke up and realized that I did not want to continue to live this way. I can't force him to do anything so the only thing I could do was change myself. I started googling hapiness, positive thinking etc and of course found tons of information and subsequently ended up here. Everyday when I wake up, I show my gratitude for all of the wonderful things I have in my life - especially my husband. I tell myself that today is going to be a great day and then I go about my business.  I repeat several mantras throughout the course of the day etc. I feel better about my life in general than I have in a very long time.

When I first read about the remote seduction I was intrigued but wasn't sure I could make it work. I have a hard time shutting my mind off and very often get distracted by, well, anything that happens along (darn ADD). I started out using the mp3 that has been linked to several times but for some reason I found it to be distracting. So I just started doing my own visualization, with my own thoughts and how I want to love him, touch him etc and how he feels when I do those things and then I end it by holding a thought of us together, as a couple.  Slowly things have started turning around.  In early January, he had quit touching me (hugging, kissing etc) but since I have started the visualization, we have started spending more time together and he started touching my arm and kissing me again but just a peck here and there but it was progress and definately more than there had been for a few weeks . This weekend I downloaded the ecstasy mp3 from Brainsync.com and did my visualization while listening to the mp3 before my husband and I went on a date and the difference was very noticeable. He was very attentive, told me how nice I looked and we actually shared some passionate kisses. We have talked more the past few days etc. and have been getting along like we used to.

I am not stopping, I am going to continue doing this daily because I know that we belong together and I am so grateful for the things that led me here and for all of the love that is in my life. May you all find the hapiness and love that surrounds you!

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Quote from Bashar:

You are the "you" niverse…the "you" niverse is only made up of "you", and that's all you'll ever find in your particular "you" niverse…is you, your expression of the Infinite.

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Hello fellow believers,

Straight to the point, what brings me here today is that this guy i am very fond of blocked me on skype a few days ago. I will spare you on the boring details but i really feel awful about it.

In my mind i keep thinking he will never unblock me again. Knowing him like I do it seems just impossible at the moment.

What should i do regarding LOA?

Looking forward to your words of wisdom.

Much love and manifestation,

LadyUniverse

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Who decides whether you will be happy or unhappy?

You do.

Unfortunately, early on many people develop the habit of thinking negatively and don’t know how to break it. They spend their time and energy in worry. And run themselves down.

The people who have learned to put The Power of Positive Thinking to work in their lives free themselves of worry. They are energized and empowered.

It’s up to you decide which mental habits you want to cultivate. The principles of positive thinking are simple—so simple that it may be hard to believe how they can inspire such profound positive changes.

The Power of Positive Thinking has helped people makes these changes for more than 50 years. And it can do the same for you.

When you learn to change your thinking, you will experience for yourself the difference waking up happy and energized will make in every area of your life.

It will reawaken and reignite your faith. You’ll discover how strengthening your belief in God strengthens your belief in yourself. And how this naturally attracts people to you.

Positive Thinking 2012: Rediscover the Power of Positive Thinking with Norman Vincent Peale will give you the tools you need to create the happiness and success you’ve been looking for.

It will give you a simple guide to prayerful exercises that will help you surmount life’s problems.

It will help you develop a more powerful and peaceful mind.

Norman Vincent Peale.

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NOTE: Credit Goes to the Original Author of This Article. Kudos!

This Post is from one of the oldest and wonderful forums DNS, It is indeed a good read.


PART - 1


"I've seen this question asked over and over on these boards:

"Can I Attract my Ex Back to me?"

The answer is YES! You can you attract an ex-lover back into your life.

I can tell you emphatically, that you can absolutely, positively, without a shadow of a doubt, attract an ex-lover to you again.

I know because I've done it. I'm living proof of this mysterious and miraculous phenomenon! (In reality, it is not mystifying or miraculous or any such thing). As a matter of fact, I have brought ex-girlfriends back into my life on several occasions). And I'm a regular guy. I'm no former underwear model by any stretch. I'm not a celebrity. Nor am I a millionaire (yet, that is, lol)

My problem has never been attracting exes back. It has been maintaining or developing the actual relationship following getting her back into my life. So, if maintaing it is your issue then this is not the thread for you. This is solely about step one: attracting him or her to you again.

I am currently dealing with this very situation as we speak with a particular ex. I can say that she has been the love of my life. I've attracted her back on several occasions even though she was the one who initially decided to end the relationship.

Now, when I say "I attracted her back", I don't mean the way it looks currently, and quite frankly, even the way it looks now isn't dim. But that would be misleading to all of you reading this. I am saying that she wanted to give the relationship another try, full steam ahead. But, I let my own reservations about moving forward take root. So, I dragged my feet a bit, because my trust in her was a bit shaken. And she drifted away again. And guess what? I attracted her back into my life again. I've done this with several exes. So this is not a unique case.

Currently, I've already attracted her back into my life. So, I'm past dealing with it in the same way which many of the members here are speaking. I just simply will not settle for the relationship in its currently state. I never advocate allowing yourself to be used. Believe me, people who truly are in love with you and truly want you in their lives will use you, if you let them.

I won't go into all of the gritty details of "my story", but I will tell you this much: for you heartsick people out there who think "his situation is not like mine" let me tell you right now…you're absolutely correct. It wasn't as bad as yours.

IT WAS WAYYYY WORSE! LOL!

At its lowest point, this woman and I pretty much said it ALL to each other; insults, arguments, accusations, curse words, hurtful things, etc. After the break up there were other romantic interests involved, etc. It was nasty. I would try to reason with her and ask her why we couldn't be together (basically, and I admit this with no shame, that I begged, and pleaded with her; and completely lost this woman's respect in the process). I mean, she was GONE. She wouldn't communicate with me.

I heard it all.

* "I DO NOT LOVE YOU"
* "I HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR YOU"
* "I DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU"
* "I CAN NEVER SEE ME EVER FEELING THAT WAY FOR YOU"
* "WE WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN"

BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, YADDA, YADDA, YADDA…LOL!

And then, there were the silent times when I heard nothing from her, at all.

And was I hurt? Hurt doesn't BEGIN to describe the pain I felt. I was crushed, depressed, and devastated. I was a shell of my former self. Getting out of bed in the morning required a Herculean effort.

But that was before I knew how to use apply the Law of Attraction CORRECTLY in these matters.

(And I tell you this; all of that pain you are feeling is of YOUR OWN CREATION. You have to take responsibility for that if you want any shot of having another chance with your former lover!)

So, I tell you this so you can know that I've been where many of you are at right now. Matter of fact, I've been lower. And I still attracted her back.

Remember the things I told you she said so long ago that indicated there was no hope? It meant nothing. As little as a month ago she admitted that she still was in love with me. And this wasn't the first time she told me she loved me. I've been told this several times in the past despite what she originally said about her lack of feelings or love for me. She has even asked me to spend time with her on several occasions in recent weeks. I agreed the first couple of times. But have declined these opportunities lately because they set a bad precedent. (Don't allow yourself to be used!)

See, at this point, the attraction has been re-established. The relationship, in purest terms, is there. The fellowship is not there yet though. And that has to be established by showing self-control and self-respect. But I know that the Universe is taking care of all that for me. So, I don't concern myself with it.

So, for me, it's not about attracting the ex back. Now, keeping or fully developing the rekindled attraction, or relationship…well, maybe Dr. Phil can help me figure that out!

HOW DID I DO IT?

But, how did I attract her back the first time when I had clearly behaved so needy, and insecure? Well, I placed the focus on me.

A lot, not all, but many of the posts I've read here on this topic are really approaching it the wrong way so I've broken it down into five, easier to read parts:

***PART 1: WHY PEOPLE SAY IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO USE THE LAW THIS WAY?***

Well, one thing I've learned is that the Law of Attraction is never wrong. When a person is hoping and asking for one particular person back, he is really operating out of fear. He is afraid to let go. He fears that he has lost something. When his lover left, he mistakenly believed that Love left too. As a result, he becomes sad, fearful, needy, insecure, clingy, and desperate. Then he hears about this wonderful thing called the "Law of Attraction" or "Universal Law" and instead of applying properly, he applies it to the fearful delusion. The Law then gives you what you most feared instead of what you really wanted.

The point is that if you continue to act like that person is your happiness, the source of your love, and that you will not find love unless it is with them, then stop now and recalibrate. Because you've already guaranteed yourself failure.

If the only time you feel truly happy is when you imagine them back in your arms, then STOP and RECALIBRATE! Because, you are applying the Law in a manner that will guarantee them moving further away from you. That's not to say that you can't feel happy when you imagine him or her in your life again. Not at all. It just cannot be the ONLY thought that brings you happiness.

(Interesting Note: Ever notice how simply imagining your former lover back with you can give you a sense of elation or happiness? This happens even though they're not currently with you. That's the whole point. It was never them that made you happy in the first place. It was you the entire time. Otherwise, the mere thought wouldn't change your mood!)

You must begin to use the Law to improve YOU. You must use the Law to attract the things, people, situations, qualities and traits that will make you a better, complete person again. This will INFLUENCE, not manipulate, but INFLUENCE your former lover to CHOOSE to feel that attraction again.

I read one post that said "if your ex knew you were doing these things to get them back, how would they feel?" Would they be more attracted to you?

Ask yourself, would you be more attracted to a person you ended a relationship with if you knew they were doing all this to get you back? I doubt it. It would come across as the most desperate, pathetic, needy display of self-loathing you had ever seen. It would push you further away.

The real secret to sparking the return of a lost love is to realize that, usually, when we focus on retrieving a lost lover, we are focusing our attention on retrieving the wrong person. It's not your former lover who is lost…it is YOU!

The Law oftentimes works against what we think we want in these matters, because we are focusing our energy in the wrong direction. This creates a pushing or repelling sensation instead of a pulling or "attracting" one.

***PART 2: WHAT ABOUT YOUR EX'S RIGHT TO FREE WILL?***

A lot of posts seem to be overly concerned with the Free Will thinga-ma-bob.

Yes, free will exists. Yes, your ex has free will. GASP! That really shouldn't be a news flash! You really think you're going to overpower your ex's God-given right of free will just because the LOA says you can have anything you want? Umm…if it were that clear-cut, you'd have them already.

FREE WILL DOES NOT NEGATE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION!!!

It's simply puts into effect what I would call a different condition of the Law. For instance, in physics, it is shown that gravity affects all object the same in a vacuum. But when you add atmosphere, gravity appears to work differently on objects of different mass. In truth, it doesn't. It's working the same. There are just other forces at work that you didn't take into account. It's the same with the Law of Attraction. It's still working even when the will of another independent free agent is at work. You just aren't accounting for those other forces.

When using the Law with people, we must understand that it all about influencing that person to freely exercise their will to be attracted to you. You never want to override someone's power of free will. To do so would be the antithesis of love. Instead, you want to evolve into a version of yourself that would powerfully influence your ex-lover to CHOOSE to see the attractive qualities in you again. This means focusing on YOU! NOT THEM!

***PART 3: TAKE THEM OFF THAT DARN PEDESTAL!***

Your ex is not special. I mean, they are, but only in the same way you are. They're not granted with some special power that the rest of us don't have. They go to the bathroom just like you. They have regular bodily functions they tend to daily, just like you. Despite how beautiful you think she is my friend, give her a couple of days with no deodorant, and she'd stink to high heaven!

The point I'm trying to make is that he or she is just a flesh and blood human being. Honestly, they resent the pedestal upon which you've placed them. You gave them a place in your life they never wanted; the place of YOU! You should be the only one on the pedestal of your life, period!

Consider this: the only human relationship where it is acceptable for one to be dependent and needy is the parent-child relationship. That's it. As children, we are dependent on our parents as we transition to adulthood; then they become dependent on us as they transition from this life. No other relationship has this grace with it.

Your ex is human. The law of attraction works on them like it would anybody else. Take the halo from around their head. Believe me, they'll appreciate it.

So, next time you catch yourself sitting around and thinking about them, that's a sign that you're NOT focusing on YOU! You're putting him or her on the pedestal again. When that happens, put that thought in check and get back to the business of taking care of you and let the Universe, or Infinite Intelligence, or God work on them.

***PART 4: WHAT DO I SAY TO MYSELF?***

The answer to this is so simple that it eludes most people going through this. You don't ask for the person to want you despite their own desires…you simply ask to become the kind of person they would happily, and freely, choose to be with!

You could even say something like this:

"I am fully and passionately in love with ME, first and foremost! Thank you that I am already complete and whole, in and of myself. I am so full of self-love because I have cared for myself and my own needs to such a degree that I can now send unconditional love to. .......

Even though I may not consciously know how, I thank you for transforming me into a person that ........ would happily choose to feel intense attraction to. Thank you for helping me become what I desire most: the best person ....... and people like her could choose to be with.

I say with total complete gratitude that I am not only the strong, independent, carefree, fun, and loving person that I was the first time I attracted ....... to me, but even more so! I possess within myself the positive and healthy traits that ......... would be happy to freely choose to align herself with of her own Free Will. I am grateful that you have created an opportunity that will allow ........... to see me with eyes that see no shortcomings, and a heart that holds no hurt from the past.

I also know that in asking this, I am becoming a person who will attract many people to whom I am likewise attracted. And I feel great because I am no longer bound to the oppressive, self-deceiving illusion of neediness and longing, as it pertains to another person's affections for me. I now know that it is not about that person, but about myself and I am fully and passionately in love with me first and foremost! Thank You!"



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