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     Many times newcomers and those who need affirmation want to know if LoA works to attract specific people. Yes! It definitely does work, no question about it. I have three times where I have done this with a specific person. !.) I have done this unknowingly as a child. It freaked me out so I didn't do it again. 2.) Years later when I was a teenager, there was a boy I was attracted to. I would see him every other Saturday night when we went roller skating but never anywhere else. I often wondered how would I meet him? I was painfully shy so walking up to him was not an option. I even had family members play tricks on me by writing letters and saying it was from him. Pretty cruel but I was okay. I really liked this boy. 3.) Then as an adult, when it happened it was amazing! I will tell you now of what I did and how it manifested itself.

How I attracted Specific People:

1.) As a child unaware of what LoA was:  My cousin and I were about 9 years old. We were taking a walk in our neighborhood and she was telling how much she liked a boy named Herbert. She was telling me of all the things she would say to him if she had the chance to see him. I didn't think she would say anything to him if she saw him so I asked her? "What would you do if you seen Herbert come around that corner over there?" While she was thinking of what she'd say, I was thinking, "Herbert is coming right now". She answered oh she would say this and that etc. So I told her "Okay so he's coming around that corner right now." She started laughing and said "yeah right" I told her look there he is, she looked and I was looking also. In my mind I'm thinking "Herbert come around the corner.......now" A second later he came walking right around the corner!!!!! She turned red as cooked lobster! lol He looked at us and as I thought, she didn't say a word. He continued walking on his way. When he turned out of sight, she stopped me and asked me how did I do that? I told her I didn't know. I just wanted to see what she would say to him. I just felt like saying it and believed he would, and he did! She then said, "Do it again!" I told her okay, I'll do it again" I thought it was quite fun the first time and was curious if I could do it again. So I asked her, what would you do if he came around that building? We began walking in the direction we were going but much slower now. She said again, she would say this and that, etc. I wanted to say it then but it didn't feel right. I waited a few seconds listening to her response and then said "okay he's coming around that building" She looked at me eyes wide open. I looked at her and felt a strong feeling in my chest that, yes he is coming. Sure enough we looked and here he came again! We just stood there frozen with our mouths hanging open. He looked at us like we were crazy, smiled and kept walking. When he was out of our sight, she looked at me and asked again how did I do that? I told her I didn't know. Now I was shaking and didn't understand how it happened either. She said, "Do it again!" I then told her, "Are you crazy!" I did not do it again but she told everyone we knew and for a long time people looked at me differently. 

2.) Teenage Crush
As I said above, there was a boy I had a huge crush on as a teenager. We were about 15. We were a large group of friends that would meet in our downtown plaza to go roller skating every Saturday night. One night I saw this boy and had a huge crush on him. He wouldn't come every Sat and I was shy so talking to him was out. However, I made up my mind that I wanted him. I wanted him to be my boyfriend. I didn't see him any other time and he really didn't see me. I would observe him from afar. Because of what happened with my cousin that stuck in my head always. I thought if I could make that happen, could I get him to notice me? I thought about him often and would daydream what it would be like to date him. I thought, if only he came more often I could get the courage to go up to him. I don't remember how soon but soon after, he came every Sat night! He then began to take notice of me. I would go home and still think about him and how it would be nice if I could run into him somewhere. I thought about this often. Nothing happened so I figured I would never be able to date him. The following week, he wasn't at the skating ring. He didn't come anymore after that. I was very sad and stopped going myself. I still thought about him often and daydreamed what it would be like to date him. I remembered every detail about him (Yeah I know sounds pretty obsessive but I was a teen in love lol). A month passes and I begin to forget about him. That summer came (July) and that is when my cousin (from the previous experience, she and I were close) played the trick on me. She came home from the beach that many of us went to and said she saw him. She gave me a letter saying it was from him. Of course I was excited. It even had an address to visit him. I knew a lot of people and had family on a near by street. I asked them if they knew this kid and they said no. So then I knew the letter was false. This brought him up all over again in my mind. I began to think how much I would really like to get to know this boy. The thoughts started all over again. Except this time I made up my mind I wanted this boy. I didn't know how I was going to meet him I just knew I would. Well school started and all was as usual. It's Oct. and I was doing my internship. We would arrive back at school around noon. This day I was running late and headed straight to the office to sign in. Running up the stairs winded, I turned the corner and there he was with his mother!!!! He was transferring in from his previous school. Well, I took full advantage of that before any other girl could scoop him up from me lol Later that day I introduced myself and the rest is history! We dated steady for 3 1/2 years! We were perfect together. We planned to marry right out of high school and planned a future together. Just before graduation we had a huge fight and broke up. However, we continued to see each other off and on after.

Now get this:
Fifteen years later he just popped into my head and I couldn't shake him. I still had his number in an old day planner and decided to give him a call. I called him and when he heard my voice, I could hear him gasp. I asked if anyone was there and he answered "This is so weird" I laughed and we talked. However, through the whole conversation he would just pause and say this is so weird. Finally I asked him why he kept saying that? His response: "No it's just so weird because I was just sitting here thinking of you. I was thinking of the last time I saw you and then out of nowhere you call me." I was so floored but not really surprised. I was elated that after all this time he was still thinking of me. We remain friends to this day.
 
3.) The man I am attracting now!

     Now if you've gotten this far, thank you so much for reading my experiences! I really appreciate you reading on and hopefully this will give you the encouragement to strengthen your belief.
     To make this long story short I'll break it down like this: In 2009 I saw a very attractive guy at my gym. I was in awe at how attractive I found this guy to be. He was so not my usual type. I tried not to stare but he noticed. I was not out looking to date, just saw him and thought he was very attractive. Two weeks later he brings his gf in with him. Okay okay I got it he's taken. I'm embarrassed and don't go to the gym anymore.
     Two years later (2011), I decide I really need to hit the gym. I go to the gym and a month later I see the same attractive guy. I remembered what happened the last time tried not to stare lol However, I got so flustered because I was so attracted to him I had a panic attack and left! I know pitiful isn't it lol I went again and would see him but kept my distance. One day I'm leaving and notice he is too. I hang back and wait for him to leave. After he's left the lot, then I leave. I have to get gas and always buy in the next town (gas prices much lower). When I get to the gas station he's there! He looks right at me and I turn and continue my thing. I think I hope he doesn't think I'm stalking him. Then I begin to wonder what is about this guy? There was just something about him that I felt drawn to him. I did not go to the gym again.
     Early Sept. 2012, I am planning a vacation next year and want to get in shape. I go back to the gym. All is going well. Three weeks later guess what? You got it, the same attractive guy comes in. By now I still think he is just darn handsome but part of me is fed up with getting all flustered. So I am able to keep myself composed and continue to work out. I made a promise to myself I was not going to look at this man lol Mid Oct. I have noticed several guys taking notice of me. I am annoyed because these are not the guys I find attractive/interesting. I remember very clearly standing there by the machine and thinking "Wrong guy, wrong guy, wrong guy! I want that guy to look at me!" I was looking at Mr. Attractive when I thought that. I was looking at him and I just really wanted him to be the one to look at me the way these other guys were.

Here it comes,
Two weeks later I'm using a machine and get this very strong feeling in my chest. I stop what I'm doing and feel it getting so strong it's radiating throughout my whole body. The feeling gets stronger and like I have no control I slowly and robotically turn my head to the left. As I turn my head I can now see Mr. Attractive doing the same thing, slowly turning to face me. At that moment our eyes meet and it feels like the whole world has stopped! It feels like it's just him and me...in that moment.....we look into each others eyes for what feels like eternity (later I timed what it felt like and the timer check at 9.2 sec). His eyes and expression was soft and lovey. He had a smile on his face. I was so shocked I know I looked like a deer caught in the headlights lol I then turned my head. I felt my eyebrow flash up and down. I shook my head incredulously at what just happened. To try to keep this short, he still looks at me that way! He now watches every move I make. He's shy so it's been a lot of fun playing the looking game and having "chance encounters".

so can you attract a specific person? YES YOU CAN!!!

I hope this was helpful to those of you who want to attract that special someone you have your eye on. Do not doubt for one second!!!! That's why we haven't progressed. I had doubts or would think I was imagining he was interested. Now learning about LoA I learned I was sabotaging myself. Do not do that!!! When I began to let the negative thoughts get the better of me things would cool off between us. I didn't understand what was going on. Now I know and have been getting much better results!! Just last week I didn't see him for a week, I then intended "Oh he will come on Friday because he misses me." Well, Friday came and there he was sitting in his truck so he "Just happens" to be going in the same time as me  It is so beautiful to start your day with that special one waiting to greet you good morning! I am grateful to learn of this and all the great things it's brought me.

Sending all nothing but positive vibes!!

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First of all, THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

Thank you for this forum, Thank you to all of you who give me advice and granted my wish in the wishing game in this forum. THANK YOU!

Yes, it’s a success story! I am back with my D.

We are back together, and yes distance is not a problem with LOA.

I have been through it all, the disappointment, non- stop crying stage, losing appetite, obsessing about contacting him, refuse to let him go, said horrible things to him and then regret about it, harassing him with short messages and phone call.
He was very stern about his decision back then, he said he want to be alone for now, he was cold and really don’t give a damn about how I feel, about my tears, and don’t listen when I tried to reason with him, he was really furious and sick with my tears.

We broke up in the end of July. I felt so lost back then, I felt so trapped in my own sadness, I need a way out of it, so I tried to find myself back, that’s what all the resources thread said, work on yourself first and love yourself first, be happy and have fun, find the old you back.

So, I begin my journey to find myself back.

What I did---
1) The first step I took was registered a music class, art class, and start new sport. All of this helps me to get out of my usual social circle and keep me busy, the excitement of learning new things helps me to detach.

2) I write my gratitude list every day, I am thankful to all the good things that happen to me every day.

3) I stop listen to the news and radio, I cut myself out from news and love song. It’s a good decision, because sad love song will only drag me into more negative thinking, and happy love song will only trigger my tear.

4) Whenever I have fear that he will met someone else, or doubt we will not get back together, I do EFT and listen to Om Mani Padme Hom, both of this calm me down.

5) I listen to Abraham and Bashar almost every day and the message both of them try to deliver is to have fun, be happy, then things that you want will fall into place. So, I went on a vacation, travel to another country with my friends. Being among old friends and with all the fun I had in that trip help me to detach.

6) I do no contact for detachment, it wasn’t really successful, I keep having the urge to contact him. However, I did manage in the end to go no contact for a month.

7) I found out about Hooponopono, I took 100% responsibility for all things that appear in my life and stop the blaming game, this breakup + this sadness in my life was all because of me, not D fault, not God Fault, not anyone fault but mine. If I have the ability to cause all this, I have the ability to change it too. So, I start to cleanse by repeating I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you and I thank you, whenever I felt sad, angry or when negative thought start to creep in.

What you give is what you receive. I give more, make donation to those who need it, and are much more considerate about those who are around me; I spend more time with my parent, improve our relationship and be truly thankful for having them. I give love, and now received love back.

9) I start my 28days programs following “The Magic”. It really plants the positive thinking deep into my heart. One day, I found myself thinking I have nothing to be sad in this life, because I am so blessed! I am happy with my life again, even without him.
I highly recommend all to do “ The Magic” exercise!

10) Inspired action. I don’t quite understand about inspired action before. Whenever I have the urge to contact him I will wonder if it’s the inspired action, I will have doubt if I should really make the call.
One morning in the late November, I suddenly had the urge to call him, this time I felt different, there is no doubt, no fear of rejection, I just dial the number!  We had a fun and easy conversation, he said I sound different, I sound much happier. In the end of the conversation, we agree for meet up.

I flew to his country, and he was there at the airport waiting for me. We had a few arguments when we met up about the remaining problem from the old relationship, but this time, we managed to sit down and talk it out, I think we both learned and grow from the breakup. Until today, things between us are so much better than the old relationship.

We got back together after 3 month of breakup, now looking back, 3 month is not such a long time, but back then 1 day feel like a month, and a month feel like a year, I know exactly what you are going through, however find yourself back, have fun and be happy, then everything will fall into place. People can really sense your positive energy, my positive energy on that phone call got me the chance for a meet up, and NO, you cannot fake positive energy because I tried before, acting and sound cheerful, but he knew, he knew it was fake, I was desperate and needy, he dislike the needy desperate Renee

Sometimes, I do still have fear about the future of this relationship, but this time, I know how to handle fear. Thank you LOA, and all of you who have been there for me.
Thank You!

Be happy dear, I make it, so can you.

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oh man, oh man first off, i've been a real long time faithful believer in LOA & visitor to this site since may of last year but I never created an acount til' now. I been out of work for quite a looong time but I am now finally, FINALLYYY manifesting a security guard job at a performing arts school. I have thee interview tomorrow & I am so excited & grateful to share the news!!! Care to send any positive vibes? lol i am feeling GREATLY appreciative. hope I nail that interview tomorrow. THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!! THANK YOU!!!

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Hello Everyone. Success story! I am back together with my ex. Here’s my story:  http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/getting-my-love-back-9834/30/
I know everyone has different ways of dealing and coping, but perhaps if I explain everything I went through, it may help even one other person.

So basically, I am so very happy that we had the breakup. I think if YOU are in a breakup and upset/sad/miserable because of it, YOU should be so very happy that you have this opportunity to heal yourself. I realized that, basically, we get crushed in the aftermath because during the relationship we always loved the other person MORE than we loved ourselves. Think about it, even if the relationship was bad you probably just tried to make it better, tried to get them to care more express more BE MORE than they wanted to be or were willing to be.  Did you ever stop and think, “what do I want? Does this person make me happy?” I never did. After the breakup I was a mess. I came online and found this forum and read every single thing I could to “get my ex back”. You all know.. How many times have you searched for the same thing online?  As I devoured everything I could get my hands on, I realized that I was lacking in self-love. I was so busy chasing others, I never asked myself what I wanted or does this person make me happy?

No contact was not easy as a pie but it wasn’t so difficult for me because I always loved him unselfishly. I mean to say, I really truly wanted him to be happy. Even if he didn’t want to be with me. So I kept sending him loving vibes etc. (I guess he really got all my RS! He said he dreamt of me every single night! Wow!)

As I read up on everything, as I watched every single Abraham Hicks on youtube, every single Bashar video, I moved further away from him spiritually and closer to myself. And it felt so good!!!! Finally, I was ready. I found myself! I said to myself, I don’t care if he comes back or not, I am so happy either way. And then voila he came back  Now, I am going slow, I am going to be the one deciding this time.  Everytime I get upset or sad or want more than he is willing to give, I am going to do EFT or Ho’oponopono or use switchwords. I am never going to give up my power again to anyone! And you shouldn’t either. The only person you are going to have with you forever and ever is yourself, so you need to get happy being by yourself as soon as possible. Just let go of resentments, of wanting to hold on tightly to everything. Just let things be.

In the last month, I read all the links below a million times. You should too, just in case one little sentence even helps you. Sometimes that is all it takes. I read every link in this forum on relationships. I watched every single video on youtube. I couldn’t really get into RS that much. I have problems meditating still. I started pilates but am doing it from dvd. I lit candles every night and just sent him love. I really connected with ho’oponopono and switchwords. I read up on everything that showed me self-love.

Please know that you can do it. It is a process. I tried to force it. I got upset with myself when I couldn’t just snap out of it. I thought about him all the time! But, I guess everything I read and listened to, made little dents inside of me, good dents, even though I didn’t realize it at the time. Dents that became full blown confidence and love for myself. So one day you wake up, and you are shining bright like a diamond. And you are so pleasantly surprised to see that you got through everything. And you have love for yourself, and your ex is back OR NOT but even if they are not you meet someone even better and you love them too, but YOU NEVER STOP LOVING YOURSELF THE MOST.

I hope this helps you, all of you, and please let me know I you have any questions at all !

Books:
Meetings with Remarkable People by Osho
Loving What Is by Byron Katie
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz


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http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27780-Abe-quotes-about-the-Grid/page4
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28058-How-do-I-want-to-feel-about-this-BUILDING-MY-NEW-GRIDS/page2&highlight=relationship
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28897-Reaching-for-relief-in-a-relationship&daysprune=10
http://dancewithtruth.wordpress.com/tag/don-miguel-ruiz/
http://pathwaytohappiness.com/insights.htm
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?20829-Aligning-with-reunion-with-my-ex/page4&highlight=breakup
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/8017.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/11078.html
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/core-sadness-vs-wounded-sadness/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-you-dont-love-about-yourself-triggers-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-he-owe-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#comments
http://tr.scribd.com/doc/92574680/How-I-Found-Freedom-in-an-Unfree-World

Ho'oponopono - Feel it!

Can I Attract A Specific Person with the Law of Attraction?

http://www.blueboard.com/tao/tao_20.htm
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/psychic-paranormal/57266-gentle-way-requesting-most-benevolent-outcomes-4.html
http://www.trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/krishnamurti1.shtml
http://www.ichoosetoheal.com/downloads/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.pdf
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/intention-manifestation/51129-zero-limits-ho-oponopono-discussion.html#post678943
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9538-3.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9408-3.html
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?29094-Random-quotes/page3&highlight=quotes
http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/24XlL6/becrobbins.com/blog/top-10-reasons-emotional-pain-is-good/
http://lovesagame.com/no-contact-help-how-to-fight-the-urge-to-contact-your-ex/
http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P213.PDF

Bashar - 7 steps of manifestation

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/getting-your-ex-lover-back

Deepak Chopra - Way of the Wizard

http://thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=19650
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http://www.theabundanceparadigm.com/fe/3476-the-clearing-video
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http://www.ascensionhelp.com/higher-self-meditation.php

Tapping Through a Break Up - EFT with Brad Yates

Watch a Belief Disappear with Morty Lefkoe (1 of 5)

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/swith-words/
http://books.google.de/books?id=QWUA7d0_EBUC&pg=PA99&lpg=PA99&dq=switchwords+for+love&source=bl&ots=_I3fD0p2XJ&sig=h27hElyrmFdNW1okeL3OTYQe4ww&hl=de&sa=X&ei=bzZ3T7LTHNDIsgak9Z3RBA&ved=0CEoQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=switchwords%20for%20love&f=false
http://www.lollie.com/romance/love5.html
http://www.conures.net/shinn/game7.shtml
hptt://www.tut.com


With much Love!!!!

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Today I attracted some old friends that I had been thinking about, but had not spoken to in some time. It feels good to have that connection back again. It was a good day!

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Hey everyone! I'm new to LOA and I've been using it consciously for 2/3 weeks now!
It really works and I'm so happy for the results, it changed my life. I was looking on the internet how to have a happy relationship, and I saw this quote "Where focus goes, energy flows" . A few days passed and suddenly THE SECRET was everywhere! I saw ads, blog posts about it. I even saw a "vlog" by one of my favorite youtube makeup gurus, it had nothing to do with the topic, and she says "My husband got me this movie called The Secret" So I was like  What the??. So I decided to google it and HERE I AM! I believe the universe and God were giving me signs.


Here are some of my successes 

1. My relationship with my boyfriend is awesome now!!!! My boyfriend and I always had an awesome relationship. But that changed a few months ago because I started getting depressed for no reason at all (hormones ) so at first he was very supportive but after a few months he started to pull away because he thought he didn't make me happy. Then I said to myself I NEED TO CHANGE, so I started to be happy again and things got back to normal but not back to our "honeymoon" phase.
When I started using LOA thing changed drastically!
Now he is texting me the sweetest things ever, we hangout a lot more often, when we are together he kisses me and hugs me a lot! He wrote me a letter and a poem! He gave me a gift for christmas. He is being SO ROMANTIC! We talk, we laugh! We had dinner, we cuddled <3 He invited me over. All of this in less than a week! And is thanks to LOA!

2. A new puppy  I manifested my new puppy! I got her for christmas and she's the cutest thing ever 

3. Candy! lol I was craving some chocolate lol. I thought "I wish I had some chocolate". Next thing, I was looking for my eyebrow tweezers and I didn't find them, so I asked my mom and she told me "oh they're in my purse", so I went to check and when I opened the purse there was a bag of m&m's my mom got me!
hahaha

Most of the things I've manifested are with my boyfriend! <3

I will keep posting my successes here !
If you have any question feel free to ask me.

Love <3!!

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WOW!!!

The first crack appears in the walls that my lover built up between us.

We were together 3 1/2 years.  Lived together for 2 1/2 years.  We had many ups and downs and always committed to work through it.  Then in September, out of nowhere, she said she "needed space" and was moving out.  That took a couple of weeks to do.... getting her new apartment etc.  During that time I was doing all of the wrong desperate things.  Telling her that I would fight for "us", crying, being angry, needy etc.  She said we would remain friends but that she needed to move out and find herself.

Two days after she moved out, she blocked all contact ..... blocked her phone, Facebook etc.  A week later sent me an email telling me not to contact her because she needed to heal and that she would delete anything I sent without reading it and block every other thing possible.

I was devastated.  The person that knew me better than anyone else in the world wanted nothing to do with me.

I found this forum and many other similar things to help me cope.

Many of our mutual friends have been avoiding me too.... I'm sure the whole thing makes them uncomfortable so I understand why.  Still, it's not pleasant to see people having parties that you used to get invited to.

After reading ILRs post a couple weeks ago about just getting the emotional feeling of BEING in a great loving relationship, I started to understand more about how LOA really works.  I started feeling like I was ALREADY with a wonderful woman that I loved.  She just wasn't home right now.  My mental model for the woman was my girl.  It didn't need to be her specifically.... but someone like her.  She was familiar.  The feeling was familiar.  The feeling I once had when we were both in love and happy with each other.
 
As I went through the holidays I was just feeling like that as much as I could.  Not always easy since it's easy to notice that nobody was around to buy a gift for or to kiss goodnight.  But often enough that it was my general vibration.

On Sunday I was visiting a mutual friend while our kids played together.  We ended up in a nice long conversation about my relationship since my lover had been visiting with her in the last few days also.  I told my friend about how I had been feeling awesome and that it didn't matter about time or distance or anything else.... I had  found enough love to give out to the universe that I could send it out and not expect anything.  I knew that a great relationship was out there ..... with M or someone very much like her.  Much of this description was a text conversation between my friend and myself.  My friend asked.... What if M were to read this?  I replied ... "I don't have a problem if she sees the truth about how I feel" "Truth never hurts"  "It's not about having her back. It's about us both having ourselves back and THEN building something great" My friend said "I don't see how she could ever turn that down"

All day Monday I felt even more energized. 

Today I was feeling like a little nap in the afternoon... when I laid down I decided to put my headphones on to block out my kids playing.  I put on a binaural beat that I found somewhere a few weeks ago.  I had played around with RS and a few things in Oct and Nov.  But hadn't done anything with it recently.  Today I did it for about 7-8 mins just clearing my head and sending some love.  I did it because I was inspired by how good I had been feeling. ( IN THE VORTEX?)

When I got up a while later I had a message on facebook.... it was M!!!!

it said

Happy New Year. Thank you for giving me time and space. I'm looking forward to a new possibility of peace for all of us this year so I've taken down some walls. Let's continue forward with respect for each others' need for our own space.
Peace and love to you and your family in 2013 and always.
Namaste,
M

I replied later

Thanks for your note today. I'll continue to respect your space. I don't want to overstep. I'll leave defining the boundaries to you for now. I have many really great things to share with you whenever that feels right.
Much love and peace
Namaste,
T

So here we are.... I can now see her on FB.  Not a friend request... yet.  But not invisible!

I asked my friend if she had shown M the contents of our conversation since her message seems to contain elements of what we discussed.  She said "no she came up with it on her own".

I guess we must be vibrating on very similar frequencies.

My band starts touring again Jan 25th.  She made reference to possibly being at the first show. What I didn't say is that I think it would be best if we had some kind of conversation ... about anything at all .... before she just arrives at one of my shows.  Just so that things don't seem strained.  If it get closer to that date with no contact then I guess I will send a simple message requesting that.

For now I'll just stay in the vortex and let her contact me as she sees fit.  I welcome it.  But I won't take action since I'm allowing her (really its the universe aligning) to define the boundaries.

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Today after 7 months of not seeing him 15 months of being broke up he told me he misses me... thats it and i didnt push any more conversation except to tell him the same..... will keep u updated

UPDATE*********** 1/05/2013
I talked to him last night for about an hour ...he didnt mention getting together or anything just chit chat .. THE SAGA CONTINUES!

But at least hes talking to me

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I've been visualizing for 8 months and I haven't manifested a single thing with LOA, I still believe in it but I'm getting frustrated because my visualizing abilities haven't improved.

Every-time I close my eyes and try to visualize I can never keep the image or scene in front of me for some reason the scene/image flows to the right of my vision, It's weird and hard to explain.

Basically, I'll have a scene in my head but I can never keep that scene in my head without it drifting off.

Visualizations tips?

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It feels we are constantly fighting a losing battle.  We can't find a way out of this house and state that we hate.  My dad, who gets very healthy, organic lunches and says he usually has salads when he eats out, had a coke and French fries today.  He knows how bad they are for him!  I can't remember the last time I was in a good mood for a full day.  It feels like every time I'm in a good mood, the universe sends something that puts me in a bad mood.  I've been fighting with depression for years, and every time I start feeling better, something happens that makes it worse, and its very hard for me to get back out of.  I've tried every LOA exercise in the book, and nothing seems to make much difference.  How do I improve my life?  This is ridiculous!!

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Yesterday afternoon I've done RS on some person. I haven't been doing it for a long time. But I had a good mood and I thought "why not?" - it feels nice so let's do it! Everything seemed ok, after all I let go and started doing other things. On the evening, when I was going to sleep, I got a headache. I had some strange dreams (but not related to that guy) and in the morning I felt veery tired, despite sleeping all night Today I'm totally drained of energy, both mentally and physically. And I have some sad thoughts about this man

I don't know if I've done something wrong? Or it is a coincidence?

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Hi. Just wanted to share that a certain dollar amount has been on my vision board for a little while. I look at my board every day. Just over the Thanksgiving break I achieved that goal, giving me a 53% raise! This stuff really does work if you focus on it and take action towards it.

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Most successful are aware that they have attained what they had using the Law of Attraction. I have written an article showing a glimpse of wisdom of some of the most successful people who have ever lived, and now, I’m going to show more.


Here they are, some of the most famous, modern day successful people who had shared their wisdom to the world.

1. Will Smith – “From where we were almost didn’t matter; because from there we were becoming something greater.”


Will Smith is the only actor in history to have eight consecutive films gross over $100 million in the domestic box office as well as being the only actor to have eight consecutive films in which he starred open at the #1 spot in the domestic box office tally. Will made history in the filming industry because of that achievement. The reason why he did something that great is because he believed that he can do something great.


2. Arnold Schwarzenegger – “Failure is not an option, everyone has to succeed.”


Arnold Schwarzenegger is among the most important figures in the history of bodybuilding. He is also a successful actor and politician. He never believed in failure as an option. It has always been his mindset to succeed no matter how much hardships you encounter.


3. Jim Carrey – “I really believe in the philosophy that you create your own universe. I’m just trying to create a good one for myself.”


We all know that Jim Carrey has made quite a fortune with his films. He is one of the most successful comedians/actors in Hollywood and all around the world.


4. Jack Canfield – “The Law of Attraction states that whatever you focus on, think about, read about, and talk about intensely, you’re going to attract more of into your life.”


Jack Canfield is the co-creator of the Chicken Soup for The Soul book series. It currently has nearly 200 titles and 112 million copies in print in over 40 languages. Jack Canfield’s books were among the top 150 best-selling books of the last 15 years (October 28, 1993 through October 23, 2008).


5. Marci Shimoff – “Gratitude is absolutely the way to bring more into your life.”


As author of the books Chicken Soup for the Woman’s Soul and Chicken Soup for the Mother’s Soul, Marci Shimoff was able to sell more than 13 million copies worldwide in 33 languages. Her books have also been on the New York Times bestseller list for a total of 108 weeks.


There are a lot more people who have attained success in life using the Law of Attraction. Some of them are famous, and some are not. The only thing that is for sure is that, the Law of Attraction does exist, and these people’s lives are proofs of what it can do.


Success can also be a reality to you. It’s just a matter of belief in yourself, and what you are capable of doing. And finally, success can be attained if you believe in the Law of Attraction.

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S and I broke up middle of Aug.  We still spoke via phone for a while afterwards but i initiated NC the last of Aug. I was getting too upset with the calls and how things were going with our conversations. After about a month I contacted him via text and we exchanged a few texts that day, nothing special and I ended that as well.
About 2 weeks later I had a very strange and scary dream about him, and I decided not to tell him about it, normally I would have.  A few days after the dream I was compelled (inspired action?) to email him and tell him the dream in detail. I tried fighting the feeling of emailing and telling him, but the inspired action would NOT let me rest. So I finally gave in, did it and had No expectations of him writing me back...and he did not write me back and that was more than OK. That was Oct 13th.
I heard nothing nor saw any signs that my LOA was working until Oct 22nd. When I found out that S had been on my YT channel looking at some recent videos I have posted.   Then nothing again until Nov 2.  He started posting public status updates on facebook (we are not friends on FB), something he hasn't done in over 2 years!  One of the things he posted was a quote about Truth..which I KNOW was directed at me,  because of our breakup.
Today, he made a video, and for the first time in 7 weeks, he mentioned me in a video not once, but twice!!!  I was floored!  I have got proof (as if I needed it...ok well I did a little) that he IS thinking about me!! Now, mind you, what he said wasn't all that nice..but it wasn't all that mean either.. it was just a kind of rehash about how I hurt him. I am not taking what he said into consideration. I am just concentrating on that he mentioned me! Which means he is thinking of me!!
I have been affirming that he constantly thinking of me, that he loves me and he is contacting me.  So far i am seeing proof of 2 of those things... and maybe seeing those 2 things lets me see the 3rd as well..that he loves me

I have been getting into my vortex lately..having fun, taking care of myself (I have lost 60lbs!) Just being my happy healthier self, and the universe is giving me what I want!
I have also been getting attention from a few other men.  It's very flattering to say the least!

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