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I saw this on the secret website and I found it to be so applicable to this group. Learn from the story and apply the suggestions.

http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=6004

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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I'm going to be quoting Dr Robert Anthony from his CD set, http://thesecretofdeliberatecreation.com .If you dont know who he is, He taught Joe Vitale the majority of what he knows, He Denied being in the secret even though he was the first one asked to be in it.

He's been teaching Deliberate Creation for over 35+ . Any I'll post you the Ultimate Secret to creating anything you want NOW.

I'm going to teach you the Ultimate Secret to creating your life by design. How would you like to bring yoiur desire to you now? That's right, 'no waiting' you can have what your desire 'right now'

What I'm going to tell you is so powerful and effective, you may dismiss it out of disbelief that it could be this easy, don't take my word for it try it out for your self.

Are you ready? The Ultimate Secret to getting anything you want and creating your life by design insted of by default. All you have to do is execpt whatever is happing in you life at that moment, and be happy now.

That's it, thats all you have to do, you don't have to do anything else. Now maybe you think that sounds to simple, but let me ask you something. Why do you want your goal? Why do you want the new job? Because you think it will make you happy. Why do you want alot of money?, Because you think it will make you happy. Why do you want a romantic relationship with that person? because you think it will make you happy.

Remember what I said in the earlier lessons? Our main goal is to be happy. The reason so many people fail to create their life by design is they wait for the situation to change, THEN they will be happy. They have it all backwards. When you except whatever is happening in your life, and you are happy now, it automatically puts you in alignment with everything good in life, including your desires.

Because everything you want in life, you want because it will make you happy. So what you really want is not your goal, the job, the money, the relationship. What you want is to be happy, everything else, the job the money the relationship is just a big bonus.

We are taught to be happy depend on our current situation, that what is going on in our life should determind how we feel. But we have been lied to, it's an illusion.

For the Next month, make it your goal to except whatever is happening in your life at that moment, and be happy in that moment. How do you do this? Always reach for the thought that feels good in that moment.

Do this for 1 month, except everything in your life and be happy in that moment. Do this and you will be amazed and delighted at the results.

Here is a free PDF, that explains a easy way to stay happy. It was also written by Robert Anthony

http://www.thesecretofdeliberatecreation.com/masterkey.pdf

I did a search for "feeling good puts you in alignment with your desires" alot of people agree thats how it's done.

The best way to except everything and be happy now is, present moment awareness/ mindfullness. Thats what I use anyway.

to be more specfic I use this method. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anapanasati
Alot of people use it.

EDIT: http://www.psitek.net/pages/PsiTek-how-to-find-true-happiness-Contents.html

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Hello forum,

First of all I would like to express my deepest gratitude to this forum and its members.  It has really helped me get my life back on track after I had allowed some huge changes in my life to take me into a bad place.  I have never posted before, but I have been on this forum a lot in the last few months, and in doing so, have learned a lot of new and very helpful things.

Prior to this forum, I was introduced to the Law of Attraction when I "miraculously" found a copy of "Think and Grow Rich" in a drawer in an apartment I was renting.  It was exactly what I had been looking for, and is still the best book on LOA I have ever read.  In the 5 years since I found that book, I have read a lot of the other material frequently mentioned on this forum (Hicks/Abraham, Wallace D Wattles, Rhonda Byrne, Jack Canfield, Bob Proctor among others) and really put it to use in my life with great results.  I will not pretend to be an expert, nor do I apply it perfectly for my benefit all the time (I still at times really struggle with how to "let go" and "detach" from something that I have a strong desire for, in order to manifest it).

Like many of you, I was originally drawn to this forum to regain the love of a very special person (in my case girlfriend).  Like many of you, I was in the throes of depression, feeling like they were the only one for me and my life would forever be sorrowful without them... and that if I could just get back together with her, that the depression I was feeling would go away immediately, and life would be grand.  When I realized that, I realized I was acting like a petulant child, and I would not want to be with someone behaving like I was (pouting because things weren't going my way).  I got back to working on myself, went out, met new friends, dove into books on philosophies I had previously loved, and began enjoying life again.  Make no mistake, I still love and believe that this girl is the one for me, I think of her often, and I still feel sad sometimes.  But more often than not, I do things in my life that I get excited about, and when I think of us, I get excited about being together again.  But I also realized that putting my life on hold will not make this happen.  We are no contact, and have been for all but 2 weeks in the last 5 months, but I think sometimes that is how it has to be when passion burns this strong.  I have experienced things I never knew existed in this time, and the personal growth that has happened is staggering.  I think we both need this time to find ourselves, and make what was great even better.  However, I also know that being open to other possibilities can only help me either find someone better, or help me grow, so I am doing that too.

My point is, that if you notice, I have not told the "story" of us, and all the bad things that happened.  When I come on this site, often times I find that members are so eager to tell this "story" to anyone who will listen, that there is so much energy being poured into it, there is no way for the Law of Attraction not to work.  Every single one of us uses the LOA perfectly.... what is in your life is a reflection of that.... it is law.  HOWEVER, not all of us use LOA for our own benefit and highest good.  I do not condone pretending that everything is good when in actuality you feel terrible, but the focus needs to shift.  In "Conversations With God" by Neale Donald Walsch (another must read for LOAers) he talks about something called the "Sponsoring Thought".  This thought is the "thought behind the thought", and is basically your vibration.  The "Sponsoring Thought" in many cases is one of "lack" or "fear".  If  you don't like where your life currently is, then this needs to change.  I love the advice on here of finding ways to be happy, however that is... whether it is getting involved in long lost hobbies (sports worked great for me) or going out with friends or whatever, raise your vibration, and PLEASE, STOP with telling "Your Story".  You are not a victim to this "story" and constantly telling it, will only make it perpetuate.

I was as guilty of this as anyone else, but I realized I had to stop... It wasn't serving me.  Checking success stories and other posts on this forum can be great and inspirational, but at some point, I think one has to have real faith and deep belief.  If you have to check something every day in order to do that, it might be better than being discouraged, but it also probably means that you aren't truly happy and detached, and you probably don't REALLY believe either!  You don't need others to reassure you... in your heart, you need to KNOW.  You cannot micromanage the situation... if every positive sign makes you euphoric, while any negative one leaves you devastated, you are not in enough control of your own life to be ready for that person back yet.... they will not solve your problems.  And you need to have faith.  No question it is nice to have support, but I've found quiet confidence to be much more powerful than asking for reassurances from a place of insecurity and neediness.   Make no mistake, I have a strong desire for my girlfriend, but I know I will be fine no matter what.  She is the icing on my delicious cake... I do love icing, but I don't need it to enjoy the cake (bad metaphor... sorry).

So... Be vulnerable (it is the only way to feel the greatest joys), but do not allow yourself to be walked upon (I can't post a link because I haven't posted enough threads on here to do so, but Google "Brene Brown Ted" and watch the video on vulnerability, it is awesome ).  I highly recommend books by Neale Donald Walsch.  For the many of you struggling with self worth after break ups, books by Don Miguel Ruiz (particularly "The Mastery of Love", but also "The Four Agreements").  This man is a terrific philosopher who doesn't necessarily talk of LOA, but is great at getting you to love yourself, which makes him the perfect complement to it.

I apologize for the length of this, I get excited when I write.  Hello forum again, I hope this helps some of you.  Let me know

Much appreciation again to all of you for having a place to write this.  This is an uplifting forum, and in no way do I want to discourage anyone.  But I want us all to be liberated and be the best versions of ourselves.  If what you are doing isn't serving you, you need to change what you're doing, because being unhappy is no way to live life.

Love and Gratitude to you all

G

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Found this on StumbleUpon, and some of what these kids said are the wisest words about love. And they're so cute too of course

What Does Love Mean? See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love

1."When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love." Rebecca-age 8

2. “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy – age 4

3. “Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl – age 5

4. “Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”Chrissy – age 6

5. “Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri – age 4

6. “Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny – age 7

7. “Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily – age 8

8. “Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby – age 7

9. “If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka – age 6 (personal favourite!)

10. “Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle – age 7

11. “Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy – age 6

12. “During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy – age 8

13. “My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare – age 6

14. “Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5

15. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris – age 7

16. “Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann – age 4

17. “I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren – age 4

18. “When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) Karen – age 7

19. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark – age 6

20. “You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica – age 8

21. And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”

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OMGGG
ladiesssss!!!!
men too!!!
i can to the total conclusion why i wasnt getting my guy!!??
what am i missing?? im trying to look good!! im trying to love myself!!
but there was my answer... i was TRYING... as well as too HARD!! so i figuered out i was missing CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!!!! I was lacking in that!!!!
But i gained it over the weekend, did my hair, got contacts, brighter colors!! i am pretty much back to the FABULOYS girl he was in love with!!! I HAVE CONFIDENCE!!! I feel beautiful, i feel powerful, i feel FABULOUS!!!!!!
and i thank the LOA as well, ive been saying im beautiful and etc. and BOOM! I guess it worked haha, Ive also been working out so i have a body and ladies Beyonce music helps me with my confidence!! idk why but it does!!
Now I feel confitdent enough to go and make him MY guy!!
SO everyone you HAVE to love YOURSELF!! And confidence!!! Give yourself a new look, workout!! Its worth it in the end!!!
 it also helped me detach from obession over him!! haha which shows the LOA that you trust it to grant your wish!!

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it doesnt matter, i was just making a point that she says to do a general search.

A quick precis; Mr Positive had said that the Hicks don't advocate attracting a specific person back, I quoted that and asked him why that mattered and above, his response.

So, this is what I'm seeing right now - and any judgements which appear to be being made are coming from personal experience, as well as witnessing posters on here.  I'm passionate about people being happy and getting what they want and no-one loves a Success Story more than I (well, I'm sure we all love them!); I want to see weddings and babies and parent-in-laws and happy tears, so please, if this sounds spiky, it's coming from a place of love.

What I see, time and time again, is people being given the tools to create their own lives, and not using them. We KNOW what we have to do. We KNOW that beliefs create our reality. And if we went and read some amateur quantum physics books (The Intention Experiment by Lynne McTaggart is a MUST), we'd all KNOW that intention works, that people can influence other people, belief can be watched on a flickering TV in a science lab. There's a story in there of a guy who, sitting next to a plant, decided to send the intention to the plant that he was going to pour acid on it and as the plant was rigged up to some kind of ECG machine, watched as its response shot off the radar. He continued to think the thought occasionally, and watched as the plant reacted until there came a time where the plant had LEARNT that this thought didn't actually equate to action and thus didn't react when he thought about acid. So, the man decided to think a thought pertaining to a different way of injuring him. And the plant once again reacted as it did in the very first instance. Now, if a man can merely THINK something in the presence of a different species and that reacts, than can people get their exes back? Er, doh..... But we HAVE to be secure, cemented and relaxed in our beliefs and what is happening on here time and time again is people pertain to believing stuff, wait 3 days, and then stamp their feet. Or threaten suicide. Or say it's not working. And I've done that, so with one finger pointing at you, there are three pointing back at myself.

If we read something and someone goes, 'no, you can't attract a specific person,' we get down. And then we get buoyed when we read the Success Stories forum. And then our ex doesn't react the way we want them to, so we get down. And then we get a PM from someone on here and back up the belief chart we soar until something else happens and we slump. When our beliefs are that fickle, that changeable, is it any wonder that people fail? Because amongst all the talk of hope and faith and visualisation, I don't think I've ever seen a mention of DISCIPLINE; mental discipline. Being keen and observant and strict with your own thoughts. The thoughts we think are lazy and habitual, but they are that way from years of thinking the same stuff - who here sits and concentrates, meditates twice a day for 30 minutes, takes full responsibility for their lives, thinks only positive thoughts, works at changing a negative thought into a positive thought, doesn't give in to doubt, doesn't give a shit about what someone says if it runs contrary to their desire, and doesn't seek reassurance as a prop for their slumped beliefs?

Intention and belief are muscles like any other and they need working to be strong, they need to build up a memory from thinking and intending and believing new things, however awkward they may feel at first. People lapse, people collapse back into doubt and fear and I understand why. I do the same thing. But there is a huge body of scientific work, operating at the quantum level - very important stuff - showing that belief and thought work. That this stuff exists. That however hippyish it may appear, and however many centuries that bloody Rhonda Byrne woman has put this back by dripping her books in faux waxen seals and flowery italic script, that on a QUANTUM level - the universe, particles, sub atomic particles, things we will never see and never fully understand - respond to thought.

Free will - I've never understood this. How we can move mountains and conceive of sending men to the Moon and attracting a million quid but somehow the horse politely stops short of ever influencing anyone else. No, we can't do that. Er, how does society work? How do vibes work? How do you know that someone at work doesn't like you? It's energy, it's vibes, it's all that stuff. We're influencing everyone with everything we do, so please put that free will crap to bed. If science is to believed - and I think that there's a certain merit to it ; ), then please see that we're all interconnected, that all our cells are constantly communicating, that once two people have been together, however euphemistically you wish to view that, those cells remain in contact. Science shows this. 'Free will' is an emotive term. Loosely put, the idea that we're all individuals is possibly a less scientifically rigid view of ourselves. We do NOT live in isolation.

Don't get drunk on other people's successes only to wake up with a massive hangover the next day because your ex hasn't asked you to marry them. Get straight in your own mind first. KNOW that it can be done but understand what you have to do to get there.

The quantum physics section of this forum is one of the most under-used as far as I can see, but I've got so much from reading The Intention Experiment and relating it to what I'm doing now. In 1985, a group of Buddhist monks were witnessed sitting half naked in a frozen monastery, deep winter, meditating. From time to time, another monk would place soaking wet, cold sheets on their back and do you know what happened? Through the power of their mind, they increased their body temperature to the point where they dried the sheets on their back.

We - YOU - can do, or be or have anything and there are NO exceptions, but you HAVE to do the legwork, and I think some of us (me included) are guilty of skipping that bit.

Another book - Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard says the same thing. (Go and find it on YouTube - I tried to load it as videos but am low on time and you're all clever people). Believe you're there and you are. Believe you have it and you do. Believe you can and you can. A monk, sitting in a monastery in winter, drying icy wet sheets on his back through the power of his mind; he didn't wait until summer, piss about a bit, drip dry them over the Tibetan monasteries and claim to have done all that 'cause otherwise he'd have got chillblains; he BELIEVED he was 20 degrees hotter than he was and he got there.

(By the way, the Goddard book is fab, partly because he says at the start - and I'm paraphrasing, 'I'm not going to fill this book full of success stories because all a person needs to know is in the text; create your own evidence and you won't need anyone else's.' I love that - locus of control and belief coming from yourself)

But please don't underestimate what belief is and what it takes; do the hard work and know that it is hard work. We are talking about using our minds actively, and no offence to 95% of us, but our minds are probably the most underused bit of ourselves. Nurture that. Train your mind. Send it to where you want to go. BE in the situations you wish to create. And then you will be

With love

Tins

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I'm been alittle busy, i decided to put in the "essential" 'what you can do RIGHT NOW' material first.

I'll be adding in resoruces and explaining the what why and hows of what I share with you in the updates, i'm going to make the effort to get the updates in asap. till now here is your get started now plan.

In a nut shel, this is all you have to do, don't over analyse it or question it or worry about the details. this is wha tI do and I've goten so much success.

1. you have your desire to half a certian person, your done with your desire part.

2. detach yourself from the who what why when and how, they just get you in the way and slow down the result. detaching from the result brings it to you. because it no longer has your energy

3. do what makes YOU happy. this increases your personal megnetims AND helps you practice detachment indirectly, it can be anythin from skating to reading. something that you enjoy and makes you glow with a radiance that they can feel even on the other side of the world.

4. feel know and believe you have your desire, the person you desire to be with, NOW. in this moment! don't 'wish' or 'want' them, that only puts it in the future and pushes it farther away. You have them NOW! know it sense it and feel it!

5. Be happy (greatful) NOW,  feel the feeling of happyness. your end goal is to be happy. you desire them because you feel they will makes you happy....there forre be happy now and they will come to you.

6. continue to grow and practice everyday

7. if it's meant to be, it's up to me (you) YOU ARE YOUR BEST

t teacher NO ONE ELSE!hats it, those are the short sweet basics...I'll be adding the how stuff works details later.

also,here are some free books that you can read. thaey play a vital part because they teach you how to use LOA and magnetism. your energy is vital from your manifesting power AND you sex appeal.

Psitek.net look up art and science of personal magetism. Note: there4 are  sites that strongly recommend this book. all of them of them are geared towards LOA AND mental sedution!

Astralbob.com Grab your free copy of robert bruces astral dynamics, these teachs you how to move and store the energy, magnetism, into your body AND how to astral project from manifestations and LOA

 MeditationCenter.com learn basic meditation teachniques to help you stay calm and centered, so you can get your ego out of the way, STOP worrying and be deatached and get your desire to manifest faster! its free

mindpowerseduction this one you'll have to type into the search engine, you'll find a FREE pdf that will share vital info about LOA and ins and outs of geting the one your desire

Sacredheart Pranayama another  search engine to find this website, sign up for a free 10 week class of meditation techniques to increases your megentism , love your self (highly vital in the be happy now area) carl schimdt teachs this one

Healingdao.com Michaell whinns free e book 'way of the inner smile" will teach you how to love yourself and heal and alittle about LOA too

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