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I havent been online much as I've been way too busy with my success!

Lets start from the begining of last year (2012) my ex and I broke up on valentines day! My contract at work finished. My dog had passed. I was living with my ex at the time. I started indulging in the LOA for answers. I realised that everything that I feared happened. I didn't love myself hence why I never felt the love from my partner at the time. I begun to love myself become happier about the job I was looking for. I was distraught, each day I was grateful for everything. My ex finally moved out in July. I then scored the best job of my whole entire career. My friends and family helped. However I had to move.

I found a wonderful place of my own it is fantastic, I wanted enough room to have all of my belongings and it was quite rare to come across what I have now. I am grateful for this. I enjoyed going out with friends eating healthy. Wrote a wish list for my partner to have 119 qualities. Low and behold I had already met her, 8 years ago. We reconnected through a friend however we never ever spoke to each other. Things were great to start with. Then we had a falling out, she didn't think I was into her, however I didnt want to scare her off so I played it cool. She left me for 6 wks. I told her I was fine with that. However she had to collect her present that I made for her. We still spoke everyday. It took her a few weeks to come see me then finally the day she saw me I asked her if she wanted a hug she said no. So I said can I have one for me, she gave me a hug and we were laying on the creek bed by the water we ended up kissing and holding each other. That was the turning point back into our relationship.

During the 6 wks we weren't together I believe we both needed to be apart to realise what we have now! She is my princess, so beautiful, magical, mystical, honest, genuine, down to earth, loveable, our connection and chemistry blows my mind. I am amazed at how I feel... I love myself to recieve and give from my overflow! I am blessed to have been through everything to get to where I am now. She loves & supports me, compliments, adores, cherishes everything to have someone soo completly in love with you feels amazing. I cannot explain it - it's so wonderful! Everyday she tells me how much she loves me, how beautiful I am, compliments me whenever she gets the chance, it's true love at it's finest. All I ever wished was for her to be happy - and she says that this is the happiest she's ever been in her whole entire life because of me. Now that makes me happy. She is soo positive like myself it works well. She has 112 of those 119 qualities, more than I can ask for. Thank you. Ask believe and recieve!

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Hi my dear friends.most of you know me.yeah i am Ava,a girl who joined this forum more than a year...and like many of you wanted to attract my ex back..all of my friends know that where i am coming...i tried a lot to attract him back..i tried visualization,affirmations,eft,meditation,vision board,relaxation,writing my goal,dream about it,magical creation box,having fun,seeing signs,active faith,hoponopono,remote seduction,etc.........i can't say nothing happened.cause sometimes i felt that i am so close and saw something in the real world...yes he texted me sometimes and we chatted sometimes and he came to my exhibition 4 months ago,but all of the results were temporary!!!he came close to me and then he disappeared again...i don't know why,may be i could not let it all go completely...when i joined this forum i promised myself that one day i will post my success story...but i could not do that...when i read some of my friends success story i told myself,if they could do that,i can do it too...but for me nothing happened and he didn't come back to me...he had left me more than 2 years ago and in these 2 years i could not have dates with others..cause i didn't want to make the universe confused.but since 3 months ago i had started to date others.that was not something special but could help me to switch my attention away from my ex...i wanted to be with him.the first date was on my birthday and i went out with a guy,while i was so desperate that my ex had forgotten my birthday...anyway i didn't want to see that guy again cause i didn't like his personality... i wanted my ex back so seriously...after that i started to talk to another guy.about 1 month ago.he loved me but i just liked him...for me he was just a friend but he loved me...still i was thinking about my ex and i checked if i had a missed call from him or not!!!!i can't deny that still i love him,yeah he was the one who i wanted to be with him for the rest of my life.he was the one who  taught me what love is...still when i think about him and his voice my heart wants to fly away BUT HE  IS ENDED FOR ME FOREVER...FOREVER....that was so difficult for me to say these words...still my eyes get wet,but what can i do?i have found someone special.someone who loves me and i think i am falling in love with him.he understands me.he is handsome.he is smart.he knows what i want before i say anything.he says i love you so much.you are the one Ava,you are the best...we spend a lot of good times with each other.i am happy when i am with him and i talk to him.i love his voice.he is so supportive.he doesn't make me nervous.he makes me feel good.he loves me unconditionally and it doesn't need to beg and pray to receive just one text message from him...WOW...you know,he had proposed me last year,but i didn't accept him because i wanted to attract my ex back.but he appeared in my life again(about 3 weeks ago)and he proposed me again and this time i accepted and i am grateful for having him in my life....guys i could not attract my ex back.but i have someone special in my life now.i don't know why i could not attract him back?i could not write my success story about my ex here.but may be this is a different kind of success story...i don't think about my ex anymore.i don't check him at all.i don't send him text messages and wait for his reply for hours...i have a real person in my life who loves me and thinks about me second by second and for the first time after 2 years and 8 months i feel that i am alive again....

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Hello everybody

I came across this site. Its wonderful. If you are someone who is REALLY interested in improving your life and have a deeper insight within yourself, then this site is for you.

Most of our desires DO NOT manifest because we don't know where we want to end up. Most of our desires are IMPLIED. The things we think we want are just the means to get that wonderful feeling that those things bring to us. Phew... Complicated enough... Not sure If I had put it in right words.

Lets see this example.
Desire - I want money.
Why? To clear my due taxes and order that yummy pizza.
Why? Because clearing the dues gives you the peace of mind. The feeling that you have nothing to worry about, however little time it exists for. While that pizza satisfies your taste buds.

Now the Irony is - Your desire is One and what you are asking for is something else. Your wish is to have some time free of worrying, and the wish we make to universe is I want money. That means you are not CONGRUENT with your desire. Or not in ALIGNMENT as most of the people understand.
You want peace of mind and you keep judging your desire based on the amount of money you are getting. No wonder there are hordes of people who deny LOA.

You can't wait for the train on bus stop. I mean you can, if the ultra craziness in you is all you wanna prove.

When you want to have something. Like I want money.
Ask yourself why do I want money?
To get W.
Why do I want W?
To get X.
Why do I want X?
To get Y.
Why do I want Y?
To get Z.
Why do I want Z?

Believe me all this interview boils down to some sort of feeling. Do this till you are CLEAR what kind of feeling/happiness it is going to bring. And ask the universe for that FEELING, not the THING (KEY)

I see most of the people on forums like this are here to attract their Ex back. I am sorry I can't say anything in this regard as I am totally NOOB in attracting someone back. I want you guys, who are here to attract their exes back, please start a new thread and dig DEEPER and finally find out WHY. If you can, you WILL.

Now getting back to the site I was talking about.

When you will start asking yourself WHY, you are likely to respond according to your chronic societal/childhood conditioning. This conditioning (or limiting belief - the word we are more familiar and comfortable with) will make you suppress the importance of feeling and focus on logical validity of your desire.

You are likely to think "what will other people think if I really want some X thing. Will that sound weird? I don't want people to think that I am weird"... I want you all to keep that thinking aside and REALLY focus on WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD. and WHY...

We humans are excellent at fooling ourselves. We fight and win logical battles against our emotions. And that is what we all truly excel at.
Don't try to find out the LOGICAL reason behind what makes you feel good. Stop fooling yourself and start improving your life.

This is the site.
http://greaterfool.net/index.html

It will help you to figure out how we fool ourselves and how can we get around with that. Of course you are the only one who knows how you do it and you are the only one who knows what to do to stop it.

Hope it helps.

PS :: I am having such deep discussions with my friends in real life. We are figuring out a lot of things. I don't claim whatever I've written above its THE ULTIMATE TRUTH nor I claim that it is THE ONLY way. Its just a kind of research project.
I want you all to assist me in this. I know there are lots of other points that I missed out on. Please shade some lights on those points. JOIN ME IN THIS CAUSE. Lets make this world a better place to leave. The place where people know what they really want. The place where people are free of any greed. The place where there is REAL ABUNDANCE.

I hope I am making some sense here
looking forward to you guys to get involved

PPS :: I am not agent who is advertising this site. Sharing it just because it might be helpful

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6 Weeks ago my partner and I our revised our relationship and decided to take a break. I agreed to this. I have grown so much as a person and I have learnt soo much in this period of time. I have been doing gratitude lists and affirmations as well as clearing, cleansing myself and focusing in the now and generally on myself instead of the relationship.

We have been together 3.5 years. We do currently live together. I have manifested sooo many things, such as our relationship growing and speaking, laughing, getting along really well, smiling, gazing into each others eyes when communicating and feelings of love.

Other things that I have tried to manifest are not happening at this present time which last night I realsied that I have not completely let go, however when I asked my beautiful partner about how they feel at this point in time they said they still feel the same way when everything initially happened. I was not upset nor angry. I am pleased with myself and I realised I have not completely detached and let go. Which I thought I had. I know I have alot of work to do, and I know how far I have come. She is aware that I am becoming more gorunding, loving, accepting and happier as a person and she can see that and I know she is interested. I mentioned to her that I know and feel that she is still in love with me. However she proclaims to deny that.

Please send me positive vives and manifestations in allowing myself to let go and recieve the opportunity to rekindle our love and future together.

Bettina and I are in a powerful, loving, strong, stable long term relationship.
We are balanced, centered and aligning on the same vibration.
We communicate clearly and pay full attention to each other.
We laugh, smile, love and accept each other for who we are.
We are completely comfortable around each other. Our relationship is improving each day and we are falling more in love with each other.
Our happiness is improving each day and we desire each other intensely.
When we hug we can feel the love in our heart,mind body and soul. We cherish every kiss that we share and the warmth in each others presence.
We enjoy living together, sharing the same bed, snuggling all night feeling content and refreshed in the morning. We roll around in bed each morning with a smile on our faces.

We are pure love. Irrisistable to each other. We proclaim our intense extacy of love.

I am now letting go, I can feel myself letting go. I am allowing myself to let go and be open to recieve for the higher good.

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So as some of you know I've been trying to attract my ex back! We had contact a few weeks ago. Today I had a little bit of a down day, I know the universe is on my side, but I just needed a little hint and he texted me! I was also manifesting all morning that "____ and I are in a healthy loving relationship"... Just thought I'd write a post to let everyone know!

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Hey, everyone!

Today I was doing some reading up on the subconscious, and it got me thinking... As a lot of you know the beliefs we subconsciously hold, shape our reality and the things we desire to manifest. I've seen a lot of threads/posts written in frustration about limiting beliefs and how difficult it may or may not be to change your subconscious mind's way of thinking.

I realized...there probably is a really good reason why it sometimes takes a little time to change your subconscious. You know that feeling when you're trying to introduce a new belief to yourself and immediately you say, "That doesn't seem possible at all." That mental-rejection-buzzer goes off! But the more your repeat it and suggest it to yourself, the more real it becomes. All of a sudden that idea that seemed so far-fetched becomes accepted and integrated into your belief system.

But why can't we accept it right away? Why does the subconscious and our ego have to be so stubborn sometimes!? I mean, our conscious mind hears it, sees it, imagines it, and conceives it right away, right? Why is our subconscious so stuck up? (lol)

Just think of it this way....if our subconscious mind was easily impressionable, there would be so much chaos and unwanted things in our life! Reality would be a complete mess! I think there's a reason why we have barbed wire fences and security systems around our subconscious. If we immediately believed EVERYTHING we thought or heard, we wouldn't even have time to process whether we'd want it or not.

You would say, "Oh, I hope my toaster doesn't explode." And it would IMMEDIATELY explode.

or if someone said something obviously false like, "You're stupid!" Then your subconscious would immediately believe it and you would be rendered stupid.

Think of all the things you hear, see and think every day. Everything on tv, the media, the radio, from friends, family, yourself...! Think how crazy it would be if you immediately accepted and believed everything that was told to you, even if it was a joke! It would be utter insanity and chaos..

So, in defense of the subconscious...don't be so hard on it the next time it has difficulty accepting a belief you want it to have right away. I know I'm completely guilty of this too. But, I really think the reason it takes some time changing some beliefs than others is just because of a protection mechanism. I also believe, the kinder we are to our subconscious the more it will comply with us. If we merely suggest ideas to it, instead of forcing it down its throat in anger and frustration, I think it will not only be a lot easier on the subconscious, but also ourselves!

Anyways--that's all of my rant! Let me know what you guys, think!  The Law of Attraction has really made me look at things differently!

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Rhonda in her book 'Magic' writes a relationship becomes difficult when we stop being grateful for the relationships we have and our moments.She also writes to heal a difficult/broken relationship or to let go of our anger for them be grateful (10things)for the other person for all the good things they have.The format she has told to use is : NAME... I am grateful to you for ............. Thank You Thank You Thank You.
I have decided to be grateful for all my beautiful relationships everyday here.Come join me !

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I am Peter93, I have not been posting here very often, therefore, many of you may not recognize me. I will brief out about myself to give you a quick idea of who I am.

I am one of the successful LOA user. I learn LOA since age of 10 years old, I used LOA to get 4-5 big dream jobs in a role even without a degree or work experience, I used LOA in minor cases and sometime I received what I asked for within 24-48 hours -- that how powerful LOA I have developed.

I am Buddhist and therefore I have strong background in meditation and communication with the Universe through peace of mind. That's a quick brief and want to insist that I am not superhuman or anything, I am just a small guy on earth, very ordinary guy so what I do you can do, too.

My philosophy is--what people in the social world say they can not do, does not mean you can not do, too! Their World and your World is different dimension.

Like when people say I CAN'T have this job cos I don't have the qualified degree, but as long as I don't take it into account my Universe does not count that, too. And as long as I believe and hold on to it and keep improving my progress, it's later manifested.

Now... The World Greatest Curiousity --- can you attract specific person?
So many arguement, even myself used to say NO IT CAN'T, too! but things change over time, so my believe changed. I never stop study and find out how it works. I recieved a clue for this fact through more reading and via tapping into my peace of mind to find an answer.

Today I have to believe it is possible to do for the good sake of love.

Basically, love involves much about sub-conscious mind. Someone would fall in love or attract into another person so quick because the target person has what he/she wants laid in the base of sub-conscious mind that even him/her self does not realize. This program works so automatically and it trigger interest, love and attraction toward someone. Many people thinks love is a secret or non-reason, but now I found this is the reason. The World greatest secret is revealed Ha Ha.... C'mon, lets carry on >>>>

But since this work in the level of sub-conscious mind, so you can use the sub-conscious mind to work it out for you to develop yourself that match or blend or bond into the person you like (in which currently not interested in you) This is possible, but it require time and practice and effort to develop, especially if you rarely have a background.

I am a great self-doer, but not a great teacher, I may not able to teach you how to tap into your sub-conscious mind, but fortunately there is a lot of great books out there like The Master Key System and series of book from Dr Joseph Murphy can help you. You learn books and learn to pray for answer, it helps you.

What about the when people say FREE-WILL thing?
I know you guys worry this. The answer came from the peace of mind that this does not conflict with the famous old believe that attacting or LOA specific person is evil or against the free will or manipulation, because this is not about trying to control other, but it's about changing and shifing your dimension into his/her dimension!

It's about re-program sub-conscious mind and let the Universe organize thing in order. You all know by heart that everyone of us derive from one mind. You don't force thing in physical world, but you can blend things together in the mental world in which does not require time and space. Cool!

I have the story of one guy love a woman that think of him as friend (and she had a boyfriend already) He pray to God almost every night for years for the sake of love let she be his girl... and one they thing had an arrangement, boyfriend turned badass and dumped a woman and later on this woman started forming gentle love and building couple relation with a prayer guy... Beautiful example, as I said if you BELIEVE, AIM FOR GOOD SAKE AND HOLD ON LONG ENOUGH WITH FAITH -- YOU'LL GET IT!

I wish you guys and girls a good luck -- see you next time when I have new discovery to share

Peter93

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Promise Yourself - The Optimist Creed, by Unknown

To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness and prosperity to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel that there is something in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true.

To think only of the best.

To work only for the best, and expect only the best.

To be as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

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Hello Everyone!

Hope everyone is having a super spring! My name is Aan and I've been working on a Law of Attraction experiment for almost a year now.  I've even started my own blog and youtube channel to document my work.  Here's a brief summary of some important points on what I've learned about the Law of Attraction.  I went from somewhat skeptical to full believer in the LOA!

1.) Our minds are our power.  Our thoughts determine what we do and how we feel.  Keeping a well mindset is key to attracting what you want and maintaining motivation and energy to apply towards what we want.

2.) Positive thinking alone will not attract what we want.  We have to react to the thoughts that are attracted to our minds.  The Law of Attraction to me is the Law of Thinking, Seeking, and Finding.  If we put our focus on something, answers, thoughts, and ideas will eventually arrive in our heads.  It all has to start in the mind.

3.) Our minds can only be holding a positive thought or negative thought at one time.  What will we allow to be placed on our minds? Thoughts about negative things that have happened in the past?  Negative media?  Rather we should place what we want in our minds.  Let that be the focus of our minds.  This is easier said than done, but can be practiced and achieved.

4.) Whatever energy we put out, it will be returned to us.  If we put positive energy out, positive things will return in our lives.  Likewise, if we put negative energy out, negative energy will return.  It's almost like karma! According to Earl Nightingale, every action will have an equal and opposite reaction.  The return might not come right away or directly, but it will eventually return.

5.) The LOA will bring us thoughts and ideas effortlessly.  That is why we should not be afraid to dream big.  The path or journey to dreams, however, will be different.  Wanting a phone will cost less energy, courage, and persistence than attracting a mansion.  In the end, it is up to us to decide what we are willing to aim for.  Luckily, we have a useful tool that almost guarantees our success, and that is persistence.  According to the LOA, if you never give up, you will eventually hold your goal before you.

6.) We do not have 100% control over others, but we do have 100% control over ourselves and what we allow for our minds to think. Don't worry so much about what others think, work on what we are thinking.  Always be our best friend and take care of our mind and self.  People will be automatically be attracted to people who have great thoughts. It's a great vibe to be carrying around.

7.) We, as humans, have the power to create.  When having a goal in mind, focus on it.  Then we should think of how we can better prepare ourselves for that goal.  Think of many ways to prepare ourselves and act on them.  In other words, perfect our craft.  We will find ourselves becoming the person we imagined. Then when an opportunity shows up, we can jump on it with the necessary skills or knowledge to make our goal a reality.

8.) The LOA is already here and working in our lives, learning more about it will help us put it to use with more direction and purpose.

9.) We have to be able to believe things are possible for us before they can become a reality. Belief is huge when it comes to the LOA! I've had to let go of some deep rooted beliefs I've adopted while growing up.  Right how I believe that ANYTHING is possible.

10.) Although not a requirement, having a goal that you are passionate about will be very helpful.  It will provide natural motivation and energy to pursue your goal.

Hope this helps at least a little bit.  You can learn more and see some of my work at www.yourstickymind.com

Have a superb day!

-Aan

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Ok, so I promised that I would post my story here, and HERE I AM! I don't wanna talk about how everything ended... But I'll tell you how everything started ^^
In December 2010, I had been through the end of an old relationship with my best girlfriend. We were friends since we were eight, knew each other as anyone, had a lot of fun and shared everything togheter, but our preferences in life began to change. As any of us knew how to hold that, we stopped talking to each other until we become strangers. I decided that I didn't want to continue with this "friendship" and she didn't understand my decision, so she began to do stupid things and all of my old friends left me. In that time, I was with a guy that was so lovely... but I didn't feel that he was the love of my life, and at the same time, and old ex that I never forgot, started to ask me for another chance (he never really loved me). Everything was really difficult and the only thing I wanted was to be loved and love at the same level, to feel that I'm with the right person. One day, some old school colleages asked me to go out with them, because they knew my story and how I felt, and I said yes. I felt I had to go out with them, to forget all the sadness and... something else that I couldn't describe We had dinner, chatted, laughed and later we went out to a park to take some drinks before we went dancing. The boyfriend of one of my friends and his friends were there too, so she went to chat with him and when she came back, she told me: "Hey, one of those guys sais that he wants to meet you  " Ok, at that time, I had a "relationship" with the other lovely but not perfect guy, so I said to her... "Ok, that will be a bit difficult..." But I have to admit, I felt something, like disappointment, I really wanted to meet him. We continued drinking and we got a bit drunk, so we decided to go to the pubs to dance. When we were on our way to the clubs, my friend stopped us in the middle of the street and said "Ok, I have to tell you something. He said you are really beautiful, and he felt that you're special. Please, he's a very sensitive person and if you don't talk to him, just once, he'll feel really sad... I know you may be hurting the other guy, but you don't feel the same for him, and you know that this one attracts you." Those words made me feel that I had to take this chance... And I did. Ok, that day we were drunk, but we really had a good time. And since that, he began to call me to see me. Everytime we met, I felt that I had found the perfect man, serious, he's got everything I want!! We started a relationship and everything went right until I began to think that he would leave me. I become a really sad person, dependant on him for my hapiness, and guess what? Well, you can imagine. He did. Everything happened exactly the way I imagined. I was depressed, hurt, and I felt I had to do something about it. I took my book of "The Secret", read and read it many times, watched the film, started to apply it, but I felt that it wasn't enough; then, I found this forum and I began to feel that I was about to discover what to do. I've learned a lot from all of you, and I cannot express with words how THANKFUL I am for all your wisdom. I discovered that there's a way of attracting those special people back, but it'll be your own way! Maybe the things that helped me wouldn't be nothing to others... My advice is to take information and then organize it your way, the most believable way for you. If there's something that you don't understand, or doesn't convince you, don't worry, ask someone, look for answers, don't struggle! And please, get dettached! I didn't begin to see results until I felt completely detached. I have to say, during our separation, I've attracted this guy three or four times, but just for a while, and then he disappeared again. Why? Because I felt I needed him, and that's not true! I don't need him, I want to be with him because I love him and I want to share my life and happiness with him I really felt detached and he began to phone me everyday. At the begining, I didn't answer, or I waited a lot until I answered him. He was worried about my behaviour, and continued to phone. We began to see each other and I felt that he was scared of his feelings, so I asked him. He was, because he become nervous and told me that he didn't feel anything. But as days went by, he began to say things like "Do you imagine yourself with other guy when you're 40? Because I can't imagine myself without you" or "When we buy our house..." That confused me a lot, so yesterday I decided to ask him what kind of relationship we have. I know that we have to work on it to improve it, but I know he loves me ^^ He told me! We're going slowly but now, I BELIEVE. The funny thing is, that I know I've attracted the love of my life because that was what I was asking for when I met him, and I discovered the Law of Attraction at the same time!
(I'm sorry for the long post, hope this inspires you Feel free to make me any question if you need to )
I'd like to end my post adding that without this forum, and all the people that participates here, that would be not impossible but really hard for me. I have to give thanks to everyone of you that has read or answered my posts, everyone that has been there to support me when I felt down, and everyone that it's with me now celebrating my new relationship. I LOVE YOU!   

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Yesterday I was sitting at my desk at work wondering if the Universe, or my Guardian Angel, Guide, whatever, ever listens to me.  I feel like I ask for signs all the time and never get an answer.  I found this one website that talked about reaching out to your guide by asking simple questions and just listening quietly to the answer.  I asked simply, with a quiet heart and a quiet mind..."Please give me a sign that you hear me and that you are there"
The very next song on the radio was "I'm Yours" by Jason Mraz.  What makes that song so special?  Well, first, I was listening to a station that would NEVER play a Jason Mraz song, and It's the very song on my phone that plays when only 'special' people call.
I listened closer to the words "Open up your mind and see like me....Look into your heart and you will find love, love, love"
Was it a sign?  Who knows, but it sure did make me happy.   

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  This time last year I was so happy I felt like I might burst. I want that back! No I want more than that....I want joy I have never experienced before in my life. I'm sending you all JOY JOY JOY. I can see my happy face and many other happy faces ( I imagine they are all yours). JOY JOY JOY and tons of it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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NO CONTACT RULE

First off I wanna say that NCR is for healing yourself and you can get your ex by applying it
But this is a LOA forum and to be able to atract you have to move on,to move on you use this golden rule-NCR

NCR#1-Appologise if needed ONLY

After the BU if youve done something wrong-appologise,sincerlly and just an appology
no relationship disscusions

NCR#2-Yes,it is over!

If having your ex in fb,skype,or other network is making you feel anxious to contact them
of making you check when they're online all the time-block them from everywhere,if you dont it will slow
your healing process,and you dont want that,you might give it 1-2 days after the BU and tell them youre not
ok with still having them in those networks,for the time beeing,and block-this shows strong character,will,
and determinations,it also shows them it really is over,you basicly say game over for you,baby or babe
with this.One more reason to do this is becouse if you have em in social networks and they upload pics,music,
statuses you might think some of the stuff is for you to see,and this will set you back BIG time,you dont want
that!

NCR#3-You disappear,for good!

No texting,no drunk dailing,no stalking,no asking mutual friends about ex,no online all the time,no holiday
cards,no nothing-your ex is no longer part in your life,so they cannot get anything from you anymore,not ever
this is even stronger if ex dumped you,if you do any of those you will loose their respect,and there is a chance they might remember you
by your last actions after the BU.Bassicly when you get dumped you're expected to do all those things,by not doing
them,you're showing independance,selfrespect,maturenes-and BANG they start thingking if they made a mistake by their dessicion,which you will
no doubt see,soon or feal or know,either way you dont care,its over!

NCR#4-Time for a test,are you ready?

By folowing the first 3 steps,and never brake the NCR you're 50% set of getting em back,but most people
dont just come out of the blue and say ,,Hey I did a mistake,can I have you back again?,,Nope,people dont do that
instead they try to remind of themselfs to you,to somehow know you've thoud about them at some time,the scenarious
of how an ex reminds about themselfs are very different lol anyone has different ideas.Anyways when it happens you
will know what that is,basiclly they are ONLY testing you still at this moment its kinda of like this:
You showed them you're ok with the BU
You pushed them away from your life
You havent contacted them for a while
So they test you,by showing themselfs somewhere they know you might be,or to someone they know will tell you,theive
seen them-dont fall for that!
The expected reaction from you is ,,Hey,Johny told me he saw you today,,and whaaammmm ,,Yea so what,what do you want from me,,
Something liek this ussually folows,but in their mind its something like,,Hehe i win,loooser!,,
Its the very first pretty basic and obvious test,dont fall for it continue NC

NCR#5-Time heals,but doesnt stop,so cant you!

Ever had a dream of doing something,of achieving something,of beeing somewhere,but for one or another reason you coudnt do it
during your ex relationship,well now is the time to find yourself again,refind your dreams,achieve them,make new ones start achieving them
Time,and no contact heals you and your ex lover,but it doesnt stop to wait for you 2 to be able to reunite again-time flyes,friend,so dont
stay and wait,obbsessing over it,go out,live,do what pleases you,what makes you happy,over time you will notice your ex reapering in your
life more and more,but you're waiting for the call,not the text,not the faceb ,,hi,,-THE GOLDEN ,,Hi just wanted to check on you,, CALL!
But you're still far from this,friend so keep reading.lol

NCR#6-It's nothing.

Over the whole process,if you're doing it to get your ex back,and you let her/his mindgames get to you,you will no doubt have
second thouds like:Hmm I should do it this way,or i shodnt do that becouse she will be jeleous,or i shoudnt talk to that person becouse she
will be mad at me,I should do it like X now and liek Y tomorow...No,no friend,or girlfriend(lol)Remember this:When a relationship ends,you
CAN do anything YOU want!!!You dont care anymore,right?;)So do whatever you want,just do do things to try to play mind games,as this can be senced
and it never really helps you get over your ex or get them back.So do whatever you want,but not in the purpose of making your ex feels X or y-like.
Do it becouse you want to do it and it makes you happy!

NCR#7-I'm single (wink)!

Time passes you see other people you're atracted to,date,date,dont miss a chance,even booty calls is good,if youre not looking for something serious
Really you will get to this point if you folow this No contact rule,you must remember that everytime you brake this rule,you start from 0 again,so the
period it will take you to get to this step #7 depends entirly on you.
When you get here your ex relationship and all the pain should be forgoten,plus lately uve noticed you see her all the time,or maybe you already started
contact again.You will se what you unique situation will be like.

NCR#8-We could try again,but its ok if you dont want,Im fine!

It says it all,by now you should be perfectly ok with the whole ex relationship situation you ONCE had with your EX,but you find yourself thinking about her
from time to time,and the thoud doesnt make you feel bad or worry,or what if-kinda,or despered like it was when we started.
You've eproved,changed some of your bad thisngs,learned from the past mistakes,and something inside you still tells you,that you have to be with this person
that you have to make a move,that this person is still yours(this is where LOA is working for you,not after the BU,not when you send them ,,love thouds,,)
Chancec are if you're feeling it your ex is feeling it by now too,and she/he learned they cant toy with you,and once you're gone your gone for good,you've
earned your their respect by folowing the no contact rule,and respect is one of the main things needed to have in a relationship.
So if you didnt get the golden call,just a few texts,or hi's here and there,make your own move,but you have to not care about the outcome,to succsede
So if something in you says ,,Hey i should call,she already texted me a couple of times,, so what the heck Ill test the waters(role-swithing?for sure)

No contact isnt about getting your ex back,but thats how most people get their exes back,by earning their respect,showing thei're ok without them,and mostly
moving on.

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Found this on StumbleUpon, and some of what these kids said are the wisest words about love. And they're so cute too of course

What Does Love Mean? See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love

1."When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love." Rebecca-age 8

2. “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy – age 4

3. “Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl – age 5

4. “Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”Chrissy – age 6

5. “Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri – age 4

6. “Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny – age 7

7. “Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily – age 8

8. “Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby – age 7

9. “If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka – age 6 (personal favourite!)

10. “Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle – age 7

11. “Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy – age 6

12. “During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy – age 8

13. “My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare – age 6

14. “Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5

15. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris – age 7

16. “Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann – age 4

17. “I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren – age 4

18. “When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) Karen – age 7

19. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark – age 6

20. “You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica – age 8

21. And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”

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