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on: October 03, 2012, 08:30:59 AM 1 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Change your fundamental story - AND EVERTHING IS AWESOME!!! ;) :)
I know I typed this post up yesterday morning and it accidentally deleted right as I’d almost finished. It took me six and a half hours! I was going to type it up again and add some more research and fancy formatting, and then sell it as an EBook. However, the joy of creativity was too strong in me, so I have typed the whole thing up again, from memory and I’m giving it to you for free (it's taken me much longer the second time because I've made it much more in detail & structured). However, as some of you have said you would buy an EBook if I wrote one, I give you the following post for free – yet if you want to show your appreciation for it through action, please feel free to have a think on the following:
I'm VERY excited about this technique!
I believe I have come up with a technique here which can make big, positive changes in your life, quite quickly. A lot of what is in this post has been said by other people first, but I have added some of my own and presented it in a way I have not seen this information presented before. The result is, I believe (though I have only tested it personally, not through asking others) a new, powerful manifestation process. I believe you may find it more fun and easier than things you have tried before. I believe it can make wide-sweeping shifts. I also believe it gets right around the 'problem' of the physical mind trying to work out 'but how will this happen?'
So, if you will, please take a moment to think - if this technique is fun and easier than what you've done before, and if using it as I've advised DID allow you to shift some things in your life - maybe some things which have been around for a while...what WOULD that be worth to you? Have a think on it.
I'm not ASKING for any money. I'm giving this as a gift. However, if you try these techniques and they do change your life, you are free to make a donation to me. TRY the techniques first - see how you go with them. If you experience big, rapid shifts and end up very, very happy because of this post and the things within, and if you wish to donate, shoot me a PM. I can send you a PayPal invoice or send you my international bank details. Again, no donation is necessary OR expected. If you don't have the money or you don't want to, that's FINE. But if this does make a big shift and you want to show your appreciation financially, the option is there.
Either way, I'd love for you to read the post and try the techniques. Come back and let us know how you experienced the techniques and what adjustments – if any – you have made. This can help other people and help us all co-create better together – and I really, really appreciate the feedback.
Thank you, and please enjoy,
I love Rainbows.
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A lot of you probably have heard of my story.
Well.. I'm back with my ex-girlfriend against the odds of her being with another guy, us being a long-distance relationship AND her friends going against me.
We aren't perfect, but we're working little by little everyday to make us stronger and better..
I'd like to give this part of the post to Stefzilla, he's honestly been the largest inspiration and friend in this situation.
He has given me some truly great advice and I really owe my success to him, he gave me the confidence to believe and the hope to continue.
I know that if you truly love the person you're seeking, don't give up without a fight.
If any of you need some advice, I'd be OVERJOYED to help. (Sarcasm free).
This was my success story, if you've made it to this forum, you're on your way to a better life, trust me.
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on: July 06, 2012, 05:04:19 PM 3 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / This is a post about why you can change the way another is treating you
I've been having some thoughts and insights about using the law of attraction, conciously, in relationships. I would like to share them here and invite additional contribution.
One of the things I have seen asked - and I have asked myself - when using LOA in relationships is 'how is it possible to MAKE someone else feel a certain way?'. We ask this when we're using LOA to attract romantic relationship, better friendship or harmony with our family or at work. After all, we're told that a fundamental of LOA is that 'I can only create in MY reality', right? We're told that we are only responsible for ourself - not anyone else. And someone else can create whatever THEY want.
Many people, myself included, have then asked - if this is the case, how can I influence someone to treat me differently, how can I get an ex who is adamant that 'it's over' to come back to me, how can I have my Mum / Dad / boss treat me more nicely?
From watching LOA videos, reading and using my intuition I now have an answer that is much closer into the vortex and the truth. This is how: everyone has every possibility in them. Read that again. Each person is a multitude of possibilities, only a small fraction of which are expressed at any one time. By this, I'm talking about vibrational possibilities. Remember, we are fundamentally vibrational beings - so we can vibrate at many, many different frequencies. I can vibrate at the frequency of love, in the vortex, using LOA effortlessley. I can vibrate at the frequency of hope, verging on belief. I can vibrate at frustration. I can vibrate at wealth...poverty...hatred...depression...emptiness...excitement...creativity - and so on. We - each one of us - is full of an entire range of vibrational frequencies. When we begin conciously using LOA, we are choosing our frequency.
Now, when we use LOA with other people - we are not (as I used to think) 'making' them do or think or feel anything. What we are doing - is activating a dormant vibration within them. Think of it this way - each person contains a million, billion vibrational seeds. You pick the one you want, and water it with your constant attention to it. That is the seed which grows. There is a big difference between thinking this way - I am just activating something within them that's already there - to thinking 'I have to MAKE them love me' or 'I have to MAKE them want to come back to me'.
When we realise that what we want is already in that other person, the process of attracting becomes much, much easier. Because we KNOW that possibility already exists, in potentia. And KNOWING is right up the top of the vibrational scale - higher than HOPE. We can HOPE that the person loves us (for example). Or we can KNOW that they ALREADY love us, respect us, treat us well - and that this just needs to be activated.
There's something more, too. You know however 'they' are acting at the moment? Whether it's your ex who cut off all contact, your flatmate who is always stealing your toast or your boss who is just mean? This part is important. How they are acting now was once just a seed and 'this' current reality is no more important and certainly no more powerful than the 'seed' reality you are going to help to grow.
Read that again.
Current 'reality' is no more powerful than the seed reality.
ALL CURRENT REALITY SHOWS YOU IS WHERE YOUR VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY *WAS*.
I say 'was', because, as The Secret says - one of my favourite quotes: 'That's not who you ARE - that's who you...WERE!'. So wherever, however someone is treating you is just showing you which vibrational seed you have activated within them, and it will always correlate with your PAST vibrational reality.
And as soon as you change your focus, and shift your vibrational reality...BOOM! You'll activate a new seed! So the most powerful potential within a person is not the currently activated one. It's the one you choose to give your attention to NOW. Most people don't realise this, so they just keep giving their attention to the currently activated seed, thinking 'that's all there is', 'that's who THEY are' or 'that's just how they behave'. And so that seed stays active. For a seed to stay active, it NEEDS attention. Give your attention to a different seed - and a different reality will BLOOM!
Tips for giving attention to another seed may come in another post.
Thank you for reading
Love and happiness in the vortex,
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on: February 17, 2012, 08:49:41 AM 4 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / 7 - DAY MANIFESTATION EXPERIMENT (LET'S ALL TRY IT!!!!)
I am going to do this and post the results
7 Day Manifestation Experiment
April 3, 2011 by Steve
Some people really struggle with manifestation: intentionally creating something out of nothing. I had a client who came to me feeling a little overwhelmed with all the distractions outside of him. He complained that he didn’t have enough time to complete tasks and that there was just too much going on for him to manifest his goals and dreams.
A likely story…
The reality is that he was focusing too much on his outer world. He was giving too much attention and energy to his environment – and by placing his attention on his environment he was reinforcing THAT VERY environment…
…and then wondering WHY he was not creating what he wanted?
It’s sort of like printing out your resume on a piece of paper – whiting out a mistake you made on that paper and then re-printing your resume and being surprised to see the mistake show up again.
You can’t change the paper copy until you MODIFY the digital version.
And you can’t change your outer world until you MODIFY your inner digital world.
Do you get that?
You are ALWAYS reinforcing whatever you put your attention on because your attention creates your reality. When you focus on everything that his happening outside of you, you get more of what is OUT THERE.
Which is fine when it is stuff you want, but what about when it is NOT?
You need to start fresh and go INSIDE. That’s why I decided to run an experiment with my client. An experiment that would renew his faith in the process of manifestation and his ability to create something from nothing.
As part of this experiment I asked him to choose 3 things he would like to see manifest over the next 7 days; things HE REALLY wanted in his life. Here is what we came up with:
-someone to ask him out for a beer at the local pub
-someone in his family to cook dinner for him
-to win the card game he attends on Thursday
Then we went back to the basic principles of manifestation. I gave him specific instructions on how to attract what he wanted. Then I asked him to “test-out” this theory over the next week – a 7 day period.
The results please!
He CREATED EVERY SINGLE thing on his list in only 4 days:
-he had someone ask him out for a beer at the local pub
-his partner cooked dinner for him later that week
-he won the card game on Thursday
It was that easy.
7 Day Manifestation Experiment
Run your own 7 Day Manifestation experiment to give you more confidence that you can create something out of nothing.
Use these 3 steps:
Step 1: Write a list of things you REALLY WANT to see manifest in the next 7 days (they must be believable to you).
Step 2: Visualize each item on that list as if you already have it. (do this daily)
Step 3: Post your results to acknowledge you are a POWERFUL creator. (important if you want bigger and better things to show up!)
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on: December 03, 2010, 07:38:48 PM 5 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Why some can't attract someone specific?
since the question keeps coming up, I summarize my idea and would appreciate your views.
Firstly, I would say that...
- the original authors of LOA never said it is impossible.
- the idea of LOA is perfectly compatible with specific wishes.
- only some independent promoters of LOA advise against it.
So why do some advise against attracting specific persons?
1. it may not manifest as quickly as you would expect.
2. it is not an easy task to wait for one person when there are plenty of potential partners out there.
3. sometimes our willpower is not strong enough to ignore the sexual drive, which requires any available relationship as soon as possible.
4. sometimes our willpower is not strong enough to ignore the emotional pain caused by bad memories, that also create desperation and confusion.
5. there is a huge social stigma against loving someone who doesn't love you, being single for too long, or more in general, being "weird".
In many of these cases, especially when there are more convenient and more easily available options (there always are, as a matter of fact!), it can be easy to think that "someone else out there" might be better than the specific person we currently love.
If you think that way, that is exactly what you will attract!
It's not extremely wrong to think that way, but it is important to notice that all
these impressions and insticts are a result of impatience, and sometimes also of pride. And what is one of LOA's basic lessons?
Be patient. Many forget patience, always. If you want to attract something very specific (e.g. "I wish to be married with XYZ"), it will very likely happen in steps, and maybe not the minute after you broke up or were rejected. You will start seeing positive signals, get negative ones whenever you feel discouraged, and then keep getting positive ones again, gradually leading to the state you visualize, manifesting over time. Well, if she/he proposes to you the next day, fine let us know. It's very possible.
But the truth is that many of us who need advice still have some grudge in their heart, towards the specific person they love: bad memories, feelings of rejection, jealousy, pride. Yes, pride is what makes us think:"Ha, if you don't love me, I can have 1000 admirers anyway!" - That is not love, with or without LOA!
Be patient. Timing is up to the Universe, and you must keep hoping, staying positive and focused. Some advise that time heals. Indeed, thinking about other things for a while can speed up erasing the bad memories, and focus on positive aspects. But if you're good, you may also skip the interval and start remembering the good memories right away. Be grateful... and stay grateful. Many start thinking "Oh, my partner was so good to me, but...", "Such an angel, but...", "We loved each other so much and she really showed me how much she cared, but..."
No more buts! The "but" most probably manifested because of something negative you have been attracting for a long time.
Patience is the first part of the story. The second is empathy and emotional intimacy/"connectedness".
In my personal experience, if you're patient and grateful enough, empathy follows naturally. Why?
- you are more open to understand what makes the other person tick.
- as a consequence (while interacting) they also understand you better!
- you don't depend on their mood changes. This point is very important as it helps in daily relationship life: Imagine yourself married with her/him. What if she is impatient and starts screaming around, insulting you, after a stressful day, and then asks you to do all the chores and so on? You get annoyed? That's human, but bad, very bad!
This is all related to two more important LOA lessons:
I. Be "detached from the outcome".
II. Don't let your happiness and love depend on the other person's little mistakes. You are responsible for your own happiness!
Why is this so important? Because in (or before) any relationship, there must always be a strong foundation, and if you're part of the couple, you should be ready to uphold it even if the other person changes their mood/priorities/tastes/appearance/etc.
"It takes to two tango", as many say, but remember, "in partner dancing, the two dance partners are never equal. One must be the Lead and the other will be the Follow." (from encyclopedia)
This doesn't mean that one is superior, but simply that you take responsibility over your relationship: if she's sad, cheer her up. If she's jealous, show her she doesn't need to be. If she's ignoring you, show that you're still kind and look for reconciliation.
Like attracts like, but this metaphor doesn't mean it's the end of the world if people do small mistakes or if the other person does not fit all your expectations. Start by fitting your own (this is my personal comment, not LOA)!
This leads to another reason which I think creates difficulties in attracting a specific person: Ego.
The more we focus on our immediate impulsive needs, the more distance we create between ourselves and the specific person we love. We start neglecting the other person, misunderstanding them, and feeling hurt for things that may have never happened.
Example from my own life:
After my girl went abroad, during the first days we chatted online a lot. But after a few weeks she started answering only every 5 minutes, sometimes every 30 minutes, and I was heartbroken, imagining the worst things, thinking bad about her, wondering what I did wrong, closing myself up, having lots of doubts, not loving spontaneously as before, etc.
And when I went to her place, guess what I saw? She leaves her chat switched on even while cooking, studying and doing other things. Personally, I would have never understood that because I always log on the chat only when I want to speak and then switch it off...
Such small misunderstandings can threaten relationships.
I think that the moment we start searching for "any" partner and imagine their general traits instead visualizing someone specific we know and love, we are actually looking for something to complete our happiness, to gratify our needs. Once this something changes or doesn't make us happy anymore, we can easily switch to another partner who satisfies us for a period, and then to another, and another, and another... that's not love. And that's not LOA, which gives us the possibility to be happy in advance!
This is why - in my very very personal opinion and also in my experience of using LOA since almost 1 year - a "general partner search" could even harm the process of attracting someone specific. I think they are two entirely different processes; following one causes to neglect the other.
How can you understand and create empathy with an specific person when your mind is distracted by images about the "general"? As I wrote elsewhere, if we freely love "everyone and everything" we risk neglecting the specific needs, desires and the specific circumstances of an individual relationship.
This is just some food for thought.
Each person is an individual and to attract a relationship with a specific person, as some LOA writers put it, your vibrations with that specific person have to synchronize: put all your faith and efforts into this, and don't vibrate the slightest doubt. Doubts and thinking about other people (or desiring a "general" relationship) can create "interferences" in the vibration. For example: Imagine your partner is away for a few years and you start attracting in general. Several very hot guys/girls flirt with you, pay you all sorts of compliments, make you feel very sexy and important, right here and right now. Honestly, would you resist, if all you need is a any person?
This is why I think that it is very important, when using LOA, to distinguish between "anyone" and "Specific Person". Whatever you is in your mind is what you attract.
I hope I have outlined my ideas clearly enough and would appreciate your feedback, as using OA in the most successful way is in the interest of everyone here I think
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on: February 11, 2010, 05:57:13 PM 6 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Yes, You can Attract a Specific Person in Your Life
Yes, You can Attract a Specific Person in Your Life
How to attract a Specific Person?
One of the most often asked questions is “Can you attract a specific person using the law of attraction?” The good news is Yes you can absolutely attract a specific person in your life in a relationship you choose and with success.
Love is the most important emotion of all in this entire universe. When it comes to money, jobs, and so many other things people don’t really have that much difficulty in manifesting. In matters of the heart if you don’t get what you want the pain is maximum. The one you love, that specific person, is the most important person for you, and even the entire world cannot substitute for that person. Now I have absolutely great news for you today. Yes, you can attract that specific person you are in love with. So today allow yourself to be absolutely elated and just follow the procedure below.
Desire and Desperation – You need to let go of the desperation
While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.
How to clear desperation?
The easiest way to clear desperation is to let go. Surrender to the light of divine love of the Universe. Imagine a beautiful light of divine love, a pure radiant love light. Just surrender to that beautiful sparkling light. That light created you, gave you everything that you possess, and that light simply loves you, no matter what you have done so far. That light is forgiving, 100% pure love and powerful enough to create a beautiful reality beyond your wildest imagination. When you fell in love that light was silently telling you what to do, only if you listened. So let go of everything, surrender and start anew. Today submit yourself to that divine light and affirm to yourself you let go, you surrender and you allow that Divine Light to create a bright future, a bright love life for you. You accept the divine will because the divine will make your life far happier than you can imagine.
Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.
Creating a beautiful love life
Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it’s time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.
Now now simply imagine your loved one in love with you. Earlier you were one the one in love now imagine your lover is the one in love with you. “Your loved one loves you”, your desire is fulfilled. How does it feel? Say to yourself as an affirmation 1000’s of times “_______ loves me” See what happens in the next 5-7 days. See the shift in energy. Notice how you would feel. Visualize your lover is in love with you. Keep a tab on the feelings. How does it feel? Go lucid in your mind as you make love to your lover. How does it feel?
If you do the above stop properly you will realize and laugh at yourself, what was I so desperate for? And once you have done it well, your world opens up. You feel more powerful. If you do this properly you will feel like a winner and your world of choices opens you. You will definitely wonder what the big deal about this person that I was putting so much energy on? Why didn’t I just let go before?
While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn’t because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.
Now this is a very important step for those in love
Love – the power behind creation
Understand this. Love is THE most powerful energy in the Universe. With love you can create anything, win anyone’s heart, mind and soul. Every day for at least 10 minutes sit down and send loving thoughts to your loved one. Imagine you already have a relationship with her. Your lover loves you completely. Now what kind of loving thoughts would you send to your lover.
Imagine a pink ball of energy in between your hands in which you see you already have the relationship of your choice. In this ball you can see you and your lover. This ball can only contain pure and good love energy. Note the words, the thoughts, the kind of relationship you both have in this ball. Now let go of the pink ball. Let it flow away in the Universe.
Let go of any attachment. And if you do it right there will be no attachment now because you are already in a field where you can FEEL the feelings of the relationship and loving your lover. In case there are any doubts Affirm to yourself, “I surrender to my divine light”. “I only have love and gratitude for my divine light”.
Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.
If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be:
1. zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared?
2. extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly
3. a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You’s for the Universe.
Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.
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