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Hello Everyone. Success story! I am back together with my ex. Here’s my story:  http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/getting-my-love-back-9834/30/
I know everyone has different ways of dealing and coping, but perhaps if I explain everything I went through, it may help even one other person.

So basically, I am so very happy that we had the breakup. I think if YOU are in a breakup and upset/sad/miserable because of it, YOU should be so very happy that you have this opportunity to heal yourself. I realized that, basically, we get crushed in the aftermath because during the relationship we always loved the other person MORE than we loved ourselves. Think about it, even if the relationship was bad you probably just tried to make it better, tried to get them to care more express more BE MORE than they wanted to be or were willing to be.  Did you ever stop and think, “what do I want? Does this person make me happy?” I never did. After the breakup I was a mess. I came online and found this forum and read every single thing I could to “get my ex back”. You all know.. How many times have you searched for the same thing online?  As I devoured everything I could get my hands on, I realized that I was lacking in self-love. I was so busy chasing others, I never asked myself what I wanted or does this person make me happy?

No contact was not easy as a pie but it wasn’t so difficult for me because I always loved him unselfishly. I mean to say, I really truly wanted him to be happy. Even if he didn’t want to be with me. So I kept sending him loving vibes etc. (I guess he really got all my RS! He said he dreamt of me every single night! Wow!)

As I read up on everything, as I watched every single Abraham Hicks on youtube, every single Bashar video, I moved further away from him spiritually and closer to myself. And it felt so good!!!! Finally, I was ready. I found myself! I said to myself, I don’t care if he comes back or not, I am so happy either way. And then voila he came back  Now, I am going slow, I am going to be the one deciding this time.  Everytime I get upset or sad or want more than he is willing to give, I am going to do EFT or Ho’oponopono or use switchwords. I am never going to give up my power again to anyone! And you shouldn’t either. The only person you are going to have with you forever and ever is yourself, so you need to get happy being by yourself as soon as possible. Just let go of resentments, of wanting to hold on tightly to everything. Just let things be.

In the last month, I read all the links below a million times. You should too, just in case one little sentence even helps you. Sometimes that is all it takes. I read every link in this forum on relationships. I watched every single video on youtube. I couldn’t really get into RS that much. I have problems meditating still. I started pilates but am doing it from dvd. I lit candles every night and just sent him love. I really connected with ho’oponopono and switchwords. I read up on everything that showed me self-love.

Please know that you can do it. It is a process. I tried to force it. I got upset with myself when I couldn’t just snap out of it. I thought about him all the time! But, I guess everything I read and listened to, made little dents inside of me, good dents, even though I didn’t realize it at the time. Dents that became full blown confidence and love for myself. So one day you wake up, and you are shining bright like a diamond. And you are so pleasantly surprised to see that you got through everything. And you have love for yourself, and your ex is back OR NOT but even if they are not you meet someone even better and you love them too, but YOU NEVER STOP LOVING YOURSELF THE MOST.

I hope this helps you, all of you, and please let me know I you have any questions at all !

Books:
Meetings with Remarkable People by Osho
Loving What Is by Byron Katie
The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz


http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27987-Albuquerque-LIVE-March-10-2012%21/page12
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27780-Abe-quotes-about-the-Grid/page4
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28058-How-do-I-want-to-feel-about-this-BUILDING-MY-NEW-GRIDS/page2&highlight=relationship
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28897-Reaching-for-relief-in-a-relationship&daysprune=10
http://dancewithtruth.wordpress.com/tag/don-miguel-ruiz/
http://pathwaytohappiness.com/insights.htm
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?20829-Aligning-with-reunion-with-my-ex/page4&highlight=breakup
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/8017.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/11078.html
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/core-sadness-vs-wounded-sadness/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-you-dont-love-about-yourself-triggers-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-he-owe-you/
http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#comments
http://tr.scribd.com/doc/92574680/How-I-Found-Freedom-in-an-Unfree-World

Ho'oponopono - Feel it!

Can I Attract A Specific Person with the Law of Attraction?

http://www.blueboard.com/tao/tao_20.htm
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/psychic-paranormal/57266-gentle-way-requesting-most-benevolent-outcomes-4.html
http://www.trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/krishnamurti1.shtml
http://www.ichoosetoheal.com/downloads/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.pdf
http://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/intention-manifestation/51129-zero-limits-ho-oponopono-discussion.html#post678943
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9538-3.html
http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9408-3.html
http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?29094-Random-quotes/page3&highlight=quotes
http://www.stumbleupon.com/su/24XlL6/becrobbins.com/blog/top-10-reasons-emotional-pain-is-good/
http://lovesagame.com/no-contact-help-how-to-fight-the-urge-to-contact-your-ex/
http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P213.PDF

Bashar - 7 steps of manifestation

http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/getting-your-ex-lover-back

Deepak Chopra - Way of the Wizard

http://thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=19650
http://voices.yahoo.com/lighting-old-flame-law-attraction-1339187.html?cat=5
http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P103.PDF
http://www.theabundanceparadigm.com/fe/3476-the-clearing-video
http://www.mindreality.com/archive.html
http://www.ascensionhelp.com/higher-self-meditation.php

Tapping Through a Break Up - EFT with Brad Yates

Watch a Belief Disappear with Morty Lefkoe (1 of 5)

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/swith-words/
http://books.google.de/books?id=QWUA7d0_EBUC&pg=PA99&lpg=PA99&dq=switchwords+for+love&source=bl&ots=_I3fD0p2XJ&sig=h27hElyrmFdNW1okeL3OTYQe4ww&hl=de&sa=X&ei=bzZ3T7LTHNDIsgak9Z3RBA&ved=0CEoQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=switchwords%20for%20love&f=false
http://www.lollie.com/romance/love5.html
http://www.conures.net/shinn/game7.shtml
hptt://www.tut.com


With much Love!!!!

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This really helped me .. i do feel better and lighter and i was full of emotion while doing it .. maybe it will help u too

Ask your angels or the universe to be with you whilst you have this conversation
with ........(say that person's name) and to offer you strength and support.

Arrange cushions on a chair or sofa opposite you.
Now stand in front of these cushions and tell that person how they made you feel.
Tell them all about your anguish and despair and hurt.
Tell them you understand why they were that way towards you.
That you will give them the opportunity to heal too and that you forgive them...........
Thank your god and angels(or whoever) for supporting you in this and ask them to help you on your path right now to let their light into your days.

Take a deep breath in and as you breath out raise your arms above your head to put your palms together. With palms together take another deep breath in. Breath out slowly and lower you hands-palms touching-down infront of you to your chest. speak the words thankyou, Amen. Relax your arms by your side.
Your message has been received as you have spoken genuine words with heart felt love.

Go about your business, make yourself a cuppa and believe that the energy you gave in forgiving and releasing this will get to them.

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OMG OMG OMG!!! I always wanted to share my success story with you guys and today i am here doing it!!!
LOA works like magic!!! Trust me if i can do it, anyone can 

So, just last sunday i posted here about how i feel about my guy's situation and i think it was AGE and excel who asked me to email him. I did NOT ask anyone if i should email him or not. It was already on my mind to email him (totally inspired action), but still i was ignoring the inspired action too 

So when AGE and excel asked me to email him, i was like- hey this is another way universe is telling me to do this. that same time i had my papermate pen in my hand (which i always use)... all of a sudden i looked at my pen and my thumb was covering the "paper" part of the pen so all i can see is "mate" with the two hearts. all i was thinking about is weather to email my guy or not. i was like that's it, what else is universe going to tell me- this is a huge sign 

After that, nothing could stop me. so i emailed him (after 10 months of NC) asking how he is doing. Just so you guys know, he was the one who ended everything because of this other girl. our relationship was beautiful, we never fought for anything, we were so great except we lived and still live on the opposite side of the country. it was a sudden end for me and when he did, he told be he never loved me and we should not be talking to each other ever. we havent seen eachother for 2.5 yrs...
but like abraham says, time, space, distance doesnt matter at all.

so anyways, he didnt reply to my email for 2 DAYS. i wasnt attached to the outcome anyways. so it didnt matter to me. i was going to my dance classes, had a fantastic cruise-ship interview, had a haircut and was making sure i look good everywhere i go. in short, i love myself first. it didnt matter to me if he replied or not. i was still looking, feeling, GREAT!!!
on the third day i came home late night after work. i usualy go to bed after work, dont check email or anything. but for some reasons, i had the urge to check my email. so i did. and guess what... it was his name in my inbox. i was like- what the... it took him 3 days to write me back?!?!? in those 3 days, i never lost faith. i didnt think of him too much either. there was a lot going on in my life and he was not the priority. he still isnt!

it was the sweetest email ever! he asked me so many questions. he also thanked me 3 times for emailing him. in the end he said, "i am always thinking about you and wishing you well" aww... so he was receiving all the love i was sending him! how great!

we are taking things slowly and emailing back and forth just like friends. i am pretty sure he is not with that girl anymore but i havent asked. i dont feel the need to. i am happy where i am. we email each other 2-3 times a week. i am still detached with the outcome or the end result of all this that is going on which feels GREAT!!!

just so you guys know. i had let go of him LONG time ago. I was not doing any affirmations, visualizations, or any techniques because they didnt feel good to me. it felt like i was the one making recipe for this story.
after reading rainbows vortex post, i made sure i am happy and in my vortex all the time. It gave me a lot of good news!!
so all i did was let go- truly let go- for a long time. and be happy with everything. make peace with everything and you will be sucked into your lovely vortex. then your desires will manifest!

now, i am in the process of manifesting his phone number so we can hear eachother's voice after 2.5yrs 

thank you everyone here!!! you guys are true gems!!! special thanks to AGE, excel, angel 57, rainbow!!! you guys rock!!!

love,
magiclamp

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Session 1
1-01 Abraham Opens The Phoenix Workshop
1-02 How Can He Be In Service Work & Not Become Negatively Influenced
1-03 Would We Ever Want To Eliminate Physical Disease As A Pathway To The Non-Physical

1of3 2012 12 01 Phoenix AZ

*In the next video the first question is about a ex, getting info through dreams, how to approach the situation... something that really hit home for me.(Big time) Sorry to leave you hanging its coming tomorrow"

**Damn it Truelove, why are you always right Bah !!** 

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Session 1 2012-11-17 Dallas

1of3 2012 11 17 Dallas TX

1-01 Abraham opens the Dallas Workshop
1-02 How can he more consciously rendezvous with synchronicities
1-03 What about conscious rendezvous with animals too
1-04 What about contact with those who have died
1-05 His daughter receives all that she asks
1-06 How did the very financially successful become so
1-07 She doesn't like the idea of reincarnation, being without her kids
1-08 Stock broker starts asking a question about sex


- Part 2 and 3 coming.

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For each person on this forum who is not in a relationship currently and would like to be.

Whether attracting a new relationship with a past lover or whether it's something completely new!

Each one of us, through time, has already put the relationship we want into our vortex.

Whenever we experienced something we did not like, either about a partner, a circumstance, or a person (a friend, a waiter, a hotel, a collegue - anyone).

That relationship which we want has already been created and amassed in vibrational escrow.

So, when you experienced a lover who was rude...you asked for a more polite lover, and they went into your vortex.
When you experienced a lover who did not show interest in your hobbies...you put a lover in your vortex who does show interest.
When you experienced a lover who was chronically late for things, you vibrationally requested 'more on timeness' - and that went into your vortex.

The Universe knows exactly what you want, from all your asking. It doesn't matter if you asked with words or without words, whether you asked conciously or unconciously. Everytime you have felt a negative reaction to something about a lover, that has asked for the equivalent positive aspect. And the larger part of you has become a vibrational match to that. And your lover - your lover with ALL of those positive qualities - has already been put into your vortex for you!

So, the larger part of you - the source energy part of you - is already over there, as a vibrational match to what you want. And your lover is over there, a vibrational match to what you want.

The question is - where are you? Are YOU a vibrational match to what you want?

Or are you still complaining about what you want not coming, and looking at all the things which caused what you want to go into vibrational escrow?!

You can't have it both ways! You have to find a way to focus only on what feels good at what you want!!

You can do it...

So, I encourage you all to become great 'reality ignorers'. The more you focus on what is, the more you get of what is. If you focus on the nitty gritty negative details of 'he blocked me on Facebook', 'she has a new boyfriend', 'that person said they hate me and we used to be so close' - if you keep focusing on that, if you keep allowing that to train your vibration, then you're-just-gonna-get-more-of-that.

So, stop talking about THAT.

Instead, focus on what's in your vibrational escrow.

It helps to stop thinking of the specific lover you want, for a little while. Relax and know that if that lover - that ex, that person, whomever - is TRULY the best match for you, to what you want, then the Universe WILL bring you them.

The only way you would NOT get that person, that specific one, is if there is someone who is better.

Not someone that the all knowing Universe decides is better for you. But someone, who, if you knew everything about the specific one you want - and everything about this 'other one' - then you would say 'yes, I want the other one, not the one I thought I wanted'.

SO RELAX. You're not gonna get duped. You're not gonna get second best. You're not gonna get some sort of crappy, sub-standard version of what you asked for!

No, you're gonna get the absolute best, what's in your vortex!

But it can still be much easier to take your attention away from the SPECIFIC lover you've been focused on.

WHY?

Because, focusing SO specifically on one person, when you're not in a state of absolute certainty and clarity, can add resistance. BIG resistance. Because you not only focus on them as they are in  your vortex, you focus on all the things (which you percieve) as being a hinderance to you and them getting together.

Stuff like...
But they said they'd never love me.
But they blocked me on Facebook.
But they have a new girlfriend now, and she's hotter than me!
But they're moving to Albuquerque.

You see? You're focusing on the in-your-vortex them and your out-of-the-vortex them at the same time, sending out mixed, split energy - and then, getting mixed signals back from the Universe!! YOU gotta send a clear signal, if you want clarity back!! It all srtarts with YOU - YOU HAVE THE POWER!!! 

All that stuff which, to the Universe is no obstacle at all - but you, with your physical mind, make it one by looking at the circumstances and feeling like 'well, this is impossible!' - or - 'Well, this is unlikely!' - which adds BIG resistance to the mix.

You don't need that resistance.

SO...go general!

Focus generally on the really good feeling qualities your lover in your vortex has, and let the Universe sort out for you WHICH lover and HOW that will all come about. If you take a little bit of trust in the Universe and get out of your own way, you open the door...and miracles will happen

Say, HEY UNIVERSE!!! I know that you know EXACTLY what I want. So I'm gonna get out of the way and let you deliver it to me!

And then, focus generally with absolute joy and bliss on what's in your vortex. When you don't put a name, a face, a person to it - then it's much easier for it to come to you.

Have fun! Feel free to post about the lover who is in your vortex in this thread, as well as discussing going general to get out of your own way.

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Ladies & Gentlemen Hellooo =)

 The reason  for this post is because I am not trying to attract an ex back /past love  in any form (been there and done that lol and yes LOA  does work but on my journey of self discovery I decided to let go the old lol =P ) and in the famous words  of the incredibles " I never look back, darling! It distracts from the now" ;-)

So as a newbie, I registered looking for support on this  new manifesting journey and could not see any posts here that were releavnt to my situation =) So here I am READY to manifest a new love and thought of creating  a post where there are similar people in the same boat as me  who are looking for support, tips (emotionally/spiritually)  where we can post our new love intentions,  can get creative as we want (pictures ;-) affirmations or doing nothing just supporting =P )  insights on this journey (any self limiting beliefs or lessons ) that come up in the down moments - it is about bouncing back quickly,, our success while on this journey manifesting a new sexy love, good wishes and so much more  =)

So this post is for those of us who are READY as love is a two way street and we have to be what we seek =P  Those of us who on our self discovery path and are happy, content with our life and ourselves, love ourselves yet are ready to manifest someone to share a mutually satisfying and fullfilling relationship with in this journey called life =) I am ready for an effortless love process (anything is possible with the LOA and taking responsibility for myself internally as i know the outer is the reflection of that).

This post is for those of us who know we are ENOUGH and loveable just is (we gone through the journey of self acceptance /self love etc =P)  ! we deserve to attract the best man/woman  that fits with who we really are in our essence , a love with integrity , a love that is right , a once in a lifetime love - so why limit our self ? I am not really particular about when or how my new love manifests as i believe   love finds us when we are not really looking for "it" (putting that energy out there of knowing yet detaching with happiness and enjoying the present moment, being grateful for what is and what is coming  ) and I prefer the universe to surprise me in a good way !! =)

So my journey begins  and will keep those who are interested with my updates soon .... and hope to support those on this journey as well . With lots of warm vibes =)

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So..the vortex,

And the grids...



Oh yeah!

Well...

I took a break from this forum for a while, a few weeks back. I'd soaked up everything I could for a time, like a full sponge that can't soak up anymore. So I took a break.

During that time, I asked myself a very powerful question. It was about letting go. Up until then, I had focused on staying in the specific feeling place of what I wanted- the relationship. But now I was ready to 'let go and let god'. I had realised that I truly didn't need the relationship to feel happy. Not, even, that I didn't need to to feel happy - but that I didn't need to to feel insanely, WONDERFully happy. i HAD FELT SO BLISSFUL BEFORE WITHOUT THAT  relationship - so, surely, that relationship couldn't be the cause of my bliss. Therefore, I said to myself - why am I waiting for this thing to come along so I can feel this absolute bliss? And I took the relationship out of the equation.

Instead of

me ---> relationship ---> bliss

I made the equation

me ----> BLISS!!

I realised I can feel bliss NOW.



So, why would I hold myself away from it?

I decided to feel that bliss all the time, anyway, whatever the relationship was or wasn't. That was what Abraham meant by 'make the relationship with your vortex the most important thing'.

After that decision, things moved really fast. But first, let me explain the grid, which I now understand.

Creating an emotional grid is something Abraham talks about, and it works like this.

First, you focus on the feeling of what you want. At the basis of anything you want is an emotional core. Like...in that relationship, maybe you want the feeling of love. Or, in that money, maybe you want the feeling of power. Tomake a grid, you feel around and find that core feeling.

Then, you just focus on that. Not in relation to the money or the relationship or ANYTHING, just the feeling. You conjure the feeling up, within yourself, NOW.

This is the first part of the power - because it's the feeling you are looking for. And you can have that feeling NOW. That's what I realised - you don't have to wait for whatever it is to come. You can have it NOW. Because it's the feeling you're wanting. That makes your super-powerful-instant-creator! But you have to do it for the feeling - not do the feeling because you're wanting something to come from it. You just love the feeling.

Then, law of attraction is always working - and it draws other feelings like yours to you. That's the point - you don't have to fill in the grid. Law of attraction does that FOR you. You know when you have a thought which doesn't feel so good - and the more you think on it, the more bad feelings come, and you remember times in your life when that happened, and you remember times it could have happened, and you worry about it happening again...and so on and so on? THAT'S law of attraction at work. Law of attraction works on thoughts and feelings too - as well as the physical stuff.

So, you find a feeling you love.
You focus on it. You talk with yourself about it.
And you let your grid fill in. it's a grid because it's like the base of a house or building - the more you're focused on it, the more it fills in. Let IT do the work for you. If the only feelings which come are general ones, that's fine! it doesn't have to be anything specific about the thing you're aligning with. In fact, specific can get in the way.

So, I made my grid. It was of pure happiness. I made the grid, because I realised I can be - and am - purely happy - not to MAKE it happen, but because THAT'S WHAT I PREFER TO BE. NO MATTER *WHAT* THE CIRCUMSTANCES.

SO, THEN!

That opened the floodgates - and NOW, oh my, NOW I understand the vortex SO much more.

The vortex...the vortex...my dear friends, I don't think before we had any idea of the amount of STUFF in this vortex we have. It was all sort of nebulous. But I have been in here, purely, for a few weeks now - and let me tell you how BIG it is.

The vortex is literally EVERYTHING you have ever asked for. It is in there. The relationships - the conversations - the money - the experiences.

Like, if, at age 8, you said to yourself 'I want my own jumping castle' - there's one in the vortex.
If at age 15 you had a crappy meal which was overpriced, you sent a vibrational rocket for 'delicious, cheap (or free) meal'

And we're asking all day, every day! Can you imagine how much STUFF is in there??!!

The day I let go - that afternoon I got inspired to go for a walk somewhere I don't normally go. I met someone I had not seen for 16 years who I had been REALLY wanting to see - and as a result, i got to have the exact experience with them I'd been asking for. It was like the door to my vault opened and that was one of the first things which spilled out.

Two days ago, I got inspired to drive somewhere that I wasn't planning on going - I found an abandoned socccer ball, and I'd been wanting one.

Five days ago, I expressed my desire to the universe to go to a four day music festival, for free. Two days later, a friend gave me a free ticket.

A week ago, I drew a cheque for $5000 - just for fun Two days later, $6000 came!!

Today, I was given tickets to a play I decided about a week ago I wanted to see. Not bought - was GIVEN. Without even asking. Later today I was in a shop with a friend. I had a thought that I wanted a certain food item - and within 30 seconds - I kid you not - my friend offered to buy it for me. With no prompting.

I'm f***ing invincible !!!

And that's just a small slice of what's been happening. Suffice it to say that I'm purely happy, through and through. I no longer am holding out on my own happiness. And because of that, the universe is knocking itself out to please me.

Now, I'm sure you all want to know what's happened with the relationship...

About four days after I let go, he contacted me - with no prompting from me. Two days later, he contacted me again. About five days after that, he initiated us talking.

We're talking. It's going great. I'm not saying anymore just now

Just...get in the vortex. Make the relationship with you the most important thing. not to get anything - but because it IS. Because you are a divine being and your happiness shouldn't have to - DOESN'T have to - wait, dependent on anyone or anything else. You can be happy NOW. Just because you choose to BE! Don't wait for the outside to change to be as happy as you can be. You know you can be so happy now - you go there in your visualisations. So be that happynow ANYWAY.

There are a couple more things I've learned which I'd love to share here:

1. ACCEPT all of you. ACCEPT all of what is. I finally understand this one now!! I used to think 'if I accept what is, won't it not change?' WEll, no. It'slike this. While you're not accepting a certain part of creation, it's sticking around because on some level you're pushing against it. When you accept all of what is, you accept it as a valid part of creation. Bashar says there are infite parallel realities, remember? So accept this one, you're in now, as a valid part of all that is. And accept your fears which are being played out to you by the people around you as valid parts OF YOU.

IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOURSELF, HOW CAN CREATION ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOU?? REMEMBER, YOUR REALITY IS JUST A MIRROR FOR YOU! Nothing more, nothing less. You have to truly accept all of you - then creation will too.

THEN, once you accept all of you - THEN, you can choose. Not because 'this reality is bad and that reality is good', but just because you PREFER that reality. But you move towards and with the reality you prefer by assuming the vibration of it (by creating a grid), rather than pushing against anything you don't prefer.

If ANYTHING you're doing is motivated by fear...fear of being alone, being powerless, being poor, being sick, being  unloved - then that fear will keep playing itself out to you over and over again in your reality UNLESS and UNTIL you sort it out in yourself first. The stuff you don't prefer in your life is JUST a mirror for your fears and pains. Change yourself, rather than changing the mirror.

2. Creation ALWAYS supports you unconditionally. It will ALWAYS and ONLY ever responds to the vibration you're putting out. Tghat is how it supports you - if you are putting out the vibration of unworthyness, then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - I will support you in what you say is true for you' - and then it gives you unworthyness. If you are putting out the vibration of 'love' then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - you tell me what is true for you and I will reflect it back' - and you get a life of love. So creation gives YOU the full and absolute power to make the choices FOR YOURSELF and it supports your vibration that you're putting out unconditionally.

It can't give you any sort of 'break' from this - i.e. you can't turn law of attraction off because creation IS you. So YOU are not in creation - creation is in YOU. You are God-Force...Light-Stuff...Divine blessed creator. Be happy and the rest will follow - it HAS to. But be happy to the point where you can honestly say to yourself 'I am happy and I choose to be this way because I prefer it even IF nothing changed I would still be happy. This isn't even about the relationship between me and the world anymore - it's about my relationship between me and me '

3. Whatever reason you're focused on right now, for you wanting to get in the vortex - YES it will come OF COURSE IT WILL - BUT it is teeny tiny compared to ALL the stuff that is in your vortex. and ALL of it will please you because you put all of it there!! So get in there and just relax, let the universe do it's thing with divine timing and bring you everything you've ever wanted.

The short version:

Get happy, stay happy and get EVERYTHING (literally) you've ever wanted. Because being happy IS the manifestation that matters. And yes, the other stuff will come too - hot on its heels. But when you're there, you will KNOW that the pure happiness IS the success you've been searching for.

Have fun!!

ILR

PS WHEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!

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So LOA says I should do what feels good. And my experience with the guy I'm seeing is no longer making me feel good. I spend so much time being anxious and going on an emotional roller coaster. In times like these I would ask how I could use LOA to change his attitude towards me or to try to get him to give me more attention. But something dawned on me. Maybe sometimes it's ok to just let go.

This guy may be losing interest and isn't that his right? It may also mean that I am not emotionally equipped to take on a serious relationship and thus i am resisting and making things up in my head. But either way it hurts. It's funny how you want something and when you get it you hate it lol

I wanted someone who didn't make me the centre of their life and had their own....and I got it. But now I question if he's interested....all the time.
I wanted to minimize seeing him during the week...and I got it. But then I feel like I'm dying all week wondering why he doesn't ask to see me.
I wanted someone who had goals and dreams...and I got it. But now I feel like it takes up all his time.
I hate texting and wished we didn't text too much...and I got it. But started to freak out because I'd wonder if he still liked me.

The thing with LOA is also you become so self aware and the self I'm feeling now is very insecure and doesn't trust too much.

 Who am I to say he MUST be with me and want me? Maybe just maybe it's ok to allow people to pursue their dreams and stay focused on what they want without pressuring them to dedicate their time to you. I was listening to Abraham this week and I heard something along the lines of sometimes we think, "How dare they not want to do what would make ME happy" or "How dare they live their OWN lives" and I laughed because that's how I felt and hearing it out loud.

So I have decided that letting him go is the best right now, because the timing is simply not right, I'm too emotional to be able to actually contribute to a healthy relationship.

This week I am going to focus on dating myself, doing all the things that make me feel special. Forget about him and let him go with love.

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I've manifested things on and off for a few years now.
SOmething has changed with THIS manifestation.

I'm no longer wanting or desiring. There's things that I physically need, but I think about it and feel how 'nice' it would be to have it, without attaching to the 'needing' of it.

I think it's because I realise that when you 'ask' for something from 'Source/Universal Energy/Supreme being', it's an automatic yes....at least the feelings of having it, are (though not always necessarily the 'thing').

It feels weird, but detachment, apparently, brings it to you much faster.

I'd thought I'd just share.

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Keep Asking




TODAY’S SCRIPTURE
“Keep on Asking, and you will Receive what you ask for.  Keep on Seeking, and you will find.  Keep on Knocking, and the door will be Opened to you.”
(Matthew 7:7, NLT)



Sometimes, people get discouraged in life because things didn’t turn out the way they hoped on the first try. Maybe they put energy into a relationship but it didn’t work out.

They tried that new business venture, but they are still struggling with their finances. Now they think it’s never going to happen.

But, one thing we have to learn is that God honors perseverance.  On the way to your “yes” you may encounter some “no’s.”

You may encounter some closed doors, but that doesn’t mean it’s the final answer.

It just means “keep going.”

Remember, if God promised it, He’s going to bring it to pass. Scripture tells us that through faith and patience we inherit God’s promises.

This is where patience comes in; this is where perseverance comes in. This is where trust comes in.  Just because you don’t see things happen right away doesn’t mean you should quit.


No, instead, rise up and press forward.


Keep Believing, Keep Hoping, Keep Enduring and Keep Asking because our God is always faithful to His word![/b]

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I've driven all you lovelies batshit crazy over my bouncy ball emotions regarding my ex. Do I want him? No. Yes. No. Yes. Anyway, the last update regarding him was that we were being friendly. No ulterior motives. Just friendship. Besides occasionally telling myself "oh he misses me" .. and visualizing once or twice recently, I did nothing else. I just told a girlfriend last night that he misses me but I am not getting back together with him. I really was never planning to get back together with him. I never actually thought he would really come out and want it again..

I only post this to tell you loves that are waiting for yours to return, or attempting to attract new ones... that time and distance just don't matter. He's 2 hours away from me... and we've been apart for 9 months. I think it's been a mix of a lot of things..... I work out, I dated, I am focusing on my school/career, admitting to myself that I needed to stop running away and just accept the feelings I have for him (I've been running into the arms of other men for months, this is a very bad idea in case you're wondering...), and really, with all my heart, wanting to let go of the attachment I had not to him, but TO having a relationship and someone to love.. Loneliness really began to consume me. & well, I just was firm that we were NOT getting back together!

Anyway... I am taking it slow... very slow... and just seeing how it goes. But really, I am still in shock.

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He is back! He is back! After 4 months of NC! It works! Just believe it! I am not in the vortex meaning I don't feel super exchited or anything. I was just feeling good with myself and calm and I knew. I knew I could have him back. If I made it, everyone can. Believe it and let go!! LET GO!

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I WILL BE BACK AT MY OLD SCHOOL THIS ENTIRE WEEK!!!!!









 









STARTING TOMORROW (10/22/12) I WILL BE WORKING AS A SUBSTITUTE TEACHING ASSISTANT IN KINDERGARTEN FOR FIVE WHOLE DAYS AT MY OLD SCHOOL AND I AM FREEEEEEEAKING OOOOOOOUT PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!

I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MANY TIMES I VISUALIZED THIS EXACT SCENERIO...MY OLD SCHOOL, A KINDERGARTEN PROGRAM, EVEN WITH THIS TEACHER I WILL BE WORKING WITH!!!!!!! 


I AM SO NERVOUS...........BUT YET SO EXCITED ALL AT THE SAME TIME I HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO SIT STILL SINCE I TOOK THE ASSIGNMENT THIS AFTERNOON!!! SO MANY THINGS ARE RUNNING THROUGH MY MIND!!!!

MANY THINGS HAVE CHANGED, MANY TEACHERS AND STAFF ARE GONE...BUT IT'S HAPPENING WHETHER I AM READY OR NOT....LOL!

I HAD BEEN RECEIVING MANY SIGNS IN THE LAST FEW WEEKS, ALL POINTING TO ME GOING BACK TO MY SCHOOL WHICH I HAVE WANTED FOR FOUR MONTHS...AND SUDDENLY THE SIGNS WERE EVERYWHERE!


ONLY PROBLEM WAS...I WASN'T GETTING THE OPPORTUNITY...SUB ASSIGNMENTS ARE FIRST COME FIRST SERVE AND EVERYTIME I SAW A JOB FOR MY OLD SCHOOL...SOMEONE ELSE WOULD BEAT ME TO IT ON THE SUB WEBSITE..I JUST ASSUMED THE TIMING WAS OFF...OR MAYBE I WOULD JUST END UP SOMEWHERE ELSE AFTERALL!




I FINALLY SAID TO GOD....WITH ALLLLLLL THE SIGNS I HAVE RECEIVED AND I MEAN MAJOR ONES, IF I AM MEANT TO BE BACK THERE AND IF I AM MEANT TO BE REUNITED WITH MY LOVE....THEN SHOW ME!


IF A JOB SHOWS UP THIS WEEKEND FOR MY OLD SCHOOL ANNNNND I GET IT, THEN I WILL KNOW ITS MEANT TO BE FOR ME TO BE BACK AT MY SCHOOL AT THIS TIME...THE DIVINE TIME OF COURSE!



AND AT 4:00 TODAY I SAW THE POSTING...SAW IT WAS FOR FIVE DAYS ANNNNNND I GOT IT!!!!!!!! THEN A FEW SECONDS AFTER THAT I STARTED TO FREAK OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE IT...I ASKED FOR IT...SPECIFICALLY THIS WEEKEND AND I GOT IT WITHIN 24 HOURS AFTER WEEKS OF SIGNS. 

I KNOW THIS IS DIVINE TIMING, I KNOW THIS IS WHATS SUPPOSED TO HAPPEN...I EVEN STARTED LETTING GO OF THE IDEA OF MY OLD SCHOOL, OF MARK, OF EVERYTHING...AND THEN TODAY GOD PUT ME RIGHT BACK ON TRACK!





SO AMAZING.....I JUST NEED TO CALM THE HELLLLLLLLLL DOWN!



ANY SUGGESTIONS, ADVICE...ANYTHING FOR TOMORROW??



PLEEEEEEEEEEEZ 

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Hello everyone!

I've lurked on this site for well over a year but I decided I'd wait until I experienced real success before I'd join and post.

Here's the brief version of my story:


3 years ago I met a wonderful person we will call MLL. She was my bank teller and called me over one day. We immediately struck up a friendship but gasp! she had a girlfriend. So we had a weird relationship over the next year and a half where we would see each other daily and go out for lunch, hang out, talk and we connected unlike any other connection I'd ever had. Honestly, I've always been the type to respect other people's relationships, but though she lived with her girlfriend, I didn't take their relationship too seriously. I guess it was because they were in their early 20's at the time.

Anyway, each time I'd try and talk to MLL about our "situation" she would run away and say we couldn't talk. It sounds weird to most, but I get her social circle, sub-culture and in truth dealing with me is very taboo for her.  The feelings were obvious and even her girlfriend found out and threatened to break up with her but nothing helped. We kept seeing each other, hanging out, having fun. I never did anything physical honestly out of respect for her - for the first time in my life I felt I'd found a person I could connect with as a human and not be overwhelmed by my sex drive. Let's face it, how many times do we convince ourselves we "LOVE" someone when it's really lust masquerading.

So after about a year and a half of this, I moved 2 hours away due to my career.  While our connection was unique, I'd often tried to put it out of my mind because there was nothing that could be done about it.  Though in the back of my head I always had the distinct feeling that she was the one. She looks, acts and IS nothing like my normal type, but something about her....

After 6 months in my new city, I contact her via text, she's all happy to hear from me. I go down a couple of weeks later to see her and while we sat there eating, I just KNEW "this was it" Mind you, I'm not normally a romantic person. I mean I can be, but to be completely transparent, I have quite a few female friends who are fond of me and I've felt I was over the "trying to have a relationship, do it by the book" phase.  So this feeling that i felt that day with her was really mind boggling. But like with everything else I feel, I just go with it and don't try to fight it. Especially something positive. So A couple of days later, I send her an email breaking down all of my feelings and basically saying I knew she felt the same way (and citing numerous examples.) I figured either we would never speak again or it would cause Hell at first and someday we'd both be glad I'd taken that step.

For 2 days I didn't hear from her. I contacted her the third day and we had our first ever argument (albeit via text). She was saying how she didn't feel that way about me blah blah blah. The whole time, I was laughing both out loud and via texts and telling her "yea right, we've gone through this before and 3 days later I come into the bank and you break down and can't help speaking to me." Etc etc. She admitted how much she enjoyed being around me but swore she was a lesbian through and through.  I figured, "this will blow over, no problem."  Yea right.  That was exactly 16 months ago (I just realized it, looking at the date on my computer)

In those 16 months, I think I've gone through every phase that every one of you all here have. I've read your stories with you when you felt low, when you felt like a stalker, when you felt like you were crazy, etc. I've gone through all of that times TEN! (If any of you are into astrology, my Venus is in Aires so we are notorious for damn-near manipulating someone into falling in love with us and becoming enamored while we quickly forget about them and move on.  I've tried every tip, trick and topic discussed on this forum and to get to the point finally, you know what made her come back? When I simply decided to listen to the part of me that already knew she was mine and not give into doubt. I figured if I could create any reality I wanted, why the hell would I sit around replaying the things that happened that I DIDNT like, the things that I was AFRAID of happening? That's dumb.

Then, I did a ton of RS. (Another Venus in Aires trait, lots of emotional/sexual energy) I listened to binaural beats, usually 528hz or alpha binaurals/isochronic tones on Youtube and I'd always make sure I thought positive thoughts of she and I together. I also made a HUGE playlist on Spotify of slow jams, (loves songs) that made me think of her. And none of the sad "baby why'd you leave me, I'll do anything stuff." I tried to incorporate a lot of fun, happy songs.

Then more RS. Yes, I tried Wendi's RS mp3 and sometimes I got through it, often I fell asleep. But even sitting at the computer like now, I'd think whatever thoughts about she and I. The best thing I did was probably RS stuff where I made sure I felt each hair on her head, the softness of her lips etc etc, not just imagined SEEING them. And I would always imagine the pleasure she'd get from ME. Once I stopped focusing on the pleasure I was getting from her, it all changed for the better.  I always picture me making her feel good in various ways from a smile to the big O. (Hey, we're family here, we can be transparent, right?)

So what happened? In the past 16 months I've probably sent 50 emails, a few hundred texts (because on my phone it's one long text, on her phone it's multiple texts) But the trick was that even in those, I talked to her nonchalantly as if she were either my girl or my best friend (depending on what mood I'm in.) I'm NOT recommending anyone do that. You'll look batshit crazy. It worked for me because I'm an entertainer and an artist so that just kinda worked in my favor because it's part of the persona she already knew of me.

Recently I got some great opportunities entertainment-wise and she was always my uncredited "creative partner" from days past.  I would text her art, scripts, ideas, comedy material etc and she'd never respond.  With my recent opportunities, once I changed my attitude from lonely, sad, missing her like a freaking 7 year old and remembered "wait a minute, I'm the one in control of this s***!", I hit her up and she began to respond. At first it was BS like "I don't mind helping you because that's just how I am." Normally my ego would kick in and I'd think "who the hell is she talking to, I'm ME!" (I'm only being honest here) But this time I'd laugh and think "Uh huh. For over a year you've avoided me, and now you're suddenly "that type of person!" Chick, please!" I asked her 3 weeks ago about meeting up in person to discuss some things for this MAJOR opportunity I have. She hit me with "I'm really not trying to see you but I don't mind helping you." And I let that slide, at least I got her to commit to working again.

Then after a couple of weeks of back and forth, us talking and sometimes her disappearing, I lost it. I've never been mean or disrespectful to her but that day I "read her her rights" (I'm NOT recommending anyone do this either) But it was symbolic at least of me getting my man-parts back and not being nervous or afraid of saying anything or wondering what she thought, etc.

I've typed enough but to get to the point, she basically refused to speak to me on the phone the past 2 weeks with excuse after excuse just so we could meet in person. We met again today, she actually took ME out to eat to our old favorite spot and not a damn thing had changed. It's like this person went from never wanting to deal with me again to chasing ME, telling me all about her fan, her situation, where she is in life, what she wants going forward etc.  And all of this happened after I decided to NEVER worry/doubt/question or think I could do anything that would NOT make me get her. (And the RS stuff really helped too)  Funny, there was always one complaint I had about her hair. Today, she looked flawless, hair was cut and styled (which is SO not her) and everything, just like I'd envisioned her looking each time I did LOA.

I really hoped some of this helped someone because reading everyone's experiences, the successes, the pain, the encouragement, etc. has always helped me.  I'm not on the site as much anymore because I'm so busy career-wise but to everyone all I can say is the future hasn't happened yet. You can write it however you want based off what you continually think about/focus on and the emotions you put into it.  Never waste time thinking about scenarios you wouldn't want to happen. Especially in trying to attract an ex back. This person swore they'd never speak to me again and kept up with it for 16 months through stuff that would make the average person break (money, the lure of fame etc) She didn't care about any of that. But as soon as I changed my thoughts about "is she not gonna like this, or think that is crazy" to "I've got this. She knows she can't fight what she feels." Plus some RS and a ton of Prince music (hahaha) it all turned around. What happens from now on is dependent upon me keeping my vibe tight. Enough happened today (that I'm keeping private) to let me know this was a full turn around. RS Works and no, I have no time to get into it with people that want to doubt. If you choose to, so be it but I am the one in control of my life. I don't doubt anything I want to accomplish!

Shine Eternally good people!

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