We are very close to Launch "Project TransformZ".
It will not be a Public Launch in the beginning but for only Project Team Members.
We are looking for Passionate Members as Team , so if you want to be a Part of the Project Please Refer to below Link.
Thank You Posts
Show post that are related to the Thank-O-Matic. It will show the topics where you give a Thank You to an other users. (Related to the first post.)
Messages - Yan
on: September 06, 2012, 09:07:50 AM 1 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / RS does work, if you are patient
If you dont know my story, it's easy to find and probably the same as everyone else. (to a degree, my separation went 20 years, so I know from what I speak when i say I understand when you REALLY miss someone and wish them back into your life)
I read about Remote Seduction back in March, I think it was. Sounded interesting, thought I would give it a try. He called the same day after not hearing from him in over a month. I continued without getting too much of a response, I gave it up for a while, sort of. I found that I enjoyed doing it anyway, regardless of the outcome. His texts and calls came a little more frequently. Then one day he told me that he thinks about me all the time. I like that. It gave me encouragement.
I just wanted to give a quick update. I have continued with remote seduction (http://www.mindcafe.org/2009/04/06/15-tips-on-how-to-seduce-others-with-the-hidden-power-of-your-mind/) although there are many sites out there. His calls and texts have become daily. He has confessed that he has never stopped loving me, we see each other atleast 3 times a week, even if it's for a quick lunch or just to see each other for 5 minutes. I love it!
I just wanted to give encouragement to those that have tried this without much luck. It can happen, but you have to be patient. And trust me, I am the least patient person in the world. But I stuck with this because I just am very interested in the topic.
Has anyone else had luck with RS? He told me last week that he 'feels' me thinking about him. That freaked me out since I have said on this forum numerous times that I can 'feel' him thinking about me!
I think it's true that once you believe and just know, you are in that 'vortex of love' that no one can take away from you.
That's my positive statement for the day.
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
Mizune, Iceman0715, Phoenix158, Sunflower_Breeze, SR41489, Yan, Sugar Plum, ava, liliana_deena, taleyla12, marioska, Evelyn, I Love Rainbows, Venus, littleangelite, SusieCat, allladiesluvme, Esther Lim, Kas, tereza, Coquette, sh-boom, Autumn, Pantera, Snowyy, truelove, JustForToday, Forever1, dimitris, LadyUniverse, Mollys_Love, AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :), Awesomeness, Mariposa, (KnJ)
on: July 07, 2012, 11:10:19 AM 2 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Do this and fulfill all your desires!
Are you lost in this vicious circle?
Searching for the truth?
Searching for your yourself in this mad maze?
Not happy in your relationship?
Is this race for excellence draining you?
Turn back, leave a deep breath and let it all go..
Its time to move forward..
And you've reached your destination..
This universe is magical..
You get what you want.. whatever you want..
All you need to do is follow certain guidelines..
This this little exercise out..
Get up in the morning.. with this thought!
"This day I will make a difference"
Do good.. even in the smallest way possible.. and forget about it..
Help an old lady cross the road.. teaching a maths sum to your friend.. helping your colleague in work.. ANYTHING.. Do with with genuine love..
Everyday.. find just one thing that you have in your life.. that you're grateful for..
Say Thanks to the One who created us for blessing you with whatever it is..
This is where the magic starts..
One law, which the whole world knows is the law of attraction, what about the other 10 secret laws..
The one who created the sun, star, moon, the earth, the ocean, the stars, will whisper his other secret laws in your ears..
Breathe them inside you..
Here is something that could change your world upside down..
Read it whenever you like and how much ever u like and see the miracles..
This is a humble dedication for the one who created you and me..
P.S. Find the attached doc file
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
on: January 02, 2012, 12:46:13 AM 3 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / 12 Ways to Raise your Vibration in 2012
on: September 18, 2011, 08:17:48 PM 4 Success Stories / Success Stories / HE IS BACK !!! My success story!
That's right, he is BACK. Only days ago I was posting desolate and troubled messages here, as I was getting too emotional and weak about the trip he took to my country... without meeting me... and yesterday there he was, sending me a longing, sentimental, touching message that he wants to meet me. In a short time, we were confessing our LOVE again
We had feelings for each other for 5 years, though only recently we were "official". It was amazing for a long distance relationship. Our story was simply stunning, but I won't go into details. I can actually call it supernatural. Since we were not complete people by ourselves, life threw us in the lessons we had to learn, so separation came (winter 2011). It was an awful time, I begged him, I pleaded, I argued in my favor, I even did things on purpose to hurt him, I could not live, only cry cry cry..... until the day he never wanted to contact me again. For about half a year we had no contact. He broke all his promises, threw away our love story, accused me of things... I was so down and broken that the only way to go was up, somehow, if I was still alive.
What I did:
In spring I discovered this forum, as I was desperately looking for healing from outside of me... and things slowly improved by realizing I have to work from within. I began changing my perspective and practice what I was taught here. Soon I experienced the wonderful vortex, which gave me much hope - it was the time of intense meditation, visualization, affirmation use. I was no longer a wreck.
For the summer, I decided it was time to do something about my life and take a seasonal job abroad, to enjoy freedom and a changed environment. I had many issues with it, which have severely deteriorated my mood. Then I applied something which became the great solution out of the crisis:
I outlined all good things in my life, focused on them and gave sincere thanks for them.
Because of work, I had no time to be in the forum, to use subliminal messaging or other things I did before. However, the intense activity (work + exploring the new city) were a great boost for my own self. I was starting to be adaptable, to see problems from a different perspective, to look with honesty within myself.... It was a very tough time of my life - but a very enlightening one. I was set, from that time on, to be happy with the things happening in my life and to start being grateful on a constant basis.
I know that we don't all share the same spiritual beliefs, but I will tell you what mine have been and the role they played:
As an Orthodox Christian, I finally started to discover this faith... I began to meet God halfway (don't expect everything from Him, and also don't be fooled that you can do it all by yourselves, with no help). Jesus said to look for the kingdom of heaven and all else will fall into place. It's what I began doing - taking care of my soul, being more loving towards other people, letting go of my own will for the sake of God's will... because He must know better and He is full of Love. This happened also because I was tired. Wanting to get my will done was exhausting me, pulling me in all sides. The flood of thoughts was confusing me to the extreme, so I had to put an end to it somehow. So I let go of of my will.... and when my desires persisted, I was openly telling to God: "This is what I want. If You want it, I know You will make it true for me." I got amazing results and a series of incredible signs that were telling me I'm on the way to manifest my dreams... In fact, I was manifesting some of them, though they seemed impossible. Life was getting a rich taste for me!
However... one thing remained unchanged: I could not truly forgive him, nor get rid of the immense pain he caused me. I was much vulnerable to that. Honestly, I was not completely detached and got to have awful feelings for him, again.... It was almost like getting back to point zero, only that this time I was enjoying the other aspects of my life. I have "let go and let God", however... asking Him to put forgiveness into my heart...
So, along with GRATITUDE, I think this is what helped me: DEEP FAITH. The faith that he will improve and return and that a love like ours can't be wasted into nothingness. The faith that what's good prevails. I have always known deep inside that he would return one day!
As I was back home, after all the trials, successes, signs, I realized that in spite of some terrible drawbacks I was living an improved life... I was actually having many happy moments, some detachment, positivity, I was using my skills to make my existence better etc. It was a great improvement!!! although I was still hurting A LOT because of him, I was alive and living pretty good!! I had accepted that the break up was for the betterment of both and that without it we would have kept the same flaws. We truly had the chance to have a better thing for the future....
Last but not least, I PRAYED a lot. As much as I could stay focused. I tried to be honest in my prayers and simply stating my limits. I engaged to do my best, asking for God to complete the rest, that was not in my power. I think that knowing our place in the Universe is of utmost importance - thus we will not attempt to control what is simply beyond our power.
What he did:
I don't know if he felt a change in my energy, but towards the end of August he began to appear online to me again. It was a great step forward! However, none was initiating a conversation. Eventually he took the trip he planned with his best friend and one of my friends. In my country. A trip that was promised to me. I cannot tell how much it hurt... but still, I had high hopes for it. I knew he was going to be overwhelmed by the memories and feel my absence.... I knew something would happen to change his thoughts.... And it did... They arrived in my hometown. He sent me a message to meet up!!! This was one of the outcomes I had pictured...! Well, I was all nervous and some anger came back haunting me... I was quite proud and fearful because of the pain... so I didn't act with love in the beginning of our encounter, though we looked with a long, fascinated gaze to each other. However, something changed it all and became victorious... it was the LOVING ATTITUDE. For a couple of hours we radically oscillated between rejection, anger and disappointment to some kind, loving feelings. In the end we both felt it was useless to keep anything negative. I felt how the good feelings replaced the bad ones. Our eyes were telling the true story. He sat on his knees and shed tears in front of me, as he opened up to some delicate topics.... In no time we began sharing again, laughing and smiling a looooot.... and we kept doing that for many, many hours late into the night and the next day!! Normally we would've been exhausted for such lack of sleep, but I swear I feel incredibly fresh and awake for these conditions!!! It's truly a miracle.... the miracle of Love. We held hands, he was poking me and blowing kisses in the air for me.... so playful and cute We wanted so much to send this time together and it felt incredibly natural and loving!! things fell into place for us in the best way possible, even if we had to deal with a lot of other people.
I loved talking to him. He said to me I make him happy and that's all that matters.... that he loved to see me smiling... and that he simply had no idea what to say to me during the past months.... but he let me understand the love never died! This, however, is pretty weird to me, because I've fallen in love with another man recently (and maybe that raised my vibration a lot and facilitated the attraction) and I want to see what it is about..... I don't feel like throwing it away. So, ummm... I have 2 love interests in my life now. But I'm not hurried, I trust that I will be shown the way. All i know is that from now on I want to enjoy this new connection with this man I've known 5 yrs ago..... We truly are at a different level now, like all successful stories say
Now, please allow me.... I give my heartfelt GRATITUDE to all of you here in the forum - too many to name! - who have advised me, posted inspiring stories and influenced me in a way or another! I am really happy to have met you!!! Not just because you helped me, but also because you proved to me that there is so much goodness into the world!!! I love you all! for those who are still trying to get things right - don't despair! my situation, like many others, seemed hopeless and was extremely painful!! If you trust it was love - trust it will be fine too!
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
strengthlove, AS & I ARE HAPPY MARRIAGE NOW :), Phoenix158, Thew, Ms. Beautiful Smile, ipanema, renee27, liliana_deena, gameking2, Luvingmenow, Autumn, emilylb, RS, Trulybelieve, Rain Raquib, Love is here, Dr Scully, hainguyen99, star24, patrickstar, annmarie, simplyjess, FindDivineTogether, Yan, Carzy_Parzy, SAINAM, Mariposa, (KnJ), I Love Rainbows, mrtq13, arminhul, , despoina, ava, lilly, DH4-everhappyinlove, dance_in_the_rain, Me and U, BeHappy, RealCrimsonDynamo, inessa19, Sneha, tereza, samanvay, Mel90, 2thetop
on: August 27, 2011, 03:40:20 PM 5 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / To everyone who wants thier love/ex back(PART 2)
Hi every one.i was searching the forum,i found an interesting topic started by set-the-scene82(October 31-2010). he wrote in his thread :How about as a suggestion we all take a moment to really put forward a desire and feelings for each one of us in turn to get back together with an ex/lost one with whichever words they want us to use. I think its really worth a shot and helpful towards the bigger picture of each or desires and with all that love it must combine to push things closer to our goals.
To everyone who puts their exs name and situation they want, I will give time to wishing that true for them and for help in getting them back with sincerity..........I thought it's a good idea to repeat it again.cause most of us were not a member of this forum when he started that topic(includes me) so we have a lot of newbie here who wants their ex's back and old members may have changed the details of their desires.so i personally thankful of scene82 for this great idea and i want a permission from him to repeat it again.......so let's go every one who wants their ex's back or want to find the love of their life join us.you can write your desire here and if you want you can mention the name of your love too.all of us will pray for you to manifest your desire...........so i start with myself.i want to be in a new loving romantic relationship with love of my life(B) so that this new relationship with him lasts forever.i want him to initiate contact and ask me to be with him again..........feel free to post your desires so that i could pray for you
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
on: August 14, 2011, 01:03:16 AM 6 Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / LAW OF ATTRACTION DAILY AFFIRMATIONS
on: April 28, 2011, 07:49:14 PM 7 Law of Attraction Products/ Services & Resources / I am Offering / Law of Attraction "Mind Movie" for attracting money
This is a Law of Attraction "Mind Movie" tool for attracting money. Mind Movies are like animated Vision Boards set to music.
This Mind Movie is called I Love Money and Money Loves Me. It is important to try to feel the good feelings associated with the pictures, affirmations and music, while you are watching it. Feelings are the most powerful aspect to working with the Law of Attraction.
For a Mind Movie to really be effective, repetition is needed. This means you need to watch it regularly and repeatedly over a period of time, for it to have a deep effect on your life.
If anyone has made their own Mind Movie and uploaded it to Youtube, then if you are interested in sharing it with others, I invite you to reply to this post and give a link to your Mind Movie.
You can see Bob Proctor, Bob Doyle, John Assaraf and Joe Vitale talking about Mind Movies and why they work, at: http://www.mindmovies.com/mm21/bob_proctor.php?ol=11&ver=21. You can also download some free pre-made Mind Movies from this link.
For another, more "light hearted" Mind Movie for attracting money, click here: Money keeps falling in my window
on: November 10, 2010, 12:43:07 AM 8 Law of Attraction for Wealth / Law of Attraction for Wealth / The Law of Attraction & Money Made Simple - How to Attract the Money You Desire
on: July 26, 2010, 12:58:11 PM 9 Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Live an Extraordinary Life - 8 Secrets to LOA Success - Amazing!
8 Secrets to Success in life, you can live an extraordinary life. Follow these paths, work on your personal development and mindset, be open to the amazing things sent into your life.
Live Your Dreams!
http://www.liz-green.com - Spreading the Positive Vibes Around the World & Back
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
on: May 04, 2010, 01:50:11 AM 10 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / THIS IS MY CALL TO ACTION, COME ALONG WITH ME
Hello to anyone who reads this! (Get comfortable, it might take a while)
I have recently started (again) re awakening my own personal understanding of the LOA and how to apply it. Suffice to say I must have visited about 100 web sites over the last few days and done a lot of reading. I have found myself encountering some friends and have shared some of this with them. I figure that if I push the universe with positive energy it will push back with the same. I intend pushing as hard and as often as I can.
What I was after was the book of all books, the one that encompasses everything. I have not yet found it but the search continues.
Im on a roll now and this is how I intend getting what it is I desire in my life (also having done a little bit of research I guess I could consider myself like a self proclaimed zen super master of all this, and as we used to say in boarding school when letting go of some gas, Sharing is Caring)
Oh ya, before anyone climbs onto their soap box, I dont claim to have developed any of these theories and insights, many of, if not all of them I did not invent, they are my own interpretations and thoughts based on a few weeks research of reading whats out there. These statements are not intended to cure any disease or illness and have not been approved by the FDA, USAID, USAF, UNICEF, the UN, the G8, the G5, Live Aid, the UNDP or Greenpeace.
What is it
Getting an understanding of the law of attraction. I read a few of the "Abraham Hicks" publications and they were extremely useful. I watched "The Secret", "what the bleep - down the rabbit hole" and a few other articles I found online. I also was reminded about a book I read a while ago (in fact two books) by Paolo Cohelo - "The Alchemist" and "11 Minutes" The take home message of The Alchemist is that "the universe will conspire with - or against you to make your dreams come true" and the take home message of "Eleven Minutes" was "choice and consequence"
How to do it
What I wanted was an instructional guide on exactly what to do, when to do it and how to do it. There are so many instructional guides out there, so many perceptions, beliefs and perspectives, each promising Nirvana, Enlightenment and guarantees to all you desire. The thing is that no one can guarantee anything to someone else.
So I took those insights that resonated with me, and I came up with my own way. I will unpack this later.
Understand it, really understand it
So, we know what it is, we have a basic understanding of it, sexy phrases like quantum mechanics, manifest, attract - all sound good, and we do some exercises to try and make it happen. But maybe it takes a while or doesnt happen at all, and we end up saying "nope - doesnt work" and we let it go to move on to the next big fad that promises instant gratification. And thats just it, instant gratification.
How many gurus are out there selling their own formula for success and the LOA? Yes, they are SELLING it. Its not there to be owned, but shared with everyone. But thats a whole separate discussion. We look for INSTANT GRATIFICATION. Thats not an ideal way to start. I think you need to be serious about it. Look long term. Believe short term. Its a process people!!
Bottom line, thoughts are electrical impulses, which are energy. Now energy cannot be created or destroyed, it is transferred from one form to another. You think - therefore you are radiating energy.
Next, Newton took a bite out of his juicy red apple and said that every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So your thoughts (energy) are radiated out, there MUST therefore be something "radiated" back.
Right, now, we want positive things, so we should radiate positive energy all the time. Whatever!! This was my first obstacle (and still is a challenge). What if we cant? We feel guilty that we are not sending out the right stuff, we ONLY want to send out the right stuff cause we want what we want and we want it NOW! So it becomes a viscious circle of wanting to think positively, not thinking positively, feeling bad about it, and managing to send out at least SOME happy thoughts. Oh Dear
What to do.... What do we do??
Dude, its ok to feel doubt, fear, anxiety, anger or whatever. I think its what you do with it that matters. Then I found the Sedona Method. Its a way (not the only way, but one I found) of releasing unwanted thoughts and feelings. Now, so what? We want to think and intend of being gazillionaires, but when we do, we think - like thats ever going to happen
So, using whichever method works for you, you release that unwanted feeling. The thing is, what happens? You feel good that you have released it. THEN you go back to the thought of being a gazillionaire. Have positive thoughts and emotions about it. But then you feel more doubt? Do it again, and again and again. Eventually we get to a place where our positive thoughts and beliefs are stronger than the negative ones. Security and confidence outweigh insecurity and doubt.
The LOA says that whatever your mind thinks most about will manifest in your life. Its a process. If it was overnight I probably wouldnt be writing this but on my 200 foot yacht with my super model fiance sipping tequila with my rock star friends with my new Aston Martin in the garage of my new dream home.
Its about PRACTICE, the more you do it, the better you get at it, the better it works. Did Usain Bolt run a 9 second 100meter on his first ever try? How many years of PRACTICE did that take. Im not saying it will take years to get the LOA to work for you, he could only run a few hours a day. How many hours a day could we practice thinking?
The take home message is that if we send out positive messages as well as DOUBT, thats what we will get back. I think I even read that one could cancel out the other, so what do we get back?
The second take home message I read about was that there are barriers to allowing ourselves to get what it is that we want. We should find a way to break that barrier down. Like in the Sedona Method, or whichever release method you choose, thats about getting rid of unwanted emotions because they send out conflicting messages to the universe. (By the way, the universe is the most compliant of all things, it gives you back exactly what you ask it for)
So, we have been programmed for our entire lives into certain belief systems which me MAY need to re model, change or just get rid of. Ask yourself what your belief systems are and are they congruent with what you want? (First make sure what it is you are asking for - more about that later)
In my (humble) opinion understanding the barriers to the LOA are as important as understanding the LOA itself. Im not saying claim them and live them, Im saying KNOW them, become their friend and send them happily on their way. Close the door gently behind them and then open the floodgates to the universe.
What are your barriers???
Here are some of my EX barriers
In 1260 I was (astonished to learn) in the military and renounced wealth, marriage, privelage etc in favour of service, hardship and the occasional bloodbath. Maybe a bit "out there", but I broke those vows with a smile on my dial.
I grew up feeling unloved and unworthy of being loved
In the past few years I have got so used to being on the financial limit every month it became all I knew how to do
Ok, so with all the happy thoughts I could muster, I was fighting against YEARS, maybe LIFETIMES of barriers.
What am I doing about it.
I have my intention and I hold it in my heart for the universe. If I feel any feeling that is not congruent with my intention, I dont panic, I experience that feeling, gently let it go, feel good about that, feel the relief and then go back to my intent with the universe.
Just remembered something I thought about the universe. Its not your parent, friend, sibling or lover, It doesnt judge you, it doesnt wait for you to make a mistake so it can punish you with bad experiences. Think of it as a mirror, it reflects back to you what you send it. Stand in front of a mirror, what do you see, an angry judge? No, you see you. And you are a product of your thoughts and their corresponding emotions, reflected back at you by the mirror. Want to be more beatiful? Change whats standing in front of the mirror, or at least your attitude to whats standing in front of the mirror.
True Story - The girl I was broken hearted about last week is now a fond memory and I am at least 35.7% Less broken hearted. (to be a purist, I would say I am 37.5% more WHOLE Hearted) What I have now is a clearer picture of the girl I am spending the rest of my life with.
Ok, so what do we want, and be careful here, be sure....
True Story - I went to see a spiritualist for answers, ok I went to a few! hehe After the 4th visit I realised that I might have been using her as a crutch and wanting her to solve my issues for me. Why? cause maybe I was too afraid to do it myself. Uh Oh, wasnt that a little fear emotion? Insidious little things arent they, they creep in everywhere. Chill, dont panic, let it go....
I took my vision page with me of my ideal relationship. It said that I wanted to connect with her on 4 levels, Mentally, Motionally, Spiritually and Physically. Ok so physically was actually number 1. Moving on. So she asked me some questions: What colour hair does she have? I said I dont care, I just want the 4 levels. She said, so you like all hair colours? I said no, I dont like xxxx colour. Oooohh she said, but what if you still connect?
Then she said, what about her intellect, what if your ideal mate is not too bright, would that work for you? Um, no.
What about her family, do they like you? Do you like them? You get all 4 levels but you clash like hell with the in laws. Um, good point.
And interests? Do you like Opera? No. Does she? Um, I hope not.
Is she successful? Spend 18 hours a day at work and the rest asleep. How bout that. Um, that wouldnt work for me I dont think.
Anyhoo she sent me along on my merry way with some homework.
I now have a vision BOOK. hahaha.
I also have clear goals for myself, in fact here are my categories:
The ME Bit
What I am free to do and be
How I live my ideal life
The Money Part
How much money do I want
How am going to get it
What am I going to do with it
Will I be wise, prudent and responsible with it? (at this point the yacht vanished, the super model girlfriend remained, the rock stars were shown the door, the Aston remained, helping my family and friends suddenly appeared, using my wealth to create more wealth also made a guest appearance, followed shortly by its friends; investing wisely and treating my wealth with humility, respect and gratitude)
The Love Part
What does she look like
Where is she now (Siberia may be a little far)
What are her values ( a s**t hot stripper / porn star polygamist in amsterdam might not work for me)
What are her interests (refer to Opera above)
Family and friends and my relationship with them
How do we communicate
Our interests ( I might like rock, she might like, um Opera?)
The Work Part
What is my business about?
What do I like doing
How much money am I going to make
What kind of clients do I want?
What kind of staff do I want
How do we do business
Whats our growth plan
The WORDING of the request, the thoughts and my vision book. The inter web is awash with information, so here is what I found that works for me.
This bit is pretty simple:
You could say, I AM sad - that means your sadness defines who you are - it owns you.
OR you could say - I FEEL sad - YOU define sadness. Now you DEFINE it, show it the door
You could say, I want to be rich - apparently the universe (being the compliant universe it is) will respond by giving you what? MORE WANT
OR you could say, I am, and allow myself to be financially wealthy.
You could say, I want a super hot girlfriend, lets face it, who doesnt. (ps, Im a guy, for the ladies, replace girlfriend with boyfriend)
OR you could say, I am in an amazing, mutually loving relationship with a woman who is beautiful in every respect to me.
The examples are endless, align the words with the result.
Next, your emotional response
This bit I learnt from the "Astonishing Power of Emotions" by Abraham Hicks.
They call it a guidance system, I like that, it resonates with me. A thought typically leads to an emotion. That emotion may be a "happy" or a "sad" one. The emotion is a guide to subtly let me know where I am with the energy I am sending out.
Now they say that if you have a "sad / negative" one, quickly change your thoughts to positive ones. Others say, wait a second, let go of it first, THEN go to the positive thoughts.
Personally, I think a double whammy is better. Be positive, maybe you will have some doubt, maybe this doubt relates to some old insecurity, ok cool now I can release that too, then feel good about that AND still feel good about what I was feeling good about in the first place!
Anyhoo, use your emotions, or your gut, if your thoughts bring up sadness, anger, fear, hate, doubt etc, dont panic, spend a short while there, aknowledge it and then release it on your own terms, then relax, and go back to your intent.
A word on thoughts.
One of the Abraham Hicks books mentioned that holding a pure thought for as little as 60 seconds is enough to spur the universe into action. Have you ever tried to think of one single thing for 60 seconds? Look at your left hand. Look at it and think only of it for 60 seconds. Where does your mind go to? What did you end up thinking about? Whats the take home message here, for me there are a few.
Firstly, why is it so important to Buddhists to meditate? Christians to Pray, Jews to visit the Western Wall? To focus all their energy and thoughts on God, or on whatever they are meditating the mind. To "CONTROL" the mind, slow it down. Its your mind after all, isnt it? You own it, you get to control it. You get to choose your thoughts, you get to focus them where you want them. Not the other way round.
Remember what I said about I AM sad vs I FEEL sad? Now, relate that to thoughts and your mind. In "What the bleep" I think I remember them saying that we actually develop new neural pathways when we change our thoughts. How powerful is that. New neural pathways = new subconcious = new conciousness = new thoughts = EVERYTHING YOU WANT
Whats the one thing on the planet that we have absolute control over? our thoughts. Whats the one thing that we let control us? Our thoughts. A bit like the tail wagging the dog dont you think?
So take a little time to meditate, you dont need to sit in the lotus position and hum curious sounds. Just take some time to practice guiding your thoughts, reminding them who actually is directing this movie. The LOA isnt instant, the results can be, remember its a process that takes practice, motivation, a willingness to do it, to have a call to action and to act.
Now, does this sound like hard work? Is thinking hard work? So if it still sounds like hard work, what feeling does that give you? Experience it a little, let it go, then think again, is it still hard work?
Does it sound too easy? Impossible maybe? Let those emotions come to the surface, let them go and then ask the question again.
Oh ya, back to the Gurus selling their wonder miracle method for harnessing the LOA and instant this and immediate that. As I mentioned earlier I trolled the internet and found it by the truck load. Some very valuable, some tasters, like, I will tell you half, for the rest, buy my new book! My dvd's, and get all the special offers! Ok fair enough, we all deserve something for our experiences, our time, effort, blood sweat and tears. BUT, shouldnt the law of attraction be FREEWARE? If I really believed in it, then I could tell everyone, tell them everything, because with that much positive energy going out, SURELY I would get some back??
Quick show of hands, who agrees with me?
Another quick show of hands, how much could I get for this post? An Aston Martin DBS is about 4 million South African Rand, we are at 7:3 to the USD. Any takers? heheheheh
If you wrote the book to end all books, the ultimate instruction guide, what would you do with it?
Anyway, I digress
Something else I think is pretty important. Are you ready for what you are asking for? I mean, really ready?
Do you want to win the lottery because you just want to be rich, or because you are desperate. Asking out of desperation is not ideal I dont think, cause all you are really thinking bout is desperation. Gotta let that one go.
Are you asking for your ideal partner in love, but still emotionally invested in your ex? Where is your attention, the ideal partner or the ex? Whats the universe going to respond to?
Then, lets say you won the lottery, what would you do with the money? Be honest, do you have a plan? 200 foot yacht, rock star friends, parties, drugs, living the dream? How productive is that? Or it is about creating more wealth, using it wisely, investing, being stable, as well as the yacht, the house, the Aston Martin. See the difference?
What is your call to action?
On "What the bleep" one person says it is possible to manifest a loaf of bread on the table in front of him. Unlikely, but possible.
So, waiting at home for the dream job and your super hot new girlfriend could work, unlikely but possible. Possible but unlikely.
Write a call to action. Think it, feel it and do it. Accept the invitation when your friends invite you out. Send your resume out. Start gym, or running. Go to a movie, whatever it is, develop your own call to action, your mission statement, your vision board.
Your Sphere of input
What are you surrounding yourself with? Only one example should be enough. I was fanatical about watching the news. it was on tv all day, I wanted to see how corrupt polititions were, how bad the country was, the latest scandal. When I had a meal it was with a newspaper, what were the latest horrible headlines.
TV, on all night. DVD's, escapism. All my input was negative, I surrounded myself with it. Four words, GARBAGE IN = GARBAGE OUT Surely you get the message
Ok, so the nuts and bolts of it, what am I doing:
1. Stop Watching the news - easy peasy
2. Dump the newspapers - also easy
3. Read magazines - Mens Health, Sports, Outdoor Mags
4. More music, less TV
5. Vision Board - I spent a week making mine, refining, tuning it, colours, shapes and pictures, (I even researched which colours elicit which emotion). Make sure what you are asking for, you will get it, what did someone say - you will get what you want, make sure you want what you are going to get
6. Release negative, sad, angry, fearful emotions
7. Put my intent to the universe - be clear about it
8. Make Sure I am ready, or find a way to get ready. release my ex. I wrote mine a lovely, honest good bye letter written with love, then I burnt it. Watched the paper burn untill all the glowing embers were gone, took a deep breath and released her.
9. Call to action
10. Look in the mirror
11. Careful with the thoughts and the wording
12. Know my barriers, dont let them own me, know them and release them
13. Control my mind
14. I define my feelings, they dont define me
15. Sharing is caring - spread the word and the positive energy
16. Use my emotional guidance system
17. Read, learn, be hungry for information
18. Enjoy the ride
If this has touched you in any way, I wish it to touch you in a happy, positive and open way, surrounded by love and light and all you wish for.
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
Samcheepop, daydreamer4life, kjcat, eirebiz, Sherrie, ToBeMyHappiest, Weedman, hsteph.smith, Ceruleansky, Feelinggreatnow, SnowQueen, wondercai, fae27, over it, katie824, JamesH, Autumn, Sayo, ohhhdarling, gismeu, glee619, lovebird, , Mr Self_Love, sheila, swati, Life_Is_Music, kirua0212, prinzelle, vanessa202, MagnoliaGirl, sh-boom, def, Lady Loki, Bottoms, malicexmirage, honey, matharooharpreet, Lucky Starrrr, billjonesplanet, truelove, kjkitt, Theresa, DH4-everhappyinlove, Yan, beautifuldreamer, starfish71360, yolo7, JoyceClayton, Koolked, davidhpaul, Greta, Shrikanya, annmarie, ozarksphinx, Alexander Sandoval, krousnik2345, law of attraction secret, Be Ur Dreams, Persian Kitty, anastasia74, Ankur Sancheti, Pinkypink, stevenvenus, Dobrica, priyaLOA, lisarieb, zoezeth
on: October 03, 2009, 04:30:45 PM 11 Say "Hello to All!" / Say Hello to All / WELCOME to Law of Attraction Forum
Hello New Memeber,
Welcome to Law of Attraction Family
Please, Introduce yourself to other members. To Introduce CLICK HERE
Peace & Abundance
Follow members gave a thank to your post:
jamesbond1111, smk1985, , itslo, Yana, jamesvallee09, Nang, gzd_orl, renaudg, Chazmanian, lkls, Karthik RaL, mwings, Sharif Ali, taya maya, HimaniBhatt, Bellor, lovely7, almightymarius, swati, DD44, thinkwonderfulthoughts, adascheenloop, tai119, EscapeVelocity, silverstar, Theresa, Yan, SAINAM, Mila Rose, ManifestingTogether, secret909
All information on the forum are members personal tips, suggestions, advise and experiences, forum administrator or Moderators can not be held liable for any damage/misuse arising from the information/education shared the forum. You take your own necessary responsibility for your own actions.
Note: The Profile Deletion with posts more than 10 can not be done. It will not only Derank the forum on Search Engine (As those indexed posts will show 404 Error as - Page not Found) Moreover it will delete the associated posts of other users as well who replied on that Profile posts. It effects the whole Structure of the Forum.