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The technique is to catch myself entertaining a limiting I AM thought about a subject, such as taking a financial or emotional risk, and as quickly as possible say to myself, “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is… (fill in the blank with a positive declaration of what I want and deserve to be, do, or have).”

This simple technique works so well because thanking my mind for its input disarms my perception of danger (moving outside my comfort zone) and helps me replace the self-limiting belief with a new belief that supports my desire and of course, helps me remember who I really am.

Limiting core beliefs can hide in I AMs that take various forms such as I HAVEs or I HATEs, I CAN’Ts, “My-Me WONT’s” or I DON’Ts. Examples are: “I have so many problems.” “I hate this/him/her.” “I can’t do that.” “My upbringing won’t let me.” “I don’t know how.”

If you can pay attention to what you were thinking when you started feeling bad, and choose thoughts that shift your energy toward the future you want to attract, you are moving in the right direction.

You know you are making progress when…

“I have so many problems,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that all the help I need to resolve my problems is finding its way to me now.”

“I hate her,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that she is a part of God too, and instead of getting upset when she criticizes me, I’m going to find a way to appreciate and compliment her good qualities.”

“I can’t do that,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that I can do that when I’m ready, and I’m getting more prepared to do that every day.”

“My upbringing won’t let me,” becomes, “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that I was taught not to do that, but I’m beginning to see that it makes sense to at least try to do that until I decide for myself if I should or shouldn’t do it.”


You can enhance your progress by writing down your limiting I AMs as they come up. Later, when you have some quiet time, write down the “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe…

and thats what i am going to do here since i am a lazy hand- writer
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So if you remember my story, my ex had broken up with me then two weeks later began dating someone else, they have broken up about a week ago, I have been NC with her for two weeks, I'm not sure what to do now, I'm scared she might be too proud to talk to me if she's missing me or she might jump into ANOTHER relationship or something, should I continue my month of NC? Thanks.

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so... i am back!! i decided to fight back...

some of you may not know me since i havent been here lately.
i had and still have a rough time in my life...

last year in dec i  found back to loa when my best friend died. it took me everything, but i found back to life through this forum and applied loa with success.
a big mistake was to start so early again with work and took a second job as well, which wasnt good for me.
in may it hit me again with depressions. i have been in hospital since then. i am out now, but on a daily basis there.... meaning- i need to go there all day and return home in the evening. i dont know if thats good for me.
i have manifested my dream car, but yesterday it was taken away from me since i couldnt pay the rates--- it couldnt be harder as it is right now
my life has been a rollercoaster since months... but one thing i have learned- i cannot solve problems by looking away, i need to go through them which i havent done clearly.
and there is only one simple quote on my mind.... if you are not happy in your life- change it! and i need to remember, that only i can change it, nobody else.
and its me who has to love myself!! and my thoughts which i can control and i am in control over my life.

but i am back now, i want to be here again, it helps alot to get help and positive vibes.


i am willing to change my life for the good now... i am ready to fight back again.
just wanted to let you know a bit about me and give an update....
so here i go again!!


  glad to get on my track again!!

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IM SO HAPPY TO BE WRITING MY SUCCESS STORY. MY HANDSOME COWBOY IS BACK HOME IN MY ARMS. PEOPLE I am so happy to tell you that my Husband (soon to be) is back home to me. I always knew he would be back but to actually be here telling you is amazing and truly makes me a believer. Honestly it all starting happening for me when I let go. Let go of the desperation of having him. Of course I still wanted him but I was no longer sad and upset yes I missed him but I looked at it as a time to grow seperately so we could come back together stronger. He told me he has never stopped loving me and I am where he has always wanted to be.

Now I must get out of my own way and not let what I did in the past (letting all my fears control me), take this backward. We only move forward from here. I am going to forgive him for hurt I was caused and no let anything get in our way. We love each other and he knows without any doubt he wants to be with me forever. I know the same and I so excited for the beautiful life we have together. OUR LIFE HAS ONLY BEGAN AND I CAN SEE JUST HOW AMAZING IT IS. THANK YOU ALL FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGING WORDS!!

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I saw this on the secret website and I found it to be so applicable to this group. Learn from the story and apply the suggestions.

http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=6004

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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How I started to learn about...
The Law Of Attraction.

Its like something ive always in my life called- The Vibes. You know - Good vibes bad vibes, the feelling of a place, a person the way they are speaking or how they enter a room, also the expression on the face can tell the vibes people give and receive.

Many people complain it dosnt work or its bull,... but it works, its real.
The Law of Attraction is 1 of many Laws.
My praise of this movie- The Secret, is that it brought back the...
Thought movement - of positive thinking - back from the early 1900s
I didnt buy the book. The Secret movie did all the work of the book. The book is Based on the early books about the laws of Attraction Like

The Science Of Getting Rich 1910 - Wallace Wattles ( the book Rhonda read )
The Great Within 1907 - Christian Larson
The Hidden Secret 1907- Christian Larson
Thought Vibration 1907 - William Atkinson
The Miracle of Right Thought 1910 - Orison Sweet Marden
The Secret of The Ages - Robert Collier 1925
As A Man Thinketh 1903 - James Allen
The Law Of Success 1925 + 1928 - Napoleon Hill
Think and Grow Rich 1937 - Napoleon Hill
Working With The Law 1964 - Raymond Holliwell

These are the greatest books that made millionaires, yes I have them.
They gave me the many keys to open all the locks to the Door of happiness and Wealth.
Happiness is first and now, and happiness through the journey to riches.
Even Tony Robbins learned, by standing on the shoulders of other giants like the great Jim Rohn.

The Law of Attraction is real period. You attract what you are thinking or saying. If you think its not working its because you need to train your way of thinking. Most are focusing on what they don't want rather than what they want. Thinking and speaking of the negative instead of the positive outcome. We react on our negative emotions instead of controlling our emotions and respond with positive thinking, talking and action. The key is repetition of positive talking reading and thinking to change the inner mind to guide us to the positive actions and decisions in our life. Write down what you want, your goals, and read them many times daily and you will make them happen. Dont think about how or when, but know its already yours, and say thank you.

The Law of Attraction is a main understanding Law to bring the right way of what you want in your life, But you need to know its just 1 Law. There are 10 more Laws to govern a good life. If you follow just 1 will your life be right? No. You must follow all of the Laws to make a right thinking and good life. Following laws are easy to do like everything in your life. Things are also easy not to do. Its when you don't do them that life becomes hard.

The 10 other Laws of Attraction.
LAW OF THINKING - think right, positive. are we controlled by our emotions? -or are we controlling our emotions. Work on your positive emotions. good feelings to put you on the right track.
LAW OF SUPPLY - supply is unlimited. No competition, there is plenty for everyone.
LAW OF RECEIVING - you must give before you receive, is a cycle. give without thinking of what you will get.
LAW OF INCREASE - praise. every one, every thing, all places circumstances. You will praise your way to success.
LAW OF COMPENSATION - if there is a need for what you do, and your good at it, you will be hard to replace. you will get paid on degree of your performance, and ability to help others in teamwork. Do more than your paid for.
LAW OF NON- RESISTANCE - dont resist - the resistance, means don't fight back, let it go by, go around, agree and win, resistance from others means your advancing.
LAW OF FORGIVENESS - forgive yourself first, let go of guilt, and grudge. As you forgive you will be also forgiven,(it does NOT-mean-always give another chance.
LAW OF SACRIFICE - discipline yourself, train yourself to be the best at what you do, a better you, your goal. (sacrifice a bad habit for a good habit, something is always sacrificed for something else)
LAW OF OBEDIENCE - be obedient to the laws or suffer from not following the laws.
LAW OF SUCCESS - success is already yours, do what must be done and take action to get it. (walk it, talk it, as if what you want is already yours and who you are)

Try these main books.
Working With The Law - raymond holliwell 1964 (where these 11 laws are).
The Law of Success - napoleon hill 1925 ( secrets of the richest men in the world ).
Think And Grow Rich - napoleon hill 1937 (bob proctor read this and changed his paradigm to become rich).

These 3 books are the only books you need to read over and over and things happen for you and life goes your way. I have experienced the change with this knowledge.

Other books you can get are the early 1900s books. They are the ones to get. The many books on Law of Attraction and Positive thinking are based on these early books.

The Science Of Getting Rich - wallace wattles 1910 ( the book that rhonda B.The Secret is based on).
As A Man Thinketh - James Allen
The Great Within - Christian D. Larson 1907
The Secret of the Ages - Robert Collier 1925
The Miracle of Right Thought - Orison Swett Marden 1910 (the possibilities of greatness within yourself ).

Im about simplicity. Working The Law by Raymond Holliwell is a short to the point easy word book. Think and Grow Rich, and The Law of Success 1925 version by Napoleon Hill, these 3 books again are all you need.

If you hear skeptic  people talk or nay sayers, stay away from them, no matter who they are. If you have negative friends, dont loose them, but now less contact, and make new positive successful friends.

I Have found 3 main things
from being in dept, to having riches, main thing is be happy from now and through the journey to riches.
1 The Laws of Attraction (control emotions positive)
2 Health - The Key to Health is - BODY Ph BALANCE (be fit)
3 Water is Alive and has Memory (messages in water)

So be happy, send Love (you are like a real radio wave) control yourself, and be healthy. Some people will say it all hard work. I say its smart work, because it all starts with how you think. All the best - Joey Pagan

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To Go to the corresponding day press ctrl+f (google chrome)then type the day you want and hit enter.
for eg
I want to see day 33
I press "ctrl+f" and type "Day 33"(leave space between day and 33) and press enter.
It'll take me there



MONDAY ~ DAY 1

The Secret contains clear principles on how to live your life in accordance with the natural laws of the Universe, and the most important thing for any person to do is to LIVE IT. You can only become the Master of your life by LIVING IT!

As we travel through a year of teachings, the clarity, understanding, and wisdom you will receive every day will help you live the laws that govern human beings, so you may truly become the Master of your life.

May the joy be with you,

RHONDA BYRNE

TUESDAY ~ DAY 2

To change your life fast, use gratitude to shift your energy.

When you put all of your energy into gratitude, you will see miracles take place in your life.

To change things quickly, commit to writing 100 things you are grateful for each day, until you see the change.

And FEEL the gratitude.

Your power is inthe FEELING that you put into the words of gratitude.

WEDNESDAY ~ DAY 3

Whatever feelings you have within you are attracting your tomorrow.

Worry attracts more worry.
Anxiety attracts more anxiety.
Unhappines attracts more unhappiness.
Dissatisfaction attracts more dissatisfaction.

AND...

Joy attracts more joy.
Happiness attracts more happiness.
Peace attracts more peace.
Gratitude attracts more gratitude.
Kindness attracts more kindness.
Love attracts more love.

Your job is an inside one.
To change your world, all you have to do is change the way you feel inside.

How easy is that?

THURSDAY ~ DAY 4

The Universe is guiding you and communicating with you in every second of your life.

It is responding to your thoughts and it is giving you invaluable feedback through your feelings.

Your feelings are cosmic communication!

The good feelings mean, GOOD FOR YOU.

The bad feelings are to get your attention so that you will change what you are focusing on.

Tune in to the cosmic communication that is with you every day.

You are never alone, not for a second.

The Universe is right with you at every step, guiding you.

But you have to listen!

FRIDAY ~ DAY 5

Look for the gifts in everything, especially when you are facing what appears to be a negative situation.

Everything that we attract causes us to grow, which means that ultimately everything is for our own good.

Adjusting to a new path and a new direction will require new qualities and strengths, and these qualities are always exactly what we need to acquire in order to accomplish the great things ahead in our life.

SATURDAY ~ DAY 6

No matter where you are, no matter how difficult things might appear to be, you are always being moved toward magnificence.
Always.

SUNDAY ~ DAY 7

Happiness depends upon ourselves.

ARISTOTLE (3384-322 BC)

MONDAY ~ DAY 8

There are two words that, when spoken, have the most unfathomable power to completely change your life.

Two words that, when they pass your lips, will be the cause of bringing absolute joy and happiness to you.

Two words that will create miracles in your life, wipe out negativity, and bring you abundance in all things.

Two words that, when uttered and sincerely felt, will summon all the forces in the Universe to move all things for you.

There are just two words standing between you, happiness, and the life of your dreams...

THANK YOU

TUESDAY ~ DAY 9

We attract to ourselves what we hold inside.

Every circumstance, every person, and every situation that we attract and experience is based on what is inside of us.

Could you ask for a more magnificent system than this?

Your life is a reflection of what you hold inside you, and what you hold inside you is always under your control.

WEDNESDAY ~ DAY 10

You are a unique and magnificent human being.

Of all the billions of people on the planet, there is not another YOU, and your very existence is vital to the functioning of our Universe, because you are one part of the whole Universe.

All that you see, and all that there is, could not exist without you!

THURSDAY ~ DAY 11

Here is a simple, powerful process that you can do every day to bring yourself into positive harmony with the Universe and the law of attraction.

Sit down comfortably.

Notice how you are feeling, and now relax your entire body.

When you have relaxed your whole body, then relax it some more.

Now relax it even more.

And relax it more!

Repeat this deeper relaxing seven times, each time relaxing as much as you can.

When you have finished, notice the difference in how you are feeling, compared with how you felt when you began.

Now you are more in harmony with the Universe and the law of attraction!

FRIDAY ~ DAY 12

Persist, persist, persist, and you will reach a point where the principles of The Secret become second nature to you.

You will become so aware of the words that people speak, especially when they speak of things they don't want.

You will become so aware of the words that you speak.

When you reach this point, it is a sign that you are becoming more and more aware!

You are becoming more consciously aware!


SATURDAY ~ DAY 13

Each of us is attracting in every moment of our lives.

So when you feel that the law isn't working for you because you don't have what you want, realize that the law is responding to you.

You are attracting what you want or you are attracting the absence of what you want.

The law is still working.


SUNDAY ~ DAY 14

The greatest revolution in our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.

WILLIAM JAMES (1842-1910)

MONDAY ~ DAY 15

Beginning to ask questions about life is a sign you are having a major breakthrough.

The Truth of Life is right here for everybody, as it has always been, but only the ones who ask questions receive the answers and discover the truth.

When we ask questions, deeply wanting to know the answers, we will attract the answers in a form that we cannot understand.

To receive answers in life, you must begin to ask.

TUESDAY ~ DAY 16

Love is the highest power we possess to be in complete harmony with the law of attraction.

The more love we feel, the greater our power.

The more selfless love we feel, the more unfathomable our power.

The law of attraction has been called the law of love, because the law itself is a gift of love to humanity.

It is the law by which we can create incredible lives for ourselves.

The more love we feel, the greater our power to create a magnificent life of love, joy, and harmony.

WEDNESDAY ~ DAY 17

What does it feel like to be in harmony with the Universe?

It is the same feeling as when you float on water.

If you are tense, or if you resist the water, you will sink.

If you surrender to the water, the water will support you and you will float.

That is the feeling, and that is how you harmonize yourself with the Universe.

Let the tension go and float!

THURSDAY ~ DAY 18

According to the law of attraction, the path to eradicating disease is not to fight it.

If you decide you are going to fight a disease, your focus is on fighting the disease, and we attract what we are focusing on.

Allow the doctors you have chosen to do their work, and keep your mind focused on well-being.

Think thoughts of well-being.

Speak words of well-being.

And imagine yourself completely well.

FRIDAY ~ DAY 19

One of the biggest things you can do to change your circumstances around money is to take ten percent of what you receive and give it away.

This is called the spiritual law of tithing, and it is the greatest action you can take to bring more money into your life.

SATURDAY ~ DAY 20

Why is it that most often you find that top-quality cars are kept immaculately clean and tidy by their owners, while the older cars are often dirty and messy inside?

The difference is the evidence of appreciation.

Appreciation of what you have brings what you want.

That is how those people attracted the better cars to them.

SUNDAY ~ DAY 21

Never try to compel others to change; leave them free to change naturally and orderly because they want to; and they will want to when they find that your change was worthwhile.

To inspire in others a desire to change for the better is truly noble; but this you can do only by leaving them alone, and becoming more noble yourself.

CHRISTIAN LARSON (1874-1954)
Mastery of Self

MONDAY ~ DAY 22

Good is underneath every single thing that appears to be negative.

If we can know that good is all there is, including in a negative situation, then we will see a negative situation transform into all good.

Most people keep the good away from themselves because they label something as bad, and then, of course, that becomes their reality.

But there is no bad in the Universe; it is just our inability to see things clearly from the bigger perspective.

Peace comes from knowing that good is all that exists.

TUESDAY ~ DAY 23

You are in a partnership with the law of attraction, and it is through this partnership between the two of you that you are creating your life.

Each person has their own personal partnership with the law of attraction.

You use the law for yourself, everyone else uses the law for themselves.

You cannot use the law of attraction on someone else, against their free will.

And when you think about it, thank goodness the law operates this way.

If it did not, then anybody else could create something in your life that you did not want.

You create through your thoughts and feelings, and no-one but you can think your thoughts or feel your feelings.

WEDNESDAY ~ DAY 24

If you have a friend who is going through any kind of difficult time, help them by making sure you maintain your joy.

You good feelings will help lift them.

You can also help them by directing their conversations so that they speak about what they want.

As they fall into speaking about what they don't want, just keep gently leading them back to speaking about what they want.

You can also speak to them as though their difficult time is over, and suggest they imagine that it has all passed and worked out beautifully.

Be the conductor when you speak with them, and help them stay in tune with the Universe.

THURSDAY ~ DAY 25

You can change the path of your life from dark to light or from negative to positive.

Every single time you focus on the positive you are bringing more light into your life, and you know that light removes all darkness.

Gratitude, love, kind thoughts, words, and actions bring light and eliminate the darkness.

Fill your life with the light of positivity!

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LOA brought me something better than my ex...it brought me to realization that I needed to face the reality that I want better for myself. Many of us say it's our fault for the break-up, but I don't think in a relationship that one person is ever to be blamed for it's demise (unless the other person was a perfect being). After I decided to go NC about two-weeks ago I have had more clarity and I feel more happy to make that choice. I have been reading articles on relationships and something really stood out to me, "if someone doesn't treat you with care, love and respect while you are in a relationship. They don't deserve your friendship." People can't just be allowed to walk in and out of our lives as they please. I know many here are trying to attract their exes and maybe that is the right thing for you, but I am realizing it is not for me.

They say the universe gives you lessons over and over again until you learn them. My last relationship was identical to this. He broke up with me for vague reasons, I then found out he actually left me for someone else, but I wanted to be "nice" and "prove" I was worthy by being the best friend I could be. He strung me along for a whole year while with someone else, and pretends he is not doing so, then one late night one year and four days later he confesses his love for me. I was so happy, it was what I always wanted he was my prize, the relationship that we had after that was terrible. He was still the confused person he always was, not telling the whole truth etc, and finally I ended it, wishing I had let the other woman keep him.

I am now faced with the same situation, but the difference is now, I refuse to stick around to be the good "friend" until he realizes what he lost. If we do get back together, how will our story go when our children ask, what kind of role model will I be for my daughters? If we remain friends and I do move on to someone else, how can I really respect myself or expect my partner to respect me when I am hanging on to someone who mistreated me, caused me pain, never apologized and I call this person a friend.

I haven't told my ex that I want to resume NC, because we haven't spoken, so when he approaches me I will let him know. For me, the past sometimes needs to stay in the past. Our break-up taught me so many lessons, so I'm taking those lessons and leaving him behind.

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So as some of you know I've been trying to attract my ex back! We had contact a few weeks ago. Today I had a little bit of a down day, I know the universe is on my side, but I just needed a little hint and he texted me! I was also manifesting all morning that "____ and I are in a healthy loving relationship"... Just thought I'd write a post to let everyone know!

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3 Steps to Manifesting Miracles
Courtesy of Iris Angel



Is something holding you back from better health or wealth? 
Do you have the courage to believe in miracles?



By the dictionary definition......

A “Miracle” is “a surprising and welcome event inexplicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered the work of a Divine agency“.


We ALL have the capacity to create and witness miracles.  Yes, some are more gifted at manifesting miracles because they PRACTICE and KNOW there is more to life than meets the eye.

Being open to the fact that science has NOT explained everything yet is a good pre-cursor for creating a miracle. Once you begin to FEEL the joy of receiving and believing in miracles you invite even more miracles into your life.

 
Here are what I feel and have experienced as the three keys to creating miracles:
 
1) AWARENESS

I write about consciousness often and this is it at it’s most basic.  Do you KNOW what is going on around you?  I posted this brief awareness test video before and this is a prime example of how we do not often recognize the world around us:
 
Or, If you have seen this first one – here is another one for you:
 
Well… how did you do?  I have shown this video to several friends.  Their results were the same as mine the first time. They were also not aware of what truly was going on. 

We have so much noise to shut us down and distract us; phones, ipods, tv, satellite radio and the constant chatter of our minds. 

When we are able to shut some of that out and notice what is TRULY going on around us – you may be AMAZED at what is going on. You will also be astonished at what you have missed that was right in front of you.
 

Try this exercise to heighten awareness: 

-Throughout your day just stop. 
-Turn off the extra noises around you; phone, tv, etc. and sit. 
-Take 3 deep breaths – breathe in for 4, hold for 4, release for 8. 
-Now LISTEN.  What do you hear around you?  What do you hear underneath those sounds? 

-You can also do this with vision…
-What do you see? 
-Now what do you really see if you look harder?
-Look around you more than once and TUNE in to even what might seem the most minute of details.
 
An example:  I am sitting outside on my deck under a canopy as I write this.  If I had my headphones on I would JUST be experiencing that reality and there would be no other. While I LOVE music I am consciously deciding to turn it off and hear what else is present. 

The first sound I hear is the pitter patter of rain on the canopy above my head, it is soothing and the more I listen to it the more it becomes harder NOT to hear it – it IS my reality now. 

What else do I hear? I hear birds chirping in the background.  The harder I listen the more I can hear DIFFERENT bird calls coming from different areas.. I also still hear that pitter patter of the rain.  I have just expanded my reality. 

I KNOW there is more to hear so I continue.  I hear a whirring faintly in the background… it is the pool pump and I would never have noticed this if I hadn’t listened carefully but now I am experiencing 3 distinct sounds. Is there more? There is! 

I also hear the faint but undeniable sounds of cars in the distance and a plane flying overhead.  I have just expanded my reality to include MANY different sounds. 

The more you can do this with sight and/or sound the more we are AWARE OF the things around us (take 3 minutes/day a few times a day if possible). 

We expand our reality every time we do this.
 

There could be miracles happening right next to us but if we are closed off and asleep we will not see them.  We need to be aware and conscious to recognize the world around us for what it truly is – a miracle in itself. The fastest way to bring a miracle to us is to understand and accept miracles happen daily – why NOT to us? 
 
2) EXPECTATION



I wrote an older post asking, “What DO you Expect?”.

The state of mind that we are in truly plays a part in whether miracles appear or not.  Are you expecting a long commute to work?  Your boss to be miserable? Your relatives to get on your nerves? An argument with a spouse? 

What we expect we are calling to us.   We are telling the Universe “THIS IS HOW WE EXPECT LIFE TO BE”.  We are CREATING it IN our reality and guess what? The Universe always delivers.

An example is one I use in coaching a lot: 
Many of us expect we know how people will react, how a situation will go or some common “annoyance” in our life. 
We feed our brain with all the “past times” things unfolded a certain way and we do not allow for it to go any other way. 

What if we allowed ourselves to EXPECT a different outcome?


An Exercise:

Try taking what you would consider an “impossible situation”. 

-A parking lot you NEVER get a space in.
-A relative that ALWAYS pushes your buttons. 
-For 1 minute close your eyes and imagine the OPPOSITE. 
-You get the PERFECT PARKING SPOT! 
-That relative MUST have taken some happy pills or something because you cannot BELIEVE how happy and nice they are today! 

Now.. the next time you are looking for a parking spot – flash to the experience and smile – wouldn’t it be cool if I GOT that spot?  The next time you are going to see or talk to that relative – flash to the picture…  expect them to feel better, kinder, happier.

I’d love to hear what happens after this one because this alone can change people’s lives instantly.
 
Once you begin seeing that we indeed get what we expect – you open yourself up to the magic of life and miracles.

This last ingredient is perhaps the most tricky… letting go.

3) Letting Go


Ahh the hardest for me and you might be asking, “how the heck am I supposed to EXPECT something and let it go??” 

When we attach too hard to a result we are creating resistance.  We are telling the Universe – it is THIS way or NO way and I know what’s best. Life does NOT work that way. 

It is WONDERFUL to expect a new job, relationship, opportunity… but when we say it has to be THIS job, or THAT person or THIS opportunity we are closing ourselves off for what really may be the miracle and the way we are to go.  I have done this to a fault and know it is not always easy.

It IS when I am able to do this – that miracles do occur.
 

Example:  We have in our head that we REALLY NEED this job we interviewed for.  We are picturing it, KNOW it is right for us and are hanging everything on it.  We don’t get it and the world feels like it has collapsed. 

It COULD just be that a better job is around the corner.  It could be that the boss you would have had would have driven you crazy.  It could be that the miracle of meeting a new friend and/or relationship is at another location. 

When we hold onto anything too tightly we are telling the Universe WE know better and in my own life I KNOW that is NEVER the case. 
 
Letting Go INVITES the miracle to occur.




Exercise:  What DO you want?  A new relationship? New job?  Better health?

-Picture it, taste it, hear the sounds around it...

-Let your awareness grow around WHAT that would mean and feel the emotions associated with it. 

-Expect it and now just TRUST the best always happens and it will work out. 

Let go of the control of having to have it YOUR WAY or NO WAY.    


PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
 
Miracles happen daily. 

I witness them as a Reconnective Healing Practitioner all the time. 

I am aware there is MUCH more around me than I can see and I tune into the frequencies and the person I am facilitating the session for. 

I EXPECT a healing to occur but LET GO of WHAT healing HAS TO OCCUR.  In doing that – there is a healing miracle each time.
 

Another example of how I put it all together:
 

My illnesses. After learning a bit about the mind/body connection I now had the awareness that I was more than my body.  I was looking for more and more ways to prove that true. 

I explored, sat silently and really tuned into my body instead of repeating the messages my doctors were telling me about what my future WOULD BE (wheelchair and in chronic debilitating pain). 

I expanded my awareness.  I then expected I would get better.  I did not define it but I KNEW life could be better than it had been for the last 7 years IF I began applying some of what I was learning. I EXPECTED improvement. 

I let go by NOT saying “I will feel 50% better in “x” time or else this is BS!”  I had no time-line. I had no agenda to be completed except to feel better. 

A miracle did occur and I was cured of all chronic disease and off medications within weeks.  By expanding my awareness, expecting to get better and by letting go of exactly HOW it had to go – I was gifted the miracle of complete health.

Almost four years later I am still healthier than I have EVER been.
 

Miracles are not as mysterious and elusive as we may have been taught to believe.  We all can witness them and we are all entitled to them.   

Life is about flow NOT struggle. 


Miracles are little gifts that come about to give us faith that we ARE in flow. 

INVITE a miracle into your life by using these steps.....
Awareness, Expectation, Letting Go. 

 

Thank you and I wish you miracles in all areas of your life.

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So I've been doing some pretty heavy research lately, and came across some advice that really got me to thinking.

My idea is that if Quantum Physics and Mechanics are true, (especially String Theory etc.), then that would mean that there are an unlimited amount of Universes where all things are happening or have already happened. So if there are an unlimited amount of Universes out there, the one where you have all things you ever wanted exists without question. In theory then, we can safely assume that we are living all of these Universes simultaneously, but the one that we are currently projecting physically is the one that we choose to be in, whether it is good or bad.

So what's to stop us from skipping over to another Universe, the Universe that brings us the most joy? In my opinion? Nothing. Since time and space are just restraints we put on ourselves mentally, accepting the fact that there is no time nor space means transition is completely within reason.

Let's say you like "X". In some Universe, you are already happily together, more in love than anyone could ever be, and because that is true, then we are never trying to impede on or override anyone's free will, because in essence it already exists and it is already happening. It isn't about trying to force the Universe you're in to bend to the will of your desires, because that only creates tension and resistance. Rather, it's about letting yourself enter that other parallel Universe with no resistance at all.

Nothing in the past, no error would ever matter, because like I said, in some Universe all the events lead up to this exact moment right now, you reading this text, and you STILL ended up together in a loving and happy relationship.

I'd really like some feedback on this concept. It sure has made me a lot more positive

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So I asked Joanna to go out with me this friday to dinner and she said yes!!!!!! Woohooo 
Let's see what happens!
Interestingly enough, though, I've had a few girls that have been after me since new year's eve. Very similar to joanna in looks and personality haha. I went to this family
church party thing for new year's eve and that's where I met a few girls. But yeah, Some of my friends noticed that they loooked very interested in me 
But yeah my mood has been kind of up and down today and I felt kinda tired since I did a ton of house chores for my family, but wooow tho this was expected yet still a surprise

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Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be

To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’

So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.

So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!

Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.

Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.

There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.

Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.

PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail

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