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i want to share this with you as a success story, cause it is.
my prayers have been answered another time and god helped me 

the last weeks i wasnt that good, it went up and down- terrible. i couldnt find back my happiness again and most of all, felt completely lonely. 
i know that we are supposed to be happy on our own first, but just felt that
i cant cope with all the stuff alone, all the problems in my life which seem to drain me out. some of you know my story, some of you not.
i really want a friend or even partner at my side and i felt like i was really not able to cope with all my stuff alone.
so i prayed to god the last few days, telling him my problems and that i please him to send someone in my life--- a real friend, a real soulmate..... and to help me to face my problems. i told him that its too much for my to carry on my own.

so today i was lead somehow to this dating site for spiritual singles where i signed up a few weeks ago again. since you have to pay to send messages i stopped it.
but today, there was a feeling inside me..... go there!
i got a new "free hello" which you can send for free, but the other one is not able to answer to this, you have to pay.
i read his profile carefully. 3 or 4 times. i was even able to find his email adress somewhere in his introducement. (which isnt allowed normally)

his profile was awesome to read and brought goosebumps and tears into my eyes.
this guy has been through so much and it reminded me so much on my own life.
he had a very difficult start in his life and after years of struggling and pain and all the bad things you can imagine, he came through the dark into the light- his words.

i have been through hell in my life as well, many times. reading his profile gave me hope again, inspired me not to give up, no matter what!

i sent him a mail and he responded already. we are going to speak later this evening.
i love all the things he wrote on his profile (and he wrote alot), i really feel already a great connection to him. and i like the way he looks too....

but most of all i know--- that god and the universe answered my prayer again when i was sooo deep down. i didnt come here to post that but it was bad, the place where i never wanted to be again in my life.

the universe sent me someone, maybe just to open my eyes again. that it IS always possible to get into the light, no matter where you are or what youve been through.
maybe he will be just a great friend and we can support each other in any way, or he is even my soulmate.... who knows? but i am sure already--- he will be something in my life 
i dont care, my prayers have been answered for sure and god let us not alone, even if we doubt that.

thank you universe!!

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Just found this video, its a great story about how we can all turn our lives around and make the impossible possible.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=qX9FSZJu448

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Hello friends!

I come with an exciting post today! Many of you are familiar with my story and I feel so grateful to have found this forum. I've found so much support here when I've been down or confused and on the flip side of that, so many who share in my joy when I have good news to report!

So - today, I have some more good news: YES, I ATTRACTED A SPECIFIC PERSON.

In my last post, I wrote about manifesting a phone call from my ex (Boy #1) whom I ultimately want to attract back and still love dearly, but not in a desperate way. I know I am absolutely fine and amazing and happy without him - but it took me quite some time to get to this place. In that same post, I wrote with quite a lot of excitement about Boy #2, who I had sort of met a few times before and who had caught my eye (because he is very handsome ^^) Well, I have quite a lot of success to report with Boy #2:
- I attracted meeting him properly
- I manifested a message from him on my birthday
- I manifested some really fun conversations via email - and in my mind I imagined how they would go and they worked out EXACTLY, if not better than I had mentally 'scripted'
- I manifested meeting him out at drinks with some mutual friends
- And just the other night I manifested a kiss (well, quite a few kisses actually )!

I just wanted to reiterate that the whole time, I was really excited at the prospects but was really open to the Universe just working things out for me. It's amazing. In my mind, I thought I would have to get a mutual friend to set us up, but as it happened, we met completely independently and it has been a really natural progression... I have been really positive the whole time and really, very detached. Just a few weeks ago, I wrote here very upset because I could feel a desperate attachment forming between my intention to get back together with my ex and that not working out, I guess because we have no history, there are no inner blocks, no negative thoughts, no worries about things not working out or anything like that (I had been fee. Just excitement at the possibilities I feel like this is a lesson I really needed to learn, it prepares me for attracting all my desires and gives me faith that it is definitely possible!

It seems crazy to think that this has all happened in the space of a month! Really, the Universe knows the quickest, most simplest route to your desire. The Universe can see things that you can't yet see. You just have to keep 110% FAITH that the Universe knows best and just hand it over and continue with life on your happy path.

So, now I know that this is how you do it. IT IS POSSIBLE. I am living proof! THIS IS AMAZING. Rewind a month or so ago and I had never even met him properly. I knew who he was and found him very attractive

Things that I have done recently:
- Just generally kept very upbeat, happy, hopeful and expectant that good things are coming my way.
- I have been listening to a lot of Bashar to deepen my understanding of LOA http://www.bashar.org/videogallery.html
- I have mentally scripted conversations in my mind - and to my great surprise, they have worked out perfectly!
- I wrote a list of all the characteristics I would want in my ideal partner (as it happens, many of them are qualities I loved about my ex) but there are also things on there - I was completely indulgent in writing this list. I recommend doing it. It is amazing, but make sure you are really open when writing it.
- Whenever I remember, I express gratitude for what I have in my life.
- I spoil myself, I show myself love first (which I didn't used to do) and I feel that I am Number One in my life and that I deserve nothing but the best.
- I have been sharing my successes and excitement with all of my friends.
- I have been imagining the possibilities with him, entertaining that he could maybe be the One (even though deep down I feel it is probably my ex, but I don't feel attached to only that. It is still such early days with Boy #2 so I am not jumping to any conclusions, I am remaining open!)
- I have decided that I am ready to move forward and create my own reality
- I feel FINALLY that I have let go of the past and instead have been focussing on making the present amazing and creating an amazing future for myself and really believing in it.

For the first time in a very long time, I feel so relaxed and at peace. The Universe has my back. I know that it knows my desires and even though the Universe might not take me through the front door, so to speak, the journey through the garden and around the side is such a beautiful one which is teaching me so many amazing and wonderful things!

I don't know what is going to happen with Boy #2, but I am so confident that I have the Power in me to direct it any way I please - and for now, it is so FUN and SO exciting! I don't know what the future holds, but I know it is only good things if that is what I want and believe in!

Light and love to you all

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Good Morning All ,

 Today is a beautiful wonderful day!!
I haven't been posting alot lately , but today i just felt like sharing some joy and love!!
It took me a long time to get here but today i am happy , not pretending but really really happy and it feels so amazing. I have been pondering how and why things went wrong in my relationship with my love and although i know i attracted it ( the breakup) I now know it had to happen things were not going to change and i would not have found the strength and power to love myself like i do now. I had so many barriers and insecurities that i didn't even realize. It's amazing when we let go of the one we think we need the most we realize that it was never really about that person. It was really about ourselves , now i know that no matter what i am beautiful , i am amazing , i do deserve everything and i can have it!! Yes i want my love back , but i don't need him and it feels so amazing to know that i can be happy no matter what
Sorry for the rambling but i just wanted to share , for those of you still struggling it really is all about the love of ourselves so look deep inside and find that love and joy in your own life , and know that once you do everything will fall into place!!

I'm sending love and positive vibes to all of you Don't ever give up , we can have it all

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The story of the butterfly

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.
One day a small opening appeared.
He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to squeeze its body through the tiny hole.
Then it stopped, as if it couldn't go further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly.
He took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bits of cocoon.
The butterfly emerged easily but it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch it, expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge and expand enough to support the body, neither happened!
In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around.
It was never able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand:
The restricting cocoon and the struggle required by the butterfly to get through the opening was a way of forcing the fluid from the body into the wings so that it would be ready for flight once that was achieved.

Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives.
Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us.
We will not be as strong as we could have been and we would never fly.

So have a nice day and struggle a little and teach well.

 

 

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10 New Commandments

1.  Do not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities.

2.  Do not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass.

3.  Do not cross bridges before you get to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this.

4.  Do not face each problem as it comes.  You can handle only one at a time anyway.

5.  Do not take problems to bed with you, for they make very poor bed fellows. 

6.  Do not borrow other people's problems.  They can take better care of them than you can.

7.  Do not try to relive yesterday for it is gone.  Concentrate on what is happening in your life today.

8.  Count thy blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for a lot of small blessings add up to a big one.

9.  Be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear ideas different from your own. It's very hard to               learn something new when you are talking.

10. Do not become bogged down by frustration, for 90 percent of it is rooted in self-pity and it will only interfere with positive action.

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It has been almost two years, since my breakup with my ex and since I didn’t have a very fulfilling friendship with my officemate as I have been considering her as my ex friend since then. Those who came in here may have read my story with her, but just an overview, she tried to contact my ex to help us get back together, but it ended up, they have been keeping in touch behind my back. She learned a lot from my ex, about me and my family, everything – including the intimate par t of the relationship, others were true, others were not. She was so mad at me for I didn’t share to her everything in the relationship. It was only when I had a problem with my ex that we started spending time together, I must admit, I don’t trust her that much. Well, she demanded trust, I also demanded respect. It was when the time that my officemate accepted my ex accepted him as a friend in Facebook that I really reacted, it was the time that I made a gap from her. Yes, she hurt me that much for calling my hypocrite, big shit, whore, plastic, so dumb to be outsmarted by a foreigner, among others. She also added that I screened out what I shared to her so I can gain sympathy from her. I really tried all my efforts and strength to forgive her as what Schenderson had told me, for I am doing myself a favor – not her if I do. I do affirmations, Subliminal Blaster, EFT, meditations, everything that I know of that works best for me just so I can completely forgive my ex and him! Fast forward now, she is still my officemate, but I really wished in my Magical Box that she will be reunited with her boyfriend in Canada. Everyone at work just gave her smiles, but then when she is not around, everyone talk about her. In a way, a pity her for not having true friends, for those she treat as friends also back bite her! It is indeed, you will get what you give! With all my efforts, I really tried my best to forgive her, but then my stand is, she is off limits to my personal life. She is only up to officemate level only. My officemate who is a very good friend of mine with time tested friendship told me that to her, it is an indicator that I have truly forgiven my ex friend if I will regain my friendship with her. For me, what is important is myself, and I must be in that pedestal, no one else except myself and my God. One of our officemate also told me that she told many bad things about me even before we parted ways. She is also the type of person that my mother doesn’t want to be my friend, for she was planning to protest should that friendship lasted for she knew that I will be infected as well her being angry to the world! For me friendship is an investment of love and time, how can I invest in a friendship again when I know from the start that I am investing in the wrong person.
 
My stand is, I did everything and will do everything to forgive her. But definitely, I can’t no longer give the kind of friendship I gave to her in the past, she is only up to the officemate level. Any thoughts on forgiveness and friendship? I would really love to hear from your experiences and thoughts, will truly appreciate that! Thank you for all of your insights, I am sure that everyone has something to share!

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So I've been doing some pretty heavy research lately, and came across some advice that really got me to thinking.

My idea is that if Quantum Physics and Mechanics are true, (especially String Theory etc.), then that would mean that there are an unlimited amount of Universes where all things are happening or have already happened. So if there are an unlimited amount of Universes out there, the one where you have all things you ever wanted exists without question. In theory then, we can safely assume that we are living all of these Universes simultaneously, but the one that we are currently projecting physically is the one that we choose to be in, whether it is good or bad.

So what's to stop us from skipping over to another Universe, the Universe that brings us the most joy? In my opinion? Nothing. Since time and space are just restraints we put on ourselves mentally, accepting the fact that there is no time nor space means transition is completely within reason.

Let's say you like "X". In some Universe, you are already happily together, more in love than anyone could ever be, and because that is true, then we are never trying to impede on or override anyone's free will, because in essence it already exists and it is already happening. It isn't about trying to force the Universe you're in to bend to the will of your desires, because that only creates tension and resistance. Rather, it's about letting yourself enter that other parallel Universe with no resistance at all.

Nothing in the past, no error would ever matter, because like I said, in some Universe all the events lead up to this exact moment right now, you reading this text, and you STILL ended up together in a loving and happy relationship.

I'd really like some feedback on this concept. It sure has made me a lot more positive

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Hello, some of You know me from the topics about attracting ex back
As probably You all remember... I had very long road to go... but finally I did it. I attracted him back. Some of You could also know about my "problems" with making right choice which one I should choose - ex one or new one.

And finnally here it is - my choice.
I chose my ex.
And now I am with him. And he is with me.
We wanna rent a flat and live together, and also he chose a date of proposal...! I dont know that date It supposed to be srprise But he told me that he will propose
YAY! Im gonna tell You when it happens
I am so happy and I feel so safe. And we are together, he loves me so much and he told me that he always will, and always have loved me.

It was so hard times before I find out LOA and this forum. He told me so many bad things like "I dont love you any more" and "I dont wanna be with you"... but now he tolds me that it wasnt true. That he always have loved me and always will love me ! And I am the girl from his dreams and he wants me as his wife.

Thank You all for Your prayers, and good energy.
I have You all always in my thoughts. Every day in my prayers.
You helped me so much, and I love that sharing of energy. It is so powerful! And I am so happy. I love You people. Thank You!

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Hi,

I know I promised to get this done last week and I apologize for not getting it done, but better late than never.

OK, so each day starting tomorrow we will focus on the intention of one person and their desire, it can be regarding a relationship, job, money, or whatever but it will just be one intention not an entire list for that particular person.  Don't worry we can do your next desire on another day.  So let's keep it simple and just one desire at a time.  Here's the thing though.....BE SPECIFIC, try to be as specific as you possibly can about your desire so we can include all aspects to help you get exactly what you desire.

For example, if you want a new job, be specific about where you want to work, the position, money, vacation time, etc.

OK, so who do we start with first? 

Well, I think first come first serve will work, so just list your intention and we will work down the list from top to bottom and continue each day.

Hurry up and get your posts in so you are on the list!! 

I look forward to this......It will be great to be able to help each other manifest our desires!

Matthew 7:7 "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you."


Have a wonderful day!

Lots of Love! 

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/we-all-struggle/

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I decided to write a lil something because I see so many posts right now where people are worried about not being able to feel gratitude, happiness and all the good feelings were told we need to feel to manifest.

Its pretty amazing the days where everything is clicking isnt it?  Everything is flowing in the direction you want it to.  Youre happy, youre feeling good and you hardly think about your ex.  When you do it makes you happy.  Then like a wet hand in the snow it slaps you.  You start having doubt, negative thoughts of your ex, negative thoughts of your future and it seems like everything you want has just slipped away.  Nothing has changed, theres been nothing or no reason for this. 

So you freak.  Why am I feeling this way?  Why cant I feel gratitude or happiness.  Why isnt my ex back with me?  Why is this feeling getting worse and worse instead of better?

Well, I have done a lil thought, as I have gone through this more then once.  Its a cycle you have to get yourself out of.  The universe will keep you in that endless loop until you learn what it is you need to learn.  So what is it you need to learn?  Well, I cant speak for your exact experience, but I will let you know what I have learned.  Maybe that will help. 

I kept going through that constant cycle.  I also noticed the cycle got worse and worse.  Every time I went through a down phase it got worse and worse.  More doubt about everything.  More pain about everything.  More guilt about everything.  Then I would go through a good phase.  And it would be great.  No doubt.  No pain.  No guilt.  Then repeat.  I felt I was failing at this whole thing.

So doing what I do, I searched.  I literally dropped to my knees at one point to ask for guidance, the pain just got that intense.  Soon after I ran across a book.  Soon after that, another book.  So i read.  In both books I noticed how much mind set once again played a part.  It also hit me.  All these feelings, are natural.  However you want to look at it, if we were created by god, or made from the big bang theory, we have a range of emotions.  These emotions play their roll.  We are taught through various social programing through the years that some of these feelings arent good to feel.  So what happens?  We shove em down.  Bury them under the mud. 

After years of doing this, how much stuff do you think is buried in the mud?  What is going on here is simple, so simple we over look it.  Before we started on this journey most of us were like a stagnant river.  We decided to take this lil journey and basically released the damn.  What happens when fresh clean water runs over the loose mud you have been burring everything under?  It all slowly gets washed away and guess what, everything youve buried starts to come out.   Some stuff is deeper then others.

So what does it all mean?  It means you will feel bad, you will feel like crap and you will have doubts.  Its natural.  DONT fight it.  That doesnt mean let yourself get wrapped up in the emotions and let them run your life.  However, dont notice theyre coming up and try to bury them down further.  When you do this, it adds to the next level of stuff you need to clear out, the feelings get more intense.  Thats how I got caught up in the cycle.  I was going through emotional hell for a few months off and on until it clicked.  Dont fight it.  Let the feelings come, feel them and release them  Heres the hard one.  Be thankful for everyone of those feelings.  Why?  If it wasnt for those feelings you wouldnt know where to go.  Which direction is right and which one is destruction. 

Does it get better?  You bet!  The most important thing I have found to remember is we are human.  We arent robots.  You wont program yourself to feel good all the time.  I know someone might say, well what about monks who meditate or what about this guru or that.  Heres the thing, they all feel down times.  They have just cleared the mud out and they dont bury it.  They focus on it, figure out why, learn how to adjust or avoid what caused it and then focus on the positive.

Since I started letting my system purge and not fight it, I have been feeling my girl more and more every day.  If its not her, then im going crazy.  And honestly I like it, so its fine by me  .  So please, dont worry yourself when you feel bad.  Ask what it is you can learn from every feeling and thought.  If you do that and give gratitude for learning, you will find what you need and everything will smooth out.

Hope that helps someone out there.......sorry if it was a bit long

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Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be

To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’

So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.

So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!

Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.

Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.

There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.

Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.

PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail

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Forgiveness: Letting go of grudges and bitterness

When someone you care about hurts you, you can hold on to anger, resentment and thoughts of revenge — or embrace forgiveness and move forward.
Katherine Piderman, Ph.D.
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Nearly everyone has been hurt by the actions or words of another. Perhaps your mother criticized your parenting skills or your partner had an affair. These wounds can leave you with lasting feelings of anger, bitterness and even vengeance — but if you don't practice forgiveness, you may be the one who pays most dearly. By embracing forgiveness, you embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy.
 
Here, Katherine Piderman, Ph.D., staff chaplain at Mayo Clinic, Rochester, Minn., discusses forgiveness and how it can lead you down the path of physical, emotional and spiritual well-being.
 
What is forgiveness?
Generally, forgiveness is a decision to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge. The act that hurt or offended you may always remain a part of your life, but forgiveness can lessen its grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to feelings of understanding, empathy and compassion for the one who hurt you.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that helps you go on with life.

What are the benefits of forgiving someone?
Letting go of grudges and bitterness makes way for compassion, kindness and peace. Forgiveness can lead to:
•   Healthier relationships
•   Greater spiritual and psychological well-being
•   Less stress and hostility
•   Lower blood pressure
•   Fewer symptoms of depression, anxiety and chronic pain
•   Lower risk of alcohol and substance abuse

Why is it so easy to hold a grudge?
When you're hurt by someone you love and trust, you may become angry, sad or confused. If you dwell on hurtful events or situations, grudges filled with resentment, vengeance and hostility may take root. If you allow negative feelings to crowd out positive feelings, you may find yourself swallowed up by your own bitterness or sense of injustice.
 
What are the effects of holding a grudge?
If you're unforgiving, you may pay the price repeatedly by bringing anger and bitterness into every relationship and new experience. Your life may become so wrapped up in the wrong that you can't enjoy the present. You may become depressed or anxious. You may feel that your life lacks meaning or purpose, or that you're at odds with your spiritual beliefs. You may lose valuable and enriching connectedness with others.

How do I reach a state of forgiveness?
Forgiveness is a commitment to a process of change. A way to begin is by recognizing the value of forgiveness and its importance in your life at a given time. Then reflect on the facts of the situation, how you've reacted, and how this combination has affected your life, health and well-being. When you're ready, actively choose to forgive the person who's offended you. Move away from your role as victim and release the control and power the offending person and situation have had in your life. As you let go of grudges, you'll no longer define your life by how you've been hurt. You may even find compassion and understanding.

What happens if I can't forgive someone?
Forgiveness can be challenging. It may be particularly hard to forgive someone who doesn't admit wrong or doesn't speak of his or her sorrow. If you find yourself stuck, it may help to write in a journal, pray or use guided meditation. You may want to talk with a person you've found to be wise and compassionate, such as a spiritual leader, a mental health provider, or an unbiased family member or friend. You may also want to reflect on times you've hurt others and on those who've forgiven you. Keep in mind that forgiveness has the potential to increase your sense of integrity, peace and overall well-being.
 
Does forgiveness guarantee reconciliation?
If the hurtful event involved someone whose relationship you otherwise value, forgiveness may lead to reconciliation. This isn't always the case, however. Reconciliation may be impossible if the offender has died or is unwilling to communicate with you. In other cases, reconciliation may not be appropriate, especially if you were attacked or assaulted. But even in those cases, forgiveness is still possible — even if reconciliation isn't.
What if I have to interact with the person who hurt me but I don't want to?
If you haven't reached a state of forgiveness, being near the person who hurt you may be tense and stressful. To handle these situations, remember that you have a choice whether or not to attend specific functions and gatherings. Respect yourself and do what seems best. If you choose to attend, don't be surprised by a certain amount of awkwardness and perhaps even more intense feelings. Do your best to keep an open heart and mind. You may find that the gathering helps you to move forward with forgiveness.

What if the person I'm forgiving doesn't change?
Getting another person to change his or her actions, behavior or words isn't the point of forgiveness. Think of forgiveness more about how it can change your life — by bringing you more peace, happiness, and emotional and spiritual healing. Forgiveness takes away the power the other person continues to wield in your life.

What if I'm the one who needs forgiveness?
Consider admitting the wrong you've done to those you've harmed, speaking of your sincere sorrow or regret, and specifically asking for forgiveness — without making excuses. Remember, however, you can't force someone to forgive you. Others need to move to forgiveness in their own time. Simply acknowledge your faults and admit your mistakes. Then commit to treating others with compassion, empathy and respect.

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Hi,

Before I continue, there are some pointers for you to take note.

Additional Information
- Usage: Schumann Resonance method can be used in all categories; Wealth, Health & Relationship. The only reason why I have chosen relationship, it's because it stands out more postings than in Wealth & Health Sections. I assume that relationship is the concentrated sector. Also, the voting as well.
- Frequency: 7.83Hz ~ 13Hz. (Current: Still Rising)
- Practice: Regularity.
- Tools: Mind. 7.83Hz Binaural Beats. Headphone/Ear-Plug - Recommended: Sennheiser. Relaxation Support Tools: Bed/Chair.

Part 1: Understanding [Theoretical]

What is Schumann Resonance?

The Schumann resonances (SR) are a set of spectrum peaks in the extremely low frequency (ELF) portion of the Earth's electromagnetic field spectrum. Schumann resonances are global electromagnetic resonances, excited by lightning discharges in the cavity formed by the Earth's surface and the ionosphere. - Wikipedia.

Why is it useful or benefit Law of Attraction in manifesting desires?

Good question, but before I go on, the old theory still applies. Everything around you, is made out of matter and matter can be simplified as molecules and atoms. In Quantum Mechanics, atoms can be further simplified into energy. If this is true, well this is absolutely true, everything around us are made out of energy. Simply by bringing out to even a bigger picture, we are a vibrational living-energy. Law of Vibration - Nothing rest, everything moves, everything vibrates. This principle states that energies are always in vibration. You can't stop it, you can't avoid from it. What will happen when something vibrates, frequency actually occurs. Transverse wave or longitude doesn't matter - as long as they vibrate, they always emit frequency.

Let me paused for a moment and I will explain what is it. Let's say, you have two pens; a blue and a red pen. Now, both pens are made out atoms - energy. The reason why you can see it, is because of two things - the light, atoms and the frequency. Everyone knows the connection between light and sight, same goes for atoms. Now, this left only the frequency. Why is this specific pen is in blue, and the other is red when both of them are made out of same size and number of atoms except their colors? The answer is simple. Their color frequency is different. Frequency plays a huge role in our life. Without them, we cannot differentiate anything! It doesn't even exist in black and white color because black and white have their own frequencies. Especially white, it has 7 colors. So theoretically, if the blue frequency is about 631THz and red is in any other frequency, then I am correct to say: "Hey Johnny! Could you grab me a pen that vibrates at a frequency of 631THz?"

What am I showing? I am showing your specific desire! When you have a desire - in your thoughts, there are frequencies; to be exact, there is actually a certain frequency. Certain frequencies will affect your mood and mental thinking. Just like for example, when a person passed away, people wear black, white clothes and light white candles at his/her's funeral. Your mind will infer someone has passed away and everyone is paying respect. What if suddenly, a person wore a red clothe, came into the funeral, laughing and half-drunk, your perception will change immediately! His laughing sound emits - Soundwave; longitudinal wave, vibrated into your ear and perceived. Red clothe; transverse wave, vibrated into your eyes and perceived. You see? You understand! Now, here's the important part. He was affecting everyone's mood, everyone's mentality towards him, thus actually induced a frequency that he was there, clearly stated, he was making a nuisance!

Is frequency powerful? Indeed it is! Now, let me get back to Schumann Resonance.

Schumann Resonance states that the Earth/Nature is vibrating at a frequency of 7.83Hz. Law of Attraction states that whatever your thoughts proceed to the Universe, it will give you what you desire; like thoughts attracts like. What if, your mind; brain, right now, is at the level of Beta - Fully awake, reading my thread? Let's say your brain right now is vibrating at 23Hz. Do you think the nature is receiving what you desire when their frequency is as low as 7.83Hz and yours at 23Hz? Let me give you another example, wow I just realized I gave a lot examples. Prayers - Why do you think traditional prayers are practiced through silence and solemn? Why not a rock party with a heavy metal album being played behind? The answer is simple. Those people who prayed, let their mind settled down and got to theta(4-7cycles) or alpha(8-13cycles), closed to 7.83Hz. And there's no mistake why some of them, have their desires manifested. Tuning with the nature is vital if you want the nature to help you. If you kept visualizing at the wrong frequency, how the earth is gonna receive your callings? It's just like asking a medical doctor to fix your computer.

Now, I want to congratulate you, you have been enduring my poorly constructed sentences but you have understood why it is necessary to use frequency for manifestation. We will be using the method of Schumann Resonance to tune in to the correct receiver, and full charge your on your desire and change your physical reality. Sound interesting, right?

Take a break for awhile. Go and do some research for Schumann Resonance and see how it corresponds to Earth.

P.S: Why is it Alpha and Theta? Schumann Resonance has it at 7.83Hz. However, due to global warming, temperature rising, cosmic factors and other geographical and scientific factors, the frequency has thus increased dramatically to around 11Hz and 13Hz. We, Law of Attraction practitioners, do not need to cover the loss of accuracy. We are not scientist and we can't keep up with the rapid changes. Faith - Is our only measurement to success. 7.83Hz is where I have faithed on. You guys may want to have the frequency up to 11 or 13Hz. I am just gonna stick with 7.83Hz.

Part 2 - Instructions [Practical]

1. Lay down on a bed or sit in a chair in a relaxing manner with your legs and arms uncrossed.
2. Listen or meditate yourself until you are at the rate of Schumann Resonance*.
3. Mentally, create a 'special' place, the place where you want to your ideal mate to appear. Imagine as laser sharp as possible, 3D.
4. Now, when you are ready and prepare, summon your ideal mate. Imagine as laser sharp as possible, 3D.
5. The more intense the visualization, the frequency between you and ideal mate is stronger.
6. Bring your ideal mate and have fun with him or her as long as you want.
7. When you are ready to go off, just visualize the final happiness and desired outcome of what you want then slowly fade away the image.

*Regarding about Part 2, how do I know if I have reached to 7.83Hz? If you are using Brainwave Entrainment Technology, about 5 minutes of listening, when your thoughts start to dull, that's the time where you have reached Schumann Resonance. Some people claimed that they have received huge and strong energy when they have reached to that state.

Done. =) You have completed. This requires practice. You can perform Schumann Resonance either when you awake or going to sleep. The key here is full mental power for visualization. If you feel at night, you have a better mental power than morning, then do it at night. Important additional keys for you to take note:

- Discipline: Regularity is important. Practice at least once in every 2 days.
- Emotions: IMPORTANT! You can create emotions during your visualization to fuel your desire but please do control if you are producing mental sexual images. If you are sexuality excited, your pulse will start to quicken and your heart pounding will become faster - You will reached back to your beta state and will no longer resonance with the method. If you are worried, then don't give too many emotions - clinical.


You are all done with Schumann Resonance Method. And I have nothing to add. If you need a brainwave entrainment audio for it, I might be able to make one or you can simply get free downloads from the internet. If you still confused with the audio, you can private message me and I will give you the link to make your life easier. Questions, do let me know either.


If I ever made an audio for this, which I doubt I would, it will be posted under "Berylac's Offerings" Thread.

Example of a 7.83Hz -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=euAcZUtAU38

It's too short. =/ I am still searching for one that could last for at least 30 minutes and free.

Regards,
Berylac

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I have to share this....I hope it helps people realize how letting go is so important.  Plus, this is really cute!!

http://www.moonangelsweb.com/energy1.htm

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