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 Alright Guys and gals I wanted to tell you about an experience that happened to me one day I was watching TV ,it was program called " IT Show"I dreamed of being featured on this Show I went to FB and seached for the group of it and joined made a couple of posts and comments and after about 24-48 hours ( I know you are not going to believe it) I got a FB message from a girl,yes a girl ,who I didnt know at the moment ( It became a respectful friend from this time on,that's another story)and she said this in here message (You( me Eslam) and I is being invited to be in the last section of the coming episode of the show,this past called "The Audience Opinion" ) end of he message what do you think of this,this is for real I will go in more details to continue the rest of the story after I hear your feedback  talk soon
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This was not written by me but I thought there were some very vital points to post. it seems latley that people have begun to realize that feeling good is the key to manifestation. How to Feel Good and Get What You Desire By Sherry Winn
Most of us who have been following the Law of Attraction know the premise: Like attracts like; you get what you think about most of the time; or it is done to each one of us as we believe.
We understand we want to attract into our lives the things we desire. We try to get our minds to cooperate with us, to bend toward those thoughts, and yet somewhere we fall short of actually getting what we want. Why does this happen?
One of the most critical elements of using the Law of Attraction is to FEEL GOOD, to get into the place of believing it has already happened. How can we do this when we have lost a loved one, when our bodies are sick, when we have been fired from a job, or when the partner we loved betrayed us? How can we get into this feel-good place when all the physical things we see are not what we desire?
The first thing we must realize is we cannot know what an event means. We do not have the power to see beyond the moment. What we believe is horrific may be the very thing which opens the doorway for our dreams. We don’t know what we don’t know! It sounds so simple, yet is so complex because we tend to live in a visual state of being. We don’t see the things we are manifesting through our requests. We don’t have the faith that what we asked for has already been created. So instead of moving forward and acting as if we already have our desires, we live in a continual state of believing only what we see before our eyes.
As long as we are living “what is” we cannot feel what we have created. We have to believe we have already created this nonphysical event, and it is waiting for us to get in alignment with our creation.
When we become impatient and ask, “Where are my requests,” we go directly to the feeling of not having it. When we feel we don’t have what we want, we become anxious, bitter, worried, frustrated, discouraged, dejected, and allow hopelessness to crowd into our hearts and brains.
The next thing we have been taught to do in our physical bodies is to push toward what we want. We think we have to strive for it, to focus all our efforts on it, to strain our muscles, to exhaust our bodies, to go as hard as we can for as long as we can in order to touch our goals. While we do have to take action steps to acquire our desires, we do not want to get in the habit of feeling the push, which is just another way of resisting.
Since we know what we resist tends to persist, we have to learn to move forward, taking action while keeping our minds and bodies feeling good. There is a difference between pushing for something and allowing something to occur.
When we work with the thought of allowing, things flow easier. When we work with the action of pushing, of gritting our teeth and clenching our fists to get through something, we are resisting.
When we push from this place of resistance, we no longer feel good, which is the primary thing we must do in order to get in alignment with our creation.
How to Feel Good We know the goal is feeling good, but how do we reach for the place of feeling good? Here are some solutions:
– Establish a daily routine of meditation. – Read spiritual works. – Listen to uplifting music. – Stop and breathe in the beauty of the day. – Have an attitude of gratitude. – Visualize feeling and being in your dreams.
If you can’t seem to get there and the feel-good emotion is eluding you, there is another short-cut to feeling good which is called, “Asking What-if Questions.” To do this, you start on a rampage of asking what-if questions which lead to a better feeling place. The goal is not to answer the questions, but to simply allow yourself to ask. Let your mind feel the question and then ask another question before you negate your answer with logic.
•What if my body felt like I could hike a mountain today? •What if I met the partner of my dreams today? •What if I had so much money I could donate $100,000 to a great cause? •What if I had the means to travel to anywhere in the world? •What if my body was in perfect health? Remember feeling good is necessary to attracting your dreams. When you feel you are pushing, you are not in the place of alignment. When you are frustrated or impatient, you are not where you need to be. Use a feel-good technique to attract what you desire I posted this because I noticed that quote that I bolded, many people see things not unfolding as they want and think something is going wrong, but that doesn't mean it is. remember to NEVER judge something a being good or bad. because that causes your ego to get involved with it's ayalitical thinking, when it gets involved it pushes your conciousness out of the way. your conciousness is the thing you mut trust, it is the thing that knows what it's doing and how to bring what you desire. a more deeper reason is, when we judge something as good or bad. when we judge it as good, we begin to attach to that 'good' thing and as everyone know that things we attach to begin to slip away, and we feel lost when it is gone. second, when we judge something as bad, we stat to resist that thing, and the things we resist grow stronger. So don't get caught up in if something is good or bad. espically if it is bad. even if you think you've gotten the worst news of your life, just accept it and continue to be happy. PS. 'll be posting these links under terza's resource thread so everyone can look at them later http://www.elevatedexistence.com/blog/2013/02/14/how-to-feel-good-and-get-what-you-desire/http://www.examiner.com/article/romance-101-be-happy-then-manifest-the-life-you-want-with-your-focused-joyful-thoughts-videos
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I am really overwhelmed by the number of PMs I've received with respect to growing taller and manifesting physical changes. As much as I would love to reply to each one personally, there are too many messages and I am not able to reply to each one on time. Also, my browser has some issues that I don't understand-it takes me to error page very often saying the browser is not directing to the correct link. So I am extremely sorry to all of you who haven't received a reply from me. So instead of replying to each of you separately, I am starting this topic to discuss using deliberate creation to grow taller  Here I go: Surprising as it may seem, height is a very emotional issue. In many parts of the world, social conditioning makes us feel that being taller is a virtue while being short is a drawback. Add to it the comments of insensitive people, the resentment about being short grows deeper and stronger. To top this all, we are constantly told that it is impossible to grow taller after puberty, and that if you are of a lesser height at the time of puberty, you have to continue living with the same height all your life, and most importantly, we are taught that we have absolutely no control over how much we grow because it all depends on genetics, heredity and other such heavy-sounding concepts. Because of all this, if a person is not tall, he/she is made to feel helpless, powerless and unimportant, though it is totally nonsensical! Hence, so many people around the globe have emotional issues relating to their height. Of course, there will be exceptions who don't bother about all this, but unfortunately most of us do. Now since we have a lot of emotional pressure regarding our height, and a lot of limiting, negative beliefs about our ability to grow taller, most of us have a tough time believing that height increase at adulthood is possible. So most of us naturally have a tough time manifesting our desired height too. So if you have wanted to grow taller but haven't succeeded yet, don't get discouraged. It's not the end of the road. You can start getting rid of your limiting beliefs right now and start stepping towards your successful growth right now  Let's face it, you can never achieve your desire when you don't believe it's possible, or when you don't feel good about your current condition. What I mean is, if you don't believe that you can grow taller and if you are not grateful for whatever height you have now, you're putting out a lot of resistance in the way of growing taller and unless you get rid of that resistance, growing taller will always remain a distant dream. So let's take the step towards changing your beliefs first, it's very vital that you understand 'how' growing taller is possible at any age. A simple explanation is that our body is not really as solid as it seems to be. In fact, nothing is solid at it's basic composition. Everything is energy that is vibrating constantly, including our bodies. Energy can be mould into any form, transformed from one form to another successfully. So it's absolutely possible to mould our body, which is essentially energy, into any form that we wish. Growing tall is no big deal for it at all! Now, if you are one of those people who find it hard to accept that body is not solid as it seems but is just vibrating energy, then this explanation will not be of much help to you. So let's look at other 'scientific' (as generally accepted by all), possible explanations about why growing taller is possible post puberty. After puberty, it is believed that our bones get calcified, bone plates fuse and they will not grow any longer. This is the reason why it is widely believed that growth stops after puberty. However, it is also found that though bones calcify, there's still scope to expand our tissues and cartilage. Apparently, the bones in our limbs have gaps in between them. We can lengthen our limbs by using these gaps. You can read an entire article about lengthening of legs in a natural way here: http://ezinearticles.com/?How-To-Lengthen-Your-Legs-Naturally&id=6922551Also, you can grow taller by lengthening your spine naturally. 'While it is generally true that the body reaches a steady height after the developmental stages of a young adult, many stretching and exercise techniques can further extend the spinal structure and actually allow an adult body to become taller. Routine spine-decompressing habits, such as slouching in chairs, hunching over a computer keyboard and limited daily stretching, all contribute to limited mobility and length of the spine. By incorporating a basic regimen of stretches into your daily routine, you can noticeably increase your body's length by a number of inches'-Read more: http://www.livestrong.com/article/135206-how-grow-taller-stretching-exercises/#ixzz2IvWeYv7ENow the most amazing thing: you may already know this but let me state it anyway. We grow upto two inches everyday in our sleep because our spine gets decompressed and lengthens in our sleeping position! So everyday when you wake up, you are two inches taller than you normally are! However, because of incorrect posture as well as pull of gravity, the spine gets compressed again making one look shorter. So by simply keeping an eerct posture you can decrease the compression of spine throughout the day! You can get plenty of information about this on the internet. So now that you know that it is ABSOLUTELY POSSIBLE TO GROW TALLER in adulthood, and there's enough sensible explanation to justify the claim, start accepting this new belief that you can grow taller at any age, and the previous conditioning you had was not true afer all! Please read the post, re-read it and understand it so that you can assimilate the new belief into your mind fully. In the next post, I'll start an exercise for deliberately increasing your height. Let's all get together, help one another achieve the height of their dreams, and stick together throughout the exercise  It's time to go to bed, it's already post 2 AM here! So i'll be back with the next post tomorrow. Happy manifesting my dearest people  Oh and by the way, I read somewhere that NBA player Leonardo Barbosa had a height spurt at the age of 23 or 24 and he grew 3 to 4 inches taller! I guess we are not freaks to want to grow taller after puberty, after all 
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Im going to try to link to this page .. not sure i know how .. i dont know how all this works but sounded like a good time to AFFIRM what we want .. it was in my e-mail thought it sounded interesting Venus correlates to the principle of relatedness, relationship, and relativity. Like attracts like; how we feel inwardly, how we resonate and energize from within, this then becomes the basis of our magnetic force-field. We create and materialize from this energy source. Venus is fertile and fertilizing. She creates and she perpetuates….” “On June 5/6 2012, there will be a significant energy surge transmitted between our creator consciousness and instinctual desires. The creative potency is so dynamic, it is compelling enough to turn the conceptual into the reality, to bring that which we are resonating with into being. Simply whatever it is that we have evaluated as most desirable and necessary for our continuance and survival is brought to the fore.” “We now face a critical impact moment along our evolutionary time-line. Destiny can show up in terms of life events and opportunities, or it can draw key people into our life. It is forceful enough to create a momentous shift in our awareness and therefore, our reality base…” “The youth of 1960’s raised their voice when Uranus and Pluto conjoined. Now Uranus and Pluto are aligned again, by the more urgent square angle aspect this time. Without a doubt, we, the collective, have come to a decisive pivot point…” “…it’s a good idea to keep your channel as clear as you can. All transmissions to the universe carry more potent impact now. Set deliberate intention. Stay conscious and focused.” “What do you want for yourself? AFFIRM it. The rise of the solar feminine offers you an exceptional opportunity to bear witness to your creative potential, to demonstrate yourself as the divine co-creator you are and have always been.” Here is the link..( i think..lol) http://www.mysticmamma.com/venus-transit-june-5thjune-6th-2012-heralding-return-of-the-feminine/
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Hello All,
I've been lurking for some time now and had to sign up. All my life I have been unknowly practicing Loa. Today, I was literally sobing about 1 manifestation that's taking it's sweet time to come.
Suddenly , I realized why. I DO have the power but, I have not appreciated all the beautiful things I've been blessed with over the last 6 months. I've been sulking about this one little thing. No wonder it hasn't come.
Here's a little background:
6mths ago, i was laid off, couldn't pay rent & had to move in to my mothers home (we didn't get along). I started drinking heavily, bad things kept happening, my love life didn't get exist.....
Fast forward to today, my mother & I have become unbelievable close, I have a job in the right industry that pays more than my old one, I bought my first car, and have the best apartment I have ever had in my life.
All this in less than 6 months. From suicidal to having a better life than I could have imagined. Loa really works. The most important thing I forgot to do was to look @ everything and say THANK YOU! I know the last thing i have asked for is on it's way now that I have learned the lesson I needed to learn.
Appreciate what I have. I know 100% I have the power. Now I need to say thank you and things will only keep getting better.
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IM SO HAPPY TO BE WRITING MY SUCCESS STORY. MY HANDSOME COWBOY IS BACK HOME IN MY ARMS. PEOPLE I am so happy to tell you that my Husband (soon to be) is back home to me. I always knew he would be back but to actually be here telling you is amazing and truly makes me a believer. Honestly it all starting happening for me when I let go. Let go of the desperation of having him. Of course I still wanted him but I was no longer sad and upset yes I missed him but I looked at it as a time to grow seperately so we could come back together stronger. He told me he has never stopped loving me and I am where he has always wanted to be.
Now I must get out of my own way and not let what I did in the past (letting all my fears control me), take this backward. We only move forward from here. I am going to forgive him for hurt I was caused and no let anything get in our way. We love each other and he knows without any doubt he wants to be with me forever. I know the same and I so excited for the beautiful life we have together. OUR LIFE HAS ONLY BEGAN AND I CAN SEE JUST HOW AMAZING IT IS. THANK YOU ALL FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND ENCOURAGING WORDS!!
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I feel like my brain has gone into over-load these past 2 weeks. I've been reading so many life-changing books that I'm feeling quite powerful. I'm sure many of you have heard about this book by Neale Donald Walsch (3 in the Trilogy). I had heard all the hype, but only decided to read it a few days ago. I'm STILL trying to process everything I've read. It's a goldmine for those who are looking for answers. All 3 books are available in PDF.  Free PDF here: http://www.humanitysteam.ru/lib/Conversation%20with%20God,%20book%201.pdf
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i got to s ay im back yeah buddy i have been having hard times but i learned that i have a good heart! My ex is back to not talking to me bc she has a new bf! Im like wow haha what a bad streak i been having but i got to say its been easy deleting her from fb and everytime i do it she always talks to me again after all her relations end im like a shoulder to cry on! Im tired of the same old song and dances! I got so much to offer and all these girls at my job have been taking a liking to me! I see it as a loss for my ex! I have been really learning that its my fault for hanging on to my old beliefs that we are meant to be which is a lie! Idc anymore i want to make a new start with some one that appreciates me for me not some one that uses me! She needs to move on and find a new person to use! Im done being used! Im better than that ! I deserve more! Its possible to attract her back but its not worth my time! I need to move on and spend my energy on myself! I wish the best for her but im just done with it all i spent to long being a push over time to show myself i still got it in me to be a power attracter! Love you sll and happy mothers day to all you mothers out there you all are great mothers you got it all 
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What about the happy now?
Forget dying and going to some blissful heaven.
Forget retiring and finally enjoying your life. ... Forget about when you are enlightened and how good it will supposedly feel. This moment is special. This is it.
Yet we often wait for some special occasion or reason to celebrate.
We often spend our lives striving to get to some destination that we think will make us happy.
Even when you get there is it all that it was promised to be? What are you waiting for to be different in your life?
Waiting leads to suffering.
Beliefs that are Happiness Killers:
1. The journey needs to be suffering, struggle, or hard. 2. Something needs to be different in order for you to be happy. 3. Life owes you something. 4. You should be different than you are: Prettier, skinnier, richer, etc. 5. The life you have now was not meant to be your life.
Bottom line: one of the greatest happiness killers is the belief that “The experience I am having IS NOT the experience that I should be having.”
Right now, let go of the of the way you think your life should be. Or the way you thought your life should have turned out. Or how you dreamed it was going to be when you were twelve.
Accept that this is your life right now. Accept it. This is how it is NOW. And now is all you have.
When you accept that this is your life, today. Then you can start appreciating the richness available to you now. And since what you focus on will expand, you will manifest more of that richness.
When you stay stuck in regret of the life you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have.
So the life you have is the life you were meant to have, but not the life that you need to continue having from this moment onward, if you choose otherwise.
You cannot have the life you want by focusing on the life you wished you had but don’t.
Forgive yourself. Forgive those you feel wronged you. Then fully embrace the life you have in order to create the life you truly want.
As you embrace the life you have, you can savor every single moment. Not waiting for something special to happen.
No New Years.
No Valentines.
No retirement.
No wedding.
No bonus. Just now.
So:
Take your best dress out of the closet and wear it.
Take your best plate out of the cupboard and use it.
Take your best loving off of the shelf and share it.
Take your mind off of control and lose it. Happiness is the way. Not simply a destination to get to
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Hey Friends-
I am soooooooo excited!!!!!!! He is one of my favorite authors.
He is going to be on Oprahs OWN network (ch. 170 on cable where i live) its on at 11am today, Sunday The show is called Super Soul Sunday and he's the guest.
Just wanted to let everyone know!!!!!!!
God Bless!
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Hi all my friends... 2 days is remained to us Persians NEW YEAR(1391)...when new year is coming everyone in our country clean their house,buy new clothes,new shoes,etc...they celebrate the new year before April and April is very very important for us Persians.cause we believe in April the nature has a new birth and everything around us change...you see fresh leaves on the trees.fresh water in the river,fresh flowers everywhere.you can smell it everywhere,birds sing,you can see butterflies everywhere...so everything change in our new year!!my mother is cleaning the house very seriously...but for me something is different from previous years.i am cleaning my MIND from previous way of thinking..... when i joined this forum last year,my goal was to attract my ex back and the first thread i read was Dhaynes's thread about attracting her ex back.step by step i followed the thread till i read her success story(i guess in May),i was very happy for her and still i am happy for her success.she is very kind and one of my best friends....the next was Katie's story and i can't forget our worry about her suicide and our daily prayers for her.i can't forget everyone's help for her.we didn't know each other but all of us prayed for her and she became alive again and day by day she became stronger and stronger till she posted her great success story...WOWWW.no one could imagine her success story,but she proved that EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE....after that story many people regained their lost hope and those who had given up,tried one more time...THANK YOU KATIE... After her success i thought about collective prayers and i started the thread(to every one who wants their love/ex back/part 2)and everyone joined it...that was amazing,when i meditated every night for my forum friends,the tears of joy came running down of my face.and i imagined the name of the members and those who had a profile picture i imagined their face too like Sneha,Katie,Bal....when i started the thread i noticed the little successes of others,specially Sneha,believing love and giggles...and soon we read giggles and priestess's success story!wow,that was amazing!i was very happy,cause i knew our mind can support each other and when it is about energy,physical distance doesn't have any meaning!! those days Shawn(2thetop) helped me much and i can't forget his support.he was there for me all the time.i mean all the time....he gave me hope,believe,support...till October that i had a great success...my successes began with seeing my guy 3 times accidentally within just 3 weeks,after 1 year of no contact and continued with text messages and his presence in my painting exhibition and a phone call that lasted more than 30 minutes and i want to thank you to every one,every one and although i am not in contact with my guy any more,but i am grateful for those sweet memories and all of you had a great role in my life...thank you Shawn,angel-star,believing love,Bal,Schenderson....... i remember once,Bal told me:Ava,he will be there in your exhibition(4months before my exhibition),cause you want it! and once my guy told me Darling everything will be alright and Katie told me that was the universe's words came from your guy's mouth. and still i think about it..... when Mariposa started her wonderful thread,i remember i had written my desire in her thread(I WANT TO BE WITH MY GUY BEFORE PERSIANS NEW YEAR)! it didn't happen,but i learned that we should not set a deadline for our desire cause we don't know when and how.this is not our job.this is the universe's job! At the end of our old year and at the beginning of the new year i just wanted to say what i have learned from you and how much i am grateful for having all of you beside me.congratulations again and again and again for those who have attracted their desires.be happy and grateful for manifesting your desires. And i wanted to say something to my love who is not with me now physically,but is in my heart: My dear,my love,you know how much you mean to me.the new year is coming and everything is changing around us.do you see the birds?the butterflies?do you remember that beautiful flower you gave to me in that special spring?do you remember when we walked by the sea and i laid my head on your shoulder?you said in my ear:I LOVE YOU...BE MY LOVE FOREVER AND NEVER FORGET ME,and i said:i will love you and i won't forget you till i die...do you remember you told me DO YOU MARRY ME AVA?and i said:YES I MARRY YOU....do you remember those great time laughing with each other?do you remember my paintings i had paint for you?do you still have the watch i had given you for your sweet birthday?how much we laughed... do you feel my energy and my love that i have sent to you during these 2 years?do you feel me honey?!!another year is coming and i want a magic...and i know the magic is within me and i should just LET IT HAPPEN....I PROMISE YOU I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN. do you remember once you told me Ava you are something special but you don't know it?!!may be i didn't know it.yes I AM SOMETHING SPECIAL,I AM LOVE,I AM ABUNDANCE,I AM MAGIC,I AM HAPPINESS,I AM YOU,WE ARE TOGETHERNESS HONEY... you are safe in my heart and NO ONE in this world could get your place in my heart and my mind and AT THE BEGINNING OF THE NEW YEAR I AM CLEANING MY ROOM AND MY HEART AND MY MIND FROM PAIN AND SUFFER TO MAKE A SPACE FOR YOUR PRESENCE IN MY LIFE. WELCOME HONEY....
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3 Steps to Manifesting Miracles Courtesy of Iris Angel
Is something holding you back from better health or wealth? Do you have the courage to believe in miracles?
By the dictionary definition......
A “Miracle” is “a surprising and welcome event inexplicable by natural or scientific laws and is therefore considered the work of a Divine agency“.
We ALL have the capacity to create and witness miracles. Yes, some are more gifted at manifesting miracles because they PRACTICE and KNOW there is more to life than meets the eye.
Being open to the fact that science has NOT explained everything yet is a good pre-cursor for creating a miracle. Once you begin to FEEL the joy of receiving and believing in miracles you invite even more miracles into your life.
Here are what I feel and have experienced as the three keys to creating miracles: 1) AWARENESS
I write about consciousness often and this is it at it’s most basic. Do you KNOW what is going on around you? I posted this brief awareness test video before and this is a prime example of how we do not often recognize the world around us: Or, If you have seen this first one – here is another one for you: Well… how did you do? I have shown this video to several friends. Their results were the same as mine the first time. They were also not aware of what truly was going on.
We have so much noise to shut us down and distract us; phones, ipods, tv, satellite radio and the constant chatter of our minds.
When we are able to shut some of that out and notice what is TRULY going on around us – you may be AMAZED at what is going on. You will also be astonished at what you have missed that was right in front of you.
Try this exercise to heighten awareness:
-Throughout your day just stop. -Turn off the extra noises around you; phone, tv, etc. and sit. -Take 3 deep breaths – breathe in for 4, hold for 4, release for 8. -Now LISTEN. What do you hear around you? What do you hear underneath those sounds?
-You can also do this with vision… -What do you see? -Now what do you really see if you look harder? -Look around you more than once and TUNE in to even what might seem the most minute of details. An example: I am sitting outside on my deck under a canopy as I write this. If I had my headphones on I would JUST be experiencing that reality and there would be no other. While I LOVE music I am consciously deciding to turn it off and hear what else is present.
The first sound I hear is the pitter patter of rain on the canopy above my head, it is soothing and the more I listen to it the more it becomes harder NOT to hear it – it IS my reality now.
What else do I hear? I hear birds chirping in the background. The harder I listen the more I can hear DIFFERENT bird calls coming from different areas.. I also still hear that pitter patter of the rain. I have just expanded my reality.
I KNOW there is more to hear so I continue. I hear a whirring faintly in the background… it is the pool pump and I would never have noticed this if I hadn’t listened carefully but now I am experiencing 3 distinct sounds. Is there more? There is!
I also hear the faint but undeniable sounds of cars in the distance and a plane flying overhead. I have just expanded my reality to include MANY different sounds.
The more you can do this with sight and/or sound the more we are AWARE OF the things around us (take 3 minutes/day a few times a day if possible).
We expand our reality every time we do this.
There could be miracles happening right next to us but if we are closed off and asleep we will not see them. We need to be aware and conscious to recognize the world around us for what it truly is – a miracle in itself. The fastest way to bring a miracle to us is to understand and accept miracles happen daily – why NOT to us? 2) EXPECTATION
I wrote an older post asking, “What DO you Expect?”.
The state of mind that we are in truly plays a part in whether miracles appear or not. Are you expecting a long commute to work? Your boss to be miserable? Your relatives to get on your nerves? An argument with a spouse?
What we expect we are calling to us. We are telling the Universe “THIS IS HOW WE EXPECT LIFE TO BE”. We are CREATING it IN our reality and guess what? The Universe always delivers.
An example is one I use in coaching a lot: Many of us expect we know how people will react, how a situation will go or some common “annoyance” in our life. We feed our brain with all the “past times” things unfolded a certain way and we do not allow for it to go any other way.
What if we allowed ourselves to EXPECT a different outcome?
An Exercise:
Try taking what you would consider an “impossible situation”.
-A parking lot you NEVER get a space in. -A relative that ALWAYS pushes your buttons. -For 1 minute close your eyes and imagine the OPPOSITE. -You get the PERFECT PARKING SPOT! -That relative MUST have taken some happy pills or something because you cannot BELIEVE how happy and nice they are today!
Now.. the next time you are looking for a parking spot – flash to the experience and smile – wouldn’t it be cool if I GOT that spot? The next time you are going to see or talk to that relative – flash to the picture… expect them to feel better, kinder, happier.
I’d love to hear what happens after this one because this alone can change people’s lives instantly. Once you begin seeing that we indeed get what we expect – you open yourself up to the magic of life and miracles.
This last ingredient is perhaps the most tricky… letting go.
3) Letting Go
Ahh the hardest for me and you might be asking, “how the heck am I supposed to EXPECT something and let it go??”
When we attach too hard to a result we are creating resistance. We are telling the Universe – it is THIS way or NO way and I know what’s best. Life does NOT work that way.
It is WONDERFUL to expect a new job, relationship, opportunity… but when we say it has to be THIS job, or THAT person or THIS opportunity we are closing ourselves off for what really may be the miracle and the way we are to go. I have done this to a fault and know it is not always easy.
It IS when I am able to do this – that miracles do occur.
Example: We have in our head that we REALLY NEED this job we interviewed for. We are picturing it, KNOW it is right for us and are hanging everything on it. We don’t get it and the world feels like it has collapsed.
It COULD just be that a better job is around the corner. It could be that the boss you would have had would have driven you crazy. It could be that the miracle of meeting a new friend and/or relationship is at another location.
When we hold onto anything too tightly we are telling the Universe WE know better and in my own life I KNOW that is NEVER the case. Letting Go INVITES the miracle to occur.
Exercise: What DO you want? A new relationship? New job? Better health?
-Picture it, taste it, hear the sounds around it...
-Let your awareness grow around WHAT that would mean and feel the emotions associated with it.
-Expect it and now just TRUST the best always happens and it will work out.
Let go of the control of having to have it YOUR WAY or NO WAY.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER Miracles happen daily.
I witness them as a Reconnective Healing Practitioner all the time.
I am aware there is MUCH more around me than I can see and I tune into the frequencies and the person I am facilitating the session for.
I EXPECT a healing to occur but LET GO of WHAT healing HAS TO OCCUR. In doing that – there is a healing miracle each time.
Another example of how I put it all together:
My illnesses. After learning a bit about the mind/body connection I now had the awareness that I was more than my body. I was looking for more and more ways to prove that true.
I explored, sat silently and really tuned into my body instead of repeating the messages my doctors were telling me about what my future WOULD BE (wheelchair and in chronic debilitating pain).
I expanded my awareness. I then expected I would get better. I did not define it but I KNEW life could be better than it had been for the last 7 years IF I began applying some of what I was learning. I EXPECTED improvement.
I let go by NOT saying “I will feel 50% better in “x” time or else this is BS!” I had no time-line. I had no agenda to be completed except to feel better.
A miracle did occur and I was cured of all chronic disease and off medications within weeks. By expanding my awareness, expecting to get better and by letting go of exactly HOW it had to go – I was gifted the miracle of complete health.
Almost four years later I am still healthier than I have EVER been.
Miracles are not as mysterious and elusive as we may have been taught to believe. We all can witness them and we are all entitled to them.
Life is about flow NOT struggle.
Miracles are little gifts that come about to give us faith that we ARE in flow.
INVITE a miracle into your life by using these steps..... Awareness, Expectation, Letting Go.
Thank you and I wish you miracles in all areas of your life.
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hi  its been a while since i posted a "success" story, but today i saw that it is falling into its place  ok, so where do i start. my second job. alot of work and less money, feel a bit exhausted, but i know its only temporary until i get my job with less work and more money  and that its all because of my limiting belief about this stuff. beside that, my boss is very hard to handle. very very greedy, choleric- very much so and he likes putting me down in front of customers for small reasons. yesterday was terrible, i got a problem with the printer, so no one could pay by card, only cash. but when that happened, some had already taken gas and wanted to pay by card. called my boss, he got angry, didnt believe me at first and then hang up the phone and came. he welcomed me by saying "oh, mrs sch..... you broke our printer!!" but serious he said that and very angry. in front of all---- i said "no" and he said- of course you did...  the customers kept looking at me and feeling compassion, i saw and felt that and were shocked about my boss. he tried to fix it with the company, it took a long while and then i made a small mistake again, he put me down again. tears came into my eyes, i needed to go tino the office, cause i began to cry and wanted to leave that very moment, just wanted to quit. its not the first time, in fact each day i have to repeat sory and sorry all the time and i dont need to be treated like that. i came back out, and he felt somehow that i cried, so was not looking at me anymore and got quiet. the problem was fixed after nearly 1 hour and he went wtih a big smile on his face and telling me to lock the door, in case someone would steal me  it was closing time. a guy, who comes each day for a beer (and always telling me how sweet i am)  noticed that already in the middle of the day how angry i looked, when the boss was shouting on me, why there has been no coffee water.....  well, one customer after the other, so how can i? and i had to serve him the coffee, even when the station was full. so this guy came today again and told me, that he asked the shell gas station right around my corner. have asked there a few months ago, but there was no need. so today he asked for me, how sweet!!! AND THEY SAID I SHOULD COME; THEY NEED ONE  MUCH BETTER CONDITONS THAN THERE- and even if only the boss is nicer..... yeahhhh i am in. then..... another young guy came and that he was the same who stared at me last week and telling me what a great aura i have  he came today and was happy to see me.... he went after a while. when i was at my biggest stress today..... i just felt stress all over, even by knowing that i would attract more discomfort by it, the phone rang, the station one. it was him lol, asking me to go out. the station was full again, it has been all day like that the alst two days, i said.... not today i am totally stressed and he said----- no melanie, dont say that- you will get stress when you think that. LOA!!! haha, i began to laugh and said, thank you for the reminder. its not so common over here to meet someone who understand the laws of attraction. that was really funny. i thanked him and he said he would call later. he did.... asking me out again- i said no, not today, i just need a break from all. but he really wanted to and said i need to get a break and have a coffee somewhere. i kept saying no and he gave me his number. the 2. number of a guy within 2 days  when i just wanted to close the station, a car was holding infront of the door, it was him, he didnt give up. and he didnt even know when i would close cause it always depends..... lol  i said, well you are stubborn  but found him funny cause he really was trying hard to get me. so i went out with him, after a long time havent been out at all. we ended up in a nice coffee, had a latte and sat there for hours. he is very interesting, very much into loa and living it, a very charismatic man and you feel the positivity who he is spreading out  i havent been out with someone since forever. it doesnt feel like i could fall for him.... but hey, now it comes.  i have not found only a very good friend, cause he IS nice and awesome, but you know that i have been asking for my twingo car. today his friend asked him if he needs a twingo..... hahahaha  and now i came and want that twingo!!! he said he will check it, is its ok, i can pay him in months.... yeahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, my dream car is on the way, things are flowing!!!! AND SO HAPPY; CAUSE I FELT SO DISCONNECTED A BIT; BUT STILL FOUGHT TO BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT I HAVE  this guy is also someone who deals with cars....he even said he could fiy my old one and get him through the inspection as well.... its my decision  so happy that this day turned to be out to be a magical one and i am soooo grateful. well at least he broguht me home. since loa its the 3rd number i got from guys who wants to be with me and that feels great  he even wanted to kiss me, but i said no. i dont feel like kissing someone when i am not in love...... but he understood. feeling happy today and grateful for new and great opportunities!!!! thank thank thank YOU. and thanks for all support and nice and lovely words..... all is working out!!!! yeahhhh  more to come sooooooooooooooooon!!!! HAPPY DAY 
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Hey guys!its me again! something amazing happened just now and i really want to share it with you! a while ago i wrote this....
hey everyone! i just need positive vibes...its one of those days that nothing can take the pain away...its like the emotional pain becomes physical and i really dont know what to do...i try to be positive, i look at my vision board, i say my affirmations, i visualize being happy with him again...etc...its been almost 3 weeks since i last texted him, he replied but after that silence...i decided not to contact him again and am sticking to it but it drives me crazy...i love him so much...we were together for 4 years and then reason we broke up was cos the last minute he got cold feet about moving to my country and start our life together! i really believe that we ll get back together yet i can't relax and let go... does anyone feel like this? any advice? thanks guys! all the best to everyone!
The last days i'd been really down cos i didnt hear anything from him!this afternoon i was praying and asking God to give me a sign that i will soon be with him again! i asked for the sing to be a text, a call or a mail from him!but later on i started to lose hope and i wrote that...while doing that i had my phone on silent and when i checked it a while later i had a text! guess from who??? from him!!!!i was looking at it trying to realize what happened and started crying of happiness!!i said about 100 thank you to God and the universe!! he asked how i am, if everything is ok, told me to take care of myself and he wrote hugs!xxx at the end!!!
am so grateful!! i still cant believe what just happened! but this is solid proof that it works guys!! hope this will give strength and faith to all of you!!! all my love!! xxx
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This week I stumbled across a blog about being strong and feminine and embracing being a woman. I felt so empowered reading the articles. It affirmed everything I thought all along about being a powerful yet gentle woman. It also speaks about how to approach relationships and men.
As I read along, it hit me "why am I holding on to hope of someone who left me?" Why am I sticking around for his girlfriend to accuse me of being a man thief and put me through further embarrassment by demanding I seek her permission before saying hello to her boyfriend? Surely, a great girl like me can get many wonderful men who are not in relationships and appreciate what I have to offer. I dedicated these past six months to working on myself and that in itself makes me a pretty great person. "So what, if ONE person doesn't want me?" he's just one person and before he came along I thought I was pretty great. He is a wonderful guy and everything but now I feel like, I deserve better than putting so much energy on someone who may or may not still love me. Sure we may end up together, but I'm not psychic. Maybe in the future he'll be my ideal guy, but right now the fact that he is with someone makes him less than ideal for me now, and that's ok.
He told me that he was seeking closure from our relationship, I wasn't even aware it was something he was still battling with. It seemed to me that he just hopped into the next relationship like it was there waiting for him. I used to envy him so much, I thought how great he had it. He found someone 3 weeks after we broke up and they moved in together shortly after. She never left his side. I was alone, crying trying to put my life back together. But slowly the facade started to fade away when he shared how frustrating she was, how she compared herself to me. How even though she was living with him, cooking his meals, and seeing him all the time. I was still a threat by just running into him.
They had it made but he was still seeking closure for our relationship. I started to count my lucky stars because I found my own closure when he told me he saw no point of us meeting to talk after the break-up, so I could get closure. Now he says he regrets not meeting with me. I'm glad he didn't meet with me though, because I now know I am strong enough to move on by myself. Right now I see how being patient with myself and not rushing put me in a better situation than he is right now. It is interesting how the tables have turned and he is now the one who needs closure, he said he understood that I found mine so he doesn't want to re-open old wounds.
I still care for him, but I believe I am going to forget him because you know what, I am more important to me than he is. I want someone who chases me, someone who sees my worth without having to leave and find someone else.
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