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Hey everyone!

As some of you know, I am trying to attract back the love of my life.

Only last night I wrote a post about successfully manifesting a blue feather ( http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/mini-success-the-blue-feather-experiment!/)

Well, when I woke up this morning - there was a private facebook message from my guy!

I JUST CAN'T EXPRESS JUST HOW VERY VERY VERY HAPPY AND AT PEACE I AM!!!!

Some of you may remember I got an email from him about a month or so ago, to which I replied and I wanted to receive another one from him when he arrived in the town he'll be living in for the next 6 months or so.  I'd been thinking about it a lot last week, wondering when it would arrive but this week have been feeling a new sense of peace and more relaxed about everything. Still sending him loving thoughts and visualising us together but less than I had been. I've also been feeling truly happy when I think of him. I've also dreamt about him the past couple of nights, which I honestly believe is a sign that I have also been on his mind. We have always had a very, very deep connection.

I know now beyond belief that I will be writing about my complete success story here in this forum! I know like I know like I know that he and I will be happy together in love forever as soul mates, lovers, best friends, husband and wife, realising our dreams together. I am so excited! I truly feel like the architect of my own life, designing it piece by piece and I am so amazed at how quickly my dreams are becoming a reality!

Life is wonderful and I am so, so grateful!!!! I am in the vortex. Wow!!!

LOVE & LIGHT TO YOU ALL!   

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ok, here we go....

this was one year ago when I was more focussing on LOA....

it was a bad day.... I had no money and I needed some because I wanted to have a good weekend with my son and not only eating pasta etc... because there was no money left for something else. I said to myself- I get money today.... anyhow, around 50 euros I need.

I went to work, I work at the airport.... and I was checking passengers for their boarding passes.
Out of sudden a passenger came to me and gave me 50 euro, explaining that he just found it on the floor....
well, there was no name, no one came and asked for lost money and he could have kept it for hisself
so my weekend was saved 

isnt that amazing?

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Hello everyone. I have been reading this forum for a couple of days and have gained a lot of insight and new information. I wanted to share with this community what I have learned about LOA as it relates to my romantic life. It has been amazing at times. I am sort of in the middle of it right now.  I am enjoying the process though!

Sorry this is a tad bit long. I welcome your comments and suggestions as well!

I have been practicing LOA since January 2009. A friend recommended it to me after a traumatic breakup.  Once I heard the concepts, all sorts of memories started coming to me. I realized that I had been manifesting things that seemed impossible my entire life. These were all things that I had a great desire and love for, and they all just seemed to come to me with no effort. Homes, jobs, friends, pets. etc..

I began working on raising my vibration. I already knew that walking every day gave me a sense of euphoria.  As the months went by, it became easier and easier. The flowers were all blooming. By May, I was feeling more confident, happy, at peace and beautiful than I had in my entire life.

I hadn't dated anyone since January. All of a sudden, I had three men pursuing me.at the same time,  That threw me for a loop, and I became very confused. All of them had many of the qualities I had really been desiring.  I had always had a crush on one of these guys, but was afraid to talk to him because I would start blushing every time I saw him.  One of the other guys was unbelievable tall, witty and handsome. I ended up choosing Mr. Tall because even though I really liked guy I had crushed on all those years, he was very intense and I felt overwhelmed.

Mr. Tall ended up being Mr. Bipolar. Our relationships was sweet and wonderful in many ways but ended abruptly 9 months later when he had a nervous breakdown. I was back to square one. Luckily, the friend that turned me onto Abraham also gave me the name of her wonderful therapist. She was a huge advocate of LOA. My emotional healing seemed much easier than I would have imagined through her and Abraham's help.

Naturally, I started wondering "what if" I had chosen Mr. Intensity? I had so many very viable doubts about him. He did have a very bad reputation.  Oddly enough, I started getting a really intense infatuation for Mr. Intensity. He tried asking me out a few times that spring, but I didn't actually go out with him until that June. I had so much resistance to him, I wonder sometimes if he hasn't been using LOA to draw me to him? He is a huge positive thinker, though I doubt he would be into LOA. I was certainly thinking about him. I never intitiated contact with him. When I would be feeling really good and extra deep into my vortex, he would always call or text me.

Turns out this guy and I have a lot in common. We really enjoy each other's company and we have incredibly intense passion for one another. When we are together he gets carried away sometimes and talks about me moving in with him or says we are going to get married someday.  What was the problem? He is a big-shot guy with his own company. He works really long hours. He has always been single and is somewhat of a playboy. He just isn't available to be much of a boyfriend to anyone.

Since that summer, we have briefly dated multiple times. He keeps coming back. He drives by my house at night, and texts me silly stuff. I have never initiated it.  It is always the same thing. IF he wasn't traveling or watching a baseball game I was lucky if I got to see him once a week- and he lives 5 blocks away!  I think because I love my alone time and really value my sense of freedom, I have attracted a man with the same exaggerated qualities.

When we first reunited, I sensed that I had really hurt his ego by choosing Mr. Tall. I think he may have feared I would hurt his ego again so stayed less available.  I do feel that he has really softened up about that. Recently his father passed away and a  weeks later, I lost my grandmother.  He called to talk about our losses a couple of weeks after it happened.  I know these past few months have been really hard for him. I have been sending him lots of love and emotional healing vibes.

I do have great feelings for this man. The thing that I have realized, is that it is not about the person, it is about the feeling. Maybe someday he will decide he wants to have a real relationship, with me or someone else. I would love that for him.  It is funny though, it really doesn't matter to me. I am feel a lot of love inside me most of the time.

What is really cool is that the feelings that I had when I was with him are mine. The passion was really wonderful and helped me know how important that is to me. Now it it is in my vortex for me to experience again later. How cool is that?

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I wasn't sure where to post this ...

So I just wanted to get anyone/everyone's insight on your mind and your heart.

My mom made a point with your mind and your heart... saying even though your mind may think certain thoughts ex. negative thoughts, it's your heart that win overs your mind in the end because your heart is what you feel.. the feeling of love. So love (your heart) wins..  She believes love heals all wounds. This comment was made by my mom when I told her about my situation with my guy and the things he says to me when we broke up..
But this can be open to anything besides relationships. What's everyone thoughts on this?

Thanks everyone!

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So I've been doing some pretty heavy research lately, and came across some advice that really got me to thinking.

My idea is that if Quantum Physics and Mechanics are true, (especially String Theory etc.), then that would mean that there are an unlimited amount of Universes where all things are happening or have already happened. So if there are an unlimited amount of Universes out there, the one where you have all things you ever wanted exists without question. In theory then, we can safely assume that we are living all of these Universes simultaneously, but the one that we are currently projecting physically is the one that we choose to be in, whether it is good or bad.

So what's to stop us from skipping over to another Universe, the Universe that brings us the most joy? In my opinion? Nothing. Since time and space are just restraints we put on ourselves mentally, accepting the fact that there is no time nor space means transition is completely within reason.

Let's say you like "X". In some Universe, you are already happily together, more in love than anyone could ever be, and because that is true, then we are never trying to impede on or override anyone's free will, because in essence it already exists and it is already happening. It isn't about trying to force the Universe you're in to bend to the will of your desires, because that only creates tension and resistance. Rather, it's about letting yourself enter that other parallel Universe with no resistance at all.

Nothing in the past, no error would ever matter, because like I said, in some Universe all the events lead up to this exact moment right now, you reading this text, and you STILL ended up together in a loving and happy relationship.

I'd really like some feedback on this concept. It sure has made me a lot more positive

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Hello, some of You know me from the topics about attracting ex back
As probably You all remember... I had very long road to go... but finally I did it. I attracted him back. Some of You could also know about my "problems" with making right choice which one I should choose - ex one or new one.

And finnally here it is - my choice.
I chose my ex.
And now I am with him. And he is with me.
We wanna rent a flat and live together, and also he chose a date of proposal...! I dont know that date It supposed to be srprise But he told me that he will propose
YAY! Im gonna tell You when it happens
I am so happy and I feel so safe. And we are together, he loves me so much and he told me that he always will, and always have loved me.

It was so hard times before I find out LOA and this forum. He told me so many bad things like "I dont love you any more" and "I dont wanna be with you"... but now he tolds me that it wasnt true. That he always have loved me and always will love me ! And I am the girl from his dreams and he wants me as his wife.

Thank You all for Your prayers, and good energy.
I have You all always in my thoughts. Every day in my prayers.
You helped me so much, and I love that sharing of energy. It is so powerful! And I am so happy. I love You people. Thank You!

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My dear LOA friends,

I want to share with all of you my inspiration story for today. I have been doing LOA for about 3 weeks now and WOW, it did wonders for me. Believe in your dreams. Visualize them daily and feel how great they feel. Feel every single detail of your dream, feel your love's hair on your hands, feel your love's hands in you hands, feel their warmth and feel how great you make THEM feel in your presence. Love them for what they are. Do it at least 30 min EVERY DAY>

Then... make a commitment to do something good for yourself EVERY day. What made me feel good in the last week was: a haircut, attending a great show, a lunch with co-workers for which I paid, shopping for my son, shopping for my love's Christmas present, watching my favorite TV show, reading this board.... and even crying.

Then, after making a BIG dream and making yourself feeling good, try to make smaller manifestations related to your BIG dream. It worked for me. Today, I just knew he was going to call me. I knew something good was going to happen and it did. I just imagined my phone ring and it felt so good!!! yes, he did call and we did something together (totally innocent and sweet, btw) that I was just casually offering to the Universe, and the Universe returned 3 times bigger.

Love your dream, love yourself for loving your dream and don't be afraid of your loving.

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Just came across this article, thought some of you might enjoy it.

No matter how successful we are, we can always use advanced law of attraction exercises to manifest greater prosperity and wealth in our lives. As an attraction coach, I have both taught and used the following exercises with great success. Try them out for yourself, and let your results be your guide.

1. All Possibilities Exist Simultaneously (a Meditation)

This law of attraction exercise requires you to take some time to yourself in quiet meditation. Begin by focusing on the concept that all possibilities exist simultaneously. This means that every possibility for your life already exists; you simply choose which of these possibilities you will experience based on your thoughts and beliefs.

For example, if the idea of being a millionaire is appealing to you, recognize that this reality ALREADY exists. This version of reality is present, just as all other versions of reality are present. If this sounds like an outrageous new age claim, you might be surprised to learn that it is actually a recognized and mathematically sound theory of physics, based on the work of quantum physics pioneer Niels Bohr back in the 1920s.

Dr. Bohr upset the traditional scientific view of reality by expressing mathematically the probability that there are an infinite number of potential universes, representing an infinite number of possibilities which are all valid and present at the same time. In physics circles, this is known as the Copenhagen School of Quantum Physics, and it is a well-established theory that has yet to be disapproved, despite nearly 100 years of challenges by some of the greatest minds in history - including Albert Einstein.

By meditating on the idea that all possibilities already exist, you can bring your mind into alignment with a particular version of reality that you would like to experience. As you daydream, and visualize yourself experiencing this reality, you come into greater and greater harmony with it. From there, it is simply a matter of using this law of attraction exercise consistently, with a calm and relaxed faith. The results can be quite powerful.

2. The Transmitter Exercise

This law of attraction exercise takes advantage of the human being's ability to control and change the vibe they are resonating out into the world. It is an established law of attraction precept that that which is like unto itself is drawn. In other words, whatever you are resonating is what you are attracting.

By taking this concept seriously and literally, you can begin to play a little mental game wherein you purposefully attempt to resonate a certain vibe. For example, if you'd like to experience great wealth, you begin making a point to transmit the vibration of wealth to the universe. You do this by getting a strong mental image of yourself ALREADY being a wealthy person, and then see yourself transmitting this energy or vibration out around you everywhere you go.

Practice transmitting your vibe stronger and further. If you are walking in a crowded shopping center, for example, see yourself transmitting your vibe to everyone and everything around you, and with great strength. This law of attraction exercise can be used for manifesting wealth and prosperity, but it is also effective in many other areas. The key is to see a visual representation of your waves of energy moving out into the world and affecting all of creation. Try it for yourself and see why the transmitter exercise is so popular.

3. The Gatekeeper Exercise

This is one of my favorite advanced law of attraction exercises. In a way, it's the complete opposite of the transmitter exercise, because it is not concerned with the vibration you are sending out, but instead focuses entirely on the vibrations you are letting in. Here's how it works.

The idea of the gatekeeper exercise is to take a period of time (an afternoon, for example), and become very aware of anything and everything that is on your radar. As you become aware of things in your environment that are vying for your attention, you will play the part of a gatekeeper (or maybe a bouncer at a nightclub) by allowing in ONLY the things that increase your feelings of well-being - the good vibes.

The gatekeeper exercise is actually about exclusion, which is one of the most important aspects of practicing the law of attraction. By being an effective bouncer of your own inner sanctuary, you will learn to remove your focus from things that do not give you positive energy, and ONLY allow things in if they contribute to your positive state of mind.

This is one of the most powerful advanced law of attraction exercises a person can use. It teaches us the value of focusing our attention with laser-like precision on what we want, while allowing what we don't want to fall away. In my experience, there is no better way to begin to attract wealth than by using this exercise.

Try all three of these advanced law of attraction exercises to manifest wealth (and anything else you desire) - you are sure to see a big difference in what shows up in your life in no time at all.

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I decided to write a lil something because I see so many posts right now where people are worried about not being able to feel gratitude, happiness and all the good feelings were told we need to feel to manifest.

Its pretty amazing the days where everything is clicking isnt it?  Everything is flowing in the direction you want it to.  Youre happy, youre feeling good and you hardly think about your ex.  When you do it makes you happy.  Then like a wet hand in the snow it slaps you.  You start having doubt, negative thoughts of your ex, negative thoughts of your future and it seems like everything you want has just slipped away.  Nothing has changed, theres been nothing or no reason for this. 

So you freak.  Why am I feeling this way?  Why cant I feel gratitude or happiness.  Why isnt my ex back with me?  Why is this feeling getting worse and worse instead of better?

Well, I have done a lil thought, as I have gone through this more then once.  Its a cycle you have to get yourself out of.  The universe will keep you in that endless loop until you learn what it is you need to learn.  So what is it you need to learn?  Well, I cant speak for your exact experience, but I will let you know what I have learned.  Maybe that will help. 

I kept going through that constant cycle.  I also noticed the cycle got worse and worse.  Every time I went through a down phase it got worse and worse.  More doubt about everything.  More pain about everything.  More guilt about everything.  Then I would go through a good phase.  And it would be great.  No doubt.  No pain.  No guilt.  Then repeat.  I felt I was failing at this whole thing.

So doing what I do, I searched.  I literally dropped to my knees at one point to ask for guidance, the pain just got that intense.  Soon after I ran across a book.  Soon after that, another book.  So i read.  In both books I noticed how much mind set once again played a part.  It also hit me.  All these feelings, are natural.  However you want to look at it, if we were created by god, or made from the big bang theory, we have a range of emotions.  These emotions play their roll.  We are taught through various social programing through the years that some of these feelings arent good to feel.  So what happens?  We shove em down.  Bury them under the mud. 

After years of doing this, how much stuff do you think is buried in the mud?  What is going on here is simple, so simple we over look it.  Before we started on this journey most of us were like a stagnant river.  We decided to take this lil journey and basically released the damn.  What happens when fresh clean water runs over the loose mud you have been burring everything under?  It all slowly gets washed away and guess what, everything youve buried starts to come out.   Some stuff is deeper then others.

So what does it all mean?  It means you will feel bad, you will feel like crap and you will have doubts.  Its natural.  DONT fight it.  That doesnt mean let yourself get wrapped up in the emotions and let them run your life.  However, dont notice theyre coming up and try to bury them down further.  When you do this, it adds to the next level of stuff you need to clear out, the feelings get more intense.  Thats how I got caught up in the cycle.  I was going through emotional hell for a few months off and on until it clicked.  Dont fight it.  Let the feelings come, feel them and release them  Heres the hard one.  Be thankful for everyone of those feelings.  Why?  If it wasnt for those feelings you wouldnt know where to go.  Which direction is right and which one is destruction. 

Does it get better?  You bet!  The most important thing I have found to remember is we are human.  We arent robots.  You wont program yourself to feel good all the time.  I know someone might say, well what about monks who meditate or what about this guru or that.  Heres the thing, they all feel down times.  They have just cleared the mud out and they dont bury it.  They focus on it, figure out why, learn how to adjust or avoid what caused it and then focus on the positive.

Since I started letting my system purge and not fight it, I have been feeling my girl more and more every day.  If its not her, then im going crazy.  And honestly I like it, so its fine by me  .  So please, dont worry yourself when you feel bad.  Ask what it is you can learn from every feeling and thought.  If you do that and give gratitude for learning, you will find what you need and everything will smooth out.

Hope that helps someone out there.......sorry if it was a bit long

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My love and I broke up about 6 weeks ago.  It was a very ugly breakup and we hurt each other.  We were so intensely in love and had fears that we allowed to overcome us. 

I decided that I wanted him back, and made a visionboard that I looked at a lot to evoke feelings of love and excitement.  There were times I had to put it away for a few days and turn my attention to other things because I was feeling kind of low, and didn't want to look at my board unless I was able to feel good things.  I imagined myself doing things without him and being happy then, too.

I got stronger and stronger in myself.  I tend to be a depressed kind of person and this was the single most difficult thing I've ever done, but by sheer force of will, I MADE myself feel happy and excited about my future, whether it contained this man or not.

I have practiced meditation consistently.  I have prayed.  I have asked for answers and guidance and listened very closely for the answers.  What's helped me immensely for a couple of weeks now has been listening to Abraham Hicks on youtube.  Can't recommend this enough.

I know you can't demand manifestation, and you actually delay it with desperation and neediness.  But today, I felt the desire for my love so intensely that I can't even describe it.  It was a powerful, intense, determined desire but it was not needy.  Just desire.  I wanted something to happen today so much because I am leaving town in 2 days for a week and wanted to have him back in my life before I left, and also for Christmas, even if we weren't going to be together.  I have never felt such determination and desire for anything in my life before.  I felt overwhelmed with excitement because I knew how it would feel when it would happen.

And it did!  After 3 weeks of no phone contact and 5 weeks of no physical contact, we saw each other tonight.  He was SO sweet.  He told me several times how much he's missed me, and shocked me with "I love you."  We kissed constantly and he's coming to see me tomorrow. 

I knew it would happen as much as I knew the sun will rise in the morning.  When it did, I wasn't surprised, just ecstatic. We didn't have a single negative moment and I expect us to grow closer than ever.  I know that will happen.  I hope this gives somebody some encouragement.  I didn't really need any validation that the LOA works but I can add this to my proof list.

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The love of my life called me today.  Yahooooooooo

2 days back while chatting with her(she was not very interested) I had simply taken a leap of faith and told her I wished to speak to her. She had replied after sometime that she would call me later in the night. She did not call. I did not wait up but went to sleep and did not feel bad that she did not call. Yesterday while I at work she called, but I was in a meeting then. I just stared surprised at the phone, it rung for like 15 seconds and stopped, she did not even wait for the full minute for me to pick the call. Anyway I did not call her back.

I thought of it as a test that I passed. She did not call the first night, I did not feel bad, she called yesterday I missed it but I did not feel like calling her back.

But today she called again. She said she had lost my number, her phone had got wet and all. She found my number in her mail. Maybe it is the truth but I take it as a good sign that she felt compelled to give me an explanation. I was cool throughout, no excitement, polite, nice, ice cool. I asked when the phone got wet and on her telling me simplt remarked that maybe that was why she could not reply to me on her birthday when I had called her and messaged her. Her response to this I don't know whether to think of it as surprise(if she really did not know) or acting. I will keep an open mind about it anyway.

She asked me about my life, my job and all. I answered. She asked about my parents. Then she herself said she will be going home to her parents this holiday. I said nice good you  will meet them after a long time. She said she has exams going on. I did not ask her much about herself. I asked how is her mom and famliy. She said all good. I wished her all the best for her exams and said goodbye.


It felt good. But I am not partuicularly thrilled on her calling. I  am not desperate. I am detached to a great degree.

I am at peace. 

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I shared this with Mariposa, so I thought I'd share it with you guys too :

I kept seeing this Toyota everywhere and I kept saying to myself : it would be nice to have a brand new car like that one. And I kept thinking : I'd like it in this particular blue color. About a month ago I heard about this contest and the prize was the Toyota car that I really like.  I participated, and then let it go, believing the car was mine already. I would imagine myself driving it, and for some strange reason, listening to a crazy song that keeps playing in my mind. Two weeks later I got a call from Toyota.   My name was picked out, out of thousands of names. I now have my brand new blue Toyota. It's worth 13 000 euros, I don't know how much that is in dollars. I'd say about 16 or 17 000 USD. Needless to say, that's a huge manifestation. And I drive it with that crazy song on full blast 

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Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be

To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’

So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.

So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!

Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.

Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.

There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.

Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.

PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail

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I first learned about the LOA around June. I saw it as a philosophy that is very true, it resonated with me.

When I found out about it, I was single, just got dumped by the love of my life. It was hard and scary. I got this amazing idea, if I create my desires through the contrast I live and I then attract what I recieve based on my thoughts then I could totally re-create then attract my relationship with Bundy. If I destroyed that relationship with my thoughts, I can totally create a beautiful one with my thoughts.

When you ask, it is Given. So I know it is done. For a long time though, I kept thinking to myself "So where is it? Where is it? Whens it gonna happen? Why hasnt it happened yet?". That is never going to get me to where I want to be. You cant be aware of its absence and then experience its presence.

I read alot, I listed alot, I thought alot, I appreciated alot, I smiled alot and I have fallen in love with myself for the first time in my life.

Lately, I have been feeling relaxed, excited and content. I feel excited about my future when it comes to love and I am content with my present singledom haha. Truly. I love this man unconditionally, I love myself unconditionally and it took me a long time to get to this point but what matters is that I feel this way now and I will keep updating on this thread throughout my journey in allowing this love to manifest physically. I tend to focus alot on it's absence because I have a strong focus in general and you gotta admit reality can get pretty compelling. Its something I work on everyday, shifting my focus to what feels good. I get better everyday. I feel amazing and I feel him loving me just as much. I know he still loves me actually and not just because he said so but because I feel it within myself.

I didnt get to this point in one day or one week or one month, it took alot of meditating, thinking and loving myself for me to get to the peace I feel today. I know my journey is not over, and thats ok because I am really enjoying the solitude and other important things that are going on in my life. My work, the holidays, getting my new car, building my turtle a new habitat, new friends. Lots of things going on right now which Im enjoying, but the most important thing I am enjoying is being by myself thinking and just loving and just being.

Ill keep posting about my amazing journey and experience when it comes to having my gorgeous amazing beautiful man in my life. I dont think much about letting go because its such a relative term. I understand detattchment. I understand it's concept but its not something I focus on too much, I figure it will come on its own if it hasnt already. I feel good. I love myself. I know things are always working out for me and Im excited to see where this journey takes me.

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