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Hey Guys,
Okay, this is going to be very strong and harsh for some of you ... but I think it's something you need to hear. Heck, I needed to hear it and did in fact hear it many times throughout the years as I was looking for that perfect 'someone,' (whom you can now see in my Avatar pic ... and if you want to know about our meeting read up on the post 'How I Met my Twin Flame from Across the World through Twitter' ;-)
Here's how the manifestation of any goal, no matter how big or small, works at a very basic level
* It is both initiated and maintained by you.
Meaning, the goal has to be created completely by you ... it has to be started by you ... and must continue being given the 'effort' and 'intention' and 'action by you. This includes goals for finding or attracting that perfect person you believe to be is for you ... including the person you might want to 'get back,' for those of you whom broke up with someone and want them back ...
Now listen, I know ... I KNOW how difficult it can be when you're in the midst of that feeling of desire for a specific person. It's hard! I'm not going to pretend it's not ... because if you're in that place of desire ... than you're in a specific type of place in your life where, what's really going on at a much deeper level, is you are lacking a sense of 'wholeness' to yourself when it comes to the relationship with yourself. Later on if you have the intention that you will become more and more full within yourself and develop a greater sense of self-love where you don't 'need' someone else to make you happy, or that not having someone specifically is making you upset, then you can definitely get there, and eventually it won't be 'hard' to release the intense desire for a specific person ...
But for those of you that do have that experience of raging, firey and burning passionate desire for someone ... you need to read this message, and read it over and over again until you get it:
Let it go!
The person you want isn't truly that person you imagine it to be. It's the idea of what that person would bring in your life ... or the idea of what they did bring in your life once before, but now doesn't.
Consider this .... when you think about being with that person, what are you seeing your head? Are you seeing you two laughing together? Having fun together? Playing together? Cuddling together? Making love together?
Most likely your answer is yes to some, if not all of that ... so let's go a step deeper ...
What feelings do all those things arise within you? Do you imagine a sense of joy? A sense of contentment? Fulfillment? Peace? Happiness?
If so then the case is, as I suggested earlier, that you're lacking a true sense of love for yourself .... because it is through 'self-love' that all those experiences truly come to be. Sure, others can be 'part of it,' but unless we truly develop self-love, there will always be a problem. Besides, if you're attracting someone from this place of lack and near desperation ... than once you have them in your life, those feelings will just be hidden through the facade of a different route -- they will turn into jealousy at every glance that partner gives another person ... or anxiousness that they're going to lead you ... or feelings of unworthiness, and that you don't deserve them ....
Those experiences, those feelings within, they morph!
So what's one to do? Well, starting to love yourself for who you are is a great step. How do you do that? I won't get into it here because it's an entire subject by itself and there are plenty of resources to develop that love (I'd recommend checking out You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hay) ...
So that's step 1 ... focusing on the love for yourself and doing whatever it takes to develop that love ...
Next, and in the process of doing that ... You CAN focus on attracting someone into your life ... but stop trying to attract someone to fulfill you ... start focusing on finding someone that tops you off (meaning, you're 100%, and when they come in your life it's like the cherry on top to get 111%). Think of the specific qualities of the person you've been feeling a burning desire for. Write those qualities. NOT the person, the qualities ... what you love about them. Once you've done that, get that person out of your head and SINCERELY focus on attracting someone with those qualities into your ...
Does this mean we should never, ever, go after one person specifically? No, it actually doesn't, contrary to the way this post may seem. But what it does mean is we never go after a person with those feelings of lack, desperation and neediness. For those of you that are experiencing those feelings, the best thing you can do is to get that person out of your head entirely because all it is doing at this point is fueling those feelings of lack, desperation and neediness. Get fulfilled within first. Become strong within. Come to love yourself first. Start with you ... and then attract the qualities of the person you wish to Manifest.
And most of all, have faith that you can get to this point in your life that is so full of self-love that you no longer NEED someone else ... because you're fulfilled. It is from that place that you'll likely find your ideal relationship.
Do share your thoughts and let me know if you have any questions. I know this post comes across very strong ... but I do it because I care.
With Love & Gratitude,
--Sean Patrick Simpson
www.AdventuresInManifesting.org
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