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Hey people! Here is my take on detachment, particularly pertaining to relationships. I will try my best to keep it precise, understandable and practically applicable. Feel free to discuss it further here or PM if need be

To understand what detachment IS, first it is important to understand what detachment ISN’T. Detachment IS NOT giving up, saying ‘I am tired and I don’t care anymore now’ or saying ‘I guess it was never meant to be’. These are not letting go of resistance. These are letting go of the DESIRE ITSELF! Such an attitude will keep your boyfriend/girlfriend even away from you. Detachment is not a state of ‘no desire’ its just a state of ‘no resistance’

So its important to see that detachment doesn’t mean ‘not desiring’ it rather means ‘not worrying or doubting or controlling’. Detachment is a state of being. It’s a state where you do not ‘need’ him/her to complete you. It’s a state of feeling whole by yourself. A state of absolute independence. By ‘independence’ I mean not depending on him/her for your happiness, joy, peace, etc. This takes us to an important question: Is it bad to be interdependent in a relationship by showing care and affection? Of course, its not bad to feel affectionate about someone. Give and take of affection and care are essential to any relationship. But its important to differentiate between affection and attachment. Most people tend to get confused between what they think is affection, but which in reality is attachment. You like another person, care about him/her, feel happy for their successes, etc-this is affection. You get absolutely tensed up when he/she, for whatever reasons, do not talk properly to you once, you feel absolutely powerless without them in your life, you need them to make you happy and you cannot be happy by yourself-this is attachment. The problem is, on the surface, attachment looks like affection. For instance, if you say ‘I love him/her so much that I would not survive without him/her’ it seems like love and affection alright, but if you really mean ‘you cannot survive without him/her’, then you are highly dependent on him/her for your well-being and hence, you are attached.

So how do you let go of that attachment or need? By loving yourself totally, accepting yourself and respecting yourself completely. And most importantly, taking up responsibility for your own feelings and not resting that power in the other person’s hand. This is actually already known. But there is a common mistake people tend to do in this phase. It is this: They love, respect and accept themselves ‘in order to’ attract the other person! So this self-love, self-respect and self-acceptance which are meant to make you feel good turn into efforts for attracting that person. When you do this in order to gain that relationship, in essence you are saying that ‘I do not have that relationship still. So I am going to love myself totally so that I can attract my love’. By doing this, you are focusing on ‘not having the relationship yet’. So you’ll end up attracting more of ‘not having that relationship yet’! If you love yourself as an effort to attract love back, then you haven’t let go at all. True detachment happens when you love yourself because you recognize your worth, because you truly respect yourself, because you feel and know that you are special and unique. You do not love yourself with an agenda to attract someone, you love yourself just because you love yourself! To fall in love with yourself, start appreciating everything about you: your eyes, nose, hair, body, your ability to talk well, your ability to help others, the way you make your friends smile…it could be anything. Make a list of all the things you love about yourself that make you proud of yourself. Gradually you’ll find so many things to appreciate about yourself and you’ll be amazed at how special you are. That’s when you won’t ‘need’ anyone else to complete you!

Now that was the first part of detachment, where you become happy even without your boyfriend/girlfriend in your life. There is another part, which is letting go of worrying, over analyzing, doubting or trying to control the manifestation. This happens to most of us and can seem quite difficult to overcome. But it isn’t that difficult in reality. In most cases, when you think about someone just randomly for a while and forget it, chances are more that you bump into that person in a short while. But you think about your lover for over days and weeks, and they seem nowhere around you. The reason is simple, when you thought about that random person, you were not worried about seeing them or not. You did not feel anxious or impatient to see them. You just forgot about them and they appeared in front of you. In case of your lover, you kept thinking about him/her over and over again. When you think with feelings even just once, your desire gets registered. But when you think over and over again, slowly anxiety, impatience, doubt and worry seep in. This blocks your way to manifest. So the best way is to forget about the desire once it is set. Your desire gets registered with the Universe when you set it even once, and by not over-thinking it, you are not even blocking its way.

Now comes the most asked question: I cannot stop thinking about him/her. How can I stop? The answer is simple again: You don’t have to ‘stop’ thinking about him/her. You just have to ‘start’ thinking about other things! Initially its a deliberate action of shifting thoughts, but with practice, it becomes automatic where you no longer think of him/her. You start focusing on other manifestations in your life and totally let go his/her need. That’s when he/she gets attracted back to you.

There is another commonly asked question: How is it possible to visualize/affirm and let go at the same time? By stopping visualizing/affirming am I ruining my manifestation? The answer is, it depends on what you are feeling while visualizing/affirming. If you are visualizing just because you feel happy while doing so and you don’t worry about the manifestation, then you are detached. But if you are feeling ‘By visualizing/affirming I am going to feel good. By feeling good I can supposedly attract him/her back’ then you are again operating from a place of attachment and lack. So you have to stop and shift your thoughts. By stopping visualizations you do not ruin your manifestation because even if you have visualized with feelings once, your desire is set to manifest. However, by visualizing/affirming over and over again from a place of lack, need and attachment, you do ruin your manifestation.

Here is the most important note: STOP WORRYING WHY HE/SHE DID NOT CONTACT YOU. WHEN THEY CONTACT YOU, DON’T ANALYZE WHY THEY SAID OR DID NOT SAY CERTAIN WORDS. WHEN YOU GET THEM BACK DON’T FEEL ANXIOUS THAT THEY MAY LEAVE YOU AGAIN. WHEN THEY ARE WITH YOU, DON’T THINK OF THEIR PAST ACTIONS AND GET FRUSTRATED. FORGIVE AND LOVE THEM COMPLETELY JUST LIKE YOU DO TO YOURSELF
Remember, detachment is not being cold, indifferent or uncaring. Detachment is filling yourself with so much peace and love that nothing affects your well being, and which also enables you to spread love and peace wherever you go.

PS. There is much more to discuss detachment. I would have loved to state some real life examples and explain. But the post is really long and can be tedious to read if it gets longer. So I hope we can all take it further from here and I can discuss in more detail

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So...
For those of you who don't know my story: 4 Year relationship; 3months no contact; 2 months texting contact.

Last time I questioned Shankar's motives because we had been texting constantly and then I didnt hear from him for a whole weekend and panicked; over-analysed etc.

After beginning the constant texting again he randomly stopped for, its been 3 days now. Guess what? Im fine. I cant believe how I'm feeling. I'm just not bothered.

I made the decision to let go- really let go BECAUSE I dont want to feel the pain of attachment anymore. I trust the Universe and I know he's on his way back. I guess this is what they mean when they say you have to have faith- because letting go is the scariest part, it does feel like your forgetting about your initial goal.

But that's the point.

This is a gradual process now, no-one can let go overnight, but I feel a lot stronger and I'm more conscious about my thinking, and controlling negative thoughts.

Now that the Universe is sorting it all out gives me time to focus on my weight issues (since losing a lot since the break up) I'm done with the affirmations and ways to manifest him back- I'm going to put all my efforts in to me. And I'm happy, as if he's already here.

I wrote him a letter that I read to the Universe on 11/11/11 Thanking him for everything, telling him I forgive him for all the hurt, apologizing for the hurt I caused him and stating that I love him. Then I burnt the letter.

ADVICE:

Something I've noticed is most of us know letting go is the key but we always ask the people who manifest love back 'how?' I think I know.
When learning letting go was the key, i thought I was doing it but I was still affirming, visualizing, practicing RS etc. I believe you need to go through a 'process' and it has to happen. It can't be rushed. You just can't expect to 'let go' off the bat, you have to get to the place on your own.

I thought I had let go that's why I initiated contact (I was given signs by the Universe) so I expected it to go my way and it didnt. I always used to question why the Universe inspired me to text him when he clearly didnt fall down on his knees but later on in the month he confessed his mum was extremely ill. I am really grateful I got back into his life at this point, to be there for him when I can. Amazing really.

So dont force yourself to let go because that wont happen. It wont be pure. I began affirming that I am secure and confident and worthy. My faith has built so letting go for me is easier now. Do what you need to do, affirm, visualize, practice other methods of grabbing your exes attention subconsciously- even the successors went through this. There will come a point where you will realize you dont need to do it anymore and you can just stop and let the Universe bring them back.

For me, letting go happened when I affirmed about ME, solely about me and nothing about him. Focus on You and the letting go will happen.

I hope this helped people who are having similiar issues 

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im posting this because i keep seeing that alot of folks have this issue.

ok so today, I did a search on amargi Hiller, the author of mind power seduction, and i came across this link for a fourm where people were asking about it, this was back in 2005/2006.

so many times i read people's posts about how sad they are that "it's just not working" and i scratch my head and wonder what went wrong.

well today I came across a very detailed post from a guy who used MPS seduction, and he stated it did and didn't work and he went into detail.

it did cause a reaction within his ex one that he noticed but he didn't get her back, shocked i kept reading and fortunetly he opened up about his experiences.

he stated that while doing the MPS, ie being in the altered state, doing the visualizing and touching etc. he felt great doing it. HOWEVER, about a hour later, he went right back to feeling lonely, down, a sense of loss and negative. if anyone here has been experiencing this, pay attention this is important.

he also stated that he noticed, when ever he lose a girl, and didn't really much care about getting her back either way. he got that "magical second chance" however the one's he REALLY wanted to get back, with such a longing. they didn't.

now...do you know what his problem is? I do

then he made the most out landish statment. he said "it works fine, they think about you and become arracted to you it just doesn't work to bring them back.

first thing, he does the mind seduction, then goes right back to feeling as if he doesn't have her. one of the most important parts of manifesting. it "BELEIVE AND YOU WILL SEE"

everyone from Robert Bruce, Rishin B, Robert Anthony, Amagri Hiller,Franz Bardon william walker ankinson say this.  "in order the manifest anything in this 3D reality, you must first believe it already exists NOW.

his first problem is, he feels it during his visualizations, then goes back to feeling as if he doesn't have it, thats completely conter productive. if you do MPS for 1 hour, and feel as if it's happening, then spend the next 11 hours wanting, feelign lose or not having it. guess which vibration has more power?

the Second thing he states should have been the real kick for him since he noticed it. he gets a second chance with those people he doesn't care one way or the other, yet thsoe he desperatly wants he doesn't get them at all.

he is Attached to tha out come, the ones he doesn't care about come because he is detached, the ones he wants so bad don't because he is attached.

and third. he states that MPS works just fine and delivers it's  but it doesn't work on ex's, after stating all of his own observations he should have reaized that he was getting in his own way with his attachment and feeling of not having/loneliness.

consider this if you've been doing your daily practices and haven't seen results, how are you feeling some times after words? are you attached or detached?

how would you feel if you already had them NOW? this is how you want to feel, this tells the universe "I Beleive" and this is what is dilivered.

go to wikipedia and type in ''the power of now'', you'll see a listing of  sections talking about not living in the now and living in the now AND how to practice it.

and by all means, practice it.

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I attracted back my ex about a year ago on the exact day that I declared to the universe that I would (11/11).  This was the first and last big thing that I have manifested in my life (now i'm working on an awesome career!!  )

I'm posting in the relationship section because I have the most experience with this topic and it seems to be by far the most popular on the site.  The point I want to make will help you attract your ex back (if that is what you want) or with anything that you are trying to manifest.  But I found in my experience this is VERY VERY important with getting yourself in the "Receive" mood of the three step process.

NOTE: You must be past grieving for the loss of your ex, you must be feeling that very special happy feeling of them being back, and you must be ready to be back together with them.  If you are not at the point of thinking every once in awhile "eh.. maybe I am ready to move on... maybe I could start dating other people and be happy", then you are not close enough to the "receive" phase and are not going to be ready to manifest your desires.

Once you are in the very very special place in your process but still want it very much.. you must have your exterior world match what you are trying to manifest.  For example:  My boyfriend had pretty much lived with me in my house before we broke up.  Once we broke up, i removed EVERYTHING of his from my room and gave it back to him. then I stumbled upon The Secret a couple months later, and it really hit a key with me.  I tried and tried and tried and tried and things would seem to be going better and then something devastating would happen and I thought it was hopeless. and then I would regain strength and keep up my visualizations and happy feelings, etc.  Then I read about this key aspect of the whole thing and I tried it.  within two weeks he was back!!  So this key aspect, like I said, is making sure that your exterior world matches up with what you are trying to manifest.  sooo, I moved my clothes over in my closet and left space where all of his clothes used to be.  I cleared out my clothes that were in his old drawer in my dresser and actually cleared out ANOTHER one too so he would have even more space for his clothes than what he had before! and I had found one of his shirts that I had missed when I cleared all of his stuff out, so I got that out and placed it very neatly on a hanger and hung it in the spot where his clothes were going to be.  In the bathroom, I cleared out his side of the medicine cabinet to make space for all of his things again. And I felt SOO good about it as I did it.  Once my closet was reorganized back to its formal glory, I stood back and felt SOO good about it.  I stood there and imagined all of his clothes hung up again and the drawers of the dresser with all his boxers and jeans and socks...

I've read something else very similar to this where a lady was trying to attract a man into her life, and she was doing everything she was supposed to and it wasn't happening.. then she realized this same thing I'm talking about.  She had a double car garage and instead of parking in the center, she parked on one side so her man's car would have room too. she made room in her closet for his clothes. she started sleeping on one side of the bed instead of in the middle (this one was huge for me too.. haha).  within a couple weeks, she met the man that she had been imagining all along!

While in this phase, do not surround yourself with ANYTHING negative.  do not listen to sad love music. do not listen to your best friends love troubles. do not watch sad love movies. do not do anything that contradicts what you are trying to manifest.  (And sad to say, this includes what you are posting on this site and reading on this site.)

In EVERY aspect of your life, you must be ready for your ex to come back.  and there they will be.

Like I said, I am now trying to manifest an awesome career. I've had some interviews, but nothing has stuck. but I KNOW that the most recent interview i've had was great and I will be getting a call next week.  It's been a couple weeks, but I'm believing and imagining and all that goodness. and just yesterday I started to use my vacation time at my job now (but not actually go on vacation) to use it up before I start my other job!!!  I'm going to hem some dress pants I have so they are ready to go when I start!!  I'm going to get out my nice shoes and place them in my closet because very soon, they will getting worn everyday!!  and I'm so excited for my call because I'm manifesting that they are not going to offer me the position that I interviewed for but an even better one with better pay!!!! How's that for the law of attraction!! haha

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I just got this site  http://www.loa-step-by-step.com/ in which how to use LOA in our daily life is easily described.....

I hope it will help to those who are still confused about LOA....

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My father gave me a beautiful blank golden, lined, hardcover notebook with turtles etched on the front and back, for christmas last year around the time where i discovered LOA and on the first page, he wrote "a beautiful journal for the beautiful thoughts of my beautiful daughter. Remember: never be in the clouds, always be in the sky!" and i never really knew how important it was to me, until i started to write in it. I thought to myself "you know, what if this notebook wasn't ordinary, what if it had magical powers, and that everything i wrote in it came true?" so i decided to put it to the test. I wanted to attract my exboyfriend bobby, (which at the time i thought was nearly impossible, since the last thing he said to me a year ago was "stay out of my life, you crazy____) so i started a list which i called "small goals" and below that i put a phrase i made up "let this golden magical notebook release positive vibrations to make all the dreams stated below a reality."

I first wrote down two small things i wanted to happen: the first i put down "Bobby will text me a 30 minute (or more) conversation." the second i put down "Bobby will text 'where are you?' and meet me face to face." i put the date i imagined the idea, and an empty check box next to each idea. I then closed the notebook, and just trusted that everything i put down there will happen, and that i don't need to worry about it.

Result?
EXACTLY 3 weeks after i wrote down the two small goals, they became a reality.
What is even stranger, is that they both happened on the same day. 

I was completely blown away by these results and i continued to put more and more small goals down in my magic notebook and they keep coming true.

What's really funny, is that after my first two goals came true, he stopped talking to me for a week, and i thought "huh, i wonder why this all stopped." and i didn't realize it until later, that it was because i didn't put down what i wanted to do next! 

I hope this story inspires you to go out there and make your dreams come true!
the Laws of Attraction Truly work!!! 

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From this day on.  I will not let the actions and words of others, deter me from my goals.  I will not let the actions and words of others effect the way I feel about myself.  I am full of love.  I have faith in myself to create all that I wish to create.  I deserve to have my desires fulfilled.  I will share my love with all those around me.  I will find the positive in every situation I encounter.  I will live my life to the fullest.  My choices will be made out of love.  My life will be lived out of love.  Success is my only option.

This is something I plan on repeating daily to myself.  If you want you can use this or post up one of your own.  I would love to hear what you have to tell yourself.

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This thread is to be a resource for information on attracting an ex back so that hopefully you can find what you are looking for easily. Please feel free to reply to this thread with links to things or posts that you find helpful and see repeated often so it can be added to this post. If you want personal specific advice, please start another thread.  Thank you. 



Articles & Posts on Getting Your Ex Back

Getting Your Ex Lover Back by Mallica (read the comments too, they're very helpful)
http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/getting-your-ex-lover-back

Bible of Getting Your Ex Back - DNS Post
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/bible-of-getting-your-ex-back-dns-post/

How to Get Your Ex Back: The Law of Attraction Way
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/how-to-get-your-ex-back/#

Iron Ur's Guide
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/here-is-the-plan-i-promisesd-you/

Yes, You Can Attract A Specific Person in Your Life
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/article-how-to-attract-a-specific-person-%28using-loa%29/msg44955/#msg44955

Articles & Posts on Detachment

Creating a New Thought Process-Much Like Trailblazing
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/creating-a-new-thought-process-much-like-trail-blazing/msg30894/#msg30894

How NOT to Tempt Fate - Just Keep Quiet!
http://www.mind-your-reality.com/tempt_fate.html

Just a Thought on Letting Go and Finding Inner Peace, Love and Happiness
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/just-a-thought-on-letting-go-and-finding-inner-peace-love-and-happiness/msg26949/#msg26949

The 'Letting Go' Method
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction-12/the-%27letting-go%27-method/msg59612/?topicseen#new

Plant the Seed---Then Let it Grow
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/plant-the-seed-then-let-it-grow/msg30801/#msg30801

The Beautiful Thing About Time Delays
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/the-beautiful-thing-about-time-delays/msg19932/#msg19932

Breaking 'No-Contact'?
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/in-answer-to-do-i-contact-the-lover-i%27m-aligning-with-aligned-with/

Having Let Go Feels Amazing!
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/having-let-go-feels-amazing!/

Detachment and Relationships
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/detachment-and-relationships-%29/

FAQ

Law of Attraction for Perfect Relationship
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/law-of-attraction-perfect-relationship/

Attracting a Specific Person - It Can be Done!
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/answer-attracting-a-specific-person-it-can-be-done/

For Us All (A thread discussing Free Will and the LoA)
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/for-us-all/msg35545/#msg35545

Attract Your Ex Back with LoA - A Violation of Free Will?
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/attract-your-ex-back-with-the-law-of-attraction-a-violation-of-free-will/msg2445/#msg2445

What About This? (Thread discussing if it's impossible to attract an ex back)
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/what-about-this/msg25586/#msg25586

On Changing the way another is treating you
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/this-is-a-post-about-why-you-can-change-the-way-another-is-treating-you/

Articles on Sending Love & Remote Seduction

Telepathic Love Therapy
http://www.vibrational-alchemy.com/telepathic/intro.htm

Thread about Sending Loving Thoughts to Ex
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/sending-loving-thoughts-to-ex/

Remote Seduction
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/remote-seduction/


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The Fun Stuff…Success Stories!

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Balasus - I am Back With My Girl
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Christy Michelle's success story
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DHaynes…Success with LoA
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DHaynes - My Journey N Where We Are Now!
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Encouragement for Attracting a Lost Love
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Giggles - My success story about attracting love back - I made a choice
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Jasminestar - I used LOA to manifest my perfect relationship
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Katie - The Time Has Come for My Success Story
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Lovemeback - Got My GF Back
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Marioska - How I Attracted My Love Back ^^ Thank You Everyone!
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MinDiddy - Stick With It! It Works!
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Oceanblue - From no contact to "I love you"
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OmAumOm - My Success Story!!!!!!
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Priestess - HE IS BACK!!! My Success Story!
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Sweet Spirit - My Need for Detachment in My Relationship and Why I Feel it is Necessary (make sure to get to post #24)
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When the evidence all around you screams that your one desire in life is impossible, sometimes its difficult to keep the faith in the universal laws of attraction.

But if you do, we promise you that your faith will not be misplaced. The Number One mistake people make when utilizing the universal law of attraction is giving in to external reality -- the circumstances around them --that shout that what you're aiming for is impossible.

All too often, individuals see the conditions in their environment and automatically give up on the law. They allow themselves to become frustrated. Little do they realize that the universal laws of attraction are still at work -- even when they do become frustrated. Their frustration, you see, only attracts even more frustration.

This frustration and pessimism stems from a basic lack of faith in the law of attraction. It is understandable, of course, if you've never had the pleasure of putting the law to work for you. Society has conditioned us to think that the only way we can possibly believe something is to see it first.

The law of attraction, though, actually works backwards from what we would consider normal. You won't see your desires or goals until you firmly believe they will become a reality. In essence, you'll see it when you'll believe it.

If you keep the faith, though, and keep believing that the laws of attraction are at work for you, then you'll experience two exciting outcomes.


First; because your belief in the law never wavers, your desires will materialize sooner than you anticipated. And second, your staunch faith in the law of attraction allows you to confidently ignore the external evidence, no matter how loudly it might be screaming around you.

The universal laws of attraction are not only the amazing link to all of your dreams and desires, but these amazing laws can give you the confidence to ignore all the naysayers surrounding you.

Keeping the faith is, in the long run, a simply marvelous habit. When you believe in the universal laws of attraction, you'll find that if you truly have faith in your dreams -- if these are the things you sincerely want to manifest in your life -- and you march confidently in their direction, the law of attraction will gladly conspire with you to make them materialize.

While the law may not use an overnight delivery service, it will indeed deliver, if you do your part too!



When you make a list of your desires, you're basically telling the law of attraction that you're serious about success. But that's only half the battle in the game.

As you read over the list that you've expressly created, you need to bless it and allow it to be lifted up to the universe. Release your dreams and desires. Send them off so the universal laws of attraction may take them and mold them as opportunities to present themselves to you.

Even though they may be your very personal and very important goals, keep in mind that you're passing them on to the infinite wisdom of the universe. You're basically telling the universal law of attraction to do what needs to be done with these goals.

Don't worry. don't fret. Don't fear. Because once you release your most precious dreams to the universe, the entire infinite potential and wisdom of all creation is working toward manifesting them just for you through the law of attraction. That's right! The entire might of the world, nay, the entire universe is planning the best and quickest route to get these goals realized.

This means the universal law of attraction will have you bumping into people seemingly at random. But it wont be. You'll find telephone numbers you'll need to further your cause with greater ease. But that wont be an accident either. You'll notice that you are getting to where you want to be, if you just take the cues.

Once you realize your goals, don't be blind to coincidences. Once you realize your desires, take careful notice of who you meet and how willing they are to help you.

Indeed, the universal laws of attraction are the most powerful positive force you can have in your life. Use them wisely.

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HI GUYS....HAVE NOT WROTE ABOUT ME/PROGRESS IN AWHILE SO NOW N UPDATE!!!

THE LAW AND HOW IT WORKS FOR ME

I STARTED PRACTICING THE LAW ON MARCH 26 2K11…IN THE BEGINNING I HAD NO PRIOR KNOWLEDGE OF THE LAW, WITH ONE INTENTION AND THAT WAS TO GET MY THEN EX OF 5 YEARS BACK I SEARCH THE INTERNET DAILY AND THIS WAS WHERE MY JOURNEY BROUGHT ME.

MY STORY AND WHAT I HAVE LEARN AND HOW I APPLY IT SIMPLY PUT……

1. MAIN FOCUS MY DESIRE N HAVING MY DESIRE….

STEPS I TOOK TO GET TO MY SUCCESS.

A. I LEARN THE LAW IN DOING SO I READ A LOT OF LOA MATERIALS

STEPS:

ASK…I WROTE A PETITION STATING TO GOD/UNIVERSE/SOURCE ENERGY WHAT MY DESIRE WAS

BELIEVE…WHICH I THINK IS THE HARDEST OF THE THREE STEPS. BUT I BELIEVE WITHOUT A SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT THE SOURCE DID HEAR/RECEIVE MY PETITION AND WOULD DELIVER TO ME MY DESIRE SOON ENOUGH…IN BELIEVING I LET GO OF THE OUTCOME LEAVING IT ALL UP TO THE SOURCE.

RECEIVE…I RECEIVE MUCH SOONER THAN I HAD EXPECTED BECAUSE I BELIEVE. I NEVER ANALYZE OR QUESTION THE SOURCE …I NEVER TRY TO READ INTO EVERY SMALL DETAILS OR ACTION OF MY DESIRE ONCE PROGRESS WAS STARTING TO SHOW…BASICALLY I LEFT EVERYTHING UP TO THE SOURCE.

2. I WORKED ON MYSELF DURING THE PROCESS…I FOUND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR MYSELF, IN DOING SO I FORGAVE ME, HIM AND OTHERS WHO HAD CONTRIBUTED NEGATIVELY TO MY SITUATION.

3. RESISTANCE THAT I ENCOUNTERED I REMOVED INITIALLY WITH FASTER EFT…MEDITATION…LATER HO’HOPONOPONO WHICH I SWEAR BY.

4. I GIVE THANKS DAILY TO GOD/UNIVERSE/SOURCE ENERGY (GRATITUDE) FOR WHAT I HAVE AND WAS YET TO RECEIVE.

5. I KEPT MYSELF IN A VERY POSITIVE VIBRATION...ALL POSITIVE ENERGY..WHEN RESISTANCE WOULD SOMETIMES POP UP NEGATIVE THOUGHTS/CHATTER ALL THE DISTORTION GOING ON IN THE MIND/HEAD I WOULD ENTERTAIN THEM JUST FOR A WHILE THEN I RELEASE THEM I DID NOT FIGHT WITH THEM...I KEPT BUSY WITH WORK N TAKING CARE OF ME!!!!!!

6. I TOOK ACTION WHEN I WAS AT PEACE WITH MYSELF…WITH NO DOUBT OR FEAR OF WHAT THE OUTCOME WOULD BE IF I INITIATE CONTACT.  I KNEW THAT MY HAPPINESS DID NOT DEPEND ON HIM I COULD LIVE MY LIFE ACCORDINGLY WITH OR WITHOUT HIM…THE FEELING IN MY GUT WAS SO AMAZING AFTER I FOUND INNER PEACE IT WAS PURE BLISS …UNCONDITIONAL LOVE JOY…HAPPINESS FORGIVENESS …SINCERITY ALL THOSE WONDERFUL FEELING THAT COMES WITH LOVING ONESELF AND EVERYTHING AROUND US.

BY APRIL 12, 2K11...THIS WAS ME TAKING ACTION BY SENDING A TEXT MESSAGE…HE RESPONDED WITHIN SECOND...WHICH INCLUDES A SMILEY FACE  I NEVER RESPOND…2 DAYS LATER WHILE SITTING AT MY PC TYPING HE TEXT…N THAT WAS HOW AND WHEN THE AWKWARDNESS WAS BROKEN AFTER THAT HE CONTINUED TO INITIATE CONTACT.

WHERE WE ARE  NOW…..

PURE HAPPINESS…MANY OF YOU MAY HAVE HEARD ME TALKED ABOUT A CRUISE THAT WE WILL BE TAKING IN DECEMBER...WELL I HAD NOT MENTION ANYTHING TO HIM SINCE OUR NEW RELATIONSHIP N LAST WEEK HE WAS LIKE..."HONEY DO U KNOW THAT WE R STILL GOING ON THE CRUISE IN DECEMBER?" ALL I CAN SAY IS LOA AT ITS BEST.....I HAVE EVER SINCE BEING SAYING IT, ONLY NOT TO HIM OR ANYONE OTHER THAN ON THIS FORUM...WOOW . I AM REALLY GRATEFUL AND HAPPY FOR THE EXPERIENCE.. BEING IN THAT SITUATION HAS BROUGHT ME CLOSER TO MY SPIRITUALITY I HAVE FOUND THAT TRUE LOVE FOR SELF AND OTHERS…I AM GLAD THAT I DID LOOSE ME TO FIND ME…I AM GRATEFUL FOR THIS NEW RELATIONSHIP IT IS BETTER THAN THE ONE WE HAD BEFORE…AND EVEN THOUGH I HAVE EXPERIENCE A FAMILY SITUATION RECENTLY, THAT I LOOK AT NOW AS A STEPPING STONE INTO ANOTHER CHAPTER/DIRECTION IN MY LIFE ONE THAT IS SEPARATE AND APART FROM MY HONEY BUT CONNECTED SOMEWHAT BECAUSE HAD IT NOT BEEN FOR THE SITUATION THAT I WAS IN WITH MY HONEY I WOULD NOT KNOW LOA SO I WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO DEAL WITH THAT TRAGEDY HAS I DID…LIFE WITH MY HONEY IS WONDERFUL  WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH TRIES TO SHOW IT IN SUCH SMALL TINY WAYS EACH AND EVERY DAY…WE  DO HAVE MISUNDERSTANDINGS EVERY NOW AND THEN WHICH IS SO APART OF OUR HUMAN NATURE IN THIS MUNDANE WORLD OF OURS... I DO NOT HOWEVER LET IT KEEP ME OUT OF MY POSITIVE VIBRATION FOR TOO LONG…LIFE IS WONDERFUL LIFE IS GREAT AND I GIVE THANKS EVERY DAY TO THE SOURCE  N YOU GUYS HERE WHO HAD GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH AND COURAGE WHEN I NEEDED IT THE MOST…NOT TO QUIT... WHEN SO MANY HAD SAID HE DID NOT DESERVE ME(FOR SURE HE DID NOT DESERVE THAT ME... NOT THE ONE THAT HAD FOR YEARS DOUBTED HIS LOVE N KEEP THINKING THAT ONE DAY HE WAS GONNA LEAVE ME FOR SOMEONE ELSE... THEY, DIDN'T KNOW THAT ME... PUTTING A SPIN ON THE WHOLE DESERVE CONCEPT ...HAD I BEEN A DIFFERENT OR BETTER PERSON THEN HE WOULD DARN WELL DON'T DESERVE ME.) THEY SAY YOU JUST CANNOT FORGIVE HIM …(I FORGAVE HIM WHOLEHEARTEDLY) I KICKED NAYSAYERS ASS!!!! N WELCOME LOVE.... IN DOING SO I AM ONE OF THE HAPPIEST PERSON ON PLANET EARTH WHICH I AM SO SURE WILL NOT BE SHORT LIVED BECAUSE MY HAPPINESS DEPENDS NOT ON HIM OR ANYONE FOR THE MATTER BUT ONLY ON ME.
 
MUCH LOVE AND PEACE

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I got this in the email this morning, and it couldnt have had better timing for me....hope you all enjoy it!

Have you ever wondered how children can sit through replays of their favorite Lion King or Little Mermaid video? It amazes me that they'll watch the same show every day without a single complaint or request for something new.

What's more amazing, though, is that adults do the very same thing with their days.  The majority of men and women play "movies" in their heads, day after day, relentlessly focusing on past events, most of which are unpleasant and disturbing experiences. If they're actually able to stop their contemplation of past events, then they allow impressions of their current surroundings and recent results to govern their thoughts. If they contemplate the future it is usually by worrying about it, or wishing that something better might come along. Then they wonder why bad things keep happening to them, or why they never rise above the issues and obstacles in their lives.

While it is true that people are free to think anything they please, as long as they remain set in their ways, there is very little that can be done to change the unpleasant experiences that keep cropping up in their lives.

Recently, the study of the mind, and its veritable unearthly power, is at last taking its proper place in modern civilization. Proper use of the mind and its various faculties will give you anything you choose - but the emphasis here is on the word "proper." To move in this direction requires study and focused, consistent effort with a good measure of creativity stirred in.

Just as the oak tree develops from the gene that lies within the acorn and a bird develops from the gene that lies asleep in the egg, so too will your achievements grow from the organized plans that first begin with your imagination. An image in your mind is the first stage of the creative process in life. From your imagination your visions and plans arise.

In his best selling book, Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill wrote, "You will never have a definite purpose in life; you will never have self confidence; you will never have initiative and leadership unless you first create these qualities in your imagination and see yourself in possession of them." He went on to say, "... imagination is the most marvelous, miraculous, inconceivably powerful force the world has ever known."

There is a concept called "Fantasy - Theory - Fact." The premise underlying this concept is that everything has its origination in the form of Fantasy, which some adventurous souls dare turn into a theory and then boldly turn into fact. Give this serious thought for a moment. The idea of moon landings, communicating by email, traveling on jets, cellular phones or wearing synthetic garments was, a very short time ago, sheer fantasy. Today, they are considered commonplace.

Your marvelous mind has factors that you can, with little effort, develop to use to improve the quality of life, not just for yourself, but for human kind. Imagination is one of those creative faculties. The individuals who were responsible for the conception and creation of the email, cell phones and any of the thousands of modern conveniences we enjoy today had a highly developed imagination.

Furthermore, they were not easily influenced by the opinions of the masses, the naysayers who historically have criticized and ridiculed anything they do not understand. These pioneers used their mental faculties to fantasize, to build wild and wonderful pictures in their mind. Then, holding their thought with their will, they watched their fantasy unfold into a theory and then into fact. They seemed to have an innate awareness that if they could visualize it, they could do it.

Use this power to let your mind play. Fantasize a much better life than you presently enjoy. Draft your future with imagination, ponder and calculate with intelligence and awareness, then knit it with care. Next, devise paths and find tools to help get you there.

Commit to reach new goals. The only barrier separating you from your goal is ignorance - ignorance of how simple, and simply powerful, your mind really is.

To your success,
Bob Proctor

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I know I have written a few thank you notes to you all here, well you all deserve them.  This one is a little diffirent.  I want to thank you all for allowing me to share what I have come to learn of this life and this process.  I still have much more to learn and will always strive to learn more. you guys have shown appreciation for my words and I cant thank you enough for that.  Thank you to those who have helped me break through barriers with your wise words.    I promised god many moons ago, that in exchange for enlightening me and giving me knowledge, I would share it with others and help others in any way I could.

I cant thank you all enough for allowing me to learn from you.  You guys have been a great support and a great inspiration.  So many of us started off with an empty feeling and it does nothing but bring me great joy when I get on here and see all of our progress.  Even on our bad days, I still see progress in the thoughts and words that are expressed. 

Thank you again for all your beauty and kindness.   

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Patrick and I are officially reunited !!!!!!!

This may not be much of a surprise, because I have kept you informed of the recent progress, but now it's a fact. Today he told me everything I stated in my gratitude list only 3 weeks ago, and we both cried tears of joy. My goodness, not only did he say he loves me and has forgiven me, he even asked ME to forgive HIM ! 

Our past relationship is over. We agree that from now on, we are building a much better and healthier relationship based on true love, not on dependancy. I realized about 2 weeks ago that I can live without him. He told me he felt it, and that a great weight was lifted from his shoulders.

So many people here have helped me. Not always through private messages, but with simple, heartfelt replies to my threads. So many, that I'm afraid of leaving someone out, and so I will not make a list of names. But I am grateful to each and everyone of you and I'm sure that you can feel my gratitude right now in your hearts.

When I was attracted to this wonderful forum on June 1st, 2011, I was not considered a desperate case. I think no one really is. But my attitude, my thought patterns, were extremely desperate and at the highest state of negativity.  I was totally lost, in a very bad place, and it took me some time to follow the advice that was given to me from your generous and very patient hearts.

Today, when I look back, I am amazed that things have manifested so quickly.

Seriously, if you read my threads from day 1, who would have believed this ? That the whining, crying, controlling, suicidal, feeling-sorry-for-herself woman would one day change her vision and thus change her life ?

This would not have been possible without the support, genuine concern, and love that I found here.

My everlasting and very profound thanks to all 

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