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I'm going to be quoting Dr Robert Anthony from his CD set, http://thesecretofdeliberatecreation.com .If you dont know who he is, He taught Joe Vitale the majority of what he knows, He Denied being in the secret even though he was the first one asked to be in it.

He's been teaching Deliberate Creation for over 35+ . Any I'll post you the Ultimate Secret to creating anything you want NOW.

I'm going to teach you the Ultimate Secret to creating your life by design. How would you like to bring yoiur desire to you now? That's right, 'no waiting' you can have what your desire 'right now'

What I'm going to tell you is so powerful and effective, you may dismiss it out of disbelief that it could be this easy, don't take my word for it try it out for your self.

Are you ready? The Ultimate Secret to getting anything you want and creating your life by design insted of by default. All you have to do is execpt whatever is happing in you life at that moment, and be happy now.

That's it, thats all you have to do, you don't have to do anything else. Now maybe you think that sounds to simple, but let me ask you something. Why do you want your goal? Why do you want the new job? Because you think it will make you happy. Why do you want alot of money?, Because you think it will make you happy. Why do you want a romantic relationship with that person? because you think it will make you happy.

Remember what I said in the earlier lessons? Our main goal is to be happy. The reason so many people fail to create their life by design is they wait for the situation to change, THEN they will be happy. They have it all backwards. When you except whatever is happening in your life, and you are happy now, it automatically puts you in alignment with everything good in life, including your desires.

Because everything you want in life, you want because it will make you happy. So what you really want is not your goal, the job, the money, the relationship. What you want is to be happy, everything else, the job the money the relationship is just a big bonus.

We are taught to be happy depend on our current situation, that what is going on in our life should determind how we feel. But we have been lied to, it's an illusion.

For the Next month, make it your goal to except whatever is happening in your life at that moment, and be happy in that moment. How do you do this? Always reach for the thought that feels good in that moment.

Do this for 1 month, except everything in your life and be happy in that moment. Do this and you will be amazed and delighted at the results.

Here is a free PDF, that explains a easy way to stay happy. It was also written by Robert Anthony

http://www.thesecretofdeliberatecreation.com/masterkey.pdf

I did a search for "feeling good puts you in alignment with your desires" alot of people agree thats how it's done.

The best way to except everything and be happy now is, present moment awareness/ mindfullness. Thats what I use anyway.

to be more specfic I use this method. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anapanasati
Alot of people use it.

EDIT: http://www.psitek.net/pages/PsiTek-how-to-find-true-happiness-Contents.html

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A Secret Scrolls message from Rhonda Byrne
Creator of The Secret
 
From The Secret Daily Teachings
Remember, if you are criticizing, you are not being grateful. If you are blaming, you are not being grateful. If you are complaining, you are not being grateful. If you are feeling tension, you are not being grateful. If you are rushing, you are not being grateful. If you are in a bad mood, you are not being grateful.
Gratitude can transform your life. Are you allowing minor things to get in the way of your transformation and the life you deserve?
 
Much love and the very best of LOA to you!

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Good Morning All ,

 Today is a beautiful wonderful day!!
I haven't been posting alot lately , but today i just felt like sharing some joy and love!!
It took me a long time to get here but today i am happy , not pretending but really really happy and it feels so amazing. I have been pondering how and why things went wrong in my relationship with my love and although i know i attracted it ( the breakup) I now know it had to happen things were not going to change and i would not have found the strength and power to love myself like i do now. I had so many barriers and insecurities that i didn't even realize. It's amazing when we let go of the one we think we need the most we realize that it was never really about that person. It was really about ourselves , now i know that no matter what i am beautiful , i am amazing , i do deserve everything and i can have it!! Yes i want my love back , but i don't need him and it feels so amazing to know that i can be happy no matter what
Sorry for the rambling but i just wanted to share , for those of you still struggling it really is all about the love of ourselves so look deep inside and find that love and joy in your own life , and know that once you do everything will fall into place!!

I'm sending love and positive vibes to all of you Don't ever give up , we can have it all

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Hi, guys! I didn't write this, but I thought it was a very interesting read! You can find this article and more like it written by the
same guy here:http://www.calmdownmind.com/when-your-desire-feels-ordinary-its-on-the-verge-of-manifestation/

I thought he made a lot of good points! Let me know what you think!



When Your Desire Feels Ordinary, It’s On the Verge of Manifestation

Written by Sen on January 23rd, 2012
One of the misguided understandings people have, especially those who are learning about law of attraction, is that – “exhilaration is the highest vibration to achieve “, and that the more exhilarated they stay the quicker the manifestation. In truth, exhilaration is simply a state of transition when you are moving from a low vibration to a stable vibration – it’s a transitory state. You feel exhilarated when you have been on a low and are moving towards a state of relief, this transition is experienced in the body as that “blissed out” feeling. So in truth there is no such thing as a “high state” there is only a state of relief (which is akin to wholeness), and what you define as a high state is a temporary transitory feeling as you move from a low vibration to the vibration of relief. The stable state is always ordinary and feels more like wholeness than exhilaration.

Also, a lot of people have this delusion that once they reach their desired reality they will be exhilarated all the time, which is not only an unreasonable thought to have but it also disconnects you from the reality of physical life where excited states (or high states) are not permanent. The more time the body spends in a high state that more time it requires on the low state to compensate for it (that’s why over-excitement is always followed by some depression), the steady state for the body is one of wholeness, which actually is a state simplicity or ordinariness, it’s not a dull state, it’s just a state free of extremes (over-excitement or depression). When you reach a point where your desires don’t over-excite you but just feel “whole” or ordinary, you are far less resistant to their manifestation.

Visualizing The Ordinariness Of Your Desire

A lot of people focus on pumping up their excitement levels, which they equate with a high vibration, and try to visualize their desires in this state of excitement. However, a desired reality when it manifests would always feel “ordinary” – you can see it in all your past life experiences that every time a desired reality manifested it felt so ordinary, it felt like the next thing, and usually it manifested when you were no longer making a big deal about it. The truth is that “reality” is always ordinary, and it’s usually when we have some deluded, or hyped up, imagination about the future that we feel over-excited. And as long as you are not looking at your desire from the context of the ordinariness of reality, you will always have some delusion of big dealness about it – and thus you would indirectly be in resistance to its manifestation.

Of course, you can’t “pretend” that a desire feels ordinary to you (you can’t fake it), it’s basically a natural state the mind reaches, with respect to a desire, when it has seen through all the “extra-ordinariness” that it had been associating with it. In a simple sense, a mature mind (you can read the post – moving towards a mature mind) is able to see through its delusions more easily than an immature mind. It’s just reasonable, and logical, that if something feels extra-ordinary to you it just means you are not in touch with reality. And when you are not in touch with reality, with respect to a desire, you’ve not really aligned yourself with the circumstances, which you will end up in, when your desire manifests.

A desire becomes a fantasy when you are holding extra-ordinary imaginations about it, and projecting a lot of big-dealness to it. Reality on the other hand is far removed from the fantasies of the mind, it’s far too ordinary than what the mind imagines it to be. The hallmark of a mature mind is that it does not associate fantastic imaginations with respect to a desire and is willing to see the desired reality in the context of ordinariness. There is a place for feeling excited and exhilarated about a desire, especially during the initial few days when it’s hatched (and it’s an enjoyable experience), but if you don’t allow yourself to see through all your excitements/delusions and thus be rooted in the ordinariness of reality, you would just end up holding onto a fantasy which removes you from being aligned with the true vibration of your desired physical reality – which directly means that you are not a match to attracting it.

Get In Tune With Reality

A new desire always fills you with excitement or exhilaration, because for a while you are looking at it purely from the dimension of joy/love/sexuality in your mind. But soon enough you will start seeing it from the dimension of fear (when you have doubts about it), and then you will start seeing it from the dimension of hatred (hating the desire for not manifesting), which are both low vibration states of being and hence highly resistant to manifestation. However, the problem is that you keep trying to get back to feeling exhilarated about the desire instead of allowing yourself to naturally move into a place of nonchalance about the desire (where you see it as ordinary, from the dimension of boredom in the mind). You can read about all the dimension of the mind on this post – the 6 dimensions of the mind.

It’s important to understand that “pure” exhilaration about a desire is always felt only the first time it’s hatched, after that you are only trying to “re-create” the feeling of exhilaration about the desire. This is because you feel afraid of allowing the desire to feel ordinary, because you think that if the desire feels ordinary it will lose its importance in your mind. But if you allow yourself to just stay “natural”, you will see that the desire naturally starts feeling ordinary after a while and this is what allows a resistance-free manifestation of it. The state of exhilaration is only a primary/preliminary state, and it’s not meant to be “maintained” to manifest the desire.

The natural phases/transition that a mind goes through with respect to a desire are – Exhilaration (joy/love) – Doubt (fear) – Frustration (hatred) – Nonchalance (boredom). When it reaches the final phase of nonchalance, it’s least resistant to manifesting the desire and hence the manifestation starts unfolding with ease. A lot of people either get stuck in doubt or keep trying to re-create the exhilaration (which basically creates more frustration), instead of allowing a natural transition into nonchalance where you are no longer making a big deal out of the desire – this is when you really get in tune with the ordinariness of life, and thus see your desire from the context of reality, this is the stable place from where you allow a smooth manifestation to unfold.

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Im just recalling certain things and people ive manifested before I was using the LOA on purpose. One guy I dated I know I attracted whom I mentioned on this forum that I wouldnt mind seeing again just for closure but not interested in hooking back up. Well im thinking of him now and remembering when it dawned on me that all those years I spent fantasizing about what my dream guy would be like and the exact things he would say to me, he was all these things and said those exact things I fantasize about. The things he would say to me wasnt anything general that men would say to women but very specific things I put into my fantasies that no man has ever said to me before or since.  His personality and looks was everything I had imagined for myself my entire life as well. The timing was off so thats why It didnt work and I have considered attempting to use the LOA to get back with him but decided against it since he's in a totally different place in his life and ive changed a bit and now have different needs and taste in what I want but it just goes to show you this really does work and it is kinda freaky when you look back on your life and see the things you manifested that you werent even consciously trying to. It really does give me alot of hope. 

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"Be so good they can't ignore you."  Love it!! 

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Hi there guys
So I've read some of the hot topics in this section and i thoud i contribute with my own expirience to help out(Im a good boy:))
So I had a terible BU last year arround this time of year,I cried i got depresed you know just like you guys now:D..jk.lol
None of this atracted my ex back to me,but as soon as I got a job (had other stuff to think during the day not her) and I a new girl came into my life I complitly forgot about my ex!
And wouldn't you know here comes ex back to me again,she tryed contacting me via diferent fb account pretending to be another girl-asking about herself,she tried making me jelouc,she called me,,just to check up,, ...I know,right?
But none of this worked I was all in with the new girl-so here is one conclusion-YOU CANT CHANGE SOMEONE'S REALITY-yea write that down:P
So to recap..in my expirience,and it has worked every single time,to get your ex back-you have to move on,you have to NOT think about it(exes sence that specialy girls,havent been with a guy yet so sry girls:D:),NOT think about IF,WILL IT,WHEN,HOW,I AM ON THE RIGHT TRACK,I MISS HER/HIM,I NEED HIM/HER,...please dont do that to your manifistation becouse as long as your on that type of thinking-lets face the facts here guys-IT AINT GONNA HAPPEN SOON FOR YOU.
My story was soo deep it had yet another thing you can learn from it,that maybe your ex isnt the right person,like in my case,becouse the new girl was everything i REALLY WANTED IN A WOMAN(sry im not gonna tell what those thing are,but dont be sad-its not you anyway.lol)
I had and still have a story with the new girl,atm im atracting her back for the 3rd time sence last year-yea Im a real tresure i know..what?!..o cmon:D
So yea guys,hello again im just made an acc here,grats from Bulgaria,and remeber-MOVE ON,ONLY THEN YOU WILL GET IT BACK,wish for your soulmate,not your ex if your ex is your soulmate u will get him,if not u will feel what inlove and happynes is all about with someone new,a new person(imagine this new person,coming into your life,it will be in a time you least expect it,imagine this person beeing your dream lover IN EVERY ASPECT POSSIBLE,becouse thats what I got guys,and everyone deserves happynes!!!

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Yes, MY EX AND I ARE BACK TOGETHER... well, sort of  !!! it's been almost 6 months and it's been an insane journey, I don't even know where to start...

I first started visiting these forums out of desperation, and fear, and everything was going down hill for me... I got heaps and heaps of advice, these forums helped me stay stable in the times I couldn't keep myself up. And then after a few months of waiting for something I felt like I was just desperately hanging onto for comfort... I let it go. And I mean REALLY let it go. It's hard to explain but I'll try my best for you guys 
So there was a LOT of crap surrounding the situation between my ex and I. there was bitchiness, name calling, hatred flown all over the place, we went for periods without talking, he did some really stupid things and I did some really stupid things. I'd always tell myself that I deserved better, that he wasn't worth it and I tried really hard to move on. But no matter what I did, I knew that deep down I had feelings for him... no matter how much I denied it to myself and everyone around me. I'd even tell my friends that I'd never be able to see him romantically again, and I probably believed that at some time - but whenever we would talk, it just felt so... right and normal and comfortable. Both of us were pushing our feelings down though, it was a really strange friendship.
He didn't cheat but he did break my heart, moved on really quickly and everything... if you've read any of my other posts from awhile back you'd be able to hear my pain through everything that I'd say... and then I came back once he was with this girl to be all "I just want to be his friend" when he hated me. Well I figured out I was hanging onto the friendship for a particular reason! haha.

When I stopped actively trying to get him back, when I stopped caring.. that's when everything fell into place. When I was literally like "hey, this doesn't matter anymore, whatever happens happens, I'm awesome either way" THAT'S when we got closer and eventually admitted our feelings for each other again, and decided to give this 'thing' a go. We're not official we're taking things slow... but we're both really happy. I have a lot of 'reasons' that would kind of determine me not getting back with him but logic just gets thrown out the window in these situations  hahaha.

If anyone is looking for advice... which a lot of you are: all I can say is this. It's a journey. Nothing will happen overnight. You learn SO much about yourself through the law of attraction, and don't just use these tools to get an ex back. How you really get your ex back? Ask and believe it. Spend some time focusing on it, then LET IT GO. Don't worry about it anymore!!!!!!!! Get over him/her, do what you love, focus on your own happiness. I finally understand what all this advice is about - I'd be trying hard to be happy just to get my ex back, but when he came back it was when I knew that I would HONESTLY be okay with or without him. Without him I'd be happy, with him I'd be happy. I didn't NEED him. I stopped trying to get him back. I know it's kind of contradictory, but this seems to be the way the law works!

If you have any questions feel more than free to ask!!! Absolutely anything. I owe these forums so much... and I know I left things out here... I'm kind of just on a roll, I'm not even sure if this will make sense hahaha.
Lots of love!!!!!!!!!!!

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Good Evening Friends-


I thought this was something i could share with all of you.

One of my new LOA books WISHES Fulfilled...The Mastering of Manifesting by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer talks about the '' I Am '' affirmation and the REAL power behind it.


The feelings that come from this, from saying it, FEELING it and experiencing it AS IF IT IS HAPPENING IN THE MOMENT is so huge!!! You have to feel it, you have to live it, you have to know it..its not just a repeating of words..you have to have a sensation, a shift within yourself for it to be successful in Manifesting.


Some examples...

I AM LOVE...what does it feel like to be loved..to be held, touched, kissed? To give love to your family & friends, to love yourself completely, to know love oooozes from every part of your being?

I AM MONEY..what does it feel like to have extra cash in your pocket, to pay all your bills on time, to receive money as a gift, to win the lottery, to have sooooooooo much money you can donate, help others?

I AM ABUNDANT..what would it be like to buy that new rolex watch, how would you feel purchasing your dream home, what would it be like to have everything you need in life, what would you do/say/feel if you won a 7 day cruise?

ACT AS IF ITS HAPPENED, LIVE AS IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING IT IN THAT MOMENT! Dance around your house, cry tears of joy, jump up and down...scream it from the roof top, maybe not literally, but pretend..lol..the subconscious mind doesn't know the difference!

These have to be positive, no negative or low energy thoughts can creep in..its all about positivity and being in a HIGH ENERGY MINDSET!  These are things that can be done in the privacy of your own home of course, at any given moment. It gives the Affirmation an extra jolt into your physical world.

Now if this is not your style then the book also explains that the best time to actually say the ''I Am'' affirmations is before bedtime.

The presleep moments, the minutes before you fall asleep is when these ''I Am'' affirmations are the strongest. Its when your conscious mind is ''feeding'' into your subconscious mind..its when things can be formed and shaped before they are manifested into the physical world you know.


I found this to be very powerful, that its no just words on a page that you write over and over, that its not just something you say until you believe it...YOU HAVE TO FEEL IT IN EVERY PART OF YOU...if there isn't a physical sensation then keep at it until you feel it DO WHATEVER YOU NEED TO TO GET THAT FEELING!

 
Another Affirmation i started this weekend (from the book) is I Am God in Action!I have been repeating it to myself and feeling tingles in my body and immediately have a smile on my face..the feeling of this Affirmation is SO POWERFUL for me!





I hope this will be helpful



God Bless Everyone!

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Ok so I was at work today (a really busy retail store) and I was going insane. I work in the designer section and customers there can be pretty demanding. As I stood there with people around me talking to me simultaneously, asking me to open the fitting room, asking about prices and further markdowns, I was about to scream. I was about to scream bloody murder and run far, far away. Then one particular customer, whose name will always remain a mystery, interrupted all conversations and handed me a business card. She started talking to me, out of nowhere, about the universal laws and the law of attraction. I was pretty frantic but I stopped to listen to what she had to say since I'm a LOA believer. One customer demanded my help once again, and the mystery lady waited until I was done to continue the conversation. She talked to me about raising my vibration. She said to repeat with her some words: NAM MYOHO RENGE KYO. She said to say this to myself to raise my vibration and ask for whatever I desired. She said she desired a meeting a movie star, he flew from Europe, they met, she became his assistant and voila they're now girlfriend and boyfriend. What was really curious was that this lady spoke to me with such urgency, like she NEEDED to give me that message. There was no time to ask questions or details and she did all the talking. She finished her story, gave me a hug and left. I didn't see her at the store or anything; she pretty much vanished. I looked at the business card she gave me and all it contained was the words. Before talking to me she said, "Today's your lucky day" Pretty amazing huh?

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Good Morning-
This really caught my eye. I thought it would be fun to see how we all pay it forward on a daily basis...and just see what happens



PAY IT FORWARD ~ IN PRACTICE


Kindness, like a boomerang, always returns.  ~ Author Unknown  

I have learned from experience that when we commit an act of kindness for others, for strangers, it’s only a matter of time before that kindness comes back to us. 

Being kind is a gift that gives both to the giver and the receiver.

Call it “what goes around comes around”.   Do we need to learn, listen to or engage in talks of universal laws and the law of cause and effect, the law of attraction, etc.

I propose something simpler and more direct: how about we see for ourselves through practice?


So, what little, simple acts of kindness can we do to pay it forward today?

-put a quarter in a meter, any meter, that’s about to expire
-leave a copy of a really great book you’ve read in a cafe for someone else to enjoy
-be nice to the customer service people who are trying to help you with your technological difficulties
-tip your restaurant server generously
-thank the cooks, waitstaff and bussers personally
-say something nice or funny or goofy to the toll booth attendant (like, “Don’t drive too fast, now” or “Glad to have encountered you today”, or something less hokey)
-forgive a driver directing road rage at you
-buy or pack a meal for a homeless person (or give him/her your to-go box from a restaurant)
-give a warm coat to a homeless person
-offer to do pro bono work on a project where your skills are needed
-mentor someone
-make a donation
-say a prayer or whisper a kind wish for someone
-compliment a stranger
-send a box of donuts or bagels or muffins to a construction site
-next time you leave a foreign country, give all or some of what’s left of your currency to someone who resides in that country
-next time you’re at the airport, offer to pull the bags belonging to a woman or a mother with child out of the conveyor belt
-praise friends, coworkers, family, nieghbors generously
-give local tips/directions (re: restaurants, sights, etc.) to a tourist
-show respect equally to all human beings
-put a tip in a street musician’s jar
-let someone cut in front of you at the grocery store
-tell a funny joke to a stranger
-give someone a chance to prove him or herself
-encourage someone to pursue their dream
-allow someone to let his or her light shine
-show support to an artist or writer or musician
-hold the door open for someone
-tip a cab driver generously
-teach a child something you wish you knew at that age
-smile at someone who’s sad
-smile at strangers
-offer sincere, kind words to someone who’s hurting
-visit a hospice and spend some time with a terminally ill patient
-volunteer at a battered women’s shelter
-spend some time with a senior citizen living alone
-give up your seat on a crowded bus or train or ferry
-inspire someone to be the best that they can be
-give someone the benefit of the doubt
-offer to babysit for a single mother
-offer the FedEx, UPS or DHL delivery person something to drink especially on a warm day
-help a pregnant lady
-sit and talk with a homeless person and learn their story
-loan something to someone and forget about it
-loan money on Kiva
-contribute to a friend’s child’s education fund
-give blood
-show respect to a soldier regardless of your pacifism
-donate to or volunteer for the Make-A-Wish Foundation
-replace an angry/bitter thought toward someone with a loving thought or at least try


WHERE CAN THIS LEAD?

Is experiencing a little unexpected kindness enough to turn us into believers that maybe, just maybe, there can be peace on earth?  Maybe, maybe not. If we’re capable of small acts of kindness, can we go bigger? I make no guarantees but, I’d sure like to find out.  Wouldn’t you?

 

Kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not.  ~Samuel Johnson


 

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So many people say that you can't attract an ex, or a specific person because that violates free will. Doesn't it seem funny that people are putting 'rules' on something like the Law of Attraction? With the Law of Attraction we're told not to limit ourselves, how we need to get rid of out limiting beliefs and how much it can affect us. I just think it's silly that despite that so many people enforce this limiting belief on LOA.

How many of us drove our exes away? We got insecure, we thought of them leaving us, not wanting us anymore, and it happened. Of course everyone will agree, according to the Law of Attraction, you drove them away. A lot of the same people will turn around and tell you can't attract them back because that's against free will. But if you drove them away, isn't that technically influencing their free will? If you can influence someone to go, why can't you influence them to come back?

When I was with my ex, I worried so much, I believed he'd do certain things that I didn't want to happen, I really believed that it'd happen. And you know what? Everything I worried about happened. Every, single, thing. Now, in my mind, if we couldn't effect anyone's free will whatsoever, my worries would have never manifested.

When it comes to the free will debate, the answer is, whatever you believe.

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So I've been doing some pretty heavy research lately, and came across some advice that really got me to thinking.

My idea is that if Quantum Physics and Mechanics are true, (especially String Theory etc.), then that would mean that there are an unlimited amount of Universes where all things are happening or have already happened. So if there are an unlimited amount of Universes out there, the one where you have all things you ever wanted exists without question. In theory then, we can safely assume that we are living all of these Universes simultaneously, but the one that we are currently projecting physically is the one that we choose to be in, whether it is good or bad.

So what's to stop us from skipping over to another Universe, the Universe that brings us the most joy? In my opinion? Nothing. Since time and space are just restraints we put on ourselves mentally, accepting the fact that there is no time nor space means transition is completely within reason.

Let's say you like "X". In some Universe, you are already happily together, more in love than anyone could ever be, and because that is true, then we are never trying to impede on or override anyone's free will, because in essence it already exists and it is already happening. It isn't about trying to force the Universe you're in to bend to the will of your desires, because that only creates tension and resistance. Rather, it's about letting yourself enter that other parallel Universe with no resistance at all.

Nothing in the past, no error would ever matter, because like I said, in some Universe all the events lead up to this exact moment right now, you reading this text, and you STILL ended up together in a loving and happy relationship.

I'd really like some feedback on this concept. It sure has made me a lot more positive

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I am happy and peaceful. I have found an overwhelming new respect for myself. So much so, that I have been debating if its worth going back to him. Without sparing the details, I deserved better. I know he can be better, but lets just say he has a lot to prove. I had asked the Universe for a 2nd chance and then I let go. Now- whether or not I get this 2nd chance, its OK. I think its been a long 7months without him for a reason.

The universe wanted me to accept myself. In doing so I realized that I can have the best man love me, with all the qualities I want in a man. My ex is off that pedestal and I am on it

I'm starting 2012 with him or without him and WHEN he comes back, we'll see what happens...

Letting go simply means ACCEPTING YOURSELF. Once you start to put YOU first, you'll wake up one morning and say to yourself 'wow, I've not thought about my ex for a while...'

Now to direct my energy to my dream career!

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