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I don't start new topics often, but this video says a lot to me and I wanted to share it.
I think it is very interesting how positive thinkers can meditate as a group and help the rest of the world feel less stressed.

David Wilcock on our connection to each other and the Universe March 11, 2009

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Hey everyone.
Most of you know I have had success with LOA. It has really changed my life, and so has this great forum!

I was thinking about why some of us may be  having a hard time getting in to the vortex (and staying there) where we can let go and have faith that the creator of our universe is taking care of things for us.

Here is my thought; and if someone has mentioned it recently, what I am about to say may just be a reminder and it may help.
I believe if we can just forgive ourselves for making mistakes, for knowingly or unknowingly hurting others, for saying things that may have offended others or WHATEVER we may feel guilt for on past issues; I think we can more easily get into the vortex and feel good about believing we are worthy of our desires.

Of course it is important to forgive others but are we forgiving ourselves as well? That is all part of loving oneself, and a key to manifestation is feeling worthy. But subconsciously we may be feeling we are not deserving because we have not forgiven ourselves! So I think if we can forgive ourselves as well as others for past mistakes and then daily forgive ourselves and others (along with our gratitude lists and affirmations,) we may feel a sense of peace that will help us get into a happy and loving state. It could be like a daily prayer perhaps. We can ask others to forgive us but we can't make them forgive us for that is their own obstacle to overcome.

We are all saddened by the recent despair of our friends (those who don't think their life is worth living;) and perhaps if they can reach deep inside their hearts and forgive others and themselves, they will feel peace and realize that they are deserving of a life worth living.

Those of you who do tapping probably forgive yourself regularly and that may be one of the reasons that tapping is effective for some. I've only done it a few times, but I remember that affirming self love and forgiveness is part of the tapping process.

Anyway, just a thought I wanted to share that may be worth trying.

Love and blessings to you all!!

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Hello Everyone.

I just wanted to share something simple but big.
Yesterday I had an assignment due in my electronic design class. It is an online class and the assignment was due before midnight. My boy friend Ken and I had tickets to a rock concert for last night and I needed to post my assignment before leaving for the concert. It was a very time consuming project with a lot of research involved so I started on it two days before it was due. I saved my research in a word document and got up early yesterday morning to finish it so I could turn it in. As I was doing the last bit of research, my lap top computer picked up a virus. Luckily Ken had not left for work yet so he started running a scan for me. He told me it may take a long time (maybe all day) before the scan finds the virus and can be  deleted. So of course I'm thinking, "I'm SO SCREWED!" The scan may not be completed and the virus removed in time for me to finish the assignment and have it turned in before leaving for the concert. I had worked for two days and I can not retrieve my document until the scan is finished! I was worried and scared for a few minutes.

Then,  I started thinking about how LOA works and how my fears and worries would manifest themselves and give me more to be scared and worry over, meaning the scan would not be completed and all the hours of hard work I had already done on the assignment would come to nothing as my instructor will not credit late assignments. So I shifted my thoughts to how grateful I was that Ken was still here to start the scan and how grateful I am that he is a brilliant computer geek, for without him I would not know what to do. While I know a lot about writing codes for browsers and designing graphics, I am totally illiterate when it comes to systems maintenance and hardware.

So anyway, I stopped worrying and I started being grateful and busying myself with the laundry, and then  I got on my desktop computer(the one that is virus free) to get the rest of the information to  add to the assignment. Then about 30 minutes later I heard a noise coming from the other room. It was my laptop computer restarting. What a beautiful sound!! I called my BF Ken at work and he said that if my computer restarted on it's own then it had found the virus and repaired everything. Needless to say, I finished the assignment, turned it in early, and got exceptional feedback from my instructor for the hard work I put in.

This is all an example of how letting go of the desperation,  fears and worries,and  being grateful and knowing things are going to be fine, and then getting busy with something else in the meanwhile, will bring your desires just in the nick of time. My desire was to have my lap top computer back and being able to finish and turn in my assignment before leaving for the concert. I got what I desired within an hour of changing my attitude from worry to being grateful that everything was going to be fine. The creator of the universe knew I needed this done quickly so once I let go and handed it over to the universe, the universe was able to deliver in due time!

Thank God (and all of you here at the forum,) I have learned about the laws of attraction and how they work!!!!

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 Hello to all my wonderful friends here at the forum.

I found this site a while back. It offers free books on metaphysics and success through the laws of attraction.
I believe it was Iron Ur who originally posted the link to this web site, but it has so many great books on the powers of the mind, how to achieve abundance and success, the power of positive thinking , etc. And these are books available for instant reading! How exciting is that?

I was reading something in particular that said we must teach others about LOA and that our understanding of the law will become clearer the more we tell others about it.

Anyway, below are the links to this wonderful site that offers books on LOA and how to live the best life imaginable. I have not read much of these lately but I am going to start because I truly believe the power of the mind and positive thinking hold the key to EVERYTHING that is LOA.

ENJOY!!

http://www.psitek.net/pages/PsiTek-ensure-your-dream-life-with-the-law-of-attraction-1.html

http://www.psitek.net/index2.html

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Many of us wonder why it takes so long to manifest our desires. Then we start to doubt if LOA really works or if we are doing the process right, because it just seems to take a while for us to reach the point of manifestation.

Know this: LOA is real and it is always working! GUARANTEED! Just because your desires are not manifested within a certain length of time does not mean that LOA is not real.

The following is an example of why time delays are a good thing:

A couple of weeks ago, I was feeling very negative and down for a couple of days. I even wrote about it in a post to this forum. I was thinking things that I was feeling. Like I hope this and that, and I want this and that.
What I was thinking and feeling was only temporary and it was my conscious mind giving me these negative thoughts and feelings. This went on for several days. I was also having doubts and I was feeling indifferent and detached, but nonetheless I was thinking and hoping for things that I really did not want (even though at the time I thought that is what I wanted.) Then my subconscious kicked in and said to my heart, "Now Melanie, you know that what you are thinking and feeling will eventually manifest itself if you keep thinking and feeling this way, and you KNOW that what you are thinking and feeling is NOT what you REALLY want." I got advice from this forum to rethink my desires and say what it is I really DO want. Now I know these things because I have been one of the people on this forum to give that same advice, so I told myself, "Melanie, follow the advice you have been giving others." As all of you know, it is easier to give advice than it is to follow that same advice yourself, but I knew that I should change those limited beliefs and doubts before they manifested themselves.

My point is this:
What if the universe had manifested my thoughts and feelings immediately or within a short period of time? Thank God, there was a time delay! The universe knew that my heart did not want what I was hoping for on a conscious level. I believe there are time delays so that we have a chance to re evaluate what it is we really do want, because sometimes what we "think" we want is not really what we want. If our desires were manifested right away, we would not have that chance to change our request would we? So in these periods of waiting, be grateful that the creator of the universe is working things out to where everything falls into place perfectly at the right time when we are ready to receive. Now if you are still waiting  for something that you are CERTAIN you want, it could be that the timing still needs to be worked out, or you have not let go, or you're not ready, or the universe can see and knows in the future that what you think is right for you may not be the best thing, or maybe there is something better out there for you that you don't know about yet. So be grateful for the universe's timing and that time delay, for it is necessary in order to manifest and attract wonderful things!

The key here is to KNOW and BELIEVE that everything happens for a very good reason; even time delays. And we should always search our heart for what it is we really want because our conscious mind is not a reliable source at all, but our subconscious mind/higher self/ heart/ gut instinct is!

A little side note here: I am still looking for that perfect job. However I have not really thought about or affirmed what it is I want in a job that would make me really LOVE that job. That is why I am still waiting. I have applied to several jobs but I am not really sure if those jobs will satisfy me so it is a very good thing that I have not manifested those jobs right?

I am so grateful for this forum and that I know "the secret." Now I need to get busy writing down what a perfect job would be for me.

Love and blessings to you all!!





 

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Hello all my wonderful and loving friends.

Sorry this post is so long but has anyone ever known me to be able to convey my feelings in only a few short paragraphs?

Most of you know how I attracted the love of my life back after I first joined this forum and learned more about the laws of attraction. My boyfriend Ken has been popping in and out of my life for the past two years now and because I love him unconditionally and have accepted his unconventional and nontraditional way of life, I have accepted him back time after time after time of him leaving me to go on a quest searching for true happiness. He has not realized that true happiness is right inside of him, and he can not rely on jobs or relationships to make him happy. He does know that there are disappointments in life, but he has detached himself from the idea of settling down into a loving and long term relationship with someone.

Our relationship was getting so much stronger because I stopped expecting things from him. He started doing things I did not expect. He even said that he was very happy with his life, our relationship and his new job. I was really blown away by that because I never expected to hear those words but nonetheless those words touched my heart and made me feel good and peaceful. I felt so much overwhelming love for him when he said that to me.

So I guess that is when I let my guard down and without realizing it, I may have started to expect things and feel an attachment to him again.
He had planned a special evening where we would go to dinner, then to see a move and afterward he wanted us to have a romantic evening with intimacy together. We had never been to a movie theater together in the 2 years since we met, and because of money issues we have only been out to dinner maybe 6 times in those 2 years, and we have never done anything else besides dinner on a date. As well, he had been so tired since starting his job that we had not had a really great and meaningful romantic or intimate evening in over 2 months! So needless to say, I was very excited and looking forward to our special evening. Since he had been working 21 days without a day off I told him I would understand if he was too tired and changed his mind, but he assured me that NOTHING was going to prevent us from having our special date night. He talked about it several times reminding me that we had plans for that night.

So here are the events that unfolded on what was to be our "Special and much anticipated date night" :

During dinner he told me that even though we were just friends in a monogamous and committed relationship (friends with benefits,) I should think about him as a boyfriend who comes and goes. Okay so that's not so surprising considering the past history of our relationship so why should I be bothered by that statement? I did not show any outward feelings of discouragement but inside, I was feeling a little down because I thought he had changed and was ready to plan a future with me even though I am not expecting marriage.

Then after dinner he suggested we just rent a movie and go home. Did I manifest that by saying I would understand if he was too tired? What's so special about renting an old release movie when that is one of the only things we ever did in lieu of going on dates. So we rented a movie and went home.

So I guess you can only guess that our planned romantic interlude was a only a dream and never became reality that evening. That's right. He never held my hand,or much less  touched me except a quick peck on the mouth to say, "goodnight, I am going to sleep now". 

So much for my excitement, anticipation and expectation for a special evening. Dinner was okay even though the conversation was discouraging, but the rest of the evening found me feeling negative and very disappointed even though I did not show it outwardly. Hard to be grateful for the one thing(dinner)  that did happen as expected, because I feel the conversation spoiled it. But hey, at least he is honest, right?

Like I told him, "I would understand if you are too tired from working not to want to go out." But when he promised we would do those special things, I expected them to happen.

So I guess that set the negative tone and mood for what I have experienced the past week. He is not obligated to work 7 days a week sometimes 10-12 hours a day and he is not getting paid extra for it either, so it is his choice to do that. I can now sympathize with people who are neglected by their partner because their partner chooses to make their job a priority (especially if its not mandatory but voluntary.) He even brings his work home with him and wants me to leave him alone so he can concentrate.

Just a few nights ago, Ken told me that he loves me and he is very happy " for now". He said that if he ever became unhappy in his job or if our relationship was not going smoothly that he would not hesitate to leave me again. He is the type man who can not handle pressure or trials and will take the easy way out and leave if the going gets rough and he won't return until the storm has blown over or issues get ironed out. Is that what a real man does if he claims to love someone?

Okay so last night he left to go visit his best friend 100 miles away.(yeah. the one who needs and depends on Ken and who has tried on several occasions to sabotage our relationship because I stand in the way of him living there with her.) He took his first day/weekend off to go see her because she messaged him saying she missed him and needed him right now. Her horse kicked her and broke her ankle. When he said he would go, I agreed he should because she did so much for him when he needed a place to stay during our 4 month separation.  I really don't know what to expect (NOTHING right?) when he gets back on Sunday. He could tell I was bothered by something before he left so he may decide that he would rather be back up there with her and that the job he has here is not worth the money or hassle. He gave me a quick little peck on the cheek before he left and of course I didn't expect him to contact me to let me know he arrived there safely and he hasn't. I would not be surprised at all if I have manifested a decision for him to go ahead and  leave me, with all my negative feelings and thinking, but if that is what he decides to do, I need to love him unconditionally, give him my blessing, be grateful, accept his decision graciously and move on with my life.

You know a lot of this is happening as a result of me putting my son second to my relationship with Ken so I need to start putting my son first because he will always be a part of my life, whereas Ken may not be. So if I manifest these things with all my fears and negativity, then so be it. I would like to tell myself that we will be happy together forever but my gut instinct is not telling me those things right now (like it did before,) so I don't feel anything. I would like nothing more to be in a happy long lasting relationship with Ken but I can not be responsible for his happiness. I have done all I can do to keep him happy. I have been understanding, grateful, encouraging, loving, accepting and giving; I can not do anything more than that. It is time I put my son and myself first and do things that don't include Ken, like going camping or to the movies, unless Ken would like to come along. I am no longer looking forward to a future with Ken. I am not sure LOA can repair this relationship but I do know that LOA can help me have a full and happy life apart from Ken. I can not bear to go through another devastating meltdown like I did when he left me last summer, so I need to detach myself, let go and be happy by myself because I am uncertain that Ken will decide to stay with me indefinitely because he is only happy for now..........

If you have read this far, I want to say thank you. The people on this forum are my true friends and I am so grateful for each and every one of you!!

Peace, love and blessings to you all!

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