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Saw this blog post and thought it would benefit the group.

http://escapefromrelationshiphell.com/deliberate-creators-guide-to-a-better-breakup.php

To Your Happiness,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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When you are wondering how to get your ex to get in touch with you there are very few resources available to lead you in the right direction. After your ex calls it quits it becomes difficult at times to get in touch with them. Talking everyday and then all of the sudden having no communication with your ex at all makes it a challenge to handle this new way of life especially if you want to try and get your ex back. The best place to begin understanding the steps you can take for how to get your ex to start communicating with you again is in what you shouldn’t say.

While considering what you shouldn’t say there are essentially two categories which are the plead and the emergency. The plead is pretty self-explanatory and uses the verbiage of begging such as please and I have to talk to you. Taking into account the emergency it is an attempt to get your ex to reach you by telling them it is an emergency. Using either one of these attempts reduces your chance of getting a reply and may cause them to become more irritated. Now that you are aware of the things not to say we need to move onto implementing a powerful driving force to receive a reply from your ex.

Discovering the elements that affect the human mind to receive a response from your ex moves you into a powerful position to begin discussing the topics weighing on your mind. Executing this technique by writing a letter puts your position of communication in a more confident and expectant approach. Using curiosity and self interest in your letter are the ingredients driving a new line of communication. These ingredients can be put into words with the following suggestions:

•   You’ve accepted the breakup and are moving on.
•   Compliment them
•   Slightly joking criticize them
•   Let them know you are giving them space
•   There is interest to catch up in the future
•   Leave it open for them to call if they want
•   Be brief

Implementing the preceding method is extremely effective because it allows you to convey the message which is different from the normal approach. In addition it removes the potential of an emotional catastrophe in direct communication. Getting angry, breaking down into tears, or showing desperation all get in the way of expressing yourself in an effective manner. Get through this letter quickly without spending too much time on one particular point. The letter demonstrates that you are fine which will surprise your ex and create curiosity. Now there should be no wonder on how to get your ex to contact you. It is critical that you have a plan in place to communicate effectively with your ex when they contact you. Otherwise, the letter will defeat its primary purpose.

All the best,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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I saw this on the secret website and I found it to be so applicable to this group. Learn from the story and apply the suggestions.

http://www.thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=6004

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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Getting back with your ex might seem like a good idea, but it is not in some cases. Thinking that love is better the second time around is worthy when a person wants happiness. However, there are a number of things to consider before putting in all the effort required to restore the feelings your ex had if you want to get back together. Answer the following questions and reflect on the responses to gain greater clarity as to the direction to get back together with your ex.

Do you have the capacity to forgive and allow forgiveness?

Hurt feelings due to the events of the breakup are certainly understandable. There is a good chance that upsetting things were said in anger or out of spite. The difficulty of overcoming these emotions can delay forgiveness. Accepting the circumstances that caused harsh words or actions may ease the burden of forgiveness. The sooner forgiveness encompasses your feelings the better chance there is to get back together.

Are you involved with someone else?

A good indication that you may have jumped into a rebound relationship is if you are thinking about your ex while being involved with someone else. The present relationship with another person may also be unstable causing you to think about your ex. Take into account the reasons the previous relationship ended and make a valiant effort to mend the issues you are having. Limit the time you are involved with your ex to avoid inappropriate thoughts in regards to them.

How about an appetite for new and exciting things?

Life becomes routine and ordinary which can result in a craving for new things. Be cautious at this point because taking action on these emotions could result in an undesirable outcome. The opportunity may come that is exciting but could ruin the possibility of getting back together.

Can you be patient?

Fortunately the person that stands the best chance to get back together with your ex is you. There is a history with the person and feelings that could not be denied at one point. With that in mind you have the best chance of anyone to get back together with your ex. Realize it will take time to restore the feelings that your ex once had for you. When taking into consideration your commitment level and desire to get back together with your ex without doubt patience is a key factor.

Seizing another chance at love

On occasion a relationship failure needs to come about for us to get it right. People have the ability to change and improve. Getting back together after a breakup with a person is not a rare occurrence. Learning from our mistakes is the important factor that can create a fantastic love story with a second chance at the relationship.
 
Hope this helps,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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Without question you want your girlfriend back or else you wouldn’t be reading this. Once you have lost the girl of your dreams it shatters every aspect of your life because all that is on your mind is how to get her back. The anguish you feel is a constant reminder of how much having her in your life can be the only outcome. Rest assured that these feelings have troubled many other individuals as well. After everything that has occurred in the breakup the only hope that you have is the probability that you can get her back. Understand that this hope is not in vain because getting an ex back is not only possible but it has been done by many people. The following information will present some ideas for accomplishing such a task and set you on a course to reuniting with the love of your life.

In order to get her back you must make some changes from the man that lost the dream girl. It is time to capture her attention by making some changes to the things you do to win her heart again.  The first suggestion you need to implement is to stop texting and calling her. Continually calling and texting appears desperate and will be a huge turn off. The idea is to make her want what she perceives that she cannot have. By not calling and texting her it will give the impression that you are trying to move on and questions start to arise in her mind.

Generating these questions is exactly what needs to happen to get her back. Within a short time she will conjure up an excuse to contact you and find out what changes have come about in your life. When this happens you will know that she is hooked and it is the prime time to begin using strategies to getting your ex back. Continue on the path of not having your happiness contingent upon whether or not she is your girlfriend. A mindset positioned upon this idea creates a stature within you that makes you desirable.

Now you are in a better position to get her back so maintain your confidence by not begging her to be in a relationship with you. On occasion she may start up a new relationship and this can be very painful. However, realize that she has the notion unconsciously that a void must be filled in her life so the first person who is attractive and available becomes a rebound. Be adamant that you will not become an annoyance by pleading in desperation to get her back. Remain in contact with her and the results become as you desire.

Overall the primary suggestion is to avoid coming across desperate in your efforts to get her back. By following the preceding ideas it will set the foundation in having your love back into your life.

To Your Happiness,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back FREE Resources www.romance-beacon.com

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I've noticed a lot of forum members talking about the "No Contact" rule and have concerns about contacting their ex. So I've found a video that can answer some questions.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nneghnoI5vg&feature=player_embedded

Someone please pin this so that it can be available to all those who need it.

Hope this helps,

Josh 

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The indescribable feeling after a breakup is absolutely difficult to describe. A broken heart is wrenching and should not be viewed lightly. After all the time that was spent together with your ex and the memories you share it is no surprise that it can be a great challenge to work through the roller coaster of emotions. With a bit of luck this article will provide you some advice for dealing with the breakup and broken heart so pressing in your life.

It’s likely that you’ve been scouring the internet, talking with friends and loved ones, and making use of any other resource that comes to mind to formulate a solution for the broken heart you are dealing with. There is an abundance of information available for the seeker with a broken heart in addition to a number of techniques. However, understand that with all the varying circumstances, individuals, and personalities not one technique will work for everyone. Hold on don’t get discouraged! When certain factors are at play getting through a broken heart can ease the pain and triumph over the issues resulting from the breakup.

A void has been created in your life now that your relationship is over. The daily activities that you participated in with your ex are now non-existent. This is a good time to discover the love that you have for yourself as well as being surrounded by family and friends that love you. Being around loved ones and allowing time to heal your emotions is the best recipe for coping with the breakup. Realize that you are a person worthy of love and it starts with loving yourself. Your self-esteem may be bruised from your broken heart but encircle yourself with loved ones and let time work its magic.

The natural tendency for those with a broken heart is to sulk in misery and lock themselves away in their home. In the beginning stages of the breakup the greatest thing you can do is to vent about all that you are going through. Attempting to talk with someone face to face about your breakup can bring out its own complexity so utilize technology. Joining forums, groups and chats can be an excellent outlet for venting all of the emotions built up in you. Many of the forums and groups are sensitive to people that suffer from a broken heart. There are many rules to protect these individuals and the members are very cordial in supplying advice.

In closing, all is not lost for fulfilling your desire to have the love of your life. Surround yourself with loved ones and supportive individuals as you work through this difficult time. Employ technology as a strategy in the healing process. All the best in your healing heart.

There are some factors to take into account with healing a broken heart.

To Your Happiness,

Josh

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In the creative process you are to ask what you want followed by the allowing and then you sit back and let the desire manifest (receive).  Pretty easy right? How come you don't have your ex back than? That's a great question and I intend on answering it here because this one piece of the puzzle can be the element that is keeping you from realizing the desires of your heart.

If you've been studying the Law of Attraction for any period of time you realize the power in your thoughts and that they do become things. You get what you think about! Since this is true it must also be true that our thoughts shape our world. Having this understanding most people begin practicing control over their thoughts or being deliberate in their thinking with affirmations, visualization, subliminal messaging and a host of other techniques and methods used to think the thoughts that are in alignment with the desire. Implementing these practices are great for helping with getting your thinking on the right track. However, it is not dealing with the true element that is overlooked when a person is trying to create a certain result.

The underlying element that impacts your view of the world and how you think is the beliefs that you have. Take for example the belief that life is hard, with that belief your reality is shaped and it becomes hard. It wasn't hard to begin with not until you started thinking it was. Over time this idea that life is hard stopped being just an opinion and you begin seeing it as a fact of life, and the belief was born.  A belief is a thought that is repeated over and over until we see it as a fact and then it continues creating more like thoughts which is why most people have relatively little change in their lives. They keep thinking the same kind of thoughts in line with unchanging beliefs. An example of this is in the rich get richer and the poor get poorer because they keep thinking the same kind of thoughts they've always been thinking. Certain beliefs that you hold about relationships or a certain person (your ex) will hold you in an unchanged status with the relationship because of the belief creating like thoughts that may be limiting your happiness.

How does a person alter these beliefs so they can create their ideal relationship or even get an ex back? One of the best techniques for realizing the beliefs that you have around the situation with your ex is to notice and observe all the things you think, say and do because they reflect what's going on in your mind and there may be limits there which will appear in your thoughts, words, and actions.  Once you catch yourself with a belief that is not serving you for your ideal relationship ask yourself why you believe that your ideal relationship might be out of reach and follow that chain of thinking until you reveal the belief that is keeping you from the relationship you deserve. Once the belief is pinpointed it is time to ask "so, what do I want?" The belief that is not serving you is what you don't want and you must discover what it is that you do want by asking the preceding question. Now that you have determined what it is that you do want it is much easier to focus on that as your intention. The next time the limiting belief creeps into your thoughts quickly change it with what you do want and in time you will gravitate towards having your desired relationship.

By asking this one simple question around my limiting beliefs I have been able to make tremendous changes in my life. Simply not paying attention to the lack end of the stick in all areas of my life and rather upon what I wanted things have started to turn around for me because I have handled the cause of the results I was getting. I've been searching for answers like these and have noticed there isn't very many resources available to help so I've put some of my findings for free at www.romance-beacon.com

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I am excited to be a part of this forum! I have been a LOA (law of attraction) practitioner deliberately for 5 years and hope to learn some new ideas and more importantly be a contributor to the discussions through my comments and to share ideas for attracting our dream life.

Thanks,

Josh 

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