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Hopefully this will be short but I had a thought that we should be the kind of person who want to be with. If we want someone who is confident we should be confident. If we want someone who is kind be kind...etc.

If an ex came to you and said? "I'm so happy you took me back, I spent hours meditating and doing Remote Seduction just to get you back in my life" Wouldn't you feel a sense of desperation there.

I had an ex who came back several times to me and though I was miserable when he left I never tried to win him back. I remained friends with him. I was nicer to him because well I was still in love with him but I had NO hopes of convincing him to be with me. I never brought up our break-up, and I avoided speaking about his GF. Actually, I pretended she didn't exist. And a year later he confessed his love to me.

Another ex, told me all these nasty things he hated about me and it hurt. Tore me apart. I asked if he was willing to look past those things and when he hesitated. I told him I wasn't going to convince him to be with me or convince him to like me. I stopped speaking to him and just did what I needed to feel better. A few days later he came back asking what we can do to make it work because he loved me.

Both times I was still very much in love with these guys. I was really hurt but I also knew I deserved someone who wanted me as is. I think my confidence and my strength is what drew them back to me. It's sexy.

Don't you think the person you want to attract back wants the same from their partner? Someone strong. So BE that person, BE everything you want. BE CONFIDENT.

You can still love them, you can be sad. You can downright have a pity party every day. But know that a person who can't see your worth isn't worth your energy or time.

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After a few wonderful months with the guy I was seeing and a few failed attempts to end it between us, he has left the country for a few months. How do I feel? Ecstatic! I kept telling myself he wasn't my guy because why would the universe send me someone who so clearly did not want a relationship? Why would the universe give me someone who had almost everything I wanted except one thing? He couldn't be my guy and I couldn't possibly love him. Right?

He came to say goodbye and we held each other and spoke for a few hours. He told me he would miss me and I said I'd miss him too and then he was gone. I was initially worried that he'd find someone he liked more when he was away, maybe fall in love or decide that he wanted to be with someone else. But suddenly I didn't really care. Not in a SCREW YOU kind of way, but as he told me how another girl was doting on him, all I felt was happiness. I was happy he was being taken care of.

I realized that I was blocking out love by making excuses for why he wasn't right. But I was just afraid of falling for him and getting hurt. I feel so content and happy and alive. I can finally feel free to love him, without expectations of us being together. I'm not trying to attract him to be mine or anything. I am just so happy.

When he comes back I'll only be around for a few weeks before I leave the country again. The truth is I may never see him again and you know what I'm not worried one bit. 

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Reading many stories here and I can say I've wanted an ex back. Pined over him for a year remained his friend even when it hurt because being away hurt more. I look back and I don't recognize that girl anymore but I see her in so many posts here. Why is it when someone has decided you aren't the right person for them we think we know better than them so we have to SHOW them that they want us? If we love them shouldn't we just respect their choice and their process, they know themselves better than we ever will. And why would we want someone who doesn't love us? We love these people regardless of how they treat us, and all they have to do is exist. While we believe we have to jump through three rings of fire for them to decide we are worthy of a one word text. Are we being fair and loving to ourselves?

I'm not saying your ex isn't "The One" but if they are your soulmate why are you worried? They are already yours and will be yours forever. So have fun an start working on attracting all the other things you want. No one is THAT special or worth waiting around for. Time us ticking you can never get this time back.

And that ex I spoke about earlier we went on to get back together several times after. I stopped worrying because no matter how nasty it got we always became friends again, naturally. Now I don't feel those feelings for him but it taught me that nothing is really permanent and most ppl find their way back to you if they care enough. You don't need to convince ppl to want you to be worthwhile

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I have been doing without a laptop for about 2mths. It's how I make money. I wasn't too worried because I used one provided by my office. I ended up leaving my job two weeks ago with no idea how I'd find the money to get a new machine. I've been taking it easy not thinking about it too much. Even when I was getting bothered about it and being pressured to get a new one so I can start working again. Then one evening I searched online found one at a affordable price and mother is giving me the money. I don't have to pay it back! I pick it up today and I don't have to settle for a model I didn't want. It took two secs to find it so easy!

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I've been dreaming of travelling for awhile and I FINALLY won a trip of a lifetime! I am going to Morocco!  I am so excited and thankful the everyone here who has cheered me on I leave in June for 12 days. I just want to dance and prance and tell the world. Thank you thank you THANK YOU!

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Sometimes you learn skills and don't realize it. I used to hurt hard when I had a crush on someone and they didn't feel the same. I would feel worthless and have the urge to prove to them that I was the perfect person for them. I'd want them so bad and not even no why. I tied my self worth to their acceptance.

Now I do cry a little when I feel frustrated. But it never breaks me. I really liked someone and I told them and they just never responded. Then something amazing happened, I didn't feel anxious or that pit in my stomach I usually do. I wasn't angry at them, I actually went along my day as usual laughed and had a nice day. Still no word from them and I feel ok. I'm not sure when this transformation took place, but I'm sure it was when I learned to value myself more and know my worth. Don't put your happiness in anyone else's hands.

I have noticed a new strength in me where I feel more confident getting out of situations I don't like and voicing my concerns. I want everyone here to know they are valuable and that you don't need to jump through hoops for anyone, just be a good person.

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By the topic of my thread you'd think I'd be depressed but I am so calm. I lost my job, have very little money, have debts to repay, no laptop, single and not sure how I will pay my bills this month. But I feel at incredible peace. I want to travel the world ever since I was a child it has been a burning desire of mine to see all the world has to offer. I have nothing (besides my debts to pay off) holding me here. But I'm also unsure of my purpose. I want to find my purpose in life. I want my life to be abundant and to want for nothing. Today I'm grateful that I have no job because I want to spend it meditating on finding my purpose and getting my life right on track.

Any tips on using meditation to find your purpose and bring abundance to your life?

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Most days I read messages of people who are frantic wondering what do and seeking direction. I sympathize with them because I remember being there. I remember the confusion of wanting a man who I now know could never be my soulmate. A man who the universe took out of my life because he wasn't helping me to grow. It's been almost 2 years and I haven't entered into another relationship and guess what I haven't died. The reason I'm writing this post is that today I realized how much I've grown. Someone I have a crush on hasn't been answering my calls or messages from yesterday. Which is odd. In the past I'd be freaking out, feeling bad wondering what I did wrong. I would even start making up stories in my head. I just feel calm,I know that I'm ok and that whatever is going on has nothing to do with me. I feel so detached and clear knowing the universe is always doing what's best for me.

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It took me awhile but I finally get it. True love begins with me. Now that I understand love is abundant I have no fears of losing it or securing it. I know it's all around and I don't need anyone to make me feel it. It's liberating knowing that there is nothing to be afraid of.

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Usually we write success stories when we are the end of our journey. Today I just wanted to just bask in the wonder fullness of my life. I came here almost two years ago when I had a bad break-up. I wanted to find a way to be happy again and was unsure about wanting my ex.

I look at my life now and I feel so blessed. I have beautiful friends who love me unconditionally, I have a great apartment and I am involved with a man who makes me feel extremely loved. My goals are in progress but, I am so happy.

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When I look back at my past relationships I realize I never lived in the moment I always lived for what I thought it would become. Thinking if only he did this or when he gets money that. Or I wonder how long this will last. I never got too confortable out of fear that it was about to end and nothing I had in the present was enough. When I look back I always regret not cherishing those hugs a little more or just enjoying and basking in the wonderful moments.

I'm learning to do that now. With this new interest I'm completely immersed in every moment and it feels amazing. Sometimes we are so caught up in how we want things to be we forget to just enjoy the present.

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I have been saying I hate my clothes for a long time now. I say I want a new wardrobe but I have no money. It depressed me because I'm a fashionable person but I never feel like I dress the way I really want to. Today I decided to make room for my new clothes. I got rid of all the stuff I disliked and were old and I'm starting over. Here's to manifesting a new wardrobe that matches how I feel on the inside.

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I believe everyone comes into your life for a reason and when their job is done they leave or you naturally grow apart. I wonder what purpose this guy serves. I'm ready to find someone to have a great loving relationship with and even though I expressed wanting to continue as strictly friends he still comes on to me. I always stand my ground and he's never mad or upset but he continues and it's actually making uncomfortable. I may actually have to just ignore his messages from now on because if you tell someone you're no longer interested in something and they insist against your will what else is there. I read somewhere that you should not expect others to uphold your boundaries.

I am so sure more than ever that I want to find my guy this year and I want to be ready and available when he arrives.

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I hope this will be short. So many here are trying to find love which is so great. I thought to myself the people in my life who I love the most, the ones I cherish the ones who are always there for me, I don't worry about them. I don't worry if I'll scare them off by being myself or they will feel if I say I love you. If I haven't heard from them in days, I don't get scared they aren't speaking to me or that they have forgotten to love me. I know if we fall out we'll be friends again soon or if not that I can live without them.

So why don't we have the same attitude when we want a significant other? Imagine if we could cultivate those same feelings for a love interest as we do for our friends and family complete detachment. Love would always come flying our way.

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So I started ho'ponopono and honestly I was skeptical but I feel amazing. I feel less anxious when I think about my friend and about our journey together. I feel like I am on my way to clearing my limiting beliefs of not being enough or that men will not want to commit to me. I have always attracted men who seemed to love me but didn't want to be with me. I felt the same pain over and over again.

This morning I felt inspired to revisit these men and ask them why they seemed to like me but never too interested in moving forward. I thought I wasn't worthy why they would do such a thing. So far I got two responses and I am amazed. Both men expressed caring deeply for me and that their choice wasn't because they didn't care but other reasons they were too afraid and ashamed to share.

This whole time I've been telling myself the story that they were just messing around with my feelings and they never really cared. That I wasn't good enough to be with them. Now I see I have been lying to myself this whole time.

Someone here said to find love I needed to let go of my past and I feel I'm getting closer. The hardest one to let go will be my most recent ex,because I have a lot of anger towards him. In time I know I will let him go too.

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