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'Focus on the journey'.
'You can get what you want if you can be happy NOW, without the physical presence of it'.
'What you want will be yours when you don't 'need' it anymore'.
It's tricky, isn't it, when you're still existing in a paradigm of 'need to get to the goal'.
Here's something I've been doing, a mantra I've been using. It's soft, it goes general and it takes the focus off 'getting to the goal'.
'I am enjoying feeling the energy of God moving through me as I focus on this situation. I am looking forward to experiencing the energy moving through me more!'
If you change your focus to 'I love feeling the energy that creates worlds moving through me', then you enjoy that energy flowing through you no matter what 'physical' stage your manifestation is 'up to'.
It also changes your focus to the feeling.
Energy is ALWAYS moving. Enjoy the feeling of the flowing of energy moving through you Enjoy the physical evidence of the energy flowing and flow with your own stream of your own making.
I think I'm going to post all my threads in here from now on because all stories are success stories, from the point of view of source
YESTERDAY, I was visited by a LARGE, bright green grasshopper. He / she came inside in the morning and sat on our window blind. In the evening, he / she was still inside but had moved places on top of the kitchen cupboard. I went to say hello and she kept flying / jumping onto me! I put a glass bowl over her and gently carried her outside. Again she flew over and sat on me...I moved her to some nice greenery...
I looked up grasshopper and the spiritual meaning of being visited by this animal totem. The grasshopper can JUMP great distances, and some of the meanings I read were about being able to 'jump through time and space'. It is a great joy for me at the moment, exploring jumping through parallel dimensions, conciously. Waking up and being magician is a lot of fun! The grasshopper is also a symbol of very good luck...
But wait, there's more!
My love also called me 'grasshopper' in at least one conversation and being called it is something I associate with him. Further, the LOA videos I've been watching by the awesome Andy Dooley, he also uses the term grasshopper.
SHUT YOUR PIE-HOLE AND DRINK GREEN TEA, GRASSHOPPER!
This is young grasshsoppers, signing off. Remember, the animals can tell us stuff!! They always do!!
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on: December 28, 2012, 09:37:02 AM 4 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / I find myself feeling like a victim over past injustices - can you please help?
A few weeks ago, as I posted here, I made a really strong, general grid. I focused on the general feelings of love, joy and passion. I kept coming back to those feelings again and again and again.
Now, just as Abraham said it would, the grid has been filling in with more and more specific stuff.
I am now vibrating at the frequency where I am having more contact with certain people whom I am very much in love with. There is more closeness, more personal, day to day contact. More smiles, more laughs, more jokes, more play, fun and love. There are more signs, synchronicites and positive emotions.
I can feel the love and joy in my perfect relationship very viscerally.
I would like your help, please, with the following:
When this was just an emotional grid, without physical stuff in it, it was easier to keep my vibration very pure and simple. No resistance. Love, love, love.
However, now there are more specifics in my grid. More conversations and a stronger vibration.
Here is what the situation is:
There are various things which have 'happened' in the past, with the people whom I am now in closer contact with. Situations which I created, through fear and doubt. These resulted in situations where I felt, at the time, abandoned, manipulated, lost, lied to and used. All those yukky, low vibration emotions. These feelings of course manifested into situations as my grid filled in and the people in my life played the roles I assigned to them.
Now, I am faced with an interesting challenge and opportunity. On the one hand, I do not want to reactivate that victimhood vibration within me again. I do not want to act, feel and think like a victim. Even conversations where I am 'playing the victim' (i.e 'you did this to me! How very dare you??') reactivate that vibration and create a new grid which can only fill in with more conversation which makes me feel victimised. Or, rather, I feel victimised...and then the grid fills in.
On the other hand, I do not like the feeling of having *been* victimised, and then being ignored. Of having been treated badly, and then everyone just acting like it was nothing. I do not like that at all...I want to be acknowledged. I want someone to put their hand up and truly show me
'I know how you felt as a result of my incompetence. I did the wrong thing by you and I'm sorry - you deserved better. Let me make it up to you. Let me treat you properly...let me show you how much you mean to me. I love you and I am so very sorry'.
That is what I deserve, right? I deserve to be acknowledge, to be recognised as a divine being, as a wonderful person who should be treated well.
I know that thinking 'I want that but don't have it', I am still in the 'asking' mode to get that kind of treatment. That is OK, because I know when I ask, it is always given - so those conversations are already vibrationally active within my vortex. Those apologies and acknowledgements and sincere empathy, understanding and responsibility-taking already exists.
But, paradoxically, *I* have to take responsibility for creating these situations. True and complete responsibility - and then that can be reflected back to me. i have to become the vibration of that which I want - and then it can be there.
That's where I am now. At this moment, I had an impulse to send a few emails to various people...'Why did you treat me so badly? I deserved better! You should apologise and feel very very sorry'.
Yet I know when I have started conversations of that ilk, of that vibrational frequency - they have *always* gone downhill. There is no love and light to be found there.
I asked myself and my source what I should do *instead* of sending those emails - and the urge was really, very strong to come and post on here, asking for your help and support.
I know these things intellectually, that everything i want is in my vortex. On most and many subjects I can even get in there quite easily. But on this particular subject - on the issue of being recognised, of being apologised to and of having someone else say to me 'I'm sorry I did you wrong, I take responsibility, let me make it up to you' - I'm not truly used to being shown that kind of care and affection by others. I'm even feeling someone teary writing this, which shows it's really a sore spot for me.
My experience with others has been that, when a close other - be it family, friend, or lover - does something wrong by me - that I have, in the past, found them to be indifferent to it. Not even indifferent so much as actually unaware. And when I do make them aware, it's like they can't hear me, like I am told 'you should not be upset by this, it is not a big deal...'
Yet, when I have hurt another, even when it would not be a big deal 'to me', the very fact that it matters to someone I care about means I immediately become very empathetic. I cannot apologise enough and I do my utmost to try and make it up to them, to show them that I care. I feel very guilty and shocked when I even accidentally bump into someone I care about's feelings. It hurts when so little regard has been shown the other way.
I want to manifest something different. Sincerity - apologies - and someone looking out for *me* for a change. I'm sick of everyone I get close to feeling 'ah, she is strong, she'll be fine and get over it'. *I* want to be someone's priority, for once!
I deserve it...right?
As you can probably see by my post, at the moment I am still much in the victim mindset and heartset, and yet trying to climb out. I want to feel better. I would appreciate any help you can give in reminding me who I am, whatever it is. Then, I will come back and read this thread when I get the urge to play victim again.
Thank you for reading and for any help you can offer.
on: December 24, 2012, 05:28:38 AM 5 Success Stories / Success Stories / how I aligned with an email from my love after 6 months of no contact :
For a few people that asked, here's how I attracted an email from my ex-fiance after six months of no contact. He's in another country, and the last email I got from him was six months ago. In that, he told me to never contact him again.
The last two months, I've really been in the vortex a lot. I let go of my wanting to control all the little moving parts of everything, and instead decided to just be happy, now. That's when it all started. I'd put a lot of postive, relationship stuff into my vortex and I trusted the Universe would bring it to me. I didn't need to wait until it got here to be happy, though As soon as I let go, all this really great stuff started flowing into my experience. I reunited with a certain special person and started talking again. I saw someone I hadn't seen for 16 years, who I had been wanting to see - and the Universe brought us together in a really amazing way and I had a great experience with them. I've had a really amazing couple of months!
Then, a couple of weeks ago, I started talking to myself about all the great relationship things which are in my vortex. Not to make anything happen, but because I enjoyed the feeling of them. I'd activated an in the vortex vibration consistantly enough that those things, those specifics, came easily to my mind. Up until then, I'd really just been focusing on the general grid-building. For instance, focusing on the general feeling of love, of joy. That was the grid I activated a lot. When I went about my day, if I felt myself getting vibrationally out of synch, I would come back to....love...joy...happiness...love...bliss. Just like in those grid creation threads I talked about. After having done this for a few weeks, the actual specifics of my relationship came to me really easily. Not because I'd affirmed them or visualised them, but because I was vibrationally in the vicinity of those specific thoughts.
So, I talked to myself about the wonderful things in my vortex relationship. For instance, I would say to myself...
'There are lots of wonderful, deep conversations in my vortex'
'I'm really looking forward to lying in bed together, in the early hours of the morning and listening to a rainstorm outside and having secret, whispered conversations'
'I know that in my vortex is a guy who cooks amazing food'
'I'm really looking forward to the passionate love-making which is in my vortex'
I wasn't going into any specifics about who this would be, or how or when it would happen. I was just enjoying the vibrational feeling-place of those wonderful things. In feeling for them, they didn't feel absent - they were present, vibrationally, which was enough to giveme the emotional feeling place of them. It was the same feeling I had earlier this year (in March / April) - when I aligned with a closeness with someone who I'd been wanting to be close with for a very long time. The attitude was one of 'I'm really enjoying exploring this'...and while I knew my grid would fill in with manifestational evidence, I wasn't feeling like something was missing in the moment I was exploring these wonderful feelings. I wasn't trying to 'make' anything happen, I was just knowing that 'this is wonderful...and of course more will come'.
Sometimes, while thinking specific thoughts I would find myself going off onto 'how will this happen, who will it happen with?'...and that didn't feel so good. When I did that, I came back to 'love...joy...bliss'. Or, I just had a nap or meditated or watched a comedy DVD
The first 'manifestation' I can remember from this was the impulse to sort out my song collection on my computer, at which point I foudn the song which is 'our' song - the one from my love who was my fiance. I added it onto a track listing on my mp3 player and listened to it a bit and just remembered good times we had together. I was listening to my imagination as well, and from that I got the impulse to make a necklace with some charms which reminded me of him. So I bought some of the things to make the necklace, which then brought happier thoughts of him back even more. All this time, I was listening to my imagination. So...making a necklace and listening to a song isn't 'the' way to make anything happen. If you build your grids and be in the vortex, and then listen for inspiration that comes, you'll get inspired to do what is 'the' way for you. It might be making a picture of you together...it might be affirmations...it might be RS...it might be scripting. Sometimes when I've been in the vortexabout certain things, the inspiration I have gotten has just been a very clear 'stop thinking about that now, get out of the way to let the universe deliver it to you!'. Sometimes I have gotten inspiration to act out a scene, very physically. Sometimes I have gotten inspiration to meditate, or send love, or do a tarot reading, or use crystals, or...any number of things. The specific things I did, I did because it was right for this situation. It was the GRID building which allowed the specific impulses on what to do to come into my experience.
So...back to the story
I remembered some very happy times we had. I bought these things to make a necklace, which was a copy of a charm I made when we were together - but with some extra, special pieces added. I haven't finished it yet. Anyway, it was something special to us. I also listened to an album which I hadn't listened to in a long time, which reminds me of him. As I did these things, I saw more and more synchronicity around me of love, relationships and him. Mind you, at this point - and even now - I'm not trying to fill my own grid in. I'm not specifically trying to 'make' anything happen with him. I'm following my joy to where it goes - the universe knows the best relationship / relationships for me. I'm flowing with it to get there. So, even when I was listening to those songs and making that charm necklace, I did it because it felt good - not to try and make something happen.
Now, the last 72 hours have been pretty phenomenal - and it started on the 21st December Bashar said that's the point when our collective conciousness will tip from more negative (segregative) to more positive (integrative) - and it has I've had a few good experiences with people in this 72 hours and also been given quite a few presents, recieved loving phone calls, had wonderful cuddles and hugs with people I love and shared some great laughs.
When I got home on Saturday evening, there was an email from my love (the one this post is about) in my in-box. Now, the last time I heard from him was six months ago - at that point, he sent a very angry email, telling me not to contact him again. I haven't. This email he sent was also quite abrupt, but it indicated he wanted to talk. It was interesting to get it...it felt totally natural, like getting it was the next logical step. However, it was also a pleasant surprise.
What's happened since?
I didn't email him back. I don't know if I will - I'm focusing on the core vibrations of love and joy and what's in my vortex. If I am inspired to email him back, then I'll do so. At the moment, my physical mind is unsure if he is one with whom a relationship would be the best thing for me. Therefore, I am focusing on what is in my vortex and letting my higher mind guide my hand and words. As long as I stay in my vortex, only all the best things can come to me
But, here's some interesting synchronicity. Last night, I started typing an email to him as a reply. I wasn't sure if I was going to send it...I wanted to type it and see how it felt. It didn't feel good and I felt out of the vortex, like I was trying to make something happen and not going with the flow. So, I deleted my reply and left it. However, because now the 'original email' had been edited, the time on his email in my inbox changed to 10:10pm. I looked up '1010' as an angel number on impulse, and I got
- a reminder that we create our own reality
- asking you to tune into your own inner, higher guidance
When I first got the email from him, I drew a self-care card (like an angel card, a deck I have) and a tarot card. The self-care card I got was 'inner guidance' and the tarot card was 'indecision'. Which is true - I haven't decided if I want him back, as a lover, yet. All of these signs are telling me to tune into my own inner guidance. Which is OK...when in doubt, stay in the vortex But I donm't HAVE to make anything happen - I am just staying in the vortex and letting the Universe handle the how / when / where
This morning, I went out for a walk. When I woke up, first thing, I was inspired to put on a certain piece of music which reminds me of him again - and specifically, which reminds me of him in all his love and light. I listened to it a few times and then went to change the track on my iPhone - at which point I got a little nudge from the Universe - 'check your email!' - so I did. This time, there was an email there from his MUM! She has emailed me a few times this year (maybe 4 or 5). We were pretty close, but I also haven't heard from her in a few months! So...that was my grid filling in I checked the time on HER email - and it was 9:10am - which I suddenly realised was 10:10pm UK time (where she is) - wow! Another 1010!
Then, when I got home, I turned Skype on, and his Mum had added me on Skype. I accepted the friend request, and opened a chat window with her and typed 'hello' to her. The local time on her Skype (UK) time, when I opened the window and typed 'hello'...read EXACTLY 11:11pm. I took a screen-shot because it was so awesome
She didn't reply, but I'm sure if / when I'm meant to speak with her, it will happen.
At the moment, dear friends...I am just LOVING being in the vortex. LOVING LOVING LOVING. I don't need to make anything happen. It's all happening FOR me.
By the way, there's a great video I found on suring up your grid before action. I want to post it here...I will when I find it. It's specifically about relationships.
GRID....THEN action (if needed).
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on: December 03, 2012, 06:12:00 AM 6 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / For everyone who has created an AMAZING romantic relationship in their vortex!!
For each person on this forum who is not in a relationship currently and would like to be.
Whether attracting a new relationship with a past lover or whether it's something completely new!
Each one of us, through time, has already put the relationship we want into our vortex.
Whenever we experienced something we did not like, either about a partner, a circumstance, or a person (a friend, a waiter, a hotel, a collegue - anyone).
That relationship which we want has already been created and amassed in vibrational escrow.
So, when you experienced a lover who was rude...you asked for a more polite lover, and they went into your vortex.
When you experienced a lover who did not show interest in your hobbies...you put a lover in your vortex who does show interest.
When you experienced a lover who was chronically late for things, you vibrationally requested 'more on timeness' - and that went into your vortex.
The Universe knows exactly what you want, from all your asking. It doesn't matter if you asked with words or without words, whether you asked conciously or unconciously. Everytime you have felt a negative reaction to something about a lover, that has asked for the equivalent positive aspect. And the larger part of you has become a vibrational match to that. And your lover - your lover with ALL of those positive qualities - has already been put into your vortex for you!
So, the larger part of you - the source energy part of you - is already over there, as a vibrational match to what you want. And your lover is over there, a vibrational match to what you want.
The question is - where are you? Are YOU a vibrational match to what you want?
Or are you still complaining about what you want not coming, and looking at all the things which caused what you want to go into vibrational escrow?!
You can't have it both ways! You have to find a way to focus only on what feels good at what you want!!
You can do it...
So, I encourage you all to become great 'reality ignorers'. The more you focus on what is, the more you get of what is. If you focus on the nitty gritty negative details of 'he blocked me on Facebook', 'she has a new boyfriend', 'that person said they hate me and we used to be so close' - if you keep focusing on that, if you keep allowing that to train your vibration, then you're-just-gonna-get-more-of-that.
So, stop talking about THAT.
Instead, focus on what's in your vibrational escrow.
It helps to stop thinking of the specific lover you want, for a little while. Relax and know that if that lover - that ex, that person, whomever - is TRULY the best match for you, to what you want, then the Universe WILL bring you them.
The only way you would NOT get that person, that specific one, is if there is someone who is better.
Not someone that the all knowing Universe decides is better for you. But someone, who, if you knew everything about the specific one you want - and everything about this 'other one' - then you would say 'yes, I want the other one, not the one I thought I wanted'.
SO RELAX. You're not gonna get duped. You're not gonna get second best. You're not gonna get some sort of crappy, sub-standard version of what you asked for!
No, you're gonna get the absolute best, what's in your vortex!
But it can still be much easier to take your attention away from the SPECIFIC lover you've been focused on.
Because, focusing SO specifically on one person, when you're not in a state of absolute certainty and clarity, can add resistance. BIG resistance. Because you not only focus on them as they are in your vortex, you focus on all the things (which you percieve) as being a hinderance to you and them getting together.
But they said they'd never love me.
But they blocked me on Facebook.
But they have a new girlfriend now, and she's hotter than me!
But they're moving to Albuquerque.
You see? You're focusing on the in-your-vortex them and your out-of-the-vortex them at the same time, sending out mixed, split energy - and then, getting mixed signals back from the Universe!! YOU gotta send a clear signal, if you want clarity back!! It all srtarts with YOU - YOU HAVE THE POWER!!!
All that stuff which, to the Universe is no obstacle at all - but you, with your physical mind, make it one by looking at the circumstances and feeling like 'well, this is impossible!' - or - 'Well, this is unlikely!' - which adds BIG resistance to the mix.
You don't need that resistance.
Focus generally on the really good feeling qualities your lover in your vortex has, and let the Universe sort out for you WHICH lover and HOW that will all come about. If you take a little bit of trust in the Universe and get out of your own way, you open the door...and miracles will happen
Say, HEY UNIVERSE!!! I know that you know EXACTLY what I want. So I'm gonna get out of the way and let you deliver it to me!
And then, focus generally with absolute joy and bliss on what's in your vortex. When you don't put a name, a face, a person to it - then it's much easier for it to come to you.
Have fun! Feel free to post about the lover who is in your vortex in this thread, as well as discussing going general to get out of your own way.
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And the grids...
I took a break from this forum for a while, a few weeks back. I'd soaked up everything I could for a time, like a full sponge that can't soak up anymore. So I took a break.
During that time, I asked myself a very powerful question. It was about letting go. Up until then, I had focused on staying in the specific feeling place of what I wanted- the relationship. But now I was ready to 'let go and let god'. I had realised that I truly didn't need the relationship to feel happy. Not, even, that I didn't need to to feel happy - but that I didn't need to to feel insanely, WONDERFully happy. i HAD FELT SO BLISSFUL BEFORE WITHOUT THAT relationship - so, surely, that relationship couldn't be the cause of my bliss. Therefore, I said to myself - why am I waiting for this thing to come along so I can feel this absolute bliss? And I took the relationship out of the equation.
me ---> relationship ---> bliss
I made the equation
me ----> BLISS!!
I realised I can feel bliss NOW.
So, why would I hold myself away from it?
I decided to feel that bliss all the time, anyway, whatever the relationship was or wasn't. That was what Abraham meant by 'make the relationship with your vortex the most important thing'.
After that decision, things moved really fast. But first, let me explain the grid, which I now understand.
Creating an emotional grid is something Abraham talks about, and it works like this.
First, you focus on the feeling of what you want. At the basis of anything you want is an emotional core. Like...in that relationship, maybe you want the feeling of love. Or, in that money, maybe you want the feeling of power. Tomake a grid, you feel around and find that core feeling.
Then, you just focus on that. Not in relation to the money or the relationship or ANYTHING, just the feeling. You conjure the feeling up, within yourself, NOW.
This is the first part of the power - because it's the feeling you are looking for. And you can have that feeling NOW. That's what I realised - you don't have to wait for whatever it is to come. You can have it NOW. Because it's the feeling you're wanting. That makes your super-powerful-instant-creator! But you have to do it for the feeling - not do the feeling because you're wanting something to come from it. You just love the feeling.
Then, law of attraction is always working - and it draws other feelings like yours to you. That's the point - you don't have to fill in the grid. Law of attraction does that FOR you. You know when you have a thought which doesn't feel so good - and the more you think on it, the more bad feelings come, and you remember times in your life when that happened, and you remember times it could have happened, and you worry about it happening again...and so on and so on? THAT'S law of attraction at work. Law of attraction works on thoughts and feelings too - as well as the physical stuff.
So, you find a feeling you love.
You focus on it. You talk with yourself about it.
And you let your grid fill in. it's a grid because it's like the base of a house or building - the more you're focused on it, the more it fills in. Let IT do the work for you. If the only feelings which come are general ones, that's fine! it doesn't have to be anything specific about the thing you're aligning with. In fact, specific can get in the way.
So, I made my grid. It was of pure happiness. I made the grid, because I realised I can be - and am - purely happy - not to MAKE it happen, but because THAT'S WHAT I PREFER TO BE. NO MATTER *WHAT* THE CIRCUMSTANCES.
That opened the floodgates - and NOW, oh my, NOW I understand the vortex SO much more.
The vortex...the vortex...my dear friends, I don't think before we had any idea of the amount of STUFF in this vortex we have. It was all sort of nebulous. But I have been in here, purely, for a few weeks now - and let me tell you how BIG it is.
The vortex is literally EVERYTHING you have ever asked for. It is in there. The relationships - the conversations - the money - the experiences.
Like, if, at age 8, you said to yourself 'I want my own jumping castle' - there's one in the vortex.
If at age 15 you had a crappy meal which was overpriced, you sent a vibrational rocket for 'delicious, cheap (or free) meal'
And we're asking all day, every day! Can you imagine how much STUFF is in there??!!
The day I let go - that afternoon I got inspired to go for a walk somewhere I don't normally go. I met someone I had not seen for 16 years who I had been REALLY wanting to see - and as a result, i got to have the exact experience with them I'd been asking for. It was like the door to my vault opened and that was one of the first things which spilled out.
Two days ago, I got inspired to drive somewhere that I wasn't planning on going - I found an abandoned socccer ball, and I'd been wanting one.
Five days ago, I expressed my desire to the universe to go to a four day music festival, for free. Two days later, a friend gave me a free ticket.
A week ago, I drew a cheque for $5000 - just for fun Two days later, $6000 came!!
Today, I was given tickets to a play I decided about a week ago I wanted to see. Not bought - was GIVEN. Without even asking. Later today I was in a shop with a friend. I had a thought that I wanted a certain food item - and within 30 seconds - I kid you not - my friend offered to buy it for me. With no prompting.
I'm f***ing invincible !!!
And that's just a small slice of what's been happening. Suffice it to say that I'm purely happy, through and through. I no longer am holding out on my own happiness. And because of that, the universe is knocking itself out to please me.
Now, I'm sure you all want to know what's happened with the relationship...
About four days after I let go, he contacted me - with no prompting from me. Two days later, he contacted me again. About five days after that, he initiated us talking.
We're talking. It's going great. I'm not saying anymore just now
Just...get in the vortex. Make the relationship with you the most important thing. not to get anything - but because it IS. Because you are a divine being and your happiness shouldn't have to - DOESN'T have to - wait, dependent on anyone or anything else. You can be happy NOW. Just because you choose to BE! Don't wait for the outside to change to be as happy as you can be. You know you can be so happy now - you go there in your visualisations. So be that happynow ANYWAY.
There are a couple more things I've learned which I'd love to share here:
1. ACCEPT all of you. ACCEPT all of what is. I finally understand this one now!! I used to think 'if I accept what is, won't it not change?' WEll, no. It'slike this. While you're not accepting a certain part of creation, it's sticking around because on some level you're pushing against it. When you accept all of what is, you accept it as a valid part of creation. Bashar says there are infite parallel realities, remember? So accept this one, you're in now, as a valid part of all that is. And accept your fears which are being played out to you by the people around you as valid parts OF YOU.
IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOURSELF, HOW CAN CREATION ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOU?? REMEMBER, YOUR REALITY IS JUST A MIRROR FOR YOU! Nothing more, nothing less. You have to truly accept all of you - then creation will too.
THEN, once you accept all of you - THEN, you can choose. Not because 'this reality is bad and that reality is good', but just because you PREFER that reality. But you move towards and with the reality you prefer by assuming the vibration of it (by creating a grid), rather than pushing against anything you don't prefer.
If ANYTHING you're doing is motivated by fear...fear of being alone, being powerless, being poor, being sick, being unloved - then that fear will keep playing itself out to you over and over again in your reality UNLESS and UNTIL you sort it out in yourself first. The stuff you don't prefer in your life is JUST a mirror for your fears and pains. Change yourself, rather than changing the mirror.
2. Creation ALWAYS supports you unconditionally. It will ALWAYS and ONLY ever responds to the vibration you're putting out. Tghat is how it supports you - if you are putting out the vibration of unworthyness, then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - I will support you in what you say is true for you' - and then it gives you unworthyness. If you are putting out the vibration of 'love' then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - you tell me what is true for you and I will reflect it back' - and you get a life of love. So creation gives YOU the full and absolute power to make the choices FOR YOURSELF and it supports your vibration that you're putting out unconditionally.
It can't give you any sort of 'break' from this - i.e. you can't turn law of attraction off because creation IS you. So YOU are not in creation - creation is in YOU. You are God-Force...Light-Stuff...Divine blessed creator. Be happy and the rest will follow - it HAS to. But be happy to the point where you can honestly say to yourself 'I am happy and I choose to be this way because I prefer it even IF nothing changed I would still be happy. This isn't even about the relationship between me and the world anymore - it's about my relationship between me and me '
3. Whatever reason you're focused on right now, for you wanting to get in the vortex - YES it will come OF COURSE IT WILL - BUT it is teeny tiny compared to ALL the stuff that is in your vortex. and ALL of it will please you because you put all of it there!! So get in there and just relax, let the universe do it's thing with divine timing and bring you everything you've ever wanted.
The short version:
Get happy, stay happy and get EVERYTHING (literally) you've ever wanted. Because being happy IS the manifestation that matters. And yes, the other stuff will come too - hot on its heels. But when you're there, you will KNOW that the pure happiness IS the success you've been searching for.
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on: October 11, 2012, 06:37:34 AM 8 General Category / Law of Attraction Lounge / LOA memes - tumblr
on: October 09, 2012, 01:14:40 PM 9 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Change your Story - Romance Resources
Hey guys. I'm writing my new script (see this thread) - it's flowing through me, into my mind, for the last few days. Ever since I released that old script. I'm going to do some final meditations tonight of tearing up my old script and throwing out my old role and then I'll be there!
The thing is, I've realised in my new script what I really, really want is a love story. This is kind of new for me, wanting the whole 'romance' thing. It's not normally what I go for. But I realised this is what I really want. Stuff like...being taken out on dates. Him bringing me flowers. Watching the sunset together. Making love somewhere beautiful. Long walks on the beach. Springtime picnics. Gazing into each others' eyes.
Romance is not something I've craved like this in quite a while. I've always wanted more...sex...than romance. But this relationship just feels different, you know? Like, I kind of go all...
Erm, what's the word.
Swooning. I'm swooning. That's the story I want...still sexual, yes. But ROMANCE. A really, passionate, romantic relationship...that's amazing...that's in my vortex with him, now.
I'm going to start collecting pictures of romance for my story...could you folks please tell me this is a happening thing? I mean, I know it IS. I just want to talk about it because it feels so good to!
Also, if anyone has any images of romance or romantic movies they'd love to share...
I think I'm going to play lady Loki's fantastic wishing game as part of this.
Anyway, I thought this thread could be a resource thread for those of us who want a little romance in our stories? Add pictures, youtube videos, titles of movies, stories, books we can read. Let's support each other in the loving romance!!
on: October 09, 2012, 05:49:32 AM 10 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / There's no solution in a problem: 'that way madness lies!;
I have a phrase that I say to myself, when I start to get confused and think that I can ACTUALLY solve a problem, by looking deeper and deeper into the problem. I know that the solutions to all my problems are in the vortex, and all I have to do is just get in there. But sometimes my mind goes 'No! We can solve this problem...by pulling it apart, examining the bits and pieces of it, by REACTING rather than CREATING!' - which of course isn't true!
So, the phrase I say to myself when I'm delving into a problem to try and solve it is
'THAT WAY MADNESS LIES'
It's actually from King Lear! Which I didn't know until I looked it up just now. Anyway, a problem is like a wasps' nest. It contains nothing but misery and grief. You don't pull apart a wasps' nest, hoping to find some candy in there! The same way, you don't pull apart a problem, hoping to find a solution. What I am talking about is the SOLVING of the problem, as a problem 'out there' by the way. if you're using it as a way to learn more about yourself, that is different. But when you pull apart a problem, from outside the vortex, hoping to find a solution - what you'll get is more problem.
I think that's the key - 'from outside of the vortex'. INSIDE the vortex, then it's easier to see what solution the problem has caused you to put there. But outside the vortex, no.
Think of a 'problem' like a fractal. From outside the vortex, the fractal just contains more of itself:
I used to be notorious for 'let's talk' relationship talks. The old me, the 'other' me, had a history of 'let's sit down and talk about this problem'. But usually I was problem focused, not solution focused. Not in the vortex, let's see what you've got, Universe, focused.
This came fully to light most recently in a relationship, which I won't go into here and now. But I realised that I could not peel the problems in this relationship apart, I could not DIG so deep - ever - to find the love and joy and closeness and passion I was looking for. Instead, I just had to give it up - let go of the problem and focus EXCLUSIVELY on the version of this relationship that's IN MY VORTEX. Because that already contains all the love and joy and passion which pleases me so. There is no solution in a problem. Yes, sometimes you might find a solution when thinking on the topic that the problem has been on - but there is no solution in the VIBRATION of a problem.
So if you're like I was, and you ferret about in problems hoping to find your solutions, just tell yourself
THAT WAY MADNESS LIES!!
Problems in your life aren't your 'now' reality, anyway! They're just the 'jumping off place' for what's in your vortex! The reason - the ONLY reason we infinite beings ever decided to experience contrast was so that we could put MORE STUFF into our vortexes. Yeah! Party on! The problem is just a springboard, like an ordering form to the Universe - I experienced this so I could better know what i want and all the stuff which I want could be put into my vortex FOR me to GET IN HERE AND ENJOY IT.
So, stop screwing around outside of the vortex!! (She said to herself )
And get yourself into the vortex instead. Let the solution be SHOWN to you. Let it be REVEALED to you. It's already here! It's already been worked out! It's already NOW reality! You just need to get yourself into the vibrational frequency to SEE it!
on: October 09, 2012, 05:21:05 AM 11 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Circuit Breakers: How to confuse your negative thoughts away
You know how, when you think a thought, law of attraction brings more thoughts like that thought to you? This is all well and good when you think a positive thought, because as long as you stay positive, more and more positive thoughts come to you. This called 'creating an emotional grid' - when you focus on a thought or feeling, and more like it come to you. These thoughts and feelings and actual manifestations, brought to you by law of attraction. As you hold those thoughts and feelings as the object of your attention, more and more like them will come and soon you'll be thinking them a lot of the time. Then, evidence will start popping into existance around you to 'confirm' them. And soon, they'll be your reality.
So, all well and good if you're thinking positive things. But what if you're thinking thoughts that don't feel so good? We've all been there...when we catch hold of a negative thought or feeling and sort of 'ride' it, instead of jumping off like we know we should. After a time of focusing on the negative thought or feeling, it becomes more difficult to jump off it and think something else - because now you're in the middle of a full blown feeling manifestation. Abraham says it takes 17 seconds to establish a new vibrational space. After 68 seconds, the vibration becomes much more chronic. I have no idea how they came up with these numbers, by the way But it works for me. The point is - the longer you focus on a negative thought, the harder it is to jump off. So catch them early! - And then choose something else, some other point of focus!
This thread is for people to share their tips and tricks of what to do when you get that emotional or mental nudge which tells you 'this thought I am thinking is not to my advantage!' - it helps to have a strategy, so next time you get 'in there', you know what to do. Here are some of my tips:
1) Make a note: I got this suggestion from Abraham. They said when Esther gets onto a thought she doesn't want, she stops and makes a note with her toungue on the roof of her mouth. The same way you would say the letter 'N', and just continue to hold that note. After a little while, change the pitch. Focus on the note totally - the way it sounds, the way your toungue vibrates against the roof of your mouth. Do this until the NNNNNNNNN has taken your focus completely and totally and all the other thoughts have sort of crumbled and the wind has blown the remnants of them off into the ether.
2) Ask the Universe: got this one from a book - but can't remember which one! Just put a request out to the Universe - Universe, everytime I am thinking or feeling things which aren't to my benefit, please get my attention! It works - you'll find that when you get into those thoughts, the phone will ring, or something will happen to get your attention. Yesterday, I walked into a bumper bar of a car! Hurt like hell on my shin for a few seconds but even just after it happened I was SOO grateful, because I recognised straight away I had been on a negative train of thought and it knocked me right off!
3) Throw in incongruity: This one is if you're in the middle of a negative imagining. You know when you rehearse conversations or events in your mind? It doesn't matter if you're remembering them or imagining them, if they don't feel good, you're going to want to break the cycle. But if you're in the middle of a scenario in your mind around fear or anger, it's hard to just throw some joy in there. So instead, throw in a silly hat. Or a turkey. Or a giant, talking banana. I got this idea from being a Monty Python fan. While you can't just switch to positive, happy happy joy joy, you can confuse the scenario so much that it breaks down. This is my neat little trick which I am quite proud of
So, for example, you're in the middle of a full blown imagination about something negative. Let's say, in your mind, you are having a fight (doesn't matter if remembered or imagined) with a lover. You're yelling at each other about...something. Then, a little bit of your awareness goes 'Hey! This does not feel good!' - but it's hard to get 'out of' that imagination. So instead, you have a llama appear over your lover's shoulder and they say 'Oh, this is my llama, Murphy!' - and you say 'Yes, Murphy is a multiplying llama' and suddenly Murphy splits like an ameboea into 27 llamas. Then, you put a silly hat on and say 'Murphy, I am so glad you have decided to join us for the llama hat meeting' - and your lover says 'I brought beans' and gives you a jar of little, squeaking beans each with a little face, talking very loudly in French. And then Murphy says, in the voice of Barry White, 'the French sure do know how to throw a party!'
...And so on. Soon, the schole scenario will be so filled with crazy incongruity that it will break down completely. The idea is to be as random as you can, and think quickly, just keeping on piling the random on top of the random on top of the random! To the point where you can get out of it completely and go and meditate or dance or do something else, completely unrelated.
4) Play computer games or watch DVDs. Anything which suddenly and immediately immerses you in a whole other world, where you don't have to create the other world - it is just there for you, ready to jump into.
5) Take long, deep breaths and just focus on the breaths, and focus on the breaths, and focus on the breaths...
So, those are my suggestions. I have been using the incongruity trick quite a bit the last week, and I have found something very interesting happening. It's trained my mind to notice these negative scenarios for me, and now, quite a few times, the scenario will break on its own. The way I experience it is this - and it's happened a few times in the last few days. A negative scenario will start, and after a little while, the voice of someone in the scenario will start to 'skip', like a scratched CD. I will also experience 'static', like a badly tuned radio or like the 'snow' you get on a badly tuned TV channel. The soundtrack of the scenario actually starts playing like a wrecked CD or record, and the image will get screwy and 'jump', like when you would pause an old VCR tape, or play a VCR tape that had been played too many times. It's interesting. So, now with that and with the Universe getting my attention when I start down these tracks, the positive thoughts and feelings take up much more of my attention.
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on: October 09, 2012, 04:30:05 AM 12 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / Taking our power back: How did you manifest relationship break-downs?
In the thread on story structure, Mariposa made a really good suggestion about looking back in the relationships in your life which haven't worked out like you'd wanted them to, and identifying the negative beliefs you had which lead to that manifestation of a break up or break down in the relationship. I have been doing this, thinking back over past relationships - and I've found it really helpful. It has given me a real sense of power and creative control, to be able to look at anything in my life and say 'I did that!'. Also, looking back at relationships ending, and seeing the manifestations along the way. Just like, when we are manifesting something that we like, there are signs - well, when we have manifested anything, there are the signs and feelings, followed by the manifestation.
If it helps you feel more positive and powerful, I invite you to post in here about relationships which have not turned out how you wanted, and post what beliefs you had which lead to that. Only if it makes you feel good (or, better than you do now). For me, it feels positive because it is more empowering to look at something and know 'I did that!' - rather than look at something and feel like 'that happened to me'.
I had an absolutely wonderful, sweet caring boyfriend. He was a bit shy and nervous about certain things - not as adventurous as I was. I wanted to go out and travel, explore etc. He was happy to 'try' that but just wasn't as enthusiastic as I was. Instead of appreciating that he was willing to 'try' these things (even if it was more slowly than my preference), I focused on how 'boring' and 'unadventurous' he was. Because that's what I focused on, that grew. He became even more of a stay at home guy. If I had have focused with appreciation and gratitude on the things about him which I DID love, those would have grown. I could have drawn up gratitude lists and also visualised us travelling together. I'm sure then we would have gone on wonderful adventures. But as I said, I kept telling myself over and over 'he's boring! He's boring!' - and eventually, he was so boring that I left him. I manifested that!!
The aim of this thread is not to focus on all the bad things...it's to realise that we created them, and thus we can create anything that we truly want!
on: October 03, 2012, 08:30:59 AM 14 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Change your fundamental story - AND EVERTHING IS AWESOME!!! ;) :)
I know I typed this post up yesterday morning and it accidentally deleted right as I’d almost finished. It took me six and a half hours! I was going to type it up again and add some more research and fancy formatting, and then sell it as an EBook. However, the joy of creativity was too strong in me, so I have typed the whole thing up again, from memory and I’m giving it to you for free (it's taken me much longer the second time because I've made it much more in detail & structured). However, as some of you have said you would buy an EBook if I wrote one, I give you the following post for free – yet if you want to show your appreciation for it through action, please feel free to have a think on the following:
I'm VERY excited about this technique!
I believe I have come up with a technique here which can make big, positive changes in your life, quite quickly. A lot of what is in this post has been said by other people first, but I have added some of my own and presented it in a way I have not seen this information presented before. The result is, I believe (though I have only tested it personally, not through asking others) a new, powerful manifestation process. I believe you may find it more fun and easier than things you have tried before. I believe it can make wide-sweeping shifts. I also believe it gets right around the 'problem' of the physical mind trying to work out 'but how will this happen?'
So, if you will, please take a moment to think - if this technique is fun and easier than what you've done before, and if using it as I've advised DID allow you to shift some things in your life - maybe some things which have been around for a while...what WOULD that be worth to you? Have a think on it.
I'm not ASKING for any money. I'm giving this as a gift. However, if you try these techniques and they do change your life, you are free to make a donation to me. TRY the techniques first - see how you go with them. If you experience big, rapid shifts and end up very, very happy because of this post and the things within, and if you wish to donate, shoot me a PM. I can send you a PayPal invoice or send you my international bank details. Again, no donation is necessary OR expected. If you don't have the money or you don't want to, that's FINE. But if this does make a big shift and you want to show your appreciation financially, the option is there.
Either way, I'd love for you to read the post and try the techniques. Come back and let us know how you experienced the techniques and what adjustments – if any – you have made. This can help other people and help us all co-create better together – and I really, really appreciate the feedback.
Thank you, and please enjoy,
I love Rainbows.
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on: September 28, 2012, 05:16:08 PM 15 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / my seven day vortexy love-rush
I've just gone through a huge, energetic clear-out and I find myself re-emerged into quite a new, magical reality. Higher self says it's time to fully reintegrate into love, light, laughter and the vortex! With some structure added to my imaginative, joyful play. So now is the time, here is the place! This is my journal for the next seven days...a seven day vortex Love-Rush!
Practice for the next seven days...into the vortex...journalling here daily! Sometimes, more than daily!
Food, drink, sleep:
Sleep from 10:00pm - 5:00am - Regular sleeping hours.
Drink plenty of water.
Cut out caffeine & junk food completely.
Don't eat any meat, chicken or fish.
Have a low consumption of other animal by-products (e.g. dairy & eggs).
Mostly consume fresh vegetables and fruits.
Meditation & Visualisation:
Do my [longer] meditation practice morning & night - which consists of...
10 minutes deep breathing
Cosmic light meditation
Do my [shorter] meditation practice in the middle of the day - which consists of...
5 minutes deep breathing
Exercise - Move my body & stretch!
In the mornings, do my yoga, exercise video and a gratitude walk
In the evenings, do my yoga and a gratitude walk
Walk & dance as I feel inspired to during the day
Love, light & laughter!
Inspire myself by filling myself only with the most positive and best, happiest most life affirming things!
Watch and learn lots about the law of attraction!
When I see or interact with people, see light around them and a golden cord connecting our heart chakras
Send light and love to the earth every night
Say thank you and I love you and be actively appreciative
Connect with others with whom I feel love and joy
Create the best things in my physical environment and take pride, joy and creative love in doing this!
Remind myself that I am truly the creator of my own reality
See that reality and the physical world are just a mirror
Play with this and have fun with it!!
I am very excited about this. It will clear up and clean out some things in my life and make way and space for new and more exiciting things! Having my system be totally caffeine-free and meat-free is also a very exciting prospect to me!
Thank you for reading along and joining in with me!
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