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I get the LOA Insights newsletter and this topic came today.  I see a lot of people wondering why things happen that they don't want when they are utilizing LOA techniques, so I thought this might be helpful.

LAW OF ATTRACTION & CONTRAST

When Things Don't Turn Out the Way You Hoped

When you hear the words, "deliberate creation" do you imagine being able to create EXACTLY what you want in life? Do you see yourself creating the perfect job, perfect spouse, perfect body . . . perfect everything?

This is a common misconception about the Law of Attraction. Yes, deliberately altering your thoughts, beliefs and feelings DOES give you a certain amount of control over the things that manifest in your life. But that doesn't mean you will be able to control every tiny detail of those manifestations.

I like to think of the deliberate creation process as "guiding the tone" of your experiences, rather than controlling minute details. In other words, if you focus on having a fulfilling career and you align your energy with that outcome, you will get an outcome that corresponds with that "tone" of experience - which means a feeling of fulfillment, satisfaction, contentment. But the universe will often fill in details that you didn't consider, or even necessarily WANT.

Does that mean the manifestation was a failure? No! It simply means that you've got some more fine-tuning to do on that subject. Now, that may sound a little depressing, but it's actually a wonderful gift!

Abraham-Hicks calls this "contrast". Contrast is anything that displeases you or makes you feel dissatisfied in your daily travels. Someone cuts you off in traffic, that's contrast. Your dream job ended up being a nightmare, that's contrast. Financial problems, contrast. Health challenges, contrast.

And what is the point of all of this contrast? It's to help you focus more clearly and decide what you DO WANT. The more clearly you know what you want, the more easily the Law of Attraction can deliver it.

Rather than getting frustrated that you can't control every little detail of your manifestations, start seeing these moments of disappointment as opportunities to focus a little more clearly, to fine-tune your idea, to expand your dreams. When contrast shows up in your daily experiences, say to yourself, "Ah, here is a great opportunity to focus on the way I'd really LIKE my life to be. What do I want in this situation?"

Then allow your mind to ponder and dream up something wonderful. Focus on the TONE you want each area of your life to have - joyful, fulfilling, exciting, thrilling, awesome - and leave the details to the universe.

If there are details that you really, really want included, then fine! Go ahead and focus on those, but be detached and open to even better details that could make you even happier when they show up. As long as you are continuously focusing on the overall "feeling" you want to have in each area of your life, you will end up with something that satisfies you.

And if there are a few little pieces of contrast included, you know how to handle them! :-)

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One of my closest friends lives in another city and I have yet to go there to visit her (she's been there about a year and a half).  I love her dearly and although we talk, text and email often, it's not the same.  I last saw her in person in May when she came here for a work thing.  She is currently in a theater production and is really excited about it.  She hadn't done anything in a while and this company is a really good one to get into - and she did it on her first try.  It's a show she's always wanted to do and she's having a really great experience.

Her show opens next weekend and runs through October on weekends.  I had a thought yesterday that I would love to surprise her and just show up there for a show.  The problem is money - I don't have enough room on any of my credit cards to swing airfare, hotel, etc.  But I really wanted to do this, so I just kind of let it go and figured an answer would come to me.  A little while later, I went to my bank site to pay some bills and on the homepage is a banner for a rewards credit card.  I figured "Why not?"  I filled out the online application and was approved with a credit line of $10,000 - higher than any of my other limits.  What's really awesome about this is not only do I get to go see my friend, I now can use this card as an emergency card which will give me a lot of peace of mind.

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I saw my guy last night.  I auditioned for the show that he is directing (I met him doing a community theater show with the same theater company last year).  I hadn't seen him in 8 months.  He looked great.  I was feeling his energy all day and I think he was as happy to see me as I was to see him.  I didn't get a chance to really talk to him, but he smiled very warmly when I walked in and seemed to enjoy my audition.  Callbacks are Saturday and I will find out if I'm cast by Monday at the latest.  Based on my experience with them last year, I would be surprised if I wasn't cast at all and I'm very confident that I will be cast in the role I want.

I am practically crawling out of my skin my vibration is so high.  It's amazing.  I can honestly say that I truly believe that everything is lining up for me and that he and I will be together.  But I can also honestly say that it almost doesn't even matter.  I am feeling so good - strong and confident - that if he can't see that, then it's his loss.  I deserve someone who sees me and thinks "Damn, I want to be with her no matter what."  If it's not him, then I will find the one who will feel that way.  I'm not going to settle for less than that.  And the wonderful thing - I really do feel this way.  I'm not faking it till I make it.

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POSITIVE MINDSET . . . OR DENIAL?

When you begin working with the Law of Attraction, it's important to release negative thought habits and create a more positive mindset, right? You've probably heard that many times before.

But you may also feel uncomfortable about doing this because it seems a little too much like being in a state of denial. After all, if you're going around saying how great your life is, and the truth is that it definitely ISN'T great, aren't you sort of lying to yourself?

Not exactly . . .

It's not that you have to deny the difficult parts of your life in order to create something better, but you do have to find a way to feel better about them, or stop focusing so much of your attention on them.

Remember, your thoughts hold tremendous power! If you keep focusing on a situation from a negative perspective and you keep telling yourself how awful it is, how upset you are, how bad you feel about it - guess what? You actually make that problem seem much more intimidating and frustrating.

On the other hand, if you find ways to think more positively about that situation, you're going to FEEL better about it.

Whatever you FEEL on a regular basis is going to be reflected back into your life! So it makes sense to keep trying to feel better about certain troublesome issues, as well as generally.

I don't see this process as a state of denial. I see it as a process of choosing to think better thoughts, form more empowering beliefs and feel better, which helps you attract better circumstances in the future.

You don't have to deny the "bad stuff" in your life - you just have to stop letting it control how you think and feel! :-)

The next obvious question is, HOW?

One good method is to keep distracting yourself from the negative stuff. Every time you catch yourself focusing on something that makes you feel bad, shift your attention to something that makes you feel better. Example: If you keep obsessing about how unhappy you are with the state of your body, you could keep shifting your focus to something you are grateful for, like your family and pets, the recent promotion you got at work, etc.

Just by distracting yourself from the chronic negative thoughts about your body, you stop emitting that negative frequency and improvements can start to happen.

Another method is to find ways to feel better about the situation that is making you feel bad. You can do this by imagining the situation as you would like it to be, or reciting affirmations that make you feel more hopeful, or even "turning it over" to the universe to handle for you.

No matter which method you use, the key is find a way to FEEL BETTER about it. When you feel better about it, you alter your vibrational frequency and outer circumstances can change quickly!

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Haven't been here much so I thought I would check in.  The last few months have been pretty incredible and a little overwhelming.

I've posted before about learning different tools to tap into my intuition - muscle testing, pendulum, etc.  Things have evolved and it turns out that I can channel my guides and have also discovered that I am clairaudient as well as clairsentient.  I have been having a great time communicating with my guides every day with the help of my pendulum and a chart.  I'm learning to trust the clairaudience more and more - it's a little more difficult because the communications comes across as thoughts, so it's difficult sometimes to discern when it's my guides versus my own conscious thoughts.  But I'm working on it.

I went through Reiki training last weekend so that I can administer Reiki on myself and others.  It was an intense, amazing experience.  I am still working through the emotions that were brought about by two attunements and Reiki sessions.  On the second day of training, the woman who was doing my Reiki session is a clarivoyant and she was picking up on a lot of stuff and telling me.  It made me very emotional, but it was a great thing.  I discovered something very important - down deep, I don't believe I can be truly happy.  The idea of being truly loved - even pure, unconditional love like from my family or my guides - makes me anxious because I am afraid of believing in it and then losing it.  Giving my history, it's not all that surprising and I knew I had a block in this area, but I did not know exactly what it was.  My guides won't just tell me that information - I need to learn it for myself - but I did ask them to guide me to learn what it was and they did.  So now that I know, I can begin to heal that - honestly, I think just knowing that the fear was there kickstarted the healing.

The information it gives me regarding the guy I want has been amazing.  Basically, he thinks about me all the time and we will be together - this is the real deal.  He is still seeing this other girl, but it's on it's way out.  It was never serious for him and he knows he needs to end it.  I think at this point, he just enjoys the companionship and is avoiding the drama of ending it with her.  But it's just a matter of time.  I am getting more excited and anxious because the thing that brought us together last summer - community theater - is getting ready to start up again.  Auditions should be in about 6 weeks or so.  I am getting that he is looking forward to seeing me as well.

I'm trying very hard to believe in what my guides are telling me completely, but it's difficult.  I don't want to get my heart broken again this summer if it turns out not to be true.  But then I remind myself that my guides only want my happiness so I don't really see them telling me these things so consistently if they weren't true.  At this point, they tell me things without my even asking - things like he loves me, this is a once in a lifetime love, etc.  They do tell me things incorrectly sometimes as a lesson - I feel it in my gut when it's not right and they immediately confirm that my gut is right.  But my gut never tells me the things they say about his feelings for me are wrong.

I've also gotten 2 confirmations/affirmations of info they've given me recently without asking or looking for them.  In my Reiki session with the clairvoyant, she put her hands on my cheeks and told me that was from my guides and she said they have wanted to talk to me for so long - that is something they told me while I was working with the chart.  Then I was chatting on Facebook with one of my high school friends who was in the show with me last summer.  She always saw the connection and chemistry between me and my guy.  I haven't talked to this friend since before the holidays, so she had no way of knowing I still had a thing for him or that I've been exploring all of this stuff with my guides, etc.  She was telling me about the new guy in her life and I told her that I still think about Jason all the time.  She said she knew that I did and that she still believed we would be together.  I told her about working with my guides and she said that she is clairsentient as well and that she has been thinking a lot about him and me lately and that she sees us getting together this summer and that we will probably get married next year.  My guides have told me that we will start dating this summer and that things will move very quickly - moving in with each other, engagement, etc. 

So, I feel a little guilty with so much encouragement and confirmation to doubt what I am being told, but sometimes I can't help but think that this is a big test or that they are telling me what I want to hear.  But I just don't think that's how it works.

Anyway, that's my update.  Since working with my guides, I walk around every day feeling so protected and loved and other people have commented that there is a peacefulness around me that wasn't there before.  It's kind of amazing.  As much as I wanted to be with him last year, I am grateful that we didn't get together right away.  I don't know that I would have discovered these gifts or explored them otherwise and now I can't imagine a day going by where I don't communicate with my guides.

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I have been going through a lot of personal transformation lately and I'm so grateful for it.  I've always known that I am highly intuitive, empathic and slightly psychic (I've known things were going to happen before they did).  My exploration of LOA has expanded these skills and tools greatly.

Lately I've been exploring a technique of tapping into my intuition to literally give me answers to questions.  It's been kind of wild and a lot of fun to test the accuracy of the answers I get - for the most part I am 75% or more accurate on a daily basis.  I think that with time, practice and faith this will increase. 

Of course, I asked questions regarding my situation with the guy I like and the responses I got were great (and what I have felt all along).  They helped to make me feel a lot more calm and peaceful about everything, which let's face it, is key to detaching and allowing.  Obviously, things can happen to change things, but I can't worry about that.

Another thing I've been doing is allowing myself to be more open to my guides.  Some people can actually see and converse with thier guides as though they were another person in the room.  I haven't gotten there and I'm not sure if I really need to.  I am getting signs and encouragement on a daily basis that they are with me.  Literally, if I am feeling a little down, I ask them to fill me with love and light and to help me get in a better mood - within an hour, typically, I am feeling better.  I don't doubt anymore that if I notice recurring numbers (which happens every single day) or see another sign that it is them communicating with me.  I know it is and I'm so grateful.

I am still human, however, and doubt does sometimes still creep in.  My guy is still seeing this other girl and even though I know that this is a necessary transitional relationship for him in order for our relationship to be successful, it still gets to me.  I've been much better about not checking Facebook, Twitter, etc., for hints of how things are, but this morning I caved.  I checked her Twitter and she posted a picture of the Valentine's Day card he gave her.  It was no big deal - a funny card, not overly gushy and he just signed his name and a heart.  It's natural that he would do something for her, and truthfully I'm glad he's not a jerk that would ignore it.  But I was down.  So I asked my guides to help me get into a better place.  Something made me do an internet search of casual relationships and Valentine's Day and I was led to a site that basically said if you're a guy and you want things to stay the way they are (casual, not more serious) acknowledge it in a small way that doesn't send the wrong message - giving a funny card was one example.  LOL  My guides knew exactly where to send me.

I am going to make a concerted effort to trust my intuition completely (I did ask whether I should check her twitter and got a no and I ignored it).  I just can't ignore everything I am getting spiritually that is telling me everything is working in exactly the way it's supposed to.  I even felt him thinking about me again this week.  I know I just need to trust, have faith, keep working on myself and get out of my own way.

I think it's interesting to point out that I've been manifesting things like crazy lately.  Even my most casual thoughts are manifesting.

So friends, the help and guidance is there if you ask for it and open yourself up to it.  I feel very lucky to have this guidance and support in my life.

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This may come across in a negative way, and I apologize for anyone who takes it that way.

There has been an influx of people new to LOA on the forum, and that can be great.  However, I do request that those who have not been practicing or educating themselves on LOA for a good amount of time please use caution in advising others.  I see a lot of people gung ho on LOA and they read a few topics and think they have a grasp and start giving out advice before they fully know what they're talking about.  Lending support to other forum members is wonderful, but when you start saying if you do a,b,c you're desire will manifest.  That's going to lead to a lot of misinformation very quickly.

There is a lot of information on this forum and the internet in general.  I really suggest that you take some time to fully absorb the information, read books, watch videos, and try different techniques and processes yourself before you start advising others what to do.

Again, I apologize if this comes off negative, but unfortunately, I think some of the forum regulars have been run off the forum because of this and that's a shame.  They have/had a lot of knoweldge that would be useful and I hate that they don't feel comfortable posting anymore.  In my opinion, what this kind of stuff leads to is disappointment in LOA when things don't manifest quickly.  LOA does not give a time guarantee.

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I got this newsletter today and I thought it might be helpful for everyone here, especially the newbies


ARE YOU JUST "GOING THROUGH THE MOTIONS"?

One of the most common obstacles people face in using the Law of Attraction is the tendency to be analytical about the process. They believe that if they just take the right actions (meditate, visualize, recite affirmations and other manifestation techniques) for a set amount of time each day, their desires will manifest.

They often don't realize that just going through the motions won't change anything, unless those motions change how they feel on the inside.

If you have some uncertainty about this too, below are a few common techniques and the emotional changes they should be triggering that let you know they are working:

Meditation:

Meditation is a fantastic way to quiet your mind, relax your body and RELEASE RESISTANCE. "Resistance" is nothing more than negative emotion like stress, anger, frustration, anxiety, or fear.

Releasing this resistance is a sure way to ensure that you aren't blocking the manifestation of good things in your life. Think about it this way: you can't manifest anything that isn't resonating on the same FREQUENCY that you are. If you are stressed or anxious, you can't manifest something that would make you feel relaxed and happy. To do that, you need to get relaxed and happy first. Then situations and events that match your relaxed, happy mood can easily manifest for you.

When you meditate, your goal is to let go of scattered, chaotic, upsetting thoughts, and focus on soothing, happy, peaceful thoughts. As you improve the quality of your thoughts, your emotional state shifts to match, and your energetic frequency also shifts - which opens the door for better experiences to come your way.

Visualization:

Visualization is a tool best used to help move you into the mental and emotional state of an outcome you want to manifest. For example, if you want to manifest a loving relationship, visualizing yourself being with your ideal partner should make you feel happy, inspired, and deeply loved. When you begin feeling that way, you are now able to allow your ideal partner into your life!

If you have trouble "seeing" images in your mind, don't worry! The most important thing is that you FEEL the essence of the outcome you want. That's the key benefit in visualizing anyway!


Scripting:

In case you're not familiar with scripting, it's a well-known technique by Abraham-Hicks that involves writing out your desired goal in present tense, as if it were happening right now. Example: "I'm so thrilled that we just moved into our dream home! It has amazing views of the mountains, and it's got a lovely private yard - it's just so peaceful and we're so happy!"

Again, the main goal of scripting is that it makes you FEEL like you would when your outcome has been achieved.

There are many more techniques that can be used for manifesting your dreams and goals - but each and every one of them should trigger an EMOTIONAL SHIFT within you. In other words, you have to get out of your head, and into your FEELINGS.

The techniques should consistently move you into a state of resonating on the same frequency you would be if your goal was already reality, or they should simply help you release resistance so you're not blocking manifestations. If you don't FEEL any different after doing one of these techniques, it's not helping you manifest your goal.

How should you feel if it IS working?

Relaxed, inspired, uplifted, clear, free, excited, eager, blessed, abundant, happy, awed, expectant . . . basically "good".

Keep in mind that using these techniques don't usually make your desires manifest instantly, but the more you use them the stronger your inner shift should continue to get, and that is a clearer and stronger indication that it's working for you. Keep it up! :-)

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Saw this today and it resonated with me.  I really like the baking analogy.

http://positive-thoughts.typepad.com/positive-thoughts/2011/12/how-to-live-a-positive-attitude-daily.html

Your attitude influences your world and everything you do in it. It defines the energy you send out and, in turn, takes shape and color in your circumstances. If you have a positive attitude, you are more welcoming and people are drawn to you. A positive attitude opens you to the flow of life. If you are depressed, angry, and unhappy, no one wants to be around you. You literally push people and opportunities away.

The wonderful thing is that you have the freedom to choose which attitude you want to adopt. There is no perfect way; each way is unique to each individual. Knowing that you can choose how to react is especially important when unexpected problems occur. Remind yourself of techniques to keep a positive attitude. In doing so, you are guaranteed to have a happier life.

How to Live a Positive Attitude Daily

By simply changing your personal self-dialogue you can bring positive things to your life. Here are the three statements that shape positive self-dialogue:

I am - is a statement of who you are.

I can - is a statement of your potential.

I will - is a statement of positive change in your life.

I AM statements are positive affirmations of a real state of being that exists in you.

I CAN statements are positive affirmations of your ability to accomplish goals.

I WILL statements are positive affirmations of a change you want to achieve.

To attract positive, joyful, and prosperous situations to you, you must be that way yourself. If you have an open, loving, positive attitude, anything burdensome in life can be lightened. Therefore, it is important to be aware of your mood. It is created by your thoughts. Every day you have a choice of how you will behave, the mood you will give out to the world, and how you want people to know you.

So if you want something in your life, first you must think of it, put your intention behind it, and keep your focus on it. It is almost like baking a cake. The thought is in the oven and you have to keep it baking with belief. You have to see your thought manifesting and becoming real.

Follow your heart and be true to yourself. Never live the life of another. You have to create your own road. You have a responsibility to be the best you can possibly be, so keep your mind and heart open to the higher aspects of your being. And you will harness the power to have a loving and fulfilling life with attitude!

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Because I am fairly new to LOA, I practice it every day with small manifestations.  My intention in doing this is to build my faith and strengthen my ability to manifest.  I manifest things like hearing a specific song on my ipod in my car, finding a coin with a certain date, etc.  My most common thing to manifest is seeing a specific car - one day it could be a very specific brand and style and color, other days just a brand, other days just a style.  For the last week, I've been trying to manifest seeing a pink car.  I didn't car what brand or style, just that it was pink.  Somewhat unusual, but that's why I did it.

Usually when I ask to see a car, I see it within a day.  This one took a week.  I found myself doubting that it could be done, looking for it all the time, etc.  Then today, I was coming home and there it was - around the corner from my house.  It wasn't the bright pink that I pictured, but more of a berry color.  I probably passed this car multiple times in the past week but didn't see it.

I think there are some lessons to be learned with this.

1.  You need to be very specific with your intention or be open to receiving the manifestation in all sorts of ways.  In my head, I pictured a bright pink car.  But I didn't specify that when I put the intention out to the universe.  I'm reminded of writing out my list of qualities I wanted in a man.  I neglected to put on that list "Emotionally available and ready for a relationship."  I found a guy who has all of the qualities that I did put on the list - guess which one he's missing?

2.  Be patient and have faith.  I wasn't emotionally attached to seeing this car - why would I be?  But when I didn't see it right away, doubt crept in.  LOA is still a little out there for me - how is it possible that I can have whatever I want by simply asking for it and believing I'm worthy of it?  But I see time and time again that it is true.  But if I wasn't emotionally attached to this desire and it took this long, can you imagine when your desire is something important to you and it takes a while to manifest?  No wonder the doubts come in and you begin to think you should just give up.  When I would recognize the doubts, I would say to myself "Of course you're going to see it eventually, why are you worrying about it?" 

3.  Be aware enough that you see the manifestation but not so much that you're obsessing.  Again, I probably drove past this car at least 4-5 times in the past week but didn't see it.  I was almost home and thought "Well, maybe tomorrow" so I stopped looking.  But while I was driving, I was looking all over the place.  And there it was - right under my nose - the entire time.

I should also point out, that while looking for this car, the universe was almost taunting me with other unusual and brightly colored cars.  Teal, lime green, purple - I saw them all - sometimes one after the other.  It was as though the universe was telling me that my request was not that unusual and I just needed to be patient. 

All of our desires are important to us - whether it's more money, improved health or someone to love.  I think that this taught me that regardless of how unusual the request is, I just need to be patient, have faith and keep my eyes open.

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I saw this today and it really spoke to me.

To go with the flow, ask yourself these three questions:

Will any amount of thinking, forcing, or coaxing alter my situation?
Which thoughts and old beliefs do I need to let go of?
In which new direction would I like to head?

First ask yourself: Will any amount of thinking, forcing, or coaxing alter my situation? If the answer is no, accept that fact. Without acceptance, you’ll continue to fight, resist, and struggle, which will erode your joy and energy. On the other hand, accepting the situation for what it is and choosing to go with the flow will bring tranquility, peace, and lightness.

Next, ask yourself: Which thoughts and old beliefs do I need to let go of? Let go of any thoughts about the situation that are causing upsetting feelings; such as impatience, jealousy, fear, or anger. One way to do this is to trust that out of every situation, good will come. When you choose to believe that good will come out of every experience, you’ll soon discover that perceived obstacles are really blessings in disguise. Sometimes these obstacles serve to nudge you in a new direction—one that will open up your world to magnificent experiences. Sometimes they help you become a stronger, better, and wiser you. Take all the positives you can out of each experience and choose to leave the negative feelings behind.

Finally, ask yourself: In which new direction would I like to head? It’s important to understand that going with the flow doesn’t mean you drift aimlessly and allow the tide to determine where in your life you’ll end up. It’s fulfilling to decide where you want to go and then take the steps to get there.

You can free yourself and go with the flow . Accept the situation for what it is, let go of negative thoughts associated with it by trusting that good will come out of every experience, and open up to a change in direction. Allow the natural current of life to take you on a marvelous new adventure.

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I can't remember where I got this from - I copied and pasted it into a word document along with other inspirational posts and passages.  I think this is good information for everyone struggling with detachment, going with the flow, questioning if things are going right, etc.

Well, there are four important things to remember here. The first relates to what we are noticing in the world around us. Because our thoughts create our reality, when all we do is notice how we don’t have what we want or that it is taking a long time for what we want to appear, then all we are doing is creating more moments in our lives where we don’t have what we want. We keep thinking we don’t have the new house or new job, and so we don’t have them. The more we notice we don’t have something, the longer we will go without it. The longer we think it is taking for something to appear, the longer it will take to appear. If we think it has been four days since we asked for what we want and we still don’t have what we want, we just created four more days of not having what we want.

The second thing to remember is that every time we think that the Law of Attraction is not working and start to look for ways to make it work, any time we tell others that we need help manifesting something we can’t do it, any time we think that there is a step we must be missing, what we are actually doing is telling the Universe that we do not trust it to bring us what we want. We are trying to control the situation. We are trying to determine how something will manifest. That is not our job. That is the Universe’s job. All we are supposed to do is ask and then allow our desires to appear in our lives. That is it.

The third thing to remember is that what we want to attract really is not taking forever to appear in our lives. Sometimes there are factors involved in creating our desires that we are not aware of when we ask for them. These factors can prevent us from instantly receiving what we want. For example, if we desire a new car, we want more than a certain make and model. We also want it to run well, to be affordable, to have a great time purchasing it, and so forth. These elements also have to be created. And no matter how badly we want our car right now, however long it takes for everything to come together is exactly the right amount of time needed for us to attract our desire.

The fourth and final thing to remember is that whenever we feel nervous, anxious, impatient, or scared, we are pushing away the very thing we want. That is why it is so important to detach from the outcome. Detachment is about not caring whether we will get what we want. It is about being okay with things being exactly as they are now. When we are okay with never getting what we want, all resistance will be gone.

Most importantly, detachment is not about giving up. It is not about resigning ourselves to never having what we want. It is about accepting what is. It is about allowing ourselves to have what we want, allowing ourselves to experience the feeling of hope that we will get what we want, but still enjoying the process that takes us from where we are now to where we want to be. It is in this process that true enjoyment of our desires can be found. When we simultaneously enjoy what we have now and what we want to manifest as if we already have it, the sooner our desires will manifest. So, ultimately, we decide how long it will take for the Law of Attraction to work and however long it takes is exactly the right amount of time for us.

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I am reading Manifest Your Destiny by Wayne Dyer and read a passage yesterday that really hit home.

"Never limit the spirit in any way.  If you experience any kind of friction, know that it is an error in your thinking and picturing rather than proof that the creative force is working incorrectly.  You cannot originate the originating force, you can only distribute it.  Just continue to tell the spirit what you want without telling it how you want it to happen.  Then retreat, in faith and trust.  You need not specify the details, only be ready to see it particularize in an endless array of possibilities.  Stay alert for clues!"

It can be so difficult to keep the faith when we are trying to manifest something so important to us, but we've heard time and time again how important it is to detach/let go.  I've been guilty of doubting things and looking for signs that things are going in the right direction.  I'm going to make a concentrated effort to just let things flow and look at any delay or bump in the road as part of the journey and learn from it.

Hope this helps some people here.

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So, I've been working on letting go.  I still have the desire to be with my guy, but I've been focusing on just moving on, kind of forgetting about him and letting the Universe bring him to me when it's the right time.  I haven't been visualizing, sending him any energy, etc.

Pretty much since I met him, there is a song that has been "haunting" me.  It came out around the time of our first date and every time I would hear it, I would think of him and I would take it as a sign that things are moving in the right direction.  Since I've been taking the focus off of him, I haven't heard it.

Today, for some reason, as I was working, I started daydreaming about being with him.  And in my daydream, he was moving mountains to be with me and to let me know how much he cared about me.  It was a very sweet daydream and I felt really nice about it, but unlike my other visualizing, I wasn't doing it on purpose - my mind literally just wandered.  I heard the song twice today.

I don't really know what to make of this.

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So I've been using Wendi's remote seduction MP3 every night and I'm just wondering if anyone has any explanation of what this could be that I am experiencing.

I definitely feel the energy between my hands as I hold the ball and a tingle in the middle of my forehead as I'm visualizing and putting my thoughts into the ball (very wild).  There is a point in the audio after the ball has reached the person I am sending it to (after all the sexual stuff   ) where she says to imagine that you are on the same vibration as the person - to let your brain show you how to get there.  The change in my body is amazing.  It's as though I am tingling from the inside out from my head to toes.  It's an amazing, beautiful, peaceful feeling.  What is this - does anyone know?  I like to think that it is his true feelings for me coming back to me, but I don't want to assume that's the case.

I was planning on sending an energy ball to one of my friends (obviously skipping the sexual stuff) using the same recording to see if the same thing happens.  Regardless of what it is, I love it and is one of the main reasons I like to do this - I am literally left flooded with happiness and joy after it.

I'd love to hear any thoughts, insights, etc.

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