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Oh Boy! How amazing the 2012 has been. I have no regrets, nothing go Complains. There is nothing i would live to go back
Change in 2012.

• Lived most moments of 2012.
  
• Met with some of the most amazing people in 2012.
  
• Did the craziest things ever.
  
  
  

Not that it was all just perfect with no pain and sadness, there have been at times, but 2012 gave enough strength to absorb it all.

I promise to myself i will beat 2012 in 2013.  Its a open believe/ Challenge to Universe. 

Not trying to review my 2012, Just showing my Gratitude for the awesomeness of 2012.

How about you guys?

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"Always Believe Something Awesome is about to Happen Today". - AS

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Folks,

Excuse the Spelling and Grammatical Mistakes, i do not have patience to fix them 

Two recent incidents again intensified my Strong belief in Law of Attraction and power of Letting go.

Incident 1)
 Last Sunday, i was having lunch. I never liked Bollywood Movies (Do not ask why ;-)) except few. One of them was "3 Idiots". Suddenly I started singing one song which I like much from this movie. I suddenly starting playing the song scenes in my mind, I do not know WHY it just happened. Sooner, the desire to see that movie got stronger.

I decided, the moment I finish my Lunch, i will find movie from net, download and Watch, for no reason what.

I finished my Lunch, started TV just like that. To my Surprise, the First Channel that opened up was a "Local Cable Channel". You know what?

They were playing the Movie "3 Idiots". But is this all? Hell No...............

You know what was the first Scene i saw when i started TV? It was the Same Goddamn Song i was Playing in my Mind...!


Incident 2)
I live alone and i come bit late from office so Cannot cook so i arranged for a Tiffin who serve me Dinner. I do not like eating Rice daily while the Tiffin guys usually serve it daily.

I have asked them Strictly not to Serve Rice to me. So they Never Did. Months passed. I did not even see how Rice looked like. lol

Yesterday Night i was Coming back from Office, it was already 11 PM. While I was in Cab, i suddenly Smelled Rice. Not sure WHY... It just Happened. Suddenly the Smell grew Stronger. And I started feeling hungry. I thought I did not have rice for almost Months and I Felt like having it Right away. I thought to call up Tiffin guys to Serve Rice but it was already 11 PM too late for them to deliver Rice. I decided, the moment i Enter my Flat, I will put Rice in Microwave to Steam. As by the time i Freshen up it will be Cooked.
 
I entered my flat. Tiffin was at Doorstep. Took it in Kitchen. I suddenly thought, Ok let’s see what's Curry today..... I get a 5 box Tiffin.

I opened the First Box....(Top One), you know what was there??

Hell Yes... It was RICE............

I asked them Strictly not to give me rice, they did not give for Months. One fine day i wanted to have it.... and it was there for me......

Sounds Mystical? sound like "Just Some Sudden Incidents".... I do not think so.........

There is something about it.....

What exactly? ....... I do not know....... But whatever it is, Its all so Wonderful to see.



Oh Boy, then why did you put "Letting Go" on post title?
You know what I dnt know... May be it was the message i wanted to give.... If you appreciate the power of Letting go, You will never give up on the "Power of Law of Attraction".

Nothing Fancy about it.... Take it or leave it....

All i am saying is straight from my Heart for the Forum members. Nothing fake or "Made up by me" about it....

PERIOD.

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Just a heads up....

Since we have high traffic on our Site, we have migrated from a VPS server to High end Cloud Server.

To be noted, we have migrated experimental because Cloud is very expensive, so unless we see a significant difference in Site load, we will stick on being in experimental Stage.

Please let me know if you still find Site Load to be slow.

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Dear Mariposa,

On behalf of everyone on here & myself, i do wish you a very very happy Birthday.

We do appreciate your Contribution here and wish you all the very best of Life.

So what you choose to Celebrate Valentines day or your Birthday... ( Both on the same day) 

Rgrds,
Ankur

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One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for ...hours as the farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

MORAL :
Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happens.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.

4. Give more.

5. Expect less from people but more from God.

You have two choices... smile and close this page,
or pass this along to someone else to share the lesson .
God bless us all!

by: Dahong Laya

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Folks,

Certainly not posting to blow my triumph but if it offers deeper clues on the wonderful working of the law then it indeed worth a share. No?

I was doing all very well in my career. Wanted more out of my Career. So, gave interview at one of the biggest banks ( can not disclose the name at the Moment).

Once the interview was over with US Guys, the HR called me few days ago and said, "Would you like to join us for Managerial Role"?

I said "Hell yes" :-)

I asked how is the Compensation Like? She said, she could not disclose that before seeking approvalfor it.

yesterday the HR Guys sent me offer letter, When i opened the Offer Letter E-Mail at my desk and saw the figure they offered me, I was like... got no words, completely stand still. I locked my computer and went to the small garden in office premise and sat there alone.

The mental scrrenshot of that Offer letter was still poping up in my head like Popcorns at the same time no words was coming out of mouth. Coz there was so much to come out, as if words were fighting which one should come First. :-)

Then few words won the race and came together and i said to myself, "This is it Ankur, You made it".  :-)

This is it, this was the offer i was always waiting for. Absolute Boost in my career in terms of Position and Money.

But how it all came along? I was so aware of not doing the same mistek many of us are committing here time and again, "Attached with the outcome". I had no idea in my mind in terms of Moeny and position that i expect from my next Job.

All i could feel was, "the wonderful feeling when i have it". And when i saw the offer, I did not match the Moeny i got or the position i got. I purely matched the joy i got out of it, which was exactly i asked for.

So, when soemthing manifests we need to be observent enough to identify that it was the outcome of what we asked for and thank for it, than to crib of not getting it in the way we expected it to be.

"I am Happy" :-)

Ankur

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Folks,

We have just crossed over 26,000 Members and makes us the Largest Active Community/ Forum On "Law of Attraction"  on the Web.
We are by far one of the best Educative Forums!

NO Spam, No False Marketing of false products here. No "I am Guru Attitude".

I do take this opportunity to Thank Each and every one of you for every fraction of second you contributed for us here.

"Thank You!"

Do you want to share your feelings for the Forum?
Want to thank someone special here?

Over to you now, Friends....

Warmest
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Just thought of sharing, Today i got Performance Award for the Projects i handled at work.

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NOTE: Credit Goes to the Original Author of This Article. Kudos!

This Post is from one of the oldest and wonderful forums DNS, It is indeed a good read.


PART - 1


"I've seen this question asked over and over on these boards:

"Can I Attract my Ex Back to me?"

The answer is YES! You can you attract an ex-lover back into your life.

I can tell you emphatically, that you can absolutely, positively, without a shadow of a doubt, attract an ex-lover to you again.

I know because I've done it. I'm living proof of this mysterious and miraculous phenomenon! (In reality, it is not mystifying or miraculous or any such thing). As a matter of fact, I have brought ex-girlfriends back into my life on several occasions). And I'm a regular guy. I'm no former underwear model by any stretch. I'm not a celebrity. Nor am I a millionaire (yet, that is, lol)

My problem has never been attracting exes back. It has been maintaining or developing the actual relationship following getting her back into my life. So, if maintaing it is your issue then this is not the thread for you. This is solely about step one: attracting him or her to you again.

I am currently dealing with this very situation as we speak with a particular ex. I can say that she has been the love of my life. I've attracted her back on several occasions even though she was the one who initially decided to end the relationship.

Now, when I say "I attracted her back", I don't mean the way it looks currently, and quite frankly, even the way it looks now isn't dim. But that would be misleading to all of you reading this. I am saying that she wanted to give the relationship another try, full steam ahead. But, I let my own reservations about moving forward take root. So, I dragged my feet a bit, because my trust in her was a bit shaken. And she drifted away again. And guess what? I attracted her back into my life again. I've done this with several exes. So this is not a unique case.

Currently, I've already attracted her back into my life. So, I'm past dealing with it in the same way which many of the members here are speaking. I just simply will not settle for the relationship in its currently state. I never advocate allowing yourself to be used. Believe me, people who truly are in love with you and truly want you in their lives will use you, if you let them.

I won't go into all of the gritty details of "my story", but I will tell you this much: for you heartsick people out there who think "his situation is not like mine" let me tell you right now…you're absolutely correct. It wasn't as bad as yours.

IT WAS WAYYYY WORSE! LOL!

At its lowest point, this woman and I pretty much said it ALL to each other; insults, arguments, accusations, curse words, hurtful things, etc. After the break up there were other romantic interests involved, etc. It was nasty. I would try to reason with her and ask her why we couldn't be together (basically, and I admit this with no shame, that I begged, and pleaded with her; and completely lost this woman's respect in the process). I mean, she was GONE. She wouldn't communicate with me.

I heard it all.

* "I DO NOT LOVE YOU"
* "I HAVE NO FEELINGS FOR YOU"
* "I DO NOT WANT TO BE WITH YOU"
* "I CAN NEVER SEE ME EVER FEELING THAT WAY FOR YOU"
* "WE WILL NEVER BE TOGETHER AGAIN"

BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, YADDA, YADDA, YADDA…LOL!

And then, there were the silent times when I heard nothing from her, at all.

And was I hurt? Hurt doesn't BEGIN to describe the pain I felt. I was crushed, depressed, and devastated. I was a shell of my former self. Getting out of bed in the morning required a Herculean effort.

But that was before I knew how to use apply the Law of Attraction CORRECTLY in these matters.

(And I tell you this; all of that pain you are feeling is of YOUR OWN CREATION. You have to take responsibility for that if you want any shot of having another chance with your former lover!)

So, I tell you this so you can know that I've been where many of you are at right now. Matter of fact, I've been lower. And I still attracted her back.

Remember the things I told you she said so long ago that indicated there was no hope? It meant nothing. As little as a month ago she admitted that she still was in love with me. And this wasn't the first time she told me she loved me. I've been told this several times in the past despite what she originally said about her lack of feelings or love for me. She has even asked me to spend time with her on several occasions in recent weeks. I agreed the first couple of times. But have declined these opportunities lately because they set a bad precedent. (Don't allow yourself to be used!)

See, at this point, the attraction has been re-established. The relationship, in purest terms, is there. The fellowship is not there yet though. And that has to be established by showing self-control and self-respect. But I know that the Universe is taking care of all that for me. So, I don't concern myself with it.

So, for me, it's not about attracting the ex back. Now, keeping or fully developing the rekindled attraction, or relationship…well, maybe Dr. Phil can help me figure that out!

HOW DID I DO IT?

But, how did I attract her back the first time when I had clearly behaved so needy, and insecure? Well, I placed the focus on me.

A lot, not all, but many of the posts I've read here on this topic are really approaching it the wrong way so I've broken it down into five, easier to read parts:

***PART 1: WHY PEOPLE SAY IT'S IMPOSSIBLE TO USE THE LAW THIS WAY?***

Well, one thing I've learned is that the Law of Attraction is never wrong. When a person is hoping and asking for one particular person back, he is really operating out of fear. He is afraid to let go. He fears that he has lost something. When his lover left, he mistakenly believed that Love left too. As a result, he becomes sad, fearful, needy, insecure, clingy, and desperate. Then he hears about this wonderful thing called the "Law of Attraction" or "Universal Law" and instead of applying properly, he applies it to the fearful delusion. The Law then gives you what you most feared instead of what you really wanted.

The point is that if you continue to act like that person is your happiness, the source of your love, and that you will not find love unless it is with them, then stop now and recalibrate. Because you've already guaranteed yourself failure.

If the only time you feel truly happy is when you imagine them back in your arms, then STOP and RECALIBRATE! Because, you are applying the Law in a manner that will guarantee them moving further away from you. That's not to say that you can't feel happy when you imagine him or her in your life again. Not at all. It just cannot be the ONLY thought that brings you happiness.

(Interesting Note: Ever notice how simply imagining your former lover back with you can give you a sense of elation or happiness? This happens even though they're not currently with you. That's the whole point. It was never them that made you happy in the first place. It was you the entire time. Otherwise, the mere thought wouldn't change your mood!)

You must begin to use the Law to improve YOU. You must use the Law to attract the things, people, situations, qualities and traits that will make you a better, complete person again. This will INFLUENCE, not manipulate, but INFLUENCE your former lover to CHOOSE to feel that attraction again.

I read one post that said "if your ex knew you were doing these things to get them back, how would they feel?" Would they be more attracted to you?

Ask yourself, would you be more attracted to a person you ended a relationship with if you knew they were doing all this to get you back? I doubt it. It would come across as the most desperate, pathetic, needy display of self-loathing you had ever seen. It would push you further away.

The real secret to sparking the return of a lost love is to realize that, usually, when we focus on retrieving a lost lover, we are focusing our attention on retrieving the wrong person. It's not your former lover who is lost…it is YOU!

The Law oftentimes works against what we think we want in these matters, because we are focusing our energy in the wrong direction. This creates a pushing or repelling sensation instead of a pulling or "attracting" one.

***PART 2: WHAT ABOUT YOUR EX'S RIGHT TO FREE WILL?***

A lot of posts seem to be overly concerned with the Free Will thinga-ma-bob.

Yes, free will exists. Yes, your ex has free will. GASP! That really shouldn't be a news flash! You really think you're going to overpower your ex's God-given right of free will just because the LOA says you can have anything you want? Umm…if it were that clear-cut, you'd have them already.

FREE WILL DOES NOT NEGATE THE LAW OF ATTRACTION!!!

It's simply puts into effect what I would call a different condition of the Law. For instance, in physics, it is shown that gravity affects all object the same in a vacuum. But when you add atmosphere, gravity appears to work differently on objects of different mass. In truth, it doesn't. It's working the same. There are just other forces at work that you didn't take into account. It's the same with the Law of Attraction. It's still working even when the will of another independent free agent is at work. You just aren't accounting for those other forces.

When using the Law with people, we must understand that it all about influencing that person to freely exercise their will to be attracted to you. You never want to override someone's power of free will. To do so would be the antithesis of love. Instead, you want to evolve into a version of yourself that would powerfully influence your ex-lover to CHOOSE to see the attractive qualities in you again. This means focusing on YOU! NOT THEM!

***PART 3: TAKE THEM OFF THAT DARN PEDESTAL!***

Your ex is not special. I mean, they are, but only in the same way you are. They're not granted with some special power that the rest of us don't have. They go to the bathroom just like you. They have regular bodily functions they tend to daily, just like you. Despite how beautiful you think she is my friend, give her a couple of days with no deodorant, and she'd stink to high heaven!

The point I'm trying to make is that he or she is just a flesh and blood human being. Honestly, they resent the pedestal upon which you've placed them. You gave them a place in your life they never wanted; the place of YOU! You should be the only one on the pedestal of your life, period!

Consider this: the only human relationship where it is acceptable for one to be dependent and needy is the parent-child relationship. That's it. As children, we are dependent on our parents as we transition to adulthood; then they become dependent on us as they transition from this life. No other relationship has this grace with it.

Your ex is human. The law of attraction works on them like it would anybody else. Take the halo from around their head. Believe me, they'll appreciate it.

So, next time you catch yourself sitting around and thinking about them, that's a sign that you're NOT focusing on YOU! You're putting him or her on the pedestal again. When that happens, put that thought in check and get back to the business of taking care of you and let the Universe, or Infinite Intelligence, or God work on them.

***PART 4: WHAT DO I SAY TO MYSELF?***

The answer to this is so simple that it eludes most people going through this. You don't ask for the person to want you despite their own desires…you simply ask to become the kind of person they would happily, and freely, choose to be with!

You could even say something like this:

"I am fully and passionately in love with ME, first and foremost! Thank you that I am already complete and whole, in and of myself. I am so full of self-love because I have cared for myself and my own needs to such a degree that I can now send unconditional love to. .......

Even though I may not consciously know how, I thank you for transforming me into a person that ........ would happily choose to feel intense attraction to. Thank you for helping me become what I desire most: the best person ....... and people like her could choose to be with.

I say with total complete gratitude that I am not only the strong, independent, carefree, fun, and loving person that I was the first time I attracted ....... to me, but even more so! I possess within myself the positive and healthy traits that ......... would be happy to freely choose to align herself with of her own Free Will. I am grateful that you have created an opportunity that will allow ........... to see me with eyes that see no shortcomings, and a heart that holds no hurt from the past.

I also know that in asking this, I am becoming a person who will attract many people to whom I am likewise attracted. And I feel great because I am no longer bound to the oppressive, self-deceiving illusion of neediness and longing, as it pertains to another person's affections for me. I now know that it is not about that person, but about myself and I am fully and passionately in love with me first and foremost! Thank You!"



See? What's wrong with that?

Part 2 is Below.

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My wonderful friends,

Hope you are all having a fantastic week.

Here is the story that I would like to share with you today!

Once there was an emperor in the Far East who was growing old and knew it was coming time to choose his successor. Instead of choosing one of his assistants or one of his own children, he decided to do something different.

He called all the young people in the kingdom together one day. He said, "It has come time for me to step down and to choose the next emperor. I have decided to choose one of you." The kids were shocked! But the emperor continued. "I am going to give each one of you a seed today. One seed. It is a very special seed. I want you to go home, plant the seed, water it and come back here one year from today with what you have grown from this one seed. I will then judge the plants that you bring to me, and the one I choose will be the next emperor of the kingdom!"

There was one boy named Ling who was there that day and he, like the others, received a seed. He went home and excitedly told his mother the whole story. She helped him get a pot and some planting soil, and he planted the seed and watered it carefully. Every day he would water it and watch to see if it had grown.

After about three weeks, some of the other youths began to talk about their seeds and the plants that were beginning to grow. Ling kept going home and checking his seed, but nothing ever grew. Three weeks, four weeks, five weeks went by. Still nothing.

By now others were talking about their plants but Ling didn't have a plant, and he felt like a failure. Six months went by, still nothing in Ling's pot. He just knew he had killed his seed. Everyone else had trees and tall plants, but he had nothing. Ling didn't say anything to his friends, however. He just kept waiting for his seed to grow.

A year finally went by and all the youths of the kingdom brought their plants to the emperor for inspection. Ling told his mother that he wasn't going to take an empty pot. But she encouraged him to go, and to take his pot, and to be honest about what happened. Ling felt sick to his stomach, but he knew his mother was right. He took his empty pot to the palace.

When Ling arrived, he was amazed at the variety of plants grown by all the other youths. They were beautiful, in all shapes and sizes. Ling put his empty pot on the floor and many of the other kinds laughed at him. A few felt sorry for him and just said, "Hey nice try."

When the emperor arrived, he surveyed the room and greeted the young people. Ling just tried to hide in the back. "My, what great plants, trees and flowers you have grown," said the emperor. "Today, one of you will be appointed the next emperor!"

All of a sudden, the emperor spotted Ling at the back of the room with his empty pot. He ordered his guards to bring him to the front. Ling was terrified. "The emperor knows I'm a failure! Maybe he will have me killed!"

When Ling got to the front, the Emperor asked his name. "My name is Ling," he replied. All the kids were laughing and making fun of him. The emperor asked everyone to quiet down. He looked at Ling, and then announced to the crowd, "Behold your new emperor! His name is Ling!" Ling couldn't believe it. Ling couldn't even grow his seed. How could he be the new emperor?

Then the emperor said, "One year ago today, I gave everyone here a seed. I told you to take the seed, plant it, water it, and bring it back to me today. But I gave you all boiled seeds which would not grow. All of you, except Ling, have brought me trees and plants and flowers. When you found that the seed would not grown, you substituted another seed for the one I gave you. Ling was the only one with the courage and honesty to bring me a pot with my seed in it. Therefore, he is the one who will be the new emperor!"

So dearest friends, always be honest no matter what!

Have a successful and joy-filled day!:))

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