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on: October 16, 2011, 12:14:45 PM 1 Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / Law of Attraction Quotes & Oneliners / You cant look backwards and forward at the same time.
"You cant look backwards and look forwards at the same time"
I heard this from A.Hicks and it hit me so hard. When we drive we look forward and look backwards through our rearview mirror but we cant do it at the same time, its one or the other. What she meant was that looking at your physical "reality" is looking backwards. Because all that currently is manifestation wise or lack of, is the product of old thoughts. Its old news. Because everything is a thought first. What is true reality is what we are currently imagining and feeling and thinking because that is what is producing and defining the manifestations that are to come next. You cant focus on your "reality" while getting your desires to manifest at the same time. Looking at your physical reality is looking backwards and focusing on the thoughts and feelings of your desires is looking forward and you cant look backwards and forwards at the same time. : ) I love this quote so much. its a small quote but with so much meaning, hope you guys like it.
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My father gave me a beautiful blank golden, lined, hardcover notebook with turtles etched on the front and back, for christmas last year around the time where i discovered LOA and on the first page, he wrote "a beautiful journal for the beautiful thoughts of my beautiful daughter. Remember: never be in the clouds, always be in the sky!" and i never really knew how important it was to me, until i started to write in it. I thought to myself "you know, what if this notebook wasn't ordinary, what if it had magical powers, and that everything i wrote in it came true?" so i decided to put it to the test. I wanted to attract my exboyfriend bobby, (which at the time i thought was nearly impossible, since the last thing he said to me a year ago was "stay out of my life, you crazy____) so i started a list which i called "small goals" and below that i put a phrase i made up "let this golden magical notebook release positive vibrations to make all the dreams stated below a reality."
I first wrote down two small things i wanted to happen: the first i put down "Bobby will text me a 30 minute (or more) conversation." the second i put down "Bobby will text 'where are you?' and meet me face to face." i put the date i imagined the idea, and an empty check box next to each idea. I then closed the notebook, and just trusted that everything i put down there will happen, and that i don't need to worry about it.
EXACTLY 3 weeks after i wrote down the two small goals, they became a reality.
What is even stranger, is that they both happened on the same day.
I was completely blown away by these results and i continued to put more and more small goals down in my magic notebook and they keep coming true.
What's really funny, is that after my first two goals came true, he stopped talking to me for a week, and i thought "huh, i wonder why this all stopped." and i didn't realize it until later, that it was because i didn't put down what i wanted to do next!
I hope this story inspires you to go out there and make your dreams come true!
the Laws of Attraction Truly work!!!
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on: October 09, 2011, 06:03:52 AM 3 Success Stories / Success Stories / Out of no way a way was made..
so for the past few days I’ve been posting about my life and a huge issue was with my adoptive dad and me basically hating his gut. I decided to try to use the LOA to find some peace with him. tonight i went to an Narcotics Anonymous meeting with him because he needed someone to drive him there as his license has been suspended. well tonite (like an hour ago) i heard this man, that I’ve hated because he hit me and my mom, open up and tell about his struggle with drugs and alcohol. I finally saw from his perspective and it was like i saw him in a different light. he deals with daily struggles of his own. that’s not to say what he does is ok but im amazed how the universe gave me a new perspective of him when that is EXACTLY what i asked for. i am ecstatic!! just wanted to share, thank you all for reading
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on: September 29, 2011, 06:40:41 AM 4 General Category / Law of Attraction Lounge / things I love about this forum and the people on it
Ok Im doing this on a whim lets see if I can do it.
1. I love the inspirational video that is one of the first things you see.
2. I love that every one is welcome here whether its for LOA or not.
3. I love Ankur for following inspired action to start a site where people could come and discuss the law of attraction and all it relates to.
4. I love all the friends I made here.
5. I love that even though this is a website and through a computer the love people give one another can be felt through the screen.
6. I love all the success stories and the people that were so true to themselves and their dreams that by law it showed and we get to share in their joy of it.
7. I love all the posts about feeling sad and like giving up because I know that in that stress and pain you are just launching bigger rockets of desire and it will only be moments away when you will reap the manifestation born from it.
8. I love that when I am being dramatic and a victim and I come here and vent, it is the love of you guys, in your replies, that I see the light and remember whats important.
9. I love the strange little smileys.
10. I love that Uploading and Mariposa fight like cats and dogs, it makes for good reading but I also know that deep down inside they are crazy about eachother!
11. I love coming on here first thing when I wake up and seeing unexpected success stories!
12. I love all the videos and useful threads everyone has come up with
13. I love how there are people on here from all over the world.
14. I love peoples sense of humor.
15. I love seeing everyone being so happy and writing so positively
16. I love that I feel like Ive known some of you forever.
17. I love loving you guys and seeing your dreams so vividly and so real and seeing your success so clearly.
18. I love that I have a place where I can be free to share my happiness and know I wont be judged for it.
19. I love that regardless of some bickering everyone on here is SO non-judgemental and SO welcoming and willing to just give so much love and wisdom away so freely.
20. I love the "lets list 20 things were grateful for" thread.
21. I love that tereza came up with such a genius "resources" thread, out of pure kindness.
22. I love that we have so many options in the text box when writing a reply, I dont know what half of them are for but I love that they are there.
23. I love how unique and hilarious and gorgeous everyone on here is.
AW THANKS FOR GIVING ME 24 MORE REASONS TO LOVE !
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on: September 24, 2011, 10:33:51 PM 5 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Resources Thread - Getting Your Ex Back
This thread is to be a resource for information on attracting an ex back so that hopefully you can find what you are looking for easily. Please feel free to reply to this thread with links to things or posts that you find helpful and see repeated often so it can be added to this post. If you want personal specific advice, please start another thread. Thank you.
Articles & Posts on Getting Your Ex Back
Getting Your Ex Lover Back by Mallica (read the comments too, they're very helpful)
Bible of Getting Your Ex Back - DNS Post
How to Get Your Ex Back: The Law of Attraction Way
Iron Ur's Guide
Yes, You Can Attract A Specific Person in Your Life
Articles & Posts on Detachment
Creating a New Thought Process-Much Like Trailblazing
How NOT to Tempt Fate - Just Keep Quiet!
Just a Thought on Letting Go and Finding Inner Peace, Love and Happiness
The 'Letting Go' Method
Plant the Seed---Then Let it Grow
The Beautiful Thing About Time Delays
Having Let Go Feels Amazing!
Detachment and Relationships
Law of Attraction for Perfect Relationship
Attracting a Specific Person - It Can be Done!
For Us All (A thread discussing Free Will and the LoA)
Attract Your Ex Back with LoA - A Violation of Free Will?
What About This? (Thread discussing if it's impossible to attract an ex back)
On Changing the way another is treating you
Articles on Sending Love & Remote Seduction
Telepathic Love Therapy
Thread about Sending Loving Thoughts to Ex
Commonly Recommended Videos
Alpha Binaural Beats
How to Tap/EFT
Om Mani Padme Hum
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The Fun Stuff…Success Stories!
A success story:
Balasus - I am Back With My Girl
Christy Michelle's success story
Daksh2 - Success
DanF007 - Need Advise on how to attract my ex fianceee (update is reply #101)
DHaynes…Success with LoA
DHaynes - My Journey N Where We Are Now!
Encouragement for Attracting a Lost Love
Giggles - My success story about attracting love back - I made a choice
Jasminestar - I used LOA to manifest my perfect relationship
Katie - The Time Has Come for My Success Story
Lovemeback - Got My GF Back
Leyline - My Success Story (at Last)
Marioska - How I Attracted My Love Back ^^ Thank You Everyone!
MinDiddy - Stick With It! It Works!
Oceanblue - From no contact to "I love you"
OmAumOm - My Success Story!!!!!!
Purebliss - He Came Back, But I Let Him Go
Priestess - HE IS BACK!!! My Success Story!
Sweet Spirit - My Need for Detachment in My Relationship and Why I Feel it is Necessary (make sure to get to post #24)
Thumbelina - A Complete Circle…This is How LoA Works! I'm a Winner!
Tagged "Relationship" Stories from the Secret website
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on: September 18, 2011, 11:16:56 AM 6 How to Use Law of Attraction / How to Use Law of Attraction / How to improve relationships
Law of attraction practitioners know the way to attract new romance is to love themselves the way they want to be loved by another. Loving yourself creates a vibrational match for receiving love from the outside. It’s a simple matter of giving yourself that which you desire from another.
But what if you’ve already got a partner in life who isn’t “being all that he can be”? Or maybe your dream-come-true bride devolved into a shrew over time? Can law of attraction help you change someone or improve an existing relationship?
Many deliberate creation experts say you can’t change another person, even with the voodoo power of your mind, because you can’t create on another’s behalf. Which is true. We can’t control what someone else wants, nor what they attract in life. Manipulating another into change isn’t likely to be successful.
That doesn’t mean we can’t use the practice of deliberate creation to dramatically alter the nature and experience of our relationships. Check this out:
You’re Already Doing It
You’re already using your energetic power of influence to affect those around you. This isn’t something you need to be aware of before you do it – you already are. In every moment you send out a vibration that affects others.
Dr. George S. Pransky, author of “The Relationship Handbook,” says the Heisenberg uncertainty principle can be applied to human relations. (That’s the principle that states observing something changes it.) “Your state of mind alters the behavior of people around you,” Pransky says. The way people act around us depends on whether we bring out the best or worst in others, which is driven by whether we harbor positive or negative thoughts about them.
Most of us aren’t conscious that our thoughts, feelings and energy alter others. That doesn’t mean it’s not happening.
For example, recall a time you met up with someone who was in a dramatically good or bad mood. After just a few minutes you may have noticed your mood shifting, right? It’s not that you were changed, it’s that being in their field brought forth similar feelings from within you. This is “entrainment” in human relationship.
We feel the effects of our commingled energy, whether we’re conscious of it or not. Pransky says, “People are like magnets, either attracting or repelling each other. As your level of goodwill rises, people become ever more cooperative.”
So you already influence others according to the energy you flow. When you learn to use that power for good, instead of letting it run by default, you can dramatically improve your relationships-even if you’re the only one doing it.
What Do You Know?
The first obstacle many of us run into when using the power of our thoughts and feelings to alter relationships is what we already “know” about our significant other.
When I “know” my boyfriend is insecure, unreasonable or inconsiderate, I create him as such. By having this knowing of him, I elicit those traits from him.
Conversely, when I alter my knowing, I allow him-in fact, energetically evoke from him-new traits, behaviors and ways of being.
In order for that to happen, though, I must relinquish my unsupportive beliefs about who and how he is. You’ve heard the saying that people live up to and down to our expectations? It’s because our expectations are energetic invitations.
As I know (or expect) my co-worker is always late, I contribute to her lateness. As I know she is too busy, she is (at least for me). As I expect she is inconsiderate, I create an inconsiderate colleague. I elicit those qualities from her.
Releasing what I know her to be, or the negative expectations I hold, allows her to be and do something different for me.
Many believe this is how Jesus healed the sick; by looking past their disease and seeing them only as complete, whole and healthy. He didn’t know them as ill, he instead saw them as he knew they were capable of being. He brought forth their perfect health from within.
So, if we see our partner as a frog, he is a frog (at least for us). If we see him as a prince, we create the space for him to leave his frog self behind and become a prince.
Putting It Into Practice
How can you use deliberate creation techniques to rectify a spouse who doesn’t do what you want-like compliment you, contact you, or take responsibility in the household?
There are plenty of effective ways to address these situations, but from a law of attraction perspective, you start by making peace with what is (since resistance to what is will only reinforce more of what you don’t want) and then release your knowing (along with your irritation) of “how they are.”
Embrace a new knowing (i.e., belief, understanding, expectation) of him or her. Find feelings of compassion and love. Imagine how you’d like your partner to be. Imagine the appreciation you’ll feel when you see changes. Maybe you can recall a time when he or she was this way.
All those steps will help you flow uplifted energy, which will call forth new ways of being from them. If there’s any part of them matched up with what you’re flowing, they’ll deliver. It’s not that you’re controlling or manipulating; rather, you’re just purposefully using your power of influence.
It’s interesting to note that because we can only experience what we’re a vibrational match to, others reflect what we are vibrating. If you notice a lot of cranky customers, you’ve probably got an element of crankiness flowing within. If you’re experiencing generosity from others, you can claim that quality for yourself as well.
Which means our partners can show us where our work is. If my spouse is condescending, I can check in to see how I might be condescending-whether to myself or others. When my dogs are nervous, I know I’m flowing nervousness. Our relationships offer a mirror to become consciously aware of what we’re vibrating, and thus attracting.
More helpful than anything, though, is to cultivate the practice of giving ourselves what we want from others. Instead of expecting our spouse to change so we can be happy, as author Byron Katie would say, “If you think it’s so easy to make you happy, you do it.”
As you cultivate your own happiness, you attract people, circumstances and opportunities that will create more reasons to be happy.
The bottom line, as author Esther Hicks (channelling Abraham in “The Astonishing Power of Emotions“) says, “Nothing brings out the worst in another faster than your focusing upon it. Nothing brings out the best in another faster than your focusing upon it.”
We get what we look for, so look for the best in those close to you, and you’ll both be well rewarded. In fact, maybe we could flow some positive expectations about our political leaders? If we could expect great things from them, either they’ll deliver – or make way for someone who can!
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on: August 29, 2011, 09:14:40 PM 7 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: Attracting a Specific Person Into Your Life…
This is one of the greatest quest on earth. At least once in a life time, most people have been questioning this issue, as well as being in this type of situation and even have been through this situation one way or another, and certainly, one of them is me.
I have a story to share about this.
Start with the classic discovery, 2599 years ago Gautama Bhuddha’s enlightenment
Buddha has discovered deep into the classic law that all being in the whole Universe are influenced by the cycle call Wheel of Karma, the mother of cause and effect. A portion of his advice relating to love is:
* Whether you love the person but the person does not love you...or
* Whether the person loves you but you don’t love the person...or
* Whether you and the person love and draw into each other effortlessly
Situations above are connected to the Wheel of Karma, which is the action you have been done so long ago even before your current physical body. Certainly, it may sound weird to many people, but if you study Abraham Hick, you will definitely familiar that he mention about “your being before born into today’s physical body” Yes, this is what I am talking about here and if you practice into finer level of meditation you will gain better understand about higher-self and physical body elements.
Now, how do you determine soul mate, according to Buddha brief advice, the soul mate will feel Loving Kindness Metta attraction toward each other and it must be felt by both side. Because the two people have been in great love long through each physical life and the Loving Kindness was projected deep into their higher-self, causing powerful Law of Attraction that draw each other to meet again in the right time and space and fall in love at no doubt and no effort. This is only a brief ideal, though.
Now let’s move on to the modern view, the New Age
Almost all Law of Attraction and Sub Conscious Mind experts have been written and made speech around the world for decade to “not be too specific”
They do not mean that being specific in apply the Law is prohibit or an absolute not-possible. You can try if you want to and you can try as long as you happy with it. But there is just no guaranteed of the result.
My own experience
I did attract specific quality of woman, I did attract her present (visualize seeing her somewhere, meet some place and being alone etc so we can talk), I did influence her in some specific things with sub-conscious mind power play (made her respond to different channel messages etc), but in the end I did not make her my lover because her ultimate heart does not love me.
So… am I successful in attracting specific person? It can be both Yes and No, I attracted specific situation and action from time to time that I want with this woman, but I did not get her heart, well if I am happy with that, then my attraction is successful. But if my ultimate goal is to have her my girlfriend, then I am not successful in this case.
What I am pointing out is
Attracting specific person can be done at some level, but to dominate whole body heart and mind is needed to be considered. I understand that everybody say to themselves that they are not clinging and they are not attaching, me too, but it is a-must-to realize that the moment you have this issue, you are making self attached to it already (whether you know it or not)
Here comes true story; I know two guys (not personally) …this is what happens:
There is a guy who loves a girl since they were kid, the girl does not like him though. When this guy wrote her a love letter, she would rip and throw it into the bin.
Then, they both got separated when they entered the college, because they move house and move school etc. The guy still in love with this girl and his heart unconditionally dedicate to this woman. 10 years later he contacted this woman and they started conversation bit by bit.
Due to time has changed so hate can become love; this is also confirmed by Buddha that everything changes over time, especially feeling and emotion. So the woman started to have good feeling toward the guy day by day. Just last year that they got married.
Another story is also a guy whom this time went into relationship with the woman. But some conflict made the woman felt bad and left him. The guy was left with absolutely no contact. She moved house and erased all contact so this man can never find her again.
Once again, this guy is faithfully dedicated his heart to this love. 5 years later they found each other by extreme Law of Attraction surprise. In the middle of crowded shopping mall, the guy slipped by his own feet and gentle bumped into this woman that just walked into the right time. That how he found her!!!
Then they started conversation and restructured their relationship. A couple years ago they just got married.
The word “to not be too specific” doesn’t mean being specific is not possible. But you need a self-check for how dedicated you are and how much you willing to sacrifice life and opportunity of the remaining just to one person that there is no guaranteed for the certain result, like the first guy that took him 10 years, this is something that very rare people will dare to do.
I am pretty sure that the two guys in my sample above know nothing about The Law of Attraction and that is the key to their success. Sometime, without knowing how the Law works is more effective than know too much about it. This is exciting isn’t it…
Until now, I may not really answer the question precisely in to Yes or No/ Can or Cannot. My purpose is to share my story for people to think along. Because in the end, this issue itself also cannot be answered specifically YES or NO, too.
My life after I have survived from longing for specific person
Life is choice; today I choose to live my life detaching to all kind of specific person. Because I discover that attaching to specific person who commit that he/she does not love you is heavenly suffering (feel beauty of love with pain stuck in the core of heart at the same time).
The Law of Attraction is creative and powerful. It can apply for goodness in many area of life and of course there is the person who matches our criteria that will only come at the right time. Our job is to improve ourselves and be ready for the upcoming person.
on: August 20, 2011, 11:06:02 PM 8 Success Stories / Success Stories / Re: A success story about attracting a specific person
Thank you Ava. Reading your post really made me smile. Your gut instinct knew it was not over and it was right! letting go is definitely the key! It doesn't mean you changed your mind about wanting him back, but letting go allowed the universe/God to take your desire, work on it, fix it, then return your desire to you better than it was before. Things DO happen for a reason; don't they?
Lets say you have a car that is broken. Are you going to hold on to that broken car, or are you going let go of it and to take it to a repairman to have it fixed so he can return it to you in a working condition? You're going to let go of; right? Its like a broken relationship. Relationships break up because they are broken and need fixing. If we still hold on tightly to an old relationship after it has been broken, how are we going to have it fixed? by letting go; that's how. Letting go of the tight grasp we have on old broken relationships enables the universe (or repairman) to fix it so the universe (or repairman) can return it back to us as good as new. That's what you did Ava, and now that relationship is working better than before; good as new. Just like my relationship with Ken. He left me a year ago yesterday. I held on tightly to that old broken relationship for several weeks. Then I let go to ease the pain of him leaving me and let the universe/God fix it and it was repaired and returned to me even better than before.
To those of you who want to attract an ex back:
LET GO! It works wonders!!
Thanks for sharing Ava!!
Much love and many blessings to you and your "good as new" relationship
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on: August 20, 2011, 10:14:51 PM 9 Success Stories / Success Stories / A success story about attracting a specific person
Hi guys i found this wonderful success story in(www.powerfulintentions.org).it's a long post,but useful....................Hi all! Well I haven't posted here since it first switched over from the Secret forum...but...I had to share this story with you all, especially those wanting to attract a specific person into their lives! I can tell you, it does work and yes you can! This is going to be a long post, I hope you're ready. But I think it'll be worth the read for those of you looking for hope.
Back early last year I had started seeing a guy I was REALLY into. In fact, I felt like he WAS the perfect guy for me. I had met him online and we chatted and emailed for a year before we finally met in person. So things were great when we first started seeing each other, but, having had many bad dating experiences before him, I was very untrusting and insecure and eventually I pushed him away because of it. In fact, I ended up writing him quite an insulting email filled with a lot of assumptions and accusations.
He was shocked at the email I wrote, and told me I was wrong about him. He was very polite in his response to me, but decided it was best to end all communication from that point forward.
Realizing how stupid I was in the things I said (all of them unfounded!) I tried desperately to get him back! I tried everything from emails of apology, to occasional short messages to him just hoping for a response. I only ever received one response back, and that was a simple email telling me he felt he was making the right decision to end communication. After that....nothing! I sent him a small gift along with another apology, he sent it back. Can you say desperate?! Yes, I was doing everything wrong!
So...I spent months thinking about this guy, wishing I hadn't screwed things up so badly, wanting a second chance, looking for answers to help me get him back. In fact, while I had heard of the Secret before, I never took it seriously until this moment when I found there was something I REALLY wanted! I searched for answers, and I found them in LOA. I started reading the Secret forums and found soooo much help and comfort in them.
I started meditating, I tried RS, I wrote the lists, I began writing in the gratitude journal, I wrote letters to God, asking for a second chance, believing I would get one, and expressing my thanks for all that I had and would have, knowing what I asked for would come to me. I would tell myself "I'm going to marry this man". I would visualize us together, happy, affectionate, having fun, even getting married. I did it all...for months!
When I first started doing these things...I had a very strong feeling my story with this guy was not over. And for some strange reason I kept thinking I would hear from him around his birthday...and decided that was the time I would try to get in touch with him again and just see what happens.
Well after months of trying all of these methods...nothing happened. I didn't see him, I didn't hear from him. The only signs I had were that I'd see his name everywhere!
Eventually I told myself I was crazy to continue...and decided I had to let go and move on with my life. Now this letting go wasn't related to anything to do with trying to get him back. I just decided for my own sanity I had to. And obviously all the effort I had put into focusing on getting back together with him was doing nothing for me but causing me more paind, because I couldn't let go and I couldn't stop thinking about him as long as I was doing these things every day.
So eventually I just let go, moved on, and started seeing other people. I started dating again. Met a few guys I liked but knew none of them were "the one"...even though when I met them I had hopes that they would be. And after the end of every one of these short relationships I would think back to this guy...and think to myself "he was the one".
His birthday was a few months ago...and at the time I was seeing another guy...having many ups and downs and trying so hard to make a relationship work that deep down I knew was going nowhere. Then one day, I signed into my MSN....and there he was! I was shocked! Normally I'd jump at the opportunity to talk to him! Especially after all that time. But for some reason I held back. I felt unsure and I was still in the process of another relationship, still in it's early stages, and trying to make it work. So I hesitated, and didn't go on to talk to him. I watched...and a few days later he was on again. I thought he had long ago removed me from his msn! Again...I didn't talk to him. Part of me was still shocked he was there, part of me wondered why he was there, and part of me felt if I just jumped at the opportunity to talk to him again, I'd be acting desperate like I was before...and I didn't want to start that feeling all over again.
Well...I kept thinking about him...still having not talked to him. And I noticed he had stopped showing up online. Then I thought to myself "Oh no! This is exactly what you asked for and the Universe delivered...and now you've blown it!" I kept thinking about him...and then I relaxed and thought I'd send him an ecard for his birthday...after all, what have I got to lose? I also was not thinking about getting back together with him at the time...because I was still seeing someone else. So I was still detached from the outcome.
I sent him the card, and sure enough he came online that night. And from there we started talking again! He didn't know I was seeing anyone and I didn't tell him, but we were just talking like old times, like old friends. Well, a couple months later, after trying very hard at the relationship I was in, I finally broke up with the guy I was seeing. I had no expectations of dating anyone afterwards. In fact, I had decided I just needed a break and was going to focus on me for awhile and forget about dating,
Funny how things come to you when you're least expecting them. 3 weeks after my break up, this guy...this wonderful man who I spent months pining over, invites me over out of nowhere! We have just started seeing each other again and it's even better than the first time! I am excited, but keeping my head this time, allowing myself to be patient, and allowing myself to feel secure and just BELIEVE. I truly believe the most important key to all of this is the last step....letting go and detaching from the outcome and just letting God/the Universe do their work.
I smile to myself every day...and marvel at the power of the Universe to deliver exactly what we desire. And still I tell myself..."I'm going to marry this man".
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on: August 19, 2011, 10:49:29 PM 10 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: The thought that makes you believe?
I manifested good love, great career and abundance before I even realize Law of Attraction is existed.
I discover that the power of Law and the power of mind work best on condition call "passion"
You do things with passion, do something you naturally feel fun to do will run the full power of the Law and the Mind. This is opposite to something you have to do or needed to do which distract the Power.
Today's problem is people cannot determine themselves from the thin line of differentiate between having passion or having need.
Emotion can tell, if you are negative (frustrate, fear, doubt, worry etc) on attracting something, that's a need, while passion is doing things for joy with less of being specific to something.
on: August 19, 2011, 01:41:00 AM 11 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: Why do I feel like I'm doing something wrong?
You act like it doesn't matter. Because it doesn't.[/quote]
^ this is GOLD. Tins knows what she is talking about ellebelle. You gotta stop caring so much, it takes some soul searching because you first have to figure out WHY you care so much. Wanting an ex back is never about a guy. The people that have gotten their ex back figured it out. Like Katie and DHaynes and SweetSpirit. They talk about faith and faith is major, but when you let go you realize you can be happy without them and you ARE happy without them, they feel it and come around. Because that is the most attractive thing. To be happy and love yoruself no matter what.
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on: August 17, 2011, 12:24:50 PM 12 Success Stories / Success Stories / Re: The time has come for my Success Story
Hi Miracles !
I did try EFT & Ho'op at first, but to no avail. I was such a nervous wreck at that time (and that's an understatement) that I just couldn't "get into" the techniques.
One night, we were in Patrick's car going some place, and he started saying the meanest, cruellest, hurtful things ever. I am a very emotional person, and I immediately started crying my eyes out. A tidal wave of anxiety and despair hit me, and I was literally drowning in it
Then I said to myself : wait a minute here Kate. You can't let him do this to you, you can't let him hurt you like that. And then and there, in the car, I started tapping, saying to myself "I totally love and accept myself, whatever P. says or does doesn't matter to me".
Patrick noticed I was tapping (he knows nothing about the LOA or EFT or anything) and he stopped the car and asked : what are you doing ? Are you crazy ? what is wrong with you ?
I didn't answer, just kept on tapping. Not one session, but about 3 or 4 sessions of tapping. He sat there, staring at me. And he said : you are going to end up in a mental institution !!!
From that night on, I started reaping the benefits of EFT. Then I started Ho'op. I did alot of research, here on this forum and on the internet. I found an old post written by Leyline and I made it mine.
"Please forgive me, for everything that is inside me that may contribute to the present reality.
I love you (the Divine)
I love me.
I thank the Divine that takes from within me everything that may contribute to the present reality.
I practiced both methods several times each day. Consistency is a key to success.
Little by little, I detached from him at last, and I felt so free !
Then I discovered gratitude, and that tool worked wonders also. Really ! it works !
Hope this helps, if you have any further questions, just ask dear Miracles
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on: August 17, 2011, 11:10:51 AM 13 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / An advice for Law of Attraction Practitioners!
Hello. I know you guys have been over engrossed into Law of Attraction for a desire relationship with the person you love most. However, your health is still important and if your health is bad, it may detriment your thinking process.
This is what has happened to me today. I have a fever today and I am not feeling well. However, I have examination to sit. Well, actually, I have been sick since Tuesday, but because of examination, I have forced myself out to school. The fever then mess with my emotions and create more and more negative thoughts. In the end, I had made a careless mistake in my Chemistry Paper today.
What I suggest is, apart from manifesting your desire, please remember to take care of your health. You will not manifest any desires if you don't have the correct thoughts or emotions. Health is the only section that may mess your emotions.
A healthy person, will tend to be more optimistic. And most of the cases, you don't see them frowning.
on: August 14, 2011, 07:18:48 PM 14 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: Can we do whatever we feel like doing and expect someone to love us?
lise2010's opinion is true.
Successful Law of Attraction users don't live in specific details. They often recommend people around the World not to be too specific.
Being too specific causes reasoning = being logical = What if/ How to
All expert said What if/ How to is the villain that fail many people around the world when using the Law
What if/ How to causes doubt, more doubt more question more reasoning more logic and so on, but the person will really get nowhere spiritually.
on: August 13, 2011, 08:03:19 PM 15 Success Stories / Success Stories / Re: The time has come for my Success Story
I'd appreciate you outlining what exactly it was you feel that you did to change things around.
1) I found inner peace, and let him go
Remember when he told me he wanted to go out and date other women ? And the same night I tried to kill myself ? Well, some time after that, I finally let go, I stopped controlling him. I told him he was free to do as he pleased. He went out without me once, and came back surprisingly early, early enough to have dinner with me at home. And he told me that he didn't want to go out without me again. When I think I almost took my life because of that I get shivers down my spine.
2) I stopped trying to attract him back in the physical sense (no questions, I gave him space and especially, PEACE) and concentrated on attracting him back in the spiritual sense
3) I FINALLY realized that he does not belong to me, that I can live without him, and this was purely unthinkable for many long months. He told me today that he felt it, and felt relieved, and I immediately thought about Sweet Spirit and Ken, he came back to her the same way and in a very short space of time ! A week I think.
4) I started practicing genuine gratitude statements (not out loud, in my mind) and FEELING the unseen as if it had already taken place. In a matter of days, I started checking things off my list, because they were actually happening ! but I kept on giving thanks for them, and still do....also, I listened to Buddhist mantras several times a day (the ones Sheri posts often)
And binaural beats, but I really got into the mantras (and will continue to listen to them )
5) I kept my Faith. This does not mean I made no mistakes, I actually relapsed once or twice into pestering him, but the more negative aspects had already disappeared, and he never pushed me away the way he used to.
All this from a man who told me last month, our relationship is 200% over and I will NEVER change my mind. At that time, I saw hatred in his eyes.
Nothing is impossible, it's just that our limiting beliefs and negative thoughts are poison. Change your outlook and you change your world
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