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Wow, congratulations LOA Believer! You deserve it, am so happy for you

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Congratulations!! I am so excited for you!! Take and run with it.   

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Hi gang just giving a shout of hello and thanks.  I look forward to be of help and to be helped.  Have a great day.  Peace

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Young blue eyes,

When my boyfriend left me back in August I was very hurt and naturally I bashed him and brought up all his negative points to make myself feel better (because I thought that by bashing him it would make me feel like I was better off without him.) In all actuality I was still missing him, still wanting him and still desperate to have him in my life to make me happy. I was miserable when He was living with me last summer because he was acting like a jerk, but I also knew in my gut that he was my true love. It was the way I perceived him that made him that way. People say you can not change a person and to accept them for the way they are. That is only half true. You can change your perception of that person. You can visualize them being sweet and kind and affirm that they are sweet and kind. I knew my boyfriend could be sweet and kind but my perception of him (being a jerk,) was bringing out the worst in him. It was when I started loving him unconditionally and saying he was sweet and kind while not expecting anything, (letting go,)  guess what happened? He DID change! He is more loving and we get along so much better. I stopped being clingy and he started being more affectionate.

Well we are back to living together and this time I love EVERYTHING about him. I am not miserable like I was when we were together last summer. It is because I changed my perception of him that he is no longer acting like a jerk. My ex wanted to be with me and I knew in my gut instinct that he loved me. He said while we were apart with no contact for over a month, he still loved me but was giving me time to grow. He knew I was hurting and he was hurt too. So its not true that we are always trying to attract someone who does not want us.

So when people want their ex back even though their ex may have hurt them, it was not always the ex that meant to hurt them. It was their perception and negativity about their ex that caused their ex to be hurtful. We allow ourselves to be hurt. We build our exes up and put them on this pedestal and when they break a promise or don't do things we expect, we feel that they are jerks that hurt us. We are the ones who hurt ourselves.

On the other hand, there are those cases when an ex really did treat their mate bad. The mate did nothing wrong and took the beating and still loved their ex. The mate never said anything negative about their ex but still the ex crapped all over the mate, took advantage of them and dumped them like yesterday's garbage. Those are the exes no one should ever want to attract back and they should be thanking their exes for dumping them; otherwise they would still be in an abusive situation. Those are the ones who should get over an ex and move on to someone who will treat them better.

I think most the people on here have not been abused by an ex. If they did, they are glad its over and done with. So when those of us bash our exes and still want them back, its because we love them and know that they did not mean to hurt us; we are just hurt because they broke up with us that's all. There is nothing wrong with trying to attract an ex back if there was a true connection between the two people. My ex and I had a true connection and that is why he felt he had to return to me.

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Thank you for all your blessings, Green!  Have a wonderful year full of all that you desire! VC

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Have u mastered all the above? I very much doubt it mate... All this information in one day, focus on you, and work on you! Don't contact her, say you want some space, become a bit of a mystery, no contact is good. Being in contact and fighting and bringing up the past will NOT help the situation at all!

Forgive her, and yourself for what went wrong, then you may be in a situation to start contact again! Don't be bothered about the bad things that happened, if you can HONESTLY say to yourself you have let go of all the bad stuff that happened, then you can start again, if not, continue working on yourself and forgiving both of you!

Let go of the old relationship so you can start a new one with her!

Steve x

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Congrats Believing

The power of LOA in action!  What a wonderful thing, lol

Have a great day,
J

Thank you greenglove !!

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I have asked and have been working towards attracting a specific person. It's a long story and this isn't an ex but circumstances have lead me to break contact in order to manifest the outcome I want.

During the none contact - we have had contact! (limited and iniated by him) I've been resolute in wanting what I want and not what I had. I have an inklings that this would happen.

Now I have the possible opportunity to see him in person - he lives a long way away, he wants to come and see me - god knows I want to see him. However - circumstances are not as I speifically requested which leaves me in a dilemna.

Is this possible visit, the first step towards my ultimate goal and should be grabbed with both hands - to not take up the chance - ignoring the universes movement to give me what I want. OR do I say no to meeting and wait until the situation is specifically as I asked and want it to be?

In addition my note from the universe said this - this morning.

"Whenever something doesn't work out the way you thought it would,  instead of thinking that something went wrong, see it as something that went unexpectedly well, but for reasons that are not yet apparent.

Everything plays to your favor."

I read into that - it's a step in the right direction.


One other thing - for anyone. Gratitude really, really brings more things to be grateful for. In the past, I have been guilty of perhaps just playing lip service to gratitude and not necessarily feeling it deeply. I have started to feel it a lot more and within hours and days more has happened to be grateful for.

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Roosty,

Are you in contact with your ex girlfriend right now?

Sounds like you are doing the right things since you feel good about it. It is when we long for our exes out of desperation and the need to have them in order to make us happy, we are advised to let go. Since you feel happy (and not negative with the fear that you won't attract her back,) you may have already let go. You can feel good knowing that you will be together again, and at the same time expect nothing. Knowing and expecting may sound the same, but they are really very different. I know me and my ex will always be the best of friends, but I don't expect anything more. I am happy with less. He has been visiting me for 9 days now. I did not expect him to still be here, but he is! Did I know he would be here this long? No, but I am grateful he is. When he does leave, I will still be happy knowing (not expecting) he will be back. It is when I don't expect him to do things he knows I like, he does them! Expecting is almost like something felt out of need or desperation while knowing is trusting that it will happen. Expecting gets our hopes up and lets us down if for some reason what we expect does not happen. Knowing is like we are not concerned with the how or when it will happen, we just know in our heart and find peace and joy that it will happen.It is hard for me to explain but does that make sense? The one thing we can expect for certain is that the laws of attraction are always at work, so keep doing what makes you feel good and positive!

The next step, (if you have not done so already,) is to be grateful; not only for her, but for the simple things in life we as humans often take for granted. Start a gratitude list or journal. Be grateful every moment you can. LOA will work in your favor when you acknowledge that you are happy and blessed with what you already have.

So far, it sounds like you are on the right track. I see good things happening for you!

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Greengloveblog & Kitten,
Your stories are so common on this site.
I couple of days ago I posted a method for "letting go" of your ex. It may help you, so I've copied it below.
The point is to release all those emotional connections that are so painful - it leaves you feeling much freer. You don't necessarily lose the love you felt, but you will feel much more indifferent to the person concerned. This is not anything to worry about, because it gives you the choice - do you really want him/her back or do you want to move on. right now, you don't have such a choice.
Ok, here goes with the technique.
The advice given mostly is that you have to let them go, which is true, but I think what most people want is a practical technique or process for letting go. There is a real method for doing so, but, before I get into it you must be sure you want to. I'm not being rude, but you must be sure that you are not gaining something by being the victim of unrequited love - maybe the drama, the sympathy from others.
Once you are sure you are not, you can truly let go. Also, be warned - once you have done this process you will almost certainly feel differently towards the person in question, but at least you'll be free. And free to choose whether you really do want them back.
Here's how to get rid of those, almost obsessive, feelings that are ruining your life.
Although you think they're perfect, there will be things about your ex that you didn't particularly like - maybe an irritating habit, the way they spoke sometimes, (or passed wind!). Think of something, the more revolting or disgusting or annoying, the better.
Now picture your ex - those old feelings will come flooding back. As soon as they do, immediately switch the picture and see/hear them doing the thing you found disgusting or irritating. Make it BIG, BRIGHT, LOUD. Intensify the feelings of disgust or annoyance.
Then do it all again. Do it at least 5 or 6 times. By then , every time you think of your ex the horrible pictures will appear automatically and you will feel disgusted, etc.
It helps to have someone take you through this process, but with some discipline and concentration you can do it yourself.
To check all is going well, take a look out of the window and just observe what you see. This 'takes your mind off' what you are doing. Then, just think of your ex again. How do you feel? Very different I'll bet. If you need to you can repeat this process, perhaps using different things about him or her which you didn't like, until you feel completely indifferent towards him or her.
Once you're at that point it gets more exciting, because NOW you are FREE to CHOOSE whether or not you really want him or her back, or if you would rather move on.
If you try this, please post back and let me know how you got on.
Best wishes,
Edge.

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If as you say "Yet, when I started adopting some of the ideas mentioned on this forum, such as:
- letting go (not building my daily life according to life with her)
- letting go of good memories of the past
- letting go of any beliefs that make her the most important person and aim in my life
- letting go of idea of making her the only person I will ever love
(basically, letting go of many of my values)"

Is having a negative effect on you - then don't do it - it really is that simple. Try a variety of things - see what works for you and what doesn't. Everyone is different.

However, I don't think anyone has ever suggested letting go of good memories of the past. Letting go of the bad memories of the past yes, not the good ones.

If not letting go of the other things work for you then don't let go. However, I think making someone else and building your daily life around them is unhealthy bordering on the obsessional. but that's just my personal opinion. I also think it puts pressure on the other person - when someone is making them their sole focus. They feel they have an ideal to live up to.

I think letting go is difficult and for me - I find it is something that happens naturally in time - however, I've looked at and tried some of the techniques that people have took the time and effort to put on here. If I like it, I try it - if I don't then I leave it.

MY understanding of letting go - is letting go of desperation/ letting go of fear that you might not get them back / letting go of the feeling you will only ever be happy with them/ letting go of neediness/ letting go of making them your everything.

It's not about letting go of desire/ love/ good memories/ friendship.

I think too many people are twisting themselves in knots trying to improve themselves in the hope it will get someone back or attract someone. I believe we should be improving ourselves for our own benefit because it will benefit us, make us happy, fulfilled ect. As a consequence that will have a knock on positive effect on other people aroud us.

If the techinques people on here suggest don't resonate with you - then don't use them. I personally find eft no use to me at all - but I have read how much other people rate it.  Personally, the best thing I have found since learning about the loa and all the surrouding info - is the gratitude journal. I love it and I think that has been the most productive, useful thing ever for me and I believe that the gratitude really brings more things to be grateful for and quickly. But I've always loved writing - used to keep a diary for years and I llove re reading and ticking off things I've wanted to attract. But writing daily might be someone elses worst nightmare.

Every time someone posts some new technique idea etc - I consider it. If I don't feel drawn to it then I don't use it. There's no need to look at it from every angle and over analyse it's benefit or not. Move on and look at something else. Because that one might work for someone else.
 

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hi there,

your story is very similar to mine. broke up after 7 years, found out he was cheating and he said he did it because he wasnt in love with me anymore, that he believes that if he did love me he wouldnt have cheated! talk about passing on the blame. i was very angry for many reasons, first that when i suspected him he made it seem like i am imagining things, that i am a fool but then when i found evidence he confessed and broke down crying saying it is because he didnt love me. it has been 6 months, and i am just getting past the hurt and starting to realise that it wasnt my fault, i blamed myself for what happened for a long time but then i sat with myself and realised that i was loyal, i had my share of problems going on, it wasnt like he was attending to my needs but yet i didnt cheat on him when i could have done so. this realisation made me look at myself in a different light, i felt proud of myself and worthy. i shifted focus from him to myself, i started doing things i like doing, going out and planning my life with or without him. although i was very very hurt by his actions but i know deep down i still love him, 7 years is a very long time, 1 bad year is not long enough to wipe out 6 good years. however, i dont feel like i need him anymore , i am not desperate. he has filed for divorce but for some reason i feel that he is hesitating now! which is strange, my belongings are still at his place and he says he will send them to me, but he is not. makes me think maybe it is painful opening your wife of 7 years wardrobe and packing her things! i would find it very hard. i believe that a relationship this long is very hard to break. these men probably going through a period where they got bored of being with one woman, they are probably thinking they are still young and want to have fun. i bet you they thought it will be easy to break up, just a decision and all is good and fun but i am sure when it got to the practical side of things, splitting assets, getting rid of belongings it hit them, they now realise what 7 years really mean. i deep down wish we could get back together but if it doesnt happen i will still be happy and get on with my life, i believe i have reached the letting go stage. i do affirmations every night, i list things i am grateful for for that day and at the end i say i am glad (name) shares his unconditional love with me, i am grateful for our healthy marriage...etc then i forget about it and get on with my life. i am also trying to keep contact with him to the minimum, as they say u dont know what u have until u lose it.

anyway hope this helped. let me know if you need any help

tc

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