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I have an idea: gogetter, you asked how you can stop attracting all this negativity and meanness. And you point out that, when you encounter meanness from other people, it hurts you, and you find it hard to pull yourself out of that. Okay - but if you believe in LOA, you MUST believe that this is originating with you. You attract your reality. The problem then is how do you attract something different, when you are confronted with things that hurt you every day? Think of it this way: your life is like a story, and you are the narrator. So far the story has had a lot of unhappiness. So, from your point of view as story teller, maybe it doesn't make sense for the plot to suddenly change by 180 degrees. Maybe you want this, but your inner sense of 'logic' (what we sometimes call the ego) tells you it isn't possible, because it would be too great a leap. Sort of like a story where the protagonist has been horribly maimed in a car accident, but then suddenly they wake up one morning completely healthy and able to run marathons. Some people could believe that sort of story and run with it (no pun intended  ), but others would find that their ego sqwaks too much and won't let them manifest that. So here's what you do: find something you CAN believe in. Take small steps toward your goal. So, your current perception is that nearly everyone is horrible to you, for no reason whatsoever. But you must believe that it is possible that some nice kind people exist. So believe that you will meet one or two of those, and look out for them. And then appreciate them when you find them. Don't start worrying that they will suddenly become 'mean'. Just look for small improvements. And then, over time, the small improvements will start to accumulate - and you will be able to imagine a better life in all ways. Just start with what you can believe, no matter how small, and build up from there. When a limiting thought starts to surface ('my parents are cruel', 'I can't get a job', whatever it is), just put it on hold temporarily. Focus on whatever tiny good thing you can genuinely appreciate in your life. No matter how awful your life is, there has to be at least one or two tiny good things that you can appreciate to get you started.
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Hi there gogetter, You have to begin somewhere if you want to heal? Don't you agree ?  So please start cleaning your house and throwing unwanted stuffs out, you will yourself figure out what you wish to do and what would heal you. Then begin with your appearance. Only after this, you can appreciate what all others are trying to state. You can heal
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Gogetter, this 1st video is EXACTLY WHAT YOU NEED to hear!! These will help you!
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Gogetter I feel for you right now. I really do! I know it seems we are blaming you for what has happened, but you have to remember this is a Law of Attraction forum, we are all here because we believe/know that we all create our own realities. So if you were looking to be let off the hook, you're kinda in the wrong place.. but you are here and you are here for a reason!!! Let's make this a turning point in your life! Ok from today, the past is the past. Let's not bang the drum any more about how things were or even how things are now. Let's start creating a future that is loving, supportive and full of joy. You are a strong woman, you are able to look after your kids and your parents on your own, and that takes a lot of courage, well done for that, you have my respect! You have help all around you, people treat you with loving kindness and a helpful attitude. The world is changing for the better. Today it all changed!!!  Thank you!!!!
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Hi there sweetie! I can see where you are coming from yet, there are challenges that we meet every day. These challenges are made to make us grow, learn, and mature. It is best not to take these challenges too seriously, which is why I call them ‘fun challenges’. I cannot guarantee that once you are able to align your thoughts with your emotions, everything will be as easy as pie, but surely, there is always an ease on things. It will make facing those challenges much easier and fun. You can’t expect the road to success to be without bumps. Those bumps are there for you to appreciate the smoothness of the road and the scenery. See the challenges that you meet as reminders for you to appreciate the beauty of life. Without them, our lives would be so boring; our alignment with our desires is affected. When you are in alignment with your intentions, you will always be able to find a way to make challenges much easier and fun. If negative emotions get in the way, try this effective method to make those negative emotions go away and be gone for good: http://manifestabsolutelyanything.net/attracting-abundance-eft1d.htmlSo instead of worrying yourself out or straining yourself, see those challenges that you meet everyday as ‘fun challenges’ and try to make solving them as fun and as natural as possible. Have fun!
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You don't have to send loving thoughts to people who are mean to you, especially if you are feeling bad. The best thing to do is to ignore what happened and just let it go. Now I'm not saying be a doormat and allow people to abuse you, but instead choose carefully your battles. Sometimes it's just not worth giving any energy to certain arguments and instead just redirect your thoughts to yourself and the things that make you happy.
Also, sometimes it's helpful to look at the people who are being mean and realize that perhaps the reason they are so mean is because they are unhappy and probably going through some rough times. It sort of puts things in perspective. The fact that you're able to be nice and even try to send them loving thoughts, just shows how much more blessed you are than they are. You have the ability to give love, which they at this moment don't have. All those people that got into arguments with you or were being mean, they're sort of in a lower place than you are.
Also, kudos to you on your upcoming move. I think it will be good for you and your family. I'm not sure why the people in your city are so mean, but sometimes that happens and it's not really a result of you attracting them so much as that's just how they sort of are. I know in my old city, people who would come from another state would say over and over, that the locals were not very friendly and kind of stuck up. So perhaps old beliefs sort of made the city into what it was? I don't know. Also, even though I had a new manager at my old job, that manager would treat me exactly the same as my old manager and didn't think I was capable of much. Now that I've moved, it's sooooooo different. The people are much friendlier and my managers treat me with respect and actually try to help me out.
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I agree with Ginny! As far as being mean? Seriously? You asked a question and got an answer, whether you believe it or not my answer was intended to be of help to you. As someone in a similar situation and who has spent the majority of my life coming to terms with my families interesting outlook on life as well as many years of therapy in order to make sure that I choose different, more productive behaviors, I believe I am in a good position to offer some advice. Now, if you want to "not" take heed and wish to take my advice as personal attack instead of the helpful advice I offer, that is totally your choice. Your mother raised her daughter (your sister) and I am sure she is fully aware of her negative personality traits, and I am sure she chooses to love her regardless of her insensitivity. Like I said earlier, I agree with Ginny. I think you need to work on yourself and change your reactions to toward your family from a negative to a more positive. If you are here asking for advice and only want to hear, what you want to hear, but insist on putting out negative energy and expecting to get positive energy back.....I don't know what to say. We are here to help support you, but we must also be true to ourselves and with you. If that means telling you something you don't want to hear then so be it, it is for your own betterment and well being. I hope you can take this post better and more productively then the last. Love and light!
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gogetter, this is a lot of complicated stuff to try to deal with via internet posts, but I'll try my best. First thing is, I genuinely believe that it is the extreme minority of people who set out to be deliberately mean, or selfish or unkind. Those who are deliberately unkind - who know they are being cruel for no reason, and with no regard for how their behaviour affects another person - are very damaged people. The majority of the rest of us are just trying to do the best we can with the resources and insights that we have at any given moment in time. I have spent a lot of time thinking about this, as I grew up with an alcoholic mother who was abusive and neglectful. And even though she did some terrible things to me, I honestly believe that she was doing the best she could, and wanted to be a good mother. I suspect that your sister falls into that category of people who wants to be good, but for whatever reason (whether it be perception or circumstance) is falling short. I also think that you stand a better chance of altering people's behaviour if you try to understand their motivations rather than condemn them. Why is she acting as she is, and why does she think it's acceptable? Do you really believe that it's because she's just a bad person? If so, how did she get to be that way? Do you think she's just a bad spirit, who was born into the body of your mother's offspring to torment her? She probably feels (rightly or wrongly) that she is justified in her behaviour, maybe even that it is good (? people sometimes believe the strangest things) With the niece, the same factors apply. Teenagers tend to be more selfish than adults (although this is not always the case) - but I do not think this is because they are innately any worse in spirit. It is just this understanding of other people's viewpoints, and the impact that your actions have on others, sometimes takes some time to develop. I didn't start to develop this until I was in my thirties, so I behaved like a selfish teenager for most of my twenties Another thing to consider is that, as the saying goes, "Whatever you resist persists". This is a really difficult balance to get right, and one person's "just trying to be helpful" is another person's "unwelcome interference and condemnation". I know you want to see these people do the right things, but you have to consider how likely your actions are to have the desired effect. If people feel like they are being nagged or condemned then (again, rightly or wrongly) they will turn off and stop listening to you. it takes a great deal of empathy to see the viewpoint of someone who you feel is behaving badly, but the rewards can be enormous, and ultimately lead you much closer to your goal. i'm not sure how much else useful I can say at a distance. I think it might be better to try to influence their behaviour through meditation and sending love, and thoughts of correct action, rather than direct words. I hope this helps some.
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This is just my opinion but from my experience and from reading, it is much easier to use the laws when the body and mind are pretty clean. Perhaps if you use Ho'oponopono and teach her Ho'oponopono you both may bring her life into a better situation. I have a friend who was on a lot of drugs including oxycontin because of an injury and she went cold turkey to quit. She and I had a long talk a few days ago and she told me how sick she got before she got better when she quit. Fortunately she had a friend who took her to the hospital at one point for an infusion as she was dehydrated from being sick during the discontinuation of the drugs all at once.
Send her a lot of love.
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I think how I'd approach this is - if you can make amends, do so, and if you can't, forgive yourself and let it go. It really is critical to forgive yourself and love yourself. It sounds corny and hokey, but if you are critical and lacking empathy for yourself, you will be the same with other people. The more love, compassion and acceptance you feel for yourself, the more it will spread to others. I feel stupid even saying that, because it's precisely the kind of statement that would have made me roll my eyes in annoyance 20 years ago - but I've discovered that it's completely true. The more I forgive myself for my imperfections, the more tolerant I become of other people, and the more love and compassion I am able to express towards them. (groan! )
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Gogetter, you have definitely gone this far, am happy for your progress! We know that thoughts become things, work inwards on this. Maybe there are negative beliefs there in your subconscious mind that became a reality to you. If you have checked on that, and they still lashed their anger out to you, they must have personal battles within themselves. Just leave it be, you are in the pedestal in your life. What matters most now is that you are able to spread love and smiles to everyone around you, those that are not worthy of you will then choose to get out from your life. Continue loving yourself more, it is not your loss that you lost them - it is their loss for not sharing their life to you the most loving way
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Dear gogetter,i think signs are just alarms that try to tell us:if we continue our way of thinking,we will attract that special event,and it is because when you think about something,LOA,will show you the signs that is align with your thoughts,and i don't think the signs want to tell us that everything we see,we will absolutely have in our life,or it is our future,the signs like our dreams just come from our thoughts and when we focus on another thing,we will see that special thing,we think about,right?
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Gogetter, ACAM, the American College for the Advancement in Medicine, is the acronym for the organization that many alternative MD's associate with and have conferences for learning complementary medicine issues. They have a web site with members listed.
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Much of western medicine is useless for many issues we face but many practitioners are too vain to admit that. I know dentists who still insist that amalgam (mercury) fillings are safe because the ADA tells them it is so... I could go on and on... I hate to even discuss the topic too much as I agree that we atract illness as well as good health. And the FDA combined with drug companies give many doctors the information from the drug company research as the boittom line... IMHO, get the mole checked. If it is a result you do not like, well you can do research and decide what to do next.
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