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"Until he has unconditional and unbiased love for all beings, man will not find peace"
Siddhārtha Gautama (Buddha)

His wisdom from enlightenment is eternal. Today more and more people find unconditional love is the key to harmoniously alignment with higher self as well as the key to Love Attraction.

Until you can really make yourself become unconditional love, you will find yourself in frustrate mood swing.

One day upset
One day happy
One day fear
One day blossom
One day doubtful
One day big heart
One day small heart
And so on...endlessly.
 
Unconditional love is perfect peace, it's the end of doubt, fear, worry
It is something that you cannot find from someone, but to develop from within.
Nobody can fulfill you, nobody can make you whole, except yourself.
How well you do within will reflect the world without in the end.

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Hi guys i found this wonderful success story in(www.powerfulintentions.org).it's a long post,but useful....................Hi all! Well I haven't posted here since it first switched over from the Secret forum...but...I had to share this story with you all, especially those wanting to attract a specific person into their lives! I can tell you, it does work and yes you can! This is going to be a long post, I hope you're ready. But I think it'll be worth the read for those of you looking for hope.

Back early last year I had started seeing a guy I was REALLY into. In fact, I felt like he WAS the perfect guy for me. I had met him online and we chatted and emailed for a year before we finally met in person. So things were great when we first started seeing each other, but, having had many bad dating experiences before him, I was very untrusting and insecure and eventually I pushed him away because of it. In fact, I ended up writing him quite an insulting email filled with a lot of assumptions and accusations.

He was shocked at the email I wrote, and told me I was wrong about him. He was very polite in his response to me, but decided it was best to end all communication from that point forward.

Realizing how stupid I was in the things I said (all of them unfounded!) I tried desperately to get him back! I tried everything from emails of apology, to occasional short messages to him just hoping for a response. I only ever received one response back, and that was a simple email telling me he felt he was making the right decision to end communication. After that....nothing! I sent him a small gift along with another apology, he sent it back. Can you say desperate?! Yes, I was doing everything wrong!

So...I spent months thinking about this guy, wishing I hadn't screwed things up so badly, wanting a second chance, looking for answers to help me get him back. In fact, while I had heard of the Secret before, I never took it seriously until this moment when I found there was something I REALLY wanted! I searched for answers, and I found them in LOA. I started reading the Secret forums and found soooo much help and comfort in them.

I started meditating, I tried RS, I wrote the lists, I began writing in the gratitude journal, I wrote letters to God, asking for a second chance, believing I would get one, and expressing my thanks for all that I had and would have, knowing what I asked for would come to me. I would tell myself "I'm going to marry this man". I would visualize us together, happy, affectionate, having fun, even getting married. I did it all...for months!

When I first started doing these things...I had a very strong feeling my story with this guy was not over. And for some strange reason I kept thinking I would hear from him around his birthday...and decided that was the time I would try to get in touch with him again and just see what happens.

Well after months of trying all of these methods...nothing happened. I didn't see him, I didn't hear from him. The only signs I had were that I'd see his name everywhere!

Eventually I told myself I was crazy to continue...and decided I had to let go and move on with my life. Now this letting go wasn't related to anything to do with trying to get him back. I just decided for my own sanity I had to. And obviously all the effort I had put into focusing on getting back together with him was doing nothing for me but causing me more paind, because I couldn't let go and I couldn't stop thinking about him as long as I was doing these things every day.

So eventually I just let go, moved on, and started seeing other people. I started dating again. Met a few guys I liked but knew none of them were "the one"...even though when I met them I had hopes that they would be. And after the end of every one of these short relationships I would think back to this guy...and think to myself "he was the one".

His birthday was a few months ago...and at the time I was seeing another guy...having many ups and downs and trying so hard to make a relationship work that deep down I knew was going nowhere. Then one day, I signed into my MSN....and there he was! I was shocked! Normally I'd jump at the opportunity to talk to him! Especially after all that time. But for some reason I held back. I felt unsure and I was still in the process of another relationship, still in it's early stages, and trying to make it work. So I hesitated, and didn't go on to talk to him. I watched...and a few days later he was on again. I thought he had long ago removed me from his msn! Again...I didn't talk to him. Part of me was still shocked he was there, part of me wondered why he was there, and part of me felt if I just jumped at the opportunity to talk to him again, I'd be acting desperate like I was before...and I didn't want to start that feeling all over again.

Well...I kept thinking about him...still having not talked to him. And I noticed he had stopped showing up online. Then I thought to myself "Oh no! This is exactly what you asked for and the Universe delivered...and now you've blown it!" I kept thinking about him...and then I relaxed and thought I'd send him an ecard for his birthday...after all, what have I got to lose? I also was not thinking about getting back together with him at the time...because I was still seeing someone else. So I was still detached from the outcome.

I sent him the card, and sure enough he came online that night. And from there we started talking again! He didn't know I was seeing anyone and I didn't tell him, but we were just talking like old times, like old friends. Well, a couple months later, after trying very hard at the relationship I was in, I finally broke up with the guy I was seeing. I had no expectations of dating anyone afterwards. In fact, I had decided I just needed a break and was going to focus on me for awhile and forget about dating,

Funny how things come to you when you're least expecting them. 3 weeks after my break up, this guy...this wonderful man who I spent months pining over, invites me over out of nowhere! We have just started seeing each other again and it's even better than the first time! I am excited, but keeping my head this time, allowing myself to be patient, and allowing myself to feel secure and just BELIEVE. I truly believe the most important key to all of this is the last step....letting go and detaching from the outcome and just letting God/the Universe do their work.

I smile to myself every day...and marvel at the power of the Universe to deliver exactly what we desire. And still I tell myself..."I'm going to marry this man".

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Hello Everyone!  It's great to see that everyone is doing so well!  It's nice reading about everyone's accomplishments!

I've been good, too.  Many wonderful things have been happening to me, I've also been receiving a lot of challenges, and I have many things for which to be greatful.  I have something that I'd like to share with all of you in the hopes that it uplifts you.

I love my car!  She is one of my first manifestations in which I was like, "Damn!  I really DO get whatever I want!"       Well, she has broken down three times in the 5 years that I've had her and these are those times:

1.  I was running an errand for work and my battery died.  Luckily, it died in a parking lot, next to a car with jumper cables, and both cars were aligned for easy battery to battery connection, which is tricky because my battery is in the back.  What's really funny is that the rescue car happened to belong to the very first person that I asked (in the store, not out by his car) if he had jumper cables.  Imagine both of our amusement to find that both cars were already parked for the procedure.  LOL!

Well, I drove back to work thinking about how fortunate I was and how things always seem to work out for me.  As I entered my small town (the entrance is at the top of a hill) my battery suddenly died again!   I was a little nervous but luckily the hill is steep enough that I could coast down.  Work, was at the bottom of the hill and my mechanic is right next door.  In fact, the mechanic is the landlord for the studio in which I worked.  Anyway, not only was I able to coast her down the hill, but around the corner, through the alley, and into my mechanics repair area.  Once in the repair area, my car would move no more.  I felt extremely blessed!

SIDEBAR: As I write this, I'm in my living room listening to a live blues band play, practically outside of my door because my beloved town is having it's monthly festival.  I've been typing this and bopping along without stopping to feel grateful for that.  I mean, it's sweet!  Anyway:

2. The second time that my car died, was two weeks ago.  She had acted really funny during my move and I tried to encourage her to hold on a little longer.  I was hoping she'd last until September when my financial situation moves to comfortable.   But no, that would be to easy and a lesson would go left unlearned.   Well, she ended up in need of repair, as I was driving down my alley and I actually parked her in my back parking spot when (because I knew something wasn't right with her) I thought, "Maybe, I should pull her around front.  I pulled onto the street.  She died completely.  I said, "Please don't die."  She started up again and I was able to pull her into my front parking space which was several meters away.

SIDEBAR: OMG!!!!!  Three of my friends just came by and were my first official guests in my new apartment.  It was a very nice surprise.  I LOVE MY FRIENDS!!!!!!! 

Back to the story.  I am extremely fortunate that I live two blocks from my mechanic.  Because my car had died in front, I was able to get two very nice friends to help push my car to my mechanic, where she could be fixed.  My car has a soul and she loves my mechanic, I do believe! 

3.  Well, I had just got my car back this Wednesday and by Thursday afternoon, she was ready to go back to the shop.    I was driving back to work after lunch (in a torrential rain storm, mind you) and her clutch froze up.  I was a bit frightened because the weather was so bad and I was miles away from my mechanic.  There would be no pushing her there this time.  Anyway, she managed to get back to the parking garage at my place of employ and she died in a coveted covered spot during the rain storm.  I called my mechanic and he came and got both myself and my car and she is at the shop right now.

I guess the point that I’m trying to make is that there are those who would choose to consider themselves unlucky if their car had broken down three times, yet I choose to consider myself very blessed because each time that my car has broken down it’s been under the most optimal of conditions!  I beleive the key to a happy life is placing your focus on the positive side of every situation! 

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HI janie,
First I want to say I am very sorry that your father is dying of cancer.  That is a very difficult thing to watch someone fight with.  I can only imagine how it must feel for it to be your father. 

You however, are much stronger then you are letting yourself believe right now.  Dealing with the death of a loved one takes a great deal of strength.  I dealt with the same anxiety for years.  When I did get out, the world would literally spin for me.  I wanted to jump out of cars because I was so uncomfortable.  Friends would pull over to let me get out, when I did I would freak out more and get back in.  Anxiety sucks the life from you.  For the anxiety I seriously suggest trying EFT.  Also a book that helped me a great deal, Awaken the giant with in, by Anthony Robins. 

To answer your question though.  I would have to ask, How do you feel about not attending your fathers funeral?  How will you feel 10 years from now?  If you feel as though you are ok with it, then honour you fathers life in which ever manor you are happy with.  What your family and others think doesnt matter.  How you feel about your decisions and actions is the only thing that matters.  I think your idea is a wonderful idea.  I think it would be a good idea to go to the funeral myself.  Mostly because of the anxiety.  I think it is a good reason to push yourself to face it.  Like i said though, the only thing that really matters is what you feel.  People morn in different ways.  There is no right way or wrong way.  So deal with it in your way, not others. 

I hope this helped some.  I hope to see you around the forums.  Never know, the anxiety might become a thing of the past. 

With much love and respect 

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Janie,  I am so sorry to hear about your father and his illness.   When my parents passed I know many people thought I should get up and speak, but I felt my feelings were too personal to discuss in a group.   I can understand that this is so personal to you that a beach alone is where you want to be to remember your father.   You have to decide.   If you are not up for a gathering, then you should not be forced to do such an activity for other people's sake.   I think your plan is a good plan if it helps you feel more comfort.   If you act with respect to yourself, I doubt you can be disrespecting your family.  If they do not like your choice - well it is their issue. 

BYW, after my mother passed I did see a lady who looked just like my mother when I made a rest stop during my drive while returing home for work.   It was awesome and yet earie. 

Hugs and love, VC

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Well I have done some thinking on this post.  Up I want to apologize to you, if I have made you feel bad at any point in time.  I will be very honest.  I read your posts and I see a lot of me in the past.  A lot of who I never want to be again.  I dont say this to put you down or make you feel bad.  I say this to let you know if you want things to change they can.  I come from a very dark past.  You can pretty much say I have walked with the devil.  I know nightmares, violence and violent thoughts and the frustration of wanting to get rid of them.

Apparently I am still wrestling with who I used to be deep down and your posts bring that up.  Actually more frustration because I see you doing the same thing I used to do.  It makes me think of the old saying, you can lead a horse to water, but you cant make it drink.   Real has some good suggestions and brings up some things that I think could help you.  Why I think reals suggestion can help is because that same process helped me.  When we focus on others problems and try to find a way to help others, our problems dont only not seem as bad, but the chemistry in our brain is slightly altered.  It activates problem solving out of love and not fear.  If you have ever been a fighter, you know the difference between fighting with a clear head and fighting with a head full of fear and anger.  The more you activate these thoughts, the more they become natural.  Soon you have the answers to your problems.  They will be handed to you like they were always there. 

If your heart is truly in the right place, I will try my best to help you.  However, if you regress and begin with the violence and confrontational attitude, I will withdraw my help immediately.  I encourage those that shared my annoyance with Up to do the same.  By focusing on the negative we only attract more of it, which in turn creates blocks in our energy. 

Up I will give you one piece of advice on getting your ex back.  Work on you.  Forget her and work on you.  That doesnt mean you need to stop loving her, or totally cut her off.  But make the focus you. 

It doesnt have to be a long debate on what you should and shouldnt do.  Its simple.  If you can live with what you do, and ultimately it brings you happiness, then do it.  If that woman is your true love, your heart will show you the way to walk.  Learn to accept yourself for who you are.  You obviously havent done that yet.  And it is understandable.  I disliked myself very much when my brain was in that mode.  If you are like me in this situation, you want it to stop so you dont mess anything up. 

Maybe this woman is your launching point.  Maybe, like me, at one point you asked to become a better man because of this woman.  Well the universe is answering you.  Sometimes when it comes to ourselves we just dont want to hear it.  It can mean our belief system needs to be changed and this can be a nerve racking thought. 

Swallow your pride and actually try to do the things these people suggest instead of debating and arguing.  You obviously know your thought process isnt working.  I can see it in all the questions you ask.  You have been given awesome advice.  I suggest going back over your posts and reading them. 

I wish the best for you on your journey.  From my experience I can tell you it can either be a long one or a short one.  Either way it will not be easy until you open the gate.  Once you open the gate and let things flow,  there will be more answers hitting you then you know what to do with.  It will just be up to you to keep your senses aware to take it all in.

To your continued growth   

ps.......i will be locking this thread later today or tomorrow.  That way if anyone else has anything to be said on the subject it can be said and let go.  Sorry for the long post.  Coulda went on more but I cut it short  .  Much love to all.

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I am going to respectfully request that you keep your death threats, and negative comments about forum members to yourself.  You are your problem.  I am guessing that you have not realized yet that nobody here is the problem, the woman you are trying to attract is not the problem, but you are the problem.  You say you try to feel better then someone says something to hurt you.  You decide to be hurt by what others say.  You decide to twist things around to fit your logic and try to use it as a reason to feel bad or get attention.  To wish death on someone for giving you advice that you have the choice to fallow or not, says you have issues.  If you continue to posts garbage like that I will report you and ask that you are removed.  This is a place for support, not a place to make others feel like crap for helping you. 
As everything else that has to do with you, I will not be posting up in response to anything you say.  Please keep your negativity to yourself, if you dont want to believe in yourself and the power you have, then please go dirty up some other forum with your garbage.

Thank you

I hope you find peace and love within yourself one day

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Sweet Spirit you are giving an amazing advice. This is what I would also call realistic analyze, in counter part. I understand everything there, but I just could not explain as well as you did.

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But what if a mistake (especially one I did without really wanting it, e.g. a misconception about how I should behave with her) will actually contribute to destroying the relationship?
 
Or contribute to her not liking me?

Then you read "the bible of getting your ex back dns post" or read Katie's success story or read the other threads where people have gotten their exes back. Mistakes happen sometimes, but they're possible to overcome and usually result in an even better and stronger relationship.

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Hi UpLOADing,
  You are thinking about it all toooooo much again.
 You will never know what she is thinking - even when you are back in a relationship with her.
  It's simple, just chill out and call her ABOUT THE PROJECT or don't and get on with your life with these other girls.
  You and her aren't 'together' so you can do whatever you want.
 She will probably like you more if she can 'sense' you getting on with your life.
  Go and have fun and let the Universe do it's thing and don't feel bad about having fun and forgetting about her for a bit!
 She's not gonna disappear off the Planet and the Universe KNOWS you love her- you are just getting in the way by over analyzing every little thing she does/ doesn't say or do.
  Again - You will NEVER truly know what she is thinking, so chill about it.
   Good luck!!!
 Pinky   

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After reading this thread once again, I have come to the conclusion that V1ctorious was just asking a question, and was not condoning the use of drugs. I expressed my thoughts on the subject and that's it. No need for there to be a cyber police force on this forum just for a simple question as Sweet Spirit and 2thetop said. And V1ctorious didn't even talk about alcohol at all.

I am not casting stones at people who smoke or drink or whatever, it's just that I believe that a true state of release/detachment/Nirvana or whatever you choose to call it, comes from within you, and if you smoke pot to get into that state, it's fake.

Like all teenagers of my generation (the same generation as Sweet) I tried pot when I was young, so many years ago lol  I didn't like it, and have never tried again since. I occasionally drink a glass of champagne, because I live in France where wine & champagne are cultural trademarks. But never to help me practice LOA or to reach a state of enlightenment. Here, champagne is so abundant and so inexpensive that people drink it like they drink water  the same with wine 

Now I'm done with this thread 

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@v1ctorious.

ABRAHAM HICKS Marijuana

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I would honestly say the same as katie and sweet.  I understand where the thought comes from.  You have native american tribes that have used natural substances to alter their state of mind.  The thing to understand is, their state of mind, their vibration was already set before ingesting the "drug".  They also have the support of many people around them whos vibs are naturally high.  I personally wouldnt suggest using weed to raise your vibration.  While it may help relax you, and it may alter your state of mind, it will not help with getting you into the right state of mind for clearing your head.

Think of it like this.  Your mind is a sports car.  Sprinkle the air filter with some dust and grim.  You may still go fast and the car may still handle, but you arent going as fast as the car can.  And it isnt running as smooth as it could.  Replace the air filter with a clean air filter and youre good to go.  You have full o2 intake and everything fires correctly. 

I spent many years smoking more weed in one day then most smoke in a week.  Not proud of it.  It is what it is.  You do alter your state of mind.  In some cases you open yourself to your inner demons.  The only problem is, youre looking at them through a glass wall instead of facing them head on.  I personally still smoke from time to time.  Although during times like right now where I am in deep soul searching mode i tend to back off and make sure if i do smoke, my vibration is already high and its a social thing with friends.  I tell everyone what I will tell you.  Like alcohol, I would advise against weed or any other mind altering substance when soul searching or trying to reach enlightenment of any type.  It was given to us to be used in discretion.  Like everyone says, you dont need anything to reach the level you are looking for, its within all of us.  Its our gift from god.

Edge I think in this day and age this was a good question to ask.  I am sure it is something that more then just V1ctorious has wondered.  This is an open forum and with that, we should feel free to ask and open up here.  This is a forum for searching within.  Sometimes questions like this come up.  I agree that anyone with an addiction should have support.  But even those that just wonder should have our support.  There is nothing in his post that say he is using marijuana or any other substance.  Rather he was looking for our opinions on the subject.  I would guess because like all of us, he wants to know what will help him a long his path.

Much love and respect for having the courage to ask

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Sneha, be thankful for the progress that's already been made. Also go out and enjoy life instead of waiting for him to contact you...remember waiting attracts more waiting.

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ok im gonna break my silence on these threads........didnt bother to read it......just saw the title.......you are very ungrateful.  I can tell just by the title.  I would love to have a convo with my girl.  I would love to have a convo that might sound  "too nice".   BE FRAKIN GREATFUL.  I personally think the only problem with your whole scenario is you.  You look for a problem in everything it seems like.  You can call it analyzing or whatever you want to call it.  You can analyze with a negative out look or a positive out look.  Its good to question things and explore.  But I would have to say from the word go there has been no problems except you want to over analyze in the negative and then spit on what positive resaults you do get............k im done back to silence and not even gonna read this thread again.

be grateful for EVERYTHING you have.  till then your gonna get no where.

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