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thank you vicky chritina =)

i needed that little push. yes, we are not in contact right now but i know he is coming around. i think he wanted to see  how i take the friendship topic. i have a feeling he is going to agree with me and we are going to have a relationship. but yeah, i dont mind having no contact for now. i had for 3 yrs; a few weeks are only going to make me stronger and attractive 

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Thank you Vicki. I do continue to do all of that but as far as not texting him.. It's not a choice that I made (I mean I was always so obsessed with texting and talking to him) , its just what's happening. The wanting to text him is just not there because something almost tells me not to & just to have patience and wait for him to come to me first.

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Why is your friend also going to kill himself , that puzzled me a little.

Ok lets get to the point, your not actually going to kill yourself.. im pretty sure you know that already. Sooo the point is since your going to be very much alive, what are your plans.

The way i see it you got a solid 6-8 months to fix the situation. I mean no dude is going to date a pregnant girl... plus cleaning diaper is not very attractive. So that being said she is on hold for a little so to speak...... which means you shouldn't kill yourself yay!!!

So whats the issue, i mean she must love you to have a baby... but something is not what she is looking for?? What is that? You know what it is ... so get to work and get that done

Then you can be the kids proper dad when he comes around

 

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First, if you are really seriously contemplating suicide, please get some professional help.  No one here on this forum is qualified to help someone who is feeling this way.

Secondly, is the child yours?  If yes, you have to think about that child before you or her.  You have a responsibility.

You can live without her and you can attract her back if you want to.  But you can't do either of those things if you kill yourself.

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Slap yourself.

Don't even consider suicide or any stupid shit like that.
Your situation isn't the best, sure, but you said she loved you like a month ago.

Feelings don't just evaporate and dissappear.

The fact that you even CONSIDER suicide because of this girl shows that you're extremely needy and desperate, if you're really interested in getting her back you'll have to quit that bs. Now then, start lifting your spirits, stay away from negativity and start to learn to make yourself happy.

Try some RS techniques and be grateful for what you do have, compose a list, look in the mirror and compliment yourself. I repeat, stop being negative, you got this.

Sorry to be so brutal, but you needed it.

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bella, You ask how do you respond to his texts, re-read what I just posted. YOU create your own reality. You can create a new conversation that took place instead of the one that did yesterday. Pay no attention to the past or what happened yesterday. What happened yesterday was a manifestation from weeks ago or days ago, so take today and create things to happen NOW. Ignore what you don't want! Focus on what you do want. You are still walking around in fear and when you focus on that fear, you will attract more fear into your life. Start by forgetting about him even for just 10 minutes while you go and write down all the things you are grateful for. When you write down what you are grateful for, you will start to raise your vibration so that you can start attracting positive into your life.

Only remain in contact with him if it makes you feel good. If conversations are making you feel bad, then don't respond.

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What do i do now? let him go for good?  Im so hurt because he was crying so obviously the emotions are there the love is still there...

No, you don't just give up after one conversation that does go as you planned. It's too soon. It was too soon for that conversation and now look, you feel bad right now instead of good. So....don't talk about the relationship again unless it is going to make you feel good.

Keep doing what you're doing. Still respond to his texts (don't initiate them unless you feel action inspired). Give him time to work through his own fears of loving again and continue to believe that he is yours already. You don't need to discuss your relationship because he is yours already!! Believe it, despite whatever was said earlier today. Today's conversation is in the past!

Check this out! It's an Abraham quote from "Ask and it is Given"

You Have the Ability to Direct Your Own Thoughts

You have the ability to direct your own thoughts; you have the option of observing things as they are, or
of imagining them as you want them to be—and whichever option you choose, whether you are imagining
or observing, is equally powerful. You have the option of remembering something as it actually occurred
or imagining it as you would prefer. You have the option of remembering something that pleased you or
remembering something that did not please you. You have the option of anticipating something you want
or anticipating something you do not want. In every case, your thoughts produce a vibration within you
that equals your point of attraction, and then circumstances and events line up to match the vibrations
that you have offered.

You have the ability to place your attention wherever you decide, so it is possible to distract yourself
from something unwanted and put your attention upon something wanted. But when a vibration within
you is one you have practiced a great deal, the tendency is to continue to offer the vibration in the way
you have been practicing it—no matter how much you wish it to be different.

It is not a difficult thing to change the pattern of your vibration, especially when you understand that you
can do it a little bit at a time. Once you have an understanding of how vibrations work, how they affect
your experience, and, most important, what your emotions are telling you about your vibrations, now you
can make steady, fast progress toward the achievement of anything that you desire.

When you go to bed tonight, Bella, replay the conversation in your mind only have him say what you wanted to hear him say. Perceive the conversation as YOU want it to have gone and believe that is what happened! Ignore the conversation you had with him earlier. I love ILR's line "You have to be a good ignorer" and I think this is pertinent for you right now. Ignore what you don't want and focus on what you want!

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Hi VC,

              So good to hear your story - a hearty congratulations, lovely!

I'm so pleased that you've attained your desire and also, that your story outlines the importance of getting straight in yourself, by yourself, first. I think that's a really vital lesson for people who come here, wanting what you wanted (and have now got!)

Cheers and love

Tins

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He texted me,just simple conversation but I'm grateful that he initiated it. Its progress,right ?

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Don't ever think he will forget about you.  You've made an impact on him: he's told you he loves you, that doesn't die overnight.  While you are giving him space/time, use this time to send him love.  Many on the forum have had huge success with RS.  Use it to send love, if not seduction.  Many have said that the recipients of their RS have later reported that they could not get the other person off their minds.  And they also felt that they had been receiving love (of course not knowing how ).

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Stop worrying! Everything will be fine

Have you ever read Ask and it is Given or The Vortex?

Everything will work out fine, you just need to get out of your own way

And don't worry, he isn't going to suddenly start hating you because you've shown you care about him. But equally, give him the space he needs.

If you hav faith in LOA, then just follow that train of thoughts that leads you to good-feeling emotions, and let the universe take care of the rest.

Do you meditate? It really helps with this kind of anxiety. Just get into a comfortable position and close your eyes, and then watch your thoughts, as if they were someone else's. Don't get involved in them, just watch them. And as you watch them, you'll find that they start to get quieter, and you feel less anxious. And as the anxiety starts to clear away, you will be able to feel a sense of well being. If you start to watch that, it will grow stronger. It could develop into anything as gentle as calmness and peace, to something as strong as joy and ecstasy. This s your connection to your source, and the more frequently you make the connection, the more quickly the thing you desire will come to you.

but most importantly, stop worrying! It's never too late, and you haven't ruined anything. You've asked, it's been given, now all you have to do is receive

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I think you can turn things around pretty quickly, considering the issue is your way of approaching the situation. Right now you are sitting there waiting for him to fix himself, to get it all together and then want to be with you. You are also not very patient with the process, so really it’s coming across as “Hey are you ok to date me now?”  Not trying to judge you here or make you feel like crap, just saying how it’s coming across.

I would say:

“Hey, I know you have some issues YOU need to sort out yourself, these are not my issues and nothing I can or should worry about.”

“Since you are not available to be what I am currently looking for, I will give you what you asked for but it won’t mean I am going to sit here and wait for you”

“His priority right now is himself, and I should also put myself first in this situation… and want what is the best for me just like he is doing”

“I cannot make the situation better for him, or make the choice to be with me, that is up to him and only him”

“I will put myself first, open myself up to other possibilities and if/when he is ready it’s up to him to make the effort and the first move”

I would go along those lines, of course this is all for you to think about … and say when you are feeling down or anxious about the situation.

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You are right Purple Butterfly.  This is an amazing success story!!! 

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Im so happy for you!! Thank you for sharing your story! Most of the success stories are about ppl who were in NC for only a few weeks. This is what I needed to read 

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Vicki - so pleased to hear your success story and how it's going. I said to someone the other day - I wonder how some of the older forum members who attracted their love back have got on since! I remember your story but hadn't realised you had got back together. Congratulations again. Xxx

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