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Hi kitten7, whenever I miss my ex, I know I am in a place of lack. So what I would do to get myself out of there is to think of the things I have in life that I'm grateful for, and I would feel better instantly. Today when walking home, I got caught in the rain, but I was so grateful to have an umbrella with me so I don't get wet. Maybe, if you think about it like this, you're so grateful that although you still have moments when you feel sad, when you miss him...but you know everything is gonna be fine and you're gonna attract him back anyway 
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Not long ago girl i was seeing suddenly disappeared from my life with no explanation or any kind of closer....just vanished. I was badly hurt...considering that we getting on so well, her comments how wonderful and amazing man i am and rest of the stuff....she just gone. I felt like been heavily slapted in the face coz at least i deserve proper closure...but she didnt bother even do that, i find it extremely disrespectful. Left me hanging in unknown. For days i felt terrible and kept doing RS on her...which felt good and very vivid. But suddenly things took totally unexpected turn. One day on my way back from the gym i completely randomly bumped in to girl which i havent seen for 5 years. She is extremely attractive girl and very well known in fitness industry, she seemed to be very excited seeing me and gave me strong hug, we had a quick chat and just before i left i said that i was glad to meet her again hopefully will see her sometime again, she straight away asked my phone number and said we should arrange to meet soon, we exchange numbers but i didnt respond to her invitation to meet up knowing from before that she was in a long term relationship. Only next day i found out from someone else that she broke up with the guy 6 months ago and been single since. I texted her same day and invited her for lunch, she happily accepted it. We spend really nice evening....during our meeting i suddenly realised that all that pain about other girl started fade away. I got back home very surprised that i dont really bother anymore what happened with other girl. Now we meeting up few times a week, doing things we both like and having really great time together and keep planning what we should do next:). Even if nothing intimate happened between us yet...we became very close friends, but i do feel with every meeting shes getting closer to me, getting flirty and giving me intimate looks. I decided not to rush things and leave it to happen naturally....i started to feel attracted to her too. I got to the point now where i stopped doing RS coz i feel like i dont really want that other girl to be back into my life anymore and im still surprised how all this unusual turn affected me. I guess most of you guys were right......that universe knows better whats better for us and we just need to trust it.
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yeah, take him off that pedestal! no one but you can be on that pedestal...
1: Do you really want him back? 2: for what reasons? 3: What if you can have someone even better than him, in a better relationship, who treats you better...
You can manifest him or someone even better, if your heart desires. Just read up on LOA and posts on this forum. By the way, you need to work on yourself, to feel your worth and to feel good by yourself. No one can make you happy but yourself. You worth is decided only by you... Life is as good as you make it to be..
Just remember LOA promises anything you want... so take time to heal, love yourself, understand what you truly want and go about getting whatever you want... And remember, you deserve the best!
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Awesome work!! I also lift heavy and do HIIT! Love it!
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Very nice Kitten..way to go girl.
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Yay!!! Well done kitten!! That is so awesome. I've just started lifting weights too. Want to get into great shape this year. Thanks for the inspiration. 
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Good for you! Wonderful 
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That's awesome girl. Very inspiring. Keep up the good work!
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Hi everyone! it's been a while and I have been AWOL from the forum for a long time! But I took some time away from everything and it's done me the world of good! For those of you who don't know my story, I'll recap briefly: I am in love with a guy I work with. I met him in October last year and we started hanging out and seeing each other. We clicked right away amd things were amazing for a few weeks. Long story short, I got needy amd clingy, things cooled off and we stopped seeing each other and things were really tough for a few months. I was heartbroken, confused and couldn't believe it! I discoved LOA and began applying the techniques and used RS to attract this man back to me. We didn't speak outside of work for what felt like a long time. I was seeing signs of his name everywhere and vans the same make and colour of his. I started getting more contact out of him. He would text me and we would text back and forth all night. He would chat and flirt with me at work and even gave me a toy monkey when I said i hadn't been to the zoo for ages. We slept together one night when he was drunk. After this I made a decision. I was using LOA and RS but I wasn't detached enough. I was getting contact and making progress, but I was impatient and desperate for it to become more - QUICKLY. I decided I'd had enough of the rituals. I gave up on RS. I threw out my journal. I stopped making an effort to contact him or even talk to him at work. I was still friendly when I saw him but I kept conversations short and tried to ignore him as best I could without being rude or childish! Don't get me wrong - I believe in LOA and believe we are perfect for each other and belong together. But I was getting too bogged down with the TRYING and the WAITING. so I stepped back and now I am more detached than ever and feeling good The last couple days I have decided to try RS again - without the expectations. I am seeing small changes! My guy is friendlier, chats to me more at work and flirts a lot. Things feel light and easy when I see him. I don't feel nervous or on edge any more  also at work if he sees me going out the back for a cigarette, you can bet your money that he will appear for a cigarette and a chat. He's not even a proper smoker like me lol this happened today  also lately when we chat at work he looks at me really intensely and I can FEEL that sexual energy and banter between us which feels new and fun again  Anyway, this isn't as small an update as I intended! But I just wanted to share that I am doing so well without him and letting go has brought me a lot of peace. Ye, so maybe he isn't back just yet, but I'm happy regardless of that and I know I don't need to worry as he is already mine - its just a matter of time Love to you all xxx
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Hello all !
I am new to this board, and after reading most of your wonderful stories, I have decided to share some of my successes.
I discovered LOA two years ago. At that time, I was in a long term relationship (4 years) with a partner that was "okay" but not "amazing", I struggled to find work, I struggled to get money... You get the picture !
I started appyling LOA in November 2011, and my life changed for good ! I won't bore you with the details, but since then :
- my boyfriend left me (that was a good thing !) in December 2011 - I moved to another country, and got my dream flat in February 2012 - I met the man of my life in September 2012 (I messed up on that one, more info on my journey to get him back in the relationship board) - I lost 18 kilos between November 2011 and now - I got a wonderful job in my favourite store in December 2012 (and am on my way to get promoted) - I gave up smoking in one day (after 15 years of smoking 1 pack a day) in May 2012
I am only quoting the major ones, but there are plenty of "small" ones aswell !
Sending you all good vibrations ! <3
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Hello Fellow LOA-ers! I wanted to share my success story about three job offers I got for this summer! I'm in college, so they aren't like the start of my careers or anything (well, maybe they can be) but two of them are paid internships, and the other is a promotion at my college work study. The first internship didn't think they had anything to offer me. I had their logo on my vision board, so as soon as they said they didn't have something for me, I ripped their logo off of my vision board and threw it out. A few weeks later, the guy called up again saying they would give me a position in my field! So I took it!!
Then, I got an email from someone in the athletic office at school, and she said that I was reliable so that I should work in the office this summer instead of sitting in the gym for long hours.
Next day, the 2nd internship place called me back and told me to come in at the beginning of June!! This is crazy! And I kept expecting their call, always holding my phone and checking my phone. THEN, today I left my cell phone in the car, and came back and got a voicemail! It's all about LETTING GO!! It's the key!!! I just wanted to share everyone, and stay positive, cause those negative people who think they will never get jobs won't get jobs!!
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My ex boyfriend and I broke up last year, but we still talked everyday because we were having trouble letting go of each other even though we knew it was over. We finally cut of all contact a few months ago. At first I was having a hard time dealing with it. This is someone I've talked to everyday for three years, it was an adjustment living without him in my life. Finally I started going out with my friends more and I even started dating someone else, but I still missed him and thought about him every once in a while. Last night my friend was over and she went to his Facebook page and we saw that he had been dating another girl. Instead of feeling upset or jealous like I normally would have, I was happy for him. He looked happy and that's all I've ever wanted for him, whether he finds his happiness with me or someone else. Today while I was getting dressed I received a text from him (I deleted his number but of course I have it memorized) and he said that I'd been on his mind a lot lately and that he misses me. I didn't text back because I've finally moved on and I don't want to go backwards. I've finally accepted that we're not meant to be, now it's his turn to do the same.
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omg omg omg! this is freaking crazy!!! today was such a different day. so i came to work just to find out i am 30 mins late. for some reasons i thought i started late  so i ran to the nearest elevator i see. i squeezed in that elevator with million others breathing on eachother. i look at right and there i see my guy. i didnt smile or anything. instead the first thought that crossed my mind was- "damn it, what is he doing here" so instead of going up my floor i just pushed the next floor button since i didnt want to be in the same elevator as him. so again squeezing other people i got out and before the door closed i heard it reopened. i looked back and there he was standing. he got out to that floor too just to follow me. i turned around and kept walking since i was already late (didnt afford to lose more time). he is point called me out loud across the hallway and said "xxxx would you go on a date with me?" OMG! my knees started shaking so bad; i had to lean against the wall!!! at this point EVERYONE is looking at us. i turned red and didnt know what to say. one patient came right to me and said 'he is a keeper'!!! i was like- wow universe, you know how to give a sign! i said yes to that and ran back to my unit. we could have hugged and kissed but that wouldnt have been very professional. then he started texting me and looks like we are going on a real date this weekend. we never went on a date before since it never got to that point. but OMG! a date with the man of my dreams!!!! so yeah, i am still a bit shaky and dont know what else to tell you guys. hopefully, i will be able to sleep tonight  this is crazy. it happened when i least expected and when i completely let go! love magic lamp
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Umm kind of hard because you focusing on giving him a better life actually stems from you thinking he doesnt.
So instead of that approach try to focus on what IS positive in his life right now, not what you want to change.
I had a friend who was the same. I told him last year to change jobs, go to school and to better his life. None of it was happening.
Not until i looked at him in a positive new way, in a way that actually focused on the good in his life did he slowly start to make changes himself. I was a positive in his life, rather than trying to make him change.
So he actually did get a new job, and is close to going to school. Actually he did everything i told him he should all that time ago, but on his own terms.
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As some of you guys know, I have been looking for a new job for a long time. I had my toughest interview I've ever had yesterday and I was sure that I wasn't getting it based on how hard the boss was on me but surpisingly I was offered the job and I officially started today (although I worked off the clock yesterday). I am grateful because this money is something that I need as Im trying to move in a couple of months. However, this new position is completely overwhelming. I saw the ad for this out the blue since it isn't in a field that I normally search in. Im working so many hours and I thought I was applying for a part time job but she offered full time plus there's overtime nearly everyday. I know the job really isn't me and I wont have any time to do my school work (as I am trying to get a degree that I shouldve gotten in my early twenties), or really to do anything at all. I wouldnt mind so much if it was in a field that I wanted to work in but this isn't. If you guys were in my situation, would you quit now or stick it out until you find something better? I dont even have time to look for something better. Should I try to stick it out until the first paycheck? This is the most grueling and exhausting work Ive ever done mind you and it's not what I imagined.
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