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Hello Danny,
      I'm sorry that you are going through what you are going through.  I've been through turmoils of the heart also and I and my advice is for you to busy yourself and occupy your mind with what makes you happy right now.  Focusing on a bad situation will in turn make you feel awful.  Your emotions are responsive to the thoughts that you hold in your mind.  It sounds that your situation is not a desirable one at this time.  Try to focus on other things, keep yourself and your mind busy until things ease up.  Often times uplifting friends and family members can help.  Other times it may be doing your favorite hobby or going some place beautiful.
      Once you feel better, it too, will pass like most any other difficult problem.  More importantly, you can look back and not regret anything, but see it as a learning experience that helped you make you a stronger person and more prepared for the future.  I hope things brighten up for you soon.  Take care!

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Wow!! How cool. Can't wait to hear how it goes.

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Awesome advice Kaori, as counter-intuitive as it may seem, being sort of selfish and focusing on your happiness makes a huge difference. (oh and welcome to the forum by the way! 

@Danny, hope you two have fun tonight!

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Awesome, very happy for you! Have fun at your hang out and keep us all posted! =)

I'll be chanting for you two!

Jess

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Hey DannyDank,

In my opinion, it's a good thing to have a helping heart, where you come from a place of goodwill. However, my question to you is: What makes you feel like you're "giving in" by helping her? Does it make you feel like you're taken for granted?

It seems like her actions are affecting you and stirring up negative emotions in you...Rather than putting the spotlight on her, focus on yourself first. Right now, you are focusing your energy on her and her actions, thus giving her more power to affect you. The important thing is to reclaim that power by doing things that make YOU happy, not HER. I understand how it is very hard to say no to someone you care about (trust me I've been there, and it was worse), but sometimes it is the right thing to do. By outlining where your own boundaries lie, you will show them that, "Hey, I control my life and my world does not revolve around you." And when you show that you have that self-respect, THEY will respect YOU and may start thinking to themselves, "Something's different about this person..."

I'm not saying that you should not help her, but really ask yourself, how does it make YOU feel to help her? If you feel good that you've helped someone, feeling like you are a generous person with a big heart, then do it. This is a positive vibration that comes within you.

BUT if it makes you brings you down to help her, then simply just say no. If it doesn't make you feel good, why do it right? And when you focus on yourself and bring yourself to that place of joy that shines within, THEN start saying yes to things again. Slowly, one step at a time.

When I was in a similar situation, I focused on myself by chanting (it's how I practice Buddhism) the phrase "Nam-myoho-renge-kyo". As I chant I would tell myself that I am happy, and run through a list of things I like about myself. For you, DannyDank, perhaps appreciate yourself, give yourself a pat on the back for being someone with a big heart =)

Hope that helps.

J

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Hello,

I wanted to share my story...or at least one. We have always attracted into our lives, but in 2007 is when I became conscious of LOA and have been using it since. Sometimes I use it and it works out...other times it feels really hard. And then there are still those times I attract something I don't like and then want to kick myself in the pants because I know how LOA works and none of it was there on accident.

Here is my fun story:

I was working in an office environment. Same company for 5 years. In a cubicle. A lot of people would have seen this as a lot of security. Good pay, benefits...etc. But it was hard work. And it stressed me out completely. I was getting migraines every day. My body hurt constantly. I was depressed. I felt depressed in my cubicle. I just wanted to escape. At home, nearly every day I would tell my dog, "I wish I could just be here with you, in yoga pants and work".

Well, after saying that for about 6 months (wanting to leave for over a year), I resigned. It looked like, from an outside perspective that it was on a whim. It wasn't. My life has been a roller coaster since then. Part exciting...mostly scary. And then I was offered a PT position to work from home. Then it turned into full time. Just 2 weeks ago I realized I was at home, in yoga pants, with my dog...working.

Now. I am still trying to get to the point where the $ matches all of this, etc. but this was so affirming to me that LOA DOES work!!! And I didn't put it on paper. I just talked about it constantly. To my dog. Let's face it. When we are talking to our pets, there is no mask. Emotions are safe. So I was speaking, in truest desire to her. I made a space and it arrived.

Another fun story:
A friend who uses LOA too, a few years ago, every single day started writing about her future partner. She declared a wedding date, how long courtship would be...all the details of what she wanted. She did this every day for months. She started dating people and the regularity lessened but she still did it. Then she met a guy she got really involved with and it dropped off dramatically. Within 6 mo they were engaged. A year later they were married. Upon clearing her apt out to move into their new house a few weeks before they were married, she found the notebook. She almost passed out. Her upcoming wedding date was the exact same month she had written but forgot about. In fact, they were thinking Spring of that year but his father's death sped things up and affected their choice. Every single thing she wrote down...happened. They are now expecting their first child. She still practices LOA, too.

Just wanted to share...

Blessings!

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DannyDank, You are in romance with your love, communicating right now all day, positive loving vibes sent out to you and he all day! You are leaping with joy when you are seeing his reply to your text, yes the love you have. Now and forever.

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I'm not sure about your original quote in relation to loa. Your quote seems to suggest desire is a bad thing and longing as a good thing? If I've read it correctly. I've always thougt of desire as being a good thing and longing as being more negative - for me longing suggests unfulfilled desire - the connotations of the word longing seem less positive. E.g I desire a great job - suggests this is something I would love to have. Whereas I long for a great job, seems to suggest it's what I want but out of reach.

But that's just my view and language choice has different connotations for different people and changes culturally and within sub groups so bad / wicked / sick / have a different meaning for some than they do for others.

I think the feeling behind what's said is more important than individual word choice.

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THIS IS A POST FOR ALL OF YOU!!

i am so grateful to found this great place here
i am so grateful for all the helpfully members here
i am so grateful to be a part of this community

THANK YOU ALL FROM MY HEART

 

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I found a interesting video from Abraham Ester on this subject few days ago, I will post when I run into it again. She describes the reality of dreams and our current reality to be very similar, the difference being that we are able to manifest our desires in dreams much easier because there is no resistance and we feel like anything is possible. She also mentioned that what you see in your dreams is sort of reflection of what your vibrations are, or what you are attracting. So in your case since there is money in your dream, and that is something you want, I would take as you’re in alignment for it to manifest. Also there is a relationship that you want to manifest, and your dreams also had similar signs.
In my case I had a very vivid dream of my ex last week, which lead me to look up the Ester video in the first place, later that day she called me and was very friendly so I think it’s a positive sign you are on the right path.

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Sending out your wishes today DannyDank for a loving, passionate, romantic relationship with the girl you desire.

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Hi @DannyDank! Today my good vibes go towards you, so don't worry and relax. Your wish, with the help of this wonderful people around you, will become a reality before you can realize! Lots of love ^^

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DannyDank is already enjoy a loving, romantic, harmonious relationship with the girl of his dreams at the true level of his being and enjoying a loving, romantic and harmonious relationship NOW manifests in his physical world. 

Lots of love to you!!!

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It's DannyDank's day today!

DannyDank is a loving, romantic, passionate relationship that is in harmony with the Universe with the girl of his dreams!
He is happiness!
He is love!
He is his desire!

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yes danny,

i was wondering the same.... hmmm

thanks for your answer anyway 

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