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I have never used that mantra. When I successfully attracted my guy back I used Om mani padme om all the time. I don't know if it helped to attract him back specifically, but it really calmed my mind and helped me find peace 

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I love it!  I really am a tree!  A beautiful, lovely, strong........TREE!! 

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This isn't LoA stuff exactly, though it talks about energies and stuff…but I've been reading this book, "Getting to I do". It's got some pretty controversial reviews and it sort of leaves you feeling a bit disenchanted about the whole marriage thing since it presents the process of getting there and maintaining it as a lot of negotiating, which is so not romantic. But it also has some awesome reviews and tons of women who say they've gotten married after following the stuff laid out in it.

Anyway, I think you should read it. The way they lay out the whole female/male energy dynamic is fascinating and I think it explains why this guy has been acting so strangely towards you. Yeah, perhaps the timing isn't right for you two to be in a relationship, but it seems to me that you jumped the gun by telling him that you are ready for a commitment. I'm going to guess you were the female energy (he pursued you instead of you pursuing him) in the relationship and by telling him that you wanted a commitment instead of allowing him to come to you and ask you for a commitment, you basically switched roles and acted with male energy. The problem with doing that is that approaching male energy with male energy is going to end up with the two of you struggling for power or one agreeing, but doing so in a passive aggressive way (which can be very unpleasant). Well at least according to the book.

I feel like this book is sort of the link between practical advice and LoA advice (even though it doesn't talk about the LoA), because there's a huge emphasis on being centered on yourself. I can't quite explain this well, but it makes me think of a deeply rooted tree. People can climb it, hang things from it, possibly break off a branch, but that tree will stay right where it's at. When it comes to relationships and the LoA, you need to be like that. Grounded. You don't bend and uproot for whatever little nonsense that comes along. You've got tree things to do.
Same thing with relationships. You don't get flustered because he does this thing or he does that thing. You're the tree! He comes to you if he wants shade!

Hah. What a horrible analogy. Sorry. But I hope you get the idea.

I am not desperate as many of you think I am

I don't think you're desperate. You're just reacting that way because things have become unbalanced in the relationship. He moved further away, so in order to fill the space between the two of you, you went after him. Now that you've stopped chasing him, you'll see how this works in reverse. 

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Im sorry but im just not getting if he does have another girlfriend why she should act like she doesnt exist. Im not saying he does have someone but if thats a possibility she should be at least aware of everything thats going on. If he was married and with children and wanted him to divorce his wife and be with her should she also act like they dont exist? When I wanted my ex back, I use to act like other women he might be dating doesnt exist as to not make me crazy with worry but not facing that reality didnt do me any good when I ran into him and his pregnant girlfriend (now wife) in public and had to obviously face that reality. Im not trying to be insensitive but how does this man have strong feelings for Lika if he basically keeps telling her to go away? Maybe apart of him likes her but strong feelings? Law of attraction is not gonna get him back if he doesnt want to come back cause he has his own will and maybe is attracting something else himself and if it does it will be all wrong because like attracts like and if you have a strong self esteem and love yourself, you are not gonna even want a man that doesn't really want you. So even if he does come to you, it wont be what you imagined. I think you should let this man be. Law of attraction is alot more fun and alot less frustrating if you use it on yourself and your own life instead of trying to control what someone else will do or make them love you. You can call it something else if you want but thats what it is. Thats the absolute worst advice I keep reading all the time on this forum and why I havent posted as much lately even though I had been everyday cause reading it brings a negative energy. I try to bypass all those posts but lately everytime I log in, they are at the recent posts I missed.

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Girlfriend!  Get that thought out of your head! 

He doesn't have a girlfriend. 

Really he doesn't but if he did, it wouldn't matter because he clearly has feelings for you and so SHE DOESN'T EXIST.

But no worries, he doesn't have a girlfriend. 

You might want to consider deactivating your FB account for a little bit, you checking his status is going to drive you batty if you let it.  If you don't know anything, you can't get upset about it and you can remain focusing on yourself and not on him.   

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He's a bit immature but believe it or not that little comment he made spoke volumes.......

Hold your ground and be strong, he obviously has very strong feelings for you and I bet if you just carry on as if he doesn't matter a lick he will come crawling back to you in no time.   

Remember, focus on YOU not on him!  You need to be the BEST you, you can be for yourself and everyone else. 

Smile, be happy and believe it will all work out! 

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Fantastic information! You are absolutely correct that our power is in the present. Our point of attraction is in the thoughts we are thinking in this very moment and it can completely change what we experience in the future. The past does not matter and our future is created in our present moment through the thoughts we are thinking now. If you want to get  your ex back or attract the relationship you desire in the future than be aware of the thoughts and feelings you have now. Get into the feeling of happiness and gratitude now and detach from trying to force things happening and relax trusting the universe.

To Your Happiness,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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The source of everything we desire is the self ( the spirit or higher self) that is the source of EVERYTHING. to access this state, we must detach. and we do this by living in the moment, that is KEY.

when you are present, or mindfull. you steadily become detached. when you become detached you feel connected and natually happy. when this happens you become a magnet for your deepest desires.

http://www.thesecretofdeliberatecreation.com/masterkey.pdf

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I have realized from personal experience that when the Universe and/or God separates you from someone that you need to become aware of something about you, them or both. The best thing you can do is work on yourself and your life and it will all fall into place. HTH!

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The way i look at the law of attraction regarding anything that happens in my life is like this. I look at reality as a mirror. What is happening to me on the outside is a reflection of what is happening to me on the inside.

Where within yourself are you running away from yourself? From the law of attraction, remember that like attracts like. So if you are scared of commitment on on level within yourself, you will attract lack of commitment!

This might not be a conscious process, but sometihng you don't even realise your doing deep within yourself. Ask yourself the question, what am i avoiding about myself?

If this is a recurring pattern that is happening in alot of your previous relationships as well, then this is what is happening. Once you work it out, you'll find that your external reality changes.

For an example, i couldn't understand why i was such a responsibile person but no one could trust me. One day it clicked that in fact that it was me who didn't trust myself. Once i had this realisation, EVERYTHING shifted for me in my external reality. I had to learn to trust my unconcious or my deep inner self or the universe. It was the lesson i had to learn. I have been quite amazed at all the conincidences that have occured in the last 8 months since that ah-ha moment.

As for the young man in question, focus on growing yourself instead of putting your energy into forcing something to work. You will just be pushing him further away. Once you start growing, you'll outgrow him and you'll wonder what you ever saw in him. Better still, you'll move onto being attracted to men at that new level and vice versa. Like attracts like remember.

I sympathise with how you are feeling. I have had to break off a relationship with a girl when i went through a bad patch (sounds similar to what is going on with this guy you talk abuot). It's too long a story, but after that turmoil i went through, i put all my energy into growing myself into a better person and when i look back i don't know what i ever saw in her.

Fall in love with yourself. It's the only way to move on and attract a person who will love you back the way you want. (reality is a mirror remember ;-)  )

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I am about to lay this out for you plain and clear, so listen up! 

The timing is off in this relationship, it's very simple and extremely clear.  It is also clear that he DOES have feelings for you, if he didn't he would have broken it off and blown you off completely and would not even entertain the idea of meeting with you. 

I have been in your shoes and I have dated a man like this and I have attracted him back EVEN AFTER acting like a complete nut job, crazy, stalker and we are today the very best of friends, we are not together (my choice) but if I wanted him I know I could have him. 

The thing I realized (and I am much older than you) is that the first time we were together the timing was just off, I wasn't really in a good place for a serious relationship even though I truly wanted one with him and he was scared to death of getting too serious with me and he was also scared of how much I really liked him.  Those strong feelings for a man are too much, it's better to hold them back some and let them chase you and let them profess their desire to be with you to you and not the other way around.  It's almost too much pressure for them to deal with. 

My advice is to agree to the break up, apologize for not being what he is looking for and then give him space and get on with your own life.  Don't call him, don't chase him, don't show up at his house, don't email him, don't skype him......nothing!  If he isn't reaching out to you then that's it until he decides differently. 

You have a real great chance at turning this around if you can rid yourself of the desperation of having him, if not it doesn't matter because no man wants a desperate woman no matter what. 

You need to back off and become again the fun person you were before you started seeing each other and since you work around each other you can actually have him witness it.  The thing is.....it needs to be real, not fake or for the sake of making him jealous or to get a reaction from him, you need to really get happy with yourself and show how easy and fun your life is without him.........then he will think about what you are up to and about coming back.....then and only then! 

You keep pushing him and you will push him out the door. 

I dated that guy the first time 9 years ago for only a few months like you and after chasing him and acting like a nut job it took me 6 years (it took that long because I acted so badly when we broke up the 1st time) to attract him back to me and we dated again for a year, the second time I wondered what the hell I was thinking and broke up with him.  Here we are 3 years later and he is still in my life, practically on an every day basis.  We adore each other but I just don't feel like he is the right guy for me now.

You can have him, you just need to back off and get yourself back together and let go of the "I want you NOW" mentality! 

Patience grasshopper...........ALL GOOD THINGS COME TO THOSE WHO WAIT!! 

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If there were real feelings between u .. yes u can attract him back ... it takes time and patience and being consistant.. look after yourself do things you love dont obcess.. read the relationship thread .. good luck u can do it Lika

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Recently I've been telling people close to me about the Law of Attraction.  I hate seeing the people close to me struggle, while I'm attracting things into my life. So I decided to write out what i observed to be the most basic steps and key points of using LOA. Disclaimer: These arent my original ideas.  I've been reading topics, articles, and listening to podcasts for months. These are just the steps I've learned and observed to work.

1. Desire
   -Make your desire known and clear: do it by thought, put it in writing, draw a picture, use affirmations, switchwords, whatever you want, just put your desire out there.
2. Detach
   -Get rid of negative doubts/feelings towards desire. Quiet the voice that says itll never happen. Quiet the voice that asks when/how you'll get your desire.
3. Feel Good and Visualize.
   -Do things that make you happy.
   -Think about what it feels like to have what you desire. How excited will you feel? Who will you tell? What will you do after you have your desire?
   -Use EES( http://www.idreamcatcher.com/how-to-transmute-emotions-to-money-with-emotional-energy-shift-technique/)  to train yourself to cause a positive shift in your emotions.
   -The key to getting your desire faster is to feel as though you have your desire. Try to use EES to add more feeling towards your visualizations.
4. Accept the desire
5. Feel grateful for receiving your desire.

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It is my intention that the information I am going to share with you will be of great benefit and if applied will create the relationship you desire. From a Law of Attraction standpoint you are putting too much resistance to create the ideal relationship you want right now by your desperation. You want this relationship to work out so badly that you are trying to force things to happen. You are not allowing the good that can come from this relationship to come to you. As difficult as it may be right now it is essential that you give him time and space. You may very likely fear that it will open him up to have another relationship but remain faithful that the Universe will grant your desire. While giving him space spend the time that you have in gratitude for all the things that are working in your present relationships. This will put you in a frame of mind and vibration of receiving. Calling him very regularly can appear desperate and pleading for him to reconsider the relationship can also give that impression. Be confident in yourself and what you have to offer! Giving him time and space will allow you to realign your desires and show him that you are the one that needs to be chased. He will begin seeing how life is without you during this short time that you give him space and he will find a bogus reason to get in touch with you.

To Your Happiness,

Josh
Get Your Ex Back www.romance-beacon.com

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I guess i will start with my past a little! grew up in Argentina South America and i am Canadian! came to Canada when i was 11 and got into some bad habits, started doing drugs and stealing doing bad in school and eventually dropped out. one night at around 3 am i was stoned out of my mind and i saw an infomercial for a CD series Called "Your Wish Is Your Command" at this point in my life i was desperate for change and i literally was on the road to the grave. and i'm glad at this time in my life i understand that something about it spoke out to me, because it literally saved my life! its been 2 years since iv'e done any drugs or anything harmful in that case. i got a wonderful girlfriend which is another success story all together! ( i predicted i was gonna meet a girl the day i met her! ) and have my own business, wonderful friends and a great attitude towards everything in life! i read books & listen to audios every day, and go to seminars and events on a regular basis and every single day that goes by i learn something new and have a wider view on life and what i want! i'm here on this forum to give support to who ever may need it and ask for it! and simply looking for some my self! i hope my story has inspired at least one person today for that would make my day as well. and i hope to make some great friends as well! = ]

Live Well
Andrew Amsing

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