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@ Cherrybelle:
I don't think so.

I've been watching and listening to  the dna activation video and mp3,  for about three weeks now, just a bit less than practicing relaxation and medication techniques, and I do notice having more energy, not feeling exhausted at the end of the day as I used to.  I feel I have more energy, and, think a bit more clearly.  This could all be the result of the relaxation/meditation, and, I cannot discount the placebo effect, although if this is all in my mind, so be it, I have more energy and clarity in thinking.

I've also experienced a body detoxification, which I though was unusual, had a mild cold, (I haven't had a cold in four or five years).

I have not yet experienced any improved psychic  ability, intuition, increased vibrational frequency, or quicker manifestations, the areas of improvement I seek.

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I tried this and then left my house...came back an hour later and the washing machine flooded my entire floor...surprise!

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So…MY First Update! 

Just FYI – nothing really happened, so not a big deal but still, pretty happy I can give any kind of update at all lol.

This week has seen me slowly getting back into hanging out with my church friends.  Just 2 or 3 gatherings – the Memorial Day BBQ, then Friday Girls Night and then 3 of us went to another buddy’s farewell bbq last night.

So this morning, I decide “Alright, I’m going to Service today.”  And I did.  Honestly, I miss my friends – and they miss me.

I went to run a church errand with someone and, by the time we got back, he had arrived.  The wife-half of our mutual couple-friends was happy to see me and as we hugged and chatted, I could see him standing just a few people over, watching me and straightening up his posture.  After a couple of minutes, he squeezed past me to get into the main room.  Never said anything, never made eye contact as he walked past. Nothing.  My first thought, “Oh. Boy…” Then I thought, “Nope.  You’re not here for him. You’re here for you and your friends.  Think nothing of it. It’s all good.”

Our friend and I decided to sit together and she said, “let’s go grab those seats next to B (my Love).”  As we head over, some guy takes one of the seats, so we end up sitting behind him.  After a few minutes, he turns and does a “oh HEY!” as though it’s the first time he’s seen me that morning.

During a break in service, I head to the coffee machine.  I’m not sure how or when, but before I realized it he was standing next to me, smiling:

Him:  “Hey. Long time. How you been?”  Good, thanks, you? “Great….”

Pause

Him:  “So I saw you – I’m pretty sure I saw you in Culver City.  Was it you? Maybe it wasn’t you?"
Um. I don’t know. Where?
Him:  “Intersection of blah-blah and such-and-such.  You were walking down blah-blah Street and had headphones in…” (physical demonstration of putting headphones on…)
Yep. Definitely me!
Him: “Yeah! I knew it was you.  I was waving my arms and calling your name and trying to get your attention but…those headphones….”

This conversation goes on for five minutes, and we joke that I didn’t see him because I wasn’t wearing my glasses – and he thought ‘if it’s not her, I’m waving at a stranger like an idiot’ because he wasn’t wearing his either…etc, etc.

Then he says, “Well, in that case, it was so good seeing you…”
I’m thinking does he mean..like this morning? I said, “yeah…”
He says: “Last week. It was really good to see you then, even if it was just walking down the street and you didn’t see me waving like a mad man.”

Then….

I walk away to say hi to someone else…

Oh, yeah ladies & gents – I’m an idiot.

However, about five minutes later we find ourselves in another conversation.  I ask about his work (he works in television and never knows if he has a job from one season to the next).  He says there’s a possibility of him working on this side of the Valley. I tell him that’s great, because then he can get a place closer to the rest of us and we’d all be pretty happy about that.  Then I ask about two of our other friends who want to move back to the Westside and he says “Oh I’d be so happy and down with getting a 3-bedroom place with those guys.  I absolutely will move to the Westside if the job thing happens.”

Today marked probably two of the most animated, happy-to-see-you conversations we’ve ever had.

Then I realize his sister and her boyfriend have turned up.  Which is a miracle.  I know he’s trying to build a relationship with this guy, because he and his sister are very close – and it’s been difficult for him.

BUT her boyfriend really likes me (in a friendly way) and we always hug and chat when we see each other.  Which means nothing, but is good.

And that was about it.

I had a thought that if I saw him today, I might realize he doesn’t mean as much as I thought he did.  Three months is a long time – maybe it was a proximity crush?  But no…I’m madly in love with the man.  But I think I did well today. 

As I said nothing really happened and it wasn’t a big deal.  But it was nice.

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Hello my loves!!!!

So I wasn't sure if this should go in the success or relationship section....but since its only half way there I decided to put it in the relationship one. You guys know me pretty well by now...I am so up & down here...but you all support and love me anyway. Thank You. I want you all to know I have had a pretty huge success with my love, and although I am not comfortable sharing the whole story and details just yet, I need you all to know that if you really truely want something or somebody, do not ever give up just because you have yet to see the results you want. You really truely never know how somebody is really thinking or feeling when you are not around them. You guys have seen me with so many doubts and sad times where I broke down and needed support, but I have come to find out my guy still cares about me, still thinks about me, and I can see in his eyes still loves me. We are not together yet, but the universe surprised me big time last night & we were able to meet in the same place at the right time. It was like a movie to me. I found out that while I am seeing signs, he has seen them too. While we were together, the signs were right next to us. The numbers, the symbols, everything that I have seen that reminds me of him showed up while we were next to each other. So I'm telling you, trust in the signs more than you do. I really do believe they mean something. They had us laughing together. It felt so good. I was so nervous and he was too, but to me it was magical. He was so happy to see me. I never would have expected it to be as wonderful as it has been. I still felt our connection & I think he did too. So listen everybody, just keep on believing. I don't even think you have to be super happy as we are pressured to be. Right before I saw him I was feeling so sad, missing him and wanting him so much. Then he appeared out of the blue. I am happy even just to have my friend back. I am very grateful. The universe, GOD, is magic. And God loves us. He wants us to be happy. Never give up hope. Pray when you need to. God is listening. He is working in your favor and sending you love at all times. All youve got to do is believe in Him and yourself and your desires. JUST HAVE FAITH!! JUST BELIEVE!! I love you all. Be happy & enjoy yourself & always keep the hope alive !!!! Muah !!!!

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Well, I have to say, when I read this post on Thursday morning I thought, eh, ok, why not try it.  So I did.  At 3:00 my son came home from school and told me that he now knows how to tie his shoes. This may not sound like a big deal to many, but my son is 12yo, autistic, and has low toned hands, so this was MAJOR!! After struggling to teach him this skill for so long, I took a break from it because he got just sooooo frustrated.  Here his OT made a total breakthrough with him that day, and I was totally surprised and delighted!!! Awesome!!!

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Excel....Today i want to give you your own special Thank You....our paths dont cross much on the forum, but the other day you responded to one of my threads about "is love real". You posted part of the video "Conversations With God" for me to watch. I didn't just watch the part you gave me; I watched the whole thing. In tears, first of sadness in the first half & then of pure joy through out the second half. This movie changed my entire outlook. I get it now even more than before. I am so happy. Thank you for sharing this with me. I dont know you but i love you, for being you & helping bring this moment of Joy into my life!!!! Thank You Excel!!!! Love is ALL there is<3!!!!
 

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Ok,i was Meditating today..and suddenly out of Nowhere I was Chanting this Affirmation!...Im Sure the Universe sended to me,a HIGHER power..So please DO pay Attention: Before U Start Visualizing what you LOVE to Manifest SAY :
                                                    AS I SEE IN MY MIND
                                                  AS I FEEL IN MY HEART
                                                  THIS WAY SHALL IT BE!
                                       (you say this with FEELING..Not Emotionless..)
                                                      So....LET IT BE X 3
                                             (always say this Loud ONLY 3 times!)
                                         THEN START YOUR VISUALIZATION PROCESS as Usual
      This REALLY Do WONDERS! Today I Manifested People,Sighns, Feelings and Lots of Positivity! Peace+LOVE

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Excellent advice luvingmenow. Let me throw one more thing in there for ya...truelove...you say you are not believing bc you have tried to attract specific for two years now & it hasn't worked...are you forgetting it took Magic Lamp 3 years to reach & get through to her guy, but she finally did it She never gave up until the very end... & yeah that did bring him to her. But point is she did it after all that time. We all can too

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Hello, LifeIsGoodToday!

I have benefited from assistance from others on this forum in the past, so  I would like to return the favor now.  I will try and take a stab at your situation.

First thing that you must do is ignore the present circumstances!  Remember that we create our own reality, and what we perceive in the present is actually based on past thoughts.  It doesn't matter that she's told you that she only sees you as a friend, and refuses to offer hope for the future.  That can and will change, believe that.  There are countless success stories on this forum alone where someone was told the very same thing or worse by the loved one and things were turned around with thoughtful application of the law of attraction.  By application I mean use of techniques such as RS, visualization, journaling and scripting.  These are just some of the many methods that you can put to use to completely turn things around with her.  Most important, is detachment.  You have got to let go of the desperation that is evident in your explanation of your situation.  This may involve leaving her alone for sometime, not as a tool of manipulating the outcome, but to focus on yourself.  You have got to get right for you, and only you.  There must be something special about you that she already sees and therefore wants to keep you as a friend.  You have to see and appreciate those wonderful qualities you possess for youself.  If she sees them, it wouldn't be surprising if others do as well!  Stop selling yourself short.  As much as you think she is the best thing walking the face of the earth, see yourself that way, too!  And as hard as this is to accept and believe, there exist other women who maybe even more perfect for you.  Make yourself available to meet them by not devotingall your time and energy on her.  Search for happiness, if not in the arms of someone else, than find something you enjoy doing that will raise your vibrations.  I truly believe that the person being showered with such longing can feel or sense when we are desperate and focused so intently on them.  And that is a negative and repelling energy.  That is not what you want her to pick up from you.  When you are able to completely and truthfully detach from this outcome she will come to you in the way you desire.  Remember you're not giving up your desire to have a relationship with her, only the intense focus on the outcome which is generating the feeling of lack and keeping her away.

These are things I've read from others, and have attempted to apply to myself.  Hope it helps!!!

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I agree that it depends on you as a person, them and the situation.

I went with NC because I needed to clear my head and my heart of desperation and anxiety and I knew I wouldn't be able to do that if I had to see him with this girl all the time.  That's just my personality - I have to cut the cord clean, separate myself from the situation and do a "restart."  My little heart doesn't deal with with heartbreak and disappointment.

I miss seeing him twice a week but it's a means to an end.

Also, he wasn't an ex so I wasn't holding onto a romantic relationship that wasn't there in the first place.  We consider ourselves friends and, as he once said to me, "friends forgive each other anything." 

But we'll be seeing each other again soon - at the Man of Steel midnight screening on June 14th - if not actually sooner.  So we'll see - I'll be practicing RS and Affirmation until then.  Whatever May Be, May It Be.

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Good beautiful I am happy for you. And I agree with you... NC isnt the best in my opinion if you want someone back, and LC is much better. I think NC is for when you are fully trying to move on. LC is so you can give space and still heal but still good to stay in touch and relevant in each others lives. Actually I sorta suck at explaining it haha but yeah I guess really everybody is different and every situation is different and many people do still get their s/o back with no contact, but for me personally, as well as you, LC makes more sense.

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Well this is my approach and maybe you can draw some inspiration from it or not. Essentially if you are feeling like you want to make it work, then you should put all your energy into making that happen.

(Wait for the hordes of people saying Nooo! You should go NC with her) I say bullshit on that.

Removing her from your life is really pointless if you are going to continue to want to be with her. What’s the point really? So you’re going to cut her off, and then sit there thinking about her and wishing she was there with you. What possible good is that… it’s like you just torturing yourself for no apparent reason.

If you want to date someone else and move on then yes cut her off, don’t contact her and move on totally with your life. But you cant have it both ways.

You can’t pretend that she doesn’t mean everything to you, and at the same time wish she was back. It completely contradictory. Also if you do this then you will get stuck like so many people, including myself, for months or longer. Thinking what if , or doing RS or other things hoping the other person would finally contact you.

No sir, you go either in one direction or another. Either you go all out showing her how much she means to you and do whatever you can to make this relationship better. OR you move on totally and just look for a new relationship with someone else.

Any variation from that will only leave you stuck, or ruin things in other areas down the line. Learn from the mistakes people make on here and apply them to yourself. Either way you will be much better for it in the end once you are clear and fully committed to one direction.

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Reading many stories here and I can say I've wanted an ex back. Pined over him for a year remained his friend even when it hurt because being away hurt more. I look back and I don't recognize that girl anymore but I see her in so many posts here. Why is it when someone has decided you aren't the right person for them we think we know better than them so we have to SHOW them that they want us? If we love them shouldn't we just respect their choice and their process, they know themselves better than we ever will. And why would we want someone who doesn't love us? We love these people regardless of how they treat us, and all they have to do is exist. While we believe we have to jump through three rings of fire for them to decide we are worthy of a one word text. Are we being fair and loving to ourselves?

I'm not saying your ex isn't "The One" but if they are your soulmate why are you worried? They are already yours and will be yours forever. So have fun an start working on attracting all the other things you want. No one is THAT special or worth waiting around for. Time us ticking you can never get this time back.

And that ex I spoke about earlier we went on to get back together several times after. I stopped worrying because no matter how nasty it got we always became friends again, naturally. Now I don't feel those feelings for him but it taught me that nothing is really permanent and most ppl find their way back to you if they care enough. You don't need to convince ppl to want you to be worthwhile

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I like your post, I know people probably wont find it too amazing only for the fact that you are actually completely over your ex and moved on. But the key point is that you were able to “let go” and actually followed the advice that many people give on this forum of enjoying your life and moving forward.

I think this is still a success story…. And it is because you are much happier now.

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there is a god and u have to have unwavering faith in him... u will be tested .. how much do u want to get better? then have FAITH tht all will come to u do not let anything stand in your way ...make up your mind that u wuill have all you want .. u have alot of work to do .. letting go isnt as simple as waking up one morn and saying ok i let go today??? but u can put it in gods hands
and TRUST tht he will help u thru this

work on feeling better ... KNOW that god will bring u all that u desire .. but u cant lay in bed just hoping it will come ..u have to do the work .. loving yourself -say affirmations , listen to meditations, read this forum of success stories .. some u wld have never thought wld come out their desperation but they did ... when the work is done and u can actually say .. hey i feel great , im not longing for any thing ur manifestations will start to come

no matter what anyone says YOU have to do the work ... find the you tht she was once attracted to and she and others will be drawn to you

ASK for what u want
Believe it will come
receive enjoy life and it will come

beautifulmesss12sc your so right on so many levels.

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