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Here's the thing darling, most of the time we want someone back because we can't get over the "HE DUMPED ME???" feeling which doesn't have much to do with the guy at all!! Haha, been there done that! Don't kill yourself over it. Life is all about taking the wrong train, exploring a new place and coming back Or maybe not.
Let your thoughts flow. State yourself at least 10 reasons why you want to be with him or not want to be with him. If atleast 6 of those reasons have anything to do with your feelings then be with him, else NO! either way you'll have an answer!
And, who's seen the future? Thank fully LOA has given us the canvas to paint it !
So, why not paint it pretty?
Chill it out!
Remember if nothing else does, Tequila's do! Haha, just kidding
Either way, you'll choose the right thing.. Just choose what makes you smile ! If the guy gives you 10 reasons to smile, he might just have a chance,who knows?

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First of all, a very big HIIIIIII to all my loved ones on this forum..
 For, all of you thinking she always bombards good news, I am sorry to disappoint you, not so much this time around!
Confused?
Don't worry i would not post bad news on a success story column! Haha
 
 From the past few weeks, i have been facing some trouble in my work place, and also some on the personal front. I usually never talk about my troubles, but somehow this time it taught me an amazing lesson and i could not help sharing it.
I have always been the 'planning' person. If i ever visualize a wedding, more than the feeling i'd be more concerned about my Vera Wang and the texture of my dress! Details drive me crazy! Haha,
I set my eyes up on a goal for quite some time, and was a little confused about my relationship as well (since, it did not feel right).
I'll jot down the troubles, in short so that you get the picture :

1. I somehow, did not see myself doing the job i was doing. My bosses weren't happy with me either, neither was I. It was a constant stress, and I did not see myself in it at all. But the money was so good, I did not want to leave it. Depending on my parents was really not on the list.

2.  The guy i am with, for a really really long time has popped me a ring, which is awesome! But, here's the thing.. i could not see myself very happy with him in the future for a lot of reasons. He is an amazing person, but over the years i could never get over how attracted i am to him. But, the whole idea of having a family with him, wasn't very comforting either.

3. I was lost. I was finding myself, in everything. Everybody had goals, ambitions and i just had a lot of aspirations. I did not see them happening either.

It took me exactly 3 days in shell to "live without it" to really "live with it".
I quit my job. ..... I settled with the "He's not my guy" after almost a decade... And, i found a goal !

I got to know myself. It took me three days, to come in terms with myself. Maybe, this world is extremely practical but the truth is I am not. I am sensitive, caring and i am going to believe in Magic all my life.

The biggest lesson I learnt:
 
Even superman cries! Aw, funny right? but true.. its okay to loose sometimes! This guy, this job and this everything was on my list probably a few months ago! But, they did not make me happy! The hard part is taking the call and quitting. It's ok to screw up once in a while, accept it! They really make you who you are.

I proudly accept, I am an imperfect person who believes in magic ! Yes, i am confused, and of course i make mistakes , a lot of them. I am not very practical and currently job less. I am hopelessly in love with an amazing looking hot man but he isn't the one for me, i am aware of it. But, you know what... Beyond all this, I am in love with myself !

Let life be as rocky as it can be, we are a group of dreamers who believe in Magic ! So, magic happens to us. I am in a phase right now, where i am setting my heart free to make me happy ! Set no limit

See you in exactly 100 days, when i am gonna give you another amazing reason to fall in love with yourself!
Thanks for being there guys!
Let the love flow!
Thumbelina!

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Hey! I know you all are so busy right now, attracting your favorite things. To be specific favorite People. To be more Specific Favorite person. Oh! Who am i kidding, your ex! Hahaha
But, have you ever taken into account those random thoughts you get during your day about doing something fun, out of the way, trying something new?
And how many times have you taken the effort to implement them. They just remain as random thoughts, right?
Well, i am putting random thoughts into action! Because, i realize those little things make me feel so proud and happy and i feel connected to my real self all over again.
This is my attempt.
http://sujoyi.blogspot.in/

Hope you guys like it. Please feel free to contribute your tiny or big efforts you wanted to try! I would love to add them to my blog with your name and details. After all, you guys have been with me through thick and thin. Literally, made me who i am today
What's life without some , "trial and errors" !!
Have a great sunday, and mail me your stories on : [email protected]
I will add them up
Let's inspire the world!

Oh! and now you can get back to attracting your ex again!! hahahaha, just kidding
Keep smiling
Loads of love!!
Thank you guys!!

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Hi, beautiful thinking i must say. But, honestly not many of us can live in the 'vortex' state for long unless you are in tune with it every moment of your life, which takes lot of practice and state of mind.
From the inside, i believe you and i would be so glad to follow that. But, from the outside since many of us are fighting with limiting beliefs all day, a physical action is convincing enough to set it on - from the inside.
All the 'goal setting', efforts, and rest are just to overcome the limiting belief and getting that 'can do' done
If in other ways, that could be achieved with little effort, why not ?

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Hi, just like always my postings are on the 'success columns'

 I have been following the Law of attraction for a little over 3 years or so now. I have gathered a whole lot of information on the unanswered questions on this topic. I would love to share it with you all

Things to consider before you start your manifesting

1. The Goals :
   Most people who I've come across use LOA to attract something they've lost in the past. Why not try it on something new and innovative? Write your goal down, word by word. Usually a diagram works the best for me. Don't worry, you're not born to just attract your ex back or please someone. I was quite a goal-less person, almost all my life. But, just when i started thinking that maybe i didn't have it in me, something extraordinary happened.
Set a high goal : Eg - " I want to open my chain of pubs in London by 2020"

That would be a real goal, because it is gonna make you think. You will start to think about how much money you will require to do so, which place would be apt for it, how you are going to start, what changes you are going to make in your current lifestyle to set this in. Most important question, ARE YOU WILLING TO WALK THE EXTRA MILE?

I hear my mom complaining about her extra weight all day. She would keep saying, "I want to loose all my weight", and then half brokenheartedly have a cup-cake in despair! 
Please note : " I want to loose all my weight" or "I want to earn lots of money" or "I want to have a happy life" is just a wish or desire. That is not going to manifest because you are not stating anything clear to your mind.
I have lost over 20pounds in a matter of 3 or 4 months! When people ask me how, all i can say is "You just have to walk the extra mile".

I would suggest, make a crystal clear Plan of Action. I know that the secret suggests that you don't have to think about 'hows' but most of the time that makes us very lazy and we eliminate - when, where and blah blah and we end up with a dreamy desire.
Therefore, if you want to open a chain of Pubs in london :
Start by visiting all the pubs in london - try to find out why some are over crowded and some seem to close down!
Do your ground work. Get into the fell. Rest will happen. That, is how Law of Attraction works!
Trust me, you can achieve everything you plan for. Just be absolute clear.
No back up plans. No other options!

The illusion of happy life : I am very curious here. Most people try to attract their ex's back, i've tried it too infact that is the first thing i laid my hands on, as soon as me and LOA became friends! You say, you want a 'happy life' right? Then why are you attracting misery again?
I made this mistake, i gave my pedestal away to someone else. He became the center of my life. What happened next?
I was a step away from losing my self, because mentally the "illusion of love" had made me so blind that i did not even know what else i wanted to be , apart from being his better half!
 Thankfully, a very very dear friend of mine from this very forum pointed out the difference between a - desire and a goal !
A man could be your desire, a life with him could be your dream but that has nothing to do with your goals! Your goals define who you are, as a person and what you are capable of!

Change those eyes, and see the world : Have you ever seen a topper? While you'd be busy impressing you're ex, she'd be chasing her dreams. What happens in the end? Most of the times, you would still be impressing (maybe another ex) and she'd be a CEO of some firm, with a happy family and lovely kids and a shinning ferrari. But, wait how did that happen? When you perfectly used the LOA and she probably wasn't even aware of it!
That's the point!
Thinking is a great exercise, but sometimes it can work against you. We tend to over think situations. Lately, i met two people, who weren't aware of LOA at all but they were using it.
This guy,a friend of mine was in love with a girl, he kept attracting her.. thinking about her all day. This affected his work and he lost his job. Now, he has to work twice just to pay his rent,and he asked me - 'she still doesn't call me back!' . No offense, but honest question - Would be attracted to someone, who's broke every second day? . Its not about being broke, its a statement of determination -- people know you by your work,not by your talk! Your life is a living example of who you are.
Another example, my cousin lost this guy, who she thought was her soul mate. She cried over it for a few days, made a new plan and moved on. She always had a dream of working with Mac. She laid a plan of action, and within weeks changed her life. She now lives in Washington, with her son and husband. Did she meet that guy back? Yes! In exactly, 4 years time. But, somehow she didn't want it back and she moved on.
It's all about being happy.
Precautions I take :

1. Find a goal. Take time, plan everything out. Step by step like a flow chart. Give it a month's time, and you will notice that you start attracting more and more details to this plan of yours. Don't second guess, work on it.

2. Cut out that spot on your mind, which stores excuses. Less thinking, more working. Remember, nobody likes a confused person. Respect yourself, and your choices.

3. Stop wondering about how to impress other people or how to train your subconscious mind, into thinking things and blah blah. Spend that time, in doing what you want.

4. Believe it or not, there is going to be something you will have to give up if you want something bad. Do that, like i said.. Are you willing to walk that extra mile?

5. PLEASE DO NOT MAKE SOMEBODY YOUR LIFE. You have to find something else. It doesn't change ever! Even after your wedding,you will still have seperate goals. Its harder for women to recognize this fact, but please understand we all need our spaces in life. Respect his, if you want yours to be respected.

6. Don't overthink situations. Remember, you know yourself the BEST! It doesn't matter what others have to say or think, none of it will last. You will be surprised to know, how less people think about us. So, stop thinking about them!

7. Take a deep breath! Enjoy and live. Chase your dreams and stick to who you are, be proud of that. Remember, there is going to be someone who's gonna love every bit of you and thank your stars if it isn't your ex, coz it might just be Tom Cruise 

Have a good day!
Any queries, you can mail me!
Love and Luck ,
Thumbelina

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Exactly
All we need is a Reality Check and self assumption of what we actually want and what we 'think we want' !
I am quite on that phase now, where am just 'letting go' and working towards what makes me happy this very moment!
Had a list last year of things which i want to experience that would make me happy!
Realized sitting in my room wouldn't take me to Paris, so acted upon it
I had forgotten a big step of LOA manifestation - Taking an action!
Sitting there - planning, hoping and expecting will only make us worried, bored and sad which are not a good sign!
So, why not make a move and let LOA do the rest

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Hey,
Firstly, you're loosing control because you are trying to control. Why do u want to control such a beautiful free life? The feeling of gratitude comes from within you! Look at yourself in the mirror, you are quite a beautiful girl - trust me, there are thousand out there dying to be you! (There, i gave u an instant reason to be grateful)
Secondly, Belgium! Omg! i love that place, and you are getting to stay there, (isn't there another reason to be really grateful)
I think, you are a bit confused right now, and all of it is coming because you are trying to gain control over your life. Rather, right now note down top 10 things that makes you really happy! And, DO THEM! No more thinking, just take a pen and paper write it, and do it
There you go, another 10 reasons to be grateful maybe!
By the time the day ends, you will be filled with gratitude,
Start with a beautiful smile, sweety
And, let your thoughts flow. Just enjoy them xxx

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 Hello everyone! Feels really good to be back in the forum! All this while, i was reading through the current posts, and thinking about myself a couple of years back when i first started writing here --
 I started following the LOA because i wanted to manifest a loving long term relationship with my ex. For starters, YES! I HAVE MANIFESTED HIM AND HE WANTS TO GET MARRIED THIS YEAR!
So, the answer to the question i often heard people asking about manifesting a particular person , the answer is YES! And, am a living example to it!

Now the twist is, I might dump him! This was a very guy, i have literally been with for on and off 5 yrs, and am sure most of you might be thinking that i am completely crazy to think this!
But, tomorrow when you are in my shoes, probably you will understand me!
Its easy to manifest a person - since, you are attracting him with love which in itself is the biggest power of the universe. But, after a while you realize, you just end up attracting the same old relationship in his terms, and your mind and your power is a tamed puppet. You may want hundred other things from life, and the other person might not and then you just have to bow down. Not many of us can live like that, and myself certainly not.
I have been there, done that. Therefore, an advice from a friend who's on the same boat as you are. Attract a particular relationship , which you can see yourself in. Most of us want our ex's back only because of the rejection syndrome working inside us, which after you achieve the person goes away and you are literally left with a hollow feeling.
Go after completing yourself, don't put condition to your happiness ! Live like its your last day on earth , and keep getting better at being yourself!!
Love is an exotic feeling, when experienced with the right one. Think about it - the one who makes you jumpy, desperate, sad, worried and impulsive ,could he/she really be the right one for you for life?
We all want an exotic holiday at Vegas, once in a while where we'd loose control and do all the crazy things we'd just look back at smile at, but just you imagine living that way for eternity?
Wouldn't you literally hate your life?
I remember reading the gratitude book by Rhonda Bryne, it was beautiful an experience! How wonderful it would be if we could live that way, and make our everyday so magical and positive!
Looking back through the years, i've learnt one lesson. Unless, you are whole in yourself nobody else could ever come and complete you!
Take 30days off all the things you are currently attracting. Your ex, your love, your money, your whatever! Just leave everything, for 30days and don't plan your days! Wake up in the morning with gratitude and work through the day, think of nothing. Let your body work, while your mind is enjoying doing "nothing". The moment you find yourself pondering over an issue just sing a funny song aloud or do something random - get back into the 'moment'. Your present!
I've been doing this for the past 1 week! And, honestly i've never been happier! I am enjoying the excellence of doing 'nothing' but living my present - being conscious of every moment with gratitude, and meditation!
I still have 3 weeks to go , whoever wants to be on board with me , can join
Take a break my friend, stop telling universe how and what to do!
Surprise yourself, since this might be the last breath your taking
God bless you!
Loads of love and luck ,
Thumbelina

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When i first started practicing LOA i wanted my ex boyfriend back, who had then technically dumped me, to get a new gurl. I would actually do anything to have him back, and i thought my last resort was LOA. But, at the end something different happened, I found myself back
I started to fall in love with myself and i would not take anyone insulting my love, even my ex. I got the confidence to walk out on him. That was actually the best part of my life, i kept wining almost all battles in my life.
Went out of the town,
enjoyed my singlehood with my friends,
Convinced my parents for modelling.
And, finally ended up as a journalist.
And, right then my ex wanted me back all over again. We did get back. I was happy, but he wasn't used to this girl. I was an independent girl, whose top most priority was 'herself'. He wasn't used to it. Earlier, i was that gurl who would leave her life happily to keep him smiling. It wasn't the same anymore. I just did things that made me happy. Strangely he wished to marry me, and it is something i visualized over and over again in the past 4yrs, with him. And, now i just didnt want it anymore. I wanted to marry a guy, who would respect my ways and i would respect his. Not someone, who would have a problem with my career choices, my priorities and my friends.
I realized nothing more mattered to me, than myself. That is when i patted myself, and smiled
Today, i'm a single confident independent girl who dares to dream everyday, because she knows that universe is taking care of it. Thank You
Yes, we broke up. We had to. We wanted different things. No hard feelings, we're still in touch and i seriously hope he gets a girl who he truly deserves. He will always be my first love, but i have no regrets from the entire episode. I wish to be happy, but compromising your dreams isn't the answer to it.
Thank You

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Its me, Well i do know i'm writing after ages. Not, because am lost. lol, but because everything has been great so far. Law of attraction has been the best gift so far, and Thank You, Ankur for enlightening me. I have been so busy lately, that i think i am kind of getting detached from the source which gave me a new meaning to my life.
Therefore am here, to reconnect with my friends and be regular at it.
Though coming online regularly is a little difficult. But, let's what we can do.
A BBM group. I would love to join a BBM group. It would be a daily blessing
Please add me, and we can start a group . My BB pin :: 277AA1BF
Let's fill this site up with a gazillion more success stories,
Thank You.
Thank you Ankur 

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... Let's try something new here, with so so many topics coming up here each day.. about
  ... 'getting your ex, manifesting your amount of money, life partner and other good stuffs..'
let's automatically manifest a piece of something, which promises to stay with you forever!! ...
  A new you
Its true, we've heard that phrase over and over again, that ... " if someone really cares for you, he/she will love you the way you actually are..."
I'm not too sure, about this one!! ... Hahahahaha :p :p
The main motive of LOA is making us happy and that will only happen when we feel good, and somehow we don't understand .. but psychologically.. this feel good factor's got everything to do with the 'look good' factor!!
Believe it or not, If you actually start looking .. 'drop dead gorgeous' ..
You automatically increase the chances, of you getting your ex back, or a new life partner..
I mean, who doesn't want a good looking, sexy person next to him/ her all the time..
I admit, the qualities like.. love, care, understanding all matters.. but treat them as your bonus points ... and work on the look factor.. i mean it, like work on it religiously !!
You have to make yourself realize that the you're at one, with the one your wanting.. maybe stronger but noway inferior!!
and that will only happen when you start looking at yourself 'highly'.. and that will only happen when people around you keep telling you that.. and they'll only tell you when you actually... WORK ON IT!!!
So, again.. it comes back to the same thing!!!
You want to Let go??.....
Do this, wake up each morning early.. go for a jog, hit the gym.. or something.. get into a great shape, a shape you thought.. you could never get into...
keep listening to inspiring tracks, look at person you always wanted to be.. keep photos of that hot, gorgeous female/male in your room.. see it everyday.. maintain yourself totally!!!
Dedicate time in improvising yourself... go for shopping, go for partying.... do all that you thought you wanted to do, flaunt yourself off.. and give a damn of what or who thinks of it, as long as it makes you happy!!
And, as off 'calling' or 'texting' that someone.. you'll be so busy in loving yourself.. you'll almost slip it out!!! .. and when you next meet him, see his reaction..
it will tell you all... you'll know in a minute, that your better!! .. any day better..!!.. and we don't chase people, who are not worth it right?
Let your ex, or your 'future person' do the chase, while you sit back and enjoy you panache
Nothing better than looking into the mirror, and smiling to yourself and feeling on top of the world!! ...
Shock everyone around you.. and come out of the shell, and rock your own world.. don't wait for sum1 else to do it!!.. you're capable enuf to do it yourself..
And, honestly now think back.. who wouldn't want a confident, strong, extremely gorgeous.. sexy, sweet, loyal beautiful loving person ?? ... And thats you!!.. do you still need to worry about getting someone back at all ??
He/ she'd come running any way.. so, smile to the sun... kiss your worries goodbye and flap your wings and just be Carefree!

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Thank you so much guys!! .. Life's so so better, when you just don't care!!
Imagine the universe as your parent
When you were born, you didn't have to worry about what to eat, and what to wear, your parents did that for you.. you'd feel hungry and they'd know it too,  and it turned out the best for us and got you good so far,
so , treat the universe as your parent.. and leave your life to the universe.. and see how well it feeds you with love !!!

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:)xcast dude... yea he dated 2 gals in the time we didn't date, and that was kinda for the good.. cauz the moment he'd come and tell me about any chick, i'd cooly smile, and say.."Go ahead, hows she dude?" .. and then in a week's time.. he'd start comparing me with the chick, tellin me how we were so much better.. hahaha.. this stuff happened twice.. finally, i was like, "dude, see the world.. seriously you're never getting a second ME"...
The above statement is just not true, am sure he'd get way better gals actually.. he's the hottest guy in town, i mean it..!! A sports star and stuff, a hottie in demand, but what made my statement stand was my confidence, and my love for him!! That he would never get anywhere else..!! So, be confident about your moves and feelings

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Everything happens with time.. Firstly, when i get a little worried.. I turn out real loud music... very loudly.. put my ear plugs on and go out for a nice jog!! All, party type tracks, by the time i come back, i am so tired that i hardly have the energy to pull a muscle , left alone worrying .. ha ha ha
and second one now, how did we get back?
It doesn't happen in one day.. it takes long, and its a long process.. first calls, then meetings.. and slow proceedings.. some days a lot would happen, and some days just nothing would happen!!! Either way, keep your focus on just 'staying happy' thats all.. and soon, i saw him more keen than ever!! ..
Another thing,which i realized in the due process. . weigh yourself!! I don't mean, practically.. in some dumb weighing machine or something, i meant.. weigh your life, and your thoughts.. they keep changing with every action in your life... A year back,or so.. when i was broken down and stuff.. i would marry this very guy, no matter what... and i would bend down, kill my self respect.. and just keep him happy..
But, today.. your looking at a confident, strong, independent, sexy girl.. who has has entire life on track, i do love him and i do want to stay with him, with my respect.. and as off a wedding or some 'forever' is concerned? I'd say... Too early, I'm too busy loving myself and pampering myself.. such a huge commitment, i don't even bring it up!! ... So, live in the moment, and don't plan your entire life .. at one go!! If it really does turn out that way, you'll be HECK BORED!!!
Imagine the look on your face, when you get a surprise gift... Let life be the same, don't plan and think so much.. just do your thing, and let the rest be... "TA DA... SURPRISEEE!!" ...
You'll actually love it !!

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Awww, your always welcome swthrt
We're all here to help each other..
and don't worry about academics, give your best shot.. and hope the best.. thats the trick
And, another thing.. since you're from India.. you must have heard this place ---
"Kaam karo, phaal kii pratikshaa naa karo "
I guess, thats wht it means...
Loads of loveee!!

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