It's been about 4 months since the break up. I have been being positive and happy most of the time. And been trying my best applying LOA. I don't really visualize a lot, but whenever I get fun things to do, good restaurants and good movies to go, I picture she and I going there and having fun together. Maybe this's one kind of visualizing?
I find it really hard to let go, I know letting go is to not care about the outcome, but how?
I think there are two type of "not caring about the outcome": one is that I trust and believe that the universe is bringing her back to me 100% for sure. So I'd not have to worry at all.
Another one is to be okay if she doesn't come back. Which it doesn't matter if she comes back or not, I can be happy with her or without her.
Which one is the better one? Or both of them are good ways of letting go?
And what else I should do to attract her back? Please suggest!
By the way, for the ones who have read my post before, that I didn't call or mail her the letter. But I did write her a birthday card, and she texted me saying thanks a lot

And I didn't continue the contact, because I really didn't what to do next...