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This question always stuck with me, and the other day I found a beautiful video by Abraham that explains basically why Jerry died, and why he died the way he did.

Abraham-Hicks: Did Jerry Pass Away From Resistance?

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This website has helped me tremendously, so I suggest you read it: 
http://iasos.com/metaphys/elan/  (if you go to the main page too I also suggest the Bashar info)...

Basically it's all about taking control of your life back by choosing to be who you want to be.  Forget about the guy for a second - is this life right now making you happy? Why not?  Because you're attached?  Ok, so CHOOSE not to be attached.  It's not hard to let go unless that's what you believe.  And all of us on here know that what you believe, you manifest.

Every second you are changing, you're not the same person you were 5 minutes ago, 5 days ago, 5 years ago.  (Bashar says we shift through parallel realities each second, Abraham-Hicks says your vibration constantly changes).  So if that's the case, you can choose to be an unattached person at any moment. 
Cut yourself a bit of slack too for having negative reactions - they're not the end of the world.  Because any time you make a mistake you can just switch your vibration/shift to a new parallel reality, or whatever, and create a new life for yourself. 

Notice how I didn't say a single word about whether or not any particular action will get him back.  Because it's not about that.  It's about making choices for yourself to create the life that will ultimately make you happy.
Watch this video too about other people:

Bashar - About other people

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A Valentine's Day Message from Bashar

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He's running because you're smothering him. You've only been dating since January 2013 (aside from when you dated years ago).  Relax.  Seriously.  It's not uncommon to date for a few weeks or even months before officially calling it a relationship.
What's the rush?  Why do you need to "label" this as a relationship right this second? 

You really need to shift your perspective here.  Try to be grateful that you have someone that cares about you.  Be grateful that you have someone you enjoy talking to and spending time with.  Isn't that great by itself?  Who gives a crap what you call it right now?

In the meantime, shift your focus and worry about yourself a bit more.  You want to love him and spend time with him, but what about you?  You deserve someone who wants to love you and spend time with you too.  Focus on loving yourself first because I have a feeling that is what is lacking.  His "back and forth" behaviour is just reflecting the back and forth feelings going on inside yourself right now.

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I'm sorry but I'm really confused as to what you are so upset about?

He said "don't tell me if you're dating other people", which is usually a sign someone likes you.  If they didn't care they wouldn't mind if you said you were dating others.  He also got upset when his friend invited you to the same party (another clear sign he was jealous and upset over it).  If you guys were so "open" he wouldn't give a rat's ass.

Clearly this guy likes you and I don't see what the problem is here.  You just need to relax.

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Thanks for the post But I still feel it's unclear. Abraham says that if one of the people purely focuses on what he wants, then the universe will find a way of giving it to him.

Correct.  You get what you ask for, you get what you want.  Always.

But couldn't it then be that the universe will bring him to meetesomeone else, who wants the same as him?

Possibly.  But it doesn't matter.  The point is you always get what you want.  Doesn't matter what the other person wants or manifests.  Deep down, you don't want "that" person.  At the end of the day, you want a loving relationship with someone who respects and loves you.  If "that" person can provide that for you, they will come into your life.  If not, you'll get someone else.  Period.

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But why would he initiate small talk when he stumbles into me in real life.

What would you expect him to do instead?  Ignore you? Come running back to you?

What is the point of talking to me when he can't even accept my friend request on fb. Maybe I should initiate small talk too lol. 

The real question is why do you care whether or not he adds you on there?  It seems to me like you want to see what he is up to.  Like Brightside said, he senses you want him back and he probably doesn't want problems to arise from it.

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This is funny, I've been doing RS/sending love to someone and I've been doing it the same way as the video without realizing it (ask to connect with them, and sending love through my third eye). 

I've noticed when I send the love I get a pressure or sensation in my third eye, middle of my forehead, almost like a headache but not really.  Just like there is a lot of pressure all of a sudden in that spot.  That tells me he's receiving the love and messages.  There are other times I'll do the same thing but while I'm looking at a picture, since I'm not terribly great at visualizing clearly.

As for results, there are times when I've done it and it's been a very strong sensation/pressure and I find he contacts me within a few hours of that (sometimes it's been within minutes).  Another time, I was at my desk and I suddenly felt this huge pressure in my third eye, very strong & sudden, to the point where I had to stop working.  I received a text from him an hour later so I believe I was picking up on him thinking of me.  So I definitely think it works.

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Pretty amazing thing happened the other day that really opened up my eyes to the timing of the Universe...

I had sold someone some hair products on Ebay at the end of December.  She had been emailing me for weeks saying she hadn't gotten the product.  I told her to be patient since the item was in going to a different country, had to get through customs, etc.  So last week, I told her if it doesn't get there by the end of the week I will refund her money.  So I put out the intention "she will get her package by the end of the week, that's it.  It's done". 

She emailed me saturday morning at 11:30am saying she still hadn't gotten it.  I didn't check my email until around 5pm, so I wrote back saying "ok I will refund your money now".  I went into PayPal, and was literally READY to press  the "refund money" button, when that second I received an email from her saying "OH I got the package today! Thanks!!"

Had I checked my email earlier in the day, I would've refunded her and probably lost money, since I don't know if she would have been honest enough to tell me she got it. 

I know it's a small thing, but it just amazed me that it happened exactly when I said it would, and the timing that day was just too perfect.  It really proved to me how amazing the Universe is and how we create it

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What Brightside and Autumn are getting at is taking action or baby steps towards your goal, or "acting as if".

If you want to lose weight, for example.  Picture yourself as the new thinner, fit person.  How would THEY act?  Would they go out and exercise?  Would they sit on the couch eating chips all day?  The idea is to BE the person you say you want to be.

If you want a sportscar, look into how you can get it.  Browse some ads, maybe you'll find someone selling a used one for super cheap.  Maybe a dealership will have a great deal to finance one that wasn't available before.  Essentially just put yourself "out there" to receive it.  You don't have to try super hard or anything.  Just do what feels natural. 

You could fly yourself across the Atlantic from USA to Europe.  It's possible.  But it's EASIER to just go to the airport and buy a plane ticket.  So that's the most likely way it will happen. Through the path of least resistance (or the easiest way, the way that takes less energy).  Why fly yourself when that would take a tremendous amount of energy??  Thus, it would take more energy to materialize a car out of thin air then to browse around for ways you can get one in physical reality.

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To answer your question:  no, you didn't attract your friend's death.  Your friend chose to go at that moment.  We all choose to be on this Earth and come here before we even get here, and we all have the choice as to when to leave.  Bashar even says that "near death" experiences are often us actually dying, and choosing to come right back, but we don't notice....we sit there and wonder "oh wow how did I walk away from that accident, that was a close call", etc.  (Google Bashar - Death for some youtube videos on this).

Death is simply your friend moving on to a higher plane, to non-physical existence.  The dream of your friend smiling was honestly him just reaching out and visiting you to let you know he is honestly, truly okay now.  Trust me, non-physical existence is far better than here on Earth with all its limitations, external illusions, and restrictions of space and time.  He didn't blame you, because it wasn't your fault. 

As for your premonitions, it's possible that through your open-mindedness you were picking up on his vibration that he wasn't going to be on this Earth for much longer, that maybe he had chosen to go at that particular time and you were just picking up on his energy.  But nevertheless, it was HIS choice to go.

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I agree.
-The Secret book left out a major component which is to take "inspired action". 
-Sometimes people call this "acting/behaving as if" you have this thing already. 
-Some just call it "moving in the general direction of your dreams". 
-Some people won't take action unless they get a major gut feeling/intuition to do something, then they do it. 
-Bashar just says to "follow your highest excitement at all times".
-Also left out stuff about contradictory beliefs hindering you from manifesting.  Which is why a lot of people got frustrated after they read the book, thinking "why isnt this working? I visualized it?", when they didn't understand how they were hindering themselves.

They all mean the same thing.  Whole point is to just get out there, follow your excitement, do what makes you happy.  You don't have to force anything to manifest, since it already all exists.  Just become an antenna at the right frequency/vibration and receive it.

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You don't understand the importance of sexual energy and power it contains, Even before I knew about the consequences of wack off I always felt depressed and crappy, It wasn't till I stopped for a few weeks that I started to regain confidence, Intelligence, and personal power.

If all you had to do was "believe" that the loss of your jing/chi/shen (semen) was meaningless than Chinese Taoist, Hindu gurus, and all of the major religions would not advise against it. It's been shown time and time again the Sexual energy=creative energy

Do your research, If you're a guy you'll understand.

No, you don't understand that your reality is created by your BELIEFS/DEFINITIONS. 

You believe this "fact" about sexual energy, and this is why you become more creative when you don't pleasure yourself.  Now of course I'm not telling don't believe that.  If you want to, and it works for you on a creative level, then that's wonderful.  Keep it up.  But my point is you get to CHOOSE your beliefs.  And yes, it IS that simple as choosing to believe what you want.  If someone wants to believe the loss of their jing was "meaningless", then that is what would manifest in their world.  Doesn't make their belief any more or less valid, that's just what they are manifesting for themselves.  For you, loss of jing means loss of creative energy because that's what you believe.  [And it's not a big surprise that ancient religions would peg the male species/sperm as being the "powerful creators", since men generally always held more power over women].

EVERY belief is just as valid and meaningful and true as the next.  There is no right or wrong, no true or false. 

Does that make sense at all?  Are you starting to see the point?  It all comes down to your beliefs. 

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@Brightside - how about masturbating while drinking whiskey and eating bacon??

i was told by a life coach that excessive masturbation, alcohol consumption and pork consumption reduces vibrational energy.

Are you going to believe what someone else told you? Or what you believe is true for yourself? 

If I told you eating baby penguins can give you a 10" dick are you gonna run out and do it? You choose whatever the hell you want to believe is true for you - not what someone else says is true.

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If you have a belief that something you do in physical reality (in this case, masturbating) would have any sort of effect on the universe bringing you manifestations, then that's what you will experience.  But here's the truth:  it doesn't.

I suggest you google Bashar's - Circumstances Don't Matter video.  He states that "Circumstances don't matter, only state of being matters".  Circumstances = do NOT create "matter", they do not materialize things.  Your state of being = matters, creates material things.

So it's not the act of pleasuring yourself that repels or attracts anything.  It's your vibrations, your frequency, your beliefs/definitions, your feelings, that the universe just responds to automatically.  It doesn't stop and judge and say "hey, hold on, you're touching yourself I won't grant you that $1000 you wanted".  It not some non-physical entity pointing a finger at you and laughing.  It just responds to your thoughts and feelings. 

I was trying to draw jing up my spine again and failed miserably.
I'll never manifest anything.

THIS is your problem.  Your negative thinking.  Your view that you failed.  Your view that you'll never manifest anything.  Take back control, stop feeling sorry for yourself, stop feeling guilty, pick yourself back up and realize you are the most powerful, perfect creator of your own life.  What you do in this ridiculous physical body that you chose to inhabit for a measley 100 years DOESN'T MEAN SQUAT.

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