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Think about how you FEEL when you are in a relationship.  Think of that giddy feeling where you feel like you are walking on air when you've just met someone special.  Think of the feeling when you get a sweet text from that special someone.  Or the anticipation when you are getting ready for a date with someone you are crazy about.

Ever wonder why sometimes when you are single it seems really hard to find someone, and then when you finally do get in to a relationship all of the sudden all of this attention comes out of the woodwork?  It's because you are emitting a different vibe because you feel good, desired, loved etc...It happens to me every time.

Thats worked for me once. It was the first warm nice day of the year so i was in a good mood and I got on my cell and acted as if my dream guy was on the other end and I sincerely felt it. I got so much attention from guys that day. Normally, however when I put love out of my mind completely or not think of it as something that is a big deal is when I get the most attention (from guys that count anyway, I dont count the kinda guys that hit on everyone all the time).  Im thinking its because I cant actively act as if and detach at the same time at least not when it comes to love. When it comes to other things I can do that. Im fully on board now with the having to detach thing because when Im attached, I think I give out a needy energy that blocks it. Ive only ever been able to manifest when im detached.

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Even though overall its been a good week since I got the job I wanted as well as put the deposit down on my dream loft but the past two days a couple of shady things happened as well and to me it is a good thing because it showed the power of law of attraction and proved it to me once again. That just shows me to always turn my attention to good things because when you focus on something bad, it leads to something else like that every single time. Law of attraction ALWAYS works.

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Okay for all you new people, Ive been on this forum since March of 2012. My old name on here was eightieschick. The main things I have wanted manfiested was my dream job, dream loft in the city within walking distance of this dream job, health problems to disappear and for my soulmate (who fits the description that I wrote with the list of qualities) to enter my life. Well half of those things manifested today in the EXACT way that I wanted.

Recently on here I posted about getting a job but not the one I wanted and was wondering if I should stay and how it is taking a risk to quit since I was trying to move and needed the money. Well I took the risk and quit and saw the ad for this job which was more in line with what I wanted to do. Well I applied not making any big deal about it in my mind and they contacted me to come and take a math and comprehension test because only the highest scored people would get interviews. Well I went in and took the test and got a call back a few days later for an interview because I had one of the highest scores. Well it took forever to schedule the interview because the lady went out of town and then took forever to return my call. I thought maybe someone else was hired but she called yesterday and I went in today for the interview and got hired on the spot.

I wont be rich with this job but it is making more money than Ive ever made previously and I have room to grow within the company. It is a big responsiblity and im the only one here with this specific job. The entire firm will depend on me. I do not have experience in this. This is just the type of job ive wanted so I prepared myself for it as much as I could on my own  just in case an opportunity came around and it did. This is the second time also I said outloud to the universe that I want to get hired on the spot and I did.

Immediately afterward, I ran outside to hug my friend who was waiting for me and we went to the building with my dream loft to apply since now I will be able to afford it. These lofts are luxury lofts and cost alot of money to rent a month. You have to make at least 2.5 times the rent to be able to qualify and with this new job, I JUST made it. These lofts have a gym inside, free satellite for tv, free high speed internet with high ceilings and alot of space. The loft is walking distance from my new job and get this, the loft has the address of 111 which is the numbers ive been seeing all year. Ive been seeing a combination of the number 11 repeatedly for so long, some of the old people on here know that. Im putting a deposit on it friday and am moving there in one month!!!

Now I still have my health issues and havent met my dream man yet but after this happening, im positive they are coming.

I have been trying to get a job like this for so long with no such luck but around the time I applied for my new job, I wrote on a piece of paper what I want in a dream job and when I wanted to get hired and put it in my pillowcase. I let it go completely. I didnt even name this job specifically and not even sure if I wrote this before or after I applied because when I applied for this job, honestly it wasnt even a big deal to me and I had no idea the location of this job but when they contacted me, I saw it was within walking distance of where I wanted to live in addition to the fact that it fit what I wanted to do. I also ended up taking the test on the exact date that I wrote and underlined Id be hired. So even though it wasnt actually the day I was hired, it was the day things got in motion so I considered that a manifestation of what I wrote. When I took the test and they called me back, I just knew already it was my job so I posted here to look out for the success story and here it is.

I also recorded myself saying specific affirmations about what I want in all areas of my life on a tape recorder and have been playing it. I honestly feel it took as long as it did because I was so attached. Ive done so many different types of things to manifest and I think the pillowcase thing and the tape recorder thing clicked because I let go. I didnt even think about it hard. I dont know how it is for everyone but when I got a carefree feeling about it and just put that in my pillowcase, slept on it and played my affirmations without dwelling on it, it happened just like that.

LAW OF ATTRACTION IS REAL!!!! Ive doubted it at times and some of you im sure remember my doubts but I know the times things dont manifest is because there might be something greater out there that I dont know about at the time, or because im too attached (which causes anxiety and causes it to push it back further).

Thanks to everyone that has given me advice on here this past year. I have read it all and you guys have seriously helped me. Ive been struggling financially for so long. At one point I wanted a copy of a book someone was talking about here but didnt even have a dollar to pay for it and Stef graciously sent the book to me. I dont have to worry about being that broke anymore!!!!

THANK YOU GOD, THANK YOU UNIVERSE! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

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UPDATE: I'm gonna have an amazing success story in the near future in regards to my career. Something happened on the exact date I wrote, underlined and put in my pillow case. Im just waiting until its come to full fruition before I write my success story. I may have an amazing sucesss story in regards to a few more things as well but look out for my career success story really soon.

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Now more than ever, I am 100% sure that LOA works.

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I ended up quitting and I know it was the right decision because I haven't regretted it one bit. I am grateful that I was hired because that morning of the interview I said out loud that today im walking out with a job from somewhere (since I had planned on going to see about another job after that one but never made it there since I was hired by the first one I went to although I was still surprised I was hired on the spot). I knew neither the job I was hired for or the other one I was gonna apply for that day was for me long term but the one I got just wasnt worth the very little pay. I mean dont get me wrong, any money helps me right now but it is strenuous with mandatory overtime and a long commute and not to mention its not even close to what I saw myself doing. I applied for another job and I wouldnt have even been able to see that one if I had've stayed at the job because I wouldve been at work at the time. I had no time there to even look for a better one and I didnt want to miss any other opportunity so I quit. The job I applied for the day after I quit, I sincerely want that one but if I dont get it, I know thats the only type of job I will apply for in the near future. I am not great financially but I am okay as far as set bills for a while and I do still think I will be able to move in june like I planned (just will struggle for a bit unless I get a job which I do believe I will). I wont settle. I remember a friend of mine said to me maybe God wants you to start out small and I just dont believe that. I know what I'm qualified for and I know my skills and I wont settle for less not because I think im too good for "lower" type positions but because I know the universe is very capable of bringing me what I want. Thanks everyone for your replies.

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As some of you guys know, I have been looking for a new job for a long time. I had my toughest interview I've ever had yesterday and I was sure that I wasn't getting it based on how hard the boss was on me but surpisingly I was offered the job and I officially started today (although I worked off the clock yesterday). I am grateful because this money is something that I need as Im trying to move in a couple of months. However, this new position is completely overwhelming. I saw the ad for this out the blue since it isn't in a field that I normally search in. Im working so many hours and I thought I was applying for a part time job but she offered full time plus there's overtime nearly everyday. I know the job really isn't me and I wont have any time to do my school work (as I am trying to get a degree that I shouldve gotten in my early twenties), or really to do anything at all. I wouldnt mind so much if it was in a field that I wanted to work in but this isn't. If you guys were in my situation, would you quit now or stick it out until you find something better? I dont even have time to look for something better. Should I try to stick it out until the first paycheck? This is the most grueling and exhausting work Ive ever done mind you and it's not what I imagined.

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He is out there and you DO deserve it. I almost broke down in tears after reading this cause im feeling the same way. Its not that I feel that I dont deserve it but like you I'm not sure he is out there. There is a poster on here named Melanie who got EXACTLY what she wanted for a long time. It wasnt just any guy she met but a guy from the country she specified and she is moving out there (if she hasnt already!) to be with him. It happened for her totally out of the blue and I talked to her on the regular and she wasn't always positive. She went through all the emotions that we all do from being positive to feeling like its not going to happen and giving up and it still happened. So just hold on cause its coming. Things are taking way longer for me than I ever imagined. I started on this journey about a year ago and Ive wanted to change my entire life not just find my soulmate and in every area, I make a step up and then 3 steps back. I just had an interview Monday with a company that turned me down months ago so naturally I felt Im getting another opportunity for a reason. I know for a fact the interview went really well and I answered everything perfectly but I still got a rejection letter today through email. So I know still having faith after nothing happening for so long is a tough thing but just know that it will come to you and probably out the blue. Its okay to give up and feel like its not gonnna happen sometimes because that is human but just know deep within that your guy is still coming.

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Most of the relationship topics here really are just about relationship problems under the guise of law of attraction. I think many people probably do a search on how to get an ex back and a LOA topic concerning that pops up in their results and thats what leads them here. Im convinced thats what happens. I think it probably prolongs them holding onto someone that they should let go cause it gives them false hope. Plus most people would say move on but here they get alot of support to hold on from other people in the same boat. Ive said from the beginning you cant change what someone else wants for their own life.

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Well I definitely dont think you should shun the guy but based on everything you've wrote about him (which has been alot so my opinions are based on everything you have said) I just thought it would be best not to continue being as close as you have been and focus more on you and waiting on the universe to bring you a real relationship with a guy that is sure. As far as you not being sure you want to couple with him either, this is the first Ive read about that which is why I thought you were just rationalizing to yourself that maybe you dont want that either since you know he doesnt. However, since you are letting yourself fall for a man that doesnt want commitment even after saying many times before that thats what you want than maybe you arent ready.

Even if he secretly loves you like guys in the past have admitted, still if he or they cant or wont commit for whatever reason than doesnt that still prove they werent right for you? I would assume that the one you want to end up with will be the one who will step up to the plate regardless of fear, insecurity or anything else. Now if you dont care about a label and not sure you want commitment than thats different but this thread saying your not sure is the exact opposite of what you have been saying for a long time.

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There's a big difference having that label of commitment than not. Yes a guy can still walk away after calling you his official girlfriend but at least you were important enough to him at one point to say I want to be with this woman and only her. Honestly the whole "I dont want to label it" is just an excuse to use when deep down you really want something different long term. It isnt just a guy thing cause ive also said the same thing.

Years ago I dated a guy for months whom I had a hard time saying he was my boyfriend even though we were together all the time and I knew he saw me as his gf. The reason I couldnt label it was because I was still in love with my previous guy and was waiting for him to come back. Sometimes people dont want to make things official because their heart secretly belongs to another or sometimes its because you know the type of person you want to be with and you wont settle down til you get that.

Yes sometimes people are afraid to commit but unless your a George Clooney, most of us will (fear or not) when we find someone we really want. Based on all you've wrote about him in the past, I dont think your afraid of the label. This sounds more like a rationalization cause you know he doesnt want the label. I really think theres someone else out there for you and all these what if's about a guy who doesnt want an official relationship with you seems like a waste of time. Five months is a long time to spend on someone that doesnt want commitment especially when your clearly building feelings for him.

Have you ever read the rules? Im not saying I agree with following all of them cause some stuff in that book is too rigid and doesnt apply but books like that and hes just not that into you do have certain points about men that if you are honest with yourself do tend to be more accurate than not. A guy that doesnt want you as a girlfriend should not even be getting so much of you to where hes getting all the perks of having a girlfiend without having to commit.

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Im in the same situation. In fact I was just thinking when I get paid If i can afford to get new heels, dress and couple of feminine pretty things. I have no good clothes for the winter (at least not what I picture) and I even need to update my spring/summer clothes, hard to do when bills take everything.

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I feel like I've been friend-zoned since she feels so comfortable in front me to tell me that she wants to hook up with people, you know?

I think she says things like that to see your response more so than just because she sees you as just a friend. I dont think she wouldve attempted to hook up with you more than once  if she had no attraction to you.

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Thanks Mr. Brightside,

I just wanted to ask, how do I let her know indirectly that I want more than a platonic relationship with her? Is there any sort of meditation thing I can do to get her to know? I feel like she knows I like her, but we're both shy or afraid to just say it.

This is a really sweet story but one question, why cant you directly let her know how you feel? Trust me on this, this girl has probably already imagined you confessing your love to her. Like mr. brightside said, continue to hang out and behave like your already with her but I do think eventually (and not too far in the future) you need to directly tell her how you feel. Its so much more romantic when a guy confesses his feelings first but maybe as a female im biased. It does sound like she is waiting for you to just say it and thats why shes giving you little hints.

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but if he knows you want a relationship and he hasnt budged on not wanting one (even after talking to you everyday for months, and getting some form of affection I assume) than isnt he in a sense rejecting you? Would the universe really just want you to be patient and see if he'll come around even though its clear you want committment?

Just because he has alot of qualities you want doesnt mean he is THE guy. Even with some nice guys who've got alot going for them, you have to be just as careful cause if you let them, they'll treat you just like a gf and gladly take whatever benefits from that yet all the while they say they dont want a relationship. Even if they've been hurt and are scared, when they find a woman they really love, all of a sudden they are ready for a relationship.

Maybe the test from the universe is to see if your self worth is high enough now to reject less than what you know you want. if your still talking and seeing him than your demonstrating the opposite. Remember he is not the only guy with qualities you want and personally I would take a guy with less ideal qualities who wanted to be with me no questions asked over a "dream guy" that wasnt emotionally available. Like attracts like isnt as obvious as it sounds since lots of people that want different things and are different people still attract. Its more about what you think you deserve at the core of your being.

Your story with your ex was one of the first I read on here and you've been through enough heartache. Dont accept less than what you know you want or your gonna waste more beauty years repeating these same lessons.

If he IS the guy, you dont need to be more patient since you've already been more than patient. I still say distance yourself and when he's missing you if he says to himself I dont think I can be without beautiful dreamer, she is the woman for me and he acts on that than i'd give it a shot but until that happens id move on. Sometimes you have to let the guy miss you(and more than a couple of days) so he can reflect and know for sure how he feels about you. I also believe regardless of the outcome, ud up your value to him if he sees that you arent accepting less than you deserve.

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