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i love this thread hahaha! i actually did the same thing you did 2 weeks after being MIA from this site crazysoul, i kind of write mostly things related to my ex, *coz those we're really amazing and I'd love to have it ,..my mind has been floating these days and im being default but staying psitive as I am, I only want my power back and clear those negative blocks that prevents me from experiencing good things easier/quicker/whatever you call it.

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yeah, I agree, that was a great story keeps me motivated,..I was like you,. mine is like more desperate than you were before,. right now i stopped contacting,. Im trying to relax myself from the emotional chaos, w/ the techniques around it's actually overwhelming if you should use this or that,. in the end, i ended up just thinking of nothing but telling universe that I only want to be happy though i still feel he's my soulmate i feel so connected to him while im doing my own thing.,i've been reading self-help books, I want to ask universe, like yours, a certain cenario where he'd see me happy and taking care of myself w/o him,that he would be longing for me more than ever. who knows it might work and we'd get back together

The no contact was there because she had someone else and didn't want to speak, hear or see me anymore.  That were her exact words.
I send some cards though but never got any response.  So I stopped trying to make contact with her.  And look now, we are back together.

Nobody wants a desperate person.  So avoid making contact when you are desperate. 
I asked the Universe to create a situation that she would see me, having fun with my friends.  And one day I went to a soccer game with some friends and we had lots of fun.  After the game I looked behind me, and she was sitting 2 rows behind me.  At that point my fun was finished but, hey the game was done :-)
Even though I crashed afterwards, she saw me having fun.  And that's what is important.

much love,
Balasus

@Balasus: would you share to us how the no-contact happened to you? I'd be glad to hear that

on the 'no contact' part, i think it depends on the kind of situation, just like mine, i've tried (almost 6months attempt) several attempts to make contact before i knew LOA & other stuff, and it just seemed like i was desperate and that made him scared and very uncomfortable,.now im in the state of sit-back-and-relax-see-if-he-will-try-to-talk-to-you. honestly i don't know how am i gonna do it  for us to get in contact/get back once more, i am just affirming every single day that he's coming back, and that im giving him the time & space that he wanted to have,like he's still my bf even though i barely remember the structure of his face now time has passed,i honestly don't know but im sure i am only for my happiness..someone who would cuddle me in bed & say I Love You forevermore in the last stages of our lives.

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I believe that my love is definitely & 100% my SOULMATE
I believe that love will come on it's way on it's own
I believe about my next romantic relationship is the one and final and  happiest thing that has been ever happening to me
I believe that CHRIS knows how much of a fragile treasure I am to be handled with ultimate care & love
I believe that he comes to me and say he loves me for who I am and not for only loving my best side, but also my worst side.
I believe that my love and I are attached forever
I believe that he's working hard to overcome his fears & anxieties & to release anything negative when we get back together
I believe that he trusts & has faith in me in everything I do
I believe that there is so much love between us together, especially that he comes back to me confessing how much he wants me more and more each day andforever
I believe that CHRIS & I have always been happy being together and nothing compares to that



writing this makes me get that energized once more  ^^

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@Balasus: would you share to us how the no-contact happened to you? I'd be glad to hear that

on the 'no contact' part, i think it depends on the kind of situation, just like mine, i've tried (almost 6months attempt) several attempts to make contact before i knew LOA & other stuff, and it just seemed like i was desperate and that made him scared and very uncomfortable,.now im in the state of sit-back-and-relax-see-if-he-will-try-to-talk-to-you. honestly i don't know how am i gonna do it  for us to get in contact/get back once more, i am just affirming every single day that he's coming back, and that im giving him the time & space that he wanted to have,like he's still my bf even though i barely remember the structure of his face now time has passed,i honestly don't know but im sure i am only for my happiness..someone who would cuddle me in bed & say I Love You forevermore in the last stages of our lives.

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baxter, keep that overflowing positive vibes i am receiving it from you too! good to have such people like you around here

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baxter: i told you, i was like you before, the changes are like swift quick treat yourself for every single happiness, i was actually having a spending spree/frenzy, im not that rich but i love to spend on things which make me happy and i know it's worth the smile HURRAH! cheers for our daily successes

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oh good gracious...today I got a digital camera from my father, im moving to california tomorrow for a job but my father took it as a FIELD TRIP! LOL..im attracting bit by bit and my vibes has also been wanting to BUTT KICKING HIGH love this life

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today, not one not two but three things

one, i got my salary , two, i decided to go get haircut finally!, three i was so tired so i decided to go have massage, that person who massaged me well i didn't see his face but he sounded like old & maniac?or like having fun massaging a woman =\ , i was actually feeling uncomftable but i just relaxed myself to release tension in my body,.after that, oh well he was a cutie my heart thumped...the voice was deceiving haha! man.. that was the fourth

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today, not one not two but three things

one, i got my salary , two, i decided to go get haircut finally!, three i was so tired so i decided to go have massage, that person who massaged me well i didn't see his face but he sounded like old & maniac?or like having fun massaging a woman =\ , i was actually feeling uncomftable but i just relaxed myself to release tension in my body,.after that, oh well he was a cutie my heart thumped...the voice was deceiving haha! man.. that was the fourth

- oops i doubled same posts on two diff topics, the title's just the same ><

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well that's right truelove you've hit my point! thank you truelove! (one reason why i want to be good at explaining things when i can only feel it =P) ,. there was actually the 'hype' before at the start of my healing process, just that now i feel almost nothing.

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i do visualize both open & closed.,. when im using open eyes, it could be that I see something i really wanted & visualizing me & that certain object & shifting the environment to a scene i wanted to imagine (just like how i really wanted to own an audi luxury sportscar) (or a move/video clip of a beautiful house w/ me inside it),..closed eyes well it happens all the time,. but i feel that open eyes is more effective to me since details are just so vivid and keeps coming

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and the name itself is already affirming, thank u A&I!

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baxter: when you love yourself and feel confident about what you believe in, even one chance a single thought in your mind about saying "where is he" etc etc won't even slip, you wouldn't even need to think about it as you are full of love. expect that something good will happen and when you expect, you don't really worry at all. you know when you're detached when you don't even get worried at all and are having fun about everything, go out and enjoy life, there's so much out there to make you happy, just do what makes you feel good about yourself,. feed love to youself, afterall it's all about the "You" to love and when you have so much love to yourself that it overflows you can share that extra love to others as well without having to worry

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today...I watched Underworld!! all of a sudden i had the urge to go watch in a theatre in a rainy/foggy day

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hi honey! i honestly am feeling plain today, but i could suggest you try meditating while listening to this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kYivP3gedCo

and watch daily affirmations on youtube too, it helps

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