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PS In all my cases, when I got really happy for a little while...a few hours or a few days at the most...BAM! The contact came. But you have to be TRULY happy...not 'happy so you'll get something'. Otherwise you're just constantly checking your phone and going 'well I'm happy...why didn't he call?' - that's like planting a seed and then constantly digging it up to see if it grew  Just be happy and know that the universe is already bringing you EVERYTHING you desire and all of creation is already on your side...so why wouldn't you be thrilled? Think of it another way...if you were at a beautiful funpark with amazing rides and shows and foodstalls and then you went to a stand and ordered a souvenir that had to be made up for you. So the guy says 'this will take a little while to create this wonderful memento of your day, we will call you when it's done...in the meantime, go and enjoy the rides. And all your friends are there saying 'come and enjoy the rides! Come on the ferris wheel...come and buy a hotdog...let's get our faces painted...let's go in a parade!!' etc. Would you go with your friends or would you stand there saying...'is my souvenir finished yet? how about now? how about now?' No! You would go off and enjoy yourself because there's a wonderful world to love and your friends are waiting and it's fun! AND you know what you ordered is coming! So....you know what you ordered is coming. You ordered him to contact you and the universe is gonna deliver at the right time. In the meantime, go off and enjoy the funpark that is your life and spend time with your friends and have FUN! And then, when the time is right, you'll get that call or text. But never ever doubt that it is coming, because the universe delivers every single time
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Hey dude, Congrats on finding a new beau! I wanted to weigh in here seeing as I've had a few experiences in the last couple of months where I was waiting for a certain email or text and getting more and more annoyed that it hadn't come. There were a few different ones from different people I was waiting for. What I realised was, the more annoyed I got, the more I pushed it away. You really just gotta stop thinking about it and get happy about other things. Think of it this way...the text / phone call you want ALREADY EXISTS, it's just you can't see it yet because you're still looking for it!! Think of it like it's invisible to you...just like if you set your radio dial to 101FM, you can't hear what's on 98AM...not because the station isn't being broadcast, but because you actually aren't set at the right frequency. Reality is kind of like that...a lot of layers and you 'receive' the one you're tuned to. So, stop focusing on him...do the most fun OTHER things you can to make you just fun and happy. And then BANG! Out of the blue he will contact you when you least expect it and when you're totally thinking of something else. If you go the other way and contact him, he'll probably be there but you won't have a very good conversation or he'll be too busy when you call to talk or something like that and you'll feel bummed. So just leave it, let him come to you. I know because I've experienced it both ways. It sucks when you call someone from a place of really missing them and feeling needy and the conversation just leaves you feeling MORE needy because you weren't contacting them from a happy, inspired place. On the other hand, it's really cool when you just get totally happy and make them 'irrelevant' to your happiness and then out of the blue they just call or text or email you and say 'hey, I just was thinking of you...want to catch up?' It's worth just choosing to be happy. That was you get the second result, not the first one
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That does help.
But I've already gotten the ball rolling where I tried to resolve the issues of the past via email Like I said, he didn't address too much of it yet, just told me all of the stuff that was going on with work. Right now he is working like 16 hour days and he said when he does get a minute to himself he doesn't feel like dealing with it...that he'll get back to me when things settle down.
So since I can't undo what's been started what do I do now? I don't think it's a bad thing, the delay is probably a good thing because it allows me to get into my vortex before anything else happens.
By any chance, the issues of the past weren't in regard to him non-communicative, or not having time for you, were they? Because if they involved that, then you bringing them up again would explain the manifestations that followed - i.e. that he didn't respond to your email and that he went out with another girl without telling you. I would just ignore the emails for now and take time out from the whole thing, even from thinking about him. Spend time with friends and having fun and meditating and just get onto a whole different vibrational wavelength. Then, when you're more in the vortex, practice shifting your thoughts about him, moving up the emotional scale etc.
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Heya. What I truly believe (and have experienced) is that you DON'T have to sort out all that crap to move on. Not by sitting down and having a conversation with him, anyway. That will just reactivate it all. You can't look at a problem with an attitude of 'let's fix this' without keeping the problem alive - especially with someone with whom it's become a practiced pattern. Instead, what you need to do is first realise that your experience of the crap was totally different to his. You co-created a situation which brought out some of both your negativity. So you need to own your crap (all the negative stuff you experienced, whether it was done by you or him) and he needs to own his. Basically, you need to own YOUR negative experience that you had, as the total and sole creator of it. Then, as you're the creator of it, you need to look at what that experience has put into your vortex. Then, you need to get to the point where you can focus more on what the experience put into your vortex, than the experience itself. For instance, if your negative experience was you felt ignored - then in your vortex is the experience of being valued, loved, respected and wanted. You need to get to the point where you can focus on those, positive feelings and say (and mean) 'who cares?' about the past. The past doesn't matter. It doesn't exist anymore. Neither of you are the same people you were when those things happened, and your inner beings have CERTAINLY moved on. The past was just a lesson, a game you were playing together. It's done now. So focus on your vortex and let that come to you That's what I mean by prepaving rather than trying to fix the past. If you bring all that stuff up again...it has no bottom. There is no bottom to the problem so, its not something you can 'talk your way through', at least not without keeping it all active. BUT, and this is a BIG BUT...you will find that once you are able to see him as he is in your vortex...then all those apologies, acknowledgements, understanding re: the past you are looking for from him will just BE there. You won't have to explain or justify yourself to him, He will just be more empathetic and understanding. If you have wished for apologies - you will get them, without needing to look. Because that's what you put into your vortex about him, a more understanding, loving, open, honest, communicative man. But you gotta focus on what you want and why you want it...NOT on 'fixing the problem. I hope that helped!!
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Maybe this is 'clarifying time' for you? These kind of experiences give you the opportunity to know how you would really like to be treated. You said you didn't know what you want...so the universe gave you this experience of hearing about him with another girl (which by the way might be just a friend, or a cousin, or god knows who...maybe a blind date he was set up on that he really didnt enjoy  ). But anyway, the point is, it has helped you clarify more what you want. You want someone who is respectful, an open communicator and puts you first. As you said, you want him how he WAS. After a bit of time of mulling over this, youll come to a more certain conclusion about whether you want HIM, or whether you want to drain the pool and start again with someone new...or whether you are just going to let the universe bring you whomever is right for you (whoever that is). But relax. You don't have to figure it all out right now. There's no rush on these things. After all, you are an infinite, eternal being PS I agree with everyone else who said you can have whatever and whomever however you want. PPS I also agree with Abraham when they say that instead of trying to fix something that's broken (like with emails, conversations etc), just get out ahead of the NEXT manifestation. CREATE your future rather than trying to FIX your past.
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Yes to what other people have said. This is a funny thread. Clearly, you are a little bit lost. But I'm not going to poke you for that. I'll just say...if this guy is your soulmate, when you get happy and sort out how to be happy WITHOUT him, then he will be the one who turns up. If he is not your soulmate, then when you get happy and start sending out good vibrations all over the place, well then someone else more suitable will turn up. I'm not going to judge on who that might be. I will say though...that you can't attract a happy relationship feeling as desperate as you do. You can only attract no relationship, or a relationship with someone who is also feeling hurt and confused. Even if it's with him, it will still not be good. So get happy first and then let the chips fall where they may. That's my advice
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Practice strengthening your faith in the law of attraction by appreciating the areas of your life that ARE going well and see how they become more positive from your positive attention to them. It's easier to start with something that's already going well, you see
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My 'weigh in' on this is the very fact that you asked other people to 'weigh in' means you don't understand that YOU create your own reality and it doesn't matter what anyone on this forum says or what that person meant when he / she said it. You decide what it means and that will determine the effect you get out of it. You need to decide with absolute clarity how your life is and commit to that surely, vibrationally. Don't let other people's opinions (AKA the Peanut gallery - which is everyone EXCEPT you) have any power to water down what you already know in your heart is true
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Hiya, Rainbowrabbit (cool name by the way). I disagree that law of attraction is 'not ment to be easy'. If you try to jump from feeling really really BAD about something specific, to feeling really really GOOD...then that is not only 'not easy', it's pretty much impossible. Because when you feel really bad about something, you already have an active vibration going about it that is not going to suddenly morph into feeling really, really good. It's like trying to stop a train that is going 150mph in one direction, all of a sudden, and make it go 150mph in the other direction - all in one hit. But if you change your self talk SLOWLY...then THAT is easy. And it's really, REALLY easy! What you do is, start by softening the resistant statements you're making. Instead of telling the really specific story of why things AREN'T working, make a more general statement. Such as....I would like to have more money. I wish my family was more understanding. That's it. Just stop there, you don't have to tell all the intricate details about the amounts of money and the holiday and the being lecturered and the amount of time to go to manifest something. That's just specifics of your story that, when you repeat them, make you feel even worse. And remember...you manifest what you FEEL, rather than what you think about. So if you are doing something every day that is making you feel exhausted, you are just creating a space for the universe to bring you more stuff that makes you feel exhausted! So take a chill pill and relax. It's about knowing that what you want already exists....you don't have to bang it into place. You just gotta focus on how you feel and the universe will reveal all your desires to you in the most smooth, effortless way. But first, you have to trust and let go of the complaining. Did you read back your post? Have a look at all the justifying and explaining you did... - the main problem is my family. - I'm not getting much positive support on the trip I'm planning to take. -I've been lectured about spending over $200 on nonrefundable tickets (despite not currently having the money for transportation or a hotel) and -there was even a complaint about me buying a -$23 backpack for the trip because apparently, I "should've waited until it was on sale for -$19". -That's the crap I have to put up with. Riiiight. Far more effective than you doing 'creative visualisation to 'cancel that out' (which by the way, doesnt do anything when you're just complaining the rest of the time), would be for you to just stop talking about it. Don't explain it to us, to you, to your friends, to anyone. Stop talking to your family about said 'holiday'. If the negative thoughts DO arise, make them as general as possible...'well, it would be nice if they had've been more supportive'. And then just leave it at that. The very DAY that you do that, your reality will shift. Even going from specifically negative to more generally negative (do a youtube search for abraham hicks on 'going general) will shift your reality. And then once you've practiced that, you can go from more generally negative to generally positive and hopeful (like...'I know the universe brings many good things to me...I have much to appreciate in my life...I know my family love me, even if they dont always 'get it'). Law of attraction is not 'hard', because its NOT something you have to manage. The universe is already doing that for you, everythiong you want is already lined up. All you have to do is create the space to let it in. And that's the easiest thing in the world because it is Natural FOR YOU to be feeling good and to be getting what you want. The only reason you wouldn't is if you're thinking thoughts that don't feel good. So practice some thoughts that feel better - and don't get specific with your visualisations until they come EASY. When you have practiced a good feeling habit of thought long enough,. you will find you dont have to set aside time to 'visualise'. Instead, when you aare chilling out, the pictures and images and scenarios of...your perfect holiday...love and appreciation...plenty of money...will just 'swim' into your mind, unbidden. Because you're on the same wavelength (vibrationally) as them. And the manifestations won't be far behind. So there Have fun with it and if it's tireing you out STOP because that is going in the wrong directiopn. This IS easy. It's fun. So relax. And watch those videos on youtube And have a great holiday!!! One more thing: The WHOLE UNIVERSE is positively supporting you. The only reason you wouldn't be expericning that is if YOU don't let it in. You are getting from your family exactly what you are putting out. So don't blame them...this is YOUR life and YOU can change it anytime you want. All you need to do is make NOTHING more important than you feeling good Even if it means just ignoring 'what is' and going off to a quiet room to meditate ILR. To elaborate on this issue, the main problem is my family. I'm not getting much positive support on the trip I'm planning to take. I've been lectured about spending over $200 on nonrefundable tickets (despite not currently having the money for transportation or a hotel) and there was even a complaint about me buying a $23 backpack for the trip because apparently, I "should've waited until it was on sale for $19". That's the crap I have to put up with. So I may overdo it a little with creative visualization in order to cancel out everyone's negative opinions. I was taught to keep my manifestations to myself and I regret not doing a better job of that this time around. But regardless, I see myself having a great vacation and with more than enough money to fund it.
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The joy and the bliss of letting go of the question is worth more than any and all physical manifestations.
I found what I was looking for and then so much more.
I'm home and I'm free.
I hope to see you all here, soon
Love to all xxx
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And when we think about it, it did happen!!!!!
I am MINDBLOWN!
OMG! You mean this crazy shit actually WORKS??!!    hehehe. Well done, magic lamp!!
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Well done! What brilliant news! God / Universe / All that is - bless you, dude
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I LOVE this thread!!! There are flowers, choccies and romance in my vortex too - thank you for posting!!! Your grid is filling in with all your favourite stuff! Hey I didn't know you and free bird know each other in real life - that's great! One day if I come to India I will have to meet you As for the dream...Well, like anything else, YOU CHOOSE how you want to interpret it. If you get worried about it, then that will create worry and resistance in you and it will slow the energy down. OR you can focus on the aspects of it which you like. Remember, even with dreams - you are not just observing, you are CREATING. And what you observe, creates more of 'that'. So, you get to choose what it means. If it were me, I would say 'woohoo! I had a dream about my love and in it he said he misses me!!' - that's all I'd say No need to even think about the other When I have dreams, I also 'selectively sift' for the details from the dream that please me, and focus on them - just like in waking life. All you need to know is - he is active in your vibration and he misses you! GRRRREAAAT! Awesome manifestations and focus, you go girrrrrl
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'Focus on the journey'. 'You can get what you want if you can be happy NOW, without the physical presence of it'. 'What you want will be yours when you don't 'need' it anymore'. Etc It's tricky, isn't it, when you're still existing in a paradigm of 'need to get to the goal'. Here's something I've been doing, a mantra I've been using. It's soft, it goes general and it takes the focus off 'getting to the goal'. 'I am enjoying feeling the energy of God moving through me as I focus on this situation. I am looking forward to experiencing the energy moving through me more!' If you change your focus to 'I love feeling the energy that creates worlds moving through me', then you enjoy that energy flowing through you no matter what 'physical' stage your manifestation is 'up to'. It also changes your focus to the feeling. Energy is ALWAYS moving. Enjoy the feeling of the flowing of energy moving through you Enjoy the physical evidence of the energy flowing and flow with your own stream of your own making.
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