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I don't think it is a sucess story or a failure for that matter, his change of attitude made you fall out of love by the sound of it and so your desire to be back together has died down too.
I think what you interpret as a sign is more a response to your change of heart towards him. Basically the signs you see are a reflection to your mindset.

I agree with one of the posters above, sometimes there is more than meet the eye and if those new friends are  indeed a bad influence eventually he'll take his distance.

If you desire to be with someone new and who coresponds better to your ideal then you should focus on that!

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I have had many instances where what I visualized came about in my reality in the exact same way i played it in my mind. The key was persistent visualization+feeling+faith.

Did you have always the same visualization with the same scenery and actions? Like, if I want to meet a guy this way, for example: I visualize I'm walking through my school corridor and go to the cantine's queue to have lunch and my crush is right in front of me in the queue. He acts nice and gives me the lunch tray then suddenly asks me if I want to have lunch with him since he is alone. Then I accept and we go and sit just the two of us in a table and start talking and knowing eachother better and also start laughing and having fun. When we finish lunching we go out of the cantine together blah blah blah...

I'm always visualizing the same as described above. It's like replaying the same video many times. That's what you did?

Yes, that's pretty much how it works. I would focus on the end result though, what would you talk about/do if you were having lunch with him. Focus on the result more than the process. When you start thinking of what you would say or do with him then you put yourself into a mindset of having already what you want, and that's very important.
You have to make that scene in your mind as vivid as possible, so you have to put feelings into your visualizing. Also, pick a scene that is credible, that you believe to be possible to make it easier for you.

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If I visualise something all the time will it come about? For instance I have recently posted about my nail but no one answered that. So I am asking if I visualise something a lot will it somehow show up in my reality? Thanks xx

I would advise you to visualize what you want before you fall asleep. You have to be really relaxed and visualizing musn't be a task it must come effortlessly and it must be enjoyable. You should visualize but also use feelings when you do so. It has to feel real in your mind. If you persist long enough eventually it'll come about in your reality.

I have had many instances where what I visualized came about in my reality in the exact same way i played it in my mind. The key was persistent visualization+feeling+faith.

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been reading the advice given by some in attracting ex back and found thay some give the idea you will  attract someone better in process..isnt it discouraging?some may truly want their ex back right?

Most of the time this idea will come from people who don't have strong faith in LOA to begin with and who will influence you negatively with their limiting beliefs. They do not mean bad, they just don't want you to keep your hopes up because themselves, they weren't able to attract a specific person (how could you with such a mindset?). In the end the universe will give you what you focus on so try not to let other people's belief influence you, read success stories instead

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I don't know what your personal experience is or how you use facebook, but generally you would use facebook to stay in touch with friends and family who are away, etc..
The fact that you are associating (two comments above) with your ex, by deactivating it, the vibe that I would get is: A: your ex is too much in your mind and you need to cut that link you have through facebook by deleting your account or staying away from it ( but you could do that by blocking him), B: you delete your account or stop posting because you want to make him wonder what you are up to and it sounds like a tactic of sort to make him contact you.


Whatever the reason is, your ex is still on his pedestal and is so important to you that you'd rather cut yourself from all of your other friends and social life on facebook than just block him altogether, you are obviously not over him and are penalizing yourself not him.
If you are indeed trying to get him back or even if you don't, I would suggest that you live your life and have fun and use facebook as you normally used it before you got to know him. By retreating back because of him, you give him power and put him on the pedestal and that is obviously the case otherwise you wouldn't be associating facebook with him on a forum!

Goodluck!!

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She responded to be polite.

Here is exactly what I said:

Her name,

It's come to my attention that my email has been sending out poorly written spam. Some people only received one or two messages, others had a few dozen. My apologies if you were in the latter group.

It's been a while since we've communicated...how are you? Still at [place of work]?

Here is exactly what she said:

Hi [my name]

No worries! I think I only got 1 email, and my account did the same thing last year! I changed the password on my account, and that seemed to fix things.

I'm doing well. I'm still at [place of work], but I'm looking for jobs closer to where I live.  I hope you're doing well too!

This has to be the biggest joke I've read in my entire life. Seriously HQ please tell me that you are kidding?

I really don't want to bash you at all, but I'm sorry to say that you really do lack social sense. I'm really not trying to be mean, but it's true. She gave you a GREAT response with numerous opportunities to keep the conversation going. She wrote multiple lines and seemed interested to keep talking. I don't understand how you can be so blind.

Please tell me you are kidding. Please.

I agree with happymelly!

First congrats for sending her an email, that was the way to go! She seems to have answered very quickly and she sounds very kind. I don't understand why you still feel so down and negative, you have the message you wanted. If you are in such a negative place it is no wonder you are perceiving her message in a negative way but everyone on this forum perceive it in a very positive way!!

Seriously, if she didn't care, she wouldn't have answered at all, she would have just clicked delete. Can't you try to focus on the positive of the situation ( that she answered you! and very kindly!!).
You seem to be lacking social skill to hold a conversation, just because she didn't ask questions, doesn't mean you cannot follow up! I would write something like donleo advised as an answer! Stay positive and grateful for the message!

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Unfortunately, LOA requires consistency and a generally positive attitude if you want to use it to your benefit. Right now you are vibrating the total opposite and you'll just keep attracting more. It doesn't matter what you've tried or haven't tried it is more of a philosophy of life, unless everyday of your life you decide to focus more on the good things in your life rather than what is lacking you will not be using this knowledge of the loa to your advantage.

On a side note, RS has been working wonders with me, I have also tried using Wendi's mp3 a few times as a test and every time I've got a phone call and/or message within a day. It has happened every single time, sometimes after a few days/week of not talking so I don't think it is a coincidence for me. BUT, I'm in a generally good and positive mood these days so this must be having a lot to do with it.

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thank you...yes he wants to move on...he is moving on.....i should move on

It may be hard to believe right now but if you do have a strong connection, it doesn't matter whether he is blocking you right now, when his pain subsides he'll reach for you. Like I said, I had been on NC for about 7 months, and we had blocked each other and eventually he reached for me!
I really recommend RS, you may not see immediate results but it is really working.

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thank you
but i don't understand how can we block someone that we love?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There could be a number of reasons for this, some do it because they are hurting, others because they want to get a reaction from you. It depends on your situation.
All in all, because he blocked you today doesn't mean he won't unblock you in the future, stay positive!

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He is obviously in pain if he reacts this way Ava. There isn't much you can do for now until he feels ready and more positive himself. It is a good thing though because he is not indifferent, he cares to an extent. What he is doing right now is just an expression of the pain he is feeling inside.
Stay positive and let him come back to you!
I know this is easy said and it is difficult to do. What I did is stopped contacting him and tried to attract him on a spiritual level. I highly recommend RS. It may take a while but consistency is key!

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after 3 months of break up,yesterday he blocked me on fb...... i can't believe...how can i be positive in this situation?is there a way for me?i think blocking is the last step and he doesn't think of getting back to me any more.....what can i do?

Hello Ava!

Don't believe this is final! People block each other on Facebook everyday and re add eachother again everyday!
Me and my guy were on NC for about 7 months and eventually he came back! It is better than if he was indifferent, it might be painful for him to see your news too.

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I have noticed a delay too, that's why consistency is key. It could go for a week and then he would keep calling me, messaging me , a sudden change of behavior, and then nothing for a week. And I realized that this pattern matched my mindset really. The present is the result of a past mindset.

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Have you read, Joseph Murphy's the power of your subsconcious mind? all of his examples about people coming to him for advice? Have you ever read anyone come to him and ask him "Joseph, can you manifest a car, a house or a lover for me?" No, he is not santa, we can advise you to help you change you life, we cannot change it for you.
As long as you are not willing to take responsability for your current situation and expect people to do all the work for you, nothing will change.

Your mindset is SO negative that no matter how much positive vibe any member could send your way, it won't change anything. <<<< answer to your question in plain english.

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You are on a LOA forum, what do you expect? You'll get advice related to LOA and nothing else, no matter how many times you come to this forum under different nicknames you will always get the same answers.

You DO NOT trust the universe, you keep repeating that you TRIED everything loa related and that it didn't work for you, well what else do you expect if you decided that it doesn't work? You are NOT in a mindset to try any of the LOA techniques advised to you? well move on, it's obviously not for you, go out and make friends instead to divert your attention to something else.

You obviously don't know how LOA works if you come here hoping someone is going to manifest the things you desire FOR you, it's not going to change your miserable mindset and the miserable things you attract in life.

One of the members answered with a very long and detailed message that you barely aknowledged, hopefully this thread will serve as showing to everyone that you are living proof LOA works, miserable attitude and outlook on life= current reality being miserable.

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I think everyone understood that the only thing that matters to you is that SHE contacts you. You answer EVERY good advice that is given to you with this without even trying to think it through.

If after 5 years she hasn't done so perhaps it is time to change your strategy and go to her tell her how you feel don't you think? Have you tried that even or do you just prefer to stay behind your computer blame the world for not having the guts to do what any man would do and go talk to the girl.

Lots of guys go talk to a girl every day, sometimes they get rejected other times they get a positive response, at least they get "CLOSURE" which you are terribly in need of right now. Don't waste any more years waiting in vain and be courageous, go get the closure you need, nobody can help you but yourself.

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